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9 Portland Holiday Happenings That Are Totally Worth It

by Laura Wheatman Hill

With so many Portland Christmas events to choose from it’s hard to know where to start. That’s where we come in

The holidays can be a magical time for families in Portland. Between the many city holiday displays that light up the night to the festive ice rink skating rinks that add merriment to the season, there’s a reason it’s known as the most wonderful time of the year. Yet, it can also be a busy and expensive time. After tallying up all the various activities families can do in town, you might be wondering which ones are actually worth it. That’s why we’re breaking down the the ins and outs of Portland Christmas events that not only make the season bright, but are worth the time and money, too. So sit down and pour yourself a cup of hot cocoa, it’s time to get planning.

You won’t be disappointed by these Christmas events, Portland families

a lighted purple hippo greets cars driving through ZooLights at a Portland Christmas events
courtesy Oregon Zoo

1. ZooLights: Drive-Thru

One of the quintessential Portland holiday events, ZooLights is always a hit with families. Don't get us wrong, the walk-through version of ZooLights is really fun. But it can be very expensive for non-members. A family of four with kids over the age of two can expect to spend $86 on admission to ZooLights, before snacks and parking. However, one car for ZooLights Drive-Thru is $65. If you have a minivan or SUV, you can probably combine your family with your best friend’s and make this even more cost-effective and fun for everyone. Bring covered mugs of cocoa from home and play carols as you drive through this dazzling light display that tops our list of worthwhile Christmas activities in Portland.

Good to Know: Families must reserve tickets ahead of time, and dates are limited. 

Dates: Nov. 23, 2022-Jan. 5, 2023 (Closed Dec. 25)
Cost: $65 & up

Oregon Zoo
4001 S.W. Canyon Rd.
Portland
Online: oregonzoo.org

2. Tinseltown Trolley

Lake Oswego Parks and Recreation has put together an adorable holiday trolley, the Tinseltown Trolley to get people in the holiday spirit. If you've got a tot, this is one of the best Portland Christmas events around. The train takes kids on a 45-minute ride that includes games, sweets, and a very special guest (we think you can guess who). If your kid is a Daniel Tiger fan (and who doesn't love Daniel and trolley?), or you don’t want to do the big steam trains in town, this is a more approachable option. There are quite a few departure times throughout the day, and tickets are required ahead of time, so grab yours now.

Dates: Dec 9-11, 2022
Cost: $20/adult; $17/kid

Willamette Shore Trolley
311 N. State St.
Lake Oswego, OR
Online: ci.oswego.or.us

Related: Electric Avenues: Holiday Light Displays That Really Shine

3. A Nutcracker Tea

When it comes to Portland holiday activities, a trip to the see The Nutcracker is usually top of mind for families. If your child is a bit too antsy for the full Nutcracker production, The Nutcracker Tea is a good choice. And the prices are part of what make it great for families. Northwest Dance Theatre puts on an abridged, family-friendly version of the Tchokovsky ballet that everyone wants to see during the holidays. This Portland tradition is also a local favorite and does usually sell out, so grab tickets sooner rather than later. 

Dates: Dec. 10, 11, 16-18, 2022
Cost: $18-$35/person

Portland Community College, Sylvania Campus
Performing Arts Center
1200 S.W. 49th Ave.
Portland
Online: nwdt.org

4. Peacock Lane

After a COVID-hiatus, the festive street light display is back this year. This Southeast Portland neighborhood, filled with adorable Tudor-style houses, decorates their homes with lights and decorations and invites the public to wander the sidewalks or drive (slowly) down the street to marvel at the displays. There is sometimes free cocoa and cider to keep you warm on those rainy nights. Lights are scheduled to be on from 6 p.m.-11 p.m. Donations are accepted.

Insider Tip: If you want to wander through the street without worry about cars, go on one of the car-free nights, December 15-17.

Dates: Dec. 15-31, 2022
Cost: Free

Online: peacocklane.org

Related: Electric Avenues: Holiday Light Displays That Really Shine

a group of people aboard the Portland Spirit wave on the front of the ship during the Cinnamon bear breakfast, a portland christmas event everyone loves
portlandspirit.com

5. Cinnamon Bear Breakfast

After pausing for the pandemic, this Portland Christmas event is back in full force. Take a two hour cruise on the Portland Spirit and enjoy a plated breakfast and a show which includes adventures in Maybeland with the Cinnamon Bear and his friends. This musical adventure is the most extravagant of the choices on this list, but it is also the most uniquely Portland holiday event around and that makes it special for families. It's something you've got to experience at least once.

Dates: Nov. 26-27 & Dec. 4, 10-11, 17-18, 22-24 & 26-27, 2022
Cost: $64/adult; $48/kid

Salmon Springs Dock
1010 S.W. Naito Pkwy.
Portland
Online: portlandspirit.com

6. The Grotto Christmas Festival of Lights

Less expensive than some attractions in town, The Grotto, a Catholic outdoor shrine and sanctuary, is an impressive and beautiful property in Northeast Portland that puts on an expansive Christmas celebration each year. Visit with the kids to hear choir concerts and carolers, see puppet shows, and walk-through light displays that are truly inspiring. There are food vendors and warm beverages available for purchase at this Portland Christmas event. 

Insider Tip: Add even more value to the experience when you purchase tickets for online value night or at-the-door value night.

Dates: Nov. 25-Dec. 30, 2022 (Closed Dec. 25)
Cost: $14-$18/adult; $6-$8/kid, 3-11; Free, kids 2 & under

N.E. 85th & Sandy Blvd.
Portland
Online: thegrotto.org

7. The Holiday Express

If you have a train-obsessed kid, this is The One to take them to this holiday season. Ride in a real steam locomotive along the scenic Willamette River during your journey. Kids can enjoy cozy snacks, and a visit from Santa and his elves is what really puts this rail ride on the map. These 45-minute train rides offer a chance to see wildlife during the day or the train all lit up at dusk. Another added perk? While many holiday trains are out of town, this one is right out of our own Southeast Portland. Remember to get your tickets in advance (it's required). The event usually sells out, so if this one tops your Little's list, get on it soon. 

Dates: Nov. 25-Dec. 18, 2022
Cost: $92/family of four

Oregon Rail Heritage Center
2250 S.E. Water Ave.
Portland
Online: orhf.org

8. Portland Christmas Ships

This tradition is 68 years old this year and is a stunning and free attraction for your light-loving kids. Various ships adorn themselves with lights and parade down the Willamette to the delight of onlookers during the holiday season. Make a night of it—bundle up and bring cocoa to snuggle up with as you watch these impressive vessels. Or make a restaurant reservation along the route if you want to make the night extra special. Just know these spots fill up fast.

Dates: Dec. 2-21, 2022
Cost: Free

Online: christmasships.org

9. Winter Wonderland Portland

Otherwise known as the "PDX Raceway Drive Through Light Display,” this de-light-ful experience is the largest around. Featuring more than 250 different light set pieces it hits all the holiday notes your kids love.  Drive through the racetrack at the Portland International Raceway (slowly) and see a huge light display. Play your own festive music as you enjoy the fun lights from the comfort of your vehicle. Like ZooLights, you are only limited by the size of your car, so feel free to combine with friends if your vehicle can accommodate more than your crew. Don't forget the hot cocoa.

Insider Tip: There are two nights in particular that offer extra fun for families. November 28 is Bike the Lights, a time to decorate your bikes and ride through the display without cars to worry about. The following night is Lights and Leashes where families can—you guessed it—bring their dogs to walk the lights with them. Festive dog outfits are highly encouraged.

Dates: Nov. 25-Dec. 31, 2022
Cost: $48/car

Portland International Raceway
1940 N. Victory Blvd.
Portland
Online: winterwonderlandportland.com

Related: Your Insider's Guide to Portland's Christmas Ships Is Here

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Top 10 Adventures to Have in Seattle with Your Family

by Amber Guetebier
Partner Content

From an eclectic art scene to world-renowned outdoor adventures, Seattle, Washington makes an incredible destination for all kinds of families. It offers something for everyone, including treats, cultural heritage and stunning beaches. It is the perfect place to plan a family getaway, for a weekend, a week, or longer!

Unsure of where to wind down and relax amidst your daily activities? Marriott Bonvoy’s portfolio of hotels in the Seattle area makes for a comfortable pit stop and are perfectly located near the city’s best restaurants and attractions.

To help you map out your next vacation, here are our favorite things to do in the region.

1. Discover Unique Cultural Heritage 

Visit the Suquamish Museum to learn about the first inhabitants of "the place of the clear salt." Discover the history, traditional ways, and contemporary life of the Suquamish. The Northwest African American Museum celebrates the past, present, and future of Black history. Look for regular interactive storytimes. Learn about the Asian American, Native Hawaiian, and Pacific Islander heritage of the Seattle area at the Wing Luke Museum of the Asian Pacific American.

 

2. Seek Out Secret Gardens 

Discover a hidden waterfall at the twenty-acre South Seattle Kubota Garden. For a quiet place to relax, visit the Chinese Garden on the campus of South Seattle Community College.

3. Explore Dynamic Art

Explore art at the Asian Art Museum, and the Seattle Art Museum. Don’t miss the Seattle Art Museum’s outdoor Olympic Sculpture Park. The Frye Art Museum is a hidden gem for art lovers. And no visit to Seattle is complete without a wander through the Chihuly Garden and Glass, located right near the famed Seattle Space Needle. 

4. Chocolate (Need We Say More?)

Take a chocolate factory tour! Both the Seattle Chocolate Factory and Theo Chocolate offer tours to the public. Theo’s even has a story time for kids. 

5. Go Chasing Waterfalls

Climb the short-and-sweet, pet-friendly Snoqualmie Falls trail (1.5 miles) to take in one of the most iconic waterfalls in the area. If you’re up for a bit more of a hike (and maybe a swim) the 5-mile round trip hike to Cherry Creek Falls is worth every minute. 

6. Find the Best Coffee in America 

Or at least enjoy trying. You probably already know that Seattle is the hometown of Starbucks, but don't think that's the only brew in town. Seattle is littered with coffee shops, all of which were making pour-over years before the rest of the country caught on. Up on Capitol Hill, there's Espresso Vivace. Near Chinatown, you’ll discover Hood Famous Cafe and Bar, where you’ll find Filipino treats and pandan lattes, and iced calamansi espresso tonics.

7. Eat, Drink, and Be Merry

Seattle is home to hundreds of outstanding restaurants and you won’t have trouble fulfilling nearly any craving. After exploring the crafts, fruits, and flowers, eat your way through Pike Place Market. Head further afield to Plum Bistro, where vegans will find a menu catered to them. Eat your fill of fresh oysters at The Walrus and the Carpenter. For a chance to try the only Malaysian restaurant in Seattle, head to Kedai Makan (they don’t take reservations). 

 

8. Enjoy Breathtaking Views

It stands to reason you’ll head to the top of the Space Needle to snap a selfie but don’t pass up the chance to ride Seattle’s iconic Great Wheel, too. 

9. Find Outdoor Adventures & Hidden Beaches

Seattle is right on the ocean so you’ll have a blast kicking your feet in the sand at one of Seattle’s many beautiful beaches and oceanfront parks. Rollerblade, bike, or scooter along a paved trail at Alki Beach. In nearby Kirkland, you can beat the crowds and enjoy the playground at Juanita Beach, then head into the protected waterfront perfect for kayaking.

10. Visit the Animals 

Between whale watching in the Puget Sound and the Woodland Park Zoo, animal lovers everywhere will get their fix in Seattle. There’s also the Kelsey Creek Farm, an animal sanctuary run by the city of Bellevue. 

Ready, set, start planning your next trip! Look to Marriott’s vast portfolio of hotels in and around the Seattle area for lodging that’s close to all of these amazing activities.

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Fairy Tale: Where to See the Nutcracker in NYC

by Jesseca Stenson

If you’re looking for where to see The Nutcracker in NYC this holiday season, we have good news: you’ve got options. Lots of them. This classic Tchaikovsky ballet hits stages all over New York this season and whether you’re continuing a tradition or starting a new one, NYC has a production for you. Try the New York City Ballet Nutcracker at Lincoln Center, a hip-hop version, or maybe one just for little kids. Whatever you choose, get your Nutcracker tickets now—these shows sell out!

Bronx

Ballet in the Bronx: Westchester Ballet Company

This full-length presentation of the ballet promises gorgeous costumes and special effects. Presented by the Westchester Ballet Company, this performance has 100 dancers leaping and frolicking around on stage to the classic music. Be aware that all visitors 12 and over must submit vaccination proof before the event (you can upload it to the website). 

Price: $24-$49
Sat., Dec. 18 at 12:30 p.m. & 4 p.m.; Sun., Dec 19 at Noon &  4 p.m.
Lehman Center for the Performing Arts
250 Bedford Park Blvd. West
Jerome Park
Online: lehmancenter.org

Brooklyn

A Celebration of Brooklyn: The Brooklyn Nutcracker

Brooklyn Nutcracker

A re-imagined holiday classic, The Brooklyn Nutcracker fuses ballet, hip-hop and a myriad of world dance genres to create a new tradition for today’s audience. This twist on the Nutcracker classic places the story against a backdrop any Brooklynite would recognize. From Old Dutch Brooklyn to Flatbush Avenue, this version of the Nutcracker celebrates the many different cultures that make Brooklyn the wonderful melting pot that it is. 

Price: $30 and up
Sat., Dec. 11, 12:30 p.m. doors for 2 p.m. show, 5:30 p.m. doors for 7 p.m. show
Kings Theatre
1027 Flatbush Ave.
Flatbush
Online: kingstheatre.com

A Fresh Take: Hip-Hop Nutcracker

Tim Norris

This magical mash-up features the original ballet score with an electronic twist, performed by an on-stage DJ and an electric violinist, plus legendary MC rapper Kurtis "The Breaks" Blow. Dancers bring the traditional story to life in a modern setting using hip-hop choreography. Directed and choreographed by Jennifer Weber, the show features the music of Tchaikovsky with the heart and soul of hip-hop. The performance uses digital graffiti and visuals to transport audiences to the setting of modern-day New York City. The reimagined performance is a fun take on the piece, and is meant as a celebration of love, community and diversity. Catch it in Brooklyn or at Newark's NJPAC.

Price: $29 and up
Sun., Dec. 19, 12:30 p.m. doors for 2 p.m. show; 5 p.m. doors for 6:30 p.m. show
Kings Theatre
1027 Flatbush Ave.
Flatbush
Online: kingstheatre.com

Price: $29 and up
Sun., Dec. 18, 2 p.m. & 8 p.m.
NJPAC
1 Center St.
Newark, NJ
Online: njpac.org

A Puppet Extravaganza: The Steadfast Tin Soldier and Nutcracker Sweets

Kids will delight as handcrafted marionettes take to the stage in this double bill from Puppetworks. Nicolas Coppola's hand-made puppets will put on a performance of the toy story "The Steadfast Tin Soldier" by Hans Christian Andersen and "Nutcracker Sweets," set to the classic music of the Nutcracker. This show is recommended for ages two and up. 

Price: $11/adult, $10/child
Nov. 20-Dec. 30 & Jan. 2
Every Sat. & Sun. at 12:30 p.m. & 2:30 p.m.
338 6th Avenue (at 4th Street)
Park Slope
718-965-3391
Online: puppetworks.org

The Date Night Nutcracker: Nutcracker Rouge

Leave the kids at home for this one — this risqué option is for adult eyes, only! This sensational show presents a sensual take on the tale, featuring baroque-burlesque performance. Viewers will be titillated by a mix of burlesque, circus, opera and high fashion. 

Price: $85 and up
Various times and dates Nov.-Jan.
383 Troutman St.
Bushwick
Online: companyxiv.com 

Manhattan

The Classic: George Balanchine's The Nutcracker

nyc nutcracker
Paul Kolnik

This vast and vibrant show is made up of a large cast of performers, musicians, and stagehands, and is sure to astound viewers with its spectacular effects and props. Using Tchaikovsky's classic music and George Balanchine's choreography, this rendition of the Nutcracker is definitely one of the showiest. Watch in amazement as a 12-foot Christmas tree grows to 41 feet and marvel at the 85-pound, 9-foot wide figure of Mother Ginger. It's a dazzling sight to behold and a joy for any age.

Note: This year's performance is a little different: Due to COVID-19 restrictions, no children under 12 will be performing on stage. Kids are allowed in the audience, however — the show is recommended for kids age five and up, and all kids (including lap-sitters) require a ticket to enter.

Price: $60 and up
Various times and days from Nov. 26-Jan. 2
David H. Koch Theater
20 Lincoln Center Plaza
Midtown
Online: nycballet.com

A Tale of New York: Francis Patrelle's The Yorkville Nutcracker

Michelle Tabnick PR

Take a trip back in time to 1895 NYC, where you can watch this story unfold amid familiar locations. The tale begins at the Gracie Mansion, where a grand celebration features famous guests like Teddy Roosevelt. The performance then takes you through Central Park, the New York Botanical Gardens, and more. Sleigh rides, life-sized mice, and plenty of visual goodies make this one a treat at any age. This year, the Yorkville Nutcracker celebrates its 25th anniversary — come join the celebration!

Price: $69
Sat., Dec. 11, 2 p.m. & 7 p.m.; Sun., Dec. 12, 12 p.m. & 5 p.m.
Hunter College
East 68th St. between Park and Lexington Ave.
Upper East Side
212-772-4448
Online: dancespatrelle.org

The 1-hour Special: Keith Michael's "The Nutcracker"

NY Theater Ballet

Don't think your little ones can sit through an entire performance? Then Keith Michael's version might be the right option for you. Recommended for ages three and up, this performance condenses the ballet into just one hour and fills every moment with excitement and color. This version uses Tchaikovsky's original music combined with 1907-era Art Nouveau style that will surely win over the younger audience. This year's performance will take place at Brookfield Place, and will support non-profit. City Harvest. Advance registration is required, and all attendees should show up half an hour before the performance to ensure entry (though be aware that a ticket doesn't ensure a seat!). Stroller parking is available near Salvatore Ferragamo and Le District. Want a preview? You can also watch some vignettes online! 

Price: Free
Fri.-Sun., Nov. 26-28; Fri. at 7 p.m., Sat. at 1 p.m & 7 p.m., Sun. at 1 p.m.
Winter Garden at Brookfield Place
230 Vesey St.
Battery Park City
Online: bfplny.com

The Photo-op: Nutcracker Ajkun Ballet Theatre

Choreography by Rae

The Ajkun Ballet Theater performs this adaptation of the Nutcracker, where the audience will get up close and personal with the performers. Set in a cozy, intimate space, visitors can enjoy the ballet and then pose with the characters for photos! All money raised by this event will be donated to "A Ticket to Dream," a program that provides free tickets to underprivileged kids and free performances to hospitalized children. 

Price: $49
Sat. & Sun., Nov. 27 & 28, 7:30-9 p.m.
Ballet Arts Center for Dance
130 West 56th St.
Midtown
Online: eventbrite.com

Musical Selections for Tots: Mozart for Munchkins' Nutcracker and Jingles

If your little ones are too young to sit through a whole ballet, they can still enjoy the music. At this cozy concert, a small group of musicians performs selections from The Nutcracker while the audience plays along with holiday bells! It's worth noting that attendance is limited and there may be standing room only.

Price: Free
Sat., Dec. 18, 11:30 a.m.-12:15 p.m.
Hudson Yards: Level 4 in front of H&M
Between 10th & 12th Aves from West 30th to West 34th Sts
Hudson Yards
Online: mozartformunchkins.com

The Circus Mash-up: Nutcracker Cirque Ballet

What do you get when you combine the circus with the ballet? This show! Performed by The Muse students, this show features ballet dancing the circus arts. Watch as students pirouette and hang over the stage in this magical mash-up of performing arts!

Price: $25 at the door; $18 during pre-sale, free for kids under 12
Sat., Dec. 11, 2-3:30 p.m.
The Muse Brooklyn
350 Moffat St.
Bushwick
Online: eventbrite.com

Queens

The Student Production: The Nutcracker, a Magical Night

The Sunnyside Ballet Studio students have been hard at work practicing their parts for this performance, and are eager to show off their skills. Come watch and support these young dancers and their studio!

Price: $20-30
Sun., Dec. 19, 2 p.m. &  5:30 p.m.
Queens Theatre
14 United Nations Avenue South
Sunnyside
Online: eventbrite.com

For Kids Center Stage: The Nutcracker by the Joffrey Ballet School

Joffrey Ballet School

Kids love watching kids, and the Joffrey Ballet School's rendition of the Nutcracker has over 300 tiny dancers to keep little eyes peeled on the stage! The performance is put together by students attending the Joffrey Ballet School’s Childrens, Young Dancer and Trainees program.

Price: To be announced
Fri., Dec. 10-Sun., Dec. 12
Laguardia Community College
31-10 Thomson Ave.
Long Island City
954-801-6209
Online: joffreyballetschool.com

Staten Island

The Ballroom Ballet: Staten Island Nutcracker

Visit Nicotra's Ballroom at the Staten Island Hilton Garden Inn for a beautiful ballet performance by the Staten Island Ballet. This full-length performance is selling out fast (the first time slot is already gone) so act fast if you want a ticket!

Price: $85
Sun., Dec. 19, 5-8 p.m.
Hilton Garden Inn
1100 South Ave.
718-980-0500
Staten Island
Online: siballet.org

New Jersey

A New Take on the Classic: The Nutcracker by the State Ballet Theater of Ukraine

nutcracker nyc
NJPAC

Presented by the State Ballet Theater of Ukraine, this matinee performance features brand new choreography by Andrey Litvinov, and was first performed in December 2020. Watch the magic unfold as colorful toys, fairies, and other characters dance to the well-known music by Tchaikovsky. 

Price: $29 and up
Sun., Dec. 11, 3 p.m.
1 Center St.
Newark, NJ
Online: njpac.org

Online

An Online Interactive Experience: My First Nutcracker

Want to enjoy a performance of The Nutcracker from the comfort of your home? Check out the "My First Nutcracker" experience from NYC Children's Theater. This interactive streaming performance comes with a filmed video of the show, as well as bonus videos and additional activities for children. This 50-minute rendition of the tale has been adapted specifically for little kids to enjoy!

Price: $25
Online: nycchildrenstheater.org

—Yuliya Geikhman

feature image: Kings Theatre

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13 Gorgeous Gardens to Explore Now

by Allison Sutcliffe

There’s no denying Seattle is chock-full of green spaces and gorgeous views. But if you’re looking for a peaceful spot where you can picnic or let the kids roam, it doesn’t get better than our city’s botanical gardens. While you won’t find play equipment or splash pads here, you will find vibrant flowers, secret waterfalls and plenty of nooks and crannies to explore. If quiet time is what you’re craving before school starts, read on for the best places find it.

Seattle Japanese Garden

Justin C. via yelp

Located within the Washington Park Arboretum, this garden is a must-see no matter what the season. In summer, the colors are vibrant and surround visitors under blue skies. Kids will love the bridges to cross over, koi fish to spot and turtles to admire. It’s basically a wonderland of adventure for little explorers. In order to preserve the beauty of the park, picnics and pets are not allowed. You'll need timed tickets to visit Friday through Sunday and they must be purchased 24 hours in advance. Walk-in visits are welcomed on a first-come, first-served basis Tuesdays through Thursdays in the summer.

1075 Lake Washington Blvd. E.
Seattle, WA 98112
206-684-4725
Online: seattlejapanesegarden.org

Admission: $8/Adults (18-64); $4/Youth (6-17), Seniors (65+); Free for kids 5 & under
Hours: Times vary depending on the season, check their website for the specifics.

Center for Urban Horticulture

Michael P. via yelp

Home of the Miller Library (who else misses storytime there?), the Center for Urban Horticulture is a city refuge that's worth a visit if you've never been (or even if you have). It's part of the University of Washignton Botanic Gardens and also includes the Union Bay Natural Area along Lake Washington. Bring the kids to explore the 16-acre garden that includes Goodfellow Grove and the Fragrance Garden, that invites you to use your sense of smell as well as sight. Although the buildings are currently closed, families will still find plenty to do here.

3501 N.E. 41st St.
Seattle, WA 98105
Online: botanicgardens.uw.edu/center-for-urban-horticulture

Admission: Free
Hours: Daily, dawn to dusk

Carl S. English Jr. Botanical Garden

MandA R. via yelp

Located adjacent to the popular Hiram M. Chittenden Locks, this garden may be small in size, but it’s big on ambiance and green space. You’ll find English-style gardens and historical architecture. After exploring the garden, keep the fun going by checking out the nearby fish ladder and boats. We’re sure your little sidekick won’t mind at all!

3015 N.W. 54th St.
Seattle, WA 98107
206-783-7059
Online: ballardlocks.org/carl-s-english-garden

Admission: Free
Hours: Daily, 7 a.m.-9 p.m.

Kubota Garden

Vincent L. via yelp

This beauty located in South Seattle covers 20 acres and combines Japanese gardens with plants local to the Northwest. It is an impressive mix of hills, valleys, streams, ponds, bridges and plants. Kids will love seeing what's around the next corner and finding the hidden waterfall then hiking to the top (it's the perfect distance for little legs) where they can take in the view. There are no drinking fountains here, so be sure to pack drinks to keep the wee ones hydrated. Dogs are allowed as long as they are on a leash.

9817 55th Ave. S.
Seattle, WA 98118
Online: kubotagarden.org

Admission: Free
Hours: Daily, sunrise to sunset

Seattle Chinese Garden

Seattle Chinese Garden via yelp

Located on the campus of South Seattle Community College high atop a hill in West Seattle, this little-known botanic garden is a true hidden gem. After you enter through the ornate entrance, you'll feel like you've been transported to another world among the blossoming plants, stones and water features that showcase traditional Chinese garden elements. Whether you tour the grounds or just find a quiet place to sit and relax, you'll be glad you made the trip.

5640 16th Ave. S.W.
Seattle, WA 98196
Online: seattlechinesegarden.org

Admission: Free
Hours: Daily, dawn to dusk

Woodland Park Rose Garden

Con c. via yelp

You're probably familiar with Woodland Park Zoo, but do you know about the secret garden (a.k.a. Woodland Park Rose Garden) located nearby? It is full of rose bushes, hidden pathways, butterflies and birds. For inquisitive kiddos, be sure to check out the sensory garden where it’s possible to smell and touch different plants and flowers. And be sure to find the center pond and count how many water lilies you can spot.

Good to know: The ideal time to visit for the best blossoms is May-August.

750 N. 50th St.
Seattle, WA 98103
206-684-4075
Online: seattle.gov/parks/find/parks/woodland-park-rose-garden

Admission: Free
Hours: Daily, 7 a.m.-10 p.m.

Volunteer Park Conservatory

Rob L. via yelp

First built in 1912, this over 100-year-old garden complete with a glass-paned greenhouse is an awesome way to spend a day, rain or shine. You’ll see many varieties of plants including cacti, ferns and other carnivorous plants. Each plant has a brief summary beneath it, so it’s not only a cool place to hang, but also educational. Fun and learning is a win-win in our book!

Good to know: Volunteer Park Conservatory is still closed to the public, but has plans to reopen September 1, 2021. 

1400 E. Galer St.
Seattle, WA 98112
Online: volunteerparkconservatory.org

Admission: $4/Adults; $2/Youth (13-17); 12 & under Free. Admission is always free the first Thurs. & Sat. of the month

Parsons Gardens

Richie D via yelp

Few people know about this quaint garden located on Queen Anne, but it’s one definitely worth checking out when the need to become one with nature strikes. It may be small, but it is big on green foliage and beautiful flowers. Plus, you can’t beat the view of the city from the popular Kerry Park located right across the street.

650 W. Highland Dr.
Seattle, WA 98119
206-684-4075
Online: seattle.gov/parks/find/parks/parsons-gardens

Admission: Free
Hours: Daily, 6 a.m.-10 p.m.

Bellevue Botanical Garden

A. L. via yelp

A beautiful 53-acre garden located in the heart of Bellevue that has a suspension bridge? Sounds amazing, right? We couldn’t agree more, which is why we highly suggest checking out this garden full of dahlias, rhododendrons, ferns, roses and so much more. Take the Tateuchi Loop Trail and be sure to look for the troll house. Psst...for a completely different experience, check out Garden d’Lights, the garden's stunning light show that runs from the end of November until the first of January.

12001 Main St.
Bellevue, WA 98005
425-452-2750
Online: bellevuebotanical.org

Admission: Free
Hours: Daily, dawn to dusk

Point Defiance Rose Garden

Metro Parks Tacoma

If roses are one of your faves, be sure to check out this piece of heaven in Tacoma that's just down the hill from the Point Defiance Zoo & Aquarium. It boasts over an acre of rose bushes, the oldest dating back to 1895. In addition to roses, you’ll also find a wishing well and picturesque gazebos, and a six-story slide that's just across the way. Grab your cameras and plan on staying awhile!

5400 N. Pearl St.
Tacoma, WA 98407
Online: metroparkstacoma.org/point-defiance-rose-garden

Admission: Free
Hours: Daily, sunrise to sunset

Krukeberg Botanic Garden

Carolyn Z. via Yelp

This Shoreline garden, set in a wooded area over 4 acres, will make you feel as though you are in the mountains rather than the city. With over 2,000 species to see and learn about, you’ll most likely need to visit again and again to cover everything. Pack your hiking shoes and get ready to learn about native Northwest plants and exotic plant species not common to our area. Psst...check their website to learn about fun events suitable for the whole family.

20312 15th Ave. N.W.
Shoreline, WA 98177
206-546-1281
Online: kruckeberg.org

Admission: Free
Hours: Fri.-Sun., 10 a.m.-5 p.m. (Mar. through Oct.); Fri.-Sun., 10 a.m.-3 p.m. (Nov. through Feb.)

Highline SeaTac Botanical Garden

J. W. via yelp

This hidden gem located one mile north of the SeaTac Airport might not get a lot of attention, but it is one of the top botanical gardens around. A few of the highlights are Elda Behm’s Paradise Garden and the Seike Japanese Garden. Psst... dogs are allowed here, so bring that pandemic pooch along (remember your leash, please).

13735 24th Ave. S.
Seattle, WA 98168
Online: highlinegarden.org

Admission: Free
Hours: Daily, dawn to dusk

Rhododendron Species Botanical Garden

Rhododendron Species Botanical Garden via yelp

This Federal Way attraction is one of the largest rhododendron gardens in the world that showcases over 700 of the 1,000 species. In addition to rhodies, you’ll find azaleas, a bonsai garden, an iris field, a fern garden, a conservatory and blue poppies. Bring a pair of good walking shoes and get ready to do some good ol' plant learning.

Good to Know: Peak bloom time for the rhododendrons is mid-March through mid-May.

2525 S. 336th St.
Federal Way, WA 98003
Online: rhodygarden.org/cms

Admission: $8/Adults; $5/Seniors and Students with an I.D.; Free for kids 12  & under and military personnel
Hours: Tues.-Sun., 10 a.m.-4 p.m.; Closed Mon.

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Road Trip Santa Rosa: Where to Eat, Stay & Play

by Kate Loweth

In the heart of Sonoma County sits a colorful community full of world-class breweries, picturesque wineries, farm-to-table goodness and the true artisan spirit: Santa Rosa. Santa Rosa hits everything on your family’s checklist: adventure, nature, relaxation and the promise of full, happy bellies. So pack the car, load the kiddos and blast your playlist—there’s tons to explore in this wine country sweet spot.

Stay

Kate Loweth

Flamingo Resort
This family-friendly hotel just completed some major renovations and it's the mid-century modern resort of your dreams from the minute you walk into the gorgeous lobby. Families will love the deluxe family king room that has a king bed for parents and a bunk bed in a separate room (with a door that closes! Hooray!). A mini fridge will keep your beverages chilled and the room's electric kettle is perfect for morning tea or hot cocoa.

For breakfast, Wild Bird serves up breakfast sandwiches and gorgeous yogurt parfaits that will satisfy even the pickiest eaters. For lunch, you'll definitely want to snag some lounge chairs and order up a crispy chicken sandwich and a frozen beverage for some poolside dining while the kids swim. In the evening, the onsite restaurant morphs into the upscale Lazeaway Club where tropical prints are preferred and the island vibes are fierce. Order up the scallion pancakes to start and the seasonal curry for your main. Kids will love the smashburger, we guarantee it. 

Spa facilities are available onsite so definitely book your massage to take full advantage. You can also check out the yoga classes and other wellness programs offered at the health club. 

2777 4th St.
Santa Rosa, CA
Online: flamingoresort.com

Editor's note: This visit was paid for by the Flamingo Resort but all opinions belong to the author. 

photo: The Sandman Santa Rosa

The Sandman Santa Rosa
Right off of 101, The Sandman's Santa Rosa location is super convenient for families visiting wine country. The welcoming staff and chill mid-century modern decor will make you feel relaxed the minute you arrive. Families will especially love the family suite—with a king bed and a twin-over-full bunk bed everyone is able to spread out. Spend your days lounging by the heated pool where you can purchase snacks, ice cream and their homemade Froze (for the parents) at the Pool House & Bar. Summers at The Sandman bring their food truck nights and live music by the pool.

3421 Cleveland Ave.
Santa Rosa, CA
Online: sandmansantarosa.com

Hyatt Regency Sonoma
This modern hotel is the perfect home base right in the heart of downtown Santa Rosa. It's a quick twenty minutes away from over four hundred wineries (you heard us!) and in walking distance to endless good eats downtown, the Santa Rosa Plaza shopping center, and Historic Railroad Square. When you're walking through downtown, see how many Peanuts characters the kids can spot.

170 Railroad Street
Santa Rosa, CA
Online: hyattregencysonoma.com

Play

Kate Loweth

Epicenter Sports and Entertainment Complex
This state-of-the-art fun and fitness center features a trampoline park, an arcade, bowling alley, an indoor soccer field, laser tag, dining and more. Put this on your list in case you encounter a rainy or super-hot day on your wine country weekend.

3215 Coffey Lane
Santa Rosa, CA
Online: visitepicenter.com

Charles M. Schulz Museum and Snoopy's Home Ice
Kids of all ages will enjoy learning about long-time Santa Rosa resident and Peanuts creator Charles M. Schulz at this museum with interactive exhibits, animated Peanuts specials, original comic strips and more. Then head next door to the ice rink that Schulz had built in 1969 for some family skate time and snacks at the Warm Puppy Cafe.

2301 Hardies Lane
Santa Rosa, CA
Online: schulzmuseum.org and snoopyshomeice.com

Pacific Coast Air Museum
History comes to life here through vintage aircraft displays and on selected weekends, little pilots can climb right aboard some of the planes. Hot Dog Thursdays (the first Thursday of each month from April through October) are fun and popular days, as are events like the Wings Over Wine Country airshow. Open Tuesdays, Thursdays, Saturdays and Sundays from 10 a.m.-4 p.m.; youth 6 – 17 enter for $5; kids 6 and under are free.

One Air Museum Way
Santa Rosa, CA
Online: pacificcoastmuseum.com

Santa Rosa Junior College Planetarium
The night sky comes alive under a dome that’s 40 feet in diameter and 27 feet high—one of the largest space science facilities in the California Community College System. During the Fall and Spring semesters, the planetarium’s public shows are held on Fridays and Saturdays at 7 p.m. and Sundays at 1:30 p.m. (Note that show content is not recommended for very young children—sorry, toddlers!)

1501 Mendocino Ave.
Santa Rosa, CA
Online: santarosa.edu

Safari West

Safari West
No need to travel for an amazing Serengeti experience when it exists right in the middle of wine country! This enormous 400-acre park is home to 900 exotic birds and mammals that freely roam the hills and once you're immersed it feels like a true getaway. Lots of exploring options to get up close and personal with the animals including a jeep tour, easy walking tours and even overnight luxury glamping.

3115 Porter Creek Road
Santa Rosa, CA
Online: safariwest.com

Children's Museum of Sonoma County
This lively museum has become a the resident go-to for easy, hands-on discovery. It's especially fun for younger kids up to age 10 with the creative exhibits, an awesome outdoor play area with a tiny creek for where minnows swim, and TOTopia, a sensory play area designed for active crawlers and curious toddlers.

1835 W Steele Lane
Santa Rosa, CA
Online: cmosc.org

Luther Burbank Home & Gardens
If your older ones are looking for biography report material this one-acre city park is the perfect inspiration, housing former home, gardens and greenhouse of celebrated 19th century American horticulturalist, Luther Burbank. The gardens are open daily from 8 a.m. until dusk and public tour season runs from April through October. It's a gorgeous place to walk, wander, relax and learn.

204 Santa Rosa Ave.
Santa Rosa, CA
Online: lutherburbank.org

Howarth Park
The possibilities here are plentiful: hiking and jogging trails, mini train rides, pony rides, a carousel, an animal farm and a huge lake for boating and fishing. Pack a picnic for your adventurous family and you're good to go.

630 Summerfield Road
Santa Rosa, CA
Online: howarthpark.com

Spring Lake Environmental Discovery Center
Sonoma County’s ecosystems are on display at this ultimate natural history museum, where elementary school-aged kids explore a multi-sensory experience by touching, crawling, climbing, and playing their way through the center. 

393 Violetti Road
Santa Rosa, CA
Online: springlakediscovery.com

Taste

Belden Barns Farmstead & Winery

Belden Barns Farmstead & Winery
While Mom and Dad taste wines at Belden Barns Farmstead & Winery above Santa Rosa in central Sonoma County, the kids can borrow the winery’s scavenger-hunt-style “adventure” backpacks and wander the 55-acre property in search of flora, fauna, and random or whimsical items. The backpacks are filled with field guides to local birds or insects, magnifying glasses, sketchpads, crayons, and a checklist of things to find. The kids are encouraged to check off as many items as possible, searching for things like an acorn, an owl pellet, a feather, something heart-shaped, or a piece of trash. The goal is to keep kids busy and engaged while their parents taste wine. Wine tasting by appointment only.

5561 Sonoma Mountain Road
Santa Rosa, CA
Online: beldenbarns.com

Matanzas Creek Winery
Plan your visit to this Santa Rosa gem when the lavender is in bloom. The calming scent takes over the property and you will want to spend the day sipping sauvignon blanc as the kids play cornhole under the massive oak trees. Swing by the lavender market if you want to bring home some lavender-scented bath products or even a bunch of lavender grill sticks for your next barbecue.

6097 Bennett Valley Rd.
Santa Rosa, CA
Online: matanzascreek.com

Nosh

Kate Loweth

Bird & the Bottle
You'll love the shared plates at this relaxed spot that's just down the street from the Flamingo Resort. Definitely order up the fried chicken to share and the mini burgers for the kids. Adventurous eaters will love the crispy skin salmon wings and the everything greens. Be sure to save room for the desserts; they are plenty big enough to share (but you'll want your own). 

1055 4th St. 
Santa Rosa, CA
Online: birdandthebottle.com

Dierk's Parkside Cafe
On first glance this no-nonsense, roadside diner looks pretty unassuming but the crowds, happy faces and tastiest dishes tell another story. Locals swear by their breakfast menu and the laid back staff and typically boisterous dining area makes it an easy place to have the kids in tow. Don't forget to check out whatever baked goods are hanging around on the glass stands by the register.

404 Santa Rosa Ave.
Santa Rosa, CA
Online: dierksparksidecafe.com

Third Street Aleworks
This is a local hub pub to its core, welcoming everyone from families to beer buffs to pet owners (there's a special dog menu and a pet-friendly patio!). Come for the amazing craft beer and stay for the cool atmosphere. If you're opting for dessert, the giant root beer floats are bonafide crowd pleasers.

610 3rd St.
Santa Rosa, CA
Online: thirdstreetaleworks.com

—Kate Loweth & Mae Respicio

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The #1 Safety Tip All Parents Should Know

By Ken Swearengen

As a first responder, I’ve come across my fair share of heartbreaking scenes: people losing homes to fires, teenage suicides, messy car accidents, and elderly patients who have had to go to the hospital alone because of COVID restrictions. As a father I count myself lucky I haven’t had to come across any pediatric patients yet, but I’m sure it’s only a matter of time.

As an Emergency Medical Technician in training, we learn to prepare for the worst, and that includes treating children whose lives are in danger. So when any of my friends ask for first time parenting advice, I always tell them the same thing:

The best thing you can do as a new parent is to take an infant and child first aid and CPR course.

My wife and I took one offered by the local community college once before my daughter was born and again right before my son was born. We were fortunate enough with my daughter to never need the skills that we learned, but my son was another story.

As a tactile child, he very much liked to explore his world by putting everything and anything in his mouth. He’s also one of those kids who likes to chipmunk food in their cheeks while they play.

First, it was a piece of leaf. Then it was part of a cracker, a chunk of chicken, a crispy piece of kale, and—just a few weeks ago—a piece of half-chewed sandwich.

Every time our first aid training kicked in. Five quick back slaps and the food came right out. And if that didn’t work, I knew exactly what I’d need to do next—five abdominal thrusts—to keep my son breathing and safe. 911 is a wonderful invention of modern civilization but when minutes count the best thing you can rely on is being prepared for the worst.

If you’re in the US, the American Red Cross and American Heart Association (AHA) both offer Infant and Child First Aid and CPR classes in just about every town and sometimes even online. They can generally be completed in about 6-to-8 hours.

You can find Red Cross classes here and AHA classes here.

As a parent, you already know how wonderful—and stressful—kids can be. Take the time to reduce some of that stress by learning how to help save them from their wonderfully curious selves.

By day I'm a father of two wonderful young kids as well as a software developer with a regular mid-life crisis. By night I'm a volunteer firefighter and EMT-in-training. As a former philosopher I'm particularly passionate about helping others lead a happy and healthy life through self-reflection.

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8 Tips to Raising Musical Kids: A Parent’s Guide

By Kevin Mitchell

Photo: MMM

As parents, we all want to raise their children with as many advantages as possible. In addition to a myriad of benefits, there have been countless studies that connect music with a child’s intellectual and social growth, which makes it a fun, joyous way to help our kids grow into healthy, happy grown-ups. So let’s commit to raising a musical child!

The Science & Why Music Is Important

Since the 1990s, a multitude of studies has connected music education with a child’s intellectual and social growth. Our top takeaways:

Ÿ  • Kids who study music have larger vocabularies and more advanced reading skills, as learning music develops the part of the brain that processes language. These kids also tend to score higher on reading and spelling tests.

Ÿ  • Music is closely aligned with math, so even a few years of music-making experience translates into higher math skills.

Ÿ  • Music builds self-esteem as a child sees improvement in their skills – some will enjoy showing off a bit for family and friends!

Ÿ  • Music performance teaches kids to conquer fear and take risks.

Ÿ  • Kids who suffer from anxiety or stress may find that a creative outlet like music is a relaxing, calming activity.

What You Can Do:

1. Create a Musical House. Do babies in the womb benefit from mom listening to music? For sure it helps mom relax! Once out, young minds are better off growing up in a home where music is all around. Young children are naturally drawn to music; this is why apps like Samsung Kids+ (a subscription service featuring safe, educational and entertainment content for kids) use music to teach preschoolers in learning videos, as music is the best way to engage young minds. And the more variety in the music your kids hear, the better.

2. Join Baby/Toddler Music Programs. Two well-known options are Kindermusik and Gymboree, who incorporate music and movement into play. Local city programs, daycare facilities, and learning centers will often have music-based programs.  There are also many apps available that expose preschoolers to music learning. 

3. Be a Role Model. If you ever played an instrument as a kid, share your experiences with your child, or get that old guitar out of its case! Singing and dancing at home are also musical expressions that will rub off on your kids in a great way. Show them how much fun you can have with music!

4. Explore Your Local Community. Seek out live music of all types. If you’re lucky enough to live in a city with a local symphony, see if they have programs for young children. Local theater groups will stage musicals for kids, or check out those free Sunday afternoon concerts with musicians playing in the park. Live music can be a big influence on how children learn to think about music.

5. When Should I Get Music Lessons? Of course, while listening to and enjoying music is a great start, actually learning to play an instrument is the goal for your child, which is how they can reap those benefits mentioned above. It’s most common to start kids at age five or six. For younger children, there are Suzuki method teachers who offer string lessons to kids as young as three. Some think that’s too young, but like many things, it depends on the child. Some instruments (like the violin or piano) are better suited for small hands than others but talk to a music teacher for their advice. Next, you might ask…

6. Where Do I Find a Music Teacher? Your local music store will have music teachers available for a variety of instruments, and most music stores rent instruments so you don’t have to go all-in to purchase one. You can also contact local chapters of organizations like the Music Teachers National Association or The Royal Conservatory of Music, both of which have online tools that let you search their database for a teacher near you. Or check with the music department at your local community college, the band director at your local high school, or even the music director at your church. You’ll find that musicians form a tight community and are eager advocates for music education.

7. Check Out School Music Programs. Typically these start in third or fourth grade and have the added benefit of letting your child play with a group from the start. School band programs enhance music learning by creating a community of kids who perform together, go on trips together, and form a unique bond through music. While playing an instrument is still a great experience alone, there’s nothing like making music with others.

8. What About Practicing? We all know the joke: How do you get to Carnegie Hall? Practice, practice, practice! Our advice is this: Music is a journey, not a destination. Successful children come from a home where you don’t quit in the middle of something, and music is no different. But you also need to weigh the costs with the benefits. If it’s a battle and you can only get a few minutes of practice a day, it’s the long haul that will pay off, and a few minutes is better than none at all. You’ve never heard anyone say they wish they had never taken a piano lesson, but many adults wish they had never quit.

This isn’t about making professional musicians. It’s about many things—opening a door to self-expression, bringing opportunities for joy, letting your child be part of a larger community, and allowing kids to get their brain working in a way that will give them an advantage in school. Bonus? You’ll be that proud parent during family gatherings when your child gets to show off their interruption of “Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star.”

Kevin Mitchell is a stay-at-home/freelance writer and author and dad in St. Louis.

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Dear Single Mom: You Are Enough

By Anna Moore

Photo: Anna Moore

When you’re a single mom, it feels like you can never catch a break. You don’t have a partner to help even out the responsibilities. You are Mom. You are also Dad. Some days you’re superwoman and you are absolutely killing it. You’ve cleaned the bathrooms, done laundry, had sufficient amounts of caffeine, managed to get yourself out of bed on time that morning and even made pancakes for breakfast. Other days, you’re dragging. You woke up late, the house is a mess, you don’t know where to start and things are piling up.

You sometimes wonder if you’re doing the whole parenting thing wrong. Maybe it’s your fault that it’s just you. Maybe you’re what’s wrong.

I’m here to tell you that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

So much is packed into being a parent. Making sure you’re financially stable, making sure your child is taken care of while you’re at work, fixing dinner, laundry, cleaning bathrooms and changing bed sheets…the list goes on.

Don’t even get me started about all the parenting “advice” that is given so freely on the internet. You will always get the extreme opinions of any topic you research, finding that no matter how you phrase your question, you will always get a biased and very strongly worded answer thrown at you. People are quick to give you their thoughts and opinions on a situation without evaluating how they are coming across. This creates even more confusion and negative thoughts within the individual looking for guidance.

I asked my daughter one time if she’d be happy if it were just the two of us for the rest of her life. I didn’t get answers about cleaning or doing laundry. I got a very excited response about how we could have movie night every night and have our favorite snacks and have hot tea together. Of course, those are all things we could still do if I were married. The point I’m trying to make is that children’s minds work very differently from ours. An advantage of the mind of a child is that they see the positive in every situation, leaving adults longing for a mind like a child.

Not only am I a single mom, but I was a teen mom as well. Talk about a double whammy. Being fifteen and pregnant, nobody thinks you can make anything of yourself after that. You’re told that your life is over. Everything you’ve hoped and dreamed for yourself is now impossible. Which is why I went on to finish high school—half a semester early. I went to community college for two years and graduated Cum Laude. I finished my bachelors in Psychology from my University and had above a 3.2 GPA.

Being a single mom, being a young mom, doesn’t mean that your life is over. It just means you get to share it with someone who idolizes you, who thinks the world of you, who is always cheering for you. No matter what. Sharing experiences with the person you gave life to. Your built-in best friend.

I was able to cross the stage at my graduation seven months ago and look up at my seven-year-old daughter with tears in my eyes. She was beaming from ear to ear, waving and blowing kisses. In that moment, she didn’t care that I had laundry piled up at home. In that moment, she didn’t care that I’d forgotten to give her a drink with her breakfast last week. In that moment, she didn’t care that it was just the two of us.

In that moment, I was enough, and you are, too.

 

 

 

 

Hey, y'all! I'm a single mom to my seven year old daughter. I've loved writing all of my life, and love to share stories...most of which relate to parenting. Also sometimes our cat...Sir Gibson Severus Darcy. Yeah...it's a thing. Enjoy!

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Having Children Was the Best Thing I Did for My Career

By Phoebe Farag Mikhail

I was set to fly to Sierra Leone, Senegal and Kenya for work when I discovered I was pregnant. When I told my boss, he said, “Well, then you can’t go to Sierra Leone. My brother had to be HVAC-ed out of there twice.” We considered switching my trip to the Philippines, but learned that the required vaccinations were too risky in my first trimester. I was grounded.

Before having children, I loved my work, especially the travel. Traveling to impoverished areas to start programs was my chance to work with and listen to people from where they were. The trips were invigorating and exhausting at the same time, because in-country I tried to squeeze out every minute I could with the locals, living, learning, and listening—but sometimes burning out.

My work demanded everything out of me—my time, my talents, and my passions. I was certainly driven—driven by my faith that I felt called me to work with those who need help, driven by my love for the countries and the people I visited, and driven by the satisfaction of seeing ideas for programs come to life in ways that I thought truly helped people.

Motherhood put a screeching halt to that drive. As a first time mother, my identity shifted dramatically, and it was jarring. Instead of being out there saving the world, I was at home keeping one tiny human alive, a tiny human that astounded me by how fiercely I loved him. In those first few months, I felt grateful to have that time just to bond with him, establish nursing and read him stories. Still, restlessness plagued me, and soon enough I felt the itch to work again, to use the parts of my self that had laid dormant for those few months adjusting to my new and seemingly all-encompassing role.

First, I tried jumping back into my jet-setting line of work. I flew to Jordan with my mother and my still nursing nine-month old in tow. I delivered training in the conference room, then ran to nurse my son on breaks in the hotel room. It was a memorable experience, but impossible to repeat when I had my second and third child. Traveling for vacation with children is hard enough; traveling overseas with an infant for work can be even more stressful—and costly.

I stepped away from work that required travel. In fact, for a short time I stepped away from work altogether.

And that was the best thing to happen to my career.

Privileged enough to be able to rely (with some budgeting) on my husband’s full time work and health insurance coverage, being home with my children and away from the overtime demands of my career gave me time to reflect. Instead of more demanding jobs, I began to work on short-term consultancies, mostly from home, until the opportunity arose to teach academic writing at a nearby community college.

This new challenge excited me, and I jumped into it with the same fervor I did my international development work. I then continued to adjunct work at four-year college, also teaching writing. As I balanced this with my consultancies, I also started to see a new identity emerge, an aspect of my personal interests that my whirlwind career had hidden—I started to see myself as a writer.

For years my writing had been limited to grant proposals, handbooks, training manuals, and case studies. Only occasionally did I delve out into essays and journal articles. With the time to step back from the relentless needs and priorities of my previous career, I could now come back to writing, something I always enjoyed doing.

Not only did I rediscover my love for writing, the young motherhood stage of my life allowed me to find my writing niche. I started blogging, trying out different themes and topics until a purpose to my writing emerged: helping people restore and build personal connections and relationships with one another. That purpose put together all the pieces of my life together thus far—the work with people in communities all over the world, the isolation I felt staying home with my children, the advocacy training I did with human rights advocates around the world, the conversations I was having on social media, the service I was doing at my local church—I could write about this with passion, authenticity, and credibility. And I would not have found this voice if not for my children.

My time with my young children is busy, and like it is for most mothers, physically and emotionally draining. Yet somehow this time also gave me the mental space my prior full-time career did not. As I reflected on what my kids were doing, saying, or teaching me, I thought about how my inner world connected to the outside world, and realized how much I had to share.

I have also increased my writing for my international work, consulting regularly for different organizations, glad to use my writing to make a difference in people’s lives. The passion I threw into my career before children paid dividends in my being able to construct my own consulting, teaching and writing career now. I’ve even been able to do some travel again, but on my own terms.

The stress of trying to balance attention to my family, work, and writing remains. Yet this transition has already bred new and exciting ideas about where I might go from here, as my children get older and I get more time to pursue my writing, my work and my interests. I have ideas bubbling in my head, a book slated for publication, and other projects simmering. These, along with my children’s chubby faces, are what drive me now.

Despite the prevailing narrative that motherhood can stall or even ruin careers, I know I am not the only mom who has seen motherhood enhance her career. I know many mothers whose transition to parenthood also led them away from soul-crushing jobs to exciting entrepreneurial endeavors or new and more meaningful career paths. Children are not a challenge to overcome as we advance in our careers. My story proves they can be the best thing to happen to our careers—and our lives.

 

Phoebe Farag Mikhail
Tinybeans Voices Contributor

Phoebe Farag Mikhail is an author, educator, and international development consultant. She has lived in New York, Washington, D.C., the United Kingdom and Egypt and she and her husband love traveling with their three kids. She blogs at Being in Community and is the author of Putting Joy into Practice: Seven Essential Ways, forthcoming from Paraclete Press.

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