At 19 months old, my daughter has the appetite of a fully grown adult. She eagerly downs adult-sized plates of nutritious foods without complaint. How? I owe it all to baby-led weaning (also known as BLW). My husband and I don’t make a habit of spoon-feeding our child, and we’ve never bought baby food. From the beginning, she’s eaten what we eat—all on her own—within reason. Before I get into baby-led weaning and why I think it’s the savior of picky eaters everywhere, let me stress that BLW is a decision you should make after talking with your pediatrician. It may or may not be a suitable introduction to solid foods for your child.

So what exactly is baby-led weaning?

Typically babies start eating solid foods around 4-6 months by being spoon-fed purees. Slowly, they build up to chunkier foods until they graduate to solids. Babies learn to swallow food first and chew later.

With baby-led weaning, babies start no earlier than six months with soft solid foods cut into finger-length spears. Think watermelon, avocado, bananas, cooked veggies, or stewed meat.

Babies are allowed to experiment—i.e., play—with what they eat. Manipulating food teaches them how to deal with different tastes and textures, and how to bite or mash food into swallowable pieces.

Is BLW healthy?

Yes! The onus is on families eating well-balanced meals and sharing those meals with their children.

There are a few things to keep in mind though:

  1. Foods need to be low in salt and sugar, and as with any infant under one, no honey.
  2. While it can take babies a while—up to a few weeks—to swallow anything, they receive the nutrients they need via formula or breastmilk.
  3. Parents can incorporate a mix of BLW and purees, but we opted to stick to a strict BLW and breastmilk diet.

Is baby-led weaning dangerous?

BLW is a perfectly safe method of getting your child started on solid foods. A 2016 study by the American Academy of Pediatrics determined that BLW babies are at no higher risk of choking than spoon-fed babies. Technically, you can choke at any time in your life while eating just about anything (and there’s a big difference between choking and gagging, which babies do a lot).

My husband and I took an online infant safety class before our daughter’s first meal. But that’s a safe move regardless of how you choose to feed your child.

Now I don’t want to get into the ins and outs of BLW—you can read up on it here— but I want you to know it’s been one of our favorite parenting decisions.

Why was BLW one of our best decisions ever?

It’s made our daughter more independent. From day one BLW babies eat on their own. The method asks that you don’t spoon-feed your child—ever. (Though some people are more strict than others and we’ve had a few occasions where we’ve been more lenient).

BLW babies are expected to be in charge of their food journey. My daughter chooses what she wants to eat and how much of it—within the options that are in front of her. The implications of that set kids up for a life-long positive relationship with food. If she doesn’t want to eat that much one day? Fine. She’ll more than make up for it the next day.

Today, our friends, family, and her daycare teacher repeatedly tell us how good of an eater she is. And it’s true—we’ve avoided a picky eater which we think is due to her being in control of what she eats from the beginning.  My child is happily entertained with whatever you place in front of her. That means veggies, fruit, seafood—you name it.

I think that is because BLW kids are allowed (and encouraged) to experience their food. Because they’re eating on their own, it gives babies a chance to pick up their food, mash it, touch it, look at it, and eventually eat it.

Related: 6 Common Mistakes Parents Make When Starting Solids

What this encourages (aside from making a mess) is for kids to play with different textures, shapes, tastes, and colors.

But it also allows kids to experience food in the same form we eat it as adults. I don’t eat pureed carrots, or meat, or any mixture thereof. But I do eat solid carrots and meats. BLW allows kids to observe, touch, and taste whole foods the way they will encounter them as they get older.

Fussy eaters often complain about the differences in texture or taste. BLW nips that in the bud by having babies encounter those differences from the get-go.

The Result? We Have Stress-Free Meal Times

Because my daughter devours whatever we give her and because we don’t have to spoon-feed her, mealtimes are family time. There’s no need to feed the baby first and then eat once she’s gone to bed. The three of us get to enjoy our meals at the same time. And as babies learn through observation, BLW has helped our daughter be a part of a daily, communal family dinner.

The Unexpected Part? It Saves Time & Money

Here are the oh-so-fantastic list of things that we appreciate now:

  • No extra meal prep
  • No need to bring food when we eat out
  • No need to buy baby food

To a certain extent, it lets us live like we don’t have a baby. We enjoy our meals, we still eat out, and we eat a healthy, grown-up diet.

I Can’t Imagine Doing It Any Other Way

BLW has made my daughter into the little devourer of food that she is. I’m proud to see her happily munching away at breakfast, lunch, and dinner. I’m relieved we can take her virtually anywhere and know she’ll be fine. But my favorite part? Sitting down as a family to a very normal, calm meal.

BLW has changed my whole outlook on getting kids started eating. It boosters a love for a healthy, varied diet while getting kids acquainted with food on their own terms.

Yes, it’s a personal decision, but I’m proud to say baby-led weaning has been a winning choice for our family.

I'm a New Yorker, married to a Texan, living in Spain, and enjoying the mash of cultures that keep us laughing every day. We have a too-smart-for-her-own-good toddler who's already more bilingual than we are. I'm also a teacher and creator of Bilingually Yours, a blog for Spanish teachers and bilingual families.

It’s no secret that a mobile baby is a busy baby, and a busy baby is a happy baby. But if the crawling, creeping and scooting hasn’t yet begun, there are still plenty of ways to engage with your little one—and have a little fun yourself. Here are our favorite ideas for infant games you can play with your stationary sweetie.

1. Bubble Blowout

Something about the rainbow swirls and fanciful movements are endlessly alluring for babies and grown-ups alike. An inexpensive bottle of bubbles—or the homemade variety, if you prefer—will keep your mini-me fixated and, depending on age, may allow your child to exercise hand-eye coordination, too, as he tries to grasp at the floating orbs.

2. Song Sesh

There are plenty of studies showing that babies recognize and respond to human voices—especially their mama—but did you know that researchers have found that babies can hear and remember music even while in the womb? And that they enjoy concerts as much as their parents? It’s no surprise, then, that songs (especially when sung by mom!) are a sure thing when it comes to entertaining your wee one.

While lullabies are great for setting the mood for bedtime, more upbeat tempos are better at keeping baby amused during wakeful hours. To really capture your little one’s attention, choose interactive songs that include motions or silly sounds. (Think: sneezing, animal sounds, or surprise responses, like “peek-a-boo!”) Make up the lyrics as you go, or stick with tried-and-true classics like “Wheels on the Bus” or “Itsy Bitsy Spider.”

Related: Your Month-By-Month Guide to Activities During Baby’s First Year

3. Fancy Footwork

Babies who haven’t mastered the art of being on the move just yet still do plenty of kicking and squirming. Keep your squirmy worm endlessly entertained by tying a helium balloon to their foot. Your baby will love watching the colorful balloon bounce above them in response to their movements, and you’ll love watching this newfound excitement.

photo: regina_zulauf via Pixabay 

4. Head Outdoors

Let’s be real. There’s only so much excitement that can happen indoors. A simple change of scenery can do wonders in keeping a non-mobile baby entertained, and getting outside your usual four walls into the fresh air and sunshine can soothe even the crankiest infant. Get in a few minutes of tummy time by positioning baby on the edge of a blanket to explore the grass. Or simply lay back together and watch the leaves swaying peacefully in the wind or the clouds floating by.

5. Master Mimicry

While the jury is still out on how early babies can mimic adult gestures, expressions, and sounds, what we do know is that infants benefit from intentional face-to-face interaction at every age. Bond with your baby by focusing on maintaining eye-to-eye contact (that means putting that distracting smartphone aside!) and exchanging facial expressions, such as sticking out your tongue, wrinkling your nose, or showing various emotions, from surprise to sadness. These interactions will not only result in cognitive benefits for baby, but you’ll both enjoy the intentional one-on-one time.

Related: 10 Games to Encourage Baby’s First Words

6. Picture Perfect

If you’ve had your fill of reading Brown Bear, Brown Bear for the day, give baby a mini art tour through your own home. Carry baby around and show them the photographs or paintings that grace your walls. If you have family pictures or portraits, tell baby about the people in the photo. If abstract art is more your thing, point out the colors and shapes.

7. Hands On

There’s a reason why simple games like “This Little Piggie” elicit baby smiles and giggles over and over again. Combining the cadence of rhymes with physical interaction is a guaranteed win when it comes to keeping little ones amused. Our favorites include actions that point to baby’s body parts (eyes, nose, fingers, feet, tummy), and offer a gentle tickle where appropriate. If you need a refresher course on rhymes, a simple Google search for “action rhymes for babies” will offer lots of inspiration.

Stroller car seat combos are the ultimate 2-in-1 deal

Head to a baby gear shop and you’re guaranteed to find parents-to-be staring wide-eyed at all the stroller and car seat options. Even the most seasoned among us can be completely thrown off by the unbelievable number of choices in both aisles. This goes far beyond just color choices (although we agree that’s also important). There are some basic safety standards every stroller and car seat has to include, of course, but aside from those, the choices can feel endless. Allow us to introduce (or re-introduce) you to the stroller car seat combo that’ll make thing at least 50% easier.

Here’s a pro tip: opt for a travel system. This hero stroller + car seat combo is easy—well, easier—and means you just have to make one decision. Plus, buying a travel system is usually more affordable, which is always a bonus. When you’re buying the stroller and car seat together, you also don’t have to stress about compatibility or adaptors. Now, just because travel systems are easier, we never promised you don’t have any decisions to make. But, as always, we’re here to help.

Chicco Bravo Trio

Chicco USA

The Bravo Trio from Chicco is seriously popular, so if you've been boning up on your travel systems, there's a good chance you've already seen this one. So we'll make it easy on you: the Bravo Trio system is a complete winner. It's an A-frame carrier, travel system, and toddler stroller—this one grows with your kiddo, newborn to toddler (that's a major bonus). Oh, and it's a one-handed operation, moms. You won't be fighting with it in the parking lot, and it's self-standing and compact. Win, win, win. Chicco Bravo Trio ($449.99)—Buy Here!

Chicco Corso Travel System

Chicco USA

Looking for years of easy breezy travel? The Corso's got you covered. It comes with four adaptable parent-facing and forward-facing modes—four. And if you're into a little bit of luxury, multi-position reclining seat, adjustable footrest, zip-extend canopy with mesh panel, leatherette details, and lots of extra storage make the Corso one sleek stroller. There's even upgrade options, which make for a collection of 3 different Corso models. Corso Chicco ($549.99—$749.99)—Buy Here!

Chicco Activ3 Jogging Stroller Travel System

Chicco USA

Whether you're a serious jogger or just prefer a 3-wheel stroller model, the Activ3 system is a solid choice. It's super lightweight and easy to maneuver, plus the one-handed operation lets you fold it and lay it flat in the trunk without the struggle. Chicco Activ3 ($579.99)—Buy Here!

The Peg Perego Booklet

Peg Perego

The Booklet from Peg Perego is a parent favorite, thanks to its multi-position backrest, adjustable footrest, large basket ,and adjustable handlebars. It folds compactly and sits upright, for easy storage in small homes, closets, and cars. In this travel system, it's paired with the Primo Viaggio 4-35 car seat. The car seat base includes a built-in anti-rebound bar to maintain stability in case of a collision. The Peg Perego Booklet ($583.99+)—Buy Here!

UPPAbaby Vista Travel System

UPPAbaby Vista stroller & Mesa car seat travel system
UPPAbaby

This combo, featuring the Vista V2 stroller and Mesa car seat, is pricier than the others on this list but does come with amazing extras like a bassinet, rain cover, bug net, and more. The biggest bonus? It can be adapted to carry three kids in different ages and stages. If you have another little one or are planning to expand your family soon, this is a smart investment. UPPAbaby Vista Travel System ($1299.98)—Buy Here!

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This popular event is back just in time for spring cleaning

Is it time to upgrade your kiddo’s car seat? With safety regulations changing to encourage parents to keep their children rear-facing as long as possible, you may find yourself wanting to snag a new car seat for the long haul. Luckily, it’s time for the bi-annual Target car seat trade-in event!

From April 16-29, shoppers can drop off their old car seats in designated drop-off boxes located near Guest Services at most Target stores (in-store drop-offs only!). In exchange, you’ll get a coupon to use through the Target app or target.com/circle for 20% off one new car seat, stroller, or select baby gear, such as play yards, high chairs, swings, rockers and bouncers that can be used both in-store and online.

Target car seat trade in event
Target

 

Target will accept and recycle all types of car seats, including infant seats, convertible seats, car seat bases, harness or booster car seats, and even car seats that are expired or damaged. Not only do you get a great deal on a new item, but you’re also helping to create less waste as Target’s partner, Waste Management, will recycle materials from your old car seats.

Additionally, you’ll be ensuring that other parents are not buying second-hand car seats that could be well past their expiration date or damaged from an accident from online marketplaces.

Since the program began in 2016, over 2.19 million car seats and 32.9 million pounds of car seat materials would otherwise end up in a landfill. The bi-annual event is part of Target’s larger initiative, Target Forward, which seeks to eliminate waste and enhance sustainability practices.

So if you’ve got that old car seat sitting around that isn’t accepted through your own curbside pickup or has expired, head for the Target car seat trade-in event starting Apr. 16. The environment will thank you.

Gone are the days where having a strong vocabulary only mattered on the SAT. Kids today—now, more than ever—need a solid vocabulary, not only for success in school, but also to express themselves in a way that empowers them to make an impact on the world around them. According to Boston Children’s Hospital, the most important thing you can do to help a child experiencing heightened stress and anxiety is to listen to them. And if they have the vocabulary (and emotional awareness) to express themselves, you’ve equipped them to take control of that situation. So whether you’re motivated to build toddler language development for school success or for social and emotional reasons, you’re winning at parenting. And these language development games and activities for kids can help you do it.

1. Read Together

We’ll bet you’re already practicing this toddler language development strategy in your home without even realizing it. According to Sandra Gatlin, a fourth-grade teacher with over 30 years of experience, “The key to a broad vocabulary is to foster a love of reading in your child. Whether from reading together as toddlers, or listening to them read to you as they develop their abilities, you cannot find a better way to expand your vocabulary.”

Extra Credit: Don’t stop reading to your kids, even after they can do it on their own. Choose a book that interests them that’s above their reading level, and “talk about what you’re reading, so you can work on comprehension, too,” adds Gatlin.

Related: 40 of the Very Best Books for Toddlers

2. Go Hunting for Sight Words with Nerf Guns

“My son doesn’t want to look at a workbook or sit still after he’s been at school all day,” mom and educator extraordinaire, Anne Hart, says. So she wrote sight words on Post-It notes and stuck them on the ceiling, near the baseboards, and behind doors throughout her house. Now, her son picks up a Nerf gun and gets prizes for shooting the right word that Hart calls out. We love this strategy that supports toddler language development and makes it fun in the process.

Extra Credit: Don’t stop at sight words. You can play this game with vocabulary words and definitions. Just write the word on the Post-It note, and read the definition out to your hunter, who’ll go “hunting” for the correct word.

3. Match and Go Seek

Another great toddler language development game, match and go seek, also involves Post-It notes. Make two copies of each word, then give one stack to your child, and place the other notes on corresponding items. For instance, give your child a Post-It note with the word “tree” written on it, then place another one on the trunk of a tree in the backyard. Get more creative and advanced as his or her vocabulary grows.

Extra Credit: The National Center on Improving Literacy reports that “remote literacy learning includes a mixture of literacy learning experiences that are teacher-led, family-led, and student-led. Parents have an important role in helping develop your child’s literacy skills.” Your involvement in growing your child’s vocabulary has never been more important.

two parents play on the best with a baby working on language development
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4. Talk to Your Children

Tracy Cutchlow, author of Zero to Five: 70 Essential Parenting Tips Based on Science, says three-year-olds with whom parents regularly engage in contextualized conversation have IQs 150% greater than those whose parents don’t talk to them. And, since your child’s vocabulary can quadruple in their second year of life, you can’t start too early when it comes to talking to them.

Extra Credit: “It’s hard to know what to say to someone who doesn’t talk back,” says Atlanta preschool director Nancy Hill. “But I used to talk to my daughter so much when she was an infant that I’d be startled when my husband would come home and actually talk back to me!” She suggests listening to the sounds around you—like a bird tweeting, a truck rumbling, or a dog barking—then repeating the sound and labeling it as “bird,” “truck,” or “dog.”

5. Introduce Sneaky Synonyms

When your child tells you something, respond in a way that introduces a synonym for the word they used. For example, if your child says that the dog was “really big,” you might reply and say it sounds “gigantic.” Reading Rockets, a website dedicated to helping kids learn to read, suggests that parents keep new words active since kids learn by repetition and practice. Don’t just say it once. Instead, find ways to work it into your conversation multiple times.

Extra Credit: Kids love telling stories. Give them a topic and have them tell you a story about it. This gives you ample opportunities to introduce sneaky synonyms in an organic way.

a toddler sits on her mom's lap with her dad nearby, smiling and talking working on language development
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6. Use Word Play in Favorite Songs

Rhymes have always been used as a tool in learning, so it’s no surprise that kids love changing the lyrics for favorite songs. “When ‘Old Town Road’ was being played all the time on the radio, I changed the lyrics to I’m gonna take my mom to the grocery store, she’s gonna shop like she can’t no more…My kids caught on, and every time the song came on we’d make up a new grocery list, instead of singing the song’s actual lyrics,” said mother of four Renee Stafford.

Extra Credit: Along the same lines, you can kill plenty of time on long car rides by making a collaborative poem. One person starts the poem, then the next person adds a line, and on.

Related: Spotify Playlists for Babies & Toddlers That Parents Will Actually Enjoy 

7. Write Stories

“Verbal and written vocabularies often don’t match up, with verbal vocabulary being stronger for many years because of the help of context clues within sentence structure,” says Prof. of Early Childhood Education and Literacy Meredith Cristofferson. One way to help bridge the gap? Have your kids write their own stories. It’s like working your back muscles to improve your abdomen’s strength. Creating context for words helps you develop your use of words, and helps you look for new ways to represent ideas.

Extra Credit: Give your kids a word bank and ask them to write a story using the words you’ve given them. Be sure and provide them with a list of verbs, nouns, adjectives, and adverbs.

Related: Life Sentence: 6 Ways to Write a Story with Kids

Whether you’re heading to a new country or spending a busy day in your fair city, having your baby with you should be as easy as possible. We already know you’re packing the extras, like diapers, a change of clothes, and a few teething toys, so making sure your baby transport system is ready to go when you are is critical. Which is where the new Nuna PIPA urbn comes in. Sold as part of a comprehensive travel system, it’s now easier than ever to bring the car seat and stroller along for the ride, from daycare to a day abroad.

Here are a few reasons this new car seat is perfect for parents like you.

 

1. It’s lightweight, so you can carry it…and baby…and a bag of groceries

There’s lightweight, and then there’s the Nuna PIPA urbn. The entire car seat weighs only seven pounds. This makes it a lot easier to carry up and down the stairs or a few blocks down to your parking spot. Plus, we know the car seat is not all you’re hauling. There’s the diaper bag, a bag of groceries, and, of course, your beautiful baby, too.

2. Three different travel system styles allow for compatibility with any lifestyle

A car seat alone doesn’t get you from point A to point B, you’ll need some wheels too to build out your "travel system". The Nuna PIPA urbn is paired with three different strollers creating travel system options for any lifestyle, all designed with parents-on-the-go in mind. These sets are self-contained, so no need for the purchase of added elements. Once you’ve landed on your car seat and stroller set of choice, you’re all set to hit the road.

Pick your perfect travel system:

  • Choose the TRIV™ next, a lightweight compact stroller that is full of features with a seat that can faces and folds both ways, a car seat ring adapter that quickly folds with the frame, and packs up in seconds with its easy one-hand fold. It’s perfect for weaving in and out of those city crowds, getting in and out of taxis, or just cruising for a day of sightseeing.
  • Opt for the MIXX™ next, perfect for suburban families, the MIXX next offers an ultra-smooth ride no matter the terrain, can easily be steered with one hand, has a seat that faces you or the world around them, and is full of premium features parents and kids love. Think easy maneuverability through varied terrain on a day-to-day basis.
  • And for an ultra-lightweight option, go with the TRVL™, a super compact-stroller that self-folds with one hand and weighs just 13.6 lbs. A perfect option for light-weight adventuring with ease, this stroller and car seat combo is the ultimate “travel” travel system.

3. Get in and out of any vehicle in a flash

Whether you’re hopping out of the cab en route to daycare or you’re changing the car seat between caregiver vehicles, install shouldn’t be a struggle. The Nuna PIPA urbn can be installed in 2 seconds using the pipaFIX™ rigid latch. For seating positions without lower anchors, like the middle seat in many vehicles, it can be installed using the vehicle seat belt and the belt paths on the car seat. Plus, this baseless installation feature is integrated right into the car seat, making the installation even easier and a whole lot faster. No more buying an extra base for a second car or struggling for a ridiculous amount of time with installing while the meter is running! The final safety step of install is also quick - simply check the level line to ensure the recline position of the seat is correct.

4. One-handed quick release

Possibly the only thing faster than the install of the Nuna PIPA urbn is the quick-release feature. Designed to be one-handed and easy, you can keep one hand holding tight to your toddler or your luggage while the other releases the Nuna PIPA urbn from a vehicle or your Nuna stroller.

5. Privacy when they need it

Keep baby in their own little bubble while you keep on strolling using Nuna’s Sky drape™ for privacy. It pulls down smoothly and attaches quietly using magnets. It’s ventilated but opaque enough to block bright lights, and there’s even an opening at the bottom for adorable feet to move around.

6. It’s your ticket to easy travel

We’ve all been witness to (or a part of) the dreaded luggage and stroller lug throughout the airport and then the nerve-racking struggle in the security line to get the stroller folded while everyone just watches. Not anymore. You’ll be able to sail through TSA (thanks to the super easy and quick folding features of all 3 strollers - TRIV next, MIXX next, and TRVL), roll your little one right up to the gate, and enjoy a breezy boarding. The Nuna PIPA urbn is FAA certified and easily secured in a passenger seat by strapping the airplane seatbelt through the lap belt path.

Traveling with ease continues once you land - no matter if it's by rental car or cab. Click in & go!

From Peoria to Paris, Austin to Amsterdam, the Nuna PIPA urbn travel systems are designed for the next generation. And while you can’t control flight delays, you can control equipment delays brought on by cumbersome car seats and strollers, making the Nuna PIPA urbn travel systems perfect for parents who want to spend more time experiencing the world and less time experiencing frustration.

Gift yourself maximum quality, safety and style with Nuna.

Support local businesses while ticking off your shopping list at these independent toy stores in Washington DC

No need to worry about shipping delays or supply chain strains when you can shop local and support businesses that give back to the communities they serve. Who doesn’t love a special gift from an extra-special store? These independent toy shops throughout Washington, DC and the surrounding suburbs have something for every kid (little to big) on your list, so you’ll be able to fill up the space under the tree with a well-curated selection of gifts.

The Best Independent Toy Stores in Washington, DC

1. Three Littles

Beautifully curated, sustainable, thoughtfully-designed children’s goods are always in stock at Three Littles. The shop, located in the Union Market district, is a place where families can find necessities and gifts. With an emphasis on items for babies through early elementary, the shop also features carefully chosen items for parents.

1260 4th St. NE
NoMa
Online: threelittles.co

2. Fairy Godmother

Serving DC since 1984, Fairy Godmother has an array of choices for kids from infant to teen and everything in between. Check out their collection of Steiff plush toys and collectables, as well as book-themed onesies for the literary lovers on your list. The store also offers craft and science kits as well as books, including some in Spanish. You'll feel as if your fairy godmother sent you here!

319 7th St. SE
Capitol Hill
Online: facebook.com

Related: 45+ Free Things To Do in the DMV All November Long

The Best Independent Toy Stores in Virginia

3. Kinder Haus Toys

For a store with an emphasis on wooden toys and dolls you and your mom would recognize, Kinder Haus is a terrific place to shop. They sell Plan, Haba, Nilo, and RC2 wooden toys, Gund plush toys, and doll lines such as Corolle and Madame Alexander.

1220 N Fillmore St.
Arlington, VA
Online: kinderhaus.com

4. Doodlehopper

Let the delightful staff at Doodlehopper help you find the perfect gift for kiddos on your list, from infant to tween. At this Falls Church staple, you'll find a well-organized and carefully chosen selection of great toys, games, puzzles, and crafts.

234 W Broad St.
Falls Church, VA
Online: doodlehopper.com

5. Barston's Child's Play

This fun shop offers an extensive collection of toys for kids of all ages and a great arts and crafts section. Don't forget to check out their inventory of beloved miniature rubber figures—bring one home for each of your littles!

Insider Tip: Pop into Pastries by Randolph around the corner for a post-shopping coffee and Napoleon and bring home a box of tea cookies for the kids.

4510 Cherry Hill Rd.
Arlington, VA
Online: childsplaytoysandbooks.com

6. Go Bananas

Enjoy classic toys alongside the newest releases available in a curated shop! They stock everything from Brio trains for your toddler to Exploding Kittens for your Tween and a huge variety in between.

Insider Tip: Try out the "Birthday Vault" with your little one. Simply visit the store two weeks before their birthday and help them fill the birthday basket with all of the items they're wishing for. When the basket is full, Go Bananas will write your child's name on it and secure it in their Birthday Vault. The "wishes" will be held on reserve for your child—or for friends and family in search of an approved gift—up until a day after their birthday party or birthday.

42395 Ryan Rd., Unit 122
Ashburn, VA
Online: gobananastoys.com

Related: Oh Christmas Tree! 9 Places to Cut Down Your Own Tree This Season

The Best Independent Toy Stores in Maryland

7. Fair Day's Play

In Takoma Park, this shop specializes in toys with exceptional educational value for all ages. Owner Lisa Ripkin works with customers to find toys that best match their interests and can order specific products just for you if you can’t find what you’re looking for in store.

Insider Tip: Fair Day's Play partners with Art for the People, a non-profit that brings art to communities. Check out their website to find out about upcoming crafting events!

7050 Carroll Ave.  #102
Takoma Park, MD
Online: fairdaysplay.com

8. Anglo Dutch Pools and Toys

Anglo Dutch Pools and Toys was founded in 1985 as a mom-and-pop pool maintenance store, which quickly expanded into carrying pool toys. Before long, customers wanted "land" toys, too. Today, the business carries a huge variety of toys, games, books, and puzzles. True to their roots, they also have a wonderful selection of aquatic toys and swimming necessities like goggles and suits.

5460 Westbard Ave.
Bethesda, MD
Online: anglodutchpoolsandtoys.com

Related: 7 Kid-Friendly Road Trips for Fall Fun near Washington, DC

The Best Independent Toy Stores that Are Worth the Drive

9. PLAYroom

Aptly named, owner Michelle McNaughton has plenty of toys out for your kiddos to test-drive, which makes for a shopping experience that is so much more than basic browsing—you can really uncover the items your little ones will actually love. In fact, it's so interactive, you may have a hard time getting the kids to leave! With loads of unique, hard-to-find, and classic toys, the PLAYroom earns its moniker.

Insider Tip: Really having a hard time making an exit? Don't worry, you can tempt them with a horse cookie from The Upper Crust, an old fashioned bakery just around the corner. 

108 W. Washington St.
Middleburg, VA
Online: intheplayroom.com

10. The Fun Shop

This toy store opened its doors in 1956 when there was nowhere in Middleburg to buy children’s clothes or toys, The Fun Shop is chock-a-block with excellent toy and gift options. Their 6,000-square-feet of merchandise also has great gifts for the grown-ups on your list.

115 W. Washington St.
Middleburg, VA
Online: thefunshop.com

11. Dancing Bear Toys and Games

Founded with the goal of creating a happy place to spark inventive play and imagination, The Dancing Bear in Frederick is worth the drive, especially when you also visit its sister bookstore, The Curious Iguana. If you have the kids in tow, there is a little play area that keeps small hands busy.

Insider Tip: Walk up a block to N. Market St. and you'll find sweet teacher gifts at Perfect Truffle

15 E. Patrick St.
Frederick, MD
Online: dbeartoys.com

12. Curious Iguana

For an independent bookstore with an incredible children's section, head around the corner to Dancing Bear's sister store, Curious Iguana.

12 N. Market St.
Frederick, MD
Online: curiousiguana.com

Car seat safety can be overwhelming. There are so many questions to be answered. Is the car seat installed correctly? Are the straps snug enough to secure my child? When is it time to change into a different size car seat? It goes without saying, but always refer to your specific car seat manufacturer’s instructions (check height and weight limits) and to learn how to install the car seat using the seat belt or lower anchors (LATCH) and a tether, if available.

In the meantime, here are some safety tips you (and anyone driving your kid around) should know:

What Every Caregiver Needs to Know about Car Seat Safety

1. Not all car seats fit in every make and model of cars.
Make sure the car seat you select works in your car. Some stores will let you test before you buy. And if you purchase online, be sure to check the return policies.

2. Be very careful about buying used car seats or accepting a hand-me-down.
If you must buy used or accept a hand-me down carseat, I recommend only buying or taking one from an individual that you know and trust. There are a lot of factors that contribute to a safe car seat for your child and you want to be sure that the car seat has not been compromised in any way and that it is not on the recall list.

3. Keep your child in the back seat until the age of 13.

4. Never install a rear facing car seat in the front seat with an airbag.

What Every Caregiver Needs to Know about Infant Seat Safety

This is typically the car seat that your new baby will ride home from the hospital in. Many infant seats attach directly to your stroller or can be easily carried around. It attaches to a base that is latched into your car, so the seat can easily be taken in and out without waking a sleeping baby.

5. Infant seats should always be rear facing and the longer infants and babies stay rear facing, the better.
The average age to transition your child from a rear-facing infant seat into a rear-facing convertible/toddler seat is approximately two years, but it is really based on weight and height so you should familiarize yourself with your car seat’s specific maximum weight/height guidelines.

What Every Caregiver Needs to Know about Rear-Facing Convertible Seat

These types of seats accommodate larger babies/toddlers, but are not as convenient as infant seats because they are not portable. They are generally heavy and have to be installed directly into the car, as opposed to clicking in and out of a base.

These seats are versatile, however, because it allows for your child to remain rear-facing when they are younger and then “converts” to a forward-facing seat as they grow older.

6. According to all the experts and the American Academy of Pediatrics, rear-facing is the safest option for kids, even if their legs are kicking the back seat.
I know first-hand how hard it is to keep your growing toddler in a rear-facing seat, but the back of the car seat shell protects and supports the head, neck and spinal cord in a frontal collision which is the highest percentage of crashes. Once they reach the maximum weight and height limits for rear-facing, you can use the same seat…just follow the guidelines for forward-facing installation of your particular seat.

What Every Caregiver Needs to Know about​​​​​​​ Booster Seats

It may seem way off in the distance, but eventually your little one will start maturing and growing into a booster seat. This type of car seat does not require any “installation.” The booster seat helps boost up your child to fit properly in the adult size seat belt.

7. It’s best to wait until your child outgrows their 5-point harness car seat and is mature enough to ride without a harness.
The child must stay seated for the entire ride without trying to unbuckle or tuck the shoulder strap under the arm. If they are a wiggle worm, you may want to consider purchasing a 5 point harness car seat that accommodates their height and weight.

At Tot Squad we have a combined 100+ years of child safety experience and bring that expertise to every family we reach. Tot Squad’s team of certified Child Passenger Safety Technicians (CPSTs) can perform a virtual car seat check easily and conveniently at your home, or you can read on for peace of mind.

 

Jen Saxton is the Founder & CEO of Tot Squad, a baby services marketplace that connects new parents with health, wellness/safety services including car seat installation, babyproofing, doulas, & sleep consultants. Tot Squad offers virtual and in-home consultations which can be purchased through Amazon and Walmart.com when buying a related baby product.

With the ebb and flow of the pandemic last year, you probably had the kiddos back in childcare more than 2020 which definitely made an impact on your wallet. Thanks to Covid, childcare costs increased by roughly 10% which means families are paying an average of $300 a week per child at care centers, not to mention higher costs for options like nannies or if you have an infant. Basically, your childcare is like another mortgage.

Thankfully, the Child and Dependent Care Tax Credit was expanded for 2021 which could mean savings for parents. Different from the Child Tax Credit, it helps parents cover childcare costs while looking for or attending work, for kids 13 and under and adult dependents. So how is it expanded?

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Normally the cap for eligible expenses is $3,000 for one child and $6,000 for two or more. For your 2021 tax return, you’ll be able to claim expenses for up to $8,000 for one child or $16,000 for two or more. That’s a huge jump!

You may also be able to write off up to 50% (up from 35%) of your childcare expenses if your income is $125,000 or lower. That credit starts to phase out the higher the income: 20% for $183,000 to $400,000 and nothing above $438,000.

There is a catch: if you already pay for childcare using a dependent care flexible spending account, you cannot use those expenses towards the tax credit because that money is pre-tax and you’re already getting a tax break. However, if your costs go above what you’ve used from your FSA, you might be able to claim the difference up to either $8,000 or $16,000, depending on your family situation.

Another bonus: the credit for 2021 is refundable! So even if you don’t have a tax liability, you could end up with cash in your pocket thanks to a refund.

The expanded credit is only for the 2021 tax credit, so use it while you can!

––Karly Wood

 

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The US Food and Drug Administration on Thursday cautioned people to avoid select Similac, Alimentum or EleCare powdered infant formulas due to potential contamination with Cronobacter, a type of bacteria that can cause severe food-borne illness.

The recall impacts formula produced in Abbott Nutrition’s Sturgis, MI facility and those with the first two digits of the code are 22 through 37; the code on the container contains K8, SH or Z2; the expiration date is April 1, 2022, or later. The codes are located near the expiration date on the product packaging.

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Four children were hospitalized and one baby died of bacterial infections, and an investigation into the source of the bacteria is ongoing. The infections were found in Texas, Ohio and Minnesota, the FDA said in a news release. They also noted that “Parents and caregivers of infants who have used these products, and are concerned about the health of their child, should contact their child’s health care provider.”

Three infections stemmed from Cronobacter, a bacteria that can cause severe, life-threatening infections or inflammation of the membranes that protect the brain and spine. The third infection was from Salmonella, a group of bacteria that can cause digestive illness and fever.

However, “During testing in our Sturgis, Mich., facility, we found evidence of Cronobacter sakazakii in the plant in non-product contact areas. We found no evidence of Salmonella Newport,” Abbott Nutrition said in a news release. “Importantly, no distributed product has tested positive for the presence of either of these bacteria, and we continue to test.”

This news comes at a bad time—the US is facing a shortage of baby formula due to challenges across the supply chains, including impacts on transportation, labor and logistics. According to market research firm IRI, stores’ infant formula inventories in mid-January were down 17% from where they were in mid-February 2020, just before the pandemic hit US shores.

—Shelley Massey

 

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