You don’t have to do it all. Not only is that okay, but it’s healthy
You’ve got a fridge papered with to-do lists and an epic bookmark backlog of work-life balance articles. But, let’s be real: Something’s gotta give. And first on the chopping block should be that tired old trope that you, working mom, can have it all. Ya can’t. But there’s no shame in accepting this. Because you can easily kill it at this mom life/work life thing by ditching unnecessary stressors. Think of it as Marie Kondo-ing your life. Here are 13 ideas about what working moms give up to help them stay sane.
1) Scratch-made meals. every. single. night.
While family dinner is great for kids, and we’re all gaga over the idealized concept of the home-cooked meal, we’re all about the cheats. Consider a healthy meal-delivery service, buy a bag of pre-made pasta and stir in some veggies, or get your takeout on.
2) Chasing a perfect 50/50 family/work split.
Some weeks your family will need more attention. And others, you’ve got to play it like Sandberg and lean in at work. The trick (basic but effective) is communication—tell your partner if they need to step up and be honest with your boss about your sick kiddo at home.
3) Work happy hours.
Sure, you can go big at important events like holiday parties. But watching Ben from IT perfect his “Friends in Low Places” game at karaoke every Friday night isn’t going to make a difference come annual review time. Kick it at home with a glass of wine or some family-friendly mocktails instead.
4) Being a DIY goddess.
Bakesale? Store-bought cookies. Party favors? Etsy. Done and done. And even Halloween costumes can be hacked: hot glue, not sewing; hitting the thrift store, not the craft store. (But if DIY is your thing? By all means, keep it up, Martha!)
5) That social-media addiction.
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Life’s little moments don’t all need Facebook documentation, and studies show that scrolling through endless feeds of life presented as perfect (when it never is) leads to a major self-doubt spiral. Designate a time to catch up—say 9-9:30 p.m. And if you still find yourself scrolling during the day, try switching your phone’s color settings to grayscale, which makes it a lot less appealing, or take your social apps off of your home screens so they’re more tedious to find.
6) Making it to every practice and every rehearsal.
Be there for your kids when it matters—at the big game or on opening night. But it’s perfectly fine to tag-team chauffeur duty with a mom-friend. And if your pal is a SAHM who picks up your slack during the week, let her kids hang out at your place some weekends to give her a break.
7) Saying “yes” to every friend invite.
Real talk: Friend time is one of the first things to go when you have littles. And while losing your social life completely is a no-no—consider re-evaluating your friendships. Prioritize those who infuse you with energy and joy. And cut out anyone who leaves you drained.
8) Doing everything for your kids.
Little guys can be more self-sufficient than we give them credit for! Assign them basic tasks like folding towels or watering plants. And, as they get older, graduate them to making their own simple lunches, dusting, and dishwasher duty.
9) Giving up your house to your children (and their stuff).
Toy creep—it’s a problem. When kid stuff is strewn all over the place, it means more picking up for you and dad. Limit their toys to a single room. Or, at least, designate toy-free zones like your bedroom and the primary bath.
10) Overcommitting.
Three birthday parties in one weekend? Just no. Keeping up with the scheduling of parties and playdates is hard enough, let alone the driving, hosting, baking, and present-buying (not to mention the, ahem, cost). Declining some invites = less stress and more family time.
11) Getting up with your kids every night.
When they holler “Mommmm,” it’s A-OK if dad comes to the rescue. And while an every-other-night deal with the hubs might be unrealistic, prioritize who does the calming based on what you each have on tap the next day.
12) That idea of the “perfect” work persona.
While setting boundaries might seem scary, you’ll find that your coworkers will come to respect them—whether it’s no meetings after five or no emails on weekends. Consistency is key. And if you’re hourly, let it be known (politely) that your hours are firm, and no, you can’t cover for your slacker co-worker who’s MIA again. Standing your ground—while otherwise crushing it at your job—is one way to reshape the workplace for working moms.
13) Stalling on switching jobs.
Despite giving it your best shot, sometimes your company just isn’t (and will never be) parent-friendly. In this case, it’s time to bust out the ole resume and start your job hunt. And don’t feel bad about it! Put out feelers with working-mom friends because they’ll have your back. And for part-time work, do a little research. There are great companies out there (like us at Alice’s Table!) that let you make your own schedules, or that offer benefits packages even to part-time workers (Starbucks, Whole Foods, Home Depot).
And as for what you should never give up—ever? “Me” time (even if you’ve got to schedule it in), “us” time (even if it’s just Netflix and chill), and time to breathe. You’ve got this!
Holiday jammies? Check. Thermos of hot cocoa? Poured. Sounds like you’re ready to hit the city in search of Seattle Christmas lights with the kids
Seattle’s dark winter nights make the perfect backdrop for the colorful holiday lights that kick off the winter season right after families have finished their Thanksgiving dinner. If a brighter-than-bright light display is what you’re after, we’ve got more than a few Seattle Christmas lights that will get you in the spirit. From synched neighborhood light shows to spectacular walk-thru and drive-thru experiences, each will dazzle and amaze wide-eyed kiddos and their bundled-up parents, too. Don’t forget the hot cocoa!
23 cute little houses all in a row, adorned with lights, blow-ups, sleighs, and reindeer are what you’ll find at this Seattle institution. Since 1949, Candy Cane Lane in Ravenna has been charming visitors far and wide with their whimsical, neighborhood display. Want the scoop on this popular event? Read up before heading out.
Find It: N.E. Park Rd., just off the main drag of Ravenna Blvd. at the cross street of 21st Ave. N.E.
Disco Vinnie's House
A local favorite, Disco Vinnie has been designing elaborate light displays that really wow the neighborhood for years. With over 5,000 LED lights and 12-foot video screen, visiting this spot is a feast for the senses that’s full of holiday cheer. Unlike other shows, this one runs for five hours and cycles through 80 songs, so you can swing by, stay for a bit and then come back another time for a totally new experience. It features four singing, old-fashioned light bulbs with talking faces (they make great back-up singers when harmonies are needed) and two arches that will really dazzle the kids.
West Seattleites have long loved visiting the Menashe Family Lights. With over 340,000 lights strung around the property, alongside blow-up characters, animated animals, a manger scene with vintage figures and a sweet little train that captivates the kidlets, this is one display that’s brimming with holiday cheer. In years past, the Menashes have invited Santa and Mrs. Claus to make an appearance and even unleashed gentle flurries on the gathered crowd. Who knows what special additions will be made this year. Plan to park the car along the street and get out to wander (and wonder) at this dazzling display.
One of the newer Seattle Christmas light shows on the block, this display started in 2020 and has been bringing it ever since. After a successful first Halloween light run, the Christmas lights are next on the holiday spirit list. Usually set up the first week in December, it's an engaging synched light show that follows the recipe for success—catchy tunes, dancing lights, and the chance to enjoy them both from the comfort of your car. Tune into 103.1 FM and then sit back. This year promises to be another great one, with bigger and brighter lights. Plus, they've been known to host a New Year's Eve countdown too.
Find It: 8103 8th Ave. N.E., Seattle
Olympic Manor
The Olympic Manor Neighborhood light display makes for a lovely winter evening walk (or slow drive) for families. The houses in the area are decked and then decked again for a truly illuminating effect that can’t help but make you smile. Bundle up for this one!
Find It: Between N.W. 75th & N.W. 100th, Seattle
Mountlake Terrace
A lovely drive through a lighted neighborhood and favorite holiday tunes on the radio is the perfect incentive for some fun with the fam. So, fill up the tank and grab your slippers, then head out to this multi-family display in Mountlake Terrace where you can take a stroll or drive around the nearly 25 houses lighting the way. This sparkling spectacular runs through New Year's Day. Away you go!
Find It: 22702 42nd Pl. W., Montlake Terrace, WA
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WildLanterns at Woodland Park Zoo
Although this isn't a traditional holiday light display, we're willing to cheat. Because the popular WildLanterns is back for 2023, and it’s all-new with a few surprises in store. A different kind of winter light display, it features four themed zones where you’ll encounter lighted animals and plants lining the zoo’s walking paths. From the beautifully lit butterfly, bug and plant lanterns that start everything off to the mysterious animals just past the fairy tree, this display is totally lit. Don’t forget to make a stop at the interactive zone (in the center of the zoo), but know when you do, your kids won’t want to leave.
If you like your holiday lights with a side of a music and water show, head to Seattle Center to take it all in. Part of the annual Winterfest celebration, the campus will be lit from trees to buildings with lights to illuminate Seattle's dark winter nights. Also in the mix is the International Fountain, programmed for holiday cheer with a music and light show to get everyone in the spirit of the season.
The best holiday light displays in Bellevue & beyond
Snowflake Lane at the Bellevue Collection
Cue the snow flurries! Bellevue is bringing the winter merriment back this season. The annual parade that features twinkling lights, festive music, drummers, dancers, and of course, snowflakes falling from the sky makes its return to the streets outside of Bellevue Square for 2023. Our suggestion? Make a plan to visit Santa when you visit.
Find It: Bellevue Way N.E., between Bellevue Square & Lincoln Square Dates & Times: Nov. 24-Dec. 24, 2023; 7 p.m.
Get into the holiday spirit with this long-standing Eastside family favorite. The annual Garden d’Lights at the Bellevue Botanical Garden opens the day after Thanksgiving and runs through Dec. 31. Expect to see displays you've grown to love over the years, like Charlotte of web fame and Willie the Slug, but be on the lookout for some new displays and critters in the mix too. Plan about 30 minutes to see this fantastic display along oh-so-stroller-friendly trails.
Good to Know: Tickets are just $8 per person, and kids 10 & under are free but will need a ticket. Tickets are date and time-specific and must be purchased in advance.
The Cross Kirkland Corridor is where you'll find this musical display. Back again for another exciting year, families can gaze at this magnificent display that's programmed by Google engineers. It's a chance for them to dazzle you with their programming chops. 10,000 lights will dance to holiday music. Whether you and the kids do too is up to you. There are two places where families can park for free to enjoy the display. Try the Google surface parking lot (Google Building B, 787 6th St. S.) or the first level of Google Building D (451 7th Ave. S.).
Insider Tip: Plan to see this display turn on when you attend the party on December 2. Expect a petting zoo, a photo booth, hot chocolate and cookies for all. It all starts around 5 p.m., carolers take the stage at 5:15 p.m., and the display goes live around 5:30 p.m.
Find It: 509 6 St. S., Feriton Spur Park, Kirkland, WA
Redmond Lights 2023
Art meets light at this walkable public display. It's a month-long celebration of community and belonging that highlights local artists and their work. This year has plenty of special additions to the usual display including Friday Night Celebrations featuring live entertainment, crafts, vendors, and more—a great reason to brave the chilly winter nights in December. Or keep everyone warm and still have fun when your budding artists participate in the kid's coloring contest.
You'll find merriment and dancing lights at this stunning display in Maple Valley. Getting in on the festivities is easy. Simply pull up with your cuties and tune the car radio to 101.9 on your FM dial to enjoy the show that's filled with Christmas spirit. Then sit back and watch the mesmerizing 70,000 lights do their thing as they cycle through 15-20 songs (that's about 35-40 solid minutes of programming) before heading home to put the Littles to bed. In addition to finding Santa, complete with reindeer, on the roof, exciting new songs has been added to the playlist.
Good to Know: If you would like to drop off a food donation, you'll find a spot to leave non-perishables for the Maple Valley Food Bank.
Now in its eight year, this Eastside display is all about tradition. And this is the second year the display will be completely RGB (that's light show speak for pixelated red, green and blue LED lights). Now boasting a complete rainbow of colors, families can expect about seven or eight songs to be featured, and should plan to sit back and relax as the lights do their thing for about 20 minutes. Just tune your car radio to 103.1 FM to make the cascading jumping lights spring to life, like a reindeer on a rooftop.
Location: 6203 144th Ave. N.E., Redmond, WA
Head north of the city to see these holiday lights
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Evergreen Lights
The folks at Evergreen Church in Bothell hope you and the kids will stop by to enjoy this popular light display that's a favorite with north end families. The Littles will be entertained by over 500,000 bright lights dancing to choreographed music while parents can snuggle up under the heat lamps nearby. Expect snow flurries every 30 minutes and an improved Pixel Light Tunnel that's sure to impress your friends on social. Head inside to watch trains and warm up with cookies and cocoa (available for purchase) before making your way back to the city.
Find It: 3429 240th St. S.E., Bothell, WA Dates: Dec. 1-24, 2023 Event details
Kornfed's Christmas Lights
Lights and inflatables that are the envy of Christmas enthusiasts cover pretty much every inch at this house in Bothell that really goes all out for the season. When you visit, stay a while to take it all in, checking out what's new and different—and hey, what's over there? Kids will have a blast seeing the whimsical elements of this brighter-than-bright display that gets bigger every year. But the real heart of this display is the donations they collect for families in need. If you're able, please bring a food or toys to support the MayWood Hills PTSA. Cash or monetary donations work too. Last year, they collected over $3,000 and 1,000 lbs. of food that went to local famililes.
This spectacular dancing light show, started back in 2007 by Dan Penn, and it pulls out all the stops, bringing holiday cheer to the neighborhood. Plan to spend around 20 minutes taking it all in, tuned to 92.1 FM from your car. Enjoy watching the 10-foot rooftop light grid that really wows. Expect lots of fast-paced holiday songs, mash-ups, and dub step that'll have your kids dancing in their car seats. If you're able, take in this show on a weeknight; it's at the end of a cul-de-sac so things can get a bit crowded on the weekends. Make a plan to visit this cheerful display.
Find It: 21726 N.E. 136th Pl., Woodinville, WA
Lynnwood Lights
A sweet, family-run show that's not too far from the city is what's in store at this display. After pictures with Santa at Alderwood Mall, swing by to catch the nightly show that runs just under 20 minutes. Tune your dial to 103.1 FM to hear the music that's synched to the lights, then sit back and enjoy. Shows run every 30 minutes to help you make your plan.
Insider Tip: Park across the street for the best view of this charming display.
Find It: 1409 172nd Pl. S.W., Lynnwood, WA
The Lights of Christmas
The Lights of Christmas
If you're up for a drive, consider making the trek to Stanwood to see The Lights of Christmas. A truly special show that features over one million twinkling lights, it doesn't get better than this one for spreading holiday cheer. Tune into Christmas music on the radio, then roll down the windows to wave to Mr. & Mrs. Claus as you drive slowly past. Favorite light displays include the light tunnel, Cascade Splendor mountain scene, and Santa with his reindeer. Save some room for their fresh mini hot donuts—the perfect snack for your drive home.
Insider Tip: Advance online tickets are required.
Dates: Select dates Nov. 26-Dec. 30
Warm Beach Camp and Conference Center 20800 Marine Dr. Stanwood, WA
South Sound holiday displays that are worth the drive
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Zoolights
Point Defiance Zoo & Aquarium’s annual Zoolights festival is a great outdoor display for animal lovers of all ages to catch. Each year, the grounds are decked out in their dazzling best to wow visitors big and small. In addition to familiar faves, like the giant octopus and the Narrows Bridge, kids should keep their eyes peeled for Sasquatch and other secret displays as they marvel at this magical electric avenue. And for all the light tunnel fans—get your cameras ready—because this Christmas light display has two tunnels.
Bigger, better, and brighter is the name of the game at this year’s Holiday Magic, a walk-through light experience at the Washington State Fairgrounds. It premiered in 2020 as a safe way for visitors to get their holiday light fix. Now, families will encounter more fantastic light displays at the Light Extravaganza and Hometown Holiday Forest, where lighted trees delight, but the fun doesn't stop there. We know your kids will want to hop aboard the Santa Express Train, ride the Sugar Plum Merry-Go-Round, and see if they can spot the Big Guy in Red at Santa's Village. The ice skating rink is back for another season of cheer, and holiday food is available to purchase, an easy way to keep the kids happy as you explore.
Dates: Delect dates Dec. 1-23
Washington State Fairgrounds 110 9th Ave. S.W. Puyallup, WA Online: thefair.com
Be sure to put the Best Of Washington's 2015 winner on your driving route this year. Families will always find something different at this display that changes from year to year. To listen to the songs synched with the over 70,000 lights, tune into 89.1 FM. We love that this display is totally committed to being "green." In fact, almost everything you see has been saved from the landfill by display designer, Gena Laws and her family. If the spirit of the season moves you, bring some canned food to support the Black Diamond Senior Center and Food Bank. The Laws family is proud to have raised over 50,000 pounds of food in the past 13 years.
Find It: 30211 176th Ave. S.E., Kent, WA (follow signs off of Covington/Sawyer Rd. & 179th)
Good to Know:
1. Be sure to check the Facebook pages of your favorite residential displays for progress reports, scheduling changes, and amazing photos of what you’ll see.
2. Many of these displays go live Thanksgiving weekend, while others don’t start until December. Be sure to check dates, times, and ticket requirements of your favorite displays before heading out.
You’ve yet again survived the delicate trifecta of work, household duties, and figuring out the summer camp schedules, and (Congrats!) made it to Friday. In theory, this is an evening that should revolve around QT with the family, but more often than not, parents are left wondering how to plan a Friday night for their kids. If you want to get creative with your family weekend tradition, here’s how to shake things up. From game nights to awesome family activities, here are our favorite ideas for what to do on a Friday night.
1. Hold a family meeting.
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Let Friday night be the night the whole family sits down to discuss the ups and downs of the week. You can focus on what went well, what goals were reached, and which rewards or consequences need to be doled out. In just 20 minutes, you can get everyone on the same page as far as family expectations are concerned, and then be sure to add a little fun at the end. Ice cream sundae, anyone?
Grab your favorite toppings and whip out your homemade dough recipe—it's pizza night! Let the entire fam concoct personal pies in this activity-turned-meal that makes Friday night an entertaining family tradition.
3. Watch the sun go down.
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Make it a late night (it's Friday, after all), and set up outside with the kids to watch the sun go down. The kids can play games at dusk, and you can catch up with your partner while you wait.
There's so much more to building a fort than pillows and blankets in the family room. Creating a rad reading nook, cardboard castle or cozy spot is a great Friday night activity. If you need some fort-building inspiration, here are 13 epic indoor forts you'll want to live in.
5. Have a reading night.
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Reading is always a great activity and one of our favorite family traditions. Instead of movie night, cozy up on the couch with blankets and books. Whether every family member has their own book or you're reading a novel together, there are tons of great choices. Check out the best books of 2023 (so far) for a great reading list for all ages and stages.
6. Set up an ice cream sundae bar.
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Here's a great idea when planning a Friday night for kids. Incorporate dessert into one of your sweet new family traditions with an ice cream sundae bar. You can add just about any toppings you can imagine, and it's perfect right before you start the weekly movie. Check out some of our favorite sundae bar ideas.
7. Camp out at home.
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Change up Friday night by camping in the living room, or pitching a tent in the backyard. These camping activities will give your family a ton of wilderness inspiration without leaving home. Don't forget the s'mores!
8. Create a comic strip.
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Encourage your little ones to share their creative storytelling in the form of a comic book. Parents can get in on the creativity by creating a comic strip, too. This fun and simple DIY comic strip tutorial will help you get started. Make this one of your monthly family traditions, so you create a new story strip each month.
Rock out as a family during your own Friday night concert. Organize a karaoke session or use a music-making app that will record your tunes and help make making music together a melodic family tradition.
An after-dinner walk brings the family together. Even if you are only walking around the block, it can be a great bonding experience for children (and fun for you). For more adventures, try a simple I-Spy or spotting walk. You can also have each family member silently observe something on the walk. When you get home, take turns sharing your observations. Plus, you get a chance to get a few steps in to start your weekend off on the right foot!
11. Have a family game night.
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Teach the kids a new card game or play an old classic. It doesn’t matter if it’s Gin Rummy or Candy Land, as long as everyone in the family participates. Draw straws to see who picks the first traditional Friday night game and take turns picking a game that everyone will love. And don't forget Charades! It's the easiest form of low-fi entertainment around.
Stage an elaborate scavenger hunt before bedtime. Just write out the clues (each one a hint of the location of the next clue) and make sure the kiddos are distracted while you hide them around. Number the clues in case one is found “accidentally” too early. Hide something simple at the end, like a treat or even just an IOU for a Saturday afternoon of playground games and fun.
Make dinner a fun tradition by having each family member create a dish, or team up to make different dishes. There are tons of easy recipes that even the youngest chef can make (with a little help from a sibling or parent). Three-ingredient recipes such as grilled cheese roll-ups and PB&B quesadillas are simple and delicious choices for mealtime.
Set aside a little time to create something together. It could be clay sculpting or homemade playdough or you could try and recreate Vincent van Gogh’s masterpiece Starry Night. Try drawing an outline of a scene or an object in black (or have older siblings do this) and then let the kids color in the original creation.
Make it an evening fit for the coolest literati by setting up a writing session. You try your hand at writing a haiku. Have the family stage a traditional poetry reading after to share what everyone has written.
16. Have a family movie night.
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If you want to plan a Friday night for the kids, but just don't have the energy to do much, a family movie night is always the answer. Pick a movie that'll please your whole crowd and don't forget the popcorn!
Powerful words can make a difference before kids head to middle school
Dear daughter,
1. Someone else doesn’t need to think you’re beautiful to make it true.
Please know that you are beautiful. And not in the least because of how your eyes and nose fit on your face or the size of your waist. You are beautiful because of who you are. Those who care about you will not only see your beauty, but they will love you for loving yourself and knowing all of your own great strengths.
Do not put the power of your truth in the hands of another to decide. Hold onto it and boldly believe in yourself. You already possess it. Whether they see it or not, it’s yours.
2. Feeling good about yourself is not a bad thing.
To know one’s own strengths is a great skill. It is necessary for success in life, love, friendships, intimacy, careers, and even physical and mental health. Do not be afraid to trust in your strengths. You can know where your greatness lies and balance it with the awareness of where your faults and struggles hold you back.
We are not meant to ignore our bright light, nor are we meant to pretend as though we lack imperfections. You may be tempted to step heel to toe to make others feel more comfortable or accepting, but we all fall off that tightrope. Your feet belong on solid ground because you are incredible and flawed. Accept both.
3. You can blame me for anything.
There will be times when you find yourself in a situation that you know is trouble. You will be faced with drinking, drugs, and other “just do it” situations that are harmful to you or that you just don’t want to participate in. And yet, what should you say? Dear daughter, say that your mom has the superhero power of knowing all and you will be indentured to a life of chores and Friday night board games with your parents forever.
I trust you to make good choices, but when you need an excuse, when you need someone to blame, I can be whatever you want me to be to get you out of a bad situation.
Fear of missing out can lead to bad choices, loneliness, jealousy, and hurt feelings. When you are feeling that way, remember that pictures exaggerate the truth. A simple night of three friends sitting around staring at their own phones can look like the sleepover of the century with one selfie posted on Instagram. Filters are there for a reason, they make the image of the truth look better than it really is. Likely you didn’t miss out on anything. And even if you did, your turn will come.
5. Build up your friends; it doesn’t take away from how awesome you are.
An unfortunate lie that girls are told in our society is that we must compete with one another to be the best. Healthy competition in sports and activities is a good thing when everyone knows the rules and is on the same playing field. Unhealthy competition is unspoken or hidden; it is not acknowledged and there are no rules. It leads to covert bullying also known as relational aggression.
Magazines and movies want us to think that only one girl can be the beautiful one at a party, only one dress can be the prettiest, and only one girl can get the guy. Do not be held back by needing to be prettier/smarter/cuter/trendier/sportier than your friends. Don’t be friends with girls who are stuck needing to be better than you. Be yourself and then give your friends props for being awesome, too.
6. You are in charge of your body.
Okay, this is a serious one—the most important one on this list. I want you to close your eyes and think really hard about this now for a moment because you only have one body. And your body is precious to me. I hope your body is precious to you. I hope that you treat your body as the strong, capable, incredible form that it is.
Every part of you is beautiful and perfect, designed for anything and everything you want it to do. Listen to your body, be the driver of your vessel, treat it with respect, and others will, too.
7. I will always be here. You are always my girl.
Life is hard. And like I said, we are all just trying to figure it out. As you learn and grow and change, I will always be here. I hope you will feel the warmth of my arms around you no matter where you are, like a ribbon tethering you always to the place from where you first came. I love you more than the air I breathe. I love watching you unfold and figure out who you are and claim your path.
You already have everything inside of you that you will ever need, and I am the luckiest mom in the world to have you as my daughter. I am always on your side, I’ve got your back and am holding a spotlight over you as you learn to fly, forever your cheerleader. Thanks for being you.
Krissy Dieruf is a licensed marriage and family therapist. She lives in Minnesota with her husband and three children, loves to sing and dance around the house and has a soft spot for rebels and crazy hair.
Ah, toddlers. Anyone who’s ever had (or even met) one knows how much they run our lives. From our daily schedules to our home decor to the foods we eat, raising a toddler means navigating their constantly changing desires and whims—and the ever-present risk of a meltdown.
That’s why we really sympathize with this mom, who posted a TikTok video explaining why, when she goes out to eat with her family, she usually packs a meal for her 2-year-old.
The mom, who goes by @unbreakablemomma on TikTok, explained, “Call me cheap, call me whatever, but if we’re going out to a restaurant, I’m packing my kid a meal. I do this for many reasons.”
She further explains that every Friday night, her family gets together at a restaurant to get food out (whether that’s eating at the restaurant or grabbing takeout to have at a family member’s house). But she doesn’t purchase a restaurant meal for her 2-year-old son.
“For one, you want me to pay $6.99 for chicken tenders and fries that my son is going to throw half of it on the floor? You’re crazy,” she says. “Also, whatever I pack is probably going to be healthier than what the restaurant has anyways.”
As she talks, she shows the food she’s packing for her toddler: a PB&J, cubed cheddar cheese, banana slices, and a chocolate Larabar.
Her points make perfect sense. That $6.99 is generous for a kids’ meal at a restaurant—in Chicago, where I live, that would be more like $10-12 on the low end. And she’s definitely right about nutrition. Too often, restaurant kids’ menus are extremely limited, only including options like chicken fingers, pizza, corn dogs, and fries.
But in the comments, people were very divided.
“$6.99 is not an outrageous price. Eating out is definitely an experience a child deserves while everyone eats out,” one wrote. Another added, “Someone once told me if u can’t afford to let your kid get whatever meal they want at a restaurant, u shouldn’t be eating out.”
One comment particularly caught my eye, as a former restaurant worker: “You are paying for the seat at the table, not just the food. The price of the food to the restaurant is a tiny part of it.”
But is that even true? Many kids are too young to eat any food a restaurant offers, but they’re still allowed a spot at the table. Would any restaurant tell a mom she can’t feed formula brought from home to an infant, and they need to order the chicken fingers instead? Of course not. So at what age does it become unacceptable for a young child to eat their own food in public? I would argue a 2-year-old is still well within that grace period.
There are a few important caveats here, though. Some restaurants can’t allow outside food due to food service regulations. In this case, it’s probably better to just get takeout so the grownups can enjoy their restaurant meal and littles can have food they like. And as a former server, let me just say: if you bring food from home for your young child and they make a mess with it that you leave for the restaurant’s staff to clean up, you’re a jerk. Full stop.
But as long as everyone is respectful about it, let toddlers have a pass. It’s tough enough navigating mealtimes with a human who hasn’t developed the ability to understand logic yet. Let’s not make it harder than it has to be.
When the Virgin River withdrawals become all too real, tune in to these similar-genre shows for drama, romance, and lots of sniffles.
Virgin River: It’s peak comfort viewing that enchants with breathtaking vista shots, small-town drama, and the coziest of plaid ensembles. Based on the 24-novel series from author Robyn Carr, the addictive soapy series explores love in all its nuanced forms while also giving viewers an eyeful of the most scenic mountain town—you know, the kind that makes you want to quit your day job, head for the hills, and live out a thousand lumberjack fantasies.
In Season 1, we meet Mel Monroe, a nurse practitioner, midwife, and certified city girl leaving Los Angeles for a job in Virgin River. There, she bristles with the resident doctor and eventually falls in love with the rugged owner of a riverside bar—cue the shockers, reveals, and cliffhangers. As for the latest installment, Season 5, the word is those 12 episodes will hit Netflix this July. To hold you over ’til then, snuggle up with this list of drama-filled shows like Virgin River. And pro tip: Pop open a nice California red before hitting play.
From Scratch
Love in a foreign land: It’s a worthy construction that’s served the small screen well. You have Emily, whose cup runneth over in Paris, city girl Mel meeting Jack in a town that may as well be another planet, and, here, Amy Wheeler (played by Zoë Saldaña), an artist from Texas whose chance encounter with a Sicilian chef leads to a whirlwind romance that takes a bittersweet turn. Based on Tembi Locke’s gut-wrenching memoir, From Scratch is a limited series, so savor it like a plate of warm pasta alla norma.
If you watch Virgin River for a good cry, might we introduce you to another emotionally heightened drama that tugs at the tear ducts? Hulu’s Tiny Beautiful Things is adapted from the 2012 book by Cheryl Strayed. And it translates the novel’s series of advice columns over eight episodes while also offering an origin story for protagonist Clare Pierce, a writer whose own life is hanging on by tattered threads. Best part? Clare is played by a beautifully messy Kathryn Hahn.
No money, no home, and nowhere to go. Such is the situation for Alex Russell at the beginning of Netflix’s Maid. Like so many women who have “been through it,” Alex is a single mom who flees an abusive relationship and makes ends meet any way she can. The narrative is based on the best-selling memoir by Stephanie Land, which crystallizes insight into overcoming generational trauma, emotional abuse, and homelessness. It’s raw, even hopeless at times, but there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Soul mates come in many forms. Including best friends whose bond has endured time, distance, and life’s curveballs. Meet Kate (Sarah Chalke), a mom married to a war journalist, and Tully (Katherine Heigl), a TV anchor with big dreams; the duo is at the center of Netflix’s comfy sweater of a series, Firefly Lane, which is adapted from Kristin Hannah’s best-selling 2008 novel. Tracking the pair from their teens to the workplace, this show like Virgin River offers two seasons that will both heal you and completely wreck you.
Back in 2019, Billy Baldwin starred in a familial drama that went underseen and underappreciated. An emotional seesaw that rivals the heartbreaking arcs featured in Virgin River, this Canadian import also explores the ripple effects of grief. After the death of his wife, Baldwin’s John West, a search and rescue commander, moves with his three kids to Turtle Island Bay (yes, it’s just as charming as it sounds), where he struggles with teen rebellion, dysfunction, and more hardships of a single parent.
No one really wants to be spoon-fed life’s lessons when they queue up their choice of indulgent streaming content. That is, unless they’re being served by the tight-knit group of women in this romantic drama. Set in South Carolina, Maddie, Dana Sue, and Helen have been best friends since high school, seeing each through the roller coaster that is life in an easily binge-able series: think kids, careers, romance, and divorce. A glossy, soapy Southern watch, this show like Virgin River goes best with plenty of Kleenex.
Similar to Virgin River, This Is Us is an ensemble drama with a dedicated fan base that comes at the world with nothing but love. The perfect balance of beautiful and bittersweet moments, Dan Fogelman’s six-season series revolves around the Pearsons, a family unique in their composition but solid in their foundation. And like any worthy binge fest, This Is Us shocks with the occasional reveal and cliffhanger, but at its core, it’s an easy watch with a universal message: Family is everything.
Selma director Ava DuVernay teamed with industry vet Oprah Winfrey for a sprawling drama that weaves real-life turmoil into its scripted narratives. About three siblings who reunite in Louisiana to take over their family’s sugarcane farm, Queen Sugar tackles urgent issues like mass incarceration and police brutality. But it also gives viewers escapism through romantic encounters and visually stunning cinematography that will make you want to move to the bayou, like, yesterday.
For five seasons, Gina Rodriguez made us laugh, cry, and swoon. So much so that we envy the virgin viewers watching for the first time. The gist: A devout Catholic whose chastity belt is welted shut ends up pregnant. How she finds herself with child is part of what makes this satirical telenovela so brilliant. It’s also what will attract Virgin River fans. Beyond titles, the two share a soapy nature, confounding fans with paternity puzzles, convenient memory loss, and the highly regarded twin plot twist.
Before Yellowstone lassoed a cult-like following, there was another multigenerational saga roping in viewers and building a fandom. Heartland, a Canadian gem spanning 16 seasons and still going strong, transports audiences to a horse farm at the foot of the Rocky Mountains. Its story belongs to Amy Fleming, a young horse whisperer who juggles love and loss, and with wholesome fare akin to Virgin River, it satisfies cravings for both top-notch family dramas and beautifully shot Westerns.
Rachel Bilson stars in this fish-out-of-water drama that veers into the melodramatic at times, but, hey, isn’t that why you’re here in the first place? Bilson plays Dr. Zoe Hart, a New Yorker who heads to Alabama for a job as a general practitioner. When there, she meets and falls in love with a local—sound familiar yet? Just wait—and spends her day job quibbling with a rival doctor played by none other than Tim Matheson, who stars in Virgin River as the bristly Doc Mullens.
The 2000s were a wealth of great TV—the decade’s hall of fame is just brimming with hallmark teen and family dramas (see: Dawson’s Creek, Veronica Mars, Friday Night Lights). But because of the premise of this roundup, we’re recommending a trip down memory lane with Everwood. A now-iconic series about a Manhattan brain surgeon (Treat Williams) who moves his two kids to higher altitudes in Colorado, Everwood relishes the same heartwarming tone of a certain favorite starting-over drama.
Based on Jennifer Worth’s memoirs, Call the Midwife is a British procedural unique in its execution, chronicling the lives of a group of midwives, nurses, and nuns in East London from two points in time: the 1950s and the 1960s. Still in production, the hit series touches a raw nerve with relevant and more-than-timely plotlines, including abortion, disease, and even female circumcision, but handles such sensitive life-and-death issues with a nuanced touch.
No matter how many times you’ve preached the gospel of Amy Sherman-Palladino’s coming-of-age series, checking in with the cast of characters down in Stars Hollow never gets old. Over seven years—and 154 episodes—single mom Lorelai (Lauren Graham) and her teen daughter, Rory (Alexis Bledel), navigate the ups and downs of love, college, and social status, quipping at a breakneck pace and inspiring legions of fans along the way.
Eat lunch at the original Chick-fil-a and tour a double-decker 767 airplane on your next family getaway
Pack your bags and get ready to enjoy quality family time in Atlanta’s Airport District. Atlanta’s Southside is the perfect getaway for families that love sports, unique history, and delicious food. So whether you are road-tripping through Georgia or taking a day trip near Atlanta, Hapeville is a vibrant town full of must-see places and family-friendly activities everyone in your crew will love. So keep reading to plan the perfect weekend getaway in Hapevilla, GA, in the ATL Airport District.
Things to Do near ATL Airport District with Kids
Located on the outskirts of Atlanta, Hapeville, in the Atlanta Airport District, is famous for the Delta Flight Museum, with hangars full of fun exhibits and a tourable 747, and The Dwarf House, the original Chick-fil-a. And there’s so much more this town has to offer, so we rounded up our favorites.
College Park Skyhawks Game
An NBA G-League game is a must-see at the Gateway Center Arena during basketball season. You won’t regret taking your crew to one of these NBA minor league games. Splurge on the VIP tickets to enjoy a full buffet, drinks, and a prime viewing area. The halftime shows are electric, and the crowd goes crazy when the cheerleaders and mascot take the court. Everyone in your crew will love this exciting experience.
Delta Flight Museum
Take a tour through Delta’s aviation history at this interactive museum just a short drive from the country’s busiest airport. First, walk through a double-decker airplane and rest quickly in First Class. Then, sit in the cockpit’s jump seat and pose for a photo op in a hot air balloon. Finally, swing through the gift shop to find model airplanes and fun aviation-related gifts.
Hapeville Depot Museum and Visitor Center
Travel through history at this quaint and educational local museum. Learn how Hapeville locals passed notes to trains as they traveled through town. And find out how a major international airport hub made its home in Hapeville. Finally, try the keys of a vintage typewriter and stop for a photo op on the Worry Rock. The kind docents love telling their town’s history.
Arches Brewing
Stop by this dad-owned business for some Friday night (or any night) family fun. The adults will enjoy the 14 different artisan beers brewed onsite, and everyone will love the kid-friendly outdoor space with shaded picnic tables, cornhole, and basketball. The staff is more than happy to chat about the 8-year history of this local gem and teach you a bit about brewing. If you aren’t a beer drinker, try the Sprezzatura. It’s light and delicious.
Atlanta Printmakers Studio
Check their website before you visit this cool print shop in Hapeville, GA. You can sign up for an adult/child LEGO printmaking workshop. Hang out, work, and play together to create designs with Lego bricks, and the staff will help everyone print their creations using the Vandercook presses. In addition, you’ll get to take home your one-of-a-kind poster as a souvenir.
Things to Do in Downtown Atlanta with Kids
Georgia Aquarium Add the Behind the Seas Tour, an exceptional aquarium experience, when buying tickets to this incredible aquarium. For less than $20 per person, you’ll see the beluga whale and whale shark habitats from above. A friendly tour guide will take your family around to learn more about the behind-the-scenes action at the aquarium, and you may even get to see a midday feeding with the marine animal keepers. It’s a great way to learn more about the conservation efforts at the aquarium too. Remember to sign up for the Dolphin and Sea Lion shows when you arrive. Seats fill up quickly.
World of Coca-Cola Museum
Add this fascinating museum to your Atlanta family vacation itinerary. You’ll start by watching a short video; then, you’ll walk through the main areas of the museum on your own. The 3D adventure movie is fun for kids, and the tasting room is a favorite for anyone who visits. You can taste hundreds of Coca-Cola brand drinks from around the world. In addition, the gift shop is full of fun Coca-Cola-themed gifts, toys and apparel. It’s worth a walkthrough.
Where to Eat Near ATL Airport District with Kids
The Dwarf House
You can eat at the original Chick-fil-a with an epic outdoor playground and a whimsical tiny entrance door, perfect for little ones. Whether you eat on the traditional carryout side or in the full-service area of the restaurant, you’ll get the whole Chick-fil-a experience. Visiting on a beautiful day is fun so that everyone can enjoy the outdoor play space and seating.
Pit Boss After you visit Arches Brewing, head to this nearby family-friendly, casual BBQ restaurant. Locals will tell you they have the best burger in town, even though they’re indeed known for the smokey barbeque. Order from the counter, and grab a table while your kids try their hands at one of the video games.
Breakfast Boys Bring your hungry crew to this College Park all-day breakfast and brunch spot for some fantastic pineapple upside-down French toast or jerk chicken and waffles paired with peach cobbler lattes. The menu is surprising, and everything is delicious. This Atlanta Airport District restaurant is the perfect place to gather and enjoy good food together.
Champions Beer Garden & Patio Just inside Atlanta Airport Marriott Gateway, you can enjoy 14 beers on draft, various local craft brews, and a delicious menu of Southern comfort favorites. Stop in before heading to the nearby Atlanta Airport, Georgia International Convention Center, or Gateway Center Arena.
Where to Stay near ATL Airport District with Kids
Atlanta Airport Marriott Gateway
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Think indoor pool, family-friendly dining options, the perfect location, and connected rooms for bigger groups. You’ll find all that at this modern Atlanta Airport District hotel. You’re close to all the family-friendly attractions and a quick train ride away from downtown Atlanta. It’s the perfect home away from home to enjoy your family vacation.
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The Atlanta Airport District is the ideal family destination with the perfect balance of relaxation and family fun. Check out the ATL Airport District website for more ideas on what to do on your next weekend adventure.
Note: This trip was paid for by ATL Airport District, but all opinions expressed here belong to the writer.
Sometimes you’re having a perfectly nice time watching TV when it hits you: The mom on the show you are watching is actually… a better mom than you? Sure, she’s fictional. Sure, she only has to parent in a limited 30-minute to hour-long time frame once a week, whereas you have to parent all the time, even at 2 a.m. when you’d much rather be sleeping but one of your children needs a glass of water. But that doesn’t stop the dark thoughts from creeping in while you wipe old Goldfish crumbs from your couch onto the carpet: I wish I was more like her. Here are some of the absolute best TV moms who put the rest of us to shame.
Daniel Tiger’s Mom from Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood
She’s calm, she’s collected, she looks great in a floral, and owns waterfront property. Daniel Tiger’s mom is the mom we wish we could be but know we will never will: She rarely loses her temper with her often petulant toddler, can make up a song on the spot to deal with any challenge, and seems to get all her household chores done despite taking care of a toddler and a baby with only occasional help from Grandpierre and Prince Tuesday as a nighttime babysitter. I’ve never seen one episode where instead of cooking a family meal she orders take-out and cries on the couch while everyone watches TV on their iPads. An icon.
She’s a complete mess, but somehow still a good mom. She only orders take-out and permits her daughter unlimited, sometimes seemingly mandatory screen time, and yet that girl wants to study hard enough to get into Harvard. The dream. She accidentally showed up to her daughter’s first day of school in cowboy boots and a crop top because she forgot to do laundry, which is wildly relatable, except for the part where she actually kind of pulled it off.
Rainbow Johnson from black-ish
courtesy ABC
Rainbow “Bow” Johnson tries hard to be a good mom, even if sometimes her kids don’t appreciate it. She doesn’t have the cool confidence of some other TV moms, but what she lacks she makes up for in enthusiasm. As a doctor and a mother, she’s a role model to her kids and because she grew up in a commune, she can rock a kaftan, which is really what all moms should be wearing. So much breathing room.
You can’t be a better mom than Tami Taylor. Sorry, it’s just not possible. She’s wise, beautiful, has hair that looks like she bought it off a Disney princess, and on top of all that, she’s a patient and kind mom and wife. Plus, she always has a glass of white wine handy. She’s not just a mom to her daughter, but to all the kids in town. And a lot of them need a mom. It’s not easy being the coach’s wife, but she makes it look like it is.
Lois only sets the bar high because if anyone else had to deal with her kids, they’d have abandoned their family for a beach in Mexico by now. Has there ever been a more relatable mom than Lois? Living on a fixed income with four boys and a very boy-like husband, Lois seems constantly 2020 levels of frazzled, despite existing in the early 2000s. Moms on TV often have to play the straight character, the calm glue that holds the family together. Lois is the glue holding the family together (if only by one glue molecule), but she’s certainly not calm. Her (completely valid) meltdowns at her constantly wild gaggle of children are one of the funniest parts of the show. Gentle parenting is not her style, but can you blame her? Her children slingshotted melons off the roof.
You do not want to mess with Clair Huxtable. She’s a lawyer, the wife of a doctor, and the mother of five children. She’s serious and imposing but still low-key the funniest person in the room. Her famous “feminist rant,” where she tells off her daughter’s boyfriend for implying women should serve men, is still as relevant today as it was in the ’80s. Clair is bold. Clair is put-together. You will never be Clair Huxtable. Clair Huxtable would never let her child wear pajamas to daycare three days in a row because they refused to get dressed or find themselves eating applesauce pouches for dinner. Sorry to call you out, but it’s true.
As a military veteran, a nurse, and a single mom of two teenagers, Penelope already has more on her plate than most people—even before her mom takes over half of their living room in their already small apartment. She struggles with PTSD, anxiety, and depression, but still works hard every day to care for her kids and manage her family. All while dating! Seems impossible, but OK.
Rarely do we get to see a show where the mom is the fun parent and the dad is the straight man, but Sister gave us just that in Lisa. But she’s not just the fun-loving, permissive parent—the kind of mom you want to tell all your secrets to—she’s also a strong role model who loves her kids despite living in the weirdest situation you can imagine. She adopted a baby by herself, which is already twice as much parenting as many moms do, but then when she found out her daughter had a long-lost twin (ah the ’90s, so many long-lost twins!), she gave up her entire life to move in with a new family and make sure the girls could be together. The only problem with Lisa is that she didn’t sue that adoption agency for emotional damages.
Despite constantly having to be the “responsible parent” to her husband’s “fun parent,” Chilli holds her own in games of pretend. While most TV moms stand on the sidelines when their children play, Chilli jumps right in and creates her narrative as a pirate or a shy bus rider in love with the driver. And unlike most TV moms—who are seemingly perfect—she gets visibly frustrated with her children often (see the Sticky Gecko episode), which is refreshing. A perfect blend of responsibility and fun, the kind of mom you can see yourself in. And admit it, yes, he’s a cartoon but you’d probably marry Bandit, too.
These indoor play spaces have trampolines, slides, climbing walls, and the best part? They’re open year-round
Rain or shine—indoor play spots are always a big hit with kids. Here’s you’ll find trampoline parks, art zones, dress-up corners and toddler territories that will help all the kids burn off steam and stay occupied particularly when the weather doesn’t cooperate. Find your kid’s next favorite indoor play space in the Bay Area.
We love this location with its large play structure, a Ninja fitness course, and a toddler area. The three-level play structure features a variety of slides, obstacle courses, tunnels, bridges, swings, a zip line, a see saw, sit and spins, a trampoline, and more. The Ninja Fitness course is sure to keep your inner Ninja warriors entertained.
Move over, backyard trampoline! This huge warehouse is filled with trampolines, airbags, dodgeball courts, and a bounce house with an area dedicated to the youngest of jumpers, ages three to six. If your bouncers get hungry, stop at the House of Snacks and pick up a little something to munch on.
Created by two moms, Imagination Playhouse is a massive structure designed to help children overcome challenges and advance to the next level as they climb and learn. Every obstacle teaches kids how to safely climb with rubber flooring to catch any falls. Drop-off, date night options, and killer kid parties complete the whole package at this indoor play space.
STEMful inspires children to “sprout curiosity” in science, technology, engineering, art, and math. They are dedicated to turning science into kids' play through hands-on, engaging learning experiences in STEAM by encouraging curiosity, innovation, and self-expression. STEMful offers a daily play pass, after-school classes, movie nights, and birthday parties.
30 29th St. (between Mission St. & San Jose St.) San Francisco Online:sf-stemful.com
Little Oceanauts
The large play structure at Little Oceanaut with multiple slides, a trampoline, tunnels, and a ball pit is everything every kid has ever wanted. A separate infant/toddler play area lets littles enjoy their own ball pit and soft foam area while a performing stage encourages children to channel their inner thespian. A snack bar means kids can stay and play with their new friends even longer.
Instead of throwing a bunch of toys in different rooms (or even corners of the room), Twirl takes a much cleaner and more inventive approach to playtime for kids under 10 in the play gallery. There’s a super fun main play structure in the center of the room with creative learning spaces surrounding it on each wall and little wall nooks offer a variety of play spaces in the open floor plan. The paint studio offers kids of all ages different art activities at each table, as well as a reusable materials and art supply center for kids to try their hand at anything they come up with.
We love this Berkeley spot for the wee ones as it offers hands-on activities for every interest under the sun. Learn about recycling, ride the fire engine, play vet in the animal hospital, and splash around in the waterworks. They often have drop-off events on Friday nights and their seasonal schedule is extra fun.
This indoor play space spot in Fremont has over 2,000 square feet of intentionally-curated play area, designed especially for infants, toddlers, and children. Kids can immerse themselves in a world of free and imaginative play, socialize with children, or connect with their parents in a fun, safe, and clean environment.
East Bay's largest indoor play space, kids will love taking a mega jump into the ball pit and climbing the massive play structure. There are spots for pretend play like the salon and ice cream truck, as well as a great train table for little engineers. Wee ones enjoy their own secluded area away from the big kid fray. Every Tues. they offer a sensory-friendly environment with dimmed lighting, lowered music volume, and fewer crowds.
Kids 12 and under will not be bored when you bring them for an afternoon at this Hayward hot spot with a sweet ocean theme. Soft play structures for sliding, tumbling, and climbing are the main attractions for this spot. Little ones under age four can enjoy their own contained area.
Fairway Park Shopping Center 31169 Mission Blvd. Hayward Online:jumpitybumpity.com
Lost Worlds Adventures
This massive play spot is great for kids of all ages, even teens! Enjoy laser tag, black light mini golf, an arcade, and the largest play structure in the area. Little ones who only want to play in the play structure can purchase a pass just for that. Check the calendar for discount days. Everyone is required to wear or purchase safety socks so bring ’em if you’ve got ’em.
6538 Patterson Pass Rd. Suite E Livermore Online:lostworlds.rocks
Bumblebee Playspace
This spacious indoor play space is designed especially for the younger set—infants, toddlers, and preschoolers and will delight the littles with its art and light rooms, musical instruments, water and dramatic play areas, and more.
Part science center, part wildlife center, and totally fun, CuriOdyssey is a great spot for both indoor and outdoor time. Indoor exhibits present different ways to relate to the world around us with outdoor animal exhibits. Check out their First Friday Family Nights for music, food, and frivolity with other families.
With an under-the-sea theme, older kids will love exploring the huge play structure and climbing wall, while little ones can stay in a separate under-threes area where parents can keep a close watch. Birthday parties are big business here (the playhouse is closed to the public on weekends, when the parties take over) with simple, all-inclusive packages make planning a snap.
The sky's the limit at Rockin' Jump! The main attraction is a warehouse-sized trampoline room, but kids go bonkers over the slam dunk corner, somersault foam pit, and trampoline dodgeball. Both Bay Area locations offer Rockin' Tots jump times for children up to age 6, so your toddlers aren't bumping up against the big kids. Parents will enjoy the plentiful seating and WiFi while the kids bounce away the rainy day blues.
With two locations to choose from, Safari Run is a great spot for little monkeys who want to run around in a safe, contained, and clean environment. Older kids love the animal-themed climbing area and running track, while toddlers get their own separate play area. It does get crowded especially on school holidays so your best bet is to get there when it opens. Weekends are often reserved for birthday parties so check the online schedule before heading over.
1180 Kern Ave. Sunnyvale
341 North Amphlett Blvd. San Mateo Online:safarirun.com
Silver Creek Sportsplex
For hours of non-stop bouncing fun, head to this spot for its enormous inflatables, obstacle courses, roller rink, and climbing walls! Open play runs pretty much all day (call first to check the hours) so pick your two hours and get bouncing. Take the sweaty kids over to High Five Pizza (also located within the sportsplex) to grab some pizza and burgers while watching hockey practice through the windows. Don't forget to wear socks.
Trampolines, arcade, ninja agility course, laser tag...Funtropolis has it all, and more. Little guys and gals can hang in the toddler area while bigger kids take over in the rest of the zones. Climb in the giant play structure before you nosh on some eats from the on-site cafe.
Whirlygig has four unique playrooms, each with a theme like farm or beach, and they offer open play sessions throughout the week. Kids can come and engage in an activity, take a break for a snack, and get to know some new friends.
One of the big draws for families in the Marin Headlands is the Bay Area Discovery Museum. This spot offers the under-eight crew plenty of hands-on opportunities to explore. Throughout the museum’s 7.5 acres, kids will find seven exhibition spaces and daily drop-in programs.
With access to an incredible array of bricks, Play-Well is a LEGO builder's paradise. Boxes Lego collections are stacked from floor to ceiling in every imaginable color and shape. In addition to drop-in play, Play-Well offers classes and camps for ages 5-12.
216 Greenfield Ave. San Anselmo Online:play-well.org
umbleSpot
Classes are currently being offered through the Performing Arts Academy of Marin with acro, tumbling, and gymnastics classes for children ages 12 months-10 years. A toddler/preschool gymnastics apparatus is set up for use as an obstacle course, as well as tumbling mats, and props.
The new year is the perfect time to dust off old traditions, or to begin new ones with your family. For us, it’s a nostalgic Friday night “family night” piled on the couch streaming a movie or series with your siblings, parents and a giant bowl of freshly popped popcorn.
In today’s world you could be finished with the popcorn before the family even decides what to stream. Decision fatigue is real.
That’s why we’re here with a round up of must-see content the whole family will love, all found only on Disney+. We’re sharing our favorite movies and series from action and adventure, to humorous and heartfelt.
Now, if only we could reach out to hug the brilliant creative minds who make these stories just as entertaining and enjoyable for us, as they do for our kiddos.
Looking for a way to keep this tradition alive after January’s round up? We’ve got just the idea – The Family Night Disney+ Bowl.
Here’s how it works: Ask everyone in your family to write down a few of their favorite titles on Disney+ and drop it in the bowl. Each “family night”, a different family member takes turns picking out a title from the bowl and cozies up for a viewing party.
5 Picks To Kick-Off Your Family Night Viewing Tradition:
Shorts to Warm Your Heart & Make You Laugh:
“I Am Groot”
Your family might recognize this lovable little tree, Groot, from his first appearance in Marvel Studios’ Guardians of the Galaxy (2014). Now he’s back in a collection of five Original shorts introducing a cast of new and unusual characters, all bound to entertain the entire family.
Voiced by Vin Diesel, your family will be charmed by Groot’s childlike expressions, as well as his mischievous flare!
TV-PG: parental guidance is recommended
Series Premieres Starring Your Favorite Cast of Characters:
Star Wars: The Bad Batch Season 2(Premiering January 4, 2023)
Two words: action & drama. If your older ones have been anxiously awaiting the return of this mega-hit from the Star Wars animated universe, they’ll be thrilled to hear that the wait is officially over. With 16 total episodes in Season 2, released weekly, you’ve got the family night viewing hour covered for a while.
TV-PG: parental guidance is recommended
“Zootopia+”
It’s about time we got invited back to the fast-paced mammal metropolis of Zootopia. In this short-form series, we get the chance to dive deeper into the colorful lives of some of the Oscar®-winning feature film’s most intriguing residents, including Fru Fru, the fashion-forward arctic shrew.
TV-PG: parental guidance is recommended
Most Loved Movies Only on Disney+:
“Diary of a Wimpy Kid: Rodrick Rules”
We’re always on board to see more of this family-favorite character. This new animated movie is based on the second book in Jeff Kinney’s wildly popular book series, focusing on the rocky dynamic of our protagonist, middle schooler Greg Heffley, and his spikey-haired high school brother Rodrick. Teaser – Rodrick is lazy and undisciplined, and spends way too much time practicing with his rock band, Löded Diper. While he loves to torment Greg, we get to see his soft side and deep affection for his younger brother reveal itself throughout the movie.
TV-PG: parental guidance is recommended
“The Biggest Little Farm, The Return”
The Chester family and all of the lovable characters on their farm (human and animal) are back on our screens after enormous praise and adoration of their 2018 award-winning documentary. We get to be virtual visitors again on their property at Apricot Lane Farms as they navigate the challenging and beautiful symbiotic relationship between land and animals. New characters of note – Emma the pig who welcomes her newest litter and an adorable lamb named Moe who befriends the family.
TV-PG: parental guidance is recommended
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