First birthday gifts can be a little tricky. You want to introduce them to fun new things while also keeping it age-appropriate. Their personality is starting to shine, too, so leaning into their developing interests is a great move, too. What’s a mom to do? Look no further than the stars for guidance on the best gifts for the new toddler in your life.

These are some of the best toddler toys out there, if we do say so ourselves, and we’ve consulted their horoscopes for the best presents to make their big day even better. Plus, we’ve included some bonus zodiac info you might not know about your babe! Keep in mind that these goodies do vary in age recommendations, so consider what you believe your little one is ready for. Now, follow the stars to the best first birthday gifts based on your kiddo’s zodiac sign!

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Aries Gifts
Taurus Gifts
Gemini Gifts
Cancer Gifts
Leo Gifts
Virgo Gifts
Libra Gifts
Scorpio Gifts
Sagittarius Gifts
Capricorn Gifts
Aquarius Gifts
Pisces Gifts

Aries (March 21 – April 19)

If you feel like your Aries kiddo is in charge of the whole house, you can thank their natural leadership skills. A fire sign, and the first sign of the zodiac, this little ram has a bold, spicy personality that makes them brave, confident, and generally self-assured. Those are traits many of us, even as adults, struggle with, so having a natural sense of self-confidence is incredible. While they really aren’t arrogant, their security in themselves makes them driven and ambitious. They’re competitive and determined, energetic and a little impulsive.

aries text and illustration

Your Aries babe is dynamic and majorly ready for adventure at any time. Honesty will be a major value they develop, and along with their strong leadership skills comes the ability to bring others together and build community. It’s likely they’ll want the whole family to participate in game nights (of their choosing, of course), and although their fire sign nature can lead to some hot-headedness (we’re sure you’ve noticed) and cutting words, these dynamic and energetic kiddos are reliable, magnetic, and never dull.

My First Pinball Activity Table

toy pinball game table for toddlers
Little Tikes

A toddler-ready pinball activity table is the perfect way to celebrate your energetic and fun-loving Aries baby. Sounds, numbers, balls, and more make this retro-themed toy a big win!

My First Pinball Activity Table ($44.97)—Buy Here!

Play Set with Foam Climbing Blocks & Ball Pit

two toddlers playing in at-home ball pit and climbing toy
Auksay

Aries toddlers have all the energy to climb, crawl, and jump full throttle into whatever they're doing. This soft foam climbing set gives them the space and freedom to explore and feed their adventurous natures.

Play Set with Foam Climbing Blocks & Ball Pit ($169.99)—Buy Here!

Jellycat Amuseabean Ram

stuffed ram
Jellycat

Celebrate their ability to push through obstacles, approach challenges head-on, and blaze their own fiery trail with this adorable Aries-inspired plush ram by Jellycat!

Jellycat Amuseabean Ram ($20.00)—Buy Here!

Taurus April 20 – May 20

taurus decorative image

Even at 12 months old, your Taurus kiddo is highly intuitive. There’s a good chance you’ve noticed them exploring the world using all 5 of their senses, even more than the average toddler. These bull-y babes are notorious for being exceptionally sensitive to the people and environment around them and are likely to surprise you with their ability to ‘read’ situations and people from a young age. Your Taurus will also be right about their sense of things more often than not, so when they stubbornly (they’re the bull, of course) insist they get a ‘vibe’ about something, it’ll definitely be worth taking seriously.

taurus text and illustration

Tapping into their intuitive abilities gives them a strong sense of favoritism. They’ll use each one of their senses to quickly pick out their favorite foods, movies, places, and people that suit them best. Two of their faves? Sunshine and fresh air. This Earth sign is definitely solar-powered. They’re also deeply grounded and solid, so reconnecting with nature and getting their hands dirty is always a good idea when they’re having a particularly bull-headed moment.

Bio Sand & Garden Kit

4 piece plastic toddler gardening set
Danrie

'Grounding' really is the name of the game when it comes to your Taurus, so this gardening set is ideal for the sandbox and their own patch of the garden. It'll be their happy place.

Bio Sand & Garden Kit ($35.00)—Buy Here!

Biophilic Playhouse

clear playhouse with grass and glowers painted on it sits on a grey carpet in a classroom
Wayfair

This indoor playhouse brings the natural ground right into your home. Taurus babies will love the little retreat it offers and you'll love that the shatterproof acrylic lets you keep an eye on them (which you'll want to do when they're still young and not independently mobile, especially). It's an investment, but they'll play with it for years!

Biophilic Playhouse ($423.33)—Buy Here!

My Big Book of Nature Sounds

cover of a nature sounds book for kids
Amazon

Toddlers love sounds and pressing buttons, so a press-and-listen book is always a hit. This one is an awesome choice for your Taurus toddler to look through (while sitting in the playhouse, maybe?).

My Big Book of Nature Sounds ($17.99)—Buy Here!

Gemini May 21 – June 20

gemini illustrated text and constellation

Gemini babies are born with exceptional communication skills, so if you have a serious babbler on your hands, it’s not necessarily just for the sake of hearing their own voice. This sign loves interaction and storytelling (which also gives them a little bit of a tendency to embellish their tales, so gently calling them out on those little white lies from a young age is a good idea). Geminis are known for their unpredictable personalities, thanks to the dueling twins as their ruler. That’s not a bad thing, though. They’re so fun and, despite sometimes running hot and cold, they’re actually really adaptable and curious.

gemini text and constellation

Geminis are a social bunch. They have an excellent sense of humor, and a lot of that can be attributed to their exceptional intellect. They’re in the company of JFK, Walt Whitman, and Natalie Portman, and their intelligence can approach or reach genius level. Technology, gadgets, coding tools and toys are going to top their lists of interests. Your Gemini is likely an insatiably curious kiddo who can multitask like a master. Fostering their hunger for knowledge and natural engagement will be a parenting win for these little ones.

Customized Name Puzzle & Busy Board

three customized name puzzles
Lovery Toys

Brilliant baby Geminis are great at puzzles, and not only is this one really cute; it also includes their names, so don't be surprised if they pick up how to spell it incredibly fast. The multitasking Gems will appreciate the busy b

Customized Name Puzzle ($49.99+)—Buy Here!

60pc Montessori Play Kit

set of Montessori toys for toddlers
WOODMAM

This one should come as no surprise to moms of Geminis. A 60-piece Montessori play kit that covers your kiddo's love of learning and keeps them from slipping into the boredom zone.

60pc Montessori Play Kit ($51.99)—Buy Here!

Smart Toddler Box

smart toddler box
TOYVENTIVE

The Smart Toddler Box is exactly what it says it is: 4 educational books, 2 sets of flashcards, a double-sided puzzle, and 2 shape-and-color matching boards.

Smart Toddler Box ($24.99)—Buy Here!

Cancer June 21-July 22

cancer zodiac illustration

Ah, your emotional little crab. They’re ruled by the moon and, just like their lunar influence, go through phases frequently. And while it’s true that Cancers are ultra-sensitive, they really are pretty darn easygoing and easy to please. Even when they are having a crabby moment, they’re very unlikely to lash out physically or act out. These crabby kiddos are empathetic, compassionate, and deeply nurturing. They notice everything and forget absolutely nothing.

small cancer zodiac symbol and text

When a Cancer child gets into one of their sullen moods, and they will, it’s a great time to break out an arts and crafts project so they can express their emotions. The good news? They do get over their cranky hermit moods pretty quickly. More often than not, you’ll get a ton of cuddle time thanks to their nurturing and family-oriented nature. Cancers are true sweethearts that love to be at home, be close, and thrive on gentle parenting approaches (they aren’t usually apt to take advantage of people), and will always glow under approval from those they love.

Melissa & Doug Baby Giraffe

plush baby giraffe toy with pretend baby bottle and diaper
Melissa & Doug

Encourage your Cancer baby's nurturing side with this sweet baby giraffe, complete with a bottle, pacifier, and cloth diaper. They'll love taking care of this little one!

Melissa & Doug Baby Giraffe ($24.99)—Buy Here!

My First Painting Petit Barbouille Mess-Free Paint Set

a child's paint kit with 4 painted animals as examples
DJECO

This set comes with 4 laminated painting cards, so they can use the included washable non-toxic paints to create their masterpiece, and you can rinse and reuse them.

My First Painting Petit Barbouille Mess-Free Paint Set ($33.16)—Buy Here!

My Family Builders Blocks

set of family building blocks
My Family Builders

A Cancer's love of family is unmatched, so they'll love getting to build diverse and inclusive families with this beautiful 48-piece set. 

My Family Builders Blocks ($78.99)—Buy Here!

Leo July 23 – August 22

Loyal and affectionate, your Leo baby truly lives up to their lion ruler. It’s next to impossible to find a more dedicated leader, and no one will mind when they’re the first to stand up and take charge. Why? Because they don’t just enjoy leading; they excel at it. Making decisions is their forte, and that’s a trait you can capitalize on as a parent (“Would you rather where the blue shirt or the pink dress?”, etc.). They’re energetic, too, so anything that lets them move their body is a solid choice. This fire sign is a jungle gym boss. Try to stick with a regular bedtime, mom. Sleeping is not one of their talents. FOMO is strong with them.

You’ve probably noticed that ‘Drama’ is your lion cub’s middle name. Everything is big, bigger, biggest with a Leo baby. From the biggest smile in the room to the most epic tantrum in the least convenient moment, the lion roars with their whole chest. Sass and wit come easily to them, and they seek the spotlight at all times. Give them space to express themselves, to perform made-up plays and songs, and respect the importance they place on honesty above all, and you’ll be on the receiving end of their purr more often than their bite.

Toddler Dress-Up Trunk

set of toddler dress up clothes
Lakeshore Learning

A performer needs a wardrobe, and this toddler-friendly dress-up trunk is a costume-loving Leo's dream.

Toddler Dress-Up Trunk ($129.00)—Buy Here!

Fisher-Price Wake up & Learn Coffee Mug

toddler pretend coffee tumbler
Fisher-Price

If there's anything your Leo loves, it's emulating you. You're the biggest, most important force in their little lives, and they crave that kind of energy. Does your little one see you sipping out of your tumbler all day? This adorable copy-cat mug is ideal for them.

Fisher-Price Wake up & Learn Coffee Mug ($18.99)—Buy Here!

Toy Piano & Mic Set

black toy piano for toddlers
nicknack

Are you raising more of a rockstar than a movie star? Let them get their groove on with this piano featuring 24 keys, 8 percussion instruments, 4 musical instruments, 22 demo songs, volume control, play & record, karaoke, LED, and external MP3. 

Toy Piano & Mic Set ($24.98)—Buy Here!

Virgo August 23 – September 22

Meticulous. There’s no other word that applies more to this earth sign. They’re neat, exacting, and detail-oriented, and you can rely on them to be responsible from an early age. They adore helping, so letting them assist in household chores is a great way to bond with your little one. Highly organized and oh-so-smart, Virgo babes also tend to be extremely analytical. Those traits serve them well often, but it’s likely you’ll notice their innate intelligence often leads them to be exceptionally hard on themselves. It’s a good idea to remember that these shy-leaning kiddos aren’t necessarily seeking attention so much as reassurance.

Virgos are represented by a maiden carrying a shaft of grain, associated with their love of serving and their deep-rooted connection to the earth. Along with their desire to serve others, they’ll strive for perfection, no matter what. This can manifest in struggling with a sense of self-worth, insecurity, and feelings of inferiority. These struggles feel very real for them, so don’t hesitate to build them up without worrying their ego will become too inflated. Allow them to help out, praise and appreciate their hard work, and encourage them to get out of their heads from time to time and use their hearts to express themselves through art projects, writing, and getting a little messy (occasionally).

Learning Resources Farmers Market Sorting Set

set of fruit sorting toys
Target

There's nothing a detail-oriented Virgo loves more than organization, and this sorting set is right up their meticulous alley. 

Learning Resources Farmers Market Sorting Set ($23.39)—Buy Here!

Slumberkins Yak for Self-Acceptance & Positive Self-Talk

stuffed yak toy with board book and affirmation card
Slumberkins

Slumberkins were developed to teach toddlers and kids all about emotional regulation and social tools. Each animal teaches us something different, and Yak will encourage your perfectionist Virgo how to speak kindly to themselves and accept themselves as they are. Virgos are notoriously hard on themselves, so teaching them to ease up from an early age really sets them up for success.

Slumberkins Yak for Self-Acceptance & Positive Self-Talk ($52.00)—Buy Here!

My First Toolbox

wooden toddler toolbox toy set
Maisonette

Mr. or Ms. Fix-It are always in the 'how can I help?' mindset. Fixing and assisting are their jam, so this wooden set of tools will be their go-to.

My First Toolbox ($41.00)—Buy Here!

Libra September 23 – October 22

The most idealistic people you know are likely Libras. As air signs, they float into the realm of borderline naive hopes that everyone will get along at all times and any kind of conflict can be triggering for these balance-craving babies. They’re natural negotiators and peacemakers. They love when everyone around them feels relaxed and at ease and they’ll go above and beyond to make sure of it. This ‘by any means necessary’ attitude towards achieving harmony can lead to people-pleasing and some difficulty confidently stating their opinions (though they certainly have them), especially in a group. Libras are social and are often everyone’s best friend, though they’ll limit their personal close contacts to just a few lucky people.

Your Libra adores beauty, sometimes to a fault. This can come off as shallow and materialistic, but ultimately, feeling surrounded by beauty is their love language. It contributes to their sense of harmony. They also have a strong belief in love and romance, and associate love with beauty of all kinds. They do struggle with making decisions, and are very much go-with-the-flow. They’re more peacemakers than leaders. Your Libra baby is ruled by Venus, so they love affection and can’t hear ‘I love you’ too much. Warm, quick-witted, and charming, their sweet dispositions are usually upset by overwhelm or a sense of injustice for themselves or others. Encourage their love of fairy tales as well as teaching them how to ground themselves when they get a little ‘floaty’ and you’ll keep them balanced and happy.

Foamnasium Bridges

foam 3-piece rainbow bridge climbing toy
Pottery Barn Kids

These soft foam 'bridges' can be used for climbing, lounging, or just adding a dreamy aesthetic to your Libra's space.

Foamnasium Bridges ($279.00)—Buy Here!

Lambs & Ivy Interactive Plush Mushroom House

plush mushroom house toy with small woodland animals
Lambs & Ivy

Soft, sweet, and social (those little woodland creatures are definitely friends), this adorable plush mushroom house will a fave of your Libra.

Lambs & Ivy Interactive Plush Mushroom House ($34.99)—Buy Here!

Spinny Pins Balance Toy

a set of wobbly pins toddle toy
Fat Brain Toys

Each of the five colorful pins features different textures to feel plus a weighted base that wobbles and balances. What harmonious Libra kiddo could resist? 

Spinny Pins Balance Toy ($34.95)—Buy Here!

Scorpio October 23 – November 21

We all know that Scorpios are intense, and we wouldn’t change that for the world. They never do things with only half their heads or hearts, they’re deep, brilliant, and natural researchers. Scorpio babies feel things so deeply, and encouraging them from a young age to express their emotions in a healthy way instead of keeping it all bottled up will serve them well. They do tend to be slightly distrusting in general, so if they take a while to warm up to someone, it’s not lack of manners. Your little scorpion will test you, but that’s their way to making sure that your love is truly unconditional. They’re the ride-or-die sign that values loyalty and remains intensely aware of the people and things around them.

Scorpios get a bad rap of being secretive, but it’s not sneakiness so much as their introverted nature. They process everything internally and love a good mystery. It’s important to let your baby Scorpio know that it’s okay to talk their emotions out with someone they do trust while at the same time setting boundaries so they still feel in control. Your little one’s drive and determination can mask a sense of fear and insecurity that can lead to anxiety, so reassurances and giving them a sense of safety will be really helpful. Scorpios are magical, intuitive, and love with their whole hearts.

Mini Backpack with Safety Harness

toddler backpack with puppy face design
Skip Hop

Ever the explorer, your Scorpio will need a backpack to keep their findings in (and you'll need a way to keep them from wandering off too far!). This toddler backpack also comes in a koala design.

Mini Backpack with Safety Harness ($16.00)—Buy Here!

Light Up Sensory Play Jars

Uncommon Goods

Believe it or not, Scorpio isn't a fire sign. They're actually water signs, which explains their deep emotions and love of all things mysterious. These Sensory Play Jars will calm them down and help them center themselves while they investigate the glitter, lights, and more! There are also filler kits you can buy seperately to customize their jars.

Light Up Sensory Play Jars ($25.00)—Buy Here!

Fat Brain Toys Forest Friends Discovery Tree

toddler girl in a living room playing with a wooden toy treehouse
Fat Brain Toys

Discovery is the name of the game for your Scorpio sweetie. Let them get wrapped up in this activity center that features a ton of early learning and sensory activities.

Fat Brain Toys Forest Friends Discovery Tree ($74.95)—Buy Here!

Sagittarius November 22 – December 21

Sunshine-in-person-form, Sagittarius is a fire sign that’s more warmth than burn. They’re the wild child of the zodiac. They adore nature, the outdoors, adventure, and exploration. Your archer is an animal-lover, so they’ll ask for a pet (if you don’t already have one. If you do, expect them to want to add to the gang!). These babes are open-minded, progressive, and extremely free-spirited. Conformity and routine aren’t strong suits of theirs, and they really struggle with rules, so a great way to keep them from getting too far off track is to explain the logic behind rules so they understand that you don’t intend to stifle them; only to protect them.

These little ones are imaginative and creative and they would really prefer to avoid sitting in one place too long. Sports, walks, and physical play are favorites of this sign. Your Sagittarius will want to run errands with you and will make it an adventure instead of a chore. Take them to the park, to the grocery store, the dry cleaner, and expect them to add some sparkle to the whole afternoon. They’re fascinated with pebbles, sticks, and flowers, so they’re likely to come home with full pockets and random things in the bottom of their backpack. Little Sags can be impulsive and a little reckless, so guiding them without smothering them will help them thrive.

Manhattan Toy Put and Peek Birdhouse

soft birdhouse toddler toy with four small plush birds
Manhattan Toy

Your Sagittarius baby loves animals, so this soft birdhouse will let them take care of these little birdy friends, complete with birdhouse and handle so they can tote them anywhere.

Manhattan Toy Put and Peek Birdhouse ($33.60)—Buy Here!

VTech Smart Shots Sports Center

toddler sports activity center with soccer goal and basketball hoop
VTech

With these super energetic archers, they have energy to burn. This sports activity center will keep them moving and entertained constantly!

VTech Smart Shots Sports Center ($39.99)—Buy Here!

Wooden 4 Elements Stacking Toy

set of earth element wooden stacking toys for toddlers
Etsy

This is such a beautiful set that'll appeal to Sagittarius' sense of wonder, connection to nature, and curiosity. Water-based paints and natural wood make this an awesome option for toddlers.

Wooden 4 Elements Stacking Toy ($133.64)—Buy Here!

Capricorn December 22 – January 19

Your Capricorn baby is a true old soul. They come into the world wise beyond their years, and, similar to Virgos, they’ll strive for perfection. Under their goat ruler, they’ll reach the mountaintop or die trying, in so many words. They have an intensely strong work ethic and will need to be reminded to play, too. Capricorns are highly-productive and ambitious, preferring logic to emotion. Because of this, they give great advice without getting too wrapped up in being overly emotional.

It’s a good idea to keep in mind that these little goats are their own worst critics, so if they do make a mistake, even if discipline is needed, try to also remind them that they’re still lovable, smart, and worthy. They don’t shy away from responsibility, though it does take them some time to warm up to others on a personal level. Encouraging compassion and empathy will be great for them, especially teaching them compassion toward themselves. They won’t typically indulge in dress-up or playing pretend; play needs to have a point for Capricorns. Reward systems really resonate for this sign, too, so chore charts and allowance will be awesome drivers.

LeapFrog My First Learning Tablet

toddler learning tablet
LeapFrog

Not only will they feel mature with this toddler-ready tablet, but they'll also get to learn a ton with lights, colors, and sounds. Available in two colors.

LeapFrog My First Learning Tablet ($19.97)—Buy Here!

Petilou Rainbow Cloud Pop Press and Release Toy

wooden toy cloud for toddlers
Le Toy Van

For these reward-centered kiddos, cause-and-effect toys are fantastic. This springy cloud features five colorful rainbow pop-up rods in three heights for a hands-on learning experience. 

Petilou Rainbow Cloud Pop Press and Release Toy ($26.95)—Buy Here!

Goat Plush Squishy Toy

stuffed billy goat plush toy
Avocatt

Help lead your Capricorn babe into their softer side and celebrate their goat ruler with this adorable goat plushy.

Goat Plush Squishy Toy ($19.99)—Buy Here!

Aquarius January 20 – February 18

Unique and quirky, your Aquarius is so independent and fun, there’s never a dull moment. Individuality is their driving force, and encouraging their self-expression is ideal for raising happy water-bearers. They’re open-minded and a bit rebellious, but as long as you step back and embrace their little quirks and unique likes, their rebellious streak will be tempered. They march to the beat of their own drum, and their creativity knows no bounds.

Interpersonal relationships are paramount for air signs in general, but as the last air sign of the zodiac, Aquarius takes this trait to a whole new level. They’re deeply rooted in teamwork and the ‘greater good’, so they’ll often be involved in projects that connect with community and are the first to jump into anything revolutionary that feeds their humanitarian souls. As humanitarian as their souls are, they don’t do small talk or people-pleasing. They need something much deeper. Aquarius is ruled by Uranus, the planet that governs innovation, technology, and surprising events, and that perfectly represents this visionary babe.

LED Light Table

child playing with a purple light table
Etsy

Don't worry; you can leave the sand for when they're a little older. This LED light table illuminates transparent toys and blocks, plus it changes colors to suit your Aquarius' mood. You can also buy light table toys separately to prevent the Aquarius boredom. 

LED Light Table ($170.29)—Buy Here!

16pc Rainbow Blocks

set of wooden stacking blocks with colorful windows
Kvintes

Bright and a little magical, these blocks aren't just for building; the reflection and prism effect will keep their interest.

16pc Rainbow Blocks ($52.96)—Buy Here!

My First Fingerpaint Kit

set of toddler fingerpaints
Crayola

This fingerpaint kit is created specifically for toddlers to express themselves without mom and dad worrying about an unfixable mess. The paints are washable and the paper is specially coated to prevent seeping through.

My First Fingerpaint Kit ($18.15)—Buy Here!

Pisces February 19 – March 20

The ultimate sensitive sign, those born under Pisces are considered to be darn near magical. They’re said to walk between reality and whatever lies beyond, so if you think your babe is growing into a child who just knows things, you’re probably right. This is a sign that has a high propensity for psychic abilities. As children, they don’t realize that not everyone has this sort of intuitive knowing, but once they do, they may try to bury that part of themselves, or simply retreat into themselves to avoid sensory overload. This can lead to others thinking these fish are a little snobby, when nothing could be further from the truth.

Pisces’ precious personalities are always looking for people and animals who might need help or who they consider vulnerable. They give generously and struggle with boundaries, so it’s your job to guide them into healthy relationship practices. True born artists, Pisces babies will express themselves through works of art that are dreamy and compelling. They love living in their sparkly, whimsical land of imagination, so reminding them when it’s time to focus on being grounded and present will help them out a lot. Pisces toddlers need gentleness and care above all things and a recognition of their extreme sensitivity to avoid hurt feelings. Take care of them with a lot of love and a delicate touch and your guppy is sure to shine.

Warmies Babydoll

plush baby doll for babies and toddlers
Warmies

Warmies are fully microwavable and real lavender-scented that create the ultimate in comfort for adults and kiddos. Letting your Pisces care for a babydoll that also soothes them couldn't be more perfect. If babydolls aren't their preference, Warmies come in a huge assortment of lovable creatures!

Warmies Babydoll ($29.99)—Buy Here!

Big Feelings Nesting Fruit Friends

set of fruit-shaped nesting toys for toddlers
Target

Pisces have no problem connecting with their emotions, but identifying them by name can be a little tricky. These nesting fruit friends help introduce them to understanding and naming their feelings.

Big Feelings Nesting Fruit Friends ($11.89)—Buy Here!

Growing Seeds Tissue Box Toy

set of toy tissue leaves and book
KiwiCo.

Pisces are very hands-on, and this Growing Seeds Tissue Box gives them a sensory experience and a cute book, too.

Growing Seeds Tissue Box Toy ($39.95)—Buy Here!

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These ideas will help your one-year-old’s birthday run smoothly

Even though your baby won’t remember their first birthday, it’s a major (and incredibly cute) milestone for parents—one that your kid will love to look back on when they’re older (be sure to save all the best pics in the Tinybeans app). You’ll probably choose the most adorable party outfit, soon to be covered in freshly baked (or bought!) smash cake. But with schedules to take into account and a lot of little personalities to cater to, how do you plan a party to remember that doesn’t end in disaster? Whether hosting a small gathering with family or a big blowout, these are the first birthday party ideas and tips that’ll ensure everyone has a great time—especially the birthday babe.

1. Respect the nap.

Happy, stress-free parties require a well-rested baby, so time the birthday bash around your baby’s naptime. While this may mean a different start time than Grandma expected, everybody (especially your child!) will have a better time if you work around the sleep schedule.

2. Create a quiet area.

Since parties with babies can mean tears and gleeful shrieks, setting up a secondary party area in another room or outside for guests to go to if they need a break from the festivities is a brilliant first birthday party idea. Set out non-electronic toys for babies who may feel overstimulated, and place chairs and snacks there for adults who want a spot for quiet conversation.

3. Designate photographers.

To ensure you capture the big moments and sweet snuggles with important folks, ask a few attendees to take charge of specific photo moments. That way you can focus on your child and guestsand end up in some of the photos, too! Take all the snapshots from the day and make them into a Tinybeans photo book to save your memories of the special day.

4. Choose a simple theme.

If planning a Pinterest-worthy party sounds too stressful, stick to a simple theme. Lifestyle guru and mother of two Camille Styles opted for a summer-themed party for her daughter’s first birthday and used hearts and the colors pink and orange to make the party look cohesive.

5. Or… skip the theme.

No, you don’t need a themed first birthday party. Promise. Instead, spend your money on fun first birthday activities your baby and guests will enjoy. Our favorite is the ball pit. Just buy an inexpensive kiddie pool and a lot of colorful plastic balls. Kids will love to play around in it, and you can set it up at home or in your backyard for your child to enjoy for years to come.

Related: Best Places to Hold a First Birthday Party

A picture of a baby with her big sister celebrating with a circus party, one of the cutest first birthday party ideas
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6. Take photos before guests arrive.

One of our favorite ideas when planning parties for one-year-olds olds is to snap pictures before baby gets sleepy or cake-covered and when you and your family are more relaxed and focused. To ensure you get great photos, make or order a small smash cake before the big day and do a low-key photo shoot without any guests around. Baby will be all smiles, and no one flipping through the scrapbook will ever know that the picture was taken on a different day.

7. Weather permitting, opt for an outdoor venue.

A park or playground can be the perfect party spot; all you bring is the cake, balloons, favors, snacks, and a table. The mess will be minimal in the great outdoors, and younger guests will have lots of space to run around.

First birthday party tip: Arrive early to stake out a spot in the shade, and tell guests what color balloons or decorations you have so they know where to find you. If the weather isn’t cooperating and you need to move the party to your home, make extra room indoors by moving furniture out of the party room so little legs can crawl or walk around.

8. Put older kids in charge of games.

Delegate, delegate, delegate. Older kids, like cousins or friends’ children, usually love to be given responsibility at parties, and they’re really good at getting the younger ones’ attention. Put them in charge of party games, music-making, singing songs, and more. Chat with the older kids (and their parents) in advance to ask what they’re comfortable doing and create a plan.

a picture of a baby with a smash cupcake, a good first birthday party idea
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9. Use a cupcake for smashing.

Smash cakes are all the rage with the one-year-old crowd and their photo-taking families, and while we say smash away, a tiny confection or cupcake works just as well with much less mess. You may even be able to salvage your child’s outfit for future events if you go for a less messy, smaller cake.

10. Personalize the party.

Highlight a few of your baby’s favorite things over the past year (first word! favorite food! favorite stuffed animal!) and make a poster you display at the party. This first birthday party idea from Kara’s Party Ideas lets guests learn about your baby and is worth snapping a photo of for your child to revisit in a few years. Better yet, make it a yearly tradition.

11. Create a time capsule.

Asking your guests to write the guest of honor a short letter to be read years from now tops our list of sweet first birthday party ideas. To ward off writer’s block, offer suggestions for what to write, such as helpful advice, a memory of the party or first year, or wishes for the future. Store the letters in a marked container that reads “Do not open until you turn 21” (or whatever age you like). For guests who can’t make it, ask them to email your submissions—print them out, and file them away for a future date.

12. Make your party treats self-serve.

Set up everything from drinks to dessert in advance so you can tell guests to help themselves, leaving you to focus on your child and having fun. For younger guests, prep cut-up fruit, applesauce pouches, and cups of Cheerios or snack crackers. For adults, a charcuterie board, crudites, and antipasto are always popular nibbles.

13. Keep it short and sweet.

Little people get overstimulated quickly and can’t handle too much of a good thing. Limit your party to two hours or less so everyone can leave on a positive note.

Related: Celebrate Your Baby’s First Birthday Without a Party

Capture all the cutest (and messiest) moments from baby’s big day—and share them with your family and friends near and far—with the Tinybeans app. The secure platform puts parents in total control of who sees and interacts with photos and videos of their kids.

These indoor party games will heat up your winter birthday party

June, July, and August babies will be rightly jealous when you break out exciting DIY games that take the chill out of the season. That’s right, we’ve got tons of winter birthday ideas for every age and stage to help make your indoor birthday party memorable.

Winter Birthday Ideas for Toddlers

Simplicity is best with this sweet set, which makes for easy-peasy prep. 

Yarn Ball Stories via Etsy

Mitten Match
A trip to the dollar store might be necessary to play this matching game if you don't have enough extra mittens. Once you’ve assembled enough wooly pairs to outfit party guests, hide one-half of each mitten pair in plain sight around the house. Pass the other half out to little hunters, then let them loose to find their match. The game is over once all the pairs have been reunited. Extra points if the guests keep the matched pair as part of their party loot. Get the details from Tales of a Ranting Ginger. 

Hot Snowball
This winter variation on Hot Potato starts with a trip to your local craft store. Dress up a Styrofoam ball or puffy white pom-pom with glitter to make a sparkly snowball, circle up the kids, turn on the tunes, and pass the ball around until the music stops. If you’re caught holding the snowball, it’s sideline time for you, baby. Last one left wins!

indoor party games like Bundle Up are great winter birthday ideas
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Bundle Up, Baby
If this game had an inspiration, it would have to be poor Randy in A Christmas Story, bundled tightly in his winter digs. For this game, you’ll need plenty of blustery day clothes—hats, scarves, mittens, earmuffs, snow pants, heavy coats, etc.—if it keeps you warm, use it. Then, gather the tots together and have each one take turns putting on all the winter gear, as fast as they can, while you keep time (or not). Turn this into a big kid game by dividing the kids into two teams that race against each other, as they bundle up a willing teammate.

Ski Ball Jump
Turn an everyday play idea designed by Susie at busytoddler.com into a party-ready game for tots when you see just how many balls each party-goer can launch into the waiting basket below. All it takes is a little DIY know-how, a soft landing for the balls, and of course, toddlers ready to show off their counting prowess during this party game.

I Can Teach My Child

Snowy Search and Rescue
This classic sensory activity seamlessly transitions into a full-on toddler game as kids race to dig hidden objects out of the “snow.” Bury tiny objects like puzzle pieces, Duplo bricks, or seasonal doodads under layers of cotton balls or fake snow (a great idea thanks to I Can Teach My Child) in a baking dish or large container. Then have little seekers dig them out using hands, sand shovels, or even spoons. They’ll be delighted with their finds. You’ll be delighted at how easy this game is to run.

Related: What an Awesome 3-Year-Old Birthday Party Looks Like

Indoor Birthday Games for Preschoolers

Preschoolers are just coming into their own, which makes gaming with them all the more exciting. A little competition and a few wonderfully wintery twists, and you’ve got the makings for perfect preschool party games!

indoor party games like foot bean bag are great winter birthday party ideas
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Penguin Relay
Consider this relay game the winterized version of an egg spoon race. Divide kids into two teams and put half of each on the end of the playing field and the rest at the other. Kids place a beanbag on top of their feet, papa penguin style. When you say go, each team sends a member shuffling down to the other end, carefully balancing their “egg” on their feet until they reach a teammate on the other side. Transfer the egg to the next player to keep the relay going.

Candy Ball Game
It's a win-win when a game doubles as party favors. Hide birthday trinkets in a plastic wrap ball, pass the ball around the circle, and let guests unwind and find the hidden treasures. If you add the dice-rolling element for older kids, it's just as much fun to watch as it is to play.

Winter Guessing Jar
Keep the wiggles at bay by putting out a guessing jar. Fill it with snowflake buttons, blue and white LEGO, blue and white M&M’s, or any other snowy day combo you can think up. Then invite guests to guess at some point during the party. The coolest part? The jar and its contents can be given away as a prize. 

Snowman Relay
This no-snow snowman relay is perfect for an indoor bash. You’ll need two large felt snowmen and stylish felt accessories to match: a carrot nose, colorful buttons, coal-colored eyes, and even a scarf. Hang the snowmen on the wall, and line your guests in two lines next to the accessories. Each player takes a turn putting on an accessory, and the first snowman ready to lead the parade through the town wins! Construction paper is an alternative for felt for this game.

Related: 14 Creative (& Totally Free) Birthday Coloring Pages

Winter Birthday Ideas for Kindergartners

They’re big kids now, so they should play big-kid games. Check out these three games that will keep them laughing and give them a challenge or two.

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Ice Castle Construction
The race is on to build the highest ice castle on the block with this Bob the Builder meets Elsa cup stacking game. Little partiers can work in teams on this one, or individual players can go head-to-head. The goal? To stack a tower that outshines your opponent’s in the shortest amount of time. The building materials? Blue Solo cups, of course.

Winter-Themed Charades
Who doesn’t love a good game of charades? This no-prep party favorite can easily be tailored to fit a winter party theme. Write out snowy activities like skiing, sledding and snowball fights, then put them in the jar. Break party guests into groups, then have them act out the scenes for their team. Remember, if the guessers can’t quite figure it out, the other team has a chance to steal.

Snowball targets
Put a wintery twist on an old-school carnival game with target practice. All it takes is plastic water bottles, a few squirt guns and small Styrofoam craft balls. Balance the balls on top of the water bottles, and line them up in a row or use empty overturned boxes to make a few different levels to change up the difficulty. Then it’s as simple as ready, aim and firing the squirt guns at the precariously balanced balls to see how many each player can get down. 

Musical Snowflakes
Musical chairs get a winter makeover with this game. Instead of setting up chairs, use paper snowflakes on the ground in a circle for kiddos to stand on. Then, crank the tunes and have the kids walk the line. Whoever is left without a snowflake when the music stops takes a seat; the last kid left standing wins. Rock a twofer on this game by first having tiny guests decorate pre-cut paper snowflakes at a craft table to use in the game.

Snow Shooters
These adorable snow shooters from Growing a Jeweled Rose are the perfect inspiration for snowy party games. Arm each player with a snow shooter and mini marshmallows, and then have them aim one by one at a long-distance target. Closest ‘mallow wins the sharpshooter award of the day!

Related: 18 Healthy Birthday Cakes That Actually Taste Great

Indoor Birthday Games for Grade School Kids 

Give grade-schooler kids the chance to flex their muscles and their brains with these games that take speed, concentration, and maybe even a bit of skill.

Winter birthday idea like paper plate head drawing
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Silly Snowmen
We all know grade school kids love to show off their skills, and this game will take a lot of artistic inspiration and concentration to win. It may seem simple at first glance—the kids draw snowmen on the paper plates—but a simple, yet hilarious, twist makes this a party-worthy activity: the kids can’t see what they’re drawing (the plates are on their heads!). Have the kids add all the requisite snowman parts to their masterpiece—three-body balls, a hat, eyes, arms, buttons, and the iconic carrot nose, and then share their creations to choose who wins this creative competition.

Mitten Pictionary
You can find Pictionary at any old party, but this is your party, so it needs to be special. Crank up the laughter on a typical Pictionary game by having guests wear mittens (the thicker the better) while they draw their way to a win illustrating winter words like a snowman, polar bear, and penguins on the board. Want to make it more challenging? Have the little artists don ski goggles.

Snowball Stomp
This snowball stomp idea from Birthday Party Ideas 4 Kids takes a lot of hot air and a lot of space. Blow up white balloons and tie them around each player's ankle so there’s a distance between them and their snowball. Give the “go!” sign, and give them plenty of space to stomp on each other's snowballs. Super fast and super fun, this is sure to be a popular game.

Topsy Turvey Snowman Cups
Your party animals will work up a serious sweat when they divide into two groups and play this cup-turning game. Ahead of time, draw snowman faces on a slew of white solo cups. When they’re ready to play, spread the snowman cups out on the ground so half are upright and half are upside down. Team One’s goal is to make all snowmen upright. Team Two's goal is the opposite; it’s snowman side down for them. Yell Go! and watch the madness unfold. Play for about five minutes before you add up the scores and play again (and again and again!). 

Blizzard
This adorable game found on Coolest Holiday Parties is a flurry that plays like hockey without hard-hitting checking. Instead of a puck, players use a white balloon, and instead of sticks, they use air to propel the “puck” into the other team’s goal (no hands or feet, please!). Paper plate paddles work well for this game. When the buzzer sounds, the team with the most goals wins!

 

 

Looking for the best kids’ birthday party spot in San Diego? From retro eats to animal encounters, these venues know how to celebrate

Even in San Diego we occasionally need a break from the cooler temps outside. If you’re looking beyond the trademark pool party, backyard barbecue, or park picnic we’ve rounded up some of the best indoor spaces for your child’s next birthday party—and these venues are sure to keep even the littlest party guests busy and comfortable inside! In fact, these San Diego kids party venues (some of which just so happen to be world-class museums!) are destined to make the event a fantastic celebration for young revelers: There’s a theme for every interest—from rocket ships and pirate ships to trampolines and giant hammocks. Read on for birthday ideas in San Diego sure to make your kid’s big day the absolute best!

The New Children's Museum

Spend your birthday boy or girl's special day at the coolest museum for kids downtown. Guests of your party get museum entry and two hours in the special party room. A dedicated party concierge will help parents throughout the party, and special activities can be added on for an additional fee. Your kiddo's crew will love all of the museum's exhibits––especially hanging out in their super cool art installation: Whammock!—a giant rainbow hammock they can swing and climb through. Be sure to book this popular spot two weeks in advance!

Age: 1-12

200 W. Island Ave.
Online: thinkplaycreate.org

Related: Animal Birthday Parties for Creature Loving Kids

 

Corvette Diner

Let your little one rock and roll their way through a birthday celebration at the '50s style Corvette Diner. Birthday guests are treated to serenades from the beehived servers. Themed party packages include a party space, choices from a pre-set menu, and either time in the very popular arcade, crafts, or a dance-off! Many add-ons are available, including a popcorn cart, cupcake buffet, and balloon artist.

Age: all

Liberty Station
2965 Historic Decatur Rd.
Online: corvettediner.com

San Diego Children's Discovery Museum

Calling all young explorers! The San Diego Children's Discovery Museum is the perfect party spot for little tykes, and it's easy to plan for the big day. They offer themed parties like Dinosaur Discovery, Future Farmers, or Little Chemists. You also get a party assistant and your own parking spot on that special day. Also good to note, the museum offers mobile birthday parties, which include some of their traveling exhibits and workshops.

Age: 1-10

320 N. Broadway
Escondido, CA
Online: sdcdm.org

CeramiCafe

Party-goers get to have their cake and eat it too at CeramiCafe. The best part about this venue is that you don't have to be an artist, yet you get to paint a great piece of pottery. The popular cupcake party includes a party host and cupcakes and lemonade for all guests. But, most importantly, the birthday artist enjoys creative time with friends.

Age: 5+

3425 Del Mar Heights Rd.
Online: ceramicafe.com

Rockin' Jump

Take your little ones' birthday celebration to the next level by jumping the day away! Rockin' Jump is an indoor trampoline park filled with foam pits, dodgeball courts, and a ninja challenge course to keep your tykes moving and grooving. Party packages include a private party room where guests can relax and take a break from the high-flying fun before chowing down on pizza and refreshments.

Age: all

8190 Miralani Dr.
Online: rockinjump.com

San Diego Air and Space Museum

Shoot for the moon at this birthday spot that budding astronauts will love. Each party blasts off with a super scientific activity like Balsa Gliders, Alka-Seltzer rockets, or foam Rovers. Then, guests get a personalized museum tour with lots of good facts about the airplanes and rockets. You supply the food and they will take care of the rest! However, kids will leave with a goody bag perfect for the whole flight crew.

Age: 5-12

2001 Pan American Plaza
Online: sandiegoairandspace.org

 

Related: 7 Unique Birthday Ideas For Your Party Animal

Pump It Up

A bounce-it-out party that's also private, clean, and safe sounds great to us! First, there are plenty of party themes to choose from including a glow theme, pirate quest, and even superhero training. Kids bounce 'til their heart's content then head into a private party room for snacks, pizza, drinks, balloons, and party bags. Also, the birthday boy or girl gets to sit on a giant throne to unwrap presents. The Pump It Up crew sets up, cleans up, and packs the presents up, too.

Age: kids over 34 inches tall

12760 Danielson Ct. St. J
Poway, CA
Online: pumpitupparty.com

Helen Woodward Animal Center

Hands down, this is the best place to have an animal birthday paw-ty because the nonprofit expertly pairs education with the festivities. Further, they include themed party decorations, set-up, hosting and clean up. Plus, you'll get an animal encounter, face painting, and private backroom tour. We love the Bow-Wow Party for little ones and the Jammin' Jungle theme for bigger kids who crave a reptile encounter.

Age: all

6461 El Apajo Rd.
Rancho Santa Fe, CA
Online: animalcenter.org

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Kid Ventures

Capture the imagination at this birthday hot spot. With creative dress-up from princess to fire person and great attention to detail, party planning is easy and fun. So, bring your ideas and let them get to it. Even more, kids love to slide down the castle, climb the pirate ship and ride the bright red fire truck. Plus, at party time, bubbles and a giant parachute keep the kiddos entertained.

Age: 1+

Multiple locations
Online: kidventurespreschool.com

San Diego Botanic Garden

This oasis hosts a blooming marvelous birthday fete for the littles. Set-up in a private picnic spot and explore the Seeds of Wonder garden. Budding green thumbs can pot plants, easel paint, create bubbles and paint rocks. Plus, there's also a train mountain, dino dig, and an epic treehouse to play in. Here you'll find that nature is nurture.

Age: 1-5

230 Quail Gardens Dr.
Encinitas, CA
Online: sdbgarden.org

Related: Wheel Come to You! 12 Mobile Birthday Parties That Rock (and Roll)

Maritime Museum of San Diego

Yo ho, yo ho, a pirate party for me! All aboard the Star of India for a three-hour pirate party. Ye little mateys learn Swashbuckling 101 including the secrets of ship plundering. Even more, they raise the sail and lower the anchor. And finally, divide the gold amongst the crew. Also, you bring the cake and goody bags—which little pirates find on the treasure hunt.

Age: 5+

1492 North Harbor Dr.
Online: sdmaritime.org

Additional reporting by Beth Shea

 

 

If you’re short on time but have a party to plan, these mobile party businesses are a fantastic way to get the celebration going at your house

Sure, hosting a kid’s birthday party can be a rewarding and entertaining endeavor but planning it can also eat up a lot of your time. We’ll make it a piece of cake for you with our scoop on mobile party businesses that deliver the fun right to your doorstep. Your little party animal is sure to love these mobile birthday parties, and the convenience factor can’t be beat. From science entertainers to a brick builder bonanzas, there are so many choices for great mobile kids birthday parties in San Diego.

Elite Teepees

Three teepee filled with party-goers sit on the floor awaiting a sleepover
Elite Teepees

Let Elite Teepees bring the outdoors in for your happy camper's next birthday slumber party. Teepees in an array of different themes from "unicorn magic" to "game day" are delivered to your home and beautifully set up on the day of the party. Then everything is cleared away the next day. Hand-crafted themed teepees are fully equipped with luxury mattresses and bedding, exquisite decorative accessories, and a large sprinkle of magic. The only things guests need to bring are their overnight bag and sense of adventure for a fun “glamp-in” with friends.

Cost: $90 per teepee for overnight rental, plus delivery
Online: eliteteepees.com

 

Soft PlayZone

If you’re having a fête with a bunch of littles, then this four-hour soft play zone rental will be a hit! You get a choice of play areas, the basic fun zone (8 feet by 8 feet), or the slightly bigger wow zone (8 feet by 12 feet). This local shop is courteous and on time, and the play zone is clean for the party. Also, they have a cover tent for a small extra fee to keep partygoers protected from the sun.

Cost: Fun Zone, $170 for four hours; Wow Zone, $240 for four hours; tent rental is $25
Online: softplayzone.com

Kid Ventures

Everyone loves Kid Ventures, so why not bring them to you? Their mobile party package (for up to 16 kids) includes two team members to set up activities, clean-up, and extra help to make your party perfect. Also, it includes an obstacle course and a craft station. Plus, you can add in a character or other options. Little birthday goers leave with a candy medal and coloring pictures, and the birthday half-pint gets a free pass to Kid Ventures.

Cost: $495 for 1.5 hours
Online: indoorplaysandiego.com

Related: The Best Places to Host Your Kid’s Birthday Bash

Snapology

Two boys build together during a Snapology mobile birthday party
Snapology

If you have a little brick builder in your house then invite over Snapology to set up a pint-sized build. They provide a one-hour party time and build activity for up to 15 party guests. Your little birthday wonder will get to choose the theme and get a free t-shirt, too.

Cost: $250 for 15 party guests
Online: sandiego.snapology.com

ArtBeat

Two rows of children stand painting at easels during a mobile art birthday party
ArtBeat

Let kids express their inner Picasso at a mobile art party tailored to your birthday sweetie. Not only will a seasoned instructor show up for a one-hour or 90-minute class but all art materials are provided, including table covers and aprons. Your little artist can pick the painting for the party on their website. Choose a classic painting party or go all out with a themed art party package such as an Enchanted Oceans Party, Magical Fairy Party, or Sweets & Treats Party. And if you have a Harry Potter fan, one of their Potion Parties might be the way to go instead.


Cost: Parties start at $135 for up to seven kiddos
Online: artbeatsandiego.com/mobile-art-parties2.html

Game Truck

Got a game-crazed clan? Then these wheels are for you. Your little video guru can let loose on the latest (and greatest) tech consoles from Xbox One, PlayStation 4, and Nintendo Switch with a choice of more than 30 age-appropriate games. It's easy on you—there's a game coach available to answer questions and to make sure the party runs smoothly.

Cost: $449 for a two hour party
Online: gametruckparty.com

FunFlicks

A giant backyard movie screen? We know who would be the cool parents on the block! The event crew will set up, run, and take down the giant inflatable movie screen and outdoor sound system. Best part? You do nothing. They can even bring popcorn. Your birthday kiddo will be the talk of the town.

Cost: Packages start at $379
Online: funflicks.com

Royal Entertainers

Looking for an Ice Queen or Galactic Knight to host your kid's birthday bash? From face painting and dance lessons to singing and a cake ceremony, your birthday princess leaves with a crown. From Knight Academy and light sword training to a magic show and graduation, your birthday buddy leaves a knight. Let the royals host your next fest.


Cost: $225 for 1.5 hours
Online: royalentertainers.com

Artful Chefs

The best part (for you!) about this cooking party is that you do nothing: Junior Chef parties cook up a good mobile birthday for your little one and all of their friends. The party lasts two-and-a-half hours during which children prepare the main course, drink and (of course!) dessert, then sit down and enjoy their creations. Your birthday kiddo picks the party theme - and there are plenty of choices to be had - from meatball madness, pizza, French crepes to an after-slumber party brunch!  

Cost: $500 for up to eight children
Online: artfulchef.com

Tumble Gym Bus

Children play on the tumble gym bus at a mobile birthday party
Tumble Gym Bus

If your little birthday wonder prefers a high-energy party that will have them bouncing off the walls, then this bus at your house makes party planning easy peasy. There are two instructors that lead the birthday crew in song, dance, games, and tumbling exercises. Plus, there's a cool yellow slide out the back of the bus. They can even do the goody bags!

Cost: Packages start at $325
Onlinegigsalad.com/tumblegymbus

Mad Science

Bubbling potions, dry ice, and eggs that fit into incredibly small spaces: Your birthday scientist will be amazed at this show. Add on more science to amp up the party: rocket blasting, shaved ice rainbow potion, and slime-making. If your guests' age range varies, this high-energy abracadabra works well. All party-goers receive a gift of slime, superball, or silly putty.

Cost: Parties start at $315 plus $5 per child
Online: madscience.org/sandiego

Related: Animal Birthday Parties That’ll Make Kids Go Wild!

 

The Children's Wood Shop Bus

Do you want to forgo screen time for hands-on fun? Then the wood shop bus is for you and your birthday crew. Budding carpenters don the safety goggles and get to hammer, saw, and drill their way to a new wooden toy. Kids love working where they get to use real tools, just like the grown-ups. There's a knowledgeable instructor on hand to teach the kids about wood shop rules and how to use the tools. Birthday parties are available from October through June and are best for children ages 7 to 11.

Cost: $300 to $400 (depending on location)
Online: woodshopbus.com

Super Star Gymnastics

Does your little birthday cutie tumble around the house like Simone Biles? Well, we've got the 4-1-1 on the best gym party. They'll bring the mat, parachute, the trampoline (it's small), two teachers, and let the cartwheels and somersaults begin. Experienced and personable owner Katie P. knows how to have a party and host it too! You get to take lots of pics.

Cost: Starts at $200 per hour
Online: superstargymnastics.com

Train Party Express

All aboard, transportation-crazed kids! Schedule a trackless train ride or race cars that little riders can buckle up and pretend to steer (up to 18 passengers). Attendants dressed as conductors or NASCAR drivers will drive your parade on grass, gravel, or concrete. Complete the package with add-on face painting, foam, or snow cone machines. This mobile party provider serves part of San Diego County.

Cost: Packages start at $250 per hour
Online: trainpartyexpress.com

Nightingale Music School

Gather your friends and make music together. From puppets and parachutes to bubbles and a giant drum, this 45-minute come-to-you party is great kid fun. Sing a song, shake the maracas, or dance along with up to 14 guests. These parties are perfect for infants, tots, and toddlers.

Cost: Packages start at $195
Online: nightengalemusicschool.com

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Girlygirl Galas

If your kid's motto is something like keep calm and spa on, why not have a spa party catered to your house? From sweet-smelling lotions and fuzzy bathrobes to pink polish and soothing cucumber eye pads, sit back and let these gals plan a spa fest. The best part? You can relax too.

Cost: Spa packages start at $360
Online: girlygirlgalas.com

San Diego Children's Discovery Museum

The museum is not currently booking mobile birthday parties but plans to restart soon—check the website for updates.

What could be better than a museum party rolling right up to your door? San Diego Children's Discovery Museum's mobile birthday parties bring all the fun of the museum to your home. Their party package includes an arts and crafts activity as well as three mobile exhibits for partygoers to explore: a custom-built ball wall, an imagination playground, and a wind tunnel. All of the exhibits engage kids in educational and entertaining hands-on activities that teach them about topics ranging from architecture to aerodynamics. Also included are two birthday party assistants and a special gift for the kid of honor.

Cost: $495 for up to 40 kids (10 percent off for museum members)
Online: sdcdm.org/mobile-birthday-party

A child’s birthday party can be a magical experience and create memories that last a lifetime

While most families want to include their children in the typical birthday traditions of balloons, singing and gathering, for children living with sensory disorders, birthday parties are likely to create some sensory overload. The singing, dancing, laughing, and shouting can put them into overdrive and turn, what should be an enjoyable experience, into a stressful one. But this doesn’t mean kids should miss out on birthday parties—they just need to be approached a little differently. Here’s how to plan a sensory-inclusive birthday party.

Plan Sensory-Friendly Activities

The great news is that the team at Blue Sprig Pediatrics created a wonderful list of sensory-inclusive birthday ideas that are as much fun for all children as they are accommodating for children with autism. Activity ideas include:

  • Sensory-Friendly Slime: Playing with slime is not only an enjoyable activity but helps children develop their fine-motor skills. It can also be a relaxing activity for kids, especially those with sensory disorders.
  • Sensory-Themed Bins: These are plastic tubs or containers filled with some material to help stimulate the senses. While they activate the senses, these bins provide a calming activity and present opportunities for learning and exploring.
  • Birthday-Party Playdough: Playdough is fun just about any time and is another great activity to infuse into a birthday party as a creative and relaxing mode of play.

In addition to activities, consider environmental modifications to help prevent children from feeling overwhelmed, such as a venue with limited capacity, a quiet room, dimmed lighting or music that is not too loud.

Every child is different and that is true for neurodiverse kids as well. If you are inviting an autistic child as a guest, don’t be afraid to ask their parent how to make the celebration as inclusive as possible.

Creating Visual Transitions Are Key

After selecting sensory-friendly activities in a soothing environment, concentrate on how children will transition from one activity to the next. Displaying a visual schedule of the party’s events on the wall and verbally reviewing the itinerary with kids will help every party-goer feel comfortable with the day’s events. Another idea is to announce the end of the activity with some advanced notice. For example, you can tell children, “In 10 minutes, we will finish arts and crafts and move to cupcakes.” This helps children visualize what will happen and when all particularly helpful for children with autism.

Don’t Be Afraid to Ask For Extra Help

If you are hosting an event for your own child, ask friends and other family members to help at the party. Someone familiar with neurodiversity can help set up activities and assist with meltdowns if necessary. You can also seek consultation with your therapy team beforehand to discuss what would work best for your child.

Prepare for Meltdowns

Since birthday parties present opportunities for sensory overload, there is a possibility that your child will experience a meltdown. At Blue Sprig Pediatrics, we help parents identify signs that a child is beginning to feel overwhelmed and empower them to utilize strategies that may help avoid meltdowns. For example, parents can work together with their child to create a “break plan” which may include identifying a quiet room, using a weighted blanket, engaging with sensory-friendly toys, or taking a moment to enjoy favorite foods.

Eliminate Triggers

For example, if your child is likely to have a meltdown if a balloon pops, don’t have balloons at the party, or rather, have larger helium balloons that are less likely to pop. Or if your child does not like people singing “Happy Birthday,” set aside time to practice what that will be like ahead of time or skip the tradition altogether.

Watching videos of birthday parties are also a great way to help your child prepare for the experience. Work on activities like responding when opening a present, involving them in a calendar countdown to party day, and reviewing pictures of people who will be at the party ahead of time.

With a little extra planning and expectation-setting, birthday parties can be enjoyable and happy experiences for all children.

 

Tiffanie Moore, MA, NCSP, BCBA, LBA
Tinybeans Voices Contributor

Tiffanie Moore, MA, NCSP, BCBA, LBA is the Associate Vice President of Clinical Services at BlueSprig. 

Even San Diegans occasionally need a break from the outdoors. So we’ve rounded up some of the best indoor spaces for your kid’s next birthday that’ll keep party guests busy and comfortable inside. These venues make the event a fantastic and memorable celebration and include themes for all interests—from dinosaurs to rocket ships and pottery painting. Read on for birthday ideas in San Diego to make your kid’s big day the best!

Not quite ready for an indoor bash? We have a story dedicated to Virtual Birthday Party Ideas for San Diego Kids

The New Children's Museum

The New Children's Museum

Spend your birthday boy or girl's special day at the coolest museum for kids downtown. Your guests get museum entry and two hours in the special party room. A dedicated party concierge will help parents throughout the party, and special activities can be added on for $25-$50. Your kiddo's crew will love all of the exhibits––especially hanging out in their super cool art installation: Whammock!––a giant rainbow hammock they can swing and climb through. Be sure to book this popular spot two weeks in advance.

Age: 1-12
Cost: $200-$1200 for up to 50 guests

200 W. Island Ave.
San Diego, CA 92101
619-233-8792
Online: thinkplaycreate.org

Corvette Diner

Let your little one rock and roll their way through a birthday celebration at the '50s style Corvette Diner, where guests are treated to serenades from the beehived servers. Themed party packages include a party space, choices from a pre-set menu, and either time in the very popular arcade, doing crafts or having a dance-off! Many add-ons are available, including a popcorn cart, cupcake buffet and balloon artist.

Age: All
Cost: $425-$525 for 15 kids additional fee for up to 30 kids

Liberty Station
2965 Historic Decatur Rd.
619-542-1476

Online: corvettediner.com

 

San Diego Children's Discovery Museum

San Diego Children's Discovery Museum

Calling all young explorers! The San Diego Children's Discovery Museum is the perfect party spot for little tykes, and it's easy to plan for the big day. They offer themed parties like Dinosaur Discovery or Little Chemists. You also get a party assistant and a parking spot on the special day. Also good to note, the museum offers mobile birthday parties, which include some of their traveling exhibits and workshops.

Click here for more info and details on setting up a grand birthday party.

Age: Kids one to ten-years-old
Cost: $295 for 20 guests; $495 for 40 guests

320 N. Broadway
Escondido, CA
760-233-7755
Online: sdcdm.org

Rockin' Jump

Take your little ones' birthday celebration to the next level by jumping the day away! Rockin' Jump is an indoor trampoline park filled with foam pits, dodgeball courts and a ninja challenge course to keep your tykes moving and grooving. Party packages include a private party room where guests can relax and take a break from the high-flying fun before chowing down on pizza and refreshments.

Age: all
Cost: $265-$505 up to 20 jumpers

8190 Miralani Drive
San Diego
858-693-5867
Online: rockinjump.com

San Diego Air and Space Museum

San Diego Air and Space Museum

Shoot for the moon at this birthday spot that budding astronauts will love. Each party blasts off with a super scientific activity like Balsa Gliders, Alka-Seltzer rockets or Rovers. Then, guests get a personalized museum tour with lots of good facts about the airplanes and rockets. You supply the food, and they will take care of the rest! Masks are currently required for all indoor guests and be sure to book two weeks in advance. 

Ages: 3-12
Cost: $425 for up to 30 guests. 40 guests max for an additional fee.

2001 Pan American Plaza
San Diego, CA
619-234-8291
Online: sandiegoairandspace.org

CeramiCafe

Petra L. via Yelp

Party-goers get to have their cake and eat it too at CeramiCafe. The best part about this venue is that you don't have to be an artist, yet you get to paint a great piece of pottery. The popular cupcake party includes a party host and cupcakes and lemonade for all guests. But, most importantly, the birthday artist enjoys creative time with friends.

Ages: Best for kids five years and older
Cost: $70 party fee, plus $18 per person with a six-person minimum and up to 15 guests.

3425 Del Mar Heights Rd.
San Diego, CA
858-259-9958
Online: ceramicafe.com

Pump It Up

Via Pump It Up

A bounce-it-out party that's also private, clean and safe sounds great to us! First, there are plenty of party themes to choose from, including a glow theme, pirate quest and even superhero training. Kids bounce to their heart's content then head into a private party room for snacks, pizza, drinks, balloons and party bags. Also, the birthday boy or girl gets to sit on a giant throne to unwrap presents. The Pump It Up crew sets up, cleans up, and packs the presents up too.

Ages: Kids over 34 inches tall
Cost: $319-$572 for up to 25 kids 

12760 Danielson Ct. St. J
Poway
858-679-5867
Online: pumpitupparty.com

––Kimberly Stahl, Nikki Walsh & Beth Shea

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Ahh, the kiddie birthday party circuit. Year after year it runs the gamut from bouncy houses to a crowded table at some entertainment center with lots of noise and people. If you’re looking for something a little different, consider having unique party entertainment come to you. Whether it’s a petting zoo or the most bubbles you’ve ever seen, this will be the year your guests remember. We’ve found our favorite mobile birthday parties in Dallas-Fort Worth, so keep reading to see them all.

Gabby Cullen

The Bubble Truck 

You’ll get one hour of the most amazing bubble fun to be had. Colored bubbles, games, and, for an extra price, unicorn bubble squirt guns! 

Find out more: bubbletruck.com

Kona Ice

Ideal for a hot summer or fall day, have the Kona Ice truck come to your bash! Kids can choose from 10 flavors and mixing is a must! 

Find out more: kona-ice.com

Oba Farms Petting Zoo

Have the farm delivered to you! They have plenty of different packages, but no matter what, you’ll get 10 animals for kids to pet and feed. 

Find out more: mobile-petting-zoo.weebly.com

Courtesy Camp Crafty

Camp Crafty 

Dallas native and owner Lilly Neubauer will bring everything you need for fun and creative crafts like name bracelets, rock painting, sunglasses or even embroidery for tweens.

Find out more: campcraftyparties.com

DFW Ice Cream 

An ice cream truck that’s just for your party? Yes, please! It doesn’t matter if you pick a cart of the classic truck, you’ll be able to treat your guests to classic ice cream bars and treats. 

Find out more: dfwicecream.com

Game Truck Party

This fun party truck is a gamer’s dream. Choose between laser lag or a video game theater that arrives right in your driveway. 

Find out more: gametruckparty.com/north-dallas, gametruckparty.com/north-tarrant-county 

Pamper Me Cute

If your kiddo wants a spa party, Pamper Me Cute is the way to go! You can choose to have a spa party or a glitz and glam party, and they even do sleepovers! 

Find out more: pampermecute.com

Sugar-free, oil-free, gluten-free, dairy-free, fruit-filled, paleowhatever your definition of a healthy birthday cake (and smash cake) fit for a first birthday, we’ve found a recipe you’ll love. Bonus: They taste good enough for grown-up guests. Read on for 18 first-birthday cake ideas that are both smashing and smashable.

Blueberry Banana Ombre Cake

Mark Eleven Photography

Feast your eyes on this! This sugar-free cake, from Jasmin Shannon's Lemons for Days blog, is a stunner both in looks and health profile. The banana cake replaces sugar with maple syrup and packs in almond meal, flax meal, and shredded coconut. The filling is a chocolate ganache made with avocado, cacao powder and almond milk and sweetened with Medjool dates. It's all topped with a blueberry cream that includes cashews and coconut milk. Check out her Instagram for more recipes and health & wellness content.

Coconut and Raspberry Smash Cake

Healthy Little Foodies

Dairy free and gluten free, this coconut and raspberry smash cake from Healthy Little Foodies replaces refined sugars and sweeteners with dates, bananas and berries. It also sneaks in chia seeds, which contain omega-3 fatty acids, antioxidants, fiber, iron and calcium. Whipping coconut cream with vanilla makes a rich, tasty frosting.

Healthy Cinnamon-Spiced Smash Cake

Oh Everything Handmade

Organic cinnamon applesauce is the secret ingredient that adds sweet spice to both the cake and frosting in Oh Everything Handmade's healthy first birthday cake. The applesauce and bananas make added sugar unnecessary. The cake also features whole wheat flour and egg whites, and the frosting base is cream cheese.

Banana Smash Cake With Blueberry Frosting

Kristine's Kitchen

Free of butter and refined sugar, this cake is made from whole wheat flour and gets its sweetness from banana, maple syrup and applesauce. And you can thank frozen blueberries and heavy whipping cream for the lovely lavender color. The cake is sized for two 4.5-inch spring form pans, but alternately could make about seven cupcakes. Get the recipe at Kristine's Kitchen

Sugar Free Carrot & Date Cake

Things for Boys

Another cake without refined sugar, this one plenty of sweetness from good-for-you ingredients such as dates, raisins and shredded coconut. Get the full scoop on this carroty concoction at Things for Boys. The recipe is perfect for a 6-inch round cake with enough left over to make a few cupcakes for immediate family.

Baby-Friendly Cake, Four Variations

Baby Led Weaning Ideas

For kids with food allergies, this cake from Baby Led Weaning Ideas has you covered. In addition to a vanilla cake recipe that's solely free of sugar, there's a variation that's also free of dairy, eggs, gluten, soy and nuts. Both can be modified to include strawberries or chocolate. And there are lots of tips and suggestions (and even a video!) to help you bake the perfect cake. 

Healthy PB & C Cake

Hello Bee

Who doesn't love peanut butter and chocolate? This healthy cake from Hello Bee is made with whole spelt flour (you can also use whole wheat) and has a yummy, fudgy flavor despite not having added refined sugar. The frosting is made from cream cheese, honey and peanut butter, and you can sub Greek yogurt for the cream cheese (the recipe tells you how).

Honey Oat Smash Cake

Yummy Toddler Food

Free of gluten and refined sugar, this cake is super moist and has a Greek yogurt-based frosting. Hearty oat flour and sweet honey come together in a flavorful cake with a fresh fruit garnish that your child might be so busy nibbling on, they'll forget they're supposed to be smashing the cake. Find the recipe at Yummy Toddler Food; Sarah Crowder from Punctuated with Food created this cake. 

Healthier Chocolate Cake

The First Year

No added sugar, butter or oil, but there is chocolate! This moist, rich cake from The First Year get its crowd-pleasing taste from chocolate chips, bananas, Greek yogurt, honey, peanut butter and cocoa powder. Party on, chocolate lovers!

Paleo First Birthday Cupcakes

Detoxinista

These paleo cupcakes are free of oil, dairy, grains and nuts but packed full of fiber-rich coconut flour. Detoxinista dreamed up these applesauce cupcakes topped with unsweetened coconut whipped cream that party guests young and old will enjoy.

Vegan First Birthday Cake

Kitchen of Eatin'

This chocolate vegan cake with vanilla frosting from Kitchen of Eatin' is free of dairy and eggs but full of flavor. Natural ingredients like unsweetened almond milk, apple cider vinegar, evaporated cane juice, coconut oil and unsweetened cocoa powder make the cake tasty and rich. The frosting isn't sugar-free, but it is healthier thanks to coconut milk and coconut oil.

Fruit Tower Birthday Cake

Catherine McCord via Weelicious

Your baby will marvel over the beautiful colors in this healthy, no-bake cake alternative. Use your child's favorite fruits for a sensational, and Pinterest-ready, dessert. Catherine over at Weelicious shows you how to make this Fruit Tower Cake

Apple Spice Cake with Maple

Simple Bites

Loaded with 2 cups of chopped apples, this Apple Spice Cake has no processed sugar and is sweetened with maple syrup and brown rice syrup. To create the gorgeous ombre sugar-free frosting, color your cream cheese frosting with varying amounts of beets and strawberry puree. 

Cheerios Cake

Posh in Progress

If cake decorating isn't your specialty, look no further than a Cheerios box for a fun decor idea your child will love. The whole-grain oats cereal has much less sugar then traditional candy toppings, and it lends a whimsical touch to your cake. Try this yummy Sugar Free Cake with cream cheese frosting from Stacey at the blog Posh in Progress. Then open a box of Cheerios and get creative!

Cashew Cream Frosting Cake

Vintage Mixer

Tickle your tot's sweet tooth with this low-sugar carrot cake with cashew cream frosting from Becky at the Vintage Mixer. The tasty frosting is made by blending raw cashews, coconut oil, honey and vanilla and is perfect for smearing all over your happy baby's face.

Blueberry Velvet Cake

I Heart Chocolate Milk

Blueberry muffins meet birthday cake! If your child is a blueberry fan, make this beautiful Blueberry Velvet Cake with cream cheese frosting, courtesy of Tanya at I Heart Chocolate Milk. Use a sugar substitute to make a sugar-free version of this recipe. And if you don't want to use artificial coloring, add a little blueberry puree to your cake batter or choose an all-natural food coloring.

Banana Cake with Greek Yogurt Frosting

Hello Bee

Familiar flavors create a cake your child will love to nibble while smashing. This banana cake from Sarah at Hello Bee combines bananas with maple syrup and tops them with a sugar-free Greek yogurt frosting sweetened with honey. Color your yogurt frosting with a fruit puree of your choice.

Gluten-Free, Dairy-Free Vanilla Pound Cake

Natural Sweet Recipes

Pound cake is the perfect choice for your smash cake (get it?). This Vanilla Pound Cake from Naturally Sweet Recipes is free of gluten and dairy but full of vanilla, protein and healthy fats. The ombre frosting is colored pink with strawberries. This recipe makes enough for a smash cake plus a larger cake for grown-ups.

Note: Babies under age one shouldn’t consume honey. So if you choose a recipe that uses honey, don’t serve it to younger guests. 

It will get messy, but that makes for the best photos! Make sure to capture all the first birthday moments—and share them with your family and friends near and far—with the Tinybeans app. The secure platform puts parents in total control of who sees and interacts with photos and videos of their kids.