Want to really get to know someone? Play a round of Would You Rather. After all, when faced with choices ranging from thought-provoking to downright silly, people will always surprise you. The questions you use when playing with adults don’t have to be life-or-death choices; they can be funny, outrageous, or thought-provoking, but all should be interesting! We’ve rounded up 35 of our favorite would-you-rather questions for adults below, but if you’re playing with kids and need more age-appropriate questions, we’ve got the best would-you-rather questions for kids and teens

How Do You Play Would You Rather?

When playing this fun party game, people answer questions that have two choices. For example, “Would you rather have the ability to be invisible or the ability to time travel?” The idea is to encourage a discussion, so the questions should make players think differently about a scenario or a choice between two things, and there should always be an explanation as to why they chose their answer.

You can use Would You Rather questions with adults anywhere: at work, family gatherings, parties, or hanging with a few friends. It’s a fun way to learn more about someone, whether you know them well or not.

Silly Would You Rather Questions for Adults

Would you rather throw up in front of your hero or have your hero throw up on you?

Would you rather have the powers of telekinesis (moving things) or telepathy (reading minds)?

Would you rather eat pizza or ice cream every day for the rest of your life?

Would you rather have Jason Kelce or Travis Kelce as your teammate?

Would you rather be stuck in an elevator with your boss or mother-in-law?

Would you rather have an embarrassing photo of you surface on social media or fall down the stairs at a party?

Would you rather accidentally pass gas on a first date or on your wedding day (and it’s SBD)?

Would you rather be stuck in a zombie apocalypse or have the world taken over by A.I. ala The Matrix?

Would you rather have Adele’s singing voice or Taylor Swift’s songwriting skills?

Would you rather go shopping in your fanciest ballgown or go to a holiday work party in your bathrobe?

Would you rather be a Jedi Knight or a Marvel Superhero?

Would you rather steal Kate Middleton or Megan Markel’s stylist?

Would you rather have a mullet or a perm?

Would you rather go on tour with your favorite band or be a regular extra on your favorite sitcom?

Would you rather walk around all night with your zipper down or something in your teeth?

Would you rather be stuck in a haunted house or a broken-down car in the desert?

Would you rather be terrible at anything athletic or a really bad singer?

Would you rather be stuck on a deserted island or the top of a mountain?

Serious Would You Rather Questions for Adults

Would you rather find true love or win the lottery?

Would you rather lose your sight or your memory?

Would you rather freeze to death or die of heat exhaustion?

Would you rather have a pause button or a rewind button for your life?

Would you rather have dinner with a deceased loved one or your favorite movie star?

Would you rather be fabulously wealthy and alone or poor and surrounded by loved ones?

Would you rather find and lose true love or never love at all?

Would you rather travel the world for one year or have $50,000 tax-free dollars?

Would you rather be a world-famous movie star or a best-selling novelist?

Would you rather live a quiet life in a rural town or a busy life in a big city?

Would you rather quit social media or streaming platforms?

Would you rather work at a high-paying job you loathe or a low-paying job you love?

Would you choose to end world hunger or save the planet from devasting climate change?

Would you rather go to jail for a crime you didn’t commit or have someone steal your idea and publish it as their own?

Would you rather never celebrate Christmas or never celebrate Halloween?

Would you rather have a conversation with your past self or your future self?

Would you rather be told a comforting life or the uncomfortable truth?

 

 

An insider’s look at which Bay Area neighborhoods are best for Halloween yard haunts and candy (of course!)

BOO! Halloween events are back with a vengeance and spookier than ever! While the entire month is a ramp-up for all things Halloween (apple picking nearby, corn and hay mazes galore, pumpkin patches—oh my!), they all build the excitement until the 31st finally rolls around. So start narrowing down all those costume ideas and use our guide below to find the best spots in the Bay Area to trick-or-treat!

The Best Spots to Trick-or-Treat in San Francisco

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1. Cole Valley (between Parnassus Ave. & 17th St.)

Most houses have Halloween yard haunts and are totally decked out (think: haunted garages and elaborate lights) with the sweet spot on Belvedere St. from Parnassus to 17th, as it’s closed to thru traffic. Belvedere is on a hill, so crafty parents will head out early (to ensure candy doesn’t run out!) and bring wagons or strollers so shorter legs can get a ride. The scariest part about trick-or-treating in this neighborhood is the parking. Your best bet is to take the N Judah, 43 Masonic, 6 Parnassus, or 37 Corbett; or arrange for a willing driver to do a drop-off and pick-up on Cole Street.

Insider Tip: Try Cole St. before the merchant area (Carl) and up past (Parnassus) and some of the corresponding side streets for a quieter, decreased sensory trick-or-treat fix.

2. Noe Valley (24th St.)

The younger crowd will love trick-or-treating with the merchants along 24th before the sun even sets (around 6 p.m.). The hills surrounding 24th St. feature many darling decked-out Victorians, so wear comfy walking shoes and enjoy exploring as the evening wears on. Parking is challenging this evening so consider MUNI: the 24 and J Church run nearby.

3. Fair Oaks St. (between 21st & 26th St.)

Not far from 24th St. in Noe Valley/Outer Mission this street is also a great bet—it’s closed to traffic so tots can focus on candy-getting instead of car-dodging. Be aware that most houses don’t start doling out the candy until after 6 p.m. so grab an early dinner on 24th Street before heading out for trick-or-treating.  

4. Jordan Park, Laurel Heights (Euclid Ave. & California St.)

This quiet, unassuming neighborhood is nestled between Presidio Heights and Inner Richmond where the homeowners go all out for Halloween. The streets are usually closed off so kids can roam safely and there are often food trucks to visit for once that sugar rush wears off. 

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5. Presidio Heights/Outer Richmond/Clement St.

The chic-yet-haunted houses of Presidio Heights would make Martha Stewart proud while the nearby Outer Richmond neighborhood can be a hidden gem to trick-or-treat with a little less fervor. The decked-out houses near California & Clement and 25th are the perfect, calmer experience for your newbies.

6. Sea Cliff

If you want luxe and spooky then this is the ultimate SF trick-or-treating neighborhood. The possibility of thick fog rolling in? Check. The sound of the sea pounding against the cliffs, heard only occasionally over the din of squealing trick-or-treaters? Check. Fancy houses with actual front yards and the quest for the elusive full-sized candy bar will keep everyone amused. It gets crowded after 7 p.m. so arrive early if you can.

7. St. Francis Wood

Two blocks east of Stern Grove, the massive houses (with yards big enough for fake graveyards!) and tall spooky trees give this suburban-like neighborhood in the middle of the city the perfect creepy vibe. 

8. NOPA (Grove St. between Central & Baker) 

In addition to trick-or-treating at the 1500 and 1600 blocks of Grove St., the neighborhood association hosts a costume contest, parade, and haunted house for one of the spookiest Halloween celebrations around.  

See How the Houses in Presidio Terrace Have Decorated for Halloween

Where to Trick-or-Treat in Oakland & Berkeley

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1. Cleveland Heights/Haddon Hill (just west of Lake Merritt between Lakeshore and Park)

The Hills are alive with the sound of spooky music! This Oakland neighborhood just west of Lake Merritt is famous for its A+, all-out decorations, and generous candy distribution which makes it a great bet for all ages.

2. Trestle Glen St.

Nearby, Trestle Glen St. off Lakeshore attracts families from around the East Bay, and parents are known to have just as much fun as the kids. Be sure to check out The House with a Halloween play and performances throughout All Hallow’s Eve.

3. Berkeley Hills (Mariposa Ave.)

The small, tree-lined block is decked out with ghosts and goblins, and the street is closed off to cars so kids can delight in the bouncy house and elaborate decorations. Parking super-close is tricky but doable, especially earlier in the evening.

4. Elmwood (Russell St.)

From College Ave straight to the doorsteps of the Claremont Hotel, this stretch of the Elmwood neighborhood is awash with elaborated decorated graveyards, detailed pumpkins, and haunted "mansions". It can get rowdy after dark when the older crowd comes out so be sure to take the youngest of trick-or-treaters early.

5. Alameda 

The East Bay’s best-kept Hallow secret just might be trick-or-treating on “the island.” The majority of the residential part of Alameda is divine for trick-or-treating for those kids whose bedtime is just after dark, from noon to 4 p.m. on the 31st, kids can trick-or-treat the merchants on Webster Street. Don’t miss the 300 block of Haight Street!

6. Piedmont (Ricardo Ave.)

This spot is traditionally one of Piedmont's most popular and festive trick-or-treat locations so be sure to hit it up for all the action—candy, decorations and costumes...it's all here!

Where to Trick-or-Treat on the Peninsula

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1. Burlingame (Cabrillo Ave.)

Burlingame offers sweet trick-or-treating with elaborate decorations and basically no stairs, so even the little ones can load up without pause. Parking isn’t overly challenging, but it’s also right on the Caltrain line (Broadway Station) if you want to add a train ride into an already amazing night.

2. Millbrae (Taylor St.)

This tree-lined street is filled with family homes nicely clustered together. It gets a bit more crowded than some of the other spots on the Peninsula but it’s way worth it. There are plenty of decorations, and the neighborhood closes off the block to cars so that the kids can run around working out their candy buzz.

3. Brisbane

The perpetually sunny little hamlet of Brisbane comes to life on Halloween night like no other. This is one of the greatest spots in the Bay Area for Halloween splendor. Full of town pride, houses all over this village go all out. Even the local dentist hands out goodies—toothbrushes! It’s hard to believe you are less than 20 minutes from the heart of downtown San Francisco. With hundreds of houses just near downtown alone to hit up, this is a guaranteed haul for your candy-loving crew!

4. Willows of Menlo Park (Pope St.)

All things spooky and creepy can be found in the neighborhood on Pope as neighbors deck out homes lavishly in the Halloween spirit and dole out the goods generously. We love this spot as an "opener" to the night with the younger crew, elementary and younger. 

5. Downtown Los Altos

Rather spend the night alone in a haunted house than deal with a sugar-crashing toddler at 8 p.m.?  Bring those wee ones over to downtown Los Altos on Oct. 31 from 12-4 p.m. where they can trick-or-treat the merchants and still be home in time for supper!

Where to Go Trick-or-Treating in the South Bay

1. Los Gatos: Almond Grove

Tait Avenue in this area is closed off to traffic from W. Main to Hwy. 9. Houses go all out with candy and decorations and there’s no traffic on the street, making it safe and stress-free for parents while the kids roam in search of the best candy (psst: its Snickers).

2. Santana Row (San Jose)

From 10 a.m.- noon, families can trick or treat the row for a fun-filled day for even the littlest of goblins. Live music, pumpkin decorating, stilt walkers, and more are all in store in this bustling San Jose downtown spot. 

3. Willow Glen

The Willow Glen area makes for great treats (without needing too many tricks!). The merchants along Lincoln Ave. between Minnesota and Willow will host a trick-or-treat on Halloween day.  Babes-in-arms/strollers; toddlers, and preschoolers can head over from 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m. and the school-aged crowd can trick-or-treat from 3-4:30 p.m. 

4. Creepy Crawly Halloween Trick or Treat, Campbell

For the first time in three years, this popular event is back and ready to welcome two and four-legged witches, ghosts and goblins. The word on the street is that dancing zombies may be back roaming the street so look out for those! 

Insider Tip: The South Bay is notoriously warmer than other parts of the Bay Area, so you won’t have to worry about a heavy coat crushing those fairy wings!

Where to Trick-or-Treat in Marin County

1. Mill Valley (Sycamore St.)

With beautiful trees and tactfully cobwebbed front stoops, Sycamore St. is Halloween Central for many Southern Marin families. You’ll also note the many family and group costumes that add to the festive atmosphere.

2. Ross (Shady Lane)

Shady Lane closes to traffic between Norwood Ave and Fernhill from 5-9 p.m. which makes it an ideal spot for families with young kids to roam freely either to burn off that sugar high or in search of yet more candy! 

3. Tiburon (Bel Aire)

In Tiburon, the Bel Aire neighborhood (behind The Cove Shopping Center) features sprawling front-lawn “cemeteries” and other wicked goodness. Plus, flat streets and close houses make it stroller-friendly which is a win when the little ones are tired but the older goblins need more treats.

4. Larkspur (Heatherwood)

Larkspur’s Heatherwood neighborhood will not disappoint. You can follow the circle of the Heatherwood neighborhood, along Heather Way as it intersects with Diane Lane and William St. and call it a night. Even with dozens of costume-clad kids, this area is easy to navigate, even with a stroller.

5. San Anselmo (Sleepy Hollow)

Because a) you know you want to trick-or-treat in a place known as Sleepy Hollow and b) this area is low-key but festive enough that your little goblins will feel like they’ve really lived it up. This area is easy to navigate, too, which helps when you have a carload of sugared-up kiddos.

6. Bamboo Terrace (Terra Linda/San Rafael)

For those willing to travel a little further north, this area boasts outdoor movie screens, elaborately decorated homes and arguably one of the most festive and interactive atmospheres on Halloween night in all of the Bay. It can get crowded, but that’s just because everyone wants in on the fun. 

7. Knight Drive (San Rafael)

This Glenwood neighborhood trick-or-treating spot is also a popular spot with homes decked out in ghoulish fun and neighbors welcoming the Halloween spirit to the fullest. 

Make sure to capture all the fall fun—and share them with your family and friends near and far—with the Tinybeans app. The secure platform puts parents in total control of who sees and interacts with photos and videos of their kids.

No tricks, just treats! We’ve rounded up New York City’s spookiest neighborhoods and events to score candy for Halloween

Halloween in NYC is a month-long celebration! Explore New York City’s spooky side this October with creepy stories, haunted houses, ghouls, and ghosts of all kinds. Join costume parades (or have your dog join one), make Halloween-themed crafts, learn about the traditions and animals that are associated with the holiday, carve some pumpkins, and so much more. We’ve also rounded up some of the best neighborhoods for trick-or-treating in New York City. Check out the best spots to see the spookiest decorations, walk in the most family-friendly parades, and, of course, score the best candy. Note that things start early, with some gatherings happening as early as 3:30 p.m. Now go forth, be safe, and get that candy!

Halloween Parades and Events in New York City

Bronx Zoo’s Boo at the Zoo

Sep. 30-Oct. 29: Don your Halloween costume and visit the zoo on weekends for spooky happenings, like magic shows, mind-reading demonstrations, pumpkin carving workshops, costume parades, arts, crafts, and puppets, and so much more. Best of all, the Halloween celebrations are included with your zoo admission. Event details.

Tompkins Square Halloween Dog Parade

Oct. 21: For a little while it looked like this beloved puprade wasn’t happening this year, but thanks to community involvement and a last-minute sponsor, the Halloween dog parade is back on! Dress your pupper in your favorite costume and join the parade, then try your luck in the costume competition (which is free but has limited spaces). Event details.

Bleecker Playground Annual Halloween Parade and Festival

Oct. 22: The whole neighborhood is pitching in for this family fun festival, where kids can try different Halloween decorating (from cupcakes to shoes!). There are plenty of other activities, as well, like kid-friendly chess matches, face painting, a trading post for toys and books, themed arts and crafts, and more. Event details.

Halloween Howl at Carl Schurz Park

Oct. 22: Stop by with your costumed pups for the annual dog parade at Carl Schurz Park. Join over 200 other doggos putting their best foot forward before a panel of judges. Event details.

Central Park Pumpkin Flotilla

Oct. 26: Send your jack-o-lantern floating down the Harlem Meer in this magical evening event. To be a part of the flotilla, your pumpkin should weigh about 8 lbs. (post-gutting, with the lid), and don’t use anything to decorate the pumpkin that could be potentially hazardous for the wildlife. Event details.

Williamsbridge Oval Haunted House

Oct. 27: This haunted house is more like a spooky house, but it’s still recommended that you don’t bring kids under 10 years old to this event. Get moderately scared by the witches, ghosts, and ghouls of the Williamsbridge Oval Recreation Center. Event details.

Halloween Harvest Festival at Socrates Sculpture Park

Oct. 28: What do you do with your pumpkins after you’re done carving them? You launch them in a catapult, of course! Socrates Sculpture Park’s annual “Flight of the Gourds” is back and better than ever, featuring a dog costume contest, live music, delish food, workshops, and high-flying pumpkins headed straight for the compost pile. Event details.

The Great Pupkin in Fort Greene Park

Oct. 28: Think your pup has what it takes to win over the crowd in all his costumed glory? Then head over to the Great Pupkin Parade, where costumed pooches strut their stuff. Now in its 25th year, this event features some of the most extravagant and ridiculous(ly cute) dog costumes in the city. Event details.

Fall Fad Market at the Invisible Dog Art Center

Oct. 28-29: If you’re searching for a more relaxed and crafty Halloween celebration, the Fall Fad Market is the perfect place for you. Featuring over 50 small businesses and designers, this craft fair is a quaint and cozy way to spend your pre-Halloween weekend with smaller kids or kiddos who’ll appreciate the goodies and trinkets. Plus, it’s a great place to pick up some unique holiday presents. Event details.

Corlears Hook Park Trick or Treating

Oct. 29: Corlears Hook Park invites the whole neighborhood to come out and play in this community event. Stations will be set up around the park, presented by local businesses and families, and featuring tricks and treats for the kids. Event details.

Washington Market Park Halloween Parade and Concert

Oct. 29: This community event is led by the spectacular Queer Big Apple Corps Marching Band, making it a boisterously good time for everyone. Put on your Halloween costume and join the procession through the spooky decorated park grounds. Event details.

Brooklyn Bowl’s Halloween Spectacular

Oct. 29: Presented by the Rock and Roll Playhouse, this live music event is kid-friendly and a spooky good time. It’s also a good cause: the Playhouse will be supporting UNICEF and requesting donations to help children and families around the world access basic human needs. Event details.

Halloween on the Farm at Queens County Farm

Oct. 29: The fall festival at Queens County Farm culminates in this Halloween extravaganza, which features a DJ dance party, Halloween hayrides, spooky crafts, and other fun for the whole family. Don’t miss the Amazine Maize Maze and the spooky farmhouse experience. Plus, go trick or treating among the animals! Event details.

American Museum of Natural History’s Spooky Space

Oct. 31: Space might not be the first thing you think of when you think of Halloween, but outer space is a pretty spooky and magical place. This special Hayden Planetarium screening is led by scientist Jackie Faherty and takes audiences through the eerier side of space. Explore the chilling mysteries of the universe! Event details.

Halloween Boo Bash at the Ulmer Park Library

Oct. 31: Smaller kids can sing and dance with “Bubbles” in this silly and cute Halloween celebration for tots. Stick around for the Halloween carnival, which will feature games, crafts, and prize giveaways. And if this event isn’t within reach for you, check out your local library’s events leading up to Halloween—chances are, there are some fun themed activities happening at a library near you. Event details.

BAMboo! at the Brooklyn Academy of Music

Oct. 31: At the annual BAM Boo! event, costumed kids will enjoy music, carnival games, arts and crafts, and, of course, plenty of candy and trick-or-treating! After, you can hit up the shops at Atlantic Terminal for a few more goodies. Event details.

Annual Children’s Halloween Parade in Washington Square Park

Oct. 31: If the big Village Halloween parade is too much for your little ones (and we don’t blame them), this smaller, kid-oriented version might be a better option for them. Come out to enjoy live performances, play games, snag treats, and, of course, show off your awesome costume.  Event details.

Boo!KCM at the Brooklyn Conservatory of Music

Oct. 31: The night of the living drums is upon us, and the Brooklyn Conservatory of Music has wrangled them into a fun evening event. This free celebration has spooky musical performances, candy giveaways, and a haunted instrument garden. Event details.

Park Slope Halloween Parade

Oct. 31: For Park Slope’s somewhat legendary parade, bring your costume A-game and join in at any point along the route, or enjoy the creative and creepy costumes as a spectator. While you’re in the neighborhood, be sure to hit some of the brownstone-lined streets, where residents are known for their out-of-this-world decorations. Event details.

NYC Village Halloween Parade

Oct. 31: This is the big one. Starting at 7 p.m., this famous parade is loud, crowded, and rowdy—it’s a mainstay of the holiday so we feel like we have to mention it, but it’s not the most kid-friendly spot. Save this one for the older children, or celebrate earlier with the Washington Square Park kids’ parade. Event details.

Jackson Heights Halloween Parade

Oct. 31: This is the other big one. This Queens neighborhood’s wildly popular Halloween Parade is the second-largest Halloween kids parade in NYC. As if marching in that wasn’t enough reward in itself, at the end of the procession, all kids get goodie bags. After the parade, kids can hit the apartment buildings in the area to score big. Event details.

The Best Trick-or-Treating Neighborhoods in Manhattan

Governors Island

Governors Island usually hosts a Halloween event during the two weekends leading up to the holiday. Here, you’ll find arts and crafts, pumpkin picking, photo-ops, and trick-or-treating on the historical island. Kids parade around Nolan Park, stopping by every participating house, where the people are friendly and dressed up, and the candy is plentiful.

Meatpacking District

The Meatpacking District is a top destination for trick-or-treaters this year, thanks to the neighborhood’s “Treats in the Streets” event. From 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. on October 21, participating vendors will be handing out candy and treats to costumed revelers. The block party will feature live music, a doggie costume contest, and a bunch of treats and activities for kids. Walk the High Line for a birds-eye view of the festivities and for more opportunities to get treats from volunteers. Download a map on the website and head out for a big haul!

Chelsea

Kick off trick-or-treating in Clement Clarke Moore Park—known by locals as “Seal Park”—on 10th Avenue at 22nd Street, then walk up and down the decorated brownstone blocks around the General Theological Seminary. The west side neighborhood’s most popular streets for gathering the goods are 21st and 22nd Streets between Ninth and Tenth Avenues; for less of a crowd, head to the houses between Eighth and Ninth Avenues. Stop by Chelsea Market for a break from the cold and some more treats, as the space usually hosts trick-or-treating events on Halloween.

Midtown

The East Midtown Partnership is bringing trick-or-treating back to the streets of Midtown, and promises the event will be bigger and better than ever. Visit on Halloween from 3-7 for a packed schedule of events and candy. Families can pick up a trick-or-treating bag at Sunrise (139 East 56th Street at Lexington Avenue)—where you can also participate in free pumpkin painting—or the plaza outside 919 3rd Avenue (at East 56th Street). Check out the spooky photo booth at the plaza, then make your way around the neighborhood’s businesses. You can view a map of participating locations on the website.

Hamilton Heights

Uptown in Hamilton Heights, head to 141st to 145th Street between Broadway and Amsterdam, where residents deck out their townhouses in a new theme each year, making for an especially festive treat gathering.

Harlem

In Harlem, you can’t go wrong with 121st Street, starting at Marcus Garvey Park and hitting the brownstones all the way to Frederick Douglass Boulevard. Another great spot is Strivers Row, at 138th and 139th Street and Adam Clayton Powell Jr. Boulevard as well as a bit further north, at Hamilton Terrace between 141st and 144th Streets, where houses are decked out each year with impressive Halloween displays.

Tribeca

Stores around Washington Market Park will be decorated in style and handing out candy on Halloween, as will storefronts and houses along Duane, Reade, and Church Streets.

Upper West Side

Walk up Columbus Ave between 68th and 77th Streets for some great trick or treating (the streets might also be closed to traffic that day, but check ahead to be sure!), or switch over to Amsterdam Street around 111th Street.

Upper East Side

The best spots for trick or treating in the Upper East Side seem to be 78th and 82nd Streets, but make sure to leave time to take in the sights: The neighborhood is known for spooky and over-the-top Halloween decorations. Check out hot spots on East 78th, between Park and Lexington Avenue as well as East 67th, 72nd, and 74th between Fifth Ave and Madison. Stop by for some impressive skeletons, painted pumpkins, smoke-breathing dragons, and more spooky fun.

Queens: The Best Trick-or-Treating Neighborhoods in Queens

Forest Hills

Forest Hills Gardens will make you doubt you’re in NYC. The leafy and historic enclave is a trick-or-treater’s paradise, with tree-lined streets and stately single-family houses. There’s always activity on the busy thoroughfare of Continental and 71st Avenues, and if you prefer to visit businesses and storefronts over houses, Metropolitan Avenue in Forest Hills proper has a lot to offer for costumed kids.

Middle Village

For an authentic, suburban, small-town vibe, head to Middle Village. Highly residential, with mostly single-family homes, this neighborhood contains lots of houses spooked up for the holidays (think big inflatables) and pedestrian-friendly streets for tiny trick-or-treaters. Juniper Valley Park is a beloved neighborhood park that often hosts Halloween goodies for the kids, which in the past have included tables full of candy and decked-out car trunks that would compete with any house decor display.

Sunnyside Gardens

For a similar feel to Middle Village that’s a little easier to get to by subway (it’s a short walk from the 46th St./Bliss St. stop on the 7 line) try Sunnyside Gardens. One of New York’s first planned communities, this cohesive landmarked area’s streets of charming houses and oversized trees make for manageable and picturesque candy collecting.

The Best Trick-or-Treating Neighborhoods and Events in Brooklyn

Bedford Stuyvesant

This community is so organized it has a map of Halloween hot spots and blocks welcoming kids, and orange and black balloons to let you know where to go. There will be candy for kids and even dog-friendly treats! Don’t miss the Theme House on Jefferson Avenue between Throop & Tompkins. The fun begins at 4:30. Find the Halloween 2023 map here!

Brooklyn Heights

It’s hard to find more festive blocks in The Heights than Garden Place and Grace Court Alley, which are typically blocked off from traffic in honor of the holiday. Residents go all out, constructing elaborate Halloween displays in front of the street’s historic brownstones—fake coffins, life-size mummies, smoke machines, jack-o’lanterns en masse, etc. It’s a festive and very busy scene, so go early if you want to come out of it with treats in the bucket. For a quieter but still lovely trick-or-treating experience, head to nearby streets Remsen and Joralemon.

Cobble Hill

Costumed kids and parents cram into this small Brownstone Brooklyn neighborhood for the annual Halloween parade. Afterward, the main drag of Court Street and the surrounding blocks are filled with trick-or-treaters. (Venture further down Court to Carroll Gardens for even more candy and brownstones with large front gardens tricked-out for the holiday.) Be on time: It’s not uncommon for businesses and homes to have their candy stash completely cleared out by the festive, costumed throngs early on.

Ditmas Park

Not only does Ditmas Park bring the candy and the spooky decor, but with its huge Victorian homes and wide, tree-lined streets, it’s a lovely place to revel in Halloween fun. Young ghosts and goblins gather in front of the Halloween House on the intersection of Argyle and Albemarle Roads before heading out to the rest of the nabe. Franklin Street is a popular destination for commercial trick or treating, while the brownstones between Franklin Street and Manhattan Avenue are all dressed up in spooky decor and welcoming candy-seeking children.

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Dumbo

Dumbo usually hosts an annual DUMBOween event, in which costumed participants make their way through Dumbo and Brooklyn Bridge Park, led by live music and puppets. The parade is followed up by family-friendly activities in the Archway. Additionally, more than 40 Dumbo businesses will offer trick-or-treating at their storefronts on Halloween!

Kensington

You can feel the excitement mounting in this residential neighborhood as Halloween approaches, as more and more decorations are added to the single-family homes. Head to the numbered blocks (3rd, 4th, 5th) between Caton and Albemarle, and make sure to hit Fourth Street, which is closed to traffic and rocks out hard, with music, games, and scores of families.

Windsor Terrace

South of Park Slope and north of Kensington, Windsor Terrace is a neighborhood of residential streets with lots of houses that also really get into the holiday. Head to blocks between Vanderbilt Avenue and Fort Hamilton Parkway and don’t miss Third Street between Vanderbilt and Greenwood Avenues, which in the past, has been closed to traffic on Halloween.

The Best Trick-or-Treating Neighborhoods in the Bronx

Riverdale

The upscale ‘hood of Riverdale always makes for some good candy collecting, but the area’s neighbor, the community of Fieldston, is worthy of destination trick-or-treating. With much of it recognized as a landmarked historic district, the positively suburban-feeling area is filled with trees and beautiful houses that set the perfect backdrop for Halloween activities. (The varied architectural styles range from Tudor and Art and Crafts, to “manor” and “castle.”) There’s a good chance you’ll forget you’re in New York City.

City Island

Whether you take part in City Island’s Halloween Parade or just visit for the trick or treating, City Island is worth a visit on Halloween. The community feel is generally strong on City Island, and many doors are open to parade goers: Storefronts and homes along the parade route hand out candy to costumed partiers.

The Best Trick-or-Treating Neighborhoods in Staten Island

Mid Island

The suburban feel of Staten Island lends itself to more room and creativity, resulting in some absolutely incredible Halloween displays. Some of the best can be found in and just outside of Bulls Head. Check out the houses on Caswell Ave between Willowbrook Road and Woolley Avenue—in fact,  278 Caswell Avenue is known as “The Halloween House” and attracts tourists each year who marvel at their extravagant displays. Another hot spot are the streets that branch out from Gannon Avenue N, near Ingram Woods.

Your go-to guide for trick-or-treating in Los Angeles—plus where to go see spooky-fun yard haunts and over-the-top decor

Whether your littles will be parading the streets as Barbie and Ken or Taylor and Travis this Halloween, we’ve got the scoop on the most fang-tastic neighborhoods in town to take them trick-or-treating. These spooktacular spots have everything – oversized candy bars, animatronic monsters, homemade haunted houses, mazes, and more witches than you can shake a broomstick at. And, if you want to get an early jump on all the frightful festivities, we’ve included some tricked-out yard haunts to get you in the Halloween spirit.

The Best Places to Trick-or-Treat in Los Angeles

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Trick-or-Treating Near DTLA

1. Silverlake 

The popular Silver Lake Halloween street party takes place along Armstrong Ave., and the best part is it’s closed to vehicle traffic, so you can feel safe gathering goodies. If you prefer a less crowded stroll, head to North Coronado St. between Sunset Blvd. and Scott Ave. Several houses level up the Halloween theatrics, yard haunts, and special effects. The rest of the neighbors also love to gussy up and greet the trick-or-treaters. Note: Parking is snug in the hills, so park on Sunset and walk up. Where: Sunset and Coronado.

2. Angelino Heights

Trick-or-treating on tree-lined streets filled with historic Victorian homes? Sign us up! Residents love getting into the fun while handing out impressive treats from their decked-out houses. It’s a parent’s photo op dream. You can also swing by the mansion used in the “Thriller” music video at 1345 Carroll Ave. And obviously, you have to do the zombie dance—we won’t judge. Where: Carroll Ave. and Douglas St.

Westside Trick-or-Treating

3. Santa Monica

Our fave spot for little goblins who tire quickly (read: complain endlessly) is Gillette’s Regents Square, where you can spare tiny feet a long trek and still load up on candy and costume compliments. Another swell spot (and another celeb haunted locale) in Santa Monica is 16th St.—north of Montana between Alta and Georgina. It can be a bit spooky for tots, so maybe save this one for older kids. Where: Gillette’s Regents Square

4. Pacific Palisades

This Palisades neighborhood is overflowing with parents, kids, and beautifully decorated Halloween houses. Some residents even get into the “spirit,” handing out wine and hot toddies to parents. We have your attention now—do we? The narrow Alphabet Streets north of Sunset (also known as North Village) are the most trick-or-treat friendly blocks, with street names that go in alphabetical order—perfect for remembering where you started and how many streets it will take to get back. Where: Monument and Bashford St.

5. Brentwood Glen

This pocket neighborhood just west of the 405 Fwy is ideal for toddlers enjoying their first trick-or-treat experience. The community is filled with lovely family homes located very close to one another, most of which have fab decorations. There are also several kid-friendly ‘haunted’ houses and very few cars. Plus, you can pop by the nearby Brentwood Country Mart for dinner before or after. Where: The ‘Alphabet’ Sts. between Church and Beloit.

6. Beverly Hills

One look at the famous Spadena House (the “Beverly Hills Witch House”) at 516 Walden Dr., and you’ll know you’ve come to the right place for Halloween. We highly recommend getting there 5-5:30 p.m. to beat the crowds. The flats of Beverly Hills make walking easy breezy, and big homes mean even bigger candy bars and smiles from your sugar-crazed brood. Where: Walden Dr.


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Where to Trick-or-Treat in Mid City

7. Hancock Park

This picturesque neighborhood is known for its over-the-top decorations and extraordinary candy hauls, so it usually draws busloads of trick-or-treaters. These homes are seriously spookified from top to bottom, with homeowners treating Halloween like an Olympic sport. You may even catch an occasional celeb handing out candy here as well. Where: North of Wilshire Blvd.

8. Melrose

This sidewalk-friendly neighborhood south of Third St. and west of Fairfax is bustling on Halloween with plenty of doorbell ringing, candy-giving, and oohing and aahing over yard décor. Have a friend in the neighborhood? Hang at their house for pre-party shenanigans, then gather your loot in big groups. And most importantly, don’t forget an extra Reese’s for your darling parents—seriously. Where: Sweetzer Ave. and Drexel Ave.

Where to go Trick-or-Treating in The Valley

9. Sherwood Forest in Northridge

Not only can you take your little Robin Hood trick-or-treating in a mythical-sounding place, but this neighborhood usually goes all out with unique features, including a front lawn haunted maze and a Hogwarts-esque castle, complete with gargoyles. Where: Near the Valley Performing Arts Center, south of Nordoff and west of Balboa.

10. Burbank

This quiet neighborhood is home to many Disney folks who take Halloween very seriously. The homeowners here tend to go all out with decorations worthy of a movie set, and a few even set up haunted houses and shows on their lawns. But most of all, the friendly folks and swell candy make for a wonderful Halloween. Where: Mariposa and Valleyheart.

11. Studio City 

This modest neighborhood, just west of Laurel Canyon, is the go-to spot for families living in the surrounding hills. It’s like one big block party featuring homes decorated to the hilt with pumpkins galore, haunted scenes, and witches’ brews. Residents say that more than 700 little candy-gobbling goblins routinely make their way down these streets, so it’s a lively and fun atmosphere. Begin your pilgrimage on Mound View and fan out to the surrounding streets. Where: Laurel Terrace and Mound View.

12. Toluca Lake

Toluca Lake is the stuff of legends when it comes to trick-or-treating. Supposedly, Bob Hope used to personally give out full-sized candy bars at his home in the tiny neighborhood just off the 134 Fwy. We can’t vouch for the story’s authenticity, but Toluca Lake has jumped on the idea that they do Halloween better than anyone else. It’s hard to argue with that once you realize the neighborhood is closed to traffic, filled with tricked-out homes (loads of industry folk live here and love to show off their prop and set design skills), and there’s plenty of candy. Where: Toluca Estates Dr. and Valley Spring Lane.

13. Sierra Madre

We love this spot for its small-town vibe and gorgeous craftsman-style homes that always understand the assignment regarding elaborate Halloween décor. Also, being in the foothills of the San Gabriel Mountains means lots of trees and a chance for kids to scuffle through crunchy leaves as they make their way down the streets—providing a much-needed dose of nostalgia to East Coast and Mid-West parents. Where: Baldwin and Alegria.

Where to Trick-or-Treat in Pasadena

14. Old Pasadena

While the festivities in Old Pasadena can’t be topped with all the shops handing out candy, costume contests, and more, check out these two neighborhoods for some good old-fashioned trick-or-treating. Families are out in full force, pulling little ones in wagons while older tykes charge safely from house to house, filling their bags. Where: Monterey Rd. between Windsor Pl., Diamond Ave., Marengo Ave. and Fair Oaks.

Visit-Worthy Halloween Haunts in Los Angeles

If you’re looking for a little appetizer before the main course on Halloween, may we interest you in a deliciously sinister yard haunt? These homes and locales are tricked out to the nines when it comes to spooktacular decor and homemade haunted house fun. Whether you drive by or stroll through them, they’re worth the trip. Make sure to check them out online beforehand to gauge each location’s scare level—some are fab for all ages, while others have freaky clowns…and we’ll just leave it at that.

1. Circus of Nightmares in Burbank

One word—clowns. Like waaaay too many of them. And man, do they have issues. This year’s Circus of Nightmares presents “Spectre,” which might be their creepiest event yet. Stop by this family-friendly(ish) display filled with evil clowns and other circus spookiness if you dare. Organizers promise to provide “extra frights” on weekend nights, so you’ve been warned.

Where: 113 S Brighton St., Burbank
When: Oct. 18-31 with live shows on 20, 21, 27, 28 and Halloween, Sunset-10 p.m.
Onlineinstagram.com/circus_of_nightmares

2. Rotten Apple 907 Haunt in Burbank

This private home Halloween attraction started as a child’s birthday party and has grown to become a destination that has drawn in thousands of visitors for the past 30 years. On average, over 4,000 people walk through the haunted house doors yearly! This year’s attraction, titled “Let’s Go to the Movies,” is bound to garner stark raving mad reviews. Admission is free, but donations are requested to support the Volunteers of Burbank Animal Shelter.

Where: 907 N. California St., Burbank
When: Oct. 21, 22, 28, 29, 31 from 7 p.m.-10 p.m.
Online: rottenapple907.com

3. Beverly Hills Witch House

If Real Housewitches of Beverly Hills was a thing, there’s only one place the gals would park their blinged-out broomsticks—the Spadena House, a.k.a. the “Beverly Hills Witch’s House.” The fabled Tudor-style house was built in 1920 as a set for silent films, including Hansel and Gretel. With its steepled brown rooftops, exposed stone, and ramshackle shutters, it doesn’t need decorations; it’s Halloween-ready year-round.

Where: 516 Walden Dr., Beverly Hills

4. Yard Haunts in the Venice Canals

This four-block area goes all out for Halloween with pumpkins and twinkle lights strung along the canals and even some boats sporting ghoulish displays. The narrow walkways get crowded come Halloween, so you may want to check it out during the week when there are fewer people.

How to Get to the Canals: Park in the parking lot at the end of Venice Blvd. and walk south on the boardwalk to 25th Ave. From there, you’ll see a sign and a walkway for the canals leading you into the area.

5. The Holiday House in Mar Vista

This mind-blowing Halloween walk-through display is run by multiple computers and control panels and features animatronics, atmosphere effects, and theater-grade light fixtures. Entry is free but donations are welcome. On Halloween, the house will be handing out candy.

Where: 3547 McLaughlin Ave.
When: Sept. 9 – Nov. 2, 6p.m. – 10 p.m. nightly
Online: marvistaeggcompany.com

6. Witch City in Santa Clarita

Double, double toil and trouble; fire burn and cauldron bubble. Witches abound at Santa Clarita’s Witch City yard display. This year’s show is more extensive and spookier than ever, with 13 custom witches, loads of animatronics, and creepy props.

Where: 25420 Via Jardin, Santa Clarita
When: Sept. – Nov. 1, 7 p.m. – 11 p.m. nightly
Online: witchcityhaunt.com

7. Sombras Cemetery in Santa Clarita

The residents of this forgotten cemetery are restless and disturbed. They could use a little company and are waiting just for you. (cue Vincent Price’s laugh here). This family-friendly graveyard display features lights, sound, moving props, and fog.

Where: 26041 Sombras Ct., Santa Clarita
When: Oct. 13, 14, 20, 21, 27, 28, 31. Weekdays and Sun. leading up to Halloween are lights only, while all other days feature full effects.

Make sure to capture all the fall fun—and share them with your family and friends near and far—with the Tinybeans app. The secure platform puts parents in total control of who sees and interacts with photos and videos of their kids.

Let your Halloween door decorations do the spooking for you this year

It’s October—Halloween has officially arrived! Now is the time to get your house ready with your favorite Halloween inflatables and pumpkins (be sure to use one of our pumpkin stencil designs), but what about Halloween door decorations and front porch Halloween decorations? From rustic door panels, crow silhouettes, and even a witch who has a wrong turn, we’ve got 11 easy ideas to make your front entrance shine this Halloween. When you’re done with the decor, plan a movie night by picking one of the best Halloween movies on Netflix, and don’t forget the movie night snacks!

Monster Halloween Door

Would you believe us if we told you there’s no need for a kit when it comes to re-creating this monster Halloween door decoration? Just lots of poster board. We are so inspired by @liz.morrow’s gorgeous setup. For another idea, check out our monster door tutorial.

Pretty in Pink Halloween Door

 

Who says Halloween door decorations have to be scary? This adorable setup gives us just as many thrills as something a little more spooky might.

Halloween Door Panels

Amazon

These rustic signs are made from fabric that is weather-resistant, washable, and easy to put away to use in future years.

Get the look here

Spider Web Halloween Door

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Ashley & Hallman via Jane Can

This spider web door from Jane Can is too cute to spook! Grab yarn, Styrofoam balls, pom poms, and pipe cleaners to make this large spindly web and multi-legged spiders. 

Get the look here.

 

Related: 14 Genius (Almost) Homemade Halloween Decorations

Shadowy Silhouette Halloween Door

Wayfair

This shadowy silhouette is an easy one to fix up. Plus, there's no adhesive, and you can use it year after year.

Get the look here.  

Mummy Halloween Door Decorations

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Carol Speake via Always The Holiday

Little ghosts will brave the walk to your front door when they see this welcoming mummy. A breeze to create with white streamers, black and yellow construction paper, and tape. 

Get the look here.

 

Witch Crash Halloween Door Wreath

Alison Faulkner via The Alison Show

Your little pretties will be bewitched by a crash-landing witch wreath! 

Get the look here.

Eyeball Door Wreath

Nicole & Candace via Crafty Sisters

All eyes are on the costumed guests! Add a little eerie to your door with an eyeball wreath like the one spotted over at Crafty Sisters

Get the look here

Related: DIY Halloween Decorations to Deck Your Haunted Halls

Moving Spiders

Delia Creates

Add a little creep factor with magnetic spiders (that you can move!) like these from Delia Creates.

Get the look here.  

Eek! Door Light

Settle this in next to a few spiders and cobwebs around your door, and it'll be a sweetly scary way to light up your front door on Halloween. 

Get the look here. 

Crows Flying Halloween Door

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Idle Wife

There’s something eerie about swirling crows (thank you, Alfred Hitchcock), and we love the look spotted over at the Idle Wife.

Get the look here

 

Whether you are planning a big Halloween party or just a festive night at home with the family, these Halloween songs for kids will get everyone into the groove.

Get yourself in the mood for ghosts and goblins with this not-too-scary list of Halloween songs for kids. Don your Halloween costumes and cue up your playlist with old favorites like “Ghostbusters,” “Monster Mash,” and “I Want Candy.” You just might find some new favorite tunes to get you in the Halloween spirit before you dive into those party games!

Halloween songs for young kids

 

The Great Pumpkin Waltz by Vince Guaraldi

This is a classic Halloween song for kids you'll want to add to your playlist for sure! 

Haunting Days of Halloween

By Lucy Kalantari & the Jazz Cats

Haunting days of Halloween
Nothing's quite as it may seem
All the tales you’ve been told
All the creatures you know
Have been walking with you hiding under your nose
But now now now now 
It’s time time time
To be free!

Witches' Brew by Hap Palmer

Dead leaves, seaweed, rotten eggs too
Stir them in my witches' brew
I got magic
Alakazamakazoo

Spider web, moldy bread, mucky mud too
Stir them in my witches' brew
I got magic
Alakazamakazoo

Halloween Rules by Bounce Patrol

Whatcha wanna be for Halloween
A ghosty or a goblin or the fairy queen
A superhero red and blue
A monkey or a mouse
It's up to you

Ding dong, trick-or-treat
Walking up and down the street
Halloween night is way too cool

Ding dong, trick-or-treat
Candy and make believe
Can you shout it out? 
Halloween Rules!

Related: Grinning Ghouls: 35 Halloween Jokes for Kids

Five Little Ghosts

Five little ghosts went out one night
Haunting, spooking what a fright
Mother ghost said, "Booooo, boo!"
But back to the house only four ghosts flew
One, two, three, four

Four little ghosts went out one night
Haunting, spooking what a fright
Mother ghost said, "Booooo, boo!"
But back to the house only three ghosts flew
One, two, three

Down by the Spooky Bay

Down by the bay
Where the pumpkins grow
Back to my home
I dare not go

For if I do
My mummy will say
Did you ever see a ghost
Eating some toast
Down by the bay

Down by the bay
Where the pumpkins grow
Back to my home
I dare not go

For if I do
My mummy will say
Did you ever see a vampire
Making a campfire
Down by the bay

Trick or Treat Nursery Rhyme

By Blippi

Every 31st of October there's a day
Where the people all come out onto the streets and like to play

All dressed up in costumes in all shapes and every size
It can be a little spooky but no need to close your eyes.

Five Little Pumpkins

Five little pumpkins sitting on a gate,
First one said "Oh my, it's getting late!"
Second one said "There are witches in the air,"
Third one said "but we don't care!"
Fourth one said "Let's run and run and run."
Fifth one said "I'm ready for some fun!"
Ooo ooo went the wind, and out went the lights,
And five little pumpkins rolled out of sight.

Halloween Sharks

By PinkFong

Baby shark, doo doo doo doo doo doo
Baby shark, doo doo doo doo doo doo
Baby shark, doo doo doo doo doo doo
Baby shark (BOO)

Halloween, doo doo doo doo doo doo
Halloween, doo doo doo doo doo doo
Halloween, doo doo doo doo doo doo
Halloween!

Skeleton Dance

Dem bones, dem bones, dem dry bones,
Dem bones, dem bones, dem dry bones,
Dem bones, dem bones, dem dry bones,
Now shake dem skeleton bones!

The toe bone's connected to the foot bone,
The foot bone's connected to the ankle bone,
The ankle bone's connected to the leg bone,
Now shake dem skeleton bones!

Monster Boogie

By Laurie Berkner

I'm the biggest monster that you've ever seen
My eyes are purple and my teeth are green
I'm big and I'm scary, you know what I mean
This is what I like to do

I do the monster boogie, the monster boogie
The monster boogie round the room
Everybody does the monster boogie
The monster boogie, the monster boogie

Choc-o-lot in My Pock-o-lot

By Laurie Berkner

When I walk, I walk a lot
And when I talk, I talk a lot
And when I’m not, what do I got?

Choc-o-lot! I got choc-o-lot!
I got choc-o-lot in my pock-o-lot!

I wear my shoes and my socks a lot
And when I paint, I wear a smock a lot
But when I’m not, what do I got?

Choc-o-lot! I got choc-o-lot!

The Purple People Eater

By Sheb Wooley

Well, I saw the thing comin' out of the sky
It had the one long horn, one big eye
I commenced to shakin' and I said "ooh-eee"
It looks like a purple eater to me

It was a one-eyed, one-horned, flyin' purple people eater
(One-eyed, one-horned, flyin' purple people eater)
A one-eyed, one-horned, flyin' purple people eater
Sure looks strange to me (one eye?)

Scooby Doo Theme Song

Scooby-Dooby-Doo, where are you?
We got some work to do now
Scooby-Dooby-Doo, where are you?
We need some help from you now

Halloween songs for older kids

 

Something's Brewing

By Purple Fox and the Heebie Jeebies

Something's brewing in the basement
That's where, the basement
Down, down, down, down, down
Something's spooky on the stairs
There's an empty chair
I think this house is haunted
Look around, look around
What's that sound? 
Don't look now
Is that a blob?
Or is it Bob?

You can find the whole Something's Brewing  . . . It's Halloween album here

Disney Halloween Songs

This medley of Disney Halloween songs includes "This Is Halloween," "Vive La Vi," "The Haunted Mansion Opening Title," "It is Halloween-lo-ween," "I put a spell on you," and "Grim, grinning Ghosts."

Haunted House

Oh no, here we go
Walking through the haunted house
Haunted house, haunted house
What do you see?
I see skeletons!

Oh no, here we go
Walking through the haunted house
Haunted house, haunted house
What do you see?
I see a witch!

Ghost In My House

By Jumpin' Jamie

My homework's missing
There's holes in the sheets
He pushed my sister
And blamed it on me
Always turning on and off the lights
And making noise so I can't sleep at night

There's a ghost in my house
And he's really annoying
And he needs to get a job
But no one will employ him

Monster Mash

By Bobby Pickett

I was working in the lab, late one night
When my eyes beheld an eerie sight
For my monster from his slab, began to rise
And suddenly to my surprise

He did the mash, he did the monster mash
The monster mash, it was a graveyard smash
He did the mash, it caught on in a flash
He did the mash, he did the monster mash

I Want Candy

By The Strangeloves

I know a girl who's tough but sweet
She's so fine, she can't be beat
She's got everything that I desire
Sets the summer sun on fire

I want candy
I want candy
I want candy
I want candy

Related: Halloween Party Games for Kids

Ghostbusters Theme Song

By Ray Parker, Jr. 

Ghostbusters!
If there's something strange
In your neighborhood
Who you gonna call?
Ghostbusters!

If there's something weird
And it don't look good
Who you gonna call?
Ghostbusters!

The Addams Family Theme Song

By Vic Mizzy

They're creepy and they're kooky
Mysterious and spooky
They're all together ooky
The Addams family
Their house is a museum
Where people come to see 'em
They really are a scream
The Addams family

This Is Halloween

From The Nightmare before Christmas

Boys and girls of every age
Wouldn't you like to see something strange?

Come with us and you will see
This, our town of Halloween

This is Halloween, this is Halloween
Pumpkins scream in the dead of night

Costume Party

By The Popups

Went to the closet to put on some costume clothes
and there it was just hanging right above my head
my sister grabbed the tie that grandpa used to wear
and I only had eyes on that lavender dress (really had my eye)

(It's a costume party!) maybe it's the way some things button in the back
some are really scratchy some are silken thread
it's ok to try things on to see how it feels
because clothes I suppose are just the way that you're dressed

Jump in the Line (Shake Senora)

By Harry Belafonte

Shake, shake, shake, Senora,
Shake your body line
Shake, shake, shake, Senora,
Shake it all the time
Work, work, work, Senora,
Work your body line
Work, work, work, Senora,
Work it all the time

Little Red Riding Hood

By Sam the Sham

Owoooooooo!
Who's that I see walkin' in these woods?
Why, it's Little Red Riding Hood
Hey there Little Red Riding Hood
You sure are looking good
You're everything a big bad wolf could want
Listen to me
Little Red Riding Hood
I don't think little big girls should
Go walking in these spooky old woods alone

Related: Underwear Jokes That Are Mostly Clean 

The Ninjas

By Barenaked Ladies

I woke up this morning
And everything was different
Something was strange in the air
I woke up this morning
And everything was different
I knew that the ninjas had been there

Skeletone

by Caspar Babypants (aka Chris Ballew from the '90s band Presidents of the United States of America)

On Halloween he can be seen dancing to and fro
play your bones, Skeletone
In the mist he will insist on a long solo
play your bones, Skeletone

These are the most spooktacular Halloween movies streaming right now 

Halloween is just around the corner, and it’s the perfect time to snuggle up on the couch for a family movie night. Luckily, every streaming platform has a plethora of movies to choose from that range from adorable Halloween treats to just spooky enough to be cool. Curl up with some movie snacks and check out the best family Halloween movies streaming now on Netflix, Amazon, Disney+, and Apple TV.

The movies are rated from 1 chill (👻) to 3 chills (👻👻👻) so you can decide what to introduce to your kids. One chill will slowly introduce your kids to some suspense, and three chills will have them acting cool but probably sneaking into your bed later. 

Best Halloween Movies Streaming Now on Netflix

Dreamworks Spooky Stories – 👻

Dreamworks Spooky Stories is a fun Halloween movie streaming now.
Dreamworks

This two-volume collection of animated shorts from Dreamworks features Shrek and friends on a sleepover in Lord Farquaad’s haunted castle (complete with “scary stories”). The second volume finds the Shrek gang spoofing the music video for “Thriller” along with B.O.B. and pals battling zombie carrots.

Ivy + Bean: The Ghost That Had to Go – 👻

When Ivy discovers the school bathroom is haunted, Bean helps her harness her witchlike powers. With the help of their classmates, Ivy and Bean orchestrate a ritual that will free the ghosts, save the school, and mess up Nancy’s day. 

Spookley the Square Pumpkin – 👻

Follow a scarecrow and spider trio as they help their friend Spookley the Square Pumpkin with his worries and anxieties.

Super Monsters Save Halloween – 👻

The group of monster friends uses their superpowers to get their neighbors into the Halloween spirit. 

Captain Underpants Hack-O-Ween – 👻

When Melvin makes Halloween illegal, Harold and George create their own spooky holiday. 

The Curse of Bridge Hollow – 👻👻

The Curse of Bridge Hollow
Netflix

When a big city kid moves to the quaint, but Halloween-obsessed town of Bridge Hollow, she mistakenly releases “Stingy Jack,” an ancient and mischievous spirit whose been trapped in her house for years. To get the spirit back to where he belongs, she has to team up with the one guy who thinks spirits and mystical forces are silly—her dad.

Chickenhare and the Hamster of Darkness – 👻👻

Three friends team up to search for a powerful artifact before it gets into the wrong hands.

Wallace & Gromit: The Curse of the Were-Rabbit – 👻👻

Wallace and his dog, Gromit, try to unravel the mystery of who is behind the destruction of all the gardens in their town. 

Hotel Transylvania 2 – 👻👻

Drac and his pals have to fight off a real villainous threat when Mavis considers uprooting her young son and living in the human world. 

Erax – 👻👻👻

In this spooky short film, Auntie Opal and her tween niece find themselves facing off with monstrous creatures as they leap forth from a magical storybook. 

Related: 15 Magical Witch Movies to Watch with Your Kids This Season

Best Halloween Movies Available Now on Disney+

The Nightmare Before Christmas – 👻

The Nightmare Before Christmas is one of the best Halloween movies streaming now.
Walt Disney Pictures

In this classic Tim Burton stop-motion animated film, the Pumpkin King of Halloween nearly destroys Christmas when he decides he’d like to play the part of “Sandy Claws” this year.

Mickey and Friends Trick or Treats👻

This new animated stop-motion Halloween special features Mickey and the gang as they are transformed by a spell put on them by a witch that turns them into the costumes they’re wearing.

Coming to Disney+ Oct. 2.

Coco – 👻

A young musician named Miguel must find his way back home before he is trapped forever in the magical realm where his ancestors live. 

Toy Story of Terror – 👻

The Toy Story gang is on a road trip when they find themselves on a perilous journey filled with thrills.

Muppets’ Haunted Mansion – 👻

Gonzo and Pepe take on the challenge of spending the night in the scariest place on earth, a haunted house filled with grim-grinning ghosts who look a lot like the rest of his Muppet pals.

Halloweentown – 👻👻

A young girl named Marie discovers she is a witch on her 13th birthday and must learn how to use her broomstick to fight an evil force threatening to take over Halloweentown.

Hocus Pocus – 👻👻

Hocus Pocus on Disney+
Walt Disney Pictures

This cult classic stars Sarah Jessica Parker and Bette Midler as the Sanderson Sisters, a trio of 300-year-old witches summoned back to create mischief in Salem on Halloween night.

Hocus Pocus 2 – 👻👻

The Sanderson Sisters are back in this years-in-the-making sequel that finds the witches back again for revenge in this Halloween movie streaming now on Disney+

Haunted Mansion – 👻👻👻

This frighteningly fun film, based on the beloved theme park attraction, follows the story of a woman who hires paranormal experts to rid her home of its 999 happy haunts.

Coming to Disney+ Oct. 4.

The Simpsons: Treehouse of Horror Collection – 👻👻👻

With 34 seasons under its belt, America’s favorite animated family has plenty of Halloween-themed specials in this collection to keep you entertained. There are two brand new Treehouse of Horror specials for the first time this year.

Season 34 is coming to Disney+ Oct. 11.

Goosebumps – 👻👻👻

This brand new 10-part series based on the R.L Stine books follows a group of five high schooler friends as they investigate the tragic passing three decades earlier of a teen named Harold Biddle. Coming to Disney+ Oct. 13.

Related: 35 Not-So-Scary Halloween Movies for Kids

Best Halloween Movies Streaming on Apple TV

It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown – 👻

It's the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown is one of the best Halloween movies ever.
Warner Bros.

It wouldn’t quite be Halloween without a viewing of this classic short starring Charlie Brown and the Peanuts gang as they celebrate with trick-or-treating and pumpkin patch visits.

Available on Apple TV+.

Shape Island: Creepy Cave Crawl – 👻

The popular series based on the Shapes picture books written by Mac Barnett and illustrated by Jon Klassen is back with a brand new Halloween special that finds Circle and Square celebrating Halloween on their own after Triangle plays a prank on them.

Coming to Apple TV+ Oct. 20.

CURSES! – 👻👻

When a generations-long family curse turns Alex Vanderhouven to stone, it’s up to his two kids, Pandora and Russ, and his wife, Sky, to return artifacts stolen by their ancestors to their rightful homes to finally lift the curse for good. This new animated series offers a spooky, fun adventure.

Coming to Apple TV+ Oct. 27.

Wolfwalkers – 👻👻

A young hunter befriends a free-spirited girl from a tribe that transforms into wolves each night. She must face her fears to save her new friend and her tribe.

Monster Zone👻👻

Two top-of-the-class rivals must work together when they accidentally open a portal to a world of monsters at their high school.

Monster House – 👻👻

Three friends discover that their neighbor’s house is actually a live monster, and it’s up to them to save their neighborhood.

Paranorman – 👻👻

An unusual young boy is the only one who can save his town from the zombies and ghosts that threaten it thanks to an ancient curse.

Coraline – 👻👻👻

A secret doorway opens a whole new world of spooky fantasy for a young girl named Coraline. Unfortunately, all is not what it seems, and she must work to escape and find her way back home.

Beetlejuice – 👻👻👻

A recently deceased couple hires a bio-exorcist to scare away the human family that has taken over their home.

Related: 13 Scary Flicks for Your Budding Horror Movie Fan

Best Halloween Movies Available on Amazon

Scooby-Doo and Krypto, Too! – 👻

Scooby Doo and Krypto Too is a new Halloween movie streaming on Amazon Prime
Warner Bros.

Scooby and the gang team up with Krypto for this adventure. Together they must solve the case of a mysterious phantom connected with the disappearance of the Justice League.

If You Give a Mouse a Pumpkin – 👻

The curious little mouse is at it again. This time, his adventure starts with a pumpkin and ends with plenty of Halloween fun.

Blippi’s Spooky Spells Halloween – 👻

Blippi sets out to have the best Halloween ever in this special, perfect for the preschool crowd.

The Little Vampire – 👻

A young boy traveling with his family must help save his new vampire friend from a vampire hunter. 

Hotel Transylvania: Transformania – 👻👻

In the newest installment of the film series, Drac and his monster buddies are transformed into humans while Johnny becomes a monster.

The Addams Family – 👻👻

They’re creepy, kooky, and altogether spooky and your kids will love them in this animated film and its sequel.

Spooky House – 👻👻

A young orphan named Max and his friends escape a gang of bullies only to find themselves stuck in an old mansion filled with tricks and a reclusive magician.

The Spiderwick Chronicles – 👻👻👻

Based on the best-selling book series. Strange occurrences begin to happen to the Grace family when they move into an old house. When young Jared Grace discovers a secret book, a fantastical world of creatures comes to life.

Goosebumps – 👻👻👻

Based on the iconic book series by R.L. Stine, the movie stars Jack Black as the author himself trying to chase down the creatures from his own books.

Ready to find your perfect pumpkin? Check out these authentic spots for you and your family to go pumpkin picking near NYC this season.

Looking to add some pumpkin spice to your life? We found the best farms for pumpkin picking near NYC where the pumpkin patches are poppin’. The spots below offer experiences of all kinds, from harvest festivals with fall fun and games, to chill spots offering fall foliage, baked goods, and maybe even a hayride. (Many also serve as a place to go apple-picking if you’re looking to double up.) Don’t miss these exciting fall pumpkin patch-related events!

Pumpkin Patches in New York City

Decker Farm at Historic Richmond Town

Staten Island’s Decker Farm dates to the early 1800s, and admission includes guided tours from historical reenactors. Weekends in October bring fall fun with pumpkin picking, a hay maze, and activities for kids.

You can also find photo ops with fall decorations (and share them with the #DeckerFarm hashtag!), take an old-fashioned tractor-towed hayride, and test out their state-of-the-art pumpkin chucking bungee device to see how far you can launch your pumpkin at $5 per three chunks.

Make sure to leave some time to indulge in delicious fall treats like spiced donuts, pumpkin pie, cider, and pumpkin spice coffee.

Dates: Sep. 30-Oct. 29
435 Richmond Hill Rd.
Staten Island
Online: historicrichmondtown.org

Queens County Farm Museum

You won’t believe how close you are to home at the Queens County Farm Museum. Dating back to 1697, the site is New York City’s largest remaining tract of undisturbed farmland.

Starting September 15, the farm’s fields are filled with pumpkin patches of gourds to pick and buy. The Amazing Maize Maze returns for those wishing to get lost in NYC’s only corn maze. This three-acre living maze challenges participants to find clues, solve puzzles, and make their way to Victory Bridge for a birds-eye view of this year’s maze design. Hayrides are offered on the weekends, as well.

You can catch plenty of events throughout the harvest season: Don’t miss Halloween on the Farm, the harvest dance celebration, the maze by moonlight, and more fun events.

Dates: Sep. 15-Oct. 28
73-50 Little Neck Pkwy
Queens
Online: queensfarm.org

Pumpkin Patches on Long Island

Schmitt’s Family Farm

Head to Long Island’s Schmitt’s Family Farm farm to enjoy the farm’s annual Fall Festival, featuring a pumpkin patch, free hayrides, and an eight-acre corn maze. This year’s maze has a whimsical alien theme, and is sure to be a favorite among the younger crowd!

You’ll also find Long Island’s largest straw pyramid (for climbing), a playground for tots, farm animals and pony rides, mini golf, and even the opportunity to walk through the haunted house in the daytime—a semi-scary experience more appropriate for little ones than the evening’s full-on fright fest.

Dates: Sep. 30-Oct. 30
26 Pinelawn Rd.
Melville, NY
Online: schmittfarms.com

Lewin Farms

Head to Lewin to pick pumpkins and gourds from late September through late October (you can call ahead to see what’s available). The weekend and holiday corn maze here is the perfect size to wander around, spanning over four acres and averaging around 20 minutes to complete. There are even numbered checkpoints along the route to help you keep moving in the right general direction.

Make sure to stop by the farm stand for roasted corn, ice cream made for the farm’s own fruits and berries, and seasonal beer selections like blueberry and pumpkin ales for the adults.

Dates: September and October
812 Sound Ave.
Calverton, NY
Online: lewinfarm.com

Hank’s Pumpkintown

Pick straight from the vine at Hank’s Pumpkintown, whether you’re looking for a small decoration or the perfect Jack-O-Lantern gourd. Kids can mine for gemstones, fossils, arrowheads, and seashells, go on wagon, cow, and tractor train rides, go down giant slides, hang out in playgrounds, play lawn games, and more.

Hank’s has a variety of mazes to explore! This year’s main corn maze is country music and Reba-themed maze, but parents of younger kids will want to check out the fan-favorite spooky pumpkin maze, a 15-minute experience that tells the story of Spookley the square pumpkin. Older kids may prefer the one-hour interactive maze that plays almost like a color-based escape game.

Stop by the Market for fall treats like hand-dipped candy and caramel apples, apple cider slushies, and freshly baked pies. You can also buy colorful mums, Montauk daisies, fall decor, and more. And don’t miss out on the delectable corn treats at the Corn Shed!

Good to know: Hank’s has free off-road parking at the west end of the property.

Dates: Sep. 16-Oct. 31
240 Montauk Hwy.
Water Mill
Online: hankspumpkintown.com

Pumpkin Patches in New York State

Soons Orchard

At Soons Orchard, take a wagon ride up to the pumpkin patch for the full weekend pumpkin-picking experience—you can cut your pumpkin off the vine here, too. (It’s recommended that you bring your own shears.) If you prefer not to pick your own, the farm offers a variety of pre-picked pumpkins, squash, gourds, corn stalks, mums, and other fall-season staples.

Well-behaved pets are welcome (though they’re not allowed in the picking areas or orchard)—and be on the lookout for Hudson, the friendly farm dog.

After you hit the pumpkin patch, take an adult break and check out Soons’ tasting room featuring top-rated New York State wine, beer, and hard cider.

Note that credit cards are accepted but there’s a minimum of $10.

Dates: Opens Sep. 23
23 Soons Cir.
New Hampton
Online: soonsorchards.com

Dykeman Farm

This Dutchess County, fourth-generation farm grows 70 varieties of pumpkins, and there are always free hayrides on weekends and free parking. While there’s no apple picking this year, the farm still has plenty to keep you occupied for a full day of fall fun. Find winter squashes, buy autumn decorations, or grab a bite from the farm store.

No reservations are required for pumpkin picking this year, and kids will have a blast at the kid zone. Free parking and free hayrides are the icing on the autumnal cake!

Dates: Sep. 23-Oct. 29
31 Dykeman Ln.
Pawling
Online: dykemanfarm.com

Outhouse Orchards

What began as a dairy farm in the 1800s is now a family-owned and operated apple farm in the Hudson Valley. “Home of the Happy Apple,” Outhouse Orchards invites you to pick both pumpkins in their pumpkin patch and apples, offers hayrides through its orchards, and a corn maze with educational clues.

There’s a wide selection of pumpkins, gourds, and Halloween decorations, and the farm stand is stocked with all kinds of farm-fresh goodness, including apple cider doughnuts, produce, maple syrup, and more.

Meander through the aliens-themed corn maze as you uncover clues, solve puzzles, and learn about farming.

Then, take a ride on the Big Green Tractors for a 15-minute scenic (though occasionally bumpy) tour, complete with stunning views of the farm and the nature that surrounds it.

Dates: September and October
139 Hardscrabble Rd.
North Salem
Online: outhouseorchardsny.com

Fishkill Farms

If you’re looking for a lower-key, more ecologically conscious pumpkin-picking experience, check out Fishkill Farms in the Hudson Valley. Owned by the same family for more than 100 years, the picturesque 200-acre farm utilizes sustainable farming practices whenever possible, avoids synthetic pesticides, and even grows a portion of its apple acreage organically.

Weekends in September bring Fall Harvest Festivals with live music, wagon rides, and hard cider sipping at the Treasury Cider Bar.

The farm offers over 100 apple varieties, many of which are eco-certified or organic. Pumpkin picking begins in late September. Tickets are required for pick-your-own, wagon rides, and corn maze access.

When you dive into the corn maze, you can be sure of two things: The 1-acre maze is grown and cut by the farmers, not outsourced, and your money is going to a good place. That’s because 30% of each maze ticket goes to a different charity each week (check the website to see what the week’s charity pick is).

Dates: Sep. 9-Oct. 29
9 Fishkill Farm Rd.
Hopewell JCT
Online: fishkillfarms.com

Barton Orchards

The fall season is in full swing at Barton Orchards, starting with the Harvest Festival weekend to kick off the season and culminating in a “Tract or Treat Weekend” of spooky fun on the farm. Barton is a 175-acre apple orchard in Poughquag, making it a top destination for families. Visit in the fall for pick-your-own apples and pumpkins, a petting zoo with baby goats, a play area/small amusement park for the kiddos, hay rides, and even a dog park for the children of the four-legged variety. Grab a local craft beer, cider, or glass of wine, and take in the beautiful scenery as the little ones play.

The harvest festival throws some more attractions into the mix, including live music, a magic show, a “reptile encounter,” pig races, and a giant mega slide in the farm’s Fun Park. Don’t miss out on this year’s corn maze, themed around rock & roll!

Dates: Aug. 12-Nov. 4
63 Apple Tree Ln.
Poughquag
Online: bartonorchards.com

Wright Family Farm

The Wright Family Farm is located in scenic Warwick, New York, just an hour north of New York City. This family-run farm in Orange County offers a variety of autumn activities with an old-fashioned farm theme. Besides the pumpkin patch and corn maze, this farm is also home to two bridges that offer beautiful views, pedal carts, a cow train, a human-sized hamster wheel, pumpkin bowling, pony rides, and more.

The farm food truck sells its signature hamburger, made from beef produced on the farm, as well as other kid favs like mac and cheese, chicken tenders, and hot dogs.

Dates: Sep. 16-Oct. 29
329 Kings Hwy.
Warwick
Online: wrightfamilyfarm.com

Pumpkin Patches in New Jersey

Secor Farms

Secor Farms offers traditional fall activities like pumpkin patches, hayrides, a corn maze, mini hay maze for little ones, and a petting zoo. They also decorate the farm with face cut-outs, including a “How Tall This Fall” photo-op that’s sure to become a yearly tradition.

The farm is also decorated with giant hay bale spiders, and they sell a huge selection of mums, plants, and Halloween decorations to bring a little bit of the farm back home.

Note that weekdays are walk-in only, with no reservations available while weekends require advanced reservations.

Dates: Sep. 16-Oct. 31
85 Airmont Ave.
Mahwah, NJ
Online: secorfarms.com

Hillview Farm

This quiet, not crowded farm is the real deal, and pumpkin picking begins when you hop a tractor up to the pumpkin patch and apple orchard. Weekends only and you should call ahead.

This family-owned farm has been around for almost 150 years and doesn’t disappoint- check out their farm market on your way out for fresh produce, eggs, cider, homemade pies, and festive gifts.

Dates: September and October
223 Meyersville Rd.
Gillette, NJ
Online: hillview-farms.com

Alstede Farms

When you get your ticket for pumpkin picking at Alstede Farms, you’re also getting access to tons of farm activities, including scenic hay wagon rides, a giant hay pyramid, and the farm’s mazes and trails. Get lost in the massive corn maze (which features educational moments about the year’s theme) or opt for a real challenge with the Harvest Moon Hayride. This activity will have you traversing the corn maze by flashlight, enjoying live entertainment, campfires, the farm’s apple cider, and more.

Of course, you can also pay the animals a visit or catch a live musical performance on the weekends and holidays. Fancy a pumpkin pancake breakfast or brunch? Alstede Farms serves up an all-you-can-eat buffet on October 29!

Dates: September and October
1 Alstede Farms Ln.
Chester, NJ
Online: alstedefarms.com

Ort Farms

Ort Farms is a northern New Jersey grower that really brings it in the fall. A family farm that’s been around for a century, Ort offers pumpkin picking (off the vine if you like), apple picking (until September 30), hayrides, pony rides, farm animals, a mini tractor play set, apple canons, a hay pyramid, and even Monster Truck rides.

This farm is pet friendly, though animals aren’t allowed in the pick-your-own areas due to food safety regulations. (But you can bring them pumpkin picking with you!)

Say goodbye to October on the last weekend of the month with the fun Boo Bash. Come in your costumes and take part in a parade, make crafts, and go trick or treating on the farm. Adults can get some ice-cold beer at the event, courtesy of Jersey Girl Brewing.

Dates: Through Oct. 31
25 Bartley Rd.
Long Valley, NJ
Online: ortfarms.com

Heaven Hill Farm

Heaven Hill Farm in Vernon is a family favorite for many, and there are plenty of reasons to visit. Come for the pumpkins, and stay for over 35 tot-friendly activities like farm animal meet and greets, an alien invasion-themed corn maze, live entertainment, 12 carnival rides (not available on Fridays), gem mining, and many more!

For a bit of a thrill, check out the Canine Stars Stunt Dog Show and cheer on your favorite porker in the pig racing events. The parents in the group can partake in wine tasting or check out the paintball range on-site.

The farm market is full of farm-fresh goodies. from honey and cheese to apple cider donuts, fall decor, kettle corn, and beyond. Don’t miss out on the Halloween event on October 29, and keep an eye out for some amazingly photogenic spots during your visit.

Dates: Sep. 16-Nov. 5
451 NJ-94
Vernon Township, NJ
Online: heavenhillfarm.com

Pumpkin Patches in Connecticut

Harris Hill Farm

It’s only open to the public on October weekends, but Connecticut’s Harris Hill Farm, located in the hills of Litchfield County is worth the trip if you’re in the area. Pick pumpkins in a thoroughly bucolic setting complete with weathered red barn and enjoy the view of the rolling hills in all their autumnal glory. The farm has a large selection of gourds, large pumpkins, white and pink pumpkins, and squash.

Plus, wander through their corn maze to learn facts about goats!

Dates: September and October
106 Ridge Rd.
New Milford, CT
Online: harrishillfarm.com

Jones Family Farms’ Pumpkinseed Hill Farm

Celebrate the harvest season at this pumpkin patch, surrounded by the spectacular New England fall foliage. Stop by for hayrides, fall flowers, friendly animals, apples, and pumpkins starting in late September.

The farm celebrates nature through art. Explore colorful displays, a miniature corn maze with vibrant paintings, and plenty of photo ops among the natural and artistic displays. The farm has plenty of other unique offerings like hiking through gorgeous family-friendly trails and learning different methods of cooking the pumpkins you bring home.

An online reservation is strongly encouraged, but the reservation system is very flexible, allowing you to change your date and time if something comes up.

Dates: Sep. 23-October
120 Beardsley Road
Shelton, CT
Online: jonesfamilyfarms.com

Silverman’s Farm

Silverman’s Farm has been in the business for over 100 years and is a great spot for both apple and pumpkin picking. There are over 20 types of gourds, pumpkins, and squash, as well as 20 apple varieties to pick from—which means plenty of flavors and ciders to go around. Head over on a weekend for live entertainment, food vendors, face painting for the kiddos, and a massive cereal bowl where kids (and adults!) can explore tunnels of hay bales and make “corn angels.”

There’s also a petting zoo, decor options like scarecrows and colorful mums, scenic tractor rides, and a Country Market fully stocked with local veggies, dairy products, jams, and beyond.

Best of all, throughout October if you can guess the weight of your pumpkin within 2 oz., you get it for free!

Dates: September and October
451 Sport Hill Rd.
Easton, CT
Online: silvermansfarm.com

Make sure to capture all the fall fun—and share them with your family and friends near and far—with the Tinybeans app. The secure platform puts parents in total control of who sees and interacts with photos and videos of their kids.