The pandemic has been hard on parents, there’s no doubt about that. But it’s also been really hard on kids: not only have they had to adjust to unique school experiences, they’ve also lost a lot of the freedoms they’ve had to just…well…play. I never thought an Apple Watch would be a way to give my kid some of that freedom and independence back but I recently tried one out and I’m here to say: this thing is the bomb. Let me explain…


Three main things have changed dramatically in our lifestyle in the last year:

1) After nearly a year of school closures, our district reopened elementary schools.

School hours and how and where parents pick kids up is quite different than non-COVID times. In addition to school changes, this year my son is a Crossing Guard/Patrol, which means that every two weeks his afterschool schedule changes. I work full time (I’m the Managing Editor for Red Tricycle, obtw) and have a lot on my plate, so his schedule changing can throw things off for me, like meeting times and deadlines.

Plus, parents are essentially not allowed in the school unless it’s an absolute emergency. Running late? Your kid is waiting for you outside (they will bring the kids in if it’s super cold). And with the added responsibility of Patrol, his pickup time changes slightly depending on how many kids are crossing, how fast he checks in his equipment, etc. In short, the time is a little different EVERY. DAY.

2) We live in Minnesota, so “afterschool/outside school activities” means hockey. The “no parents” rule is similar for hockey practices and even most games. Parents are only allowed in the rinks if you need to help your kid get his gear on (my son is a goalie, so he still needs a little assist sometimes). You just drop them off outside or come in at the very last minute if they need help. This is very different than years past, where hockey culture frequently includes parents hanging out and helping out at practice (at least at this younger age).

3) Grandma moved into town.

I don’t believe my son is old enough to have a phone (he’s in 4th grade) but increasingly we found that we wanted him to be able to let us know when he was ready to go. He also started asking if he could walk to (his now fully vaccinated) Grandma’s house after school sometimes.

WALK?? ALONE??? I don’t consider myself to be a helicopter parent, and we live in a pretty safe community, but I also listen to a lot of true crime podcasts and occasionally panic about horrible potential scenarios. How do you balance that line between fear and teaching your kids fear, between safety and independence?

As it happened, right around this time of internal, moral debate, Apple Watch reached out to me to see if I could try the Family Setup feature. So they sent a (loaner) Apple Watch for us to try and, honestly, it really was transformative.

Features I Love the Most

Schooltime: From my phone I can set Schooltime hours, which makes the Apple Watch essentially only functional as time-piece during those hours. It does still track activity, but the majority of the features on the Watch go dormant. They can be accessed only temporarily during schooltime, for such things as emergency text or updates, but overall are “disabled” allowing for fewer distractions.

I was hesitant to send him to school with this watch on, but was actually thrilled to hear that my son’s teacher didn’t even notice he was wearing an Apple Watch: this meant it was not a distraction in class for him or anyone else.

Texting & Calls: As the parent, you control the contact list entirely. This is critical. With Family Setup your child cannot add any contacts to their list on their own. It is all controlled by the parent. I added friends and relatives we trust, not just for emergencies but so he could keep in touch on his own. He’s an only child, so having a cousin to “chat” with now and again is a lifeline.

He can also text via WiFi, but we found calls didn’t work great on WiFi to non-Apple numbers. You’ll want to add the Apple Watch to your cellular plan, which typically sets you back about $10/month when tacked onto an existing plan.

Emergency contacts are also an option: whomever you put on for emergency contacts can be contacted and called for under one minute without requiring a cellular plan.

Handwashing: There is actually a tracking device that shows if the kids have washed their hands long enough! WUT!

So, for the first time in his life, my son walked a few blocks on his own to his Grandma’s apartment after school. And, yes, I was using the tracking feature to see where he was.

Features My Son Loved the Most

I asked my son what his favorite parts of the watch are, beyond having more independence and he, like the kid he is, said:

I like the activity tracker. It’s fun to try to have a goal to reach for activity and get rewards when you complete certain things. There’s a cool planetary alignment feature where you can track the movement of the planets. And I like the easy communication with my family. Today, my dad was late picking me up and I was able to text both my parents, “Where are you?” Also, Memojis are cool. You can even have your Memoji wear a mask.

Calls and texts with family and friends: My mom put people like my grandma, aunts and uncles and even my cousins in California, on my contact list so I can check in with them sometimes without having to make a call on. my mom’s phone.

Conclusion

We’ll reluctantly send back this trial Apple Watch and I have to say, we’re putting it on the birthday wishlist now. Just a few weeks giving this new Family Setup a try and we are happy to see how much it’s allowed us to stay in touch, but not too in touch with a device that doesn’t distract with lots of screen-time. Unlike a phone, this watch isn’t heavy on the screen/game features (there are some) which for us is a win. Yes, the price-tag is higher than what you’d consider for a kid, but I do think it’s actually worth paying for, and the cost to add it to our plan is way more affordable than adding an additional line. Definitely worth considering for any parent who wants the right balance between freedom and worry.

Family Setup is supported in Apple Watch Series 4 or later with cellular, including the new Apple SE

Learn more at apple.com/watch

Special thanks to Apple for loaning us a watch to try out! All opinions expressed here are my own. 

—photos and words by Amber Guetebier

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This past week, both my ladies went back to school: Preschool for Harper and law school for Lacey. Originally, I was writing a hilariously witty column about how Lacey and I were so busy that we forgot to take a picture of our daughter’s first day of preschool (yes, this is true). But, then, I realized that if we’re THIS busy, then so were our parents . . .

Which, of course, never crossed my mind until I experienced it for myself. So, I asked my mom, “How did you do it?”

“You just . . . do.” She replied. My mom isn’t exactly Socrates. 

As a kid, the first day of school arrives and you’re equipped: New clothes, supplies, lunch . . . check, check, check.

Children, whether entering preschool or finishing high school, just don’t have the experience to appreciate the efforts their parents go through to make sure they have the things they need, or think they need, to succeed. At least, I didn’t.

Whether it was a marble composition notebook or “mechanical” #2 pencils, it was in my backpack. I never asked myself, or my mom, what lengths she had to go through to meet my need or request, nor did I ever entertain what kind of day she had and whether she wanted to go shopping for it. 

And, just in case you’re wondering . . . I totally rocked an LL Bean backpack with my initials stitched into it, just like every other kid. Until it wasn’t cool anymore . . . then, just like every other kid, I asked my parents to buy me a JanSport backpack.

If I had a need, from school supplies to an afterschool ride, my parents saw to it that it was met.

Maybe I was spoiled. Maybe I was a brat. Maybe I was just the son of two educators . . . I don’t know.

I just know that, while I probably gave the obligatory “thank you” back then, I never fully appreciated how much my parents did. Likely, neither did you.

What makes it even worse: Back then, life was so much less convenient. 

My mom couldn’t just order my school supplies on Amazon with Prime shipping. My dad couldn’t send an Uber to pick me up if he didn’t want, or wasn’t able, to give me a ride somewhere. Forget texts or emails—cellphones and tablets didn’t exist.

Parenting was done old school. And, we didn’t appreciate our parents’ efforts any more then than our children appreciate ours now.

So, while you’re preparing for your kid(s) to go back to school, raggedly running around town and feeling entirely unappreciated, take a second from being annoyed or overwhelmed and acknowledge . . . this is what parents “just do.”

Actually, take a second and give your mom or dad a call to say, “thank you.” 

You’ll likely hear a chuckle on the other end. Parents always find it humorous when you can finally relate to their suffering. At least mine do.

Don’t worry, you’ll let out a chuckle, too, when your son or daughter gives you a ring in 25 years saying, “thank you” for all you did . . . and all we’re doing is ordering things on Amazon and grabbing Ubers.

It’s just what we “do.”

Thanks, Mom.

Your Friend and My Favorite,

Stephen

Stephen Chrabaszcz
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Raised in New England; raising mine in L.A. Aspiring screenwriter; practicing attorney; work-in-progress father.

If you are looking for something fun for your kids to do in the afternoon, L.O.L. Surprise has your back. Offering a welcome break during the homeschooling day, L.O.L. Surprise will be posting #BBsBoredomBusters every at 1 pm PT to their Facebook and Instagram channels. Keep your kids engaged and entertained with different activities including videos, trivia, challenges, activity sheets and more. 

On their Instagram page, L.O.L. Surprise posted that fans should check out their Instagram story every day for a “fiercely fun afterschool activity.”

—Jennifer Swartvagher

Featured photo: L.O.L. Surprise

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Get ready to add some deep, deep belly laughs to your day. Or rather, to your kiddo’s day. Pinna’s new April Fool’s Day podcasts are here and they’re complete comedic genius—in a totally age-appropriate, child-friendly way.

If you haven’t heard of Pinna, it’s an on-demand audio network that brings your kiddo podcasts, audio books and more. Along with the existing library of for-kids audio media, the new comedy-centered podcasts will engage your child’s mind and entertain them pretty much all day long.

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Pinna’s new original comedic podcasts include “Don’t Break the Rules” (a weekly improv sketch comedy podcast), “The Furry Tones” (a weekly musical comedy podcast for kids ages three through six) and “HiLL-LaRRy-uS” (daily jokes, 365 days a year for kids ages six and up).

Amy Kraft, Director of Development and Children’s Programming at Pinna, said of the new podcasts, “We are pushing the boundaries of what a typical podcast is and we think about listening opportunities for kids throughout the day as we develop and acquire new podcasts, audiobooks and music.” Kraft also added, “Kids can listen to HiLL-LaRRy-uS in the morning so that they can tell the funny joke later that day on the playground, while Don’t Break the Rules can inspire afterschool improv play. Of course, all our shows can be listened to anytime, anywhere – alone or with friends and family.”

Try it before you buy it! Get a free 30-day subscription to the service. After the trial is over stream Pinna on all iOS and Android devices for $7.99 per month or $79.99 per year.

—Erica Loop

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While the lights and cookies can make any event enchanting, sometimes holiday parties can be hit or miss for little kids. Keep meltdowns to a minimum with a handy scavenger hunt, perfect for hosting a crew of kiddos or keeping in your bag as a pleasant surprise. We’ve got three checklists for festive occasions—winter fun, Christmas and Hanukkah— and we’ve even included a printable version you can click and print. You just need the pencil! Scroll down to see the lists.

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photo: jillblacktown via flickr

Hanukkah Party Hide & Seek 

This pleasant hide and seek game can lead to laughs and a little mingling, too. Click here to get your Hanukkah Hide & Seek printable, perfect for any night of Hannukkah!

hanukkah

 

Holiday Party Hunt 

Use this list as the perfect ice-breaker for kiddos getting to know each other or as a means to keep all the visiting cousins busy while you’re making dinner. Grown ups can get in on the fun, too. Click here to get your Ho Ho Holiday Hunt printable.

holiday hunt

 

Winter Themed Scavenger Hunt 

This one can last beyond the December holidays to use any time when winter doldrums set in. Use it as a perfect pick-me-for an afterschool adventure or bust it out on New Years Day. Click here to get your Wonderful Winter Scavenger Hunt printable. 

winter hunt

 

 

—Melissa Heckscher
photo: Ashley Webb via flickr

 

Illumination Learning Studio engages and enlightens young minds through their interactive learning, music, and arts programs. Owner, Molli Piper recently took the time to speak with us and tell us what makes them totally awesome!

 

Red Tricycle:  Congrats! Your community recently voted you the Most Awesome Afterschool Program in Seattle. What do your customers value most about your business?
Molli Piper: The opportunity for their children to learn each day through the amazing cultural arts classes we offer.

 

RT: What do you want people to know about your business that they don’t already know?
MP: We are a family owned and operated business.

 

RT: How did your business get started and what was the motivation?
MP: We had talked about starting a family business for many years. One day our son called and explained how he waited in line outside of a school at 4:30 in the morning to get our granddaughter into an after school program. He explained that there was such a big need out here for quality after school programming.

 

RT: Tell us, what do you start your morning with: 1. coffee 2. tea 3. mimosa 4. water 5. all of the above.
MP: Coffee, kids smiles, and hugs!

 

RT: What is the most awesome thing a customer has ever done for you?
MP: When we first opened our business I wore many hats, one of which was cleaning lady. I was cleaning one Saturday morning and a family from our program stopped by to help me clean! They said they wanted to give back to us for making such a wonderful difference in their community.

 

RT: What is your biggest pet peeve as a business owner?
MP: Wanting to be able to provide programming to all of our neighboring areas who want it (West Seattle, Magnolia, Queen Anne). We currently have 4 locations and lots of determination to reach as many families as we can. It won’t be a pet peeve for long.

 

RT: How you keep your stress levels down?
MP: Breathing, breathing and more breathing…

 

RT: What’s your secret superhero power as a business owner?
MP: I am a Social Butterfly! I love people and will say hello to everyone!

 

RT: Tell us, what is the best piece of advice you’ve ever received (as a parent or business owner)?
MP: You have to be able to laugh at yourself!

 

RT: How about the worst piece of advice you’ve ever gotten?
MP: You’re the child’s teacher, not the other way around.

 

RT: Is there a special offer you’d like to include for Red Tricycle readers?
MP: We would like to offer readers who have children interested in music to come for a complementary music evaluation.

 

Check out Illumination Learning Studio and Like them on facebook.

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Today Is Afterschool Fun Day
Let’s get this party started.
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Beat the afterschool doldrums with a dozen activities you can do to keep the kiddos engaged, having fun and learning.

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Avoid the afterschool hangries. Need ideas for easy, healthy afterschool snacks? We’ve got you covered!

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How many times have you asked, “How was your day?” Go deeper and get more creative with these 10 questions to ask your kids after their school day.
Today’s #TakeBobAnywhere theme: Run or Bike! Take a photo and share your pics with us on social media. Don’t forget to tag #TakeBobAnywhere.

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