Do you prefer to keep your blood circulation in tact? This is the best shapewear for you (really!).

Shapewear has come a long way (you know, from lace-up corsets and stuff). Most of us aren’t willing to wear control-top pantyhose every day or want to avoid taking a deep breath. Which is, of course, very reasonable. But the thing is, sometimes we just want to smooth things out. Add a little shape. Feel a bit more ‘held’. And we want to do that while maintaining blood flow to our extremities. We looked high and low and found the best shapewear that managed to tick all the boxes.

We want you to feel great in your body, so we’re definitely not pushing a whole reshaping of your already gorgeous figure. The best shapewear can just be a tool to feel put together and supported, without completely revamping your bod. Of course, if you feel most comfortable with strong compression, we’ve got options there, too. But really, we want to reframe shapewear as an enhancement to your beautiful body rather than mega camouflage. And we refuse to feel like we can’t sit down or eat a meal while we’re wearing it. These are the gold standard in comfort + support, if we do say so ourselves.

ThirdLove ComfortStretch Smoothing Full Coverage Bra

close up of taupe colored full coverage bra
ThirdLove

Bye bye bumps and bulges, hello sleek look under clothes. The newest style from the bra geniuses at ThirdLove offers extra back and underarm coverage, plus smooth full coverage cups. Looking for versatility? The straps convert to an X-back! Available in 2 colors, sizes up to 44H.

ThirdLove ComfortStretch Smoothing Full Coverage Bra ($78.00)—Buy Here!

YITTY Nearly Naked Shaping High Waist Thong

woman wearing peach high-rise briefs
YITTY

Lizzo-found brand YITTY (her childhood nickname, actually!) is all about size-inclusive, celebratory shapewear that fits and makes you feel great. Not smaller or bigger; just more pulled together. The Nearly Naked Thong is a now-show pair of undies that shape, smooth, and wick away moisture. Not feeling a thong? They also come in briefs, and you'll probably want to check out the whole YITTY Shapewear Line. Available in multiple colors, sizes XS-6X.

YITTY Nearly Naked Shaping High Waist Thong (VIP $24.95/Reg $34.95)—Buy Here!

Honeylove SuperPower Brief

Honeylove

Honeylove somehow managed to make shapewear...fashion? The bandage support details on this pair are so edgy and cool, but the real hero here is the effect. Targeted compression sculpts your midsection, flexible boning prevents roll-down, and mesh fabric smooths your bottom for a highly supportive, sweat-wicking shapewear piece. Available in 6 colors, sizes XS-3X. Use code TINYBEANS at checkout for 10% off your purchase!

Honeylove SuperPower Brief ($84.00)—Buy Here!

Truekind Supportive Comfort Wireless Shaping Bra

woman wearing cream-colored bralette
Shapermint

With the comfort of a bralette, the molded cups of a traditional bra, and the versatility of convertible straps, it's no wonder this Wireless Shaping Bra has such great ratings. Available in 4 colors and sizes S-4XL.

Truekind Supportive Comfort Wireless Shaping Bra ($32.99)—Buy Here!

SPANX OnCore Mid-Thigh Short

woman wearing tan shaping shorts
SPANX

You had to know cult-favorite SPANX would make an appearance here! Aside from the firm support and famous SPANX shaping, the OnCore Mid-Thigh Shorts are a mid-rise, so they hit at your natural waist if you want to skip on the high-rise option. Available in 5 colors and sizes XS-XL.

SPANX OnCore Mid-Thigh Short ($64.00)—Buy Here!

SKIMS Seamless Sculpt Mid Thigh Bodysuit

SKIMS

Social media-approved bodysuit? You found it. It's the SKIMS Seamless Mid Thigh Bodysuit flaunts strong compression and targeted control along the waist, tummy, and legs, plus butt-enhancing pockets for a lifted look. Comes in a whopping 10 colors and sizes XXS-4X.

SKIMS Seamless Sculpt Mid Thigh Bodysuit ($74.00)—Buy Here!

AirSlim Firm Tummy Compression Bodysuit Shaper with Butt Lifter

woman wearing navy shaping bodysuit and beige bra
Shapellx

This compression bodysuit sculpts from your back, waist, and down to your tummy and thighs. It also comes with adjustable and removable straps and a butt-lifter (padding-free). It comes in 3 colors and sizes XS-6X.

AirSlim Firm Tummy Compression Bodysuit Shaper with Butt Lifter ($48.40)—Buy Here!

Leonisa Extra High Waisted Firm Compression Legging

woman wearing navy blue leggings
Leonisa

For those of us who like to feel held in by our leggings, this pair from Leonisa delivers. With an inner layer of PowerSlim for firm compression to sculpt from mid-to-lower tummy, they also have an outer layer that's super soft. Available in black and blue, sizes XS-XXL.

Leonisa Extra High Waisted Firm Compression Legging ($52.00+)—Buy Here!

Bodyflexx Double-Duty Bodysuit Shaper

woman wearing ivory mid-thigh bodysuit shapewear
Bodyflexx Shapewear

Versatile and functional, this shaper can be worn under a ton of outfits, or paired with a cardigan, denim jacket, skirt, or jeans for a layered outerwear option. Add bust and back support and you'll walk taller all day no matter how you wear it. Available in 3 colors, sizes XS/S-3X/4X.

Bodyflexx Double-Duty Bodysuit Shaper ($44.00)—Buy Here!

SHAPERX Seamless Sculpting Thong Body Shaper

three women in taupe bodysuits
SHAPERX

This viral bodysuit has been all over social media, hailed as a budget-friendly alternative to the SKIMS version. Believe us when you say you'll pull it out of the package and assume there's no way it'll fit, but it does. It's ultra-stretchy, offers compression except in the bust (so it's great for all bra sizes), and comes in 11 colors, sizes XXS/XS-4XL/5XL.

SHAPERX Seamless Sculpting Thong Body Shaper ($37.99)—Buy Here!

Express Body Contour High Compression Tee

Express

Everyone needs a great t-shirt in their closet, so why not make it extra-flattering with a sculpting fabrication from Express? It's excellent as a base layer or styled all on its own. Available in 5 colors and sizes XS-XL.

Express Body Contour High Compression Tee ($48.00)—Buy Here!

Knix LuxeLift Tank

woman in dusty blue tank top and black pants
Knix

It's not officially compression shapewear, but we're in love with this tank top from Knix that lets us go braless and smooths our silhouette. It's even designed to relax and adapt to your shape as you wear it! Available in 2 colors, sizes S-XXXL+.

Knix LuxeLift Tank ($59.00)—Buy Here!

Shapewear Bodysuits 3pk

Amazon

This is shapewear that's meant to be seen. Bodysuits are back, but don't let that freak you out. Ease into the trend with blazers, cardigans, or wide-leg jeans or pants to offset the fitted top. Of course, even if you're super experienced in the bodysuit arena, this 3-pack is such a steal. Available with a thong back, in multiple colors, and sizes XS-XL.

Shapewear Bodysuits 3pk ($35.99)—Buy Here!

Cotton High Waist Tummy Control Panties 5pk

Amazon

Who doesn't love a good multipack? Snag this set of 5 tummy-smoothing undies at a steal (less than $20!) and see what over 12,500 Amazon reviewers are raving about! Multiple colors/prints available in sizes XS-4XL.

Cotton High Waist Tummy Control Panties 5pk ($19.98)—Buy Here!

Naomi and Nicole Sheer Capri Pantliner

Naomi and Nicole

They're calling these 'pantliners', which is a new one to us, but they're so clever. Wear them with your most fitted jeans or pants for extra smoothing, or with a skirt and boots while it's still chilly outside. Available in nude or black, sizes S-2X.

Naomi and Nicole Sheer Capri Pantliner ($23.97)—Buy Here!

Sheertex Shaping Sheer Rip-Resist Tights

woman in black tights pulling on them to demonstrate strength
Sheertex

Hold on, because this is wild. Sheertex tights are made with technology featuring one of the world's strongest polymers, typically used in ballistics and climbing equipment. So...it's safe to say they don't rip easily? Aside from this wildly strong fabrication, they offer great tummy and thigh shaping. They have a huge assortment of tights, so check them all out. Available in sizes XS-3XL.

Sheertex Shaping Sheer Rip-Resist Tights ($35.00+)—Buy Here!

Underoutfit The Comfort Shaping Bra

woman in bralette and boyshorts
Underoutfit

Underoutfit is created for people seeking the most support + the most comfort. It's no small feat, but The Comfort Shaping Bra does it. It's breathable, wire-free, has sewn-in pads (no hunting around for those removable ones or constantly shifting so it doesn't look like one is pointing in the wrong direction), and they managed to eliminate the old uniboob effect. Available in multiple colors and sizes S-3XL (they also offer a 180 day return window!).

Underoutfit The Comfort Shaping Bra ($29.90)—Buy Here!

LNDR THE CHISEL Leggings

woman in sports bra, leggings, and sneakers
LNDR

According to LNDR, 'Think: If Michelangelo made leggings.' THE CHISEL is their #1 bestseller, and it probably has something to do with them being 'the most sculpting performance leggings on the planet', we're guessing. Made using premium recycled polyamide and a higher grade elastane than any other brand (according to LNDR), they're knitted using seamless technology, creating different levels of compression and optimum shaping throughout the leg, thigh, butt, and tummy.

Available in 7 colors, 2 lengths, and sizes XS/S-L/XL, keep in mind that these are intense shaping leggings. If that's a little more...intense...than you're looking for, LNDR has a bunch of different options and levels of shaping in their leggings arsenal

LNDR THE CHISEL Leggings ($148.00)—Buy Here!

Sleeveless Catsuit

woman in brown fitted jumpsuit
Amazon

Believe it or not, catsuits are a great wardrobe addition. They offer shaping under cold-weather clothes, but we're really big fans of throwing them on with a jacket, cardigan, or sweatshirt and just going for it. It's also excellent for workouts! Available in 16 colors and sizes XS-XXL.

Sleeveless Catsuit ($26.39+)—Buy Here!

 

 

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Don’t ditch the idea of Valentine’s Day lingerie until you see our seriously comfortable picks

For a lot of us, even thinking about Valentine’s Day lingerie makes us cringe. Itchy lace, boning and underwires, contraptions that require teamwork to get into, and we’re not about to start on wedgies (we’re being real here). Sure, it can look pretty, but it’s 2024 and we refuse to wear anything that doesn’t feel as good as it looks, especially when it comes to undies. We’re fully unavailable for adjusting and sucking in from now on, even on February 14th. It’s the dawn of a new era. The era of comfortable lingerie.

These are the Valentine’s Day lingerie pieces that you’ll actually want to wear all year. We know that’s a bold claim, but we’re backing it up with this list. Bralettes with soft mesh, stretchy bodysuits that can even be worn out and about, and, most importantly, pieces you’ll feel so good in. Because that’s the ultimate in hotness—feeling confident. Weather you’re looking for something to wear with your partner or just for yourself, we’ve got the Valentine’s Day lingerie you won’t want to take off. Well…maybe.

CoreSculpt Lace Trim Bralette & Lace Cheeky Panty Set

Shapellx

This is such a pretty set! With features like wire-free bralette support, smoothing fabric, and a high waist, you can stun and feel completely comfortable. 

CoreSculpt Lace Trim Bralette & Lace Cheeky Panty Set ($33.75)—Buy Here!

Cosabella Allure Sleep Romper

Cosabella

A little boho, a little romantic, a lot alluring (hence the name, we suppose). Coasbella's Allure Sleep Romper feels amazing on and includes a sexy strappy back detail and eyelash lace. It also comes in 5 colors (so you may want more than one...).

Cosabella Allure Sleep Romper ($155.00)—Buy Here!

Negative Eyelet Lace Bodysuit

Negative

Negative underwear and lingerie is a no frills, no fluff, minimalist and confidence-inducing that's made to make you feel good in your own skin (because you're hot. You are.). This bodysuit can be worn as-is, with jeans, a skirt—it's that comfortable. And dang, it looks good. Also available in white and lilac.

Negative Eyelet Lace Bodysuit ($175.00)—Buy Here!

Soma Cool Nights Lace Chemise

Soma Intimates

Soma's Cool Nights collection is a bestseller for a reason: the always-cool-on-the-skin fabric is so soft, light, and doesn't stick to your skin (no matter what time of year it is). The Lace Chemise has light support and adjustable straps, plus an elastic back design for a really comfortable fit. Available in Black and Paint the Town Red.

Soma Cool Nights Lace Chemise ($79.00)—Buy Here!

eberjey Mariana Bralette

woman in ice blue bralette and underwear set
eberjey

The scallop lace detail of the Mariana Bralette makes this so special, while the wide straps and lined cups make it a practical choice for daily wear. Available in Ice Blue and white.

eberjey Mariana Bralette ($88.00)—Buy Here!

Fleur Du Mal Bouquet Lace Boxer-Brief

woman in black lace bra and boxers
Fleur Du Mal

Show. Stopper. These drool-worthy boxer-briefs are made from super soft stretch lace that you could easily sleep in or throw on under a skirt or dress. Paired with the Bouquet Lace Scooped Balconette Bra (sold separately), it's an unstoppable look that we can't get over.

Fleur Du Mal Bouquet Lace Boxer-Brief ($138.00)—Buy Here!

Harper Wilde Luxe Mesh Scoop Bralette

redhead woman in coral bralette and underwear
Harper Wilde

Mesh typically sounds and feels stiff and itchy, but Harper Wilde refused to accept that. So they came up with mesh undies and bras that are so soft, you won't believe the flirty mesh effect they still offer. Sheer, soft, and great for Valentine's Day and beyond, the Luxe Mesh Scoop Bralette comes in 4 colors.

Harper Wilde Luxe Mesh Scoop Bralette ($55.00)—Buy Here!

NEIWAI Barely Zero Plunge Bra Set

red bralette and underwear set
NEIWAI

The Barely Zero set from NEIWAI is made from their CloutFit fabric that's a soft, barely-there breathable and moisture-wicking material that means you can wear it all day (or all night).

NEIWAI Barely Zero Plunge Bra Set ($55.00)—Buy Here!

Button-Down Sleep Shirt

Amazon

If there's anything more quintessentially flirty than a man's-style button-down, we don't know what it is. Wear it alone, over one of the lingerie sets, or with leggings or jeans. It's available in a bunch of colors, too. It's effortless and impactful. Trust us.

Button-Down Sleep Shirt ($32.99)—Buy Here!

mooods Celestial Comfort Lace Lingerie Set

dark purple lace bralette and panty set
mooods

The name says it all: comfort is a huge priority for mooods, and they've managed to make this set sexy and super wearable. It's supportive with a wire-free bra and medium-rise panty, and it comes in a bunch of colors  if this Grape color isn't your style!

mooods Celestial Comfort Lace Lingerie Set ($39.90)—Buy Here!

Free People Moon Phase Midi Slip

Free People

Romantic vibes are guaranteed with this floaty midi slip. The billowy silhouette could actually be layered over a slip dress or bodysuit for an edgy-meets-feminine outfit, but for V-Day, it's totally up to you. Available in 4 colors.

Free People Moon Phase Midi Slip ($78.00)—Buy Here!

Negative Glacé High-Waist Thong

woman in coral colored bra and underwear
Negative

Tummy support and smoothing and a thong? Negative underwear checks all the boxes. Oh, and it comes in the softest-feeling silky fabric and 3 colors.

Negative Glacé High-Waist Thong ($45.00)—Buy Here!

Smart & Sexy Full Coverage Unlined Underwire

woman in blush lace bra and white robe against a window
Smart & Sexy on Amazon

A lot of us really prefer full coverage bras, but they can look a little boring. This unlined underwire option is the perfect compromise. It's available in 5 colors.

Smart & Sexy Full Coverage Unlined Underwire ($20.00)—Buy Here!

Araks Beatrice Bralette & Aaron Panty

purple and blue bra and panty set
Araks

While these are sold separately, we highly recommend the set. This one is a stunner. It's available in a bunch of fresh and retro color combinations that we're swooning. The soft cup bra detail and full-back panty creates a bold set you'll feel so good in.

Beatrice Bralette ($120.00)—Buy Here!
Aaron Panty ($90.00)—Buy Here!

NATORI Feathers Contour Plunge Bra

woman in teal green lace plunge bra
NATORI

The smooth, lightweight contour pads of this bestelling bra from NATORI keeps it soft and supportive at the same time, plus it's made with recycled lace and comes in a bunch of colors. It even works well under your lower-cut tops and dresses.

NATORI Feathers Contour Plunge Bra ($72.00)—Buy Here!

Lace-Trim Mesh Pants

woman wearing pink loose mesh pajama pants
Forever21

Flowy and flattering, these sexy mesh lace-trim lounge pants are ideal for 'dressing up' (wink) or actual lounging over a pair of boy shorts or bike shorts. Pair it with the matching bralette, or add the matching bodysuit for a totally different look.

Lace-Trim Mesh Pants ($19.99)—Buy Here!

Savage X Fenty Romantic Corded Lace Unlined Balconette Bra

woman in red lace bra
Savage X Fenty

Reviewers are ga-ga for this balconette bra from Savage X Fenty. The lace wings are lined with power mesh for a cleavage-enhancing, ultra-sexy, and easily wearable bra that comes in 3 colors. Check out the matching panty, too.

Savage X Fenty Romantic Corded Lace Unlined Balconette Bra ($39.99+)—Buy Here!

 

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Forget the sexy lingerie and treat yourself, or your favorite galentine, to an empowering and tasty gift instead. Buttercream Bakeshop Valentine’s Day treats are unique sweets themed around some of our favorite women including Kristen Bell and Ruth Bader Ginsburg.

At the Buttercream Bakeshop in Washington D.C. you’ll find some unique treats for Valentine’s Day that are both delicious and inspiring. Women Crush Wednesday Bars feature six famous women and their sayings emblazoned on fudge brownies topped with whipped coconut pudding buttercream.

The women featured in the limited-edition Valentine’s Day collection include Michelle Obama, Chrissy Teigen, Ruth Bader Ginsburg, Mindy Kaling, Kristen Bell and Samantha Bee.

—Shahrzad Warkentin

Featured photo: Buttercream Bakeshop via Instagram

 

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School dress codes are not without controversy, In some locales, students are fighting back against rules they find to be gender-biased and unfair. In one state, however, it’s the moms and dads—not the kids—who could face new rules with a school dress code for parents.

Tennessee state representative Antonio Parkinson has proposed a new bill that would require parents to abide by a specific dress code while on school campuses. While the clothing portion of the initiative has received the most attention, the bill is in fact meant to encompass a wider code of conduct for all adults who come on school campuses, this includes behavior and attire.

Parkinson told Red Tricycle that the idea for this bill was prompted by an internet meme of all things, poking fun at parents attire.

From that meme a conversation took hold and based on reactions from some of his constituents, Parkinson decided to reach out to principals and schools in his state. He was surprised to find that it was a serious problem at many schools—and that it was more than just a few pajama-clad parents in the pick-up line. From parents wearing revealing lingerie inside elementary schools buildings to parents fighting in front of students, the problem goes beyond clothes and encompasses adult conduct in general.

The legislation, which Parkinson expects to do well, requires all Tennessee school districts to develop a minimum code of conduct for anyone that steps on a school campus and can include attire, but it doesn’t have to. It’s up to each school district to craft a policy that fits their specific schools.

This is not a problem specific to Tennessee. Parkinson has received tons of feedback from parents and principals in other states, applauding his effort to start an important conversation about conduct for all adults in a school setting. Parkinson believes everything on campus should contribute to education and not hinder it.

Parkinson tells Red Tricycle, “If we as adults remove our selfishness from the situation, we can create an environment more conducive to learning.”

—Shahrzad Warkentin

Featured photo: Pexels

 

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Inwood parents understand that they are raising children in one of New York City’s best kept secrets for families. The area offers the best of urban life while also often providing the feel of a close-knit, suburban neighborhood. If you’re an Inwood parent, read on and let us know if we missed something. (If you’re not, consider enjoying these Inwood family favorites in this rapidly-changing ‘hood!)

photo: Omar Z. via Yelp

1. You can be found on Sunday mornings babywearing at brunch at any of the trendy sidewalk cafés, sipping your mimosa and enjoying the laid back vibe.

2. Local lingerie shop Brazen (closed, but still online!) may have played a part in your child’s conception or nursing as a newborn, or perhaps helped you light a fire in the bedroom when you and your better half recovered from having a kid.

photo: Barbara Cioffi Giacometti via The Cloisters Facebook page

3. Whenever your child wants to get his or her “castle” on, you head to The Cloisters. (Also, as a result, your kid is certain unicorns are real.)

photo: Kristine Paulus via Flickr

4. At the announcement of the first heavy snow you rush to ready the sled for a day of fierce tobogganing at Inwood Hill Park.

5. Your kids are budding polyglots, thanks to music group in French, story time in Spanish and maybe even a coveted spot at one of the area dual-language schools. (Plus, they know how to pronounce “Spuyten Duyvil”.)

6. You know summer is coming once the horrible traffic begins on Dyckman and the crossing guards take over the streets.

photo: Charley Lhasa via Flickr

7. You’ve had your child on the Inwood Little League wait-list since birth and you can’t wait to be that competitive parent coaching your child from the sidelines.

8. Your freezer is so full of eggshells and peels you think twice about buying that tub of ice cream because it won’t fit until after your compost drop off at the Saturday farmers market.

photo Viral P. via Yelp

9. You can walk in any direction for good rice and beans no matter the time of day or night.

10. You know it’s election season when the merengue music and proclamations announcing local candidates blare from cars and trucks on the streets.

11. You forgo a holiday tree in your tiny living room and convince your kids that the annual Bruce’s Garden Tree Lighting Ceremony makes up for it.

photo: The All-Nite Images via Flickr

12. As soon as the number 1 subway train goes outdoors, you know you’re home.

What’s your quintessential Inwood parent experience? Tell us in the comments below! 

— Suzy Diaz

It’s not as if Northwest moms needed any more reason to love Nordstrom with their fabulous clothes, great shoe selection and their amazing anniversary sale.  But now they’ve brought something to their Westfield Southcenter store that is so revolutionary that the adoration will go through the roof: Free Childcare. Yes, that’s right.  Free!  While you shop in peace on every floor of their lovely store, your child (ages 2 1/2 to 8) can play happily with their friendly staff for up to two hours in a safe and kid-friendly play room.

The childcare center is open Monday through Saturday from 10:00 am – 7:00 pm and Sundays from 11:00 am – 6:00 pm on the second floor. So, go ahead and try on that pair of Mahnolo Blahniks or linger a few minutes longer in the lingerie department without your wee one clinging to your ankles.

Thank you Nordstrom for knowing exactly what shopping moms need!  More information about PLAY N can be found here.

Written by: Terumi Pong

How Sweet It Is

Only one thing is as consuming as fashion for Carie Cook and Amy White —their families. So when the friends decided to open a women’s boutique, they did it with moms in mind. The result: Lemon Meringue, a posh shop —with its sparkly chandeliers and buttery walls —that’s also relaxed, and very family-friendly.

These women know that a mom-to-be craves style, so they offer a tempting selection of designer maternity clothes, alongside luxurious Bella Materna nursing and maternity lingerie and Nest Whipstitch Leather diaper bags. Outfit Little One with cozy-cute hats by Zooni and an array of adorable tees. The kids’ table offers plenty to play with so that Little One is occupied while you explore the rest of the boutique, too. You’ll find great-fitting jeans and fashion tops, and the belts, hats, purses, and jewelry to complete your hip and comfy look.

Because the owners love fashion so much, they’re constantly on the prowl for new favorite brands. You never know what you’ll find, and it’s never the same shop twice. The whipped cream on top? Carie and Amy realize that not all women are teeny-tiny (especially post-Baby), so they offer lines with generous sizing and are expecting shipments of plus-size tops and bottoms from Kiyonna and other leading brands any day now. Sweet, indeed.

Lemon Meringue
7720 Greenwood Ave. N
206.297.6071
www.lemonmeringue.us