Celebrate the beauty of spring by making a magical fairy garden all your own

Your little one is no stranger to enchantments: from peering under rocks to fashioning wings and wands, the kingdom of the fairy is a magical place perfect for budding imaginations. What better way than to combine a love of the fae with a little small-scale gardening, of the little people, by the little people, and for the little people! We’ve got an easy tutorial on how to make a fairy garden for kids right here. For more seasonal fun, try a different gardening project for kids or giggle at a few spring jokes.

What You Need to Make a Fairy Garden for Kids

a succulent fairy garden for kids
Sara Olsher

A garden pot. Preferably one that is wide and/or bowl-shaped, so you have more room for all the tiny things, but any will do. Don’t forget the potting soil!

Plants. You can use annuals like lobelia, violets, or marigolds, or use succulents/sedum or other dwarf ground covers. If you want to get elaborate, get some bonsai trees. If your garden is indoor-only, look for teeny-tiny house plants, which you can pick up at a garden center for only a few dollars. Be sure and water the plants when you bring them home and before planting.

Shortcut: no plants or place to really grow them? Try a little florist moss for a woodland effect without the woods!

Little Things. Here’s where you can get creative. Decorate your fairy garden with little items found or created. Pinecones trees, stick teepees, and stones for benches or garden paths all give the fairy garden an au naturel feeling. Many nurseries now carry miniature “fairy house” items, but you can scour your toy boxes for the just-right accessory: a petite teacup could become a fountain or reflection pool, little flags from hors d’oeuvres designate fairy territory, large marbles become garden globes. We love this popsicle stick house (and table and chair set). Also, try aquarium stores for tiny castles and similar structures. And don’t forget LEGO bricks! 

Create Your Fairy Kingdom

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Fill your pot with soil. If you have any larger “structural” items, such as a tiny house, put that in place before you plant. Designate an area where you will put your garden path. Most of the smaller items can be added after, or in some cases, on top of the plants.

Make sure your plants have been watered but aren’t still soaking wet.

Tip: Layout your plants and larger garden decor in the pattern you’d like before you remove the plants from their pots. That way, you can rearrange them a bit before deciding exactly where they’ll go.

Plant your plants with enough space in between them for them to grow. As a rule of thumb, plant the largest plant you have first (i.e. the bonsai tree) and anything that might trail over or creep a bit closer to the edge of the pot. Before you accessorize, be sure you are happy with the placement of your plants. You can move them a bit after planting if necessary, but it’s best to avoid this too much as it will traumatize the plants and they may not thrive.

Tip: If you aren’t using live plants, you still need to create an elevated surface in your pot. If you prefer to skip the dirt, you could try using small pebbles to create a relatively flat surface on which to create your garden.

Now place in an area where fairies are sure to visit: garden, deck, porch, bedroom windowsill, or dresser near a window.

 

Finding the perfect gift isn’t always easy, but there’s one surefire way to ensure you feel good about what you purchase and that your recipient feels the same. Choosing products from a brand that not only creates something high-quality but also offers tangible solutions to one of the biggest problems facing our modern world: homelessness.

That’s why we love Bombas. They make sustainably crafted, long-lasting socks, t-shirts, underwear, and slippers that are as comfortable as they are attractive. For every single item purchased, Bombas will donate one to someone experiencing homelessness. Every. Single. Item. That means if you get a four-pack of socks, four pairs are donated. A three-pack of t-shirts? Three tees are donated. In this way, you can purchase gifts for the people you love and spread that love throughout the community and the world. Read on for our picks for the top five gifts to snag right now from Bombas.

For the New Father:

Father Baby Gripper Slipper 2-Pack

$59.85 BUY NOW

There’s cozy, and then there’s new-baby, stay-at-home-and-cuddle cozy. For those dads out there with a new baby, this set includes two pairs of Gripper Slippers, a half-sock, half-slipper hybrid soft enough to wear all day long. Choose one pair in dad’s size, and the other pair will fit a baby 6 to 12 months old. We love that the donation also includes keeping another baby’s toes warm.

 

 

For Any and Every Woman

Women's Holiday Calf Sock 4-Pack

$60.60 BUY NOW

For the woman who has everything she needs, trust us: she still needs these socks. Not too high nor too low, they are the perfect combination of form-fitting and soft and work great with boots, sneakers, or just wearing around the house. The four-pack includes four different pairs, and you can choose from a variety of color schemes and patterns. And true to their commitment, Bombas donates four pairs of socks for this purchase.

 

 

For Big Kids:

Youth Merino Wool Calf Sock 4-Pack Gift Box

$54.00 BUY NOW

One size fits most kids between the ages of 5 and 11, making this four-pack set versatile for kids of a wide age range; they’ll last long enough to pass them down to younger siblings too. Perfect for cooler months, the wool keeps them warm but is soft and not itchy. The socks provide enough structure to stay in place and not slouch, making them great under boots. There are two different color palettes to choose from, and the set also comes in a cute little gift box. And, like the women’s four-pack, four socks purchased mean four pairs donated to a kid in need. Epic win.

 

 

For the Little Ones

Toddler Snowflake Gripper Calf Sock 4-Pack Gift Box

$38.00 BUY NOW

This limited edition set of Bombas holiday socks comes in a snazzy tube that slides perfectly into stockings and comes packed with four pairs of perfect-fitting socks for kids ages 1 to 5. The Gripper socks work great on slippery floors and have a seamless toe designed to avoid that annoying bump and negate the battle to line up the socks “just so,” and are particularly helpful for children with sensory sensitivities. Plus, let’s be honest: your toddler will play with the gift box for days, so it’s really a twofer.

 

 

 

For Any and Every Man

Men's Sunday Slipper

$75.00 BUY NOW

Getting the father figure (or grandparent, boyfriend, uncle or brother-in-law) in your life slippers might seem cliche but hear us out: all slippers are not equal, and these are the ones he will wear again and again and think happily of you every time. They have a layer of memory foam and a rubber sole, making them easy to wear around and outside the house. The slippers are lined with a sherpa-like material inside, so they’re warm enough to wear without extra layers. They have a classical feel that fits all kinds of personalities and styles. It’s the kind of underrated gift that will give them years of happiness.

Use code TINYBEANS to get 20% off your first order (applies to first-time shoppers only) on the Bombas website! Buy one to donate one!

Support local businesses while ticking off your shopping list at these independent toy stores in Washington DC

No need to worry about shipping delays or supply chain strains when you can shop local and support businesses that give back to the communities they serve. Who doesn’t love a special gift from an extra-special store? These independent toy shops throughout Washington, DC and the surrounding suburbs have something for every kid (little to big) on your list, so you’ll be able to fill up the space under the tree with a well-curated selection of gifts.

The Best Independent Toy Stores in Washington, DC

1. Three Littles

Beautifully curated, sustainable, thoughtfully-designed children’s goods are always in stock at Three Littles. The shop, located in the Union Market district, is a place where families can find necessities and gifts. With an emphasis on items for babies through early elementary, the shop also features carefully chosen items for parents.

1260 4th St. NE
NoMa
Online: threelittles.co

2. Fairy Godmother

Serving DC since 1984, Fairy Godmother has an array of choices for kids from infant to teen and everything in between. Check out their collection of Steiff plush toys and collectables, as well as book-themed onesies for the literary lovers on your list. The store also offers craft and science kits as well as books, including some in Spanish. You'll feel as if your fairy godmother sent you here!

319 7th St. SE
Capitol Hill
Online: facebook.com

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The Best Independent Toy Stores in Virginia

3. Kinder Haus Toys

For a store with an emphasis on wooden toys and dolls you and your mom would recognize, Kinder Haus is a terrific place to shop. They sell Plan, Haba, Nilo, and RC2 wooden toys, Gund plush toys, and doll lines such as Corolle and Madame Alexander.

1220 N Fillmore St.
Arlington, VA
Online: kinderhaus.com

4. Doodlehopper

Let the delightful staff at Doodlehopper help you find the perfect gift for kiddos on your list, from infant to tween. At this Falls Church staple, you'll find a well-organized and carefully chosen selection of great toys, games, puzzles, and crafts.

234 W Broad St.
Falls Church, VA
Online: doodlehopper.com

5. Barston's Child's Play

This fun shop offers an extensive collection of toys for kids of all ages and a great arts and crafts section. Don't forget to check out their inventory of beloved miniature rubber figures—bring one home for each of your littles!

Insider Tip: Pop into Pastries by Randolph around the corner for a post-shopping coffee and Napoleon and bring home a box of tea cookies for the kids.

4510 Cherry Hill Rd.
Arlington, VA
Online: childsplaytoysandbooks.com

6. Go Bananas

Enjoy classic toys alongside the newest releases available in a curated shop! They stock everything from Brio trains for your toddler to Exploding Kittens for your Tween and a huge variety in between.

Insider Tip: Try out the "Birthday Vault" with your little one. Simply visit the store two weeks before their birthday and help them fill the birthday basket with all of the items they're wishing for. When the basket is full, Go Bananas will write your child's name on it and secure it in their Birthday Vault. The "wishes" will be held on reserve for your child—or for friends and family in search of an approved gift—up until a day after their birthday party or birthday.

42395 Ryan Rd., Unit 122
Ashburn, VA
Online: gobananastoys.com

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The Best Independent Toy Stores in Maryland

7. Fair Day's Play

In Takoma Park, this shop specializes in toys with exceptional educational value for all ages. Owner Lisa Ripkin works with customers to find toys that best match their interests and can order specific products just for you if you can’t find what you’re looking for in store.

Insider Tip: Fair Day's Play partners with Art for the People, a non-profit that brings art to communities. Check out their website to find out about upcoming crafting events!

7050 Carroll Ave.  #102
Takoma Park, MD
Online: fairdaysplay.com

8. Anglo Dutch Pools and Toys

Anglo Dutch Pools and Toys was founded in 1985 as a mom-and-pop pool maintenance store, which quickly expanded into carrying pool toys. Before long, customers wanted "land" toys, too. Today, the business carries a huge variety of toys, games, books, and puzzles. True to their roots, they also have a wonderful selection of aquatic toys and swimming necessities like goggles and suits.

5460 Westbard Ave.
Bethesda, MD
Online: anglodutchpoolsandtoys.com

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The Best Independent Toy Stores that Are Worth the Drive

9. PLAYroom

Aptly named, owner Michelle McNaughton has plenty of toys out for your kiddos to test-drive, which makes for a shopping experience that is so much more than basic browsing—you can really uncover the items your little ones will actually love. In fact, it's so interactive, you may have a hard time getting the kids to leave! With loads of unique, hard-to-find, and classic toys, the PLAYroom earns its moniker.

Insider Tip: Really having a hard time making an exit? Don't worry, you can tempt them with a horse cookie from The Upper Crust, an old fashioned bakery just around the corner. 

108 W. Washington St.
Middleburg, VA
Online: intheplayroom.com

10. The Fun Shop

This toy store opened its doors in 1956 when there was nowhere in Middleburg to buy children’s clothes or toys, The Fun Shop is chock-a-block with excellent toy and gift options. Their 6,000-square-feet of merchandise also has great gifts for the grown-ups on your list.

115 W. Washington St.
Middleburg, VA
Online: thefunshop.com

11. Dancing Bear Toys and Games

Founded with the goal of creating a happy place to spark inventive play and imagination, The Dancing Bear in Frederick is worth the drive, especially when you also visit its sister bookstore, The Curious Iguana. If you have the kids in tow, there is a little play area that keeps small hands busy.

Insider Tip: Walk up a block to N. Market St. and you'll find sweet teacher gifts at Perfect Truffle

15 E. Patrick St.
Frederick, MD
Online: dbeartoys.com

12. Curious Iguana

For an independent bookstore with an incredible children's section, head around the corner to Dancing Bear's sister store, Curious Iguana.

12 N. Market St.
Frederick, MD
Online: curiousiguana.com

Vacation is an adventure, and anyone who’s ever changed a diaper in a tiny airplane restroom can attest, adventure isn’t always, uh…easy. Take the distance out of traveling and take “staycation” to heart by playing tourist in your own town. Whether you live in the city, the country or somewhere in between, we’ve got some great ways to make your everyday into something postcard-worthy. Read on for ideas.

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Dress the part: Comfy walking shoes, a fedora and sunglasses and weather-appropriate layers. A giant camera around the neck is optional, but it's ever-so-fun. Binoculars make a great accessory. Bonus points for socks with sandals, brightly colored floral tops and anything that has your town's logo on it.

Pack lightly and carry a big crayon: Any parent ever will tell you that the packing process for a vacation is just that: a process. Get the kids involved in this small-scale version by creating a checklist, with items like pens or crayons, stamps for your postcards, a journal, a camera, small bags for collected treasure or whatever seems to fit your day out.

Create an agenda without an agenda: Visit your chamber of commerce (or chamber’s website) and check out the brochures for local fun! Let your kids choose one touristy thing to do, likely something that you’ve never done before. Go on a duck boat tour, rent bikes if you don’t have any of your own, stop into a local museum you keep walking past or just take your time going into a few shops.

Look up and look down: Observe local architecture. Use binoculars to view the features of downtown buildings in greater detail. Stop and admire a sign. Let the children lead without a rush.

Ask out loud: Take time to ask the barista, shopkeeper or local on the park bench a question or two. What do they know about the history of your town? How long have they lived here? Tourists are known for being friendly and curious!

Close up of a young family enjoying city life while traveling
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Get lost: Try using a paper map to navigate your way. Have each person in your crew pick a place from the map they'd like to visit. Don't use your GPS to get you back on track unless you're in dire need or feel unsafe. Enjoy what comes your way. If you get lost, ask someone for directions! Nothing says "tourist" more than that!

Make a written record: Stop by the local drugstore/tourist shop/gas station and grab a postcard. Then find a spot in a park or a coffee shop, grab a drink and write out your cards. Send one to your best friend, even if they live next door. Use the postcard to record a cool observation about your town. Parents can secretly write one out to their kids. If you didn't pack stamps, tromp over to the post office to grab a few. 

Spend your hard-earned extra cash: Book a hotel room (try a last-minute deal on a travel site like Priceline). The beauty is you barely have to throw more than PJs and toothbrushes into a suitcase. And you can jump on the bed, splash in the pool and just vaycay without any muss or fuss (or too much cleaning up).

Put down the selfie-stick: If you have an older digital camera you don't use as much, let the children be in charge of taking photos all day. At least once, whether with your phone or your camera, stop and ask a nice-looking local to take your group photo. It's not just about getting the shot; you'll make a connection and bring a smile to a stranger's face. If you see someone you know, have them take your photo or get in on the photo! They'll love hearing about your crazy local adventure.

Gather souvenirs: You don’t have to load up on magnets and shot glasses. Save a receipt from a meal you loved, a penny you found on the ground, even a wayward pinecone your kid insisting on picking up. Put all these items in a mason jar with a label for the day, or press them into a scrapbook.

 

—Amber Guetebier

The Grinch may be a mean one, but his sense of style is actually quite nice. If you have a soft spot in your heart for the grumpy green guy, you’ll love the latest additions to this collection from Skechers! The Dr. Seuss Grinch Collection has styles for the whole family and features illustrations of the signature characters—but it’s only around for a limited time.

Whether you’re looking for a casual slip-on sneaker or something even cozier, this line has you covered. The BOBS products even donates to save shelter animals’ lives! Your kids can also get in on the fun with a new winter boot and light-up sneaker.

BOBS from Skechers Beach Bingo – Who-Christmas-Sing

Skechers

Snag this sneaker for ultimate comfort and Grinchy style. It features a scrunch back for easy slipping on and off, plus memory foam and the whole Whoville crew. Buy it for $58

Skechers Street Roadies – Ugly Sweaters

Skechers

If you're looking for something a little edgier, you'll love this white leather lace up boot. Featuring a Grinch-worthy catchphrase, it's the perfect accessory for the holiday parties you don't really want to attend. You'll be able to buy it soon for $90. 

 

 

Skechers Vortex – Flash – Grinchly

Skechers

Don't leave the little ones behind! This slip-on runs up to 13.5 and features a Grinch design with a stretch-laced front. The light-up midsole adds an extra special touch. Buy it here for $55

 

Skechers Hypno-Flash 3.0 – Too Late to be Good

Finally, upgrade those winter boots with a Grinch-tastic new style. The cold weather footwear has a soft fleece collar and vibrant lights in the midsole. You'll be able to buy it soon for $62-68. 

If your favorite style isn’t available now, check back throughout the month as Skechers adds more products to the collection. Help us, we’re FEELING!

—Sarah Shebek

Featured image courtesy of Skechers

 

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Now that Halloween is over its time to get into the holiday spirit, and what better way than with an ugly sweater?

Starting today, Swiss Miss is dropping an exclusive batch of ugly sweaters that will get you in the sweet, holiday spirit. Now through Dec. 31, you can pick up a limited edition jumper on uglychristmassweater.com for $45 that will easily be the envy at all your upcoming holiday parties.

Not only does this sweater pack major style vibes, but it also has a built-in pocket (aka the perfect mom accessory).

Whether you want to pack a thermos of Swiss Miss or just carry around a few spare packets, you can’t go wrong with the zippable pocket.

Head to uglychristmassweater.com to grab yours while supplies last.

––Karly Wood

All photos: Courtesy of Swiss Miss

 

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The summer sun is peeking through and with all those extra daylight hours and outdoor action, your kiddos need some eye protection. We’ve got the scoop on all the new glasses from our favorite brands. Scroll down to find your kiddo’s best new accessory.

Zenni Optical

With an average price point of around $40, Zenni Optical is a great choice for kids' sunglasses this summer. Kids can really show their own style with different tints, mirrored lenses and lots of fun styles to choose from. 

Additionally, Zenni just released its 2021 Pride Collection of rainbow frames and is donating a portion of the proceeds from this collection to the It Gets Better Project for the fourth consecutive year. 

Online: zennioptical.com

Jonas Paul Eyewear

UV protection and style galore is the name of the game when you snag some shades from Jonas Paul. With prices starting at just $19 and loads of colors to choose from, you can order a few pairs for when they (inevitably) get lost at the beach. Use their virtual try-on program to see what the sunnies look like on your kid before you order! 

Online: jonaspauleyewear.com

Weefarers

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These adorable shades are not only sturdy enough for tiny tots, but they come in a wide variety of colors, so your little trendsetter can pick her favorite! The frames are bendable and durable and if you break or lose them within the first year, you'll get a new pair for free! Made with FDA-approved impact-resistant lenses that provide 100% UVA and 100% UVB protection, Weefarers come in sizes from 0-2 and 2-4. 

See the collection here, $24.99.

Sunski Kids

Sunski has launched kid-sized versions of two of their most popular frames: the Mini Dipsea and the Mini Headland. These sunglasses are both sustainable and stylish. The frames are made from recycled materials, there's no plastic packaging, Sunski participates in 1% for the planet, and the company is also carbon neutral. The glasses are also polarized, have 100% UV-resistant lenses and come in sizes that fit kids ages 5-11.

Buy a pair here, $38. 

JUNiA POW

JUNiA

JUNiA offers a range of sweet styles for kids with 100% UVA/UVB protection. They are as durable as they are stylish with shatterproof lenses and unbreakable hinges. Check out all of the styles in JUNiA's collection for a wide variety of sleek, chic sunglasses for kids of all ages. We love that you can shop by "lifestyle," too (adventurer, trend setter, prep school). 

Check the out at junia-co.com, $69 

Toucca Blonde Havana Brandon Polarized

Toucca Kids

These vintage-inspired sunglasses from Toucca Kids offer a classic style with modern perks like pinch-free hinges, 100% UVA/UVB protection, shatter and scratch-resistant lenses and polarization to reduce glare. They also have an extra-large nose pad for a comfortable fit. We adore the gender-neutral Blonde Havana Brandons ($49) for kiddos 2-6,  but you'll find a ton of other options at touccakids.com or on Amazon.

Real Shades Screen Shades

Real Shades

Real Shades just launched Screen Shades, designed to protect eyes not only from sun (they offer 100% UVA and UVB protection) but also from damage caused by harmful bluelight emitted from tablets, computers, gaming consoles, smartphones and more! Available in sizes toddler (2+), kid (4+), youth (7+) and adult. They also come in tons of cool colors.

$20 for kids, $30 for adults. Shop them here.

Babiators The Agent

Babiators

For parents in the know, Babiators are a first-choice for protective and stylish eyewear for babies, toddlers and bigger kids. Best part? They stay on! (Okay, the best part is how cute your kids look in sunglasses.) The Agent are among the newest glasses in the collection and are part of the Blue Series. The black frames with blue, mirrored polarized lenses are perfect for the little spy in your life. They come in sizes 0-2, 3-5 and 6+. $35

Get yours before they disappear at babiators.com.

Julbo Looping 2 for Babies

Julbo

This French eyewear line has been making stylish sunglasses for parents for years but they also make amazing eyewear for kids, like the Looping 2, designed just for babies. They're wraparound with curved temples and a flat elastic strap, hinge-free and with a reversible frame (frames are symmetrical so they won't be upside-down.)Total protection for your littlest explorer! $35

Snag a pair here

Real Shades Switch

Real Shades

Why have just one color when you can have two? These sweet solar-activated shades from Real Shades not only offer the 100% UV eye protection you need but they change colors when your kiddo hits the sunlight. The yellow ones change to orange; the green change to blue; the pale purple turn fuschia and the pinks go from light to bright. And at just $14.95, you can get two pairs! Plus, you can get them in three sizes: toddler, for 2+, kid for 4+ and big kid, 7+ so you can guarantee you’ll get the right fit for your crew.

Get them at realshades.com.

 

Oakley Youth Collection

Oakley

Oakley is already known for being quality eyewear for athletes and active people, so it makes perfect sense that they came up with sunnies for the smaller set. Prices range from $100-$120 and the styles include the Turbine and the Radar, as well as styles of prescription lenses perfect for active kids.

Check them out at oakley.com.

JBanZ Dual Color Frames

JBanz

From Baby Banz, these 100% UVA/UVB protection glasses offer sunglare reduction and cool color combos. Identical in style and function to the bestselling JBanZ style, these ones come in cute dual palettes: black and pink; white and black; brown and tan; and navy and white. Ideal for ages 4-10, they retail at $27.99.

Shop for them at babybanz.com.

—Kate Loweth & Amber Guetebier

UPPAbaby has recalled certain RumbleSeat accessory adaptors because they can become detached, posing a fall hazard to children. So far, the company has received 135 reports of detachments and 77 incidents resulting in injuries that include two broken noses.

The accessory attached to UPPAbaby strollers with two plastic adaptors and impacts RumbleSeat Models 0252, 0917 and 0918. The adaptors were sold at baby and children’s speciality stores from Oct. 2014 through Jul. 2019 for $180 to $200.

photo: Courtesy of CPSC

To see if your RumbleSeat is part of the recall, you can locate the model numbers on the underside of the seat, and also check if your adaptor has yellow tabs, per the photo above. Parents can also head to uppababy.com to get more info.

If your adaptor does not have yellow tags, stop using it immediately and contact UPPAbaby via the website to fill out information for a free replacement adaptor set.

––Karly Wood

 

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This past April, my family took our first post-pandemic trip. We packed our two sets of twins (ages five and three), laptops, bag-o-cords, luggage, bikes, scooters, double-stroller, and a kid-sized port-a-potty into our minivan and drove from Boston to Orlando and back. We drove, and drove, and drove. We spent more than 46 hours in the car covering 13 states. We had so much fun in those 2800 miles that I’m already planning a 4-week road trip to the West Coast for the summer. 

Traveling is our passion and our business. We lived in Vietnam for two years. While we were there, we traveled to 20 countries with our first set of twins strapped to our back. Those trips inspired us to create our family-focused travel accessory brand Rafi Nova and our first product: a carry-all bag built for life-with-kids that moms actually want to wear long after the bottles and diapers phase. 

After traveling thousands of miles with four kids, there are 3 simple hacks that keep my husband and me sane and our kiddos happy. They fall into 3 buckets: Packing, Planning, & Being Present.

Hack #1: PACKING: Prepare to be unprepared.

Want to enjoy the everyday adventure more? Prepare but don’t over-prepare. If you over-prepare (especially with young children), you’ll spend hours packing but only use a fraction of it while you spend hours reorganizing it. Pack the essentials, and leave the rest. Let’s unpack (ha!) this happy medium:

What to Pack:

  • Pack for 4 days max—no matter the length of the trip.

  • Use a laundry bag to store dirty clothes, and plan to do laundry every 3-4 days. Less packing means less organizing, and kids LOVE laundromats! 

  • Pack diapers and wipes for 5 days. Restock along the way.

  • Pack a small extra bag with 2 days worth of clothing for roadside emergencies and late-night check-ins.

  • One packing cube per person (except, of course, Mom—she gets as many as she wants). 

  • Pack all shoes together in their own bag.

  • Pack all toiletries and first aid items together in their own bag.  

  • Store snacks and drinks in a car cooler. Separating snacks like goldfish, popcorn, and granola bars into ziplock bags makes them easy grab-and-go options. Pouch yogurts, apple sauce, and cheese sticks are other favorites (kept in the cooler filled with ice-packed Ziplocks).

Hack #2: PLANNING: Less is more.

  • Have a destination planned out (in our case—Disney) but make the trip about the journey rather than the destination. REMEMBER THAT PART. Just like life, it’s about the journey, not just the destination.

  • Think about places and stops you want to make along the way but leave time to be spontaneous. We planned two stops; our alma mater, the University of Maryland, and Charleston for some southern charm. All other visits were spur of the moment. In Charleston, we heard that Amelia Island was the place to go—so we spent two nights there instead of Hilton Head. In Richmond, we stumbled upon the best park ever and spent a day playing with the kids. In DC, we happened upon the Presidential motorcade, stopped and showed the kids Civil War history in Fredericksburg, VA, and in Georgia, we stopped at a peach farm after seeing a sign for it.

  • A road trip with kids is far more enjoyable if you stay flexible and go with the flow. Your family will be miserable if you try it any other way.

Hack #3: BE PRESENT: Embrace the chaos. 

We’re often planning for the future or analyzing and complaining about the past. Staying present and enjoying the journey will make all the difference on your trip. However, it can be hard to practice when your smartphone is also competing for your attention. So first, know what does not work for your family. For us, strict and busy schedules, extended seated meals (no surprise), and long walks (instead we use those stroller, bikes, and scooters) never, ever work. So what did work for us?

Keeping expectations low, a flexible schedule, and adapting to our kids’ needs and interests. 

We prioritized:

  • Being good partners. We give each other “time off.” One of us takes the kids outside while the other gets time for themselves, even if it’s only 15 minutes. This is a game-changer and keeps us both a lot happier.

  • Reminding each other to put down our phones and engage the kids (trust me—not all the time, but not infrequently either).

  • Bringing the stroller everywhere. This allows the kids to be buckled in and us to exercise our bodies and minds.

Our family motto is life is chaotic—and it works for us. Life cannot be scripted, and things will not always go as planned. We embrace the chaos and explore the new opportunities it presents to us. We’ve discovered so many amazing surprises by being open to adventure. 

In a nutshell, prepare to be unprepared, be curious, and embrace each day as it unfolds (amazing things will come of it)! The present is really all there is, and it’s where little kids hang out and thrive! See how much our little ones taught us in 20 days? 

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Marissa Goldstein is a mama to two sets of twins, blogger behind @TwinsonthegoX2, & Founder of Rafi Nova (www.rafinova.com), a sustainable fashion brand that unites parents through thoughtful and ethically made bags and accessories. Marissa, her husband, and their 4 kids under 4, split their time between Boston and Vietnam.

A backyard cookout wouldn’t be complete without roasting marshmallows and making s’mores. Hershey’s has made the process even more foolproof with a s’mores caddy that keeps everything organized.

The $12 caddy is shaped like a Hershey’s chocolate bar with a removable tray that you can fill with graham crackers, chocolate bars and marshmallows.

photo: Target

This must-have summer accessory is perfect for the backyard, beach, camping and tailgating. You can find it at Target, just in time for warm weather.

—Karly Wood

 

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