We know it’s so easy to get wrapped up in the day-to-day grind, and we’re right there with you. But we’ve also noticed that life moves a lot more smoothly when we feel especially connected with our partners. Problems get solved faster, stress is reduced, and that feeling of being supported just can’t be beat. And you know what? You’re both due for one of those little romantic getaways where PDA is highly encouraged (public and private displays of affection, that is), chicken nuggets aren’t on the menu, and remembering why you love each other is almost guaranteed. These romantic Airbnbs are just the place to do it.

Below are some of our favorite leave-the-kids-at-home-for-this-trip destinations around the U.S. Beaches, forests, cottages, and mansions are all included in these romantic getaways. You and your honey can start reconnecting just by picking one together (and isn’t that part of the fun?). Now, you two love birds, pick your pleasure (wink) and get ready for some well-deserved alone time.

Hygge Hus | Deming, WA

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: The Danish word ‘hygge’ means an overall vibe of coziness and comfort that leads to a feeling of contentment. So, yeah, Hygge Hus had us from the start. It’s the dreamiest mountain cabin that includes an outdoor 4′ cedar hot tub with views of the forest all around you. Talk about romance.

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.99/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “5+ stars for property and for hosts! Everything about this stay was flawless start to finish. We will definitely be returning for future visits. Sharing this home with friends and coworkers as a great weekend escape!”—Andrea, December 2023

Sleeps: 4

Cost Per Night: $464.00

Book Hygge Hus on Airbnb Here!

 

Charming Cottage | Biscayne Park, FL

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: A guest house with a tropical garden and stunning pool? Perfection. Add a tiki hut and beach access and you have all the makings of a super memorable destination.

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.94/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “A beautiful intimate oasis with privacy, peace and quiet. I will definitely stay here again on my next visit to Miami. Thank you for our stay in your lovely cottage.” Gena, October 2023

Sleeps: 2

Cost Per Night: $150.00

Book the Charming Cottage on Airbnb Here!

 

Naturalist Boudoir | Lumberton, TX

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What Makes It Special: Two words: suspended. bed. Suspended bed! This property is extremely private, with an outdoor hot tub and shower, so you can reconnect with nature. And, more importantly, with your sweetheart.

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.91/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “This place is UNBELIEVABLE! Peaceful hardly says enough. Alina also paid attention to my needs– I told her it was my husband’s birthday & she left a little surprise for him. I couldn’t be more happy & grateful.” Terri, December 2023

Sleeps: 2

Cost Per Night: $307.00

Book the Naturalist Boudoir on Airbnb Here!

 

Upper Casita | Sedona, AZ

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What Makes It Special: Spa access? That’s a clear ‘yes’, but there’s more. This apartment is located in one of the highest areas in Sedona, the view is outstanding, and the romantic kiva fireplace just adds to the romance. That’s why you’re going, right?

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.97/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “Magical, Magnificent, Marvelous….need I say more? By far one of the most special Airbnb’s in Sedona. The views are amazing! Iona and Huib have transformed a very unique property into a tranquil, private and peaceful retreat for your Sedona stay. So many special touches to make you feel welcome and comfortable! A true gem! Can’t wait to return to Eagle Dancer!” Bridgette, November 2023

Sleeps: 2

Cost Per Night: $399.00

Book Upper Casita on Airbnb Here!

 

Suite Seven | Malibu, CA

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: First of all, you absolutely can’t beat the view of beautiful Carbon Beach, especially with that daybed overlooking the ocean. And, of course, there’s beach access for those long walks together.

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.97/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “We spent the weekend at Malibu Suites for my husband’s birthday. The photos do not give it the full feel of this beach front slice of heaven. If you love peace, golden sunsets, soft sand at your door step, walks/hikes and nightlife at your fingertips (Nobu bar and restaurant conveniently next door) this is the place. I have driven past Carbon Beach countless times and was so happy to finally have the chance to spend a weekend here. Thank you Malibu Suites staff for making this a trip of a lifetime!!” Toni, October 2023

Sleeps: 4

Cost Per Night: $450.00

Book Suite Seven on Airbnb Here!

 

L’Hermione Cottage | Orland, ME

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What Makes It Special: Remodeled from an old barn, this darling little guest house cottage in Orland, ME, is surrounded by 3.5 acres of wooded area and is set completely independently and away from the main house (a beautiful 18th century home!). It’s just a short walking distance from the Orland River, too. If you have Anne of Green Gables dreams, this is the place to live them out (and yes, we know that took place in the late 19th century, but we’re sticking with our Anne idea).

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.99/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “We were blown away by this gorgeous place and the extra mile hospitality. It was very pretty with all the quintessential New England vibes and absolutely [spotlessly] clean. Everything you could need and wish for for a relaxing, cosy and peaceful stay in Maine.” Lucy, October 2023

Sleeps: 4

Cost Per Night: $100.00

Book L’Hermione Cottage on Airbnb Here!

 

The Nest | Hot Spring, AR

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: Yes, that is indeed a luxury tent you’re looking at that essentially offers 5-star amenities. Hot tub. Heated outdoor shower. Deep soaking tub in a gorgeous bathroom. It’s surrounded by woods and definitely gives us lovey-dovey vibes.

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.87/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “We booked the nest for our honeymoon and it was absolutely perfect! It was private and cozy, but close enough to town to get dinner or so fun nearby activities. All the amenities were amazing and we just could not have enjoyed our stay anymore!” Sidney, December 2023

Sleeps: 4

Cost Per Night: $279.00

Book the Nest on Airbnb Here!

 

ABODE³ at East Zion | Orderville, UT

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: This fully customized tiny home feels anything but tiny when you’re surrounded by some of the most expansive views in the country! It sits on more than an acre of land and surrounded by alfalfa farms and the magnificent East Zion White Cliffs. The extra touches (including a hot tub!) make this one incredible space.

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.93/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “The adobe provided a luxurious place to crash and relax after a long day of hiking in Zion! They thought of everything from provided coffee and creamer to a super comfy bed, an amazing hot tub, a fantastic and trendy shower/bathroom, and we even used the washer/drier! And the view was unreal! It was exactly the relaxing getaway that I needed. 10/10 will recommend to anyone traveling to Zion!” Melissa, June 2023

Sleeps: 2

Cost Per Night: $139.00

Book ABODE³ at East Zion on Airbnb Here!

 

Architectural Wonder in the Woods | Rhinebeck, NY

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: It goes without saying, but look at it. With an open floor plan and a property surrounded by the Hudson Valley woods, this stunner is heated geothermally and power comes from solar power. It’s secluded, but honestly, this house is a vacation in itself.

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.91/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “10/10. Pictures do not do it enough justice. I was truly blown away by how amazing this place was. Such good energy inside we ended up cancelling some plans just to hangout in the house. [You] will not be disappointed if [you] stay here!” Joe, November 2023

Sleeps: 4

Cost Per Night: $468.00

Book the Architectural Wonder in the Woods on Airbnb Here!

 

The Rhino Room | Napa, CA

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: The Rhino Room at Brookside Vineyard is bringing the romance (as vineyards tend to do). The property itself is secluded and situated on 3 acres and includes a semi-private patio with views of the vineyard and walking garden. It’s one of 2 guest suites, but the only shared space is the driveway, so you’ll still have plenty of privacy!

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.98/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “Our stay at the Rhino Room was wonderful! The location was absolutely stunning. Quiet, peaceful, beautiful, and almost made you want to just stay on property. It was a quick drive to everything you might need, and the room was spotless & cozy. We definitely plan on taking another trip and staying here again!!” Josephine, January 2024

Sleeps: 2

Cost Per Night: $195.00

Book the Rhino Room on Airbnb Here!

 

Dreamy Tropical Treehouse | Mountain View, HI

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What Makes It Special: Talk about luxury + seclusion. This jaw-dropping treehouse nestled on stilts 15′ up in the trees. The view is unmatched from the beautiful wraparound lanai, and even the bathroom makes you feel like you’re showering outdoors thanks to the floor-to-ceiling windows (don’t worry—it’s still private!). It’s a true level of paradise.

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.85/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “This was the most uniquely beautiful Airbnb property I’ve ever stayed at. The treehouse was decorated incredibly and was squeaky clean. I recommend this Airbnb to couples looking for a romantic getaway. 5/5 stars for me. I would love to stay again! We really enjoyed our stay here.” Jamie, December 2023

Sleeps: 2

Cost Per Night: $250.00

Book the Dreamy Tropical Treehouse on Airbnb Here!

 

Sugarpoppy Cottage | Key West, FL

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: Quintessential Florida is all bundled into Sugarpoppy Cottage in Key West. A private pool, quiet street, and tropical hues make this one fabulous retreat.

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Guest Rating: No rating yet

What Guests Are Saying: “Loved our stay at Sugarpoppy! it was very clean and easy to find, and the check in and check out process was super simple. we had an issue with an AC unit and the Last Key team was there within an hour to take a look and they fixed it almost immediately, but also took our schedule into account and even sent us out to dinner while the work was done. loved the location super close to the action but really quiet. the backyard and pool felt like our very own private oasis and we spent a lot of time there! looking forward to staying with Last Key again when we come back to Key West!” Anna, June 2021

Sleeps: 6

Cost Per Night: $175.00

Book Sugarpoppy Cottage on Airbnb Here!

 

Dreamy Colorful Desert Oasis | Palm Springs, CA

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: The mountains. The huge pool. The mid-century modern atmosphere that Palm Spring is known for. We’re so in love with this space and how close it is to downtown Palm Springs, too.

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.98/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “The Dream Home was an amazing place for me and my husband to sit back, relax, and enjoy Palm Springs. Everything was nice and clean, and was presented exactly as described and photographed. Steven and his team were friendly and quick, but thorough, on the walk through as we checked in. A few of my colleagues that have never been to Palm Springs want to book the Dream Home, too! Lovely little place.” Claire, November 2023

Sleeps: 2

Cost Per Night: $177.00

Book the Dreamy Colorful Desert Oasis on Airbnb Here!

 

French Quarter Mansion | New Orleans, LA

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: Located in the heart of the French Quarter, this historic mansion was built in 1820 and includes high ceilings, original wood floors, and a location that’s hard to beat in the Big Easy. The space has a balcony overlooking Dumaine street and Bourbon street and even includes a gorgeous common area courtyard.

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.58/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “Exceeded expectations. Host went above and beyond for us and the location was perfect. I would definitely stay again.” Makai, October 2023

Sleeps: 5

Cost Per Night: $223.00

Book the French Quarter Mansion on Airbnb Here!

 

Casita Benitez | Taos, NM

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: This boho New Mexican retreat is set in a 1950’s dance studio and includes original floors and beams. Including an interior hammock, an open space, and a clawfoot tub. It’s so whimsical (and Instagram-able!).

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.98/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “This casita and the whole Taos experience felt like pure magic. The casita is gorgeous and has the most beautiful energy and feel. It’s well-equipped, incredibly cozy and decorated in a boho style that flows impeccably with its history and the surroundings. We felt right at home here and can’t wait to return again.” Sanam, January 2024

Sleeps: 4

Cost Per Night: $132.oo

Book Casita Benitez on Airbnb Here!

 

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These hostess gift ideas will make them feel so appreciated

Whether you’re heading to a holiday party or invited for a weekend visit, you’ll want to make sure you don’t show up empty-handed. Hostess gifts may be a little old-fashioned, but that’s because they really are a classic move that will never go out of style. Thanking your hostess (or host, of course) for their hospitality and any work they’ve put into making you, their guest, feel welcome, is always considerate. Although the sentiment has never gotten old, the gift itself changes from decade to decade. So, you’ll need some hostess gift ideas, especially with the upcoming holiday season.

These carefully curated gifts will please any hosts, even your hard-to-shop-for-sister-in-law. They’ll be welcome additions to their home, pantry, and every day, plus many of them actually make their next event that much easier to put together. Scroll down for our favorite hostess gift ideas for 2023.

TBH Vineyards Sonoma Coast Pinot Noir

this pinot noir from TBH vineyards is a good hostess gift idea
TBH Vineyards

A bottle of wine is always a good idea when it comes to a hostess gift. This wonderful Pinot Noir is made from 100% estate-grown organic grapes from Small Vines on the Sonoma Coast and is a full-bodied wine with hints of cherries, a floral scent, and a lovely lingering flavor. 

TBH Vineyards Sonoma Coast Pinot Noir ($104)—Buy Here! 

Copper Whistling Tea Kettle

HSN

This cute kettle bundled with some of your favorite hot cocoa and gourmet marshmallows make a fun family gift (with a bit of style thrown in).

Copper Whistling Tea Kettle ($37.80)—Buy Here!

Pizza Accessories Kit

Backcountry

Set them up for family pizza night with this set that comes with two pizza peels, a spatula and a rocking cutter.

Pizza Accessories Kit ($65.99)—Buy Here!

Beekman 1802 Goat Milk Caddy Set

Beekman 1802

Goat milk is known for its moisturizing qualities. We love gifting this soap and lotion set especially since its fragrance-free and includes a counter caddy.

Beekman 1802 Goat Milk Caddy Set ($30.80)—Buy Here!

Tipsy Turvy Bar Glass Set

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Who wouldn't want to toast with these gorgeous glasses? Champagne, sparking cider, or your favorite La Croix—we're using them for everything.

Tipsy Turvy Bar Glass Set ($32.95)—Buy Here!

Bamboo Multi-Level Cheese Board Set

BerfHOFF

Help enhance their next gathering with this pretty cheese board set, complete with 3 cutting and serving tools.

Bamboo Multi-Level Cheese Board Set ($79.99)—Buy Here!

Hoya Heart Succulent

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This succulent will look darling on a windowsill and it needs very little maintenance (and is therefore the perfect gift, of course).

Hoya Heart Succulent ($39.99)—Buy Here!

Gold Leaf Glassware

Well Told

Glassware with a city map in 22-carat gold leaf is sure to endear your host to you even when your kid locks themselves in the bathroom in the middle of the party. Choose from 22 popular cities.

Gold Leaf Glassware ($23.95)—Buy Here!

Rainbow Agate Coaster Set of 4

Amazon

Protect furniture from glass rings and toddler spills with this lovely coaster set of 4.

Rainbow Agate Coaster Set of 4 ($45.99)—Buy Here!

Superstitchous Blanket

Superstitchous

San Francisco mom Samira Khoshnood created Superstitchous while on maternity leave after the birth of her first child. We love gifting these cozy blankets to pretty much anyone. Especially with a variety of charming prints and sizes, you can't go wrong.

Superstitchous Blanket ($88.00+)—Buy Here!

anecdote candles

anecdote candles

Made of long-lasting soy wax and hand-poured in California, these are a chic-meets-cheeky offering. There are a bunch of different single and bundle options to fit your favorite hostess's personality.

anecdote candles ($14.00+)—Buy Here!

Chocolarder Drinking Chocolate

Bar and Cocoa

What's better than hot cocoa? Drinking chocolate is a blend of cocoa and grated chocolate for a next-level (and super indulgent) gift.

Chocolarder Drinking Chocolate ($25.00)—Buy Here!

Paper Vase Wraps

Lucy Grymes

The perfect gift wrap for that bouquet of flowers you can grab on your way over; use a recycled jar, a can or a simple vase and make it dressy. Coated paper stock in lots of different color choices.

Paper Vase Wraps ($19.00)—Buy Here!

Fig Lemontini Craft Cocktail Kit

Sundance

A botanical blend of fruits, herbs, and spices that only require adding the recommended choice of spirits for the perfect cocktail.

Fig Lemontini Craft Cocktail Kit ($28.00+)—Buy Here!

YETI Rambler 10 oz Wine Tumbler

Amazon

Your hostess can keep her drink of choice cool while she gets everything ready when you gift her a Yeti Tumbler.

YETI Rambler 10 oz Wine Tumbler ($46.00)—Buy Here!

Classic Cowgirl Cheese Collection

Goldbelly

A perfect trio of cheese from one of the country's best cheesemakers. Includes a decadent triple cream Mt Tam, funky and buttery Red Hawk, and versatile aged Wagon Wheel.

Classic Cowgirl Cheese Collection ($89.95)—Buy Here!

PureWine Purifier Wands

PureWine

Filter out sulfites with this simple wine filter and say goodbye to wine headaches. Simply add one to each glass you pour and in 3 minutes, you'll have a clean-tasting filtered glass of your favorite grapes.

PureWine Purifier Wands ($11.99+)—Buy Here!

Bloom Tamarind Wood Bowl

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Filled with lemons or a large salad, this bowl is a stunner they'll love displaying.

Bloom Tamarind Wood Bowl ($99.95)—Buy Here!

 

—Kate Loweth, Amber Guetebier, Gabby Cullen, & Kate Cartia

 

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It’s been a few years since Disney’s famed Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique has taken reservations thanks to the pandemic, but the wait is almost over. The one-of-a-kind experience is getting ready to re-open its doors on August 25!

Reservations for the boutique are set to open up in early August, and once guests return, they will be able to embrace a more gender-neutral experience. Disney Parks have announced that the old “Fairy Godmothers in Training” will now be known as “Fairy Godmother’s Apprentices.”

The new moniker is a big step in making sure all cast members feel included and that everyone is welcome when it comes to dressing up and embracing the magic that Disney is known for. For the first time, men will be able to work at the Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique!

Until now, only female cast members could hold the title ‘Fairy Godmothers in Training.’

KTLA reports that “Disney had actually made a decision to switch over to the new titles in 2020, but the implementation was delayed when the boutiques were shuttered amid the pandemic. The new titles were chosen to allow cast members of any gender to feel accepted and welcome while working at the shops, according to the representative.”

If you aren’t familiar with the Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique, it’s a royal experience where young princes and princesses have the opportunity to get pampered. Kids can choose hairstyles, makeup and accessories to transform into the character of their dreams.

Apprentices at the boutique help young guests choose the services they want, and now they can do it in a more inclusive environment. Disney Parks have been updating their language for years to ensure all guests feel welcome, and this new change is a welcome addition for its cast members, too.

 

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Jennifer Lawrence may be a new mom, but that hasn’t stopped her mama bear instinct from kicking in strong. The actress, who welcomed her first child this year with husband Cooke Maroney, has long since valued her privacy and she’s going to make sure her baby has the same.

Lawrence sat down with Vanity Fair in Nov. ’21, before her son was born and talked about what she had experienced so far in her pregnancy. “If I was at a dinner party and somebody was like, ‘Oh my god, you’re expecting a baby,’ I wouldn’t be like, ‘God, I can’t talk about that. Get away from me, you psycho!’ But every instinct in my body wants to protect their privacy for the rest of their lives, as much as I can,” she says.

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Lawrence took quite some time off from Hollywood after the success of The Hunger Games, so she’s quite familiar with the precious notion of privacy. In regards to her son, she said “I don’t want anyone to feel welcome into their existence. And I feel like that just starts with not including them in this part of my work.”

Lawrence and her husband tied the knot back in 2019 and revealed they were expecting in Sept. 2021 with few details. Despite giving birth in Feb. 2021, the news was not officially confirmed until the actress chatted with Ellen via phone during the talk show host’s final few episodes in May.

Even then, it was simply a matter of saying “thank you” when Ellen congratulated her on becoming a mom. Despite wanting all the deets about cute baby Lawrence-Maroney, we totally get the actress’s plight to keeping her son safe and free from the critical eyes of the public.

JLaw, you do you!

 

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My husband ordered me a few books for mothers about parenting when I was in a funk, and all I could do after skimming each of them was chuck them across the room. “Your tribe,” “mommy circle,” “trusted group of friends.” The foundational element of sanity in each book was the same: find other moms you can connect with and share and support one another.

But what if you don’t have mom friends?

Each book explains how and where to find these friends—join a club, class, community events, post on mom meet-up forums—and even realistically explains that it takes time and trial-and-error to find the right people to form genuine connections with.

Right.

Well, not everyone has that. I currently live in a foreign country where I don’t speak the language, and there aren’t any ex-pats in the area with young children. There are no playgroups, clubs or meet-ups, and the majority of the locals send their babies to daycare at a very young age. It wasn’t until my oldest was school-aged, and I enrolled her in an international school, that I saw a bunch of kids under the age of 5.

For four years, I was flying back and forth between countries and changing cities, so making real friends was not going to happen very quickly. Also, as a first-time mom, and now with two kids, my life was 24/7 babies, so there was no time or way to cultivate a social circle with nap schedules, breastfeeding and no family or outside support. I was so overwhelmed with taking care of my children’s needs, maintaining a relationship with my husband and connecting with my parents over the phone, yet I found myself so lonely.

And ya know, that’s a very boo-hoo-sounding first-world problem. I fully recognize the women out there who are too busy and too stressed working 2-3 jobs, living far from or without family. All the fear and stress that consumes their minds to provide the basics probably helps mask the emotional emptiness that having no one to call a friend does to a woman. Solo, overworked moms, I am absolutely in awe of you. I see you.

To be fair, I am a private, unsocial person by nature. I like people, I do, and I am really good at introducing myself and making people feel welcome, but after that, you’ll probably never hear from me again. I hate the follow-up, making a plan, committing to a date. I just can’t do sustained small talk until that acquaintance/friend barrier is broken. I have no childhood friends, school friends, university friends or old co-worker friends I stay in contact with. I am just a loner by nature, I guess.

But motherhood brings out a deep primal need for community, for connection. Not only to have someone to watch a kid for two seconds, or to help do mundane things with like errands, chores, cooking and having play dates, but to have someone who completely knows what it is like—an unspoken understanding so that all the gross, private, personal, awful, wonderful things can be shared with no disclaimers, context or explanations. Maybe I just romanticize what having these sorts of friends must be like, but reading and viewing the volumes of content on the miracles of mom friends, it sounds just magical.

Being a lifelong loner prepared me somewhat, but there was a rough two-year period I thought I would lose my mind from the need for kinship.

So, lonely mama, I know how it feels. I know that deep longing and yearning, all while being completely unwilling or unable to put oneself out there to try to get what it is you feel you’re missing. You can get through it, though, you can. It hurts, and it’s taxing, but it’s possible.

Honestly, I found a lot of comfort imagining the pioneer women who settled far out and away from much else. That sounds very random, but it was a solid example of women who ventured out to nowhere and had to make do with what and who they had. Many managed to raise families on their own, husband aside. If that was possible, what I feel is not unique or impossible to get through now. There are countless examples throughout time and place of lonely mothers who survived, all without self-help books or mommy groups. Maybe some resonate with you.

And in a way, after so long, I kind of like my super tight-knit family unit. It’s manageable. It’s compact. There isn’t any social drama to worry over or handle. I can count my people on the one hand, which is peace-inducing, at least for me. I feel a sense of pride that I am doing this mothering business on my own. Sure, I want some mom friends, but I am strong enough and seasoned enough to know I don’t need them.

I wish I could give an easy self-help-style solution. Yet after chucking so many of those kinds of books against the wall, lamenting that every solution could not be my solution, I know that isn’t always possible. Reading the words of those who feel the same is the most reassuring way to handle some sanity on the hard days. I don’t feel like I need to find you because I know you will find me. So when you type into google looking for solutions for ‘I’m so lonely and ‘I don’t have any mom friends,’ I hope you may unexpectedly land here.

I know you’re lonely, mama, and I am telling you that you can do it, from one loner to the next.

I am an expat, wife, mother, writer, and teacher (in training). Currently living in South Korea, I am married to a Greek, and raising my intercultural girls. Despite being a steadfast introvert, I enjoy writing and sharing my perspectives on motherhood, history and teaching, and life in general. 

“Back to school” can be synonymous with “back to the doctor.” There are vaccines and physicals to get in before heading back to class or the field, and with more activity comes the risk of unexpected injuries and illnesses. Having quality care that’s easily accessible (not to mention affordable) is crucial for kids. We love that Brave Care has it all covered in one place, from check-ups or immunizations you need right away (like, today!) to care for unexpected sprains or breaks, with same-day primary care AND urgent care for kids. Read on five reasons why Brave Care is the only care center you need, from birth to graduation.

Book your visit with Brave Care today!

1. There When You Need Them

Unlike other doctors’ offices with standard business hours, Brave Care offers primary and same-day urgent care appointments from 10 a.m.-10 p.m., seven days a week, 365 days a year. And their pediatric experts, not an answering service, answer the phone 24 hours a day. (Because injuries and illnesses don’t care if it’s a Sunday at 11 p.m. or a holiday…)

 

2. One-Stop-Shop

It can be tough to juggle all of the care visits that kids require (not to mention your own!). Families can schedule their kiddos’ check-ups, flu-shots, vaccine appointments, sports or summer camp physicals, in-house labs and more. Their clinics have on-site x-rays and over-the-counter medicines, so you don’t need to make multiple appointments at different offices or have extra errands to run.

 

3. Same-Day Primary Care

That’s right: Same-day primary care bookings are available (this blew us away!). Now you can quickly get the care they need when it’s most urgent (and not two weeks from now). Brave Care exists to guarantee parents and caregivers have a safe, reliable and local practice readily available to them—thank you, Brave Care!

 

4. Affordable Expert Emergency Care

With kids, accidents are bound to happen—worrying about how much that emergency room visit will cost shouldn’t. Their providers offer the same expert care as the ER at a tenth of the cost. Same-day urgent care appointments are available for injuries requiring immediate attention (like broken bones, lacerations, foreign objects in ears/noses, stitches) and non-life-threatening conditions—from rashes to fevers and stomach aches.

 

5. Comfort & Safety

Brave Care clinics are designed with families in mind. Their physical spaces are built to make every parent and child feel welcome, comfortable and safe. You can expect inclusive and welcoming care with providers they have specifically chosen to uphold that mission.

Brave Care is here for your family 24/7—book your visit today!

 

 

—Jamie Aderski

 

 

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Adoptive moms are not that different from any other mom. They have to care for their children, get upset, frustrated, and annoyed by their kids, and they love and brag about their kids.

Yet, an adoptive mom has differences from other moms. Adoptive moms add children of varying ages to their family. Moms may not know the child’s full background either. Plus, they have to go through life with the adopted child, navigating what it means to be an adopted parent and helping their child understand that as well.

The adoption process is challenging, and it can be confusing at times how to support those moms who are going through or have gone through that process.

Here are 8 things you can do to support adoptive moms, no matter where they’re at in their adoption journey.

1. Learn about the Adoption Process
One of the best things you can do is learn about the adoption process. If you want to support your friend, this certainly helps, especially if you don’t know much about it. While you don’t have to understand every detail, learning the basics will help you view adoption from your friend’s perspective.

Most adoptive moms are willing to talk to you about the process. Learning about adoption facilitates discussions with the adoptive mom because it allows you to ask informed questions and be enthused with her.

2. Understand That Parenting May Be Different
Biological children and adopted children likely will be parented differently. The mom is likely trying to find a new balance with their newly adopted child and find a parenting routine that works. An adopted child may have a background unlike that of a biological child. Consequences and other actions towards an adopted child may not work.

For example, sending a child to their room is a common discipline method among many parents. However, for a child who may have been abandoned or doesn’t view possessions the same way, leaving them alone for a time out could have negative consequences. An adoptive parent has to be flexible to meet the child’s needs.

3. Give Thoughtful Gifts
An adoptive parent probably isn’t directly going to ask for support or gifts. However, they will never turn down help or a meaningful gift. The gift could be a box of chocolates or an offer to help clean her home or cook a meal for the family.

When giving a gift to the newly adopted child, make it something small that the family can enjoy together. Some children aren’t used to having so many material items and may become overwhelmed. A gift card for a movie or an art kit would be perfect so the entire family can be involved.

4. Choose Your Words Carefully
Even if you have a lot of experience raising children, are good at it and could give your friend some advice, avoid it. Often, adopted children have a past trauma in their lives. They’re likely emotionally unstable, so traditional parenting doesn’t always work. The right thing could very well be the wrong thing when parenting an adopted child.

Additionally, be careful with your words around adoptive families. Avoid asking questions about the child’s past or how much the child cost. These children are not commodities, and their story is theirs to share.

5. Treat the Child as Human
Once the child arrives at their new home, it’s an exciting time, no doubt! However, that child is not a celebrity—they are human. Taking photos of the newly adopted child and pouring all of your attention on them while disregarding the mom’s other children isn’t healthy.

View the family as a normal family. Plus, talk openly with your own children that adoption and children who may look different are normal. This helps the adopted child feel welcome and safe.

6. Offer Financial Resources
Adoption can be expensive. Many families look for ways to reduce the cost of adoption. You certainly don’t have to give the family cash directly, but you can help with fundraisers or other ways to help them with the cost.

Attend fundraising events that the family hosts or ask if you can help organize a fundraiser for them. Any bit of financial help goes a long way, and the parents will feel appreciated and supported by your gesture.

7. Listen
One of the most important ways you can support adoptive moms is by simply listening. This is good advice for any relationship, but if you have a friend or family member who is adopting, listen more than you talk. Your friend’s world is drastically changing as she learns new knowledge through the adoption process.

You might feel uncomfortable with some topics, but your friend needs that time to talk and process. She is sharing because she wants someone to listen, not for someone to offer advice. Plus, by actively listening, you can better support, understand and communicate with your friend.

8. Support & Encourage Them From the Start
When you hear that your friend is adopting, be there for them from the start. The adoption process can be long and draining, but it’s also rewarding and exciting in the end. Adoptive moms need all the encouragement they can get, so use these tips to support them!

Kara Reynolds is the Editor-in-Chief and founder of Momish Magazine.  A mom of four and matriarch to her big blended family, Kara wants nothing more than to normalize differences in family structures.  She enjoys peeing alone, pancakes, and pinot noir - but not at the same time. 

BFFs. Besties. Frenemies. Why do kids have so many names for friends? Maybe it’s because after family, your kiddos’ pals are the greatest force in their lives. It starts with toddler play dates set up by mom, and before you know it they’re inviting kids over for an all-night movie marathon. Read on to discover eight of our favorite books about the power of friendship.

This post is sponsored by HarperCollins publishing’s new HarperAlley graphic novels for early readers, ages 6-10. The novels harness the power of visual learning to engage kids and help emerging readers build their literary skills to become confident, independent readers. Learn more about the graphic novels Pea Bee & Jay, Arlo & Pips and Beak & Ally!

Yo! Yes?

Scholastic

Sometimes the language of friendship is as simple as a “yo!” In this vibrantly illustrated story, two boys from different backgrounds become friends from the start of a tentative greeting. 

Ages: 2-4

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You Are Friendly

Maren Green Publishing

This award-winning book teaches kids there are numerous to connect with others. Inviting someone to play, sharing and being kind are all ways to make and keep friends.

 Ages: 2-4 

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Beak & Ally, by Norm Feuti

HarperCollins

A brand-new early reader graphic novel series about finding friendship in unexpected places! Ally the alligator is perfectly happy being alone... until one day a noisy bird named Beak lands on her snout. Much to Ally’s annoyance, this chatty bird likes to sing constantly and has chosen a nearby tree to build his new nest. Even worse, he insists that he and Ally should be best friends. In fact, he has all kinds of friendship goals in mind, and it seems nothing Ally says will convince him that she’d rather just be alone. Nothing beats peace and quiet... except for maybe a new best friend?

$12.99

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The Invisible Boy

Knopf Books for Young Readers

No one ever notices Brian, and he’s not included. Everything changes when a new kid comes to class. Brian makes him feel welcome right away, and they form a special bond that helps each of them shine.

Ages: 6-9

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How to Be a Friend

Little, Brown Books for Young Readers

This fun dinosaur character-themed book is a friendship how-to guide. Kids learn how to show someone they want to be friends, how to handle bullies, how to be a good friend, and even conflict resolution.

Ages: 4-8 years

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All Are Welcome

Knopf Books for Young Readers

Teaching kids the importance of inclusion is the building block of friendship. This book follows a group of kids of all backgrounds as they are wholeheartedly welcomed at school by their teachers and peers.

Ages: 4-8 years

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Enemy Pie

Chronicle Books

Jeremy Ross is the new kid on the block and enemy number one. His dad has a special recipe to turn enemies into friends: Enemy Pie. Part of the recipe is spending a whole day playing with the enemy so it may not be easy, but it's bound to work!

Ages: 5-9

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The One and Only Ivan

HarperCollins

This Newberry Award-winning book tells the story of Ivan, a gorilla who lives in a shopping mall with humans watching his mundane life through the glass. A baby elephant named Ruby who was taken from her family meets Ivan, and changes his life forever, as only true friendship can.

Ages: 8-12 

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This post is sponsored by HarperCollins publishing’s new HarperAlley graphic novels for early readers, ages 6-10. The novels harness the power of visual learning to engage kids and help emerging readers build their literary skills to become confident, independent readers. Learn more about the graphic novels Pea Bee & Jay, Arlo & Pips and Beak & Ally!

—Emma Bland Smith & Jamie Aderski

While there is an official Something Nice Day, we think the idea of spreading kindness and compliments should happen every day of the year. Show your kids that a few kind words go a long way. Scroll down for a few compliments you can pay to the people in your life.

photo: Bessi via pixabay

Compliments for Kids


Experts agree that specific praise (What a nice job you did writing your name) boost self-esteem more than general compliments (You are so smart!). Here’s a few examples:
You did a great job putting your shoes on.

I like your singing voice. Please sing me another song.

Very nice writing skills.

Good job making your bed.

You are so good at making me laugh.

You have a beautiful smile. It makes me so happy to see it.

When you do a good job, it makes me feel proud.

I love your choice of colors.

Compliments at a Restaurant/Service


These compliments are pretty universal. Try one at the local coffee shop or even the person who put you on hold at the cable company (patience is a virtue!):

You did a great job listening to us. Thank you.

I appreciate how calm you are amidst chaos.

You were our favorite part of lunch.

Thank you for being so prompt!

You really are poised no matter how busy it gets. It’s impressive.

You made us feel welcome and that made my day.

Compliments to the chef!

Compliments for Teachers & Caregivers

Although they dole out the praise to your little ones, it’s not often enough we give it back to them.

I am always moved by how patient and kind you are.

I wanted you to know how much my kids admire you.

I love how attentive you are to every child here. It’s amazing.

You have really made a difference in my child’s life.

You are a source of inspiration for my kid.

What’s the best compliment you’ve received? Share it with us in the comments. 

—Amber Guetebier