Yeah, yeah, we know that John Legend and Chrissy Teigen’s little Luna is years away from dating. But with some pretty stellar genetics backing her up, we’re guessing that potential suitors will be knocking on her door (to put it mildly) someday. Even though Legend has years until his daughter dates, he’s already dishing out advice on the subject. So, what does the daddy have to say?

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In an interview with People, Legend talked about what he and Teigen are doing to help Luna grow into a strong woman, “We’re going to just try to make her confident and smart and a good leader and kind and loving.” And who wouldn’t want that for their child?

Not only did Legend list what he wants for Luna as she grows into a young woman, but he also noted, “And we feel like if we give her all the tools she needs, she’ll figure out the right person for her.” Yep. That’s right, Legend feels like he doesn’t need to be one of those in the child’s face types of parents. He added, “I’m okay with her making mistakes, too, because that’s part of growing up.”

When it comes to being strict, Legend seems like he’ll be pretty relaxed. At least, as relaxed as a dad can be.

Are you okay with letting your child make his or her own mistakes? Share your thoughts in the comments below.