These all-ages New Year’s Eve events throughout Washington, DC will let your kids celebrate and still make bedtime

It’s almost time to say goodbye to 2022 and look forward to the coming year ahead. New Year’s Eve celebrations typically center around the famous transition from one year to the next: midnight. But, let’s face it, most kids can’t hang until the ball drops—nor can some exhausted parents! We’ve rounded up the best kid-friendly events to help celebrate the upcoming year and many end by noon! Whether you’re looking for a simple mid-day balloon drop or an elegant, over-the-top kid-only ball, we rounded up more than 30 epic ways to spend New Year’s Eve in the DMV.

Free Kid-Friendly New Year’s Eve Events near Washington, DC

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Metrobar's First New Year's Eve Party
Let the littles have some New Year's fun while still getting them in to bed on time! There will be kid-friendly activities and games and plenty of sparkling "c" for everyone (that's champagne for the over 21 crowd and good ol' fashioned cider for the under crowd). This outdoor bar keeps everyone toasty with campfires, patio heaters and hot chocolate. The ball drops at 7 p.m. so you can tuck the kids in by 8!.

Cost: Free
Date: Dec. 31 from 4-7:30 p.m.

640 Rhode Island Ave NE
Edgewood
Online: metrobardc.com

Watch Night Falls Church
This family-friendly event is totally free (including parking); there are even free shuttles that run every 20 minutes from East Falls Church Metro so that you and your littles can take part in this town's annual festivities without spending a dime. GrandFun Alley features rock climbing, bungee jumps an inflatable obstacle course (and more!) for action-packed fun. Live entertainment includes swing music from Big Band Northern Lights Orchestra and kid-friendly shows include a puppet performance and balloon artistry.

Cost: Free
Date: Dec. 31 from 7 p.m - midnight

100 block of West Broad St.
Falls Church
Online: watchnightfallschurch.com/

Free NYE Events at your Local Library 
If you're looking for a 12 o'clock celebration in the middle of the day, head to your local library where area branches are celebrating at the stroke of noon with crafts, books and dance parties. Each of these participating libraries is hosting a  "countdown to noon," with the exception of MLK Jr. Library, which is hosting a wish-making craft.

DC
Martin Luther King Jr Library 

Montgomery County, MD
Aspen Hill 
Damascus Library 
Gaithersburg Library
Long Branch Library 

Prince George's County, MD
No Events were listed at the time of press

Arlington County, VA
Central Library 

Fairfax County, VA
Oakton Library

Loudoun County, VA
Ashburn Library
Brambleton Library
Cascades Library
Rust Library
Sterling Library
Purcellville Library

Rockin’ New Year’s Events for Kids near Washington, DC

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First Night Alexandria
Alexandria's annual event includes all-day entertainment featuring rising stars along seasoned performers. Celebrate with kid-friendly music acts at the Rockin' New Years Eve Party from noon to 5 p.m.. Primetime performances (6-10 p.m.) include a magic act by Mike Rose Magic. For the grand finale at midnight, look up for a spectacular fireworks display.

Cost: $10/daytime pass (noon-5 p.m.); $10-75/all access pass
Date: Dec. 31 from noon-midnight

Various locations & venues
Alexandria, VA
Online: https://www.firstnightalexandria.org

Rock Out with Rocknoceros 
Rocknoceros is hosting this countdown to noon at Jammin' Java for a totally kid-friendly New Year's Eve Ball. Come celebrate with a cup of sparkling apple juice and watch the disco ball be lowered on stage at noon.

Cost: $10
Date: Dec. 31 from 11 a.m.-noon

227 Maple Ave East
Vienna, VA
 
Noon Yards Eve 

Get your party on while rocking out to local DJs at this free (and fabulous!) waterfront event. Hop on the miniature train to get a quick lay of the land before taking a ride down the inflatable slide. There is also a glitter tattoo artist, a magician, craft stations and more. At noon, get ready to count down at this family friendly celebration.

Cost: Free
Date: Dec. 31, 10 a.m.-1:00 p.m.

301 Water St SE
The Wharf
Online: theyardsdc.com

Freedom's Eve: Watch NIght's Concert
Hosted by the African American History and Culture Museum, this virtual concert features musical prodigy Matthew Whitaker performing live. There will be a discussion of the significance of Watch Night as well as a non-denominational blessing. Reservations are encouraged for this performance. It will also be available on demand through Jan. 31.

Cost: Free
Date: Dec. 31 from 7:30-9 p.m.

Online: si.edu

Midnight Noon 
Rock out to science-themed pop tunes at The Maryland Science Center's annual NYE event. This popular B'more tradition gives kids the opportunity to see the ball drop before bedtime while dancing to the pithy sounds of Marsha and the Positrons. There will be fun New Year’s festivities throughout the day plus the chance to explore three-levels of hands-on science exhibits. 

Cost: Free with admission; $26.95/adults, $20.95/3-12
When: Dec. 31, 10 a.m.-2 p.m.

600 Light St.
Baltimore, MD
Online: mdsci.org/

New Year's Eve Kids Party at Salamander Resort
Skip the sitter this New Year's Eve and let your kids attend this NYE ball solo while you dance the night away next door (kids 5 & under must be accompanied by an adult). There will be a DJ and dancing from 8 p.m. to midnight when a balloon drop marks the New Year. This event is open to hotel guests and NYE party attendees.

Cost: $150
When: Dec. 31 from 8 p.m.-midnight

500 North Pendleton St.
Middleburg, VA
Online: eventbrite.com

Crafty New Year’s Eve Events for Kids near Washington, DC

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New Year's Eve Around the World
Make noisemakers and sparkly slime at the Children's Science Center in Fairfax, VA. Choose one of two time slots (one ends at noon!) and wrap up your festivities at a kid-friendly hour. Each 2-hour times lot includes New Year's Eve-inspired science experiments.

Cost: $15
When: Dec. 31 from 10 a.m.-noon and 2-4 p.m.

1948 Fair Oaks Mall
Fairfax, VA
Online: childsci.org

New Year's Eve Craft at Kidcreate
For kids 3-9, New Year's Eve comes early at this kid-crafting studio in Ashburn, VA. Kids will get to create their own party favors, like noise makers and party hats while parents sneak in an end-of-the-year date at this "parents day off" event.

Cost: $59
When: Dec. 30 at 9 a.m. and 1 p.m.

42775 Generation Dr Suite 180
Ashburn, VA
Online: kidcreate.com

Adventure-Filled New Year’s Eve Events for Kids near Washington, DC

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Adventure Park USA's New Year's Eve Party
Spend the night playing video games, bowling, rope climbing, challenging your family to laser tag and more at this indoor/outdoor Maryland amusement park.The party starts at 9:30 p.m. and ends with a massive balloon drop at midnight.

Cost: $29.95
Date: Dec. 31 from 9:30 p.m.-12:30 a.m.

11113 W Baldwin Rd.
Monrovia, MD
Online: adventureparkusa.com

Smokey Bear's New Year's Eve  Countdown
Celebrate New Year's Eve with the big bear himself, Smokey! Snuggle up to a roaring campfire to roast s'mores and get ready for some NYE-themed activities and projects at the Maydale Nature Center.

Cost: $8
Date: Dec. 31 from 11 a.m.-1 p.m.

1638 Maydale Dr.
Colesville, MD
Online: mdmontgomeryctywt.wsc

 

Last Call for Holiday Lights near Washington, DC

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Lights on the Bay
This light display is a drive-thru attraction that features over two miles of lights along the Chesapeake Bay. Lights on the Bay boasts over 70 animated and stationery exhibits. For an additional $5, guests can purchase 3-D glasses for a truly unique experience.

Cost: $20/car
Dates: 5-10 p.m. daily; closes Jan. 1

1815 Bay Ridge Avenue
Annapolis, MD
Online: lightsonthebay.org

Ice & Lights at Cameron Run
Take a stroll through a tunnel of rainbow lights, walk under sparkling arches and around illuminated trees and—if you catch a chill—be sure to pop in a heated igloo. After you walk through the 20′ tree, be sure to test out your skating skills at the near-by rink.

Cost: $9.19-$22.03
Dates: 5-10 p.m. daily; closes Jan. 1

4001 Eisenhower Ave.
Alexandria, VA
Online: novaparks.com

Garden Lights of Brookside Gardens
In keeping with a botanical theme, Brookside offers a colorful parade of animals, flowers and more. After you’ve enjoyed strolling from garden to garden, be sure to check out the model train display inside the Conservatory. 

Cost: $10
Dates: 5:30-9:30 p.m. now thru Jan. 1

1800 Glenallan Ave.
Wheaton, MD
Online: montgomeryparks.org/

Enchant Christmas
If bigger is better, this football-field sized wonderland should be on your must-see holiday bucket list. Stroll through the Enchant Eatery for magical gifts and gourmet treats, take a whirl on the illuminated ice skating rink and get lost in a maze of lights.

Cost: $23-35/person
Dates: You must reserve your ticket prior to arrival; closes Jan. 1

1500 S Capitol St SE
Southwest Waterfront
Online: enchantchristmas.com

Winter Lantern Festival

Unlike the other light displays on our list, you have a bit more time to squeeze this festival in to your winter plans, but we included it on this round-up for its New Year's significance.  Chinese lanterns holds important significance at Chinese New Year's events due to their symbolic nature of illuminating the future. Kick start your own New Year with over 10,000 handmade Chinese lanterns and look forward to a bright 2023.

Cost: $17.99/children; $29.99/adults
Dates: Thurs.-Sun., now-Feb. from 5-1- p.m.m

8025 Galleria Dr.
Tysons, VA
Online: winterlanternfestival.com

 

Looking for where to celebrate New Years 2022 in the Bay Area? We’ve gathered 14 family-friendly New Year’s Eve 2022 events all in one place—most of which don’t require staying up late

Instead of googling “New Year’s Eve events for kids” take a look at our list below to see all the fun things to do in San Francisco and the Bay Area on the very last day of 2022. Depending on your kids, you can ring in the New Year with your little ones with loads of mid-day celebrations (and avoid those close-to-midnight meltdowns) or opt for some nighttime adventures if they can hang late night. Ready to check out our favorite Bay Area spots for New Years Eve events for kids and get ready to say hello to 2023? Insider Tip: Some of our favorite Bay Area holiday light displays are only up through New Year’s Day so you can always pull a two-for-one on your winter bucket list by adventuring to one of our must-go experiences.

Kid-Friendly New Year’s Eve Events near Me

1. First Night Monterey

This year's theme celebrates 30 years of First Night Monterey! First Night Monterey and Kids' Night Out kicks off at 3 p.m. and then continues with 9 hours of fabulous art, music and New Year's fun all the way into the New Year! Be part of this family friendly, alcohol-free celebration ringing in 2023! Event details

2. 'Happy New Year, Charlie Brown!' at the Schulz Museum

Celebrate the New Year with the Peanuts Gang! Enjoy fun crafts for kids, make a balloon Snoopy, and watch Happy New Year, Charlie Brown! on the big screen. Plus, do your best Snoopy dance and ring in 2023 with an Up Down Balloon Drop and Baby Balloon Drop (for children 4 and under and their families) at noon, and a second Balloon Drop at 3:00 p.m. Doors open at 10:00 am, and capacity will be monitored; admission will be on a first-come, first-served basis. Event details

3. 23rd Annual Balloon Drop at the Chabot Space & Science Center

Ring in the New Year without staying up all night! Celebrate strokes of midnight around the world at 11 a.m., noon, 2 p.m., 3 p.m. and 4 p.m. Kids will count down and celebrate with hundreds of colorful balloons dropping from above. Insider Tip: This popular annual event regularly sells out, so be sure to get tickets early. Event details.

4. Noon Year's Eve at the Bay Area Discover Museum

Ring in the new year without keeping your family up past bedtime. Celebrate the start of 2023 at Bay Area Discovery Museum with this beloved annual affair. This kid-friendly celebration is where you can enjoy the countdown without the midnight meltdown! Watch the ball drop at noon, enjoy a live DJ and join in a dance party, plus explore more winter festivities and new programs at Bay Area Discovery Museum, including iceless skating! Event details

5. City of Piedmont’s Noon Year’s Eve

Ring in the New Year with Piedmont Recreation Department at a family-friendly hour! Celebrate with music, magician show, a countdown to noon, balloon drop and a whole lot of fun! Event details.

6. Noon Year's Eve at the Hiller Aviation Museum

Music, dancing, puppet shows, and giant balloon drops at noon will are sure to bring excitement into the new year. Event details.

7. New Year's Eve Celebration at Gilroy Gardens

Ring in the new year at Gilroy Gardens! You'll find ice skating under the stars, sparkly light displays, dance parties, and festive food throughout the park. Event details.

 

8. 37th Annual Bell Ringing Ceremony at the Asian Art Museum

The first in-person bell-ringing ceremony since 2019: after two years of ringing the bell virtually, one of the museum’s most popular and long-running annual events is happening in person again. Ring in the New Year by taking a swing at a 2,100-pound, 16th-century Japanese temple bell. Led by Reverend Gengo Akiba, this inspiring ceremony will include a purification ritual and chanting of the Buddhist Heart Sutra. Reverend Akiba will begin the bell-ringing, and then it’s your chance to ring the bell to leave behind any unfortunate experiences, regrettable deeds or ill luck from the previous year. Event details

9. Noon Year's Eve at Happy Hollow Park & Zoo

The countdown to midnight may (typically) belong to the adults, but Happy Hollow’s Noon Year’s Eve celebration is all about outdoor fun for the little ones. Event details.

10. New Year's Eve Kid's Party at Kid's Play Zone

Celebrate the New Year at Kid's Play Zone, an indoor children’s play space with a glow party and balloon drop. Entry includes a glow necklace, apple juice for the kids (cider for the adults), plus pizza for all to enjoy. Event details.

11. 2022 Grand Finale at The Lawrence Hall of Science

Join the annual New Year's Eve celebration with confetti cannons. With several daily launches, you’ll be showered with joy and laughter as you close 2022. Event details.

12. New Year's Eve Party at Swings & Wings

This cute New Year’s Eve party will have music, play, a photo booth and yummy treats for kids. Event details.

13. Noon Year's Eve Family Storytime at the Danville Library

Families can enjoy stories and songs, festive favors, even a celebratory bubble wrap stomp on the floor at the Danville Library. Event details.

14. Winter Wonderland Walk with East Bay Regional Park Disctrict

On Dec. 31, discover what animals and plants do to prepare for cold months while you warm up with apple cider and walk a one-mile wintry trail. Event details.

Discover all the fun ways to ring in the New Year with these kid-friendly New Year’s Eve events and celebrations taking place in San Diego

Break out the noisemakers! We’re sharing New Year’s Eve events near San Diego that your kids will love to go and celebrate (even if it means not staying up till midnight). Whether you want to go all out with LEGOLAND’s own version of Times Square or keep it low-key at the Northern Lights event at the California Center for the Arts, here are the best kid’s New Year’s Eve parties to help celebrate and usher in a very merry 2023.

1. Del Mar Snow n Glow

The Del Mar Fairgrounds has transformed into a winter wonderland making this a most-fun new years eve San Diego event! Enjoy the last day of 2022 by huddling with your loved ones in a private igloo, snow tubing down Snow Hill (with real snow!), or sipping hot chocolate while strolling through a million festive lights. A fantastic way to ring your new year in style and be home before bedtime! Event details.

2. Temecula's NYE Grape Drop

The infamous Grape Drop in Temecula is a treat for the whole brood. Catering to families, they celebrate twice with an East Coast (9 p.m.) and West Coast (midnight) countdown. The New Year’s Eve Grape Drop will include live music, food vendors, and kid’s activities. Free Fun Zone will be open from 6-10 pm. Event details.

3. Northern Lights at the California Center for the Arts

Cap off the holiday season by visiting Northern Lights at California Center for the Arts. Their 12-acre campus transforms into a spectacle of light, hope, and joy after sunset each evening. Guests are invited to wander along the walkways, taking in the holiday sights and sounds. The young and young-at-heart will enjoy tunnels of twinkling lights, giant LED Christmas trees and blow-up figurines of favorite holiday characters. Then go home, make hot cocoa and watch the ball drop eastern standard time so the kiddos can head to bed before midnight! Event details.

4. Kids' NYE at LEGOLAND

If you can’t make it to the real Times Square, how about a trip to the LEGOLAND version? Complete with an early kid's New Year's Eve countdown, live music for a kids New Year's eve party, and a New Year's firework grand finale, this is sure to make your celebration awesome! Event details.

5. Hornblower Cruise

If you want to bid adieu to 2022 in real style, check out a New Year’s Eve Cruise. Hornblower Cruise Lines offers a lavish early buffet dinner cruise on the San Diego Bay. We can’t think of a better way to spend the last day of the year than outside on the water. Kids ages three and under are free. Event details.

6. A Very Furry Christmas Celebration: Sesame Place San Diego

If you haven't had a chance to visit Sesame Place San Diego this season, it's open on Dec. 31st with all of its festive celebrations in full swing. The park is transformed into a festive winter wonderland filled with holiday magic and surprises. Guests will enjoy Sesame Street Christmas shows, the Sesame Street Christmas Parade, the Furry Friends Christmas Dance Party, and exciting rides. There will be games, special merchandise, and one-of-a-kind photos with your Sesame Street friends dressed up in their holiday best. Event details.

7. Jungle Bells: San Diego Zoo

Spend the last day of the year strolling around the Zoo & Safari Park at night under the sights & sounds of holiday cheer. Jungle Bells at the San Diego Zoo will light up your night with the animals as you stroll around the zoo listening to live music and carolers. You'll enjoy all of the Christmas programming, including story time and the holiday trampoline jumpers. Kiddos will traipse through the Northern Frontier Holiday Forest and be mystified at the Aurora light spectacular show. Event details.

 

 

Grab your cozy jackets and head to a Christmas tree lighting ceremony that is so much more than just a few lights on a tree—from fireworks and faux snow to Grammy award winning performers—Los Angeles knows how to really jumpstart the holiday season

There is something magical about turning on the lights of a Christmas Tree… Something about the “Three…two…one….” —not to mention the celebration before and after the lights go on! that gets us in the mistletoe mood. Luckily, Los Angeles has no shortage of tree lightings. Whether you want to see the Grove light up the night or the towering pyramid of lights twinkling over the ocean at the Manhattan Beach Pier—you’ve got plenty of choices when it comes to Yuletide dazzlement. Check out the below events, listed by date so if you miss one, you can quickly find another Christmas tree lighting ceremony that is sure to impress. Of course, take all that holiday magic and apply it to the rest of the month—don’t miss our favorite places to buy Christmas trees in LA, the best holiday light displays in Los Angeles that are worth your time and money, and last, but not least, where to get tickets to all the kid-friendly Nutcracker shows nearby that kids (and adults!) will adore.

1. Christmas Tree Lighting at the Manhattan Beach Pier

Manhattan Beach does more than just light a Christmas tree on its annual holiday lighting event—it lights up all 900-feet of its popular pier, with the totem "tree" (which is really just strings of lights forming a massive cone) jutting up from the roof of the end-of-the-pier aquarium. The festivities start at 5 p.m. with a visit from Santa, then continues all night long leading up to the lighting ceremony. Throughout the night, all the Downtown shops hand out free holiday treats in honor of the event—and kids will want to stop and see the live reindeer (!) in front of Pages, the quaint beach town's popular small bookstore. Throughout the night, roving carolers will be strolling the streets, singing holiday songs to all who listen—and the local school choirs will sing leading up to the lighting ceremony, at which point the town mayor flips the switch and the crowds are allowed to walk down the newly-illuminated pier.

Date: Wed. Nov. 16; 5-8:30 p.m. (Christmas tree lights turn on at 7 p.m.)

Manhattan Beach Blvd.
Manhattan Beach
Online: manhattanbeach.gov

2. Christmas Tree Lighting on Rodeo Drive

Welcome the holidays, red carpet style! Enjoy Rodeo Drive's glitzy shops, all done up in holiday cheer, then watch as the towering Christmas tree lights blaze on before a grand finale of fireworks. This year's celebration will feature performances by sixteen-time Grammy award-winning musician, songwriter and producer David Foster and acclaimed singer, television and Broadway star Katharine McPhee, who will will perform live with new holiday songs and old favorites. Of course, Santa will also be on hand for the event. 

Can't make it to the lighting ceremony? The celebration doesn't end there! Pump up your holiday spirit by visiting Beverly Hills' dazzling display of holiday light installations, all running nightly through Jan. 1. These include "Glowing Gardens" at Beverly Cañon Gardens, "Lights on the Lily Pond" at Beverly Gardens Park, and "Unwrap the Magic" at Beverly Hills City Hall Tower. There will be also be live caroling, dancing, craft-making and more at Greystone Mansion and Gardens’ holiday celebration on Dec. 3-4.  

Date: Thurs. Nov. 17; 5-8 p.m.

2 Rodeo Dr.
Beverly Hills
Online: lovebeverlyhills.com

3. Christmas Tree Lighting at The Grove LA

Keep kids up past their bedtimes for the shopping destination's 20th annual star-studded tree lighting extravaganza, which will feature live performances from Gloria Estefan, Andy Grammer, Little Big Town, and David Foster & Kat McPhee. This year's spectacular is being held in partnership with CBS for its “A Home for the Holidays at The Grove” TV special. The hourlong special, which will air Dec. 23 on CBS, aims to shine a light on the thousands of American children in foster care and help get these kids into "forever families."  

The cameras will be rolling, so make sure you and your brood are "Lights, camera, action!"-ready as you gather around the Grove's 100-foot-tall white fir tree, which will be adorned in 15,000 sparking lights and 10,000 ornaments. The forecast also calls for a (faux) snowfall—and fireworks—so kids will be sufficiently wowed.

Of course, with all the glitz and glamour on stage, the only star your kid will want to see is Santa. And word has it that he'll be making an appearance, too—so get those holiday wish lists in order!

Date: Sun., Nov. 20 

189 The Grove Dr.
Los Angeles
Online: thegrovela.com

4. LA County Tree Lighting

Your little elves can make lots of merriment in DTLA with the official lighting of Los Angeles County’s Christmas tree at the Music Center's 35,000-square foot outdoor plaza. Enjoy the sweet sounds of holiday favorites from local music artists and community groups, then gather around the magnificent 75-foot-tall tree to watch it twinkle with holiday lights. Word has it, there may even be hot chocolate. 

Date: Mon. Nov. 28; 5 p.m.

Music Center Plaza
200 N Grand Ave. 
Los Angeles
Online: musiccenter.org

5. Christmas Tree Lighting at Union Station 

The historic station will illuminate its towering tree with thousands of glistening lights on the majestic South Patio as snow drifts from the sky in a classic kickoff to the holiday season. The festive, family-friendly celebration will also feature performances from the vintage voices of The Beverly Belles and party band, Weekend Celebrity, along with a “live” mural from eclectic artist Septerhed and special appearance from the North Pole's most special guy. There will also be a holiday arts and crafts zone, custom photo opps, Santa selfies, and free hot cocoa and holiday cookie bars.

Date: Wed., Nov. 30 at 6:30 p.m (tree lighting is at 7:15 p.m.)

800 N. Alameda St.
DTLA
Online: unionstationla.com

 

6. Christmas Tree Lighting at the Santa Monica Promenade

best christmas tree lighting ceremonies in LA
Downtown Santa Monica

If you want to get your holiday shopping done while you're celebrating the kickoff of the holiday season, head to the Santa Monica Promenade, where the city's annual holiday celebration, Winterlit, transforms Third Street Promenade and Downtown Santa Monica into an immersive Yuletide experience, with tens of thousands of lights and a smorgasbord of seasonal decor at every turn. The grand lighting of the Promenade's 24-foot-tall tree is an all-out extravaganza that will feature performances by local school groups, free photos with Santa, and snowy skies sure to delight all those beach babies.

Date: Thurs., Dec. 1; 6-8 p.m.

Third Street Promenade at Santa Monica Blvd.
Santa Monica
Online: downtownsm.com/winterlit

7. Christmas Tree Lighting in Culver City

Historic Culver City will once again host its spectacular Holiday Tree Lighting Celebration—this year with 25 tons of fresh sled-ready snow! The Tree Lighting Ceremony will include a 30-minute
show of  singing, dancing, and music by local kids and a countdown to the the big reveal led by the mayor. The “Sled-tacular Festival” promises to be a Winter Wonderland, with enough snow for lots of slippery sliding and snowball-rolling. Expect snowmen, games, booths, treats, and a special visit from Santa.

Can't make it? The event will be live-streamed and viewable 6-6:45 p.m. on the city's website.

Date: Thurs., Dec. 1; 5-8:30 p.m. (Sled-tacular Festival begins 5 p.m.; Tree Lighting show and countdown takes place from 6-6:30

9500 Culver Blvd.
Culver City
Online: downtownculvercity.com

8. Simi Valley Tree Lighting & Snowfall

Snow is in the forecast at this Simi Valley annual event, which features a whole roster of activities for kids plus live music, food and drinks for all. The event kicks off midday with a bounce house and activities for the kids including visits with both Mr. and Mrs. Claus. Come hungry (and thirsty!), as there will  be a beer garden, farmers market and hot foods for sale. The tree lighting will be followed by a performance by oldies cover party band Captain Cardiac and the Coronaries. Make sure to dress warm—the snow will be falling!

Good to Know: Mrs Claus visits at 2 p.m.; Santa visits at 6 p.m.; the Christmas tree lighting is at 6:15 p.m.; Snowfall takes place at 6:30 p.m. and the concert will be held from 7-8 p.m.; The Night market is open from 7-10 p.m.

Date: Sat., Dec. 3; 11 a.m.-10 p.m. 

1555 Simi Town Center Way
Simi Valley
Online: simivalleytowncenter.com

9. 100th Annual Christmas Tree Lane Lighting Ceremony in Altadena 

After a two-year hiatus due to COVID, the annual Tree Lighting Ceremony and Winter Festival is back in Altadena, where a stretch of Santa Rosa's iconic deodar cedar trees have been lighting up for the holidays since 1920 (it's reportedly the oldest outdoor Christmas tree display in the world). The kickoff event, the Winter Festival, will take place at the library and will include tasty seasonal treats and drinks, as well a holiday craft market featuring local artisans. From there, head out to the streets and watch with the crowd as the lights go on for the season.

Good to Know: Daytime festivities center around the Altadena Public Library. The lighting ceremony starts at 6 p.m. Don't miss "Christmas Tree Lane" —one of the best holiday light displays in Los Angeles and takes place on Santa Rosa Ave. between Woodbury Rd. and Altadena Dr.

Date: Thurs., Dec. 10; 3-9 p.m.

600 E. Mariposa St.
Altadena
Online: christmastreelane.net

 

Dead to Me’s Season 3 is finally here!

There have been a lot of starts and stops for Dead to Me loyalists (thanks, pandemic), but a few months ago,  Netflix announced that the hit show’s third and final season would be released soon. Well that time has come! The fan favorite premieres on Netflix, today.

Christina Applegate and Linda Cardellini play two grieving women who bond during therapy, but the premise of that bond is a dark and horrific lie. The series was quickly renewed after its first season, but in July 2020—when it was renewed for its final season—the show was thrown a few curveballs. The pandemic delayed filming until last spring 2021, and then Applegate was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. Now though, it’s finally on track for a November 17 debut, and no one can wait to find out how the cliffhanger from Season 2 will end.

The trailer shows Jen being rushed to the hospital after the crash, and the duo is refreshingly alive—and pissed.”Could you get the f–king doctor,” says Judy first, quickly followed by Jen (in a slightly calmer voice), “Could you please get the f–king doctor?” Can. Not. Wait.

Loyal fans will be relieved to know there have been no new cast announcements, so it’s safe to assume that the slate of actors who got them through the dark days of lockdown will be there to usher them toward the grand finale. The official season description reads”Jen is confronted with the dire consequences of taking a life, and Detective Perez (Diana Maria Riva) struggles to cover up her own complicity. Meanwhile, Judy faces her own existential crisis when her life is threatened by an unexpected force from her past and Ben (James Marsden) wrestles with his darkest demons. This season, no one’s future is guaranteed. Will Jen and Judy get away with their lives? And can they save each other?”

And here’s the new poster:

 

Get ready to binge.

As usual, celebrities slayed the Halloween costume game in 2022. Here are some of our favorite fits from around the web

The grand finale of Spooky Season has arrived! Halloween is finally here, and with it, all the pumpkins, candy, spooky decor, and jaw-dropping costumes we’ve come to expect from the holiday. Some of the best costumes are designed and worn by celebrities, of course, and this year has been no exception. Famous revelers have been showing us how costumes are done (and giving us plenty of inspo for next year’s fits).

So without further ado, here are some of our favorite outfits celebrities were spotted in during the Halloween festivities this year, including JoJo Siwa as Draco Malfoy, Lizzo as Marge Simpson, and so many other great costumes.

JoJo Siwa as Draco Malfoy

Calling all Potterheads! Kids and adults alike are sure to love JoJo’s costume: the villainous Draco Malfoy. With slicked-back blond hair and a Slytherin robe, she unsurprisingly nails the look.

Kim Kardashian as Mystique (and her kids as hip-hop superstars)

Kim Kardashian is one celeb who always takes Halloween to a whole different level—and this year was no different. The reality star stunned in a skin-tight blue bodysuit as she went as the shape-shifting X-Men mutant Mystique.

In another photo, Kim revealed that her sisters, Khloe and Kourtney, got in on the fun with their own Marvel-inspired costumes: Magik and Selene, respectively.

But nothing could top Kim’s four kids, who rocked their costumes as some of hip-hop music’s greatest superstars. North went as Aaliyah, Saint went as Snoop Dogg, Chicago went as Sade, and Psalm went as Eazy-E.

Lizzo as Marge Simpson

Sometimes, there’s something to be said for keeping your costume old school. Case in point: Lizzo, who absolutely slayed as Marge Simpson, complete with yellow face and body paint and makeup accents that made her look 2-D.

Kylie Jenner as Elvira

Apparently retro was in for Halloween 2022, since Kylie Jenner, one of the top trendsetters on the planet, rocked an ’80s look: Elvira, the Mistress of the Dark (or “Kyvira,” naturally).

Paris Hilton as Sailor Moon

Paris Hilton has been nailing Halloween for years, and this year’s costume continued that trend. The heiress and reality star dressed as her “childhood icon,” Sailor Moon, even posting a photo of herself in her costume with a filter to make it look like an anime cartoon.

Jennifer Garner as “late for the bus mom”

Jennifer Garner got in on the biggest social media trend this year: meme-ing those off-brand Spirit Halloween costumes. Her version is one all moms will relate to: “Late to the bus mom,” complete with a wet hair wig, lukewarm coffee, and “will and determination.” Not included is your kid already waiting in the car for a ride to school, and of course, undergarments are optional.

In a hilarious TikTok video, Garner showed off her actual costume—or two costumes. Alternating between a haunted bride and a goth witch, Garner used Britney Spears and Madonna’s “Me Against the Music” to spoof a dance-off between the two characters.

Donald Faison’s Daughter Wilder as Dionne

Allow us to pick up our jaws off the floor. The original Clueless actor’s daughter is killing it as tiny Dionne in this excellent ’90s tribute costume.

Rebel Wilson as Barbie

With a new movie starring Margot Robbie and Ryan Reynolds on the horizon, we weren’t surprised to see Barbie costumes were popular this year. Getting in on the trend is Rebel Wilson, who rocked a Barbie box along with a few matching friends: Marissa Montgomery, Carly Steel, and Ramona Gruma, and Jacob Andreou as Ken.

Jana Kramer (and her daughter) as twinning witches

One Tree Hill alum Jana Kramer got festive alongside her two kids—she and her daughter, Jolie, rocked twin witch costumes, while little brother Jace went as Spider-Man.

Witney Carson as Cruella DeVille

Dancing With the Stars pro Witney Carson got her whole family in on the fun this year. She went dressed in a jaw-dropping Cruella DeVille costume, while her husband, Carson McAllister, and their son Leo went as two of her dalmatians.

The Burtka-Harris Family as Fast Food Mascots

Neil Patrick Harris, David Burtka, and their twins, Gideon and Harper, are known for their legen—wait for it—dary Halloween costume game. Just when we thought their family of four couldn’t possibly outdo last year’s horror movie take, along comes “Trick or Meat.”

Heidi Klum as a Giant Worm

If you (like the rest of the world) await the supermodel’s annual costumes, you know she’s never afraid to go all the way. In past years she’s been a human body (without skin), a seriously terrifying alien, Fiona from Shrek and of course, Jessica Rabbit from Who Framed Roger Rabbit?. As a giant worm, Heidi Klum’s Halloween 2022 costume might make the list of most wild ideas of all time.

The holidays may be months away, but the Seattle Christmas Ship Festival will be here before you know it. Get tickets while you can

The Seattle Christmas Ship Festival is back in 2022! One of the city’s most beloved holiday traditions, if you can’t wait to experience this dose of holiday cheer, you’re in luck. Whether you want to catch a ride with St. Nick on the The Spirit of Seattle or want to listen to the choir, gathered ’round a bonfire at a local beach, there are tons of ways families can enjoy this Pacific Northwest tradition. Remember that this super popular event sells out quickly, as do reservations at local restaurants. So if you want to get in on the singing, Santa, lighted boat action, now is the time to do it.

Experience the Seattle Christmas Ship Festival

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Ride the Christmas Ship Lead Boat

Every year Argosy Cruises pulls out all the stops with the spectacularly decorated Spirit of Seattle, the designated Christmas Ship that all the other boats follow. During the 90-minute cruise, a local choir sings at scheduled shore side locations (see schedule below) and Santa mingles with the kids and smiles for holiday pictures. While on board you can expect some holiday sing-alongs and a very special reading of 'Twas the Night Before Christmas with Santa. The boat has two fully enclosed, heated decks, one outside deck, restrooms and a cash bar. While cruisin’ the waters, you and your little elves can enjoy snacks, chowder and beverages available for purchase. Reserve online.

Cost: $54/Adult; $40/Kid (4–12); $50/Senior; Free, kids 3 & under; $72/person for Opening Night (Nov. 25) & Grande Finale (Dec. 23)

Follow the Christmas Ship Boat

Being on the Christmas Ship is quite a treat, but so is riding the Follow Boat that (you guessed it) follows the lead ship. Not only will you get fantastic photos of the Spirit of Seattle, but you’ll get many of the Christmas Ship perks, too. Fully enclosed with outside areas, restrooms and food and drink for purchase, the follow boat cruise is a bit longer and includes a broadcast of the choir aboard The Spirit of Seattle. So far the Follow Boat will run on two nights—

Good to Know: This year the Follow Boat is 21 and over. Maybe a great date night?

Cost: $57/Person

Related: Can't-Miss Holiday Attractions in Downtown Seattle

Christmas ship Seattle

Dine at a Waterfront Restaurant

Because sitting down to dinner at a restaurant with a view is always in season, here’s a fun idea: check the sailing schedule below and pick a primo viewing location with nearby waterfront restaurants, like Lake Union, Alki, Redondo Beach or Leschi. Places like Duke’sAnthony’sSalty’s and Ivar’s Salmon House are all great options with covered outdoor seating and viewing decks, so you and the fam can feast your eyes on a panorama of glowing boats while also enjoying a fine meal.

Watch from the Shore at Local Beaches & Parks

Whether it’s your neighborhood beach park or a stunning downtown location like the Olympic Sculpture Park, when the Christmas Ships sail past it’s a truly spectacular sight. Many locations will have a bonfire going, which are noted below. Bundle up the kiddos, grab a thermos of hot cocoa and go! Times listed below detail when the parade will stop and broadcast choir performances over their state-of-the-art sound system. The full schedule includes sailing departure times, private events and bonfire details.

Related: Where to Find the Best U-Cut Tree Farms near Seattle

Christmas Ship Sailing Schedule

Seattle Christmas Ship Festival

Friday, November 25:  Pier 55 (Opening Night/First Sailing)
Choir: The Dickens Carolers
5:35 p.m. Don Armeni Park 

Friday, November. 25:  Pier 55 (Opening Night/Second Sailing)
Choir: The Dickens Carolers
8:35 p.m. Elliott Bay Marina 

Saturday, November 26: Pier 55 (First Sailing)
Choir: The Dickens Carolers
2:35 p.m. Olympic Sculpture Park
Sailing includes cookies with Santa

Saturday, November 26: Pier 55 (Second Sailing)
Choir: The Dickens Carolers
5:35 p.m. Salty's on Alki Beach

Saturday, November 26: Pier 55 (Third Sailing)
Choir: The Dickens Carolers
8:35 p.m. Alik Beach Park (bonfire)

Sunday, November 27:  Shilshole Bay Marina (First Sailing)
Choir: The Dickens Carolers
5:35 p.m. Carkeek Beach Park (bonfire)

Sunday, November 27:  Shilshole Bay Marina (Second Sailing)
Choir: The Dickens Carolers
8:35 p.m. Golden Gardens Park (bonfire)

Related: The Best Holiday Light Displays in the City

Christmas Ship Festival Seattle

Friday, December 2: Hyatt Regency Lake Washington (First Sailing)
Choir: Master Chorus Eastside
5:35 p.m. Ferdinand State Park (bonfire)

Friday, December 2: Hyatt Regency Lake Washington (Second Sailing)
Choir: Master Chorus Eastside
8:10 p.m. Gene Coulon Memorial Park (bonfire)

Saturday, December 3: Hyatt Regency Lake Washington (First Sailing)
Choir: PrimeTime Quartet
2:35 p.m. Pritchard Island Beach (bonfire)

Saturday, December 3: Hyatt Regency Lake Washington (Second Sailing)
Choir: PrimeTime Quartet
5:35 p.m. Seward Park (bonfire)
Sailing includes cookies with Santa

Saturday, December 3: Hyatt Regency Lake Washington (Third Sailing)
Choir: PrimeTime Quartet
8:40 p.m. Stan Sayers Memorial Park (bonfire)

Sunday, December 4: Hyatt Regency Lake Washington (First Sailing)
Choir: Peninsula Community Chorus
5:35 p.m. Mercer Shore Club (private)

Sunday, December 4: Hyatt Regency Lake Washington (Second Sailing)
Choir: Peninsula Community Chorus
8:35 p.m. Mt. Baker Beach (bonfire)

Related: Ho, Ho, Ho! Your Guide to Santa Photos in Seattle

Christmas Ship Festival Seattle

Friday, December 9: Lake Union Park (First Sailing)
Choir: PrimeTime Quartet
5:35 p.m. ASUW Shell House (bonfire)

Friday, December 9: Lake Union Park (Second Sailing/Parade of Boats)
Choir: PrimeTime Quartet
8:20 p.m. Fremont Cut (rolling show/bonfire)

Saturday, December 10: Kirkland City Dock (First Sailing)
Choir: Puyallup HS Norselanders
2:10 p.m. Marina Park (1st performance/bonfire)
2:50 p.m. Magnuson Park (2nd performance/bonfire)
Sailing includes cookies with Santa

Saturday, December 10: Kirkland City Dock (Second Sailing)
Choir: Puyallup HS Norselanders
5:35 p.m. Juanita Beach Park (bonfire)

Saturday, December 10: Kirkland City Dock (Third Sailing)
Choir: Puyallup HS Norselanders
5:35 p.m. Seattle Tennis Club (private)

Sunday, December 11: Kirkland City Dock (First Sailing)
Choir: The Dickens Carolers
5:35 p.m. Laurelhurst Beach Club (private)

Sunday, December 11: Kirkland City Dock (First Sailing)
Choir: The Dickens Carolers
8:35 p.m. Houghton Beach

Friday, December 16: Carillon Point Marina (First Sailing)
Choir: Master Chorus Eastside
5:35 p.m. Madrona Park (bonfire)

Friday, December 16: Carillon Point Marina (Second Sailing)
Choir: Master Chorus Eastside
8:35 p.m. Denny Blaine Park (bonfire)

Saturday, December 17: Carillon Point Marina (First Sailing)
Choir: Vocal Vintage
2:35 p.m. Waverly Beach Park
Sailing includes cookies with Santa

Saturday, December 17: Carillon Point Marina (Second Sailing)
Choir: Vocal Vintage
5:35 p.m. Madison Park (bonfire)

Saturday, December 17: Carillon Point Marina (Third Sailing)
Choir: Vocal Vintage
8:40 p.m. Meydenbauer Bay Park

Sunday, December 18: Carillon Point Marina (First Sailing)
Choir: Touchstone Quartet
5:35 p.m. Windermere Park (private)

Sunday, December 18: Carillon Point Marina (Second Sailing)
Choir: Touchstone Quartet
8:40 p.m. Luther Burbank Park

Monday, December 19: Kirkland City Dock (First Sailing)
Choir: Bellevue Youth Choir
5:35 p.m. OO Denny Park (bonfire)

Monday, December 19: Kirkland City Dock (Second Sailing)
Choir: Master Chorus Eastside
8:40 p.m. Log Boom Park 

Tuesday, December 20: Kirkland City Dock (First Sailing)
Choir: The Dickens Carolers
8:40 p.m. Lake Forest Park Civic Club (private)

Wednesday, December 21: Kirkland City Dock (First Sailing)
Choir: Holy Names Vocal Ensemble
5:35 p.m. Carillon Point (bonfire)

Wednesday, December 21: Kirkland City Dock (Second Sailing)
Choir: The Dickens Carolers
8:40 p.m. Sheridan Beach Club (private)

Thursday, December 22: Kirkland City Dock (First Sailing)
Choir: The Dickens Carolers
5:35 p.m. Medina Beach Park

Thursday, December 22: Kirkland City Dock (Second Sailing)
Choir: The Dickens Carolers
8:35 p.m. Yarrow Point (bonfire)

Friday, December 23: Lake Union Park (First Sailing)
Choir: The Dickens Carolers
2:40 p.m. The Ballard Locks (bonfire)
Sailing includes cookies with Santa

Friday, December 23: Lake Union Park (Second Sailing)
Choir: The Dickens Carolers
5:35 p.m. Ivar's Salmon House

Friday, December 23: Lake Union Park (Third Sailing)
Choir: The Dickens Carolers
8:30 p.m. Seattle Yacht Club (1st performance/private)
9:10 p.m. Gas Works Park (2nd performance/bonfire)

 

Good to Know: Argosy Cruises donates a portion of all ticket sales to The Seattle Times’ Fund for Those in Need, an annual program that raises money for several charitable organizations in the Puget Sound area.

Online: argosycruises.com

All photos courtesy Argosy Cruises

October’s main event is just around the corner, and we’ve got plenty of safe and fun places kids can go trick-or-treating in Portland

Looking for spook-tacular places to take the entire family trick-or-treating in Portland this Halloween? Look no further. We’ve got the inside scoop on where to find the best treat-or-treat goodies and other boo-tastic events that promise fun for the entire household. All you need to do is put on your costume and head out after an early dinner to get the jump on Halloween this year.

Where to Go Trick-or-Treating on the Westside

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Portland Zoo

Howloween at the Zoo
Howloween at the Zoo promises educational, safe, and fun for everyone this October. Costumed kids can participate in a zoo-wide scavenger hunt where they will learn about healthy habitats along the way. Yummy treat bags are available for your little adventurers at the end for just $3. Tickets must be purchased in advance and are free with zoo admission (Even infants need to be counted and must have a ticket to enter.). All you have to do is pick a time slot and the best costume, then head over for Halloween fun! 

Good to Know: Although this event is designed for kids ages 2-12, everyone is welcome.

Dates: Oct. 22, 23 & 28–31, 2022
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2022 Monster Mash in Lake Oswego
For families with the twelve and under set, Lake Oswego has your Halloween afternoon covered- and not just because you get to stay in your car.  Eight locations will come to your car to deliver toys, treats, or trinkets AND the first 1000 participants get a free trick-or-treat bag.  Locations are listed on the website where you can also download a map so start thinking of ways to decorate your car and your family now.

Date: Oct. 31, 2022
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Multnomah Village: Halloween in the Village
Sometimes it takes a village to make sure everyone has a memorable Halloween. Get the whole crew dressed up and join the trick-or-treat costume parade on Halloween night or visit the village all weekend long for free candy, spooky decorations, and more. Be sure to check out the categories for the virtual costume and pumpkin decorating contests online where winners will receive prizes from local businesses.

Good to Know: Events take place throughout the village the weekend leading up to Halloween too.

Date: Oct. 31, 2022
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Related: Dress 'Em Up! Portland's Best Costume Shops for Kids

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All Ages Drag Bingo with Poison Waters
While you may not be able to get candy at this event, it's still a great reason to don your scary (or not-so-scary) costume and head out with the kids. B-I-N-G-O! Head down to Hotel Vance for some drag queen fabulousness for all ages. Win prizes and enjoy drinks and snacks while letting your competitive side out. Grab your tickets now before they sell out!

Date: Oct. 28, 2022
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Trick or Treat Main Street
The Tigard Downtown Alliance hosts an annual Halloween event, with a safe route along Main Street. Kids–and kids at heart–can collect all kinds of loot from participating downtown merchants. It’s fun for the entire family and you can call it a night before the sun sets and the real ghosts and goblins come out to play.

Insider Tip: Looking to gather candy a little early? Try trick or treating at the Tigard Farmer's Market on the 30th.

Date: Oct. 31, 2022
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The Best Westside Neighborhoods for Trick-or-Treat Fun
Slightly older trick-or-treaters can enjoy the steeper streets of the neighborhood close to Forest Park along the Wildwood Trail. Park near NW Thurman Ave. and 28th Ave. and walk over the bridge into the neighborhood. In Southwest Portland, the Hillsdale neighborhood is a good one to walk around. Park near Rieke Elementary or Ida B. Wells-Barnett High School and enjoy a short, but spirited, walk between Vermont and Chestnut streets.

Where Families Can Go Trick-or-Treating on the Eastside

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Sellwood Community House
The Sellwood Community House knows how to throw a fall festival. Start the day off by joining the Monster March parade and stay afterwards for their carnival. Enjoy outdoor games, music, food, a photo booth, face painting, candy, and other Halloween delights. Wear your costumes, and be sure to register in advance for tickets. The Spooktacular Carnival is recommended for children ages 5-12 years old, and has a fee of $15 per child.

Date: Oct. 29, 2022 
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Safe Trick-or-Treat
Downtown Gresham hosts its annual Safe Trick-or-Treat event on Halloween evening. Wear your costumes and head to historic Main Avenue to enjoy free candy, refreshments, and specials at participating businesses.

Insider Tip: On October 29, kids can also trick or treat at Gresham Station, if their candy coffers can't wait.

Date: Oct. 31, 2022
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Related: Scare Up Fun! Portland's Best Halloween Happenings

Hot Trick-or-Treating Events on the Northside

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Trick-or-Treat Alberta Street
Alberta Street is planning on holding their annual Trick-or-Treat Alberta Street event but details are yet to come. Traditionally held from early afternoon until sunset, it’s designed for younger children and families, with businesses handing out candy to costumed kids.

Date: TBD for 2022

Halloween Themed 5k Beer Run at Level Beer
Parents will appreciate this event that begins and ends at Level Beer. Costumes are strongly encouraged at this annual Halloween event where participants can run, walk, or jog the untimed course. Dogs and strollers are welcome, and adults can enjoy a free craft beer and will receive a collector’s pint glass at the finish line. Plus, the entire fam has access to event activities including games, goodies, and a costume contest. Registration is limited, so sign up ASAP.

Date: Oct. 29, 2022

Level Beer
5211 N.E. 148th Ave.
Portland
Find out more online.

Standout places to trick-or-treat after dark in Northeast Portland
After dark, head to Irvington neighborhood, where residents of these classic old Portland homes really get into the spirit. NE 7th Ave. to 26th Ave., between Broadway St. and Fremont St.

I have a confession to make: bedtime reading barely happens in my house. After working at a stressful job, juggling side hustles to pay down debt, commuting for hours to pick up kids at distant schools, cooking, checking homework, checking in on elderly relatives, and attempting coherent conversations with my family, I’m just—done. We don’t read a lot on weeknights. But we’re a family of readers.

I’m a school librarian, owner of thousands of books, and a graduate-level instructor of children’s literature. All of my experiences tell me that there are countless ways to raise readers and no one-size-fits-all approach. I’m not a huge fan of required summer reading lists either since each child has radically differing learning and literacy needs.

Related: Ditching That Summer Reading List Is Actually a Fantastic Idea

When I only had one daughter and one job, we read for almost an hour every night. But now, with two kids and two jobs, I read the shortest books possible in less than 10 minutes. Goodnight Moon by Margaret Wise Brown only contains 132 words—part of the reason it has consistently remained among the most popular children’s books for 75 years. When all of our family structures, economic circumstances, and schedules vary so widely, why do we feel pressed to read to our kids the same way? What if you work nights? Does that mean your kid doesn’t read with you? Nope! You read whenever and however you can.

My current nighttime routine with my 3-year-old includes songs, cuddles, nonsensical chats (“Are you a bear or a bee?”), and the grand finale, “the airplane” where I swoop her through the air and dump her, giggling, into the bed. My 10-year-old would still like me to read to her at night—and not honoring this request hurts. But so does sleep deprivation. So my older one gets read-alouds in binge sessions, usually when the sun is high in the sky. We’ve been chipping away at Little Women, the original, 800-page version for two years.

So much of the conventional wisdom about parenting derives from dated, sexist thinking. When I perused academic articles about bedtime reading, I kept seeing the words “mother” and “maternal” everywhere—as if reading, like cooking and housework, were exclusively feminine activities. People of all genders can read aloud, and at all times of day.

When I’m mechanically reading the Frozen II Little Golden Book for the 300th time, I yearn to be anywhere else, even at the DMV. If parents read a truly great book to their kids, like The Snowy Day by Ezra Jack Keats or Each Kindness by Jacqueline Woodson, and have a total blast doing it—even just once a week—I believe it’s more meaningful than vitamin-swallowing nightly reading. Regular reading is important, of course, but nighttime isn’t best for everyone.

Digging deeper into the most recent research, I read a summary of Larissa K. Ferretti and Kristen L. Bubs’ 2017 study on bedtime. Drawing from data from 3,250 families, they sought to understand what kids need for healthy brain development, social-emotional skills, and school readiness. Their findings in Early Education and Development suggested that dependable bedtime routines are what matter. Bonding, stimulating activities, and sufficient wind-down for sleep—that’s the ideal. Reading can be part of this but so can other activities. A scientist mom friend of mine says she does Bedtime Math with her kids. After all, why do we only equate nighttime with literacy?

Let me leave you with some advice. Forge your own path through bedtime with confidence and tweak it when needed. Read, but do it your way. Here are some that have worked for us.

  • Read books on public transportation, or listen to audiobooks or podcasts like Story Pirates while driving. Talking about what you read (or hear) is so important.
  • Pack books for long waits in the pediatrician’s office.
  • Go on reading outings to new libraries, bookstores, and even parks with Little Free Libraries.
  • Read for ten minutes every morning for a coffee and Sippy cup date while snuggling in bed.

Who knows, maybe breakfast book-time will become the next big thing?

Jess deCourcy Hinds (jessdecourcyhinds.com) is a writer, librarian, and graduate-level children’s literature instructor. Sign up for her free quarterly newsletter, I’m an Open Book: On Love, Libraries and Life-building.