With a little planning—and forgiveness—surviving the holidays without losing your temper is possible

It’s the holiday season—you’re supposed to be happy, jolly, merry… right? RIGHT? Maybe not entirely. If you’re like most parents, the holidays come with equal parts Christmas cheer and seasonal stress. On one hand, we want to spoil our kids and feel their joy as they tear off the wrappings of their brand-new bikes or coveted toys—on the other, on the other, we can’t help but see red (the bad kind) as a result of all the ways they act out leading up to the big day.

And it’s no wonder: Between the added expenses, event overload, family drama, and travel plans, there can be more than merriment lurking behind those “perfect” holiday moments. In fact, according to a C.S. Mott Children’s Hospital report, one in six parents reports being more stressed during the holidays (with moms reporting twice as much stress as dads). As for what causes most yuletide woes, parents ranked holiday shopping, keeping kids healthy, household finances, party planning, meal-making, and criticism from family members as the biggest offenders

The holidays usually mean increased spending, a change of schedule, interaction with extended family, and of course, less sunlight, says Los Angeles-based psychologist Tara Klein. “We need to be extra careful about self-care during this time to have the emotional resilience for all the ups and downs that go along with the holidays.”

What that means is with planning—and forgiveness (of you and your kids!)—surviving the holidays without completely losing it on your little sugarplums is possible. Here’s how to make it happen:

Find Ways to Alleviate Financial Stress

If you’re worried about how to afford all those gifts—you’re not alone. A poll conducted by debt resolution company Beyond Finance found that more than two-thirds of people said holiday spending ups their stress levels—82 percent worried they won’t be able to pay for all the gifts they want to buy. Here are some tips for surviving the holidays when it comes to finances:

Make a budget—and stick to it. Be realistic about what you can spend and map out your gift-giving list on paper. Then, be sure to stick to your plans! Need some help? Microsoft offers this free budget-making template

Get creative with gifts. You don’t have to buy all your gifts; there are plenty of crafts and “I Owe You” items that your family and friends would be just as happy to receive. Offer your scrubbing skills to a relative in need of a car wash. Spend the evening babysitting for a friend overwhelmed with her littles (Best. Gift. Ever.). And, DIYers: From fresh-baked cookies to homemade photo gifts, this is your chance to shine!

Opt for whole-family gifts. If you have several siblings and an army of nieces and nephews, opt for whole-family gifts that can simplify your giving load. Family board games, outdoor lawn games, and food deliveries (like this candy care package or this gorgeous cupcake platter) can be easy cross-generational gifts.

Take advantage of free shipping. While there is an anxiety-ridden rite of passage to braving the mobbed post office during the days before Christmas—it’s unnecessary. Save money on shipping by taking advantage of stores that offer free shipping for purchases.

Be honest with family members. It’s OK to simmer down the expectations. Tell your extended family members that your budget is tight this year and that they’ll receive “creative” gifts (or just cards) instead of pricey gifts. Most people will welcome your honesty—it may even take the load off them, too—and you’ll feel better knowing everyone knows what to expect.

Related: 29 Holiday Gifts That You Can Make at Home

Learn How to Handle the Constant “I WANTs” from Your Kids

surviving the holidays with kids means managing their expectations

Is your child summoning her inner Veruca Salt whenever you take her to Target? Deep breaths! It’s hard to handle the barrage of “I wants” that can possess our kids during the holidays, but it’s not entirely their fault. After all, every ad and conversation they have about Christmas likely has to do with gift-giving. So the wanting is normal, but it’s the demands you need to curb. Here’s how to manage:

Make a Wish Board to help kids feel heard. Parent coach Abigail Wald—author of a Parenting Survival Deck that includes tips for handling tricky kid behaviors (click here to get the “Want Wanter” card for free!)—recommends that families make a Wish Board to help kids organize their holiday wants.

Let them put every single thing that they want on there. Then, throughout the next month or two, you can help them physicalize it by cutting out little pictures and moving things up and down the list of where they want them. It can become a fun little connective art project that the two of you have together, which takes down some of the wanting,” says Wald.

She also suggests checking back in with the list: Every time your child thinks they would have played with that one thing, put a checkmark by it; whichever has the most checkmarks by the end might be what they want the most.

Talk about giving. We all know what the holidays are supposed to be about, but to the typical kid, it’s all about getting presents. Help your kids see it in a different light by talking about what your family will give the grandparents or other extended family members; have them make small gifts to pass out to friends, neighbors, and teachers; take part in a neighborhood toy drive or an “Adopt a Family” campaign. The more they experience the joy of giving, the less they may want.

Take pictures. When your child begs for a particular toy at a store, pull out your phone and take a picture of the item to add to their special Wish List. Often, acknowledging what the child wants by photographing it is enough to quiet the wanting.

Teach them how to properly accept gifts (even the ones they don’t like). It might not be easy to watch, but it’s normal for kids to complain when they open a sweater instead of a Switch. Your kid is not “spoiled “or “ungrateful;” they’re just a developing human that hasn’t refined their filter. Yet. 

To help, try this: Wrap an assortment of random items—a rock from the driveway, a  toddler fork, a stick—and put them wherever you open holiday gifts. Then, take turns opening gifts and showing an exaggerated level of gratitude over each thing (OMG, “I’ve always wanted a fork like this!” “Thank you so much! This rock will look perfect on my dresser!” or “Wow, this stick is PERFECT!”). You’ll get enough giggles to get the point across, and hopefully, your kids will transfer the game to real life when they receive their next sweater.

Try to Keep (at least some of) Your Kids’ Routines

a mom trying to survive the holidays by keeping a routine with her kids

For kids, veering from the everyday routine can be a recipe for disaster. And even though the holidays can mean no school, travel, and a candy-lined upheaval of the norm, you can still keep at least some of your regular rituals, including finding time for naptime and following traditional bedtime routines.

As Harvard Health Publishing Senior Faculty Editor Claire McCarthy, MD, states, “As tempting as it may be to let kids stay up late and sleep late throughout the holidays, try to stay within an hour of usual times, except for special occasions (like New Year’s Eve). Same goes for mealtimes (be sure your kids get three healthy meals a day, preferably with you and not in front of the television).”

Keep Kids Busy—Especially During Family Gatherings.

If your kid has something to do, they are less likely to be tugging on your arm demanding attention or melting down on the living room floor over a broken candy cane. Bring toys or games to keep your toddlers busy during family gatherings, and let older children help by passing out hors d’oeuvres or taking guests’ coats.

Related: 11 Christmas Minute to Win It Games the Kids Will Love

Make a List of All the Events—and Decide Which Ones to Skip

School concerts! Holiday office parties! Family gatherings! Santa! There is so much going on over the holidays that it’s easy to get overwhelmed. But YOU DON’T HAVE TO DO IT ALL. Write a list of all the events happening over the month and decide which ones you can do and which ones you can cut. Then, put all those things on a family calendar that everyone can see. This way, you don’t overextend yourself (and your kids know what to expect). The more relaxed you feel, surviving the holidays without losing it on your kids won’t feel so unattainable.

Keep a Designated Friend on Speed Dial

If you’re worried about surviving the holidays without losing it, Wald advises finding a “listening partner” for when times get tough. “I love to have a speed dial buddy—a friend I can text or call when I need to check in. You can feel alone even amid a lot of people, so it’s nice to have someone who knows your life, who knows your kids, who’s got your back, who you can text or call from the bathroom, from the car, or while you’re going for a walk. Just someone who can help you regroup and get grounded again,” she says. 

Surviving the Holidays Means Remembering It Doesn’t Have to Be Perfect

Melissa Heckscher

The entire holiday season is a little like my 2019 holiday card. It took so long to get my three kids to sit still with corresponding “Happy. New. Year” signs that we attracted a small crowd of onlookers who chuckled at my Sisyphean efforts to corral the trio into a picture with at least three open pairs of eyelids (because after a while, that was my bare minimum). The moments leading up to the photo were filled with arguing, frustration, and the promise of candy, but all I see now is that perfect picture and those sweet smiles.  

Wald offers sage advice about surviving the holidays, “It’s the things that happen year after year that they will remember most, so if a particular holiday time winds up pear-shaped, don’t worry. It doesn’t need to be perfect; it’s the fact that it’s happening at all that matters.” So be gentle with yourself and allow yourself—and your kids—some grace.

 

All images via iStock unless otherwise noted 

 

 

You’ll find so much cheer and excitement at these U-cut Christmas tree farms near NYC

And just like that, the holiday season is upon us. For many, that means it’s time to get a Christmas tree. Visit a cut your own Christmas tree farm near NYC to chop your own, or pick out a pre-cut one. At many, you can also do some holiday shopping or even have a visit with Santa Claus himself! Your family will have a blast cutting down their own tree and also experiencing all of the other wonderful things these farms offer. But don’t forget to see what else there is to do this holiday season in NYC!

U-Cut Christmas Tree Farms in Connecticut

Sabia Tree Farm

Head to this charming and quaint farm nestled in Fairfield County for neatly lined rows of trees. A handsaw is available to borrow and staff will assist you with baling and securely tying the tree to your car. You can also buy a pin stand that is customized for your tree here. Bonus: Professional photographers are available for a photo session you can book. Visit the farm stand for fresh farmed eggs and handmade gifts from local vendors. 

Opening Day: Nov. 24

772 Morehouse Rd.
Easton, CT
Online: sabiatreefarm.com

Jones Family Farms

Weekend visits for both harvest-your-own trees and fresh-cut trees require a reservation. Come on a weekday when it's less busy and reservations are not required. Guests that plan to harvest their own tree should arrive no later than 4 p.m. Trees are sustainably grown and pruned every year during the eight-to-10-year period it takes to grow to full size, and every buyer of a cut-your-own tree gets a free commemorative Woodbury pewter ornament. The farm’s Barnyard Shop sells holiday treats and decor including wreaths, handmade crafts and tree stands, and an outdoor Holiday Courtyard Market offers open-air shopping. Payment is by cash or check only. U-cut trees are $92 on weekdays and $97 on weekends.

Opening Day: Sat., Nov. 18

555 Walnut Tree Rd.
Shelton, CT
Online: jonesfamilyfarms.com

Maple Row Farms

This farm has practiced sustainable farming for well over 200 years. Choose between spruce or fir by using their nifty online map. Did you know that fir and pine trees will hold their needles the longest over a spruce tree? Trees at Maple Farm are guaranteed so if you bring home one that loses a large amount of needles, return it to the Farm before Christmas for a replacement or a certificate for the following year. All trees are discounted $10 on weekdays. It’s generally less busy too. Cut your own trees on weekends are $118 and pre-cut trees start at $118. You will be provided with twine but will need to ask them to help you tie it to your car. You can also purchase wreaths and other holiday items. The weekend offers hayrides, refreshments and tailgating is allowed. Your whole family will have a great time!

Opening Day: Sat., Nov. 18

229 Stepney Road
Easton, CT
Online: mrfarm.com

Related: 10 Merry & Bright New Holiday Traditions to Start This Year

U-Cut Christmas Tree Farms in New Jersey

u-cut christmas tree farms near NYC
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Wykoff's Christmas Tree Farm

Spend a fun day at this family-owned farm nestled in Warren County near the Delaware Water Gap. Not only do they grow award-winning trees, they've also provided trees to the White House. This is also the spot to get colorful Christmas trees, in hues like red, pink, purple, and blue. They have over 5,000 trees and several varieties to choose from. You can cut your own tree or pick a fresh-cut tree. Fresh-cut trees vary by type and size. Stop by the Christmas Barn for all your holiday decor needs. 

Opening Day: Fri., Nov. 24

249 Country Rd. 519 (Mile marker 39)
Belvidere, NJ
Online: wyckoffs.com

Barclay's Tree Farm

This family-owned and operated farm in Middlesex County promises one of the most affordable cut-your-own Christmas tree options in the area. Staff is on hand to help you pick the right tree, providing saws, squaring off and shaping branches as well as netting and securing the tree to your car. Douglas and Fraser firs are the farm’s bestsellers. Also on offer are the Blue Spruce which has a dusty blue look, the distinctive White Firs which have a fragrant lemon-pine scent and the classic Norway Spruce. Your kiddos will love looking around at the different colored trees! Stay tuned for their open date.

Opening Day: Fri., Nov. 24

35 Orchardside Dr.
Cranbury, NJ
Online:
barclaystreefarm.com

Related: 40+ Elf on the Shelf Ideas (because You’re Gonna Need Them)

U-Cut Christmas Tree Farms in Westchester

Wilkens Fruit and Fir Farm

Cut your own Douglas or Fraser Fir Christmas tree starting the weekend after Thanksgiving at Wilkens Farm. The farm also offers fresh-cut Fraser firs as well. Don’t leave without stopping by the farm’s markets for fresh baked goodies like apple cider donuts, homemade unfiltered apple cider, wreaths, gift baskets and local crafts perfect for this holiday season. Bring the family out for a wonderful time!

Opening Day: Sat., Nov. 25

1335 White Hill Rd.
Yorktown Heights, NY
Online:
wilkensfarm.com

Related: Shine Bright! The Best NYC Holiday Lights & Displays

U-Cut Christmas Tree Farms on Long Island

Santa's Christmas Tree Farm

Experience the spirit of the season at this one-stop shop on the North Fork of Long Island. Santa's Christmas Tree Farm carries over 8,000 Douglas Fir trees to choose from with an average tree height between 6-7 feet tall. Field-cut trees are $90 while pre-cut Frasier firs start at $90. Santa's helpers will be around to provide you with a handsaw, as well as trim and tie your tree to your car. The farm offers a synthetic ice skating rink, a petting zoo, make-your-own s'mores, and a photo op with Santa on weekends. The farm is also known for its Christmas shop with ultra-festive displays and decorations. Sensory-friendly visits with Santa also take place here. Come for a tree and stay for the fun!

Opening Day: Sat., Nov. 18

0105 Main Rd. (Route 25)
Cutchogue, NY
Online: santaschristmastreefarmli.com

Elwood Christmas Tree Farm

This small home-run lot has more than 4,000 trees and is one of Long Island’s most westerly Christmas Tree farms. Bring your own saw and you can take home one of their many tree varieties including firs, pines and spruces. (They also sell pre-cut trees and will cut one for you with your saw.) Set on a picturesque spot on a slight hill, the farm is low frills but gets super busy. Trees are reasonably priced based on the height and species you select. Call for reservations. 

Opening Day: Sat., Nov. 18

1500 East Jericho Turnpike
Huntington, NY
Online: elwoodpumpkinfarm.com

Tilden Lane Farm

Tilden Lane Farm offers three types of spruce trees to cut yourself (a type good for holding the weight of lights and decorations) and two kinds of firs, which tend to last longer. Stock is extremely limited if you want to cut your own, so head there on Thanksgiving weekend for the best selection. The farm also offers fresh-cut Fraser fir trees. Hand saws are available or you can bring your own and staff can help with tree wrapping and securing to your vehicle. Trees are $80 and wreaths are $40. Don’t miss the farm-produced honey and you may be able to see some of the bees working on a warm day. Although there are no bathroom facilities on-site, you can make a lovely day of it in the nearby villages of Huntington or Northport by visiting some great restaurants and shops. They are open weekends starting Nov. 25 through Dec. 10.

Opening Day: Sat., Nov. 25

48 Wyckoff St.
Greenlawn, NY
Online: tildenlanefarm.com

Related: 21 Handmade Ornaments Anyone Can Make

U-Cut Christmas Tree Farms in Pennsylvania

a mom and son put an ornament on a snowy christmas tree at a nearby christmas tree farm
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Beck's Christmas Trees

It's a bit further afield in Mount Bethel, Pennsylvania, but people love this tree farm for its selection, service and extreme affordability. Beck's can loan you a saw, and tree bailing and drilling are free. Bonus: there's also a train theme here, with holiday garlands, pre-order custom wreaths, and train-themed gifts are available in the barn, the "Christmas Junction." The whole family will love it!

Opening Day: Fri., Nov. 24

763 S. Delaware Dr.
Mount Bethel, PA
Online:
beckschristmastrees.com

 

From tea parlors to cozy spas, you’ll find the perfect way to celebrate your new arrival

Having a baby is cause for celebration, and NYC moms-to-be get festive in various ways. New Yorkers host baby showers in NYC tea parlors, restaurants and spas, but that’s just the beginning. Check out our favorite venues for baby showers in NYC, no matter what type of mom (and babe) are being feted! (Want something really out of the ordinary? Try these unique locations for NYC baby showers! In Queens? These are our top baby shower venues for your borough!) Need a gift? We recommend these experiences.

FOR A PROPER TEA PARTY BABY SHOWER IN NYC

Alice’s Tea Cup

A reasonably priced tea can be tough to find. At Alice’s Tea Cup, your crew can enjoy a full English tea service without running up a huge bill. This local chain has three locations for a baby shower in NYC: one on the Upper East Side, one on the Upper West and one in Brooklyn Heights. Depending on your party size and preferred location, you can reserve a spot in the main dining room or rent a private room. Guests will get their fill on sweets, savory sandwiches and teas from around the world. Make a morning reservation before 11:30 a.m. on weekdays or 3 p.m. on weekends to take advantage of their Mad Morning Tea and get the best price. It includes popular breakfast foods for just $32 for one person and $44 for two people.

Two locations in Manhattan, one in Brooklyn
Online: alicesteacup.com

Lady Mendl’s Tea Salon 

If your goal is an authentic high tea with the mom-to-be, try Lady Mendl’s. Up the street from Gramercy Park, located inside The Inn at Irving Place, you’ll find a beautiful room with Victorian-style architecture and finishings. The inn offers a five-course tea with freshly baked scones and classic finger sandwiches. There is just one downside: the experience is costly. Pricing for the main tea salon, which holds up to 50 people, starts at $5000 for four hours on weekends. A more reasonable, yet still pricey, option is hosting the party in their formal library, which holds up to 20 guests. You can rent it starting at $2000 for up to 2.5 hours.

Inn At Irving Place
56 Irving Pl.
Gramercy
Online: ladymendlsteasalon.com

Parisian Tea Room: For a Tea Party with a Twist

You can hold a proper high tea at the brand new Parisian Tea Room (opens September 10), the decor of which is inspired by owner Karen E. Lozner’s visits to tea rooms in the French capital. But Lozner’s other passion (fashion) means you can also hold a tea and sewing party! Three-hour events are for 8 to 12 people, with high teas including waitstaff, finger sandwiches, sweets and more. 

347 W. 36th St.
Garment District
Online: theparisiantearoom.com

FOR A BABY BRUNCH IN NYC

SERRA by Birreria at Eataly

Escape to the Italian countryside on Eataly Flatiron’s rooftop. A dining space that changes with the seasons transitions from a “flowering greenhouse” resplendent in bright pink blooms in spring to a celebration of winter beauty dubbed “Serra Alpina.” (It’s not as traditionally “girly” as the spring/summer iteration, but it’s still gorgeous.) Look for the springtime iteration to return in mid-April or so. Reservations can be made for groups of up to 25 people for a baby shower in NYC. 

200 Fifth Avenue at 23rd St.
Flatiron
Online: eataly.com

Jane 

This Greenwich Village bistro is the spot to host a bridal or baby shower. Many happy customers leave, declaring it the best brunch in Manhattan. The Green Room, Jane’s private space, holds 40 guests for a seated, three-hour party. For $45 per person, everyone will get a starter, main course, family-style sides, coffee, tea, juice, & soda. The events coordinator will work with you to customize and personalize your menu. There is no shortage of delicious entrees; we recommend including the Farm House Popover, featuring scrambled eggs, smoked ham, Gruyère and caramelized onions or the Vanilla Bean French Toast on the menu. Note: There is no room rental for a weekend brunch event, but there is a $2,600 minimum to be met before taxes and fees.

100 West Houston St.
Greenwich Village
Online: janerestaurant.com

Maman

Suppose you want your baby shower in NYC to have that certain je ne sais quoi (in this case, effortlessly chic rustic French charm), head to Maman. The cafe/bakery has numerous NYC locations that host events. Its newest, Maman King (pictured above), is the largest Maman location yet! You’ll find others in Tribeca, Soho, Greenpoint, Nomad, Cobble Hill and the Upper East Side; Marche Maman on Centre Street has an intimate outdoor garden space. In addition to the romantically charming decor, you’ll dine on delectable French bites and pastries, which can be served family style or as finger foods. Brunch, lunch, and dinner are available. Events can be booked for 15 guests or more; brunch rates start at $35 per person, and lunch is $40 per person. More info on events here. (Look good? Get cracking! This place is popular!)

Online: mamannyc.com

The Crosby Street Hotel Sculpture Courtyard

Book The Crosby Street Hotel’s Sculpture Courtyard for a genuinely luxurious yet intimate experience with European flair. The Soho Hotel’s serene space features a tall organic tree sculpture, suspended pendant lights, and the greenery of a mix of small trees and shrubs, including magnolia, hydrangea and other native plantings. Private events, held from noon to 4 p.m., are capped at 25 guests, and there is a food and beverage minimum of $95/person. Rates are $6,000 for weekdays and $7,500 on weekends. Another stunning option at The Crosby Street Hotel is The Meadow Suite, which, as the name implies, has its very own garden terrace for a special celebration. 

79 Crosby St.
Soho
Online: firmdalehotels.com

The Bonnie

This Astoria restaurant is known for its delicious fare and unique cocktails. The restaurant’s layout includes multiple rooms and intimate spaces that can accommodate small and large groups. The three most popular areas for baby showers are The Snug Room, The Oak Room, and the outdoor Bar Garden. It has an extensive array of customizable food and drink packages, including various party platters and open bar options. Prices vary on the time and day of the party.

The Bonnie
29-12 23rd Ave.
Astoria
Online: thebonnie.com

Olmsted

This award-winning, popular Prospect Heights restaurant recently opened a chic private event space in the storefront next door. The room can host a seated affair or cocktail party for up to 30 people, featuring stylish floral wallpaper and a custom bookshelf stocked with cookbooks and collectibles. The restaurant also has a charming garden open year-round thanks to heat lamps (where some of its food is grown) that can be booked. The icing on the cake is the hallway that leads to the garden, which features an immersive, floor-to-ceiling installation of fragrant, preserved plants, moss, and lush greenery on every surface. Rates start at $95/person.

659 Vanderbilt Ave.
Prospect Heights
Online: olmstednyc.com

Sunday in Brooklyn

Home to some of our favorite pancakes (and a happening brunch scene), Sunday in Brooklyn also has several event spaces ranging from casual to refined funky, and you can host a party for as few as nine people and as many as 200. Choose from an intimate private dining room for 16 on the third floor, a second-floor sunroom (for 50 people, pictured), a second-floor rooftop covered garden (more casual) and more. Brunch is served family style, with creative takes on hearty classics, starting at $45 per person (unlimited drip coffee included); beverage packages are offered separately. And yes, you can add on the famous malted pancakes. 

348 Wythe Ave.
Williamsburg
Online: sundayinbrooklyn.com

FOR A FLORAL FUN BABY SHOWER IN NYC

Flower Girl NYC

This sweet Lower East Side flower shop will host your baby shower in NYC on-site or come to you. You can host a gathering of up to 24 people in the shop, with the option of catering from the equally chic cafe, Maman (see above). Add on an activity such as making floral crowns, terrariums, seasonal bouquets and more, as well as botanically-inspired favors and memorable decor. Showers include a staff member to assist with setup and lead the class. 

Showers are two hours, and if on-site, are $900 (outside of business hours) and $2,000 during business hours. Off-site showers are $1,250 with a 20 percent delivery fee. 

245 Eldridge St.
Lower East Side
Online: flowergirlnyc.com

FOR A SWEET ACTIVITY

Milk Bar

Moms-to-be with a sweet tooth will love learning to bake cakes and truffles at Momofuku Milk Bar. Guests learn all the steps for assembling Milk Bar’s most popular layer cake flavor combinations and will learn how to transform cake scraps into delectable bite-sized cake truffles. (This will be great practice for all the upcoming kids’ birthday parties!) Small group classes for 2-20 people last approximately 3 hours and start at $2,500.

55 Hope St.
Williamsburg
Online: milkbarstore.com

Sprinkles Cupcakes

At Sprinkles, $900 will get you two hours, four dozen full-sized cupcakes, or six dozen mini cupcakes, and you can choose to have them frosted or unfrosted. If you choose the unfrosted option, you can select up to three cakes and frostings and host a frosting party upstairs! If you’d like to add on any additional time, the rate is $100 per hour. Sprinkles doesn’t provide any food or beverages, but you can bring any outside food or drinks or even have them delivered to the store. The space holds about 35 people seated and 10-15 comfortably standing.

Sprinkles Cupcakes
780 Lexington Ave.
Upper East Side
Online: sprinkles.com

FOR SOME TIME AT THE SPA

Sundays

A salon that uses only 10-free, vegan, non-toxic, and cruelty-free products, Sundays is a logical choice for a shower event. Studios are in NoMad, Saks Fifth Avenue, and 49th Street; the newest is in Hudson Yards. Treat everyone to the 2 1 Guided Mediation Manicure, which includes a guided meditation from Inscape and an essential oil treatment. 

51 E. 25th St.
NoMad
Online: dearsundays.com

611 Fifth Ave., 2nd Fl.
Midtown
Online: dearsundays.com

SoHo Sanctuary

A little TLC might be what Mom needs before the baby arrives. This SoHo spa boasts extensive pre- and post-natal services and offers group party packages. Expecting moms will love the signature Mama Massage, which focuses on relaxing the lower back muscles and feet. The Body Buff is another blissful treatment with gentler alternatives to harsh scrubs. There are three party packages available. The Pamper and Primp program includes a group class in the fitness studio or treatment in the spa followed by mani/pedis and makeup application. If you have less time, opt for the Spa Splurge package, which includes a massage or body treatment. For larger parties, Beauty Blast is ideal: your group will get access to the lounge in the spa’s Beauty Loft and receive manicures, pedicures and makeup application — plus all the champagne they can drink.

119 Mercer St.
SoHo
Online: sohosanctuary.com

SPARTY!

This is a truly customizable experience that comes to you. Pick what spa services your guests will receive and add-ons that include monogrammed robes and slippers, tarot card readings, DJ, goodie bags and more.

Online: spa-party.com

TO GET COOKING

My Cooking Party

Want to throw a co-ed shower with an exciting twist? Get the group together for a cooking lesson at My Cooking Party. This culinary company, located in the Flatiron District and Chelsea, offers a selection of fun courses. It’s the perfect bonding experience for guests meeting for the first time. Their three-hour cooking class provides hands-on instruction and a three-course meal the staff serves. You can also make the event more competitive and split the guests into teams. Each team will invent and create hors d’oeuvres that are judged based on creativity and taste. Pricing starts at $119 per person, plus 20 percent gratuity, but varies greatly depending on your party size and package.

Online: mycookingparty.com

FOR WILLIAMSBURG CHIC

Fandi Mata

For the boho-chic baby shower of your dreams (in Williamsburg, no less), consider Fandi Mata, where “Brooklyn industrial meets the Mediterranean.” Choose to be seated on the main level, the mezzanine or in the outdoor heated pergola—you’ll be surrounded by plants, vibrant hues and maybe even some macrame. Parties can snack on creative brunch items, large and small plates like breads, pizzas and spreads (lots of varieties of hummus here), and the restaurant specializes in creative cocktails for those who wish to sip a little something. Rates for groups start at $1,000 for a party of 10. 

74 Bayard St.
Williamsburg
Online: fandimata.com

Brooklyn Winery

On first thought, wine tasting might not seem like the best activity for a baby shower. After all, the guest of honor can’t indulge in the house specialty! But before you poopoo the idea, check out Brooklyn Winery’s beautiful private space. This boutique urban winery in Williamsburg has a rustic setting decorated with antique glass candle holders and vintage china. The venue offers two packages: The Afternoon Bites menu, which is well-suited for a cocktail-style event, and the Afternoon Luncheon, which features a more traditional lunch service of salads and sandwiches. You’ll also enjoy some of Brooklyn Winery’s best reds and whites. The space holds anywhere from twenty to 160 people, and you can reserve it for up to three hours. Pricing will vary depending on the number of guests and package you choose.

213 North 8th St.
Williamsburg
Online: bkwinery.com

FOR AFFORDABLE OUTSIDE IDEAS

Throwing a baby shower doesn’t have to break the bank. These NYC spots are perfect if you want to host a casual, free outdoor event. 

Mad. Sq. Music

Is the mom-to-be a music fan? Get a small group together and spend an evening at Madison Square Park listening to some of the world’s top performers. The Oval Lawn Series is held on Wednesday evenings all summer and features a mix of genres. If you’re throwing a Fall shower, The Studio Series is held on Saturday afternoons all autumn and includes folk, blues and Americana acts. The concert is entirely free. Just make sure you arrive early so that you can snag a good spot.

Madison Ave. at 23rd St.
Online: madisonsquarepark.org/music

Hudson River Park Pier 63

This city has no shortage of parks; many are perfect for hosting a picnic lunch. This lush, grassy lawn with unique stone seating and a charming view of the Hudson is one of the best for a laid-back outdoor shower. It’s still not well-known, so it doesn’t get as crowded as the Sheep’s Meadow or other popular spots. Plus, it offers ample room for younger guests to run around. The dads will volunteer to take the kids next door to Chelsea Piers for adult-only events. If you need to create a menu, nearby Chelsea Market is full of gourmet eateries and bakeries.

C or E line to 23rd St.
Online: hudsonriverpark.org

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Heading to an apple orchard is the perfect way to welcome the fall season

Apples are the superheroes of the fruit world—they have the power to keep doctors away, butter up teachers, and sweeten snack time. It’s a good thing that apple orchards near Chicago are keeping up with the demand. Fill your bags with the juicy, ripe fruit at a kid-loved U-pick nearby—the produce is entering prime season, which runs through the end of October or beginning of November. Scroll through our list to see where to reap the harvest (and be sure to pick enough for a Sunday Funday spent baking.)

Best Apple Orchards Near Chicago

All Seasons Orchard

Distance from city: 56 miles

All Seasons, one of the largest U-pick apples orchards in northern Illinois, has been operating since 1993. In addition to over 15,000 apple trees across two orchards, their Barnyard includes more than 30 different activities for the family including a corn maze, petting zoo, pedal carts, zip line swings, a jumping pillow, a cow train, and more. It is quite easy to spend an entire day. After a wagon ride into the orchards to fill your bags with your perfect apple finds, and before or after playing in the Barnyard, visit their Country Kitchen, Country Concessions, or Dessert Bar for delicious food and seasonal treats including apple cider slushies and cider donut sundaes.

Cost: Starting at $15/quarter-peck bag, plus required Barnyard Admission ($9/person weekday, $17/person weekend)

14510 IL-176
Woodstock
Online: allseasonsorchard.com

Apple Holler

Distance from city: 65 miles

There’s no shortage of apples at this 78-acre Wisconsin standout with 30,000 trees bearing more than 30 varieties. You’ll also find juicy pears to pick and a mighty selection of pumpkins to ready your home for fall. Sure to bring a smile to kids’ faces is the outdoor amusement area with gentle ponies to ride: also, chickens, turkeys, geese and ducks, a small bunny village in Bunnyville, and goats that cross overhead on the “Golden Goat Bridge.” You’ll also find mazes, tractor-pulled train and wagon rides, gemstone mining, and pedal carts. Down-home goodness can be found in the Old Fashioned Farm Store, Bakery, & Gift Shop, that’s filled to the brim with homemade pies, apple cider donuts, jams, butters, salsa, candies, crafts, and a varied selection of Wisconsin wines and cheeses—because no trip to Wisconsin is complete without cheese.

Cost: Starting at $22/quarter-peck bag

5006 S. Sylvania Ave.
Sturtevant, WI
Online: appleholler.com

County Line Orchard

Distance from city: 45 miles

The search for the perfect apple to pick, bake, juice, slice, or nibble couldn’t be easier at this orchard near Chicago with 40 tree-blanketed acres comprised of more than 30 varieties. While apples are the core of this northwest Indiana fruit-bearing destination, the activities are as plentiful as the apple selection. A ride aboard a tractor not only takes you to the orchard but it swings by the pumpkin patch so you can stock up on pumpkins, gourds, Indian corn, hay, and fall flowers. Orchard-goers who are up for getting a little lost can navigate their way through a themed corn maze. Visit the Kids Farm (extra fee) to find a wide variety of animals to feed, Peter The Pumpkin Eating Dinosaur, pedal tractors waiting to plow imaginary fields, and a toddler-sized corn maze to tackle. Be sure to leave enough time to ride the “Moo Choo” (cars made out of cow-inspired barrels pulled by a tractor) because it’s a highlight of the orchard—second only to the 10,000 apple- and pumpkin-spiced donuts baked fresh daily.

Cost: $2 entrance fee, plus $2/pound for u-pick apples

200 S. County Line Rd.
Hobart, IN
Online: countylineorchard.com

Heinz Orchard

Distance from city: 40 miles

If picturesque and simple is the experience you’re seeking, go to Heinz Orchard to pick apples near Chicago. This is a great place to unwind and enjoy a low-key experience that’s easy, fun, and affordable without the added expense of play areas, food, and tractor rides. Branches are low enough for kids to reach, but poles with pouches are available when you spot that prime apple at the tippy-top of the tree. Parking and admission are free, bringing your own wagon is welcomed, and cameras to capture the giggles is an absolute must.

Cost: $10/half-peck bag

1050 Crest Rd.
Green Oaks, IL
Online: heinzorchard.com

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Jonamac Orchard

Distance from city: 70 miles

This family-owned and -operated business has grown since its beginning 30 years ago to include 105 acres dotted with more than 10,000 trees sprouting dozens of apple varieties. In addition to the solid selection of apples to pick near Chicago, the Tiny Town Play Area draws kids in with a giant jumping pillow, slides, duck races, straw bale pile, pedal trikes, rope spider web, tractor-driven barrel rides, apple shooting cannon, and petting zoo. Entrance to the play area is free on weekdays, with some exceptions, but there is a charge on weekends. Satisfy rumbling tummies in the Country Store and Bakery with apple cider donuts, fresh-baked bread and pies, caramel apples, delicious fudge, and apple pizzas.

Cost: $16/half-peck of apples

19412 Shabbona Rd.
Malta, IL
Online: jonamacorchard.com

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Kuipers Family Farm

Distance from city: 50 miles

Since their start in 1998 as a pumpkin farm, Kuipers has grown to a 230-acre apple-growing powerhouse near Chicago committed to showing families kid-powered fun focused on running, climbing, adventure, and fresh air. Visitors pay admission to enjoy a delightful hayride to the orchard where they pick 1/4 peck of apples. For an additional charge, kids can tire themselves out with the corn maze, tractor tire mountain, haunted forest suitable for tiny tots, humungous slide, pony rides, giant bouncy pillow, climbing web, and much more. For a squealing good time, be sure to get a front-row view of the pig races that occur every hour on the weekends. Before you hop in the car for the inevitable nap time that occurs after that much excitement, mosey into the Orchard Shop and Bakery for their crave-worthy homemade apple cider donuts, caramel apples, fudge, and freshly squeezed apple cider.

Insider Tip: They recently added a Sunflower Experience, which provides a memory-making photo opportunity in seven acres of gorgeous sunflowers.

Cost: $11/person online; $13/person at the gate

1N318 Watson Rd.
Maple Park, IL
Online: kuipersfamilyfarm.com

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Royal Oak Farm

Distance from city: 76 miles

Spanning 120 acres with 17,000 apple trees containing 30 varieties of apples, Royal Oak Farm is a great place to spend a day. Once you’ve picked your fill of apples, saunter over to the entertainment area to take a spin on the carousel, ride the train, or buy a ticket for the hayride orchard tour on Saturdays and Sundays. Visit the snack shop for a hot cup of cider or coffee, and a delicious apple cider donut, and watch from a picnic table as your kids play upon the John Deer tractor, fire engine, Noah’s Ark, and full-sized dollhouse in the play area.

Cost: $12/person

15908 Hebron Rd.
Harvard, IL
Online: royaloakfarmorchard.com

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If your mini conductor goes off the rails for all things trains, these San Francisco train rides and Bay Area train museums will entertain the entire family

Some kids like riding bikes, others prefer getting out on the water, and then there are those littles who love nothing more than a locomotive adventure. Luckily, the Bay Area is full of opportunities for mini conductors to get their fill! From being in awe of magnificent miniature train exhibits to climbing aboard life-size ones, we are putting you on the right track with this list of the best places for kid-friendly train rides and adventures—and many a great venue for a birthday party!—all over San Francisco and beyond! All you have to do is choo-choose your favorite outing and have a blast.

San Francisco

Cable Car Museum

This stop will give you a behind-the-scenes look at the city’s famous Cable Cars. The bottom level offers a peek at the cables that make the whole system work and upstairs, you can explore the mechanics of the cars themselves and see exactly what goes into powering them. The best part is, admission is free!

1201 Mason St.
San Francisco, CA
Onlinecablecarmuseum.org

SF Railroad Museum and Gift shop

By allowing kids to take control of a 1911 San Francisco streetcar model, this compact and free museum near the Ferry Building offers a feel of what it's like to drive a streetcar  Hop aboard any of the historic F Market streetcars (along Market St. and the Embarcadero) for a front door drop-off.  Be sure to check out their train-tastic gift shop.

77 Steuart St.
San Francisco, CA
Onlinestreetcar.org/museum

Little Puffer Miniature Steam Train

Located inside the San Francisco Zoo, a ride on the Little Puffer is the perfect way to take a walking break, and still observe a variety of animals from the cars. At more than a century old, it has a fascinating history, including being one of three of its kind in the world. Rides are $7, not included with zoo admission, and children under three ride free with a paying adult.

Sloat Blvd at the Great Highway
San Francisco, CA
Onlinesfzoo.org

Randall Museum

Little train-lovers will love a stop at the always-free Randall Museum. The museums basement houses one of the largest model railroad layouts in California, that you can run with the push of a button. Kids can also enjoy hopping aboard the Randall Pacific Caboose. Good to know: the museum is temporarily closed due to Covid-19, check their site for updated info. 

199 Museum Way
San Francisco, CA
Onlinerandallmuseum.org

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East Bay

Golden State Model Railroad Museum

This amazing collection of model trains and railways recreate the terrain of Northern and Central California in detail. The miniature trains run Sundays from noon-4 p.m. Admission is between $3-5, children 4 and under are free and families get in for $10. 

900-A Dornan Dr.
Point Richmond, CA
Onlinegsmrm.org

Walnut Creek Model Railroad Society

Your train-lovers are in for a treat at the Walnut Creek Model Railroad Society, from mountains to drawbridges and an evening scene, complete with a thunderstorm—they’ve recreated tons of routes for train travel. This epic model is only open to the public a few times a year, so check out their schedule for specific monthly dates. Fun fact: six and under are free, as are scouts who come in uniform!

2751 Buena Vista Ave.
Walnut Creek, CA
Online:wcmrs.org

 

Niles Canyon Railway

History comes to life on this old-school railway and museum that runs south of Pleasanton and makes a round trip between Fremont and Sunol. You can choose to ride a diesel or a steam engine, and even rent out a caboose or whole train for your next event. Be sure to check out their locals favorite Holiday Train of Lights in November and December.

37105 Vallejo Way
Fremont, CA
Onlinencry.org

Redwood Valley Steam Train

High up on the hills above Berkeley, this mini-train winds through the redwoods of Tilden Park. You’ll travel over bridges and through a tunnel on the 15-minute round trips. Tickets are $3.50 for adults/children, ages two and under ride free and a five ticket family pack is $14. Open weekends all year round and summer weekdays, weather permitting. 

Grizzly Peak Blvd. and Lomas Cantadas Rd.
Berkeley, CA
Online: redwoodvalleyrailway.com

Golden Gate Live Streamers

If you visit the Redwood Valley Steam Train on a Sunday, you’ll likely get a bonus ride. That’s when the Golden Gate Live Steamers let the public take a spin on their small-scale model trains. They run Sundays noon-3 p.m. (weather-permitting)—rides are free, but donations are appreciated.

Tilden Park
Located just below the boarding area for the Steam Train
Berkeley, CA
Online: goldengatels.org

Ardenwood Historic Farm

Within this fully functional farm is a short railway operated by Ardenwood’s Railroad Museum, that takes you from one end of the property to the other. On board, you'll find staff and docents dressed in period costumes taking you back to when railroads connected the East Bay’s farms to towns and cities. Rides are included with admission, so your little passengers can ride as many times as they'd like. Admission ranges from $2-6 depending on month and day, children under four are free.

34600 Ardenwood Blvd.
Fremont, CA
Onlineebparks.org/parks/ardenwood

Outback Express Adventure Train

Like the Little Puffer, this train is located within a zoo and can be accessed without buying an Oakland Zoo admission. You will still spy a few of the wildlife, as the train travels through the Australian exhibit (hence the name). Rides are $3/person, children under two ride free, however, you will still need to pay for zoo parking.

9777 Golf Links Rd.
Oakland, CA
Onlineoaklandzoo.org

Jolly Trolly at Children's Fairyland

For the tiniest train aficionados, take a ride on the Jolly Trolly, the oldest ride at Children’s Fairyland. This kid-size train travels through the parks Old West Junction area and through a tunnel and is always a hit with the itty-bitty crowd.

699 Bellevue Ave.
Oakland, CA
Online: fairyland.org

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Peninsula

Roaring Camp Railroads

Roaring Camp hosts several events throughout the year, including its annual Thomas the Tank Engine Days. This railroad in the mountains travels through Redwoods and over trestles, take a ride to the Santa Cruz Beach Boardwalk and back for an extra-fun day of adventure.

5401 Graham Hill Rd.
Felton, CA
Onlineroaringcamp.com

Edward Peterman Museum of Railroad History  

Located inside the Caltrain depot in Santa Clara, the South Bay Historical Railroad Society operates this museum. Displays include artifacts, paraphernalia and two working model railroad lines. Museum is free and open to the public on Tuesdays nights and Saturdays from 10 a.m.-4 p.m.

1005 Railroad Avenue
Santa Clara, CA
Online:sbhrs.org

Central Park Bianchi Mini Train

This delightful tiny train gives rides around San Mateo's Central Park for $2 a ride. It runs between 11 a.m.- 3 p.m. on weekends year round and daily during the summer.

50 E 5th Ave.
San Mateo, CA
Online:cityofsanmateo.org

Billy Jones Wildcat Railroad

For just $2/person (2 and under are free) this historic, 1/3-scale railroad loops around Oak Meadow Park. This locals go-to has plenty of attractions to keep your group busy all day.  Visit the park in December for a special holiday ride during their annual lights exhibit.

233 Blossom Hill Rd
Los Gatos, CA
Onlinebjwrr.org

Marin County

Sonoma TrainTown Railroad

TrainTown is a hit with railroad lovers of all ages. The passenger train takes visitors through tunnels and over bridges before stopping at a miniature town and petting zoo (bring quarters for food). The park also offers a concession stand, a train themed gift shop and several amusement rides. Admission and parking are free and tickets are sold for individual attractions.

20264 Broadway
Sonoma, CA
Online:traintown.com

Railroad & Ferry Depot Museum

The lovely restored building at Shoreline Park captures the past in two museums. The ground floor houses the detailed operating HO-scale model that shows Tiburon, the railroad town c. 1900 to 1910, and upstairs is the Depot House Museum, where the stationmaster’s family lived. The museum is open weekends 1-4 p.m. and on sunny Sundays in October-April. Admission is free but donations are welcome.   

1920 Paradise Dr.
Tiburon, CA
Online: landmarkssociety.com

Ride the SMART

For your North Bay adventures, ride the Sonoma-Marin Area Rail Transit or SMART train, as the locals call it. With stops from Larkspur to Santa Rosa, you and your little travelers can sit back and enjoy the Marin open-space views.

600 Larkspur Landing Cir.
Larkspur, CA
Online: sonomamarintrain.org

Howarth Park

This 138-acre park is home to a carousel, animal barn and train ride. The simulated 1863 C.P. Huntington steam train takes guests on a quarter-mile ride through a tunnel, pond, over a bridge and into the forest. Must be 42 inches tall to ride alone, children 12 months and under ride free.

630 Summerfield Rd.
Santa Rosa, CA
Online
srcity.org

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Farther Out

Yosemite Mountain Sugar Pine Railroad

Just 10 minutes from the southern entrance of Yosemite National Park is the historic Yosemite Mountain Sugar Pine Railroad offering train rides, gold panning, an on-site museum and well stocked collectibles gift store. Their 1-hour narrated "The Logger" tour and 3-hour "Moonlight Special" are popular with families and offer boxed lunch and dinner options.

56001 Hwy 41
Fish Camp, CA
Online: ymsprr.com

California State Railroad Museum

Take the Amtrak to the California State Railroad Museum in Sacramento, just a block away from the Old Town stop, you'll find trains, refurbished cars, an elaborate model railway and a room with a whopping EIGHT train tables. For an additional fee, you can also take a ride along the Sacramento River on weekends during the Summer. Children 5 and under ride free.

125 I St.
Sacramento, CA
Onlinecsrmf.org

Western Railway Museum

Chug on out to Solano County to check out the dozens of railcars, engines and trolleys housed in this one-of-a-kind museum. Kiddos can climb on cars in the giant sheds out back and hop aboard one of the trains or streetcars for a ride around the hills. Be sure to check out their calendar for their Halloween and Christmas events.

5848 State Hwy 12
Suisun City, CA
Onlinewrm.org

Railroad Park Resort

45 minutes past Redding is Railroad Park Resort where you'll find glamping at its finest.  Accommodations  include vintage railroad cabooses that sleep up to five, with fridge, microwave, full bathroom, WiFi, on-site pool, a nearby creek for exploring and a restaurant serving breakfast and dinner in a rail car. 

100 Railroad Park Rd.
Dunsmuir, CA
Online:rrpark.com

Railtown 1897 State Historic Park

Located in Jamestown on the way to Yosemite, this Gold Rush hot spot is a destination for California train lovers. One of the highlights is a guided walking tour of the Park’s authentic, working railroad roundhouse and air-powered turntable. Visit on the second Tuesday of every month for a behind-the-scenes tour or take a ride on weekends during the warmer months. Be sure to check out the Polar Express In December.

Railtown 1897 State Historic Park
10501 Reservoir Rd.
Jamestown, CA
Online:railtown1897.org

The Napa Valley Wine Train

While this train is usually used for wine-tasting, it transforms into the Santa Express every winter. Riders are treated to games, music, hot cocoa, fresh-baked cookies and a visit from the big man himself along the journey.

1275 McKinstry St.
Napa, CA
Online: winetrain.com

The Skunk Train

The Skunk Train has been transporting passengers for over a hundred years on the world-famous Redwood Route, with depots in Fort Bragg and Willits, in beautiful Mendocino County. The railbikes at Fort Bragg, available March-November, are a must. While in Fort Bargg, stop by the Mendocino Coast Model Railroad , admission is free with your Skunk Train ticket. Visit in November and December for a ride on the Christmas Trains that include cookies, hot cocoa and a visit with Santa. 

Fort Bragg and Willits Depots
Online:skunktrain.com

Western Pacific Railroad Museum

This exciting, hands-on museum offers train rides, a "Run-A-Locomotive" program that allows you to rent a vintage diesel locomotive and operate it on museum grounds, a Pumpkin Express in October and Santa Trains in December.

700 Western Pacific Way
Portola, CA
Online: wplives.org

Additional reporting by Melissa Bouse & Kate Loweth

 

 

 

With so many road trips from Seattle to choose from, it’s hard to know where to start—until now

With spring break just around the corner, we know you’ve got getting out of town on the brain. If you aren’t planning an escape to a sunny destination, we think a PNW road trip should be on your list. That’s why we mapped out seven weekend trips from Seattle that are bursting with things to do this spring. You’ll find festivals, sandy beaches, clam digging and more at these nearby destinations. All you need to do is pack up a few things and head out of town.

Our Favorite Road Trips from Seattle

1. Walla Walla

Allison Sutcliffe

Come for the wine, stay for the relaxed vibes of this eastern Washington town. Spring kicks off Walla Walla's wine season, without the summer crowds. Families can still enjoy plenty of outside time, wine tastings, and activities when the flowers are in bloom.

Foodie Fun: Second in the list of things its known for is Walla Walla's restaurant scene. It goes without saying that you can't build a wine town and not include amazing eateries too. But one of the reasons Walla Walla works for families is that simple family-friendly fare is just as plentiful as high end dining. Grab your morning pastry and coffee at the Walla Walla Bread Co. and you won't be disappointed. Their lunch fare is equally as tasty, and no one will think twice if you take a few loaves of fresh-baked bread home with you at the end of your trip. Locals will always recommend the Maple Counter Cafe for a home-cooked, sit down breakfast or lunch for good reason. Sweet or savory, their fare is always fresh and hits the spot. Plus, they've got a waffle truck that sits right outside (it opens in April for the season), if you want something quick. Grab dinner at Sweet Basil Pizzeria if NY style slices please your crew, or head to Wingman Birdz + Brewz for your pub food favorites served with a side of sass. Your kids will love the YouTube-esque TV offerings they've got playing on repeat that help the food wait move pretty quickly.

Kid-Friendly Wineries: Most of the wineries in town welcome kids. But there are a few stand-outs that are worth a mention. Start your tasting odyssey at Time & Direction. While you sip, kids can admire the Star Wars and '80s gaming paraphernalia that line the walls and keep things interesting. The tabletop video game works, and no, you don't need quarters to play it. Be sure to ask the bartender to walk you through the wines. They include all kinds of easter eggs—from the hidden logo on each bottle to the tasting notes on back (one is a Mad Lib of sorts). Kontos is another that gets the parent nod of approval, and not just because the wines are good. Head upstairs to find swings where the kids can lounge, and plenty of space to sit and color for a bit too. You can sit by a fireplace and enjoy food at Henry Earl.

Just for Kids: The wineries are for you, parents, so the kids should have some fun too, right? You can't go wrong with a handmade chocolate from Bright's Candies and a trip to Island Octopus next door will keep the kids entertained for as long as you let it. We suggest hitting these two spots before you hit the road back to the city.

Cozy Time: Settle in for your trip at The Finch. Located on East Main Street, it makes a perfect base camp for your time downtown, whether you're wine tasting, shopping, or just want to ditch the car to walk to meals. This boutique hotel welcomes families from the minute you walk through the door—sometimes with wine (they have tastings in the lobby once a week), always with a scavenger hunt for the kids. While you get checked in, they can complete the lobby chandelier seek and find for a prize (it's a good one, trust us). In the evenings, the cozy outdoor fireplace, just off the lobby, is the perfect spot to snuggle up with the kids and roast s'mores before bedtime (they have kits for sale in the lobby).

The Finch's retro chic rooms hit all the right notes. Kids will love the aqua mini fridge and wall stencils that highlight the region. While parents will love things like MALIN+GOETZ bath products and a bathroom layout that's all about privacy and function. The 375-square-foot double queen has all that families of three to four need to stay comfortably. Families of five, or those looking for a little more space, should book one of the three suites that also include a living area. The Mill Creek Suite includes a dining area, so you can finish up those leftovers for lunch the next day. Free on-site, covered parking is also included with your stay.

Drive Time: Just over 4 hours from Seattle.

2. Seabrook

a family sits around a firepit at Seabrook, a town on the Pacific that's a good weekend trips from seattle
courtesy Seabrook

If you’re ready to trade the bustling city for a peaceful escape, Seabrook is an unbelievably easy spring break destination for families. And their SpringFest activities (now through April 16) are sure to keep everyone in your family entertained during your stay. Plan your stay around Magic Mondays, Tag Tuesdays, Field Day Fridays, and more.

Parks and Rec: No matter where you stay in Seabrook, you're only about five minutes from the glorious sandy beaches of the Pacific. And all you need to enjoy it is pack your wagon full of beach chairs, kites, all the sand toys you can carry, and a picnic basket full of goodies and head out the door. Stay all day or add on an afternoon bike ride to your day's itinerary. Beyond the beach and biking everywhere, kids can shoot hoops, visit farm animals, explore the community garden, and play at the playground. And if you really want to make a day of it, check out the family adventures offered at Buck's Northwest. Surf lessons, river tours, and a clam digging expedition for first-timers are all part of the fun.

Foodie Fun: While Seabrook is a small town, it's no stranger to great eats. Breakfast at Vista Bakeshop rivals any you'll find in the city, but if pastries and coffee isn't what your morning is all about, you can find healthy bowls and smoothies at Blue. Lunch and dinner are just as easy. It's hard to go wrong with a pizza from Frontager's or an inventive modern Latin dish from Koko's Restaurant. And no trip to Seabrook is complete with out at least one scoop of small-batch ice cream from the Sweet Life. Spring is also an ideal time to take advantage of the community fireplaces you'll find scattered around the town. Bring fixings for s'mores and call it a night.

Learning Moments: Although clamming seems like a summer activity, it's actually something families can do year-round in the PNW. And if you head to Seabrook in spring, you and the kids can get in on razor clam season. March dates have been approved, and there are many listed in April pending approval. Bring your gear and plan to cook your haul that night.

Just for Kids: Usually families can only enjoy the popular Float Find in winter, but this year, the find has been extended through spring. Find clues at Guest Services on Front Street and then get hunting.

Cozy Time: The whole town of Seabrook was made for vacations. Most of the houses, bungalows, and manses are available to rent. Browse the cottage rentals to find just what you need—from sweet cottages with ocean views to pet-friendly cottages and cottages that sleep up to twenty-plus people. Each one comes with different perks like hot tubs, gas grills, fire pits, toy closets, and even baby gear (think high chairs or pack-n-plays) that make renting an easy option for families. 

Drive Time: 2.5 hours from Seattle.

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3. Port Townsend

Enjoy Port Townsend

The dramatic, windswept location, perfectly preserved Victorian architecture, and carefully curated shops and restaurants set the stage. You’ve arrived in Port Townsend, and there’s nowhere else in the state quite like it.

Parks and Rec: Fort Worden is a 434-acre park that will amaze and surprise at every turn. Once a military fort and barracks, it is now an unofficial scavenger hunt, filled with surprises and amusement in every nook and cranny. The restored houses, formerly military housing, provide unique holiday rental opportunities. Be sure to point out Alexander’s Castle to your Disney-obsessed kids. There are e-bikes, cornhole, badminton, yoga, plus jazz concerts for adults and budding musicians, in this cultural haven. Don’t forget to tell your group a ghostly tale before climbing the ruined barracks by the sea. Camping, swimming, museums, even a Pulitzer-prize winning poetry publisher can all be found on the property. It’s impossible to see it all in one day. Thank goodness summer vacation is three months long.

Foodie Fun:  Port Townsend is packed with options for hungry little eaters. Doc’s Marina Grill has all the yummy fish, chips and chowder one would expect from the aquatic surroundings. Water Street has a plethora of choices, including must-lick local institution Elevated Ice Cream Company. Further afield, Finnriver Cidery, in nearby Chimacum, makes for a unique experience, nourishing the mind and spirit as well as the body. The menu is simple but satisfying: salads, bratwurst and sandwiches. The cider is what you'd expect from a cidery that thinks in terms of appellations instead of mass appeal, and their mission is inspiring. They engage with the community and reconnect with the land, with the sense of place imbued by Washington state apples. 

Learning Moments:  The čičməhán Trail is a wonderful way to learn about the S’Klallam people who lived in this area for hundreds of years, while also enjoying a walking tour throughout the town. There are 18 sites throughout the city, sectioned into three-, six- and eight-mile loops, each telling a part of the tribe’s history. Print out the map in advance and then check off the signs as you find them. Whether you do some or all, every plaque is moving and educational.

Just For Kids: Port Townsend is the epicenter of the maritime environment that makes our state so special. So bring your little mariners down to the water next to the Northwest Maritime Center. There's a pirate ship where young sailors can raise the mizzenmast and jib the topsails. There are also maritime youth programs for ages 5-17. Eye patch and parrot not required, but highly recommended.

Cozy Time: The Port Ludlow Inn is a picturesque hideaway where groups can bond and connect, with watercolor views and casual activities. Check in and make a reservation at The Fireside. Be sure to ask about their dining events, as they are a farm-to-fork regional destination. Inquire at the front desk about farm tours and wine tastings, or sign up for hiking, biking, kayaking, giant lawn games, beach strolling or bird watching. On the flipside, grab a board game from the front desk, sip some tea and breathe in the sea air while winning at Trivial Pursuit. 

Drive Time: Two hours from Seattle.

4. Bellingham

Kate Loweth

Parks and Rec: The protected seashore of Bellingham and Whatcom County is perfect for exploring tide pools, taking scenic hikes and watching seabirds swoop in for their catch. If you want to see all the beauty this area offers, head down Chuckanut Drive and stop at Larabee State Park for hiking trails and water access. It’s $10 to enter the state park and you’ll have loads of options for a day by the shore.

Foodie Fun: Drive by Zane Burgers in the Fairhaven neighborhood and you’ll feel like you’ve gone back in time to the days of carhops. We found the burgers to be delicious and inexpensive, just what you want when feeding a family. Topping our list of favorite restaurants in downtown Bellingham is AB Crepes where sweet and savory crepes are the focus (our favorites: the Nutella and banana crepe and the crepizza) and the POG mimosa really hits the spot.

Keep Bellingham’s many breweries in mind when you visit as they not only have unique beers for the adult members of your crew but their energetic vibe drowns out all sorts of cranky toddler moods. Boundary Bay Brewery & Bistro was serving up a blackberry wheat on our visit and offered Etch-a-Sketches to the kids while they waited for food (BRILLIANT).

Learning Moments: The quirky and eclectic (or electric?) SPARK Museum should definitely be on your must-visit list. Kids will love learning about static electricity through hair-raising hands-on demonstrations. Find out how things like telephones worked before smartphones were invented (i.e. “the olden days”). Upstairs in the museum is an area just for the littlest visitors. 

Just for Kids: If the temps dip and the rain falls during your Bellingham visit, there are still tons of options for keeping the kids active. We particularly loved our visit to VITAL Climbing Gym where the drop-in rate of $19/person can’t be beat. Kids can rent shoes here and your pass is good for the whole day so you can take a break for lunch (crepes! See below!) and return for more bouldering action.

Drive Time: 1.5 hours from Seattle

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—Kate Loweth

5. Hood Canal

a little girl sits in a chair looking out at mountains above hood canal during a weekend trips from seattle
Allison Sutcliffe

The Hood Canal is a winding waterway set between views of the Olympic National Park, oyster beds and forest trails. Families have been spending their free time along these shores for centuries, and this year is no exception. It’s hard to pin down what makes this region so special, but perhaps it starts with a perfect gathering place, Alderbrook Resort & Spa.

Parks and Rec: Potlatch State Park is located right on the Hood Canal with 57 acres available for camping, fishing, picnics, beachcombing and shellfish harvesting. Alderbrook Resort & Spa has five miles of private trails and a water sport center where families can rent wild rides like hydrobikes, paddle kayaks, peddle boats and seacycles.

Foodie Fun: The newly renovated Restaurant at Alderbrook Resort & Spa serves up scrumptious fare and their menu for little eaters is extensive. Hamma Hamma Oyster Saloon is a tradition. Grab chowder, oysters and more and sit in their outdoor wooden A-frame huts for fresh air and views. A true culinary highlight is Hook & Fork at Union City Market. The outdoor setting pairs perfectly with the flavorful offerings—such as salmon salad, trout dip, charbroiled oysters and the you-can’t-stop-slurping clam chowder.

Learning Moments: Sign up for Alderbrook Resort & Spa’s guided nature walks to learn about wildflowers, fungus, and plant life depending on the season. Discover Shinrin Yoku–Forest Meditation-by grabbing a booklet from the concierge and heading into the trees.

Just For Kids: The glass enclosed pool and hot tub area is where the kiddos will splash all day. Be sure to take them on the Nautical Flag Hunt which zigs and zags all over the property. Afterwards pick up a wooden frog music maker from the gift shop so your group can sing along with the amphibian night symphony.

Cozy Time: Order a s’mores kit (or two) for an evening treat by the bonfires.

Drive Time: 1.5 hours from Seattle.

Related: 11 Relaxing PNW Escapes Especially for Moms

6. Bainbridge Island

a girl stands by a playground on bainbridge island, an easy weekend trip from seattle with a ferry ride
Allison Sutcliffe

How about a vacation that starts at once? That’s the magic of Bainbridge Island. Your adventure begins on a ferry ride across the Sound with nature’s tableau escorting the way. Bainbridge Island has foodie haunts, parks and water sports, shopping, culture, and quiet moments for bonding and laughter. And with so many new additions—if you think you know Bainbridge, think again.

Parks and Rec: The Bainbridge Island Museum of Art (BIMA) is celebrating its tenth anniversary with a Treasure Trek this spring. You and the kids can try your luck at spotting one of 100 glass floats that'll be hidden around the Kitsap Peninsula, including five parks on Bainbridge Island, including Strwaberry Hill and Manzanita. The first drop happened April 1, and five more are planned throughout the season. Tiny tots and big kids alike will have 90 acres of play space to frolic and play at Battle Point Park. The all-abilities kid’s play structure provides hours of amusement, and if you plan it right, you can get in on the Earth Day Expo scheduled for April 22. Another worthwhile outdoor option? Explore with Islandwood when you sign up for their community programming (hint: the next one celebrates mothers on May 14). 

Foodie Fun: With so many choices, it’s hard to choose where to nosh. If you ask us, Via Roso 11 is an absolute must. The atmosphere is convivial and boisterous; you will feel at home at once thanks to the authentic Italian, just-like-Mama-cooked menu. Savor their homemade gnocchi, secret pesto sauce, bruschetta with Genovese basil, pasta and pizza. No need to get hangry, kids get Italian crackers immediately and all pasta dishes can be ordered in a kid’s portion. There's also Proper Fish with their British fish and chips and East Coast lobster rolls that do not disappoint. Streamliner Diner serves up famous brunch, while Pleasant Beach Donuts satisfies that sweet tooth. Get dolled up and dine at Joe’s Restaurant or Ba Sa. Don't forget the Bainbridge Island Farmers Market. Find fresh eats plus amazing local products on Saturdays, from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. at the Town Square. 

Learning Moments: Bloedel Reserve is not just for kids, but the vast property is filled with the wonders of nature and many activities for budding naturalists and everything is coming back to life in spring. Plus, they've got amazing Earth Month programming planned throughout April. We're looking forward to the KiDiMu Garden Tour for Kids on April 26.

Just for Kids: KiDiMu is a hands-on museum for children with lots of interactivity and STEM activities. Make sure to get a copy of the Second Edition of Explore Bainbridge Activity Book when you play. 

Cozy Time:  After all that excitement, it’s time for bed. We recommend The Inn at Pleasant Beach for a luxury, boutique hotel in a prime location with a pool. It’s above The Marketplace (with gourmet sandwiches, coffee and adult bevvies) and Island Cool frozen yogurt. Plus it's across the street from the movie theatre. Win, win!

Ferry Ride: 35 minutes from Seattle.

7. Vancouver, BC

during weekend trips from seattle people cross the capilano bridge in Vancouver bc
Greg Freitas

Oh, Canada! Travel to Canada is especially sweet in spring. Vancouver is a cosmopolitan city tucked into a delicious, bite-sized morsel next to the Pacific. Food, nature and shopping—plus that exchange rate—make this a great family escape.

Parks and Rec: Pack your shovels and sand toys because Kitsilano Beach has golden sand that's perfect for little diggers with views of the city and mountains. Vancouver’s newest urban playground is called “park of the future” and was designed with sustainability as a priority. Six thousand shrubs, perennials, climbers, and mature trees embrace the space.

Foodie Fun: Sign up for Rocky Mountain Flatbread Co.'s Sunday night pizza-making fun from 5-7 p.m. Sal Y Limon serves authentic Mexican street food fare, and has a kids play area complete with play kitchen and toys. For more games head to Bells & Whistles where they serve up a chill atmosphere and arcade games for all ages amusement.

Just For Kids: Psst parents, this one’s for you too! The Capilano Suspension Bridge Park is serenely beautiful and awe-inspiring. Adults will love the views and nature. Kids will be exhilarated by the swaying of the bridge. Check out Science World and the Kids Market at Granville Island for more kid-approved fun.

Learning Moments: Art inspires. Grab the group and take a self-guided art tour around Vancouver and discover BC’s diverse art scene. The tour takes folks through Stanley Park, around totem poles, the Vancouver Art Gallery, public art and more.

Cozy Time: Stay at the coveted Fairmont Waterfront, a luxury hotel with children-specific perks like kids’ robes, babysitting services (advanced notice is required) plus 5-year-olds and younger eat for free off the kids menu. Granville Island Hotel is conveniently located on Granville Island surrounded by parks, and the colorful Aquabus provides fun transfers to downtown, Stanley Park and Science World.

Flight Time: One hour from Seattle.
Drive Time: Just over two hours, depending on the border crossing wait times.

Related: 7 Seattle Hotels with Amazing Kid Perks

All the best places to indulge in a luxurious babymoon getaway without getting on a plane

Travel planning may be a little more complicated these days, but that doesn’t mean deserving moms-to-be can’t indulge in a relaxing, rejuvenating babymoon. Thankfully, there are top-notch resort and hotel—some with daypasses—right here in our own backyard that offer everything you need for the perfect pre-baby vacation. From private suites adorned with ocean views and personal fire pits to poolside cabanas and prenatal massages, these local spots offer a slice of paradise for a San Diego babymoon—just what the doctor ordered.

The Top 10 Babymoon Destinations near San Diego

1. Best Babymoon in Del Mar: L'Auberge Del Mar

L'Auberge Del Mar has always been known for its service and elegance but the local resort is leveling up. A multi-million-dollar transformation has been completed and guests can expect to be amazed by a fresh new experience in guest rooms, an expansive new bar and pool area, as well as waterfront dining at Adelaide—an exquisite outdoor restaurant concept with can't miss house-made green juice and breakfast burritos for breakfast and must-order burrata with summer peaches for dinner. 

1540 Camino Del Mar
Del Mar, CA 
Online: laubergedelmar.com

2. Best Babymoon in Laguna Beach: The Ranch at Laguna Beach

A quick drive north to The Ranch at Laguna Beach will make all those babymoon dreams come true. This boutique ranch resort is nestled in the majestic Aliso and Wood Canyons in the heart of Orange County. Parents-to-be will find extra privacy because all rooms are accessed via outdoor corridors and feature private patios or porches without a singe elevator or cramped hallway in sight. Relax at the pool, play 9 holes of golf, savor beachside bites at Lost Pier Cafe, or cozy up by the fire on The Porch to hear live music daily as the sun sets and moon rises over the canyon wall. It’s a romantic and restorative getaway, and a peaceful place to connect before the baby arrives.

31106 S. Coast Hwy.
Laguna Beach, CA
Online: theranchlb.com

3. Best Babymoon in Encinitas: Alila Marea Beach Resort

Alila

This warm, modern resort took inspiration from the coastal town's vibe and is decorated in natural stone, warm woods and clean lines. And while there are plenty of rooms (130 coastal and garden view rooms and suites), we recommend choose one of the first floor "Fire Pit Rooms" which all have a spacious deck complete with a private fire pit and absolutely stunning garden or coastline views.

Guests will enjoy easy access to Ponto beach and your very own Beach Ambassador to reserve lounge chairs and umbrellas or help you round out a day at the beach with a picnic. If you'd rather soak up the sun at the pool instead, go for an elevated poolside experience with a cabana and lunch from The Pocket, which serves up the flavors and culture of Southern California and the Baja Peninsula (hello tacos!).

When you're ready to bliss out, head to the spa and book the Nourish prenatal massage (60 minutes for $235), which is a Swedish-style massage that utilizes prenatal-safe massage techniques and products to nurture your skin.

2100 N. Coast Hwy.
Encinitas, CA 
Online: alilahotels.com

 

4. Best Babymoon in Coronado: Glorietta Bay Inn

Winner of top 10 romantic island inns, this is an ideal spot to connect with your partner before baby arrives. Take advantage of the attentive, caring staff on hand to make every detail of your stay relaxing. Schedule an in-room prenatal massage and lounge by the pool. Enjoy a complimentary breakfast in the morning, relax beachside or play games in the parlor. You'll leave feeling connected and revived. Depending on your style preference pick a contemporary room or a mansion room, either way you'll be thrilled. 

1630 Glorietta Blvd.
Coronado, CA
Online: gloriettabayinn.com

5. Best Babymoon in Carlsbad: Omni La Cost Resort & Spa

Once your little one arrives, your day trip to Carlsbad will probably include a trip to LEGOLAND. But, pre-baby, the place to visit is The Omni La Costa Resort & Spa. It's a paradise for parents-to-be. You'll instantly feel stress drift away as you drive into this Carlsbad resort. The Spa at La Costa was named a nationwide favorite but we think taking a dip at the Edge Adult Pool before retreating to your private cabana would be relaxing enough. Cap off the evening with dinner at VUE or Bob's Steak House. 

2100 Costa Del Mar Rd.
Carlsbad, CA
Online: lacosta.com

6. Best Babymoon in San Juan Capistrano: The Inn at Mission San Juan Capistrano

Located in the heart of historic downtown San Juan Capistrano, just steps away from the awe-inspiring ruins of the mission, the Inn at the Mission San Juan Capistrano is a truly romantic, intimate destination for babymooners. Spacious, hacienda-inspired suites are beautifully appointed with high ceilings, mission-style grand armories, chandeliers, private balconies, with some offering large soaking tubs for two. Couples can enjoy an intimate olive oil tasting in the Olive Grove alongside local wines, dine on classic Spanish cuisine with a modern twist at Ysidora, and savor distinctive craft mocktails (for mom) and cocktails under the stars on the expansive restaurant patio. The Spa at the Mission also offers various rejuvenating treatments utilizing natural oils infused with on-site herbs for a relaxing experience.

31692 El Camino Real
San Juan Capistrano, CA
Online: marriot.com

7. Best Babymoon in San Diego: Fairmont Grand Del Mar

Lavish in luxury at this Mediterranean-inspired resort located in the Los Penasquitos Canyon Preserve, close to Torrey Pines State Beach. Whether it's a relaxing, restorative maternity massage at The Center for Wellbeing's spa, dinner and "mom-mocktail" under the twilight at Amaya, or a quiet bubble bath in one of hotel's deep soaker tubs, you'll find it here. Have breakfast in your room on the terrace overlooking the beautiful views, then, take on the day or relax and revive—your choice, your day. 

Read more about why we love vacationing at Fairmont Grand Del Mar.

5300 Grand Del Mar Court
San Diego
Online: granddelmar.com

 

 

8. Best Babymoon in Rancho Santa Fe: Rancho Valencia Resort & Spa

Rancho Valencia Resort & Spa is touted as the "perfect combination of luxury and romance for parents-to-be," and it honestly sounds like something out of a dream. Indulge at the spa with wildcrafted, organic treatments and freshly pressed juices, book a private yoga or meditation session for two or relax by the poolside cabana with VIP wait service. 

5921 Valencia Cir.
Rancho Santa Fe, CA 
Onlineranchovalencia.com

 

9. Best Babymoon near LA: Terranea Resort

Take your staycation to the next level in this luxury eco-resort perched right above the Pacific Ocean (and just a quick 31 miles from DTLA). It’s a dream destination on 102 spectacular acres of natural beauty, wildlife and unparalleled views. Kick back and enjoy the panoramic ocean vistas from one of their four pools or join a daily guided coastal nature walk and learn all about the local flora and fauna. After you’ve worked up an appetite, there are eight restaurants to satisfy your every culinary craving. Just make sure you leave time to book their "Mommy-to-Be" Massage.

100 Terranea Way
Rancho Palos Verdes
Online: terranea.com

10. Best Babymoon in Santa Barbara: Hotel Santa Barbara

Feel the freedom of a road trip to the American Riviera, aka Santa Barbara. Stay at the historic Hotel Santa Barbara in the heart of downtown and stroll to museums, the SB Public Market, shops and great dining. At the hotel, you'll enjoy plush robes, cozy beds and gourmet, locally-made croissants at the continental breakfast before you set out for the day. Whether you hit the beach or a relaxing sunset sail, this gorgeous seaside town is sure to be just the R&R you need before the little one arrives. 

533 State St.
Santa Barbara, CA 
Online: hotelsantabarbara.com

Whether you want to head to Mammoth, Big Bear, Idyllwild, or Ojai, we’ve got the perfect cabin for your family

The weather in LA may not be earmuff-worthy, but if you want a bonafide winter vacation that might even include snow, all you need to do is get in your car and drive a few hours thanks to our towering mountains. Dig up those winter coats (or borrow some from a friend), pack up the car (don’t forget those tire chains), and head to one of these cozy cabin winter getaways just a short drive from LA.

Best Winter Vacation Rentals in Big Bear, CA

Vintage Cabin with Private Sledding Hill—Big Bear

Airbnb

This charming little log cabin is everything you'd want from a spot in Big Bear: Warm and cozy, with the sort of simple charm that makes you want to snuggle up by the fire after a day of snow play. Built by hand from 1949 through 1951, the cabin has original kitchen appliances and light fixtures, a large custom wood burning fireplace and vintage decor. Outside, kids can swing on the tree swing, sled in the private back yard, or climb into the treehouse. It's also just a short drive to the ski slopes and local tubing destinations. 

Bonus: Got pets? There's no need to leave your pup at home as the cabin is pet-friendly (and stay for free!). 

Sleeps: 5
Cost: $211/night
Online: airbnb.com

RELATED: All the Reasons Why Big Bear is a Family-Favorite Destination

Games & Rustic Luxury—Big Bear

Airbnb

This upscale modern cabin has everything a family needs for a quick winter getaway: It's loaded with games for the kids and has upscale touches parents will appreciate (think leather sofa, granite dining table, stainless steel appliances). Snow bunnies will love that it's just a few minutes from Big Bear Mountain and Snow Summit—as well as just around the corner from the Big Bear Snowplay tubing park. Staying inside? There's a shuffleboard table, a foosball table, two full-size arcade games, a ton of family board games, plus a private back yard with a hill that's perfect for sledding (there are event two big sleds in the garage to borrow). 

Bonus: The owners like to leave fresh baked cookies as a welcome, and a stuffed toy bear for kids to take home as a memento.

Sleeps: 8
Cost: $336/night
Online: airbnb.com

Ski-In, Ski-Out Condo—Big Bear

Airbnb

Is this the year you'll teach your kids to ski? This pristine split-level Big Bear condo is the perfect place to do it! Located 50 yards from the bunny slopes at Snow Summit, you'll be able to ski in and out from the back of the condo without worrying about where you parked. Besides its perfect proximity to the slopes, the condo has everything a family might need to get cozy inside on chilly evenings, including an 80s arcade game table, three bedrooms (including one with a triple-level bunk bed!), and a wood-burning fireplace.

Bonus: The rental includes one free beginner ski or snowboard rental for the day.

Sleeps: 6
Cost: $210/night
Online: airbnb.com

Best Winter Vacation Rentals in Mammoth, CA

Luxurious Ski Condo—Mammoth

Airbnb

When you've got a whole brood of kids to bundle up and get out the door, anything that makes things simpler is worth it. Enter: This 2,000-square-foot condo located a few feet from the Canyon Lodge Ski Lifts and Gondolas is well worth the price tag. Aside from easy access to the slopes, this place has luxurious furnishings, stainless steel appliances, and an "expansive bunkroom" for the kids with two plush bunk beds (both bottom bunks have queen-size mattresses!). There's also a private patio with a hot tub, fire pit, barbecue and pizza oven. 

Sleeps: 10
Cost
: $685/night
Online: airbnb.com

RELATED: The Ultimate Family Guide to Skiing in Mammoth with Kids

Cozy Condo in the Heart of The Village—Mammoth

cozy cabin near LA
Airbnb

Park your car—then don't use it for the rest of your trip! This plush corner condo is located in the heart of Mammoth Village and just upstairs from the gondola that will take you to the mountain. Walk to local shops and restaurants, or hop on the trolley or shuttle to get to the slopes. The condo sleeps six and includes access to the Village Lodge's heated pool and jacuzzis (which are open all year long), as well as the gym, fire pits, and heated underground garage. 

Sleeps: 6
Cost: $243/night
Online: airbnb.com

Best Winter Vacation Rental in Idyllwild, CA

Boulder Lodge—Idyllwild

cozy cabin near LA
Airbnb

Kids will get a kick out of the fact there are actual boulders INSIDE this gorgeous Idyllwild home. Just a 2-minute drive to the center of the town of Idyllwild, the "Boulder Lodge" features 3 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms, a loft with a daybed—plus two decks with amazing mountain views and plenty of space for outdoor dining and star gazing. Stroll the grounds outside to find a full teepee, a hammock, and a six-person hot tub. 

Bonus: The home is located just across from the Idyllwild Nature Center, which offers guided tours and educational opportunities for visitors of all ages. 

Sleeps: 6
Cost: $471/night
Online: airbnb.com

Best Winter Vacation Rental in Lake Arrowhead, CA

Family Hideaway with Private Theater—Lake Arrowhead

cozy cabin near LA
Airbnb

Not all mountain gems have to cost a fortune. This reasonably-priced tri-level Lake Arrowhead cabin is made for families (aside from the steep stairs to get into the home, which can be a challenge for new walkers)—with bunk beds for the kids and a cozy movie room that's a perfect for chilly evenings. To make nighttime even more fun, the owners provide a s’mores kit for families to enjoy by the fireplace plus movie theater candy and popcorn.

Bonus: Located about 2 miles from Lake Arrowhead Village and 2 miles from Skypark at Santa's Village, an outdoor adventure park with zip lines, mountain biking trails, rock climbing walls, and more.  

Sleeps: 8
Cost: $347/night
Online: airbnb.com

RELATED: All the Must-Dos for a Weekend of Fun in Lake Arrowhead with Kids

Best Winter Vacation Rental in Three Rivers, CA

Glass House in a Forest—Three Rivers

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If you like the idea of sleeping in the middle of the forest with nothing but a pane of glass separating you from the wildlife all around, the "Glass House" in Three Rivers (near the entrance to the Sequoia and Kings Canyon National Parks), is a must-stay for you. Located on two acres of land and just next to a river, the home's glass walls give the illusion that you're sleeping in the outdoors—all without the chill of cool winter nights. Kids will love exploring the forest property around the house, which features a trampoline and a ping pong table, as well as a fire pit for cozy nights and s'mores. 

Good to Know: While there's not usually snow at this elevation, bring your sleds (and your snow tires)—it snows in the Sequoias just a few minutes away. 

Sleeps: 4; If you have a larger group, there are two tent-style accommodations that are available to guests renting the main house. 
Cost: $400/night
Online: airbnb.com

Best Winter Vacation Rental in Ojai, CA

Camp in the Mountains—Ojai

cozy cabin near LA
Airbnb

Not up for a snowy sojourn? This 200-acre property has so much to offer, you and your fam can be here for days and won't need to leave the property. Located about 20 minutes from downtown Ojai—but with no neighbors for miles—the 150-year-old ranch is spread across hills and forests, with a creek and two spring-fed ponds to explore (there are canoes and paddle boats to use in the pond, and fishing is encouraged). Like animals? There are plenty to see (and pet!), including goats, horses, cows, chickens, and llamas.

The property offers three different types of accommodations: A two-bedroom cabin in the center of the ranch and two safari tents, each with enough land between them to offer privacy if you don't want to be bothered (one sits by a pond; the other, a creek). There is a common room with a piano, pool table, and 80-inch TV, plus a commercial grade kitchen that can be used by all guests. You can rent one or all of the properties at a time—which means, this is a great spot to go in with one or two other families. 

Sporting activities include a basketball court and a major league size baseball field (!!) that sits in a clearing at the base of the hills. For an extra fee, guests can arrange horseback rides, massage and facial services, and yoga classes.

Bonus: Guests are provided with a Jeep to use during their stay to explore the 200-acres of property. 

Sleeps: Two 1-bedroom safari tents and one 2-bedroom cabin. 
Cost: $500 for the safari tents; $750 for the cabin
Online: Log Cabin; Safari Camp 1; Safari Tent 2

Best Winter Vacation Rental in Indio, CA

Sunny Retreat with an Arcade & Casino—Indio

cozy cabin near LA
Airbnb

We don't all want frigid fingers and snow boots this winter. This well-stocked desert home will keep both parents and kids entertained with its a huge gaming room that offers four full-size arcade games as well as two casino tables. There's also a lagoon-style pool with a waterslide, an outdoor sauna, a ping-pong table, a play structure with swings, and a full barbecue area with plenty of seating and outdoor speakers.   

Still want to check snow off your winter bucket list? The Palm Springs Aerial Tramway is just a half hour away and can take you to the top of the nearby mountains, where (in the winter) there's usually enough snow for snow play. 

Sleeps: 10
Cost: $624/night
Online: airbnb.com

Related: Your Ultimate Family Guide to Visiting Palm Springs

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Bookmark our list of must-see holiday events and activities in San Diego for a memory-filled holiday season

San Diego sure know how to make the holidays come alive in paradise. From seeing traditional favorites like How the Grinch Stole Christmas at the iconic Old Globe Theatre to wandering through clever lit up holiday displays whether through neighborhoods or the botanical garden, there’s something fun for everyone no matter what kind of holiday celebration you may be into. So once you’ve found your Christmas tree, stocked up on gifts at the best toy stores in San Diego, and declared a winner of the best hot chocolate in town, head to these fun, only-in-San Diego holiday activities for a most memorable holiday season.

Must-See Holiday Shows in San Diego

Dr. Seuss’s How the Grinch Stole Christmas! at The Old Globe

Select Dates Nov. 9-Dec. 31: Dr. Seuss’s How the Grinch Stole Christmas! is a wonderful, whimsical musical based upon the classic Dr. Seuss book. Back for another incredible year, the family favorite features the songs “Santa for a Day,” “You’re a Mean One, Mr. Grinch,” and “Welcome, Christmas (Fah Who Doraze),” the delightful carol from the popular animated version of How the Grinch Stole Christmas! Celebrate the holidays as the Old Globe Theatre is once again transformed into the snow-covered Who-ville, right down to the last can of Who-hash.

Ebenezer Scrooge's BIG San Diego Christmas Show 

Select Dates Nov. 18-Dec. 24: This is a funny, and highly theatrical reimagining of Dickens’s A Christmas Carol. You'll meet the ghosts of Christmases Past, Present, and Future, but with a comedic locals San Diego twist.

1363 Old Globe Way
San Diego
Online: theoldglobe.org

The Rady Shell

Noel Noel at The Rady Shell

Dec. 9-11: Experience an all-new San Diego holiday tradition by watching the 2nd annual Noel Noel show at the beautiful Rady Shell. This new one-of-a-kind outdoor venue sits along the bay front and projects gorgeous images onto the "shell" throughout the performance. You'll be able to follow along with the storyline as it's told through favorite holiday tunes.

222 Marina Park Way
San Diego
Online: theshell.org

A Christmas Carol  at the Cygnet Theatre

Select Dates Nov. 22-Dec. 24: The holiday classic A Christmas Carol will transport you into the Victorian era for a tale of hope and redemption at Christmas time. This production features original music, creative stagecraft and live sound effects for a unique storytelling experience that will delight the whole family.

Good to Know: Children under five years old are not permitted in the theater during performances.

4040 Twiggs St.
San Diego
Online: cygnettheatre.com

Must-Go Holiday Events in San Diego

Christmas Celebration at SeaWorld San Diego

Nov. 14-Jan. 8: Christmas Celebration is filled with fun holiday-themed animal and entertainment shows, special food and drink items, Santa photos, acres of beautiful decorations and a lighted musical tunnel that you can dance and sing your way through.

Good to Know: You can reserve your Santa photo spot online.

500 Sea World Dr.
San Diego
Online: seaworld.com/san-diego

Jungle Bells at the San Diego Zoo

Dec. 9-Jan. 1: Stroll around the Zoo & Safari Park at night under the sights & sounds of holiday cheer. Jungle Bells at the San Diego Zoo will light up your night with the animals as you stroll around the zoo listening to live music and carolers. Catch a Christmas story time, find the holiday trampoline jumpers, traipse through the Northern Frontier Holiday Forest and be mystified at the Aurora light spectacular show.

Wild Holidays at Safari Park

Select Dates Nov. 25-Jan. 1: Wild Holidays at the Safari Park will let you travel to far away places that glow and twinkle with holiday tunes, seasonal food and decor. Catch a holiday story time, walk through the bridge of lights and the lantern walk and wave to the firefly stilt walkers.

Good to Know: All of the holiday activities start after 3:30pm. Both are included in admission and memberships.

15500 San Pasqual Valley Rd.
Escondido
Online: sandiegozoowildlifealliance.org

Lightscape at the San Diego Botanic Garden

best holiday events san diego lightscape
San Diego Botanical Garden

Select Dates Nov. 18-Jan. 1: Wander through the gardens after dark in this enchanting illuminated 1-mile trail. You’ll see over one million twinkling lights, eye-catching glowing art installations, colors and sounds that have been custom designed for this garden. Kids will enjoy roasting marshmallows over fire and sipping hot chocolate.

Good to Know: Advanced timed tickets are required. Buy your guaranteed parking spot online.

300 Quail Gardens Dr.
Encinitas
Online: sdbg.org 

December Nights at Balboa Park

Dec. 2 & 3: The City of San Diego's December Nights is back this year in Balboa Park. This free, family friendly event brings San Diegans together to enjoy the lights, the sounds, the attractions and of course, the amazing food.

Balboa Park
San Diego
Online: tinybeans.com

Snow-N-Glow at the Del Mar Fairgrounds

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Snow-N-Glow

 

Dec. 8-Jan. 1: Snow-N-Glow is back this year for snow-tubing down the giant slides with real snow! Wander around the one million twinkling lights, seasonal eats & drinks, roast s’mores over community fire pits, and even book a private “igloo” with fire pit and have fresh snow delivered to you for a private snow play experience.

2260 Jimmy Durante Blvd.
Del Mar
Online: snownglow.com

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The Annual Holiday Market Trail at Petco Park

Select Dates Dec. 1-23: The Annual Holiday Market Trail at Petco Park is back and this year the popular market will be bigger and better with even more food, beverage and artisan vendors. The Holiday Market in Gallagher Square is a fun night for the whole family and will feature local and European artisan shops, magical lighting displays, seasonal food and beverage, a carousel, Santa and other holiday characters!

Good to Know: Advanced tickets are required. Park at the Padres Parkade at 10th Ave. + J St.

840 K St.
San Diego
Online: petcoparkinsider.com

San Diego Boat Parades

Visit Oceanside

Truly a San Diego local’s holiday event is to catch one of the (free!) boat parades floating by with each vessel all decked out in lights and holiday decor. Dress warmly, BYO blankets and chairs to sit on, grab some take-out and bring your hot chocolate for a fun night. Note: there may not be bathrooms nearby where you’re sitting so plan ahead. PS: Check their websites for the routes, best places to park and more logistical intel.

Mission Bay Parade of Lights: Dec. 10 at 5:30 p.m.
Online: discovermissionbay.org

Oceanside Harbor Parade of Lights: Dec. 10 at 7 p.m.
Online: visitoceanside.org

Related: Discover Why Our Editors Love Hanging Out in Oceanside

San Diego Bay Parade of Lights: Dec. 11 & 18 at 5:30 p.m.
Online: sdparadeoflights.org

San Diego's Best Neighborhood Holiday Lights

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Throughout Dec.: Make some hot cocoa, turn on the holiday tunes, buckle up, and go for a drive to enjoy dazzling Christmas light displays around various neighborhoods. There are lots of well-known neighborhoods that really go all out with their holiday decorating. These neighborhoods are always worth the drive.

Christmas on Knob Hill
Knob Hill Rd.
San Marcos

Holiday Magic
Fairway Village & Stoney Gate Pl.
Carmel Mountain Ranch

Christmas Card Lane
Oviedo St.
Rancho Penasquitos

Christmas Park
Lana Dr. & Mt Abernathy Ave.
Clairemont

Starlight Circle
Magnolia Ave. & Tomel Ct.
Santee

Christmas Circle
First Ave. & H St.
Chula Vista

 

 

Dreaming of a traffic-free trip from LA that still delivers fun, sun and then some? Look no further than easy-to-navigate Santa Barbara

Kids who are ‘loco’ for locomotives will go off the rails for this unforgettable train journey to Santa Barbara. The great walkability of this coastal town makes leaving the car at home a total breeze. From trolley rides and whale watching to museums and marine life, explore the sights via the Santa Barbara Car Free ‘Take the Train’ promotion which includes discounts on hotels, restaurants, and more kid-friendly activities. There are plenty of exciting activities to do with your kids in Santa Barbara that’ll give your family unforgettable memories.

The Best Way to Travel between SoCal & Santa Barbara

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Train-loving kids will be over-the-moon to get out of the car and onto the Amtrak Pacific Surfliner or Coast Starlight. With multiple trains per day departing from many Southern California locations, taking the train sets the mood for untethered travel. Instead of being locked into car seats, timing traffic, and stopping for bathroom breaks, the train allows your family to engage face-to-face, relax and hit the snack bar or bathroom anytime. This scenic route gets even better as the Amtrak Surfliner and Coast Starlight hug the California coast, giving a front-row seat to spectacular sunsets and ocean views. 

Online: amtrak.com

Santa Barbara’s Best Museums, Zoos & Aquariums

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Santa Barbara Zoo

Even the animals have an ocean view in Santa Barbara. Enjoy peek-a-boo views of the Pacific Ocean while you admire the giraffes feeding and watch the palm trees sway over the pink flamingos. The Santa Barbara Zoo has an impressive array of 500 animals on 30 beautifully-landscaped acres. From penguins and foxes to leopards and lions, this laid-back zoo is a must for animal-loving families.

Car-Free Tips: The Santa Barbara Zoo is just under 2 miles from Stearns Wharf. The Waterfront MTD bus and Santa Barbara Trolley Company both have a stop directly in front of the zoo—or do a half-day bike rental and enjoy the scenic 2-mile ride along the boardwalk.

500 Ninos Dr.
Santa Barbara
Online: sbzoo.org

MOXI, The Wolf Museum of Exploration and Innovation

The innovative MOXI has been getting rave reviews since it opened in 2017 and for good reason. Thoughtful exhibits ignite curiosity and creativity through interactive play on three beautifully-designed floors. Build and race Automoblox race cars, create movie soundtracks, and engage in tons of STEAM fun for all ages. Check out the rooftop Sky Garden for breathtaking views of Santa Barbara. We give this brilliant and bright children's museum an A+.

Car-Free Tips: The Museum is conveniently located on State Street, next door to the Santa Barbara Amtrak train station, and easy walking distance from many hotels.

125 State St.
Santa Barbara
Online: moxi.org

Santa Barbara Museum of Natural History, Sea Center

Small but mighty, the Sea Center on Stearns Wharf includes interactive touch tanks with a beautiful array of sea stars, sea urchins, and sharks. Take a turn with the oceanographic tools, including a bucket that kids can lower down into the ocean, and come back with a scoop full of marine life to look at under the microscope. A super-cool hands-on experience for future marine explorers.

211 Stearns Wharf
Santa Barbara
Online: sbnature.org

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Santa Barbara Adventure Company

For families with kids ages five and up, Santa Barbara Adventure Company offers a kayaking Harbor Fun Paddle around the Santa Barbara shoreline. This 2-hour guided tour loops through the harbor and near Stearns Wharf. Kids sit in the front of the double-kayak with a pint-sized paddle and a parent in the back, as you look for sea stars, seals, and sea lions to the narrative of a knowledgeable guide. Gentle waters make this mellow paddle perfect for parents and kids.

Santa Barbara Harbor
Santa Barbara
Online: sbadventureco.com

Condor Express Whale Watching Tour

Climb aboard the Condor Express for a memorable 2.5-hour cruise in search of whales, dolphins, seals, and sea lions. This high-speed jet-powered catamaran cruises from Sea Landing to the Santa Barbara Channel looking for Humpback whales and pods of dolphins to the delight of passengers of all ages. Large viewing decks outside, onboard bathrooms, a snack bar, and indoor seating options make this whale-watching trip a great choice for families.

Santa Barbara Harbor
Santa Barbara
Online: condorexpress.com

The Best Places to Stay in Santa Barbara

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Hotel Santa Barbara

Hotel Santa Barbara is full of historic charm in the heart of downtown Santa Barbara, a short 8-minute walk up State Street from the train station. A hotel has been on the site since 1876 and its traditional style is complemented by modern comforts, including oh-so-comfy pillow-top beds, plush robes, and modern bathrooms. Gourmet coffee, waffles, and locally-baked pastries are free to guests during the complimentary continental breakfast, including decadent almond and dark chocolate croissants from Renaud’s Patisserie. The super-convenient State Street location makes it a great middle point between the beach and downtown Santa Barbara.

533 State St.
Santa Barbara
Online: hotelsantabarbara.com

The Waterman

Across the street from the train station and directly in the urban Funk Zone is the hip Waterman Hotel. The hotel has a modern vibe mixed with a European hostel state of mind, welcoming travelers of all types, from families with kids of all ages to global backpackers, retirees, and wine-trail revelers. Bring your own groceries to utilize the hotel's full-size community kitchen or just enjoy the complimentary continental breakfast. The hotel has 27 modern rooms with ensuite bathrooms and a few shared bunk-bed rooms typically for single travelers, but parents have been known to rent them out for a kids' bunk-bed room.

12 E. Montecito St.
Santa Barbara
Online: marriott.com

 

Where to Eat in Santa Barbara with Kids

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Finney’s Crafthouse & Kitchen

Located conveniently near the beach and MOXI, Finney’s Crafthouse is a great spot to take a break from the day’s activities and refuel. With a kids menu and coloring page for the little ones (try the pizza with a side of berries!) and salads, gourmet flatbreads, burgers, and a craft-brew list for the adults, it’s a win-win for the whole family. Grab a spot on the patio and soak in the sunny views.

35 State St.
Santa Barbara
Online: finneyscrafthouse.com

Helena Avenue Bakery

With refined industrial decor and a welcoming, family-friendly vibe, Helena Avenue Bakery wows guests with made-from-scratch bread, gourmet sandwiches, and delectable pastries. Located in the Funk Zone, Helena Avenue Bakery offers seat-yourself communal tables and takeaway breakfast and lunch in a modern, yet casual industrial space. Watch the working bakery in action as you savor artisan sandwiches like the California Turkey on fresh-baked baguette and the Cuban on toasted sourdough. Be sure to save room for a decadent chocolate chip cookie.

131 Anacapa St.
Santa Barbara
Online: helenaavenuebakery.com

FisHouse

After a day taking in Santa Barbara’s many seaside activities, take a break at local-favorite FisHouse. With a sunny patio overlooking the ocean and Stearns Wharf, enjoy seafood specialties like Crab Cakes and a Seared Ahi Tuna Club for you and the kids-menu fish and chips and strawberry lemonade for the little ones.

101 E. Cabrillo Ave.
Santa Barbara
Online: fishousesb.com

 

How to Get around Santa Barbara without a Car

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From the train station, many hotels are within a short walking distance. The Wayfarer Hotel is just across the street and Hotel Santa Barbara is a short 8-minute walk up State Street. Bring a stroller if you have little ones who tire easily and make sure you can effortlessly manage the luggage you're bringing. A mixture of backpacks and rolling suitcases works best.

Bonus points: Let your little one bring their own pint-sized rolling suitcase. They'll love feeling grown-up and you'll appreciate the extra hands-on help. Once you're checked in to your hotel and you've dropped off your luggage, getting around is easy. Most activities are within a 10-minute walk, but there's also the MTD bus service and bikes at Wheel Fun Rentals.

Online: MTD bus serviceWheel Fun Rentals

Santa Barbara Trolley Company

Hop on and off the Santa Barbara Trolley for a fun way to travel around town. A knowledgeable driver takes you past the Santa Barbara Zoo, Sea Landing, the Santa Barbara Mission, and many stops in between. Stay on board for the whole 90-minute narrated tour or jump on and off at select stops. If you arrive at the Visitors Center with some extra time before your Trolley Tour departs, walk across the street to Chase Palm Park with a playground and pond with turtles and ducks.

1 Garden St.
Santa Barbara
Online: sbtrolley.com

This trip was paid for by Santa Barbara Car Free partners but all opinions expressed here belong to the writer.