Ready to go green for your next family movie night? Then you’ve come to the right place. These Earth Day movies are full of beautiful images and powerful themes about nature and the environment. Want more choices? Check out Common Sense Media‘s entire list of family and environment-friendly films to find even more family movies perfect for your budding eco-friendly crew.

WALL-E
Although this winning Pixar adventure is thoroughly charming and, yes, romantic, the youngest viewers may get a little restless during WALL-E's atmospheric, virtually dialogue-free first half-hour. They'll still enjoy it, but—unlike older kids and grown-ups—they won't be that impressed by how much is said with so few words. But the action (which includes some robot fights, weapons being fired, explosions, and chase scenes) picks up soon enough. Underlying the whole thing are strong environmental messages: Reduce, reuse, recycle, and think about what you're doing to the planet (and yourself).

Age: 5 & up

Stream it on Disney+

Island of Lemurs Madagascar is an Earth Day Movie

Island of Lemurs: Madagascar
This is a 40-minute IMAX film about the unique biodiversity of the island of Madagascar, particularly the lemurs. Although there are references to certain lemurs being endangered, there's no violence—except some potentially threatening wildfires—to scare off younger viewers. Despite the brevity of the documentary, audiences of all ages will learn a great deal about lemurs and their importance to Madagascar and the world. This is a great family-friendly nature film to see while at a museum or any theater with an IMAX screen.

Age: 5

Rent it on Amazon

Dr Seuss: The Lorax
This 1970s animated version of the iconic Dr. Seuss book tells a timeless story of humanity's relationship with the land, water, air, and animals that will appeal to kids. There are instances of cartoonish violence as the Truffula Trees are chopped down—Seussian machines abound—but the lesson imparted by the Lorax as he speaks for the trees and all of nature should spark positive discussions on what can be done to protect our planet.

Ages: 5 & up

Schoolhouse Rock! Earth is a good Earth Day movie for kids

School House Rock! Earth
Parents need to know that heavy issues, such as our oceans being poisoned, our planet in peril, and our weather patterns spiraling out of control, might weigh on sensitive minds. But such is the state of our planet that our children are inheriting, sadly. On the other hand, great practical ideas and catchy tunes make this DVD an important educational tool, encouraging families to make changes in their homes to reduce the impact on the environment.

Age: 5

Rent it on Amazon

Arctic Tale is an Earth Day movie for kids

Arctic Tale
Though this film is basically kid-friendly and introduces kids to the idea of environmentalism with a light, engaging touch, there are parts that may be disturbing, especially for kids six and under. For example, a male polar bear nearly captures (and eats) one of the cuddly baby bears with which viewers may identify. In another scene, while trying to save Seela the walrus from a predator, her sweet "aunt" dies and her carcass is eaten in full view.

Age: 6

Stream it on Hulu

Bears
Parents need to know that the wildlife documentary Bears is family-friendly overall, but a few moments/scenes might be too tense and potentially scary for preschool-aged viewers. None of the animals die, but there are several scenes in which the lives of the mother bear and her cubs are in danger, and in one it seems like a cub has been eaten by an adult male bear. Other threats include predator males, a gray wolf, and the environment itself—all providing for dramatic sequences. Children who can get past that part of the movie will learn a good bit about the brown bears of Alaska and get a close-up look at how mama bears treat their cubs.

Age: 6

Stream it on Disney+

Disneynature Earth is a good Earth Day movie

Earth
This stunning nature documentary portrays how animals around the world are born, live, and, yes, die. Although there aren't any grisly shots of predators ripping apart their prey, there are disturbing scenes in which animals are chased and attacked. In a few cases, the predators win; you see them grip their catch with their teeth, but then the scene quickly changes. Other than those possibly upsetting scenes—plus another in which an animal dies of starvation and exhaustion—the film is appropriate (and educational) for kids of all ages. It's worth noting that the movie uses footage from the acclaimed TV series Planet Earth, so if you've seen that, you've seen the images included here.

Age: 6

Buy it on Amazon

March of the Penguins
This popular documentary includes stunning but also occasionally disturbing imagery of penguins walking, mating, and dying. Morgan Freeman narrates as the penguins make their annual march from the Antarctic shore in Antarctica. Some penguins die along the way, and others freeze during the long winter as they huddle to protect pregnant females and then eggs and babies, and still, others are killed by predators.

Age: 6

Rent it on Amazon

To the Arctic is a good Earth Day Movie

To the Arctic
To the Arctic is an educational 3-D nature documentary about the animals that thrive in the world's harshest climate. Filmed in IMAX, the movie puts a special emphasis on polar bears and the plight they face as global warming continues to extend the arctic summer season. There's nothing objectionable in the documentary, but some very young kids might be disturbed by the tense scenes when a male polar bear pursues a mother and her cubs or when the white cubs get bloody from eating freshly hunted seal meat. The narrator also explains that some cubs and caribou newborns have died because of the elements or starvation. Since the documentary is only 45 minutes long, it's just the right length to educate and entertain kids about life in the arctic's frozen world.

Age: 6

Stream it on HBO Max

Common Sense Media is a leading independent nonprofit organization offering the largest, most trusted library of independent age-based and educational ratings and reviews for everything kids want to watch, play, read, and learn. The ratings, reviews, and information are unbiased and provided for free to help families and educators make great media and technology choices.

 

One thing that’s universal in parenting, especially in the earliest days, is the need to keep an eye on your little one. Whether you’re trying to squeeze in some me-time (or a snooze yourself!) while the baby is napping or need to keep a watchful eye on an adventurous toddler trying to climb out of their crib, a baby monitor is essential for being able to look in on the kids without disturbing them.

Parent-favorite baby monitor brand, Infant Optics, has a new model that is up for the challenge of growing with your kids and your needs as a parent. The new DXR-8 PRO from Infant Optics has upgrades from the previous DXR-8 model fueled by feedback from parents.

One of the most prominent feature upgrades, and a first for baby monitors, is their new Active Noise Reduction (or ANR) technology which, when enabled, reduces background noises like fans and air conditioners so your child can be heard more clearly.

It is also a non-WiFi, closed-loop system, providing a sense of security and privacy for parents. There’s aren’t any apps to download and the system is expandable to use up to four cameras paired with the display.

The DXR-8 PRO includes a large 5-inch display (up from 3.5-inches on the previous model) with 720P HD video resolution. The unit also comes with a zoom lens included which is interchangeable with a wide-angle lens (sold separately) giving parents the ability to use a lens that best fits their viewing needs in a particular space. This can be especially useful when traveling or using in different rooms for optimal viewing when paired with the pan, tilt and zoom features of the camera.

The video monitor is available at Target, Amazon & BuyBuy Baby for $199

––Jen Watro

All photos: Courtesy of Infant Optics

 

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My daughter Kaylie was four years old. She was sitting on her favorite kitchen stool, headphones on, watching cartoons on our family iPad. After the video ended, she walked over to me and asked the meaning of a word that’s not fit to print. My jaw hit the floor. I asked her where she heard a word like that, and she told me it was in the video she just watched. I unplugged her headphones, and sure enough, there was Dora the Explorer swearing like a sailor. 

This is a true story about YouTube content gone wrong, and sadly, one that a lot of parents are familiar with. Another infamous example that made headlines featured a man offering advice on how to commit suicide in a clip of a popular children’s video game. And this kind of rogue, inexplicably disturbing content is a problem of YouTube’s own making—one that’s inherent to a platform with a hands-off moderation policy where anyone can publish anything. 

Should YouTube vet and approve videos before they go live? This was the question facing the platform earlier this year. The platform had agreed to make changes to improve child privacy following an investigation and $170 million fine from the FTC, and apparently they were considering moderating all content across the platform. But, they ultimately decided against it, which isn’t all that surprising given that around 500 hours of content is uploaded to YouTube every minute. And, it would have changed the nature of the platform itself: they would no longer be a “neutral” space where anyone could upload anything.

If they decided to curate, YouTube would have taken a giant leap towards becoming a programmer, which would expose them to increased regulation, liability, and risk. So instead, YouTube now requires content creators to designate whether their content is for kids or not. This essentially puts the onus on content creators—and holds them more directly responsible for the content they create. 

In theory, this change—and the other updates YouTube made recently—should help protect children’s privacy, but the platform stopped short of the change that could make the content itself safer for kids: moderation. It’s hard to know what compels someone to make Dora say unholy things, or (even worse) to splice instructions for self-harm into a kids’ video, but as long as there’s a platform that relies on content creators to self-police their videos, it’s likely to keep happening. 

So what can parents do to keep their kids safe on YouTube? We learned the hard way that looks can be deceiving, so we made a few changes to the way we used YouTube in our family after the Dora incident. Kaylie only watched videos sans headphones until she got a little older. That way, we could intervene if Peppa Pig started running her mouth. We also stuck to videos on channels we knew and trusted, and we adopted a hard rule: no clicking through recommended videos. 

It’s of course “best practice” to watch content together with your kids, but that’s not always possible, especially when YouTube is giving you a much-needed parental sanity break. So, if you’re setting your kids up to watch a video and you’re feeling concerned, jump ahead to a few spots throughout to make sure there’s nothing untoward. And it’s not a bad idea to have a talk with your children about what to do if they see something upsetting. Older kids might even be ready to learn how to report videos on their own. 

Short of the platform moderating every video before it goes live, it’s going to be tricky to stop bad people from publishing bad things. Hopefully the increased liability on the part of content creators makes them think twice before targeting children with disturbing videos, but it’s a good idea to stay vigilant when your kids are involved. 

 

Sean Herman is CEO/founder of Kinzoo, a new company that helps parents turn screen time into family time. Sean aims to make Kinzoo the most-trusted brand for incorporating technology into children’s lives. Sean's first book, "Screen Captured," debuted at number one in Amazon's parenting category, and separates technology fact from fiction for parents.

At the start of the year, no one suspected

That a virus, COVID-19, would be detected.

This virus has spread faster than anyone might have guessed.

Leaving families in the lurch, unprepared and hard-pressed.

Many are struggling to pay bills and find food.

Juggling/losing jobs, homeschool/parenting; in general, feeling screwed.

How could this happen? Who dropped the baton?

Yet playing the “blame game” won’t help us move on…

Toward solving the issues presented before us,

I have a few thoughts that I’d like to discuss.

Possible ways to mentally manage and cope

With the unknown, the future, and yes, offer hope.

1. When you start feeling mad, count to 10 and breathe deep

Increased oxygen levels decrease stress/ improve sleep.

Speaking of sleep, make sure you get lots,

This will help you remain in control of your thoughts.

2. During times when you question your value and self-worth

Reverse that thought from doubt to rebirth.

You’re growing and stretching in unusual places

This doesn’t mean you’re losing, but rather covering your bases.

3. Embrace the “unknowns” the “WTF’s” and “isolation”

Reframe this time as a “social vacation”.

Make time for your family, hold them close, cuddle much.

Research has shown decreased loneliness with a healthy touch.

4. Increases in frustration, depression, and anxiety

WIll be seen in yourself, your family and society.

These responses are normal during times of confusion

Cut yourself slack and don’t jump to conclusions.

5. Living with ambiguity makes planning seem fruitless.

Life feels unmanageable with all the sudden “newness.”

Slow down your thoughts, one step first, then another,

Look for new paths and new ways to discover.

6. With spouses and children, possibly pets at every turn

The space where you live may cause you heartburn.

Take a few Tums, a 5-minute break.

Do something for you, hell, bake a huge cake!

7. Music is something you can use to spark joy

So dance when negative thoughts start to destroy.

When you listen to music your entire brain is engaged.

So your feelings of happiness will overpower the rage.

8. Whether you like structure or prefer to “hang loose”

Having some sort of “guideline” can help to diffuse

Potential fights around “screen time”, expectations and chores

Offering choices empowers others “you wanna wash the clothes or the floors?”

9. It’s become clear that the longer “quarantine” remains

More and more people will start feeling “chained”.

The restlessness will result in many disobeying

Leaving their homes to socialize with others left praying.

10.  For the sake of your countrymen, your family, the lot

Please follow the doc’s orders, we’re all that we’ve got.

I know distance blows, it’s disturbing and tense.

Never fear, someday soon, we’ll hear “let the huggin’ commence.”

Not everyone has a say in how they “will serve”

Whether sitting at home or rushing orders to curbs.

Some are deemed “essential” and we wish you good luck.

Hopefully soon this will all get unstuck.

When it’s all said and done, and restrictions are lifted

Let’s remember this time as a gift that shape-shifted.

A pleasant surprise at the core of the storm.

Like a large, plush soft blanket all cozy and warm.

We have a choice every day when we wake

To embrace the new challenges head-on and remake

A life that more resembles our hearts and our minds

One kinder toward animals, the earth, humankind.

I’ll leave you with these final words of advice

Hold your partner, kiss your kid(s), nothing less will suffice.

For tomorrow brings challenges, for now the unknown.

So today embrace “the moment” before the time’s flown.

 

 

I am a 42-year-old biological mother of two young children in a same-sex relationship, a clinical psychologist with a specialty in neuropsychological assessment, a music therapist, a trainer of therapy dogs and ex-communicated Mormon from Indiana with a wicked sense of humor. 

Although cell phones and computers have been around for decades, digital media consumption is very different among Generation Z, compared with Generation X and even Millennials. Nowadays, children are surrounded by digital devices since birth and their devices are considered essentials of daily life, not just sources of occasional entertainment or educational tools.

The average age at which a child starts using their first device—2 years old—trends younger with every research study. However, exposure to the internet begins far earlier, at around three years old. As teenagers, that jumps to nine hours a day. Statistics like these concern parents about exactly what kids are experiencing on the internet.

Below are five ways to keep up with kid’s online lives and protect their online activity.

1. Educate Yourself: To ensure your children are safe online, educate yourself about existing dangers. Stay up to speed with the latest trending apps, games, social media, and websites popular with kids and teens. Be particularly aware of unsafe apps such as anonymous apps, which can be used for cyberbullying or by internet predators.

2. Open a Discussion: As children are spending the majority of their time on the internet, it is important now more than ever that you have the necessary discussion about online safety and it is never too late to start. Provide your child with information rather than a list of don’ts. Talk about the risks involved with social media. Try not to be confrontational and ask open-ended questions. Let your child know that they can come to you if they come across disturbing content and if they are being bullied.

3. Set Rules: Collaborate as a family to clarify rules and expectations around internet activity and home devices. Consider things like time limits, priority family commitments, and social engagement at home with each other. Coming up with rules as a family helps everyone be on the same page, and gives children expectations before they start using devices, so there aren’t any surprises. Rules and expectations can be compiled into a “tech contract” so they are easily accessible for all members of the family.

4. Use Parent Controls: Use a powerful parental control solution like Hub by Securly to manage and monitor their online habits. After setting a clear agreement and expectations with your children, explain to them that these are your devices, and you will review them because as parents, you only wish to keep your children healthy and safe. Hub by Securly allows you to limit your child’s internet access by turning off the internet with a tap. With the Hub, you can also put blocks and monitoring on your kids’ devices. Most kids aren’t searching for bad content. They just stumble on it but they can’t unsee what they’ve seen.

5. Be a Role Model: Oftentimes, children copy what their parents do, so it’s best to try to set a positive example for them. Not only does it help manage your own screen time, but it also sets a healthy device standard in the household. It is a good idea to enforce “screen-free time” into your daily routine, such as at dinner and during bedtime.

Linsly Donnelly, SVP of Consumer and Parent Operations at Securly, an online solution for managing children's devices and online activity to ensure their safety. 

The kids are tucked in, they’re snooozing away and you just can’t binge-watch another show. What now? Board games for adults and other grown-up party-type play provides plenty of late-night fun for you, your S.O. and your fave friends. If you’re looking for a few new board or card game ideas, check out these for adults only options!

What Do You Meme?

Amazon

You already spend half your day creating cute memes. So why not take the internet fun into the real world with this hilarious card game ($29.99)? Pair photo and caption cards in the original version or add on one of the expansion packs for even more meme-ing fun. 

The Game of Wolf

Amazon

Choose your pack wisely! This trivia game ($24.99 on Amazon) combines individual trivia play with a collab effort. And bonus, this game is a quick play pick—in comparison to other board games. So if you don;t have all day to play, this trivia-packed option is an easy idea!

Llamas Unleashed

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This card game will give you the giggles! Collect alpacas, goats, rams and, of course, llamas! With a play time of 30 to 45 minutes the ability for up to eight people to join in, this party pick ($20) is a completely cool card game for your next impromptu gathering. 

Stan the Man Musial Baseball Game

Across the Board

Across the Board creates games that go way beyond your average cardboard foldout pop-up play. The Stan the Man Musial Baseball Game ($60) is one of the company's many sports-themed selections. Featuring the legendary St. Louis Cardinals player, this game is ideal for grown-ups who are major Major League fans. 

St. Noire

Courtesy of St. Noire

Combine AI with board game magic in this ground-breaking murder mystery game. St. Noire is a first-controlled game for grown-ups—and it uses your Amazon Alexa-enabled device! The game is available from Amazon for $39.99. St. Noire is currently in pre-order until its release on Jul. 18, 2019. 

Disturbed Friends

Amazon

The name says it all. This board game (for adults only!) comes with the qualifier, "This game should be banned." If you dare, try your hand playing this pick with 250 disturbing questions and 100 offensive cartoon cards. And yes, this 'disturbing' game ($25) is only for adults with a seriously wicked sense of humor. 

Oh Fruck!

Amazon

When it comes to card games for adults, this is one that will make you laugh. Oh Fruck! ($19.99) takes the typical card shedding game (meaning you need to get rid of your cards to win) for a twist. This pick is perfect if you're looking for a game to play together with other adults or with your older teenage kiddos—recommended for players 12 and up 

Imohotep: Builder of Egypt

Amazon

Archaeology fans will get a kick out of this board game. Transport the building blocks of the pyramids to different construction sites, strategizing all the way! This game ($39.95) requires two to four players and is recommended for anyone over the age of 10. 

Silicon Valley Start Ups

Amazon

Do you dream about betting it all on a genius start up idea? In this card game, you can! This grown-up play-time option ($14.95) lets you pitch outrageous ideas and live out your start up fantasies. Of course, without the fear of losing your child's college fund.

Unstable Unicorns

Amazon

Anything with the word unicorn in the title has to be fun. Right? This board game ($19.56 on Amazon), for ages 14 and up, was one of kickstarter's top 50 most backed projects. Assemble a unicorn army, build up your herd and play the evening away with your new friends (FYI, the unicorns are your friends now and not the humans). 

Ridiculous Expositions

Amazon

This grown-up game ($24.99) pairs seemingly innocent phrases with ones that are a bit more naughty. Pair up your party pals into two teams and start talking. The phonetic phrasing-turned saucy sayings will get more than a giggle out of your party guests. 

Happy Little Accidents

Amazon

Even though this playful pick ($19.99 on Amazon) is recommended for anyone ages 10 and up, your adult friends will get a kick out of the Bob Ross-inspired board game. Play the role of the iconic TV painter, creating your own mini masterpieces. 

Doomlings

Doomlings Game
Doomlings

This quick-to-learn card game ($24.99) is ideal for players 10+ and can be played in 20-25 minutes! We aren't complaining about how cute the card characters are, either, as you play to make them more adaptable and resilient before the end of the world (no pressure!).

 

—Erica Loop

Featured photo: Rawpixel via Pexels

 

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Let’s say the dating thing worked out and you met someone fantastic, and you are so excited and cannot wait for everyone to meet him because he is so great! While it is true a happy parent can make for happy children, it is necessary to be conscious about how a new partner can affect the dynamics with your kids. Deciding when and how to make an introduction between your significant other and your children must be done in a thoughtful manner where there is balance between all concerned parties—this includes you, your children, your new man, and yes, even your ex.

Dating while Divorcing
Depending on when you last dated, the sheer idea of re-entering the dating world can be overwhelming. If you have a new man in your life but you are still wearing the wedding ring given to you by your current husband, then do not (under almost any circumstance) introduce your new paramour to your kids. I realize in many affairs, the children have probably already made the acquaintance of the person you might be thinking of introducing them to—it might be a neighbor, a family friend, or even the husband of your PTA nemesis. Regardless, never let your kids find out about this relationship before your husband does.

Timing Is Important
If you have already fled for divorce and are separated from your husband, then we are dealing with a somewhat cleaner area when it comes to your love life. While you may have some stage fright, and you might also feel you are in no way ready to think about a new relationship, the time may come when you meet someone with whom you feel you could have a future. However, realize that introducing the idea of a new dad to your kids could easily make your ex freak out. Realize that you can even significantly destroy a relatively cordial split by making your ex feel threatened by the fact some guy is taking his place in his family.

See the Situation through the Eyes of Others
No matter who was responsible for pulling the plug on your marriage, it is imperative that you take a step back and consider the situation through your children’s and your ex’s eyes.  The idea of a new Mr. X fling a romantic void in your life could be disturbing to your ex and your children alike. Your kids have never seen you with anyone other than their father, and this could throw off their equilibrium.

In their thinking, if you have a new man in your life to replace their dad, does that mean you could have new kids someday too? In the children’s mind, you are their mom first, and anyone else should get their hands off! Remember that children can be just as possessive as your ex.

The Legalities of Dating Pre-divorce
One key issue to explore is where you are with custody and if there is the possibility of a custody fight presenting itself in the future. If there is the slightest chance of a custody dispute (meaning that a parenting agreement has not already been drafted and signed), I would strongly recommend no introduction be made to the person you have started dating. The last thing you need is your ex making it seem to a judge that you have poor judgment when introducing Mr. Rebound to your kids and letting him use the old toothbrush their father left behind.

A second consideration is specific language could be put into your separation agreement that any introduction to a significant other cannot occur unless the relationship has lasted for a certain amount of time. There can also be stipulations stating that if an introduction were to take place, the ex-spouse would be provided advance warning.

 

Jacqueline Newman is a divorce lawyer and matrimonial law expert. As managing partner of a top-tier 5th Avenue Manhattan law firm focused exclusively on divorce, her practice runs the gamut from prenups for high net worth people contemplating marriage to high conflict matrimonial litigation in dissolutions. 

Some parents of twins cope with newborn chaos by camping out at home. We survived by staying on the move and buckling up for the wild ride ahead. We warmed up by strolling our twins home from the hospital, ramped it up with daily walks in Central Park, and by two weeks old launched into our first mini road trip: 75 miles from New York City to New Hope, Pennsylvania.

We discovered rest stops and scenic turn-offs we never knew existed as we tried to calm a chorus of newborn tears with side-of-the-road breastfeeding, messily mixed formula, diaper changes in the trunk and (finally) me sitting between the car seats where the babies could cling to my index fingers.

We navigated our double stroller over the bridge from New Jersey to Pennsylvania and into a restaurant with outdoor seating that we had frequented as a married couple. All I remember is trying to juggle babies, bottles, breasts and what I’m sure was a delicious meal that mainly ended up in a to-go box. (Note to multitasking diners, order something you can eat without a knife. Bonus if you can inhale your meal with just one hand.)

It seemed like the only way the babies would stop crying was to feed them, so that’s what we did. In hindsight, our little ones were probably just exhausted. Blessing upon blessings, they slept the entire way home.

Wearing the twins in our carriers probably would have simplified our journey. We actually tried our carriers on for the first time before leaving our apartment—but we were too intimidated by all the straps and buckles and figured we had enough variables on this outing without the added hurdle of figuring out new baby gear. Now whenever a new mom friend hesitates to try her carrier, I come alongside to help her position the baby and get comfortable with the setup. Parenting is not for the proud—we need all the help (and gear) we can get!

Our New Hope adventure was a test run for a five-hour drive to Vermont a few weeks later. Since then, we’ve set out on road trips once or twice a month, playing the maddening game of trial and error to address the inevitable tantrums, whining, hunger, accidents, throw up, boredom, spills and nap-disturbing laughing fits we face on the road.

Five years later and hundreds of hours of family drive time under our seatbelts, I’ve gathered a few tips to share with fellow parents before they pack the trunk for their own adventures.

Pack a backpack for each kid with their essential items: lovey, activity book (Usborne wipe-clean books and Melissa and Doug Water Wow books are great), change of clothes, water bottle, and snack. Store it within the kid’s reach to encourage independence and so you don’t have to repeatedly contort your body from the front seat.

Store a clean-up bag in your car for spills and accidents. It could include wipes, paper towels, upholstery cleaner, empty plastic bags, Band-Aids, spare burp cloths, and a portable potty.

Plan to make way more stops than road-tripping adults need. To minimize stops, limit liquids in the car. This also means thinking strategically about snacks. Eating salty chips and crackers will make everyone thirsty and need more bathroom breaks. We try to avoid mindless snacking and use it, instead, to extend drive time an extra half hour. A loaf of bread works wonders.

If kids are legitimately hungry, they will eat a slice and it will tide them over until mealtime. If they were just requesting a snack out of boredom, they will probably skip the bread. When you do stop, make sure everyone uses the bathroom—the only exception being sleeping children.

Have kids’ music on hand for when you need to change the mood of the whole car. Music Together CDs have been a lifesaver since my twins were little. At 10 months old they would immediately stop fussing when the “Hello Song” played. Other favorites include music from Vacation Bible School and The Wiggles.

Time driving with naps and bedtime. The drive will go so much faster if at least one kid is asleep! To avoid disturbing a sleeping child during quick stops, use the trunk as an additional exit option and leave the car running and music playing.

Keep the kids’ minds engaged with a game of I Spy or a road sign letter scavenger hunt. My son loves it when we ask him math questions (for instance, “What is 22 + 24?” or “What if Zachary had four cookies and gave one to each sister. How many would he have left?”) My daughter loves animal questions (“I’m thinking of an animal that flies and is nocturnal. What could it be?”) My one-year-old loves when my husband uses her stuffed animals play peek-a-boo from behind the front seat.

Clip a pacifier to baby’s car seat strap or seat belt so when it pops out you know where to start looking.

Use GPS to estimate your arrival time. Answering the “How many minutes until we get to the restaurant?” question with a specific, updating number is far less annoying than a repeated chorus of, “Are we there yet?” Better yet, establish an ETA and let your older kids do the math to figure out how many minutes until you will arrive.

Run a mini bedtime routine at your dinner stop. Change the kids into pajamas and brush/floss teeth so that when you arrive at your destination, the kids can just do a quick potty check before jumping into bed. Make sure you have the right footwear to work with whatever PJs you pack. For example, bring boots to fit over footed PJs or an extra set of socks if your daughter changed out of tights.

Pack all this bedtime prep gear in a big bag along with your diaper bag, milk, or other items you’ll need inside. Then you can quickly exit the car (and make a mad dash for the bathroom) instead of shuffling through luggage to find your supplies.

If your child gets carsick, teach them to hold and aim for a plastic bag. Younger kids can wear a bib or even a trash bag with holes cut out for their head and arms, like a poncho. As soon as it’s safe to do so, switch to a front-facing car seat. Time and choose your food wisely because whatever goes in will be the aroma of the day if it comes back out.

Happy trails!

Featured Photo Courtesy: Kristin Van de Water
Kristin Van de Water
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Kristin Van de Water is a former journalist and teacher who relies on humor, faith, and her mom crew to get her through the day. Raising four kids in a two-bedroom NYC apartment, Kristin is always on the lookout for life hacks to save time, space, money, and her sanity.

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If you’ve received any unusual messages, particularly those with video, on Facebook Messenger, you may want to think twice before clicking on the video to watch it—especially if it’s from someone you don’t know. In the age of phishing scams and malware that hacks your secure info, this video is far worse: this viral Facebook Messenger video depicts child pornography.

The video first began circulating on Facebook Messenger late last week. Both local police and news stations throughout the country were alerted by innocent Facebook users who came upon the disturbing video.

By early Tuesday morning, two men had been arrested in connection with the creation and distribution of the video in the cities of Millbrook and Montgomery, Alabama. The victim was also identified, found and is now safe, according to authorities as reported by The Montgomery Advertiser.

What’s particularly diabolical about the distribution of the video is that it was included with a plea for viewers to help identify and track down both the perpetrator and his victim. Essentially, the ploy was to get Facebook users to actually watch child porn as the video itself was a recording of the crime.

A spokesperson for Facebook told BuzzFeed News on Monday that the company was “aware of this issue.” The spokesperson continued:

“We reported the video to the appropriate authorities, and we have used PhotoDNA technology to automatically prevent future uploads and shares. Sharing any kind of child exploitative imagery using Facebook or Messenger is not acceptable—even to express outrage. We are and will continue to be aggressive in preventing and removing such content from our community.”

Parents worried about whether or not their kids could be exposed to this viral Facebook Messenger video can take comfort that Facebook has not only removed the video, but deleted the alleged perpetrator’s Facebook and Instagram accounts in an effort to stop the circulation of a video-recorded crime.

On Tuesday, the company followed up with BuzzFeed News to report that once Facebook was notified about the video, “It was immediately added to our Photo DNA bank, which has prevented thousands of attempted uploads/shares since.”

Even so, I wouldn’t put it past some shady individuals to find ways to around Facebook’s safeguards to keep spreading this horrible video, further victimizing the minor shown in the video, despite being found and made safe.

It’s a good rule of thumb to be wary of Facebook requests from people you don’t know, or links that look… off, especially if it’s coming from a Facebook friend, but seems unusual or uncharacteristic of them to share such links or messages.

If you or your Facebook-using tween or teen encounters questionable content on Facebook, be it on someone’s post, a private Facebook group or even in Messenger, they can report the content directly to Facebook by clicking the “Report” button or link. The Facebook Help Center has a comprehensive guide on how to report anything you come across on Facebook.

Have you been affected by a phishing scam or other type of malicious content on Facebook? Share your story in the comments.

—Keiko Zoll

 

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We’re doing you a favor. And by ‘we,’ we mean the lovely Internet people of Reddit. A (quite disturbing) thread on Reddit asks restaurant workers for some common foods that people should stop ordering. Scroll below to see what the servers, chefs, and kitchen help had to say.

1. Soup

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2. Ranch Dressing (Even if it’s “homemade”)

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3. Orange, Sesame, or General Tso’s chicken

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4. Cheese dip

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5. Some of the meats at Subway

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6. Seafood Pizza

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7. Frappuccinos

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8. Ice

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9. Non-specialty foods

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10. Drink Garnishes

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Would you take a gamble on some of these foods? Tell us in the comments below!