Spending time with friends will actually boost your immunity
If you can’t remember the last time you had a girl’s night out, you’ll want to want to plan one ASAP. One study shows why women should spend time with friends—and it’s not just for the wine and laughs.
Researchers at the University of Oxford found that women’s overall health and well-being improved when they spent time with four best friends twice a week to partake in specific activities. According to the study, these activities include drinking beer, gossiping, and discussing rivals. The research found that women interact best by joking and talking about things that make them laugh.
The health benefits from these regular friend dates included a stronger immune system, faster recovery times from illness, a decrease in anxiety, and an increase in generosity. The optimal way to make the most of these benefits was to meet with up to four friends, any more and the probability of generating the necessary endorphins for happiness was decreased.
In an interview with Scientific American in 2017, University of Oxford researcher and evolutionary psychologist Robin Dunbar explained how common activities associated with friendship actually benefit our health: “Laughing together, jogging together, dancing together, singing together, telling emotionally wrenching stories, going to see weepy films—these activities buffer the body biochemically and immunologically against the kinds of coughs and colds of everyday life.”
How did the study figure out exactly how often you should see your besties? “The figure of twice a week comes from our findings that this is the amount of time that you typically spend with your closest friends/family,” Dunbar told The Huffington Post.
Despite all the benefits, the study found that only two out of five women actually have the time to go out with friends once a week and less so once they have kids. It’s not easy to make time for yourself, but clearly making the effort for mom’s night out is worth it.
The best kind of mom getaway offers a chance to relax and rejuvenate. Whatever your vacation style, these fun girls trip locations are close to LA and all give moms a much-needed break
You’re an amazing mother who deserves a weekend of lounging around the pool, drinking wine by the fire, spa treatments and great conversations with your girlfriends. So what are you waiting for? It’s time to pack your bags, climb into your minivans, start your favorite playlist and exchange that mental load you’ve been carrying around for a few luxurious days of leisure, self-indulgence, and peace of mind.
These girl trip ideas include stylish places to stay, palatable provisions, and entertaining pursuits guaranteeing the ultimate moms’ weekend. And of course, we know time is precious so we picked spots that would maximize your time, whether you have a day, two or even a few more to spare. And lucky for us, some of the best girls trip destinations in the country are located within four driving hours from DTLA (traffic notwithstanding—we’re moms, not magicians).
Malibu Beach Inn: Just off PCH is the luxe Malibu Beach Inn where you can enjoy private beach access to Billionaire’s Beach. Yep, you get sand just outside your door, and the ocean, is just a few more steps away. The insta-worthy views from every single one of the 47 rooms—from standard to suites—are transcendent. Everything about this hotel—the Italian linens on the beds, the minimalist furnishings, the self-warming toilet seat (!), and fresh cookies at check-in—scream sumptuous luxury.
The deluxe oceanfront spa, The Cure, is a magical place to get treatments. Stressed out moms need only indulge in Reiki, Hydrafacials, and some thirst-quenching IV Therapy to find relief. The medically-trained staff can also help diminish those frown lines and crow’s feet if you want because, well… there’s a cure for everything!
The thing we love about Malibu is how this California coastal enclave can go from laid-back beach-y fab to high-end impressive in a snap. You’ll find a mix of low-key boutiques carrying top-of-the-line fashion, fancy sushi dinners at Nobu or lively Greek music and eats with belly dancers at Taverna Tony. It’s true what they say, “Malibu makes your soul relax.”
Fairmont Miramar Hotel & Bungalows: This luxury beachfront resort has it all, whether you’re an outdoor enthusiast, love to spend your days lounging by the pool, enjoy world-class shopping or love the nightlife and world-class foodie scene. And located in the thriving downtown area of Santa Monica, you’re within walking distance to all of it.
The bungalows have played host to movie stars like Marilyn Monroe, Jimmy Stewart, JFK—as well as Greta Garbo—a notorious introvert who loved her solitude, and lived in one of the bungalows for more than four years. You’ll quickly understand and appreciate the privacy these rooms provide. Don’t miss out on a GLOW body scrub or foaming enzyme facial at Exhale Spa. And if you’re in the mood for some retail therapy, you can easily venture out to the 3rd Street Promenade.
Dining options are abundant, but we recommend the onsite dining spot, Fig Restaurant. Seasonally inspired dishes harvested from the local Farmers’ Markets result in the freshest, good-for-you cuisine. Other favorites for a moms’ night out on the town would be the elevated Italian restaurant Elephante or the upscale French-Asian restaurant, Cassia. After dinner, stop by The Bungalow, an indoor/outdoor bar and lounge for drinks, bar bites, billiards and a fun people-watching scene.
Two Bunch Palms: Here you can rejuvenate your mind and body, nurture friendships, pamper yourself and rediscover your long-lost passions. Two Bunch Palms in Palm Desert has a stylish, modern vibe decorated with luxury and wellness in mind. The best part? You have to leave the kids at home because this hotel is just for guests 18 years and older.
You can literally spend the day lounging at the spa, soaking in the natural 100-degree hot springs. Or balance your chi with complimentary classes in the yoga dome. Smash out all your stresses on the tennis courts or try your hand at everything from natural indigo dyeing to hand-thrown ceramics. Shared communal areas are the perfect place to reconnect with your mom tribe or have a heart-to-heart on one of the intimate outdoor patios of your suite.
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Lake Arrowhead Resort and Spa: This low-key mom’s getaway is one of the best-kept secrets in Southern California. The picturesque setting is swoon-worthy, and no matter the time of year, there’s something about being lakeside that’ll make you feel refreshed and calm.
If you can swing it, request a room with a view of the lake and a balcony—it’s the perfect place to read a book and toast with your best girl friends. Spoil yourself with a warm stone muscle melt and an oil scalp massage from The Spa of the Pines—one of the best massages our editor’s have ever had. The property also has a private beach where you can rent a kayak or SUP and go out onto the lake, a bonus because this lake is private and typically only accessible to members.
Bin 189, located on site, serves hearty American cuisine for breakfast, lunch and dinner, with a patio overlooking the lake and mountains. There’s really no need to leave the resort, but if you’re feeling the urge to explore—take a short walk to the village just around the corner. You’ll find several lively restaurants, shops and a grocery store.
If you’re a first-time visitor, check out our guide to spending the weekend in Lake Arrowhead. For some kitschy fun, hop aboard the Arrowhead Queen for a one-hour narrated boat tour of the lake where you’ll see close-up views of Lake Arrowheads’ stately homes and learn about the history (and gossip) of this refined mountain-living community. Finally, satisfy your sweet tooth at the Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory for gourmet caramel apples and handmade fudge.
Bellanca Hotel Avalon: Just 26 miles across the Pacific—and a quick hour-long boat ride aboard the Catalina Express—is a worthwhile island getaway and a not-so-secret celebrity playground. Bring your mom best girlfriends here, and you’ll feel like you’ve escaped to the Italian Riviera.
Avalon’s oceanfront Bellanca Hotel is centrally located to all the fun things to do on Catalina. Catch some rays atop the rooftop terrace and gaze down at the quaint town and port full of yachts. Complimentary bikes will take you everywhere, from the Wrigley Mansion to the stunning art deco theatre hidden inside Catalina’s Casino.
Shops and restaurants are within easy walking distance, as is the Descanso Beach Club home to Catalina’s only beachside restaurant and bar and one of the last private beaches in California open to the public. It’s also one of the few places where you can legally have a drink in your hand and your feet in the sand…at the same time. In addition to water sports, the island is also known for rock climbing, ziplining, and four-wheel drive excursions into the untouched interior to see bison, leftover from a 1924 movie.
Hit up The Naughty Fox restaurant in the hotel—Catalina’s newest hotspot for dining and lounging. Top menu picks include lobster BLTs, Frito Misto and Ahi Poke Nachos.
Ojai Valley Inn: Surrounded by the scenic Sulphur and Topatopa mountains, this memory-making mom getaway to Ojai is just 90 minutes away from LA. Health-conscious and spiritually-focused moms will find peace, contentment and gratitude here, add to that an award-winning Spa called the Spa Ojai, tennis courts and a championship golf course, it’s no wonder the Ojai Valley Inn is referred to as ‘Shangri-LA.’
While families love splashing around in the family-friendly Pixie Pool, for Moms on vacation—sans kids—you can peacefully enjoy the Indigo Pool. This adults-only pool is a luxury experience with a full bar and dainty morsels like ceviche, sliced fruit and crudité plates. Four other notable restaurants on the property feature delectable dishes made from locally grown ingredients.
For some fun, shop in town for art, fun gifts and home products. Bibliophile moms should check out Bart’s Books, the world’s most fantastic outdoor bookstore offering over 130,000 second hand books to choose from. Most importantly, though, do not miss what locals call the “pink moment”—a daily phenomenon where the sky takes on a soft, pinkish glow at dusk.
Skyview Los Alamos: This 1950’s roadside lodge turned mid-century modern luxury boutique motel is just off the 101 Freeway on a hilltop with views of the Santa Ynez Wine Country. Road-trippin’ moms can park and forget about the car all weekend long because everything is within walking distance from the rustic chic hotel. The fully-renovated rooms come with down duvets for chilly nights.
Borrow one of the Linus Bikes and ride down the hill to Bell St., the old-west-style town. Basically, Los Alamos is seven blocks dominated by restaurants, tasting rooms and art galleries. For dinner, dine at Norman Restaurant and Bar which serves California fare with nods to the town’s country roots. Foodie moms will love the charcuterie board with apricot and goat cheese crostini, the achiote chicken, Wagyu striploin, and the cornbread pudding.
Relax and refresh after dinner at the 21-and-over heated swimming pool or chill out with one of the vineyard wines on an adirondack chair by the fire pits.
Santa Barbara Funk Zone: With a Mediterranean-like climate and spectacular beaches, Santa Barbara is known as the American Riviera. If you’ve got a group full of really fun women who are always up for a good time, one of the best girl’s trip ideas is planning a trip to Santa Barbara’s Funk Zone—an area full of arts, culture, wineries, restaurants, and shopping.
The Funk Zone has a unique history and is one of the “funkiest” areas to explore with mom friends. Extending from State St. and Garden St. to Montecito St. and Cabrillo Blvd., we recommended staying at a hotel right in the middle of the action. Spots include: Hotel Californian, Riviera Beach House, The Waterman, Hotel Milo, Kimpton Canary, Palihouse, Hotel MIlo and the Haley Hotel. Just a short walk away from any of these accommodations is the most eclectic mix of artist galleries that used to be old warehouses. You’ll also find breweries dotted along the way.
Farm-to-table restaurants like Finch & Fork or The Lark offer fresh, seasonal fare and a local vibe. You’ll be right in the middle of Santa Barbara’s most happening area with your ride-and-die moms, so grab a glass of wine from the Santa Barbara Winery—no kids allowed—and then explore all this bustling area has to offer.
Good to Know: Leave the car at home! You can take the train from LA’s Union Station to Santa Barbara. The Pacific Surfliner route offers daily round-trip service from either Los Angeles or San Diego to Santa Barbara. And once you get there, the station is just a 4-minute walk (0.2 miles) to the Funk Zone.
Glen Ivy Hot Springs Spa: Time-deprived moms who want a quick getaway need the Glen Ivy Spa. You’ll love the body moisturizing spa treatments, hydro massages, 17 wellness pools and the “Grotto” experience at this one-of-a-kind day-spa. It’s a wellness destination where moms can get away from it all—without the sounds of those lovely kids we hold so near and dear—even if only just for the day. Grab a glass of champagne from the Paradise bar and have the “spa day” of your life.
Get ready to dip yourself into various 104-degree, sulfur-rich, geothermal springs—an not just for show, they provide a number of therapeutic effects. Expect to ease tight muscles and joints, calm inflammation in the body, boost blood flow and flush out toxins.
The therapeutic red clay mineral baths, affectionately known as “Club Mud” are said to have healing properties as well. It’s not a fountain of youth, but immerse yourself into the mud and you’ll feel like a playful kid again.
Your day will not be complete without a visit to the Grotto. Descend into a subterranean cave where you’ll be painted neck-to-toe with a warm aloe vera, coconut oil, eucalyptus, shea butter and lavender masque. Then, warm your body in the gently heated cavern where the silky formula soaks further into your skin. When you’re ready, step into the next room to rinse off under a cascading waterfall before moving into the final, cooler grotto to relax with tea, water, and fruit. In a word, heavenly!
Glen Ivy sources organic and locally grown ingredients whenever possible, sometimes harvested from trees that grow right on the property. Fruit for your orange and grapefruit juices or avocados are used daily. Because wellness is what Glen Ivy is all about, they offer a variety or vegetarian and vegan dishes, as well as gluten-free. Our recommends? Start your day in the Goco Café with a Matcha and finish off at The Chill Zone. There you’ll find a variety of fresh pressed juices, delicious popsicles, real fruit smoothies, and even homemade empanadas.
After a day at Glen Ivy Hot Springs, you could be too tired to drive home, so booking an Airbnb might be a way to continue the party through the weekend. There are several great Airbnbs near Corona, CA.
Rancho Santa Fe: The coastal community of Rancho Santa Fe is one of the most expensive and exclusive communities in San Diego County. If you’re a mom who prefers the country club over the PTA, then this resort-style living, rural enclave in the hills is right up your fairway. While there are so many beautiful hotels in Rancho Santa Fe, sometimes with a big group, it’s more fun to rent a house.
Plan a reunion with up to 16 of your best high school buds, sorority sisters or play the consummate party host for just the girls when that decade birthday comes around. We love this private, five-acre resort ranch with 5 bedrooms, 4.5 baths, a driveway big enough to park 10 cars and an abundance of amenities. Moms will love the massive pool, jacuzzi, basketball court, mini golf course and in-ground trampoline. And for the competitive set, there are lawn games like corn hole, bocce ball and horseshoe. The palapa for outdoor meals includes mini fridge, sink, grill and stove. Catch up on life at the outdoor fireplace with cocktails in hand. You’ll enjoy every minute of this home away from home.
Cuyama Buckhorn: The Hidden Valley of Enchantment is the perfect place for passionate, creative moms who relish the idea of being one with nature. Take the uber-scenic Route 33 to get to this former booming oil town at the four corners of four counties. You can even charge your electric vehicles upon arrival.
Cuyama Buckhorn is a laid-back, mid-century meets western-style, fully-renovated motel with modern amenities. Not only is this an artists community, but loads of adventures for nature-loving moms. Visit the Bitter Creek Wildlife Refuge to see endangered California Condors as they roost and forage. In the spring, catch the wildflower superbloom at Carrizo Plain National Monument. Hike to the salt flats, check out the historic cave paintings and the San Andreas fault. ATV through Ballinger Canyon. Mountain bike or hike through Los Padres National Forest. Stargaze at Mt. Pinos. One minute you could be wine-tasting at Sagebrush Annie’s or attending the Fall Food & Wine Festival, and the next minute you could be line dancing at a Chuckwagon BBQ. There’s so much to do on a girls trip to Cuyama.
Carter Estate Winery and Resort: The Carter Estate Winery and Resort in Temecula is the ideal place to spend quality mom ‘me-time’ with friends. The bungalows and suites all have king-sized beds, so you won’t find any families around the property to induce FOMO mom-guilt. Instead, savor every sip of their award-winning sparkling wines on your private patio overlooking the vineyards.
Tempt your palates with a variety of wines from only the best varietals in the Carter Estate wine tasting room at the resort. For curious moms who’d love wine-tasting all of Temecula’s incredible wines, borrow some bikes from the hotel and explore wine country at your own pace or “wine’d” down at the Grapeseed Spa, just up the road at the South Coast Winery Resort & Spa.
Most days, we are researching activities to put our kids in. Dance class, soccer camp, gymnastics, karate, swimming, you name it. But what about us moms? Often we forget that we need some physical fitness during the week that does not include running after our toddler. A time dedicated to us, for us, with other moms that get us, uninterrupted by someone needing a snack. With the beautiful weather the Bay Area grants us on most days, there are some amazing fitness classes geared just for moms. Most offer free trial classes, so check out our picks below and sign up for a class. Why should our kids have all the fun?
Jane Austin Yoga Yoga does wonders for the body and mind, but as a new or pregnant mama, it can be life-changing. Jane Austin is a certified yoga teacher with years of experience and a pretty big following. Her pre-natal classes, pelvic floor awareness, and baby yoga classes are held at Yoga Flow in Noe Valley.
PowerPlay SF Offering in-person and virtual classes, PowerPlay in San Francisco makes it a point to meet you where you are in your fitness journey and help you get to where you want to be. With specialty classes for pre and post-natal, pilates, lift, and even classes for babies as young as 6 months old, PowerPlay is your one-stop shop for fitness.
Natural Resources With a variety of classes ranging from childbirth prep to lactation help and newborn 101, Natural Resources in San Francisco is a favorite among new parents. The three-week fitness series is catered to either pregnant mamas or to new parents. The pregnancy series focuses on breathwork and pelvic floor exercises while the post-natal series focuses on strength and toning. Classes are all outside and set to fun music with a super supportive group.
SRTT (She Runs This Town) If running is more your speed but want to join a group that understands the need to check on baby, stretch, or even stop and pump, this might be your group. With chapters all over the Bay Area including East Bay, all you need to do is join your local chapter, connect, and get ready for lots of mama talk on the pavement.
Momleta With locations in Walnut Creek, Alameda and Oakland, this mom-focused group teaches strength and cardio classes multiple times a week. We love the Baby Bootcamp class made for mamas of all levels. The class is taught in a HITT format and uses strollers and your own little one for a full-body workout. No babysitter is needed!
MissFit Bootcamp Emily is a certified NASM fitness instructor and mom of two toddlers, so she knows what it’s like to have limited time for herself. MissFit Bootcamp offers group classes in beautiful Hayward as well as personal training and an intense 8-week nutritional and fitness series. Check out the Sunday Funday HITT class!
Fit4Mom “Strength in Motherhood” is the tagline of this supportive group that is all about making time for you. From classes like Body Boost which will get your heart rate up to Stroller Strides for a full-body workout with baby in tow, you'll be having fun chatting with other mamas while getting a workout in. There is also an 8-week Body Wellness Program that is all about nutrition and fitness. Fit4Mom is an awesome way to get a workout in with mamas who get the challenges of breastfeeding, toddlers and everything in between.
KG Fitness While this gym isn’t just for mamas, KG Fitness is a small studio in San Mateo that has built a lovely community of women who are supportive and welcoming. With fun classes like DanceVibes, Ballroom, and JumpSport (working out on a trampoline!), you’re sure to find your mama tribe here. Classes start as early as 8 a.m and as late as 7 p.m to help fit in a class when you can.
Beyond The Push Fitness Whether you want to build muscle, increase flexibility, lose weight or just connect with other women, check out Beyond the Push Fitness. With in-person Mama Beast Bootcamp morning classes in Redwood City and San Mateo, you’ll feel better about making time for yourself and being a part of a community of women. In addition to fitness classes, they also do Moms Night Out and themed classes to make it fun. Worried about childcare? Kids are invited to participate too!
Groovitude If dance is more your jam, then check out Groovitude in Palo Alto. Located in the Cubberly Theatre, this small studio founded by two moms have built a fun, loving, and welcoming community for anyone that wants to dance. While there is no childcare, it’s really a time for mamas to connect with their love of dance. With contemporary, tap, hip hop, and jazz classes, this is one studio you’ll want to come back to week after week to learn more steps.
AVAC (Almaden Valley Athletic Center) A popular gym for South Bay parents, the Almaden Valley Athletic Center has a variety of fitness classes, a substantial pool, childcare, and camps for little ones. We love the AbsoluteFit program for all an-around small group (10:1) training for moms and dads that also includes childcare.
FitMamaStrong A boot camp made for mamas, FitMamaStrong in San Jose offers classes in a supportive and positive environment no matter where you are in your fitness journey. Babies are invited in strollers for class while mamas can enjoy some adult conversation. The best part is that 10% of all monthly profits go to the Heritage House in San Jose to support pregnant mamas overcoming hardships.
Dailey Method If yoga, pilates, and barre are more your thing, check out the Dailey Method. The Corte Madera location holds classes in the studio as well as online. One of the perks is the childcare option that can be added so there is no need to book a babysitter when you want to work out!
Bay Club Marin For a variety of fitness classes ranging from dance to yoga to HITT, the Bay Club is a membership well worth it. With the after-school programs, kids camps, and childcare available for members, you can rest assured the kids are taken care of while you get your sweat on. We especially love the heated pools for recreational swimming or lessons for all levels.
Parenting secret: One of the best resources for parenting advice is other parents. Whether you’re a first-time parent, a mom of twins, a father looking to connect with other dads or in search of some neighborhood families to share info with, there’s an NYC parenting group for you. Read on to find your fit. For more ways to connect try these NYC Parenting Facebook groups. For ideas on what to do with your new addition, check out things to do before your baby turns one, and what all new NYC parents need to know.
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A Mother is Born Sometimes the best resource for Parenting 101 can be found by turning to another mother with some serious child-rearing knowledge. A Mother is Born is a business owned by a mother, Meredith Fein Lichtenberg, who also happens to be a registered international board-certified lactation consultant, certified childbirth educator, non-fiction writer, among other talents. The business offers pregnancy and parenting services for New York City moms. The website provides insights, tips, events, and information on classes and groups for pregnant couples, new moms, working moms, and moms seeking lactation advice. Meredith Fein Lichtenberg teaches group and private childbirth classes, prenatal workshops, new mom classes, and offers private consults to smooth the transition for moms going back to work.
Bad Moms of Long Island One of the newer entries to our list, the Bad Moms of Long Island Facebook group was started by LI mom Jesse Curatolo back in September of 2018. It's a strictly no-judgement zone, and venting is encouraged! (If you get on a high horse, you'll be asked to leave.) Sorry dads—this one is just for moms. Talks of in-person meetups for the group are in the works for 2019.
Big City Moms Big City Moms was founded by city moms for city moms, and its biggest event is one no expectant mother or growing family should miss. Biggest Baby Shower Ever, held in NYC (and many other cities, including Atlanta, Chicago, Los Angeles, Miami, and San Francisco) is a jam-packed event that promises and delivers and event filled with gear, info, demonstrations, and more. (Mocktails for all!) Expect to be pampered, receive goodies galore and gain some helpful information about the whole having-and-raising-a-baby thing. Plus, over 100 vendors attend hoping to seduce expecting parents with some of the newest and best baby and parenting products on the market.
Beyond this epic event, other Big City Moms upcoming events include UES New Moms Support Group weekly get together, Infant and Toddler Safety and CPR Class, Nanny Safety Class, and an Expectant Moms Dinner. The website includes a blog that offers tips for parents and those expecting, the hottest trends in the industry, as well as chances to win amazing baby products and more. The company was formed over 12 years ago and while they have accrued over 300,000 members throughout the years, they also acquired some hefty celebrity fans such as Jessica Alba, Christopher Gavigan, Susan Lucci and Kimberly and James Van Der Beek, to name a few.
BoCoCa Parents “BoCoCa” is not a widely used term but it means something for those families immediately south of Downtown Brooklyn. (It’s a blended word combining the names of three adjacent Brooklyn neighborhoods: Boerum Hill, Cobble Hill, and Carroll Gardens. BoCoCa Parents is a restricted Yahoo Group that is a free network for local parents residing in one of these three neighborhoods and boasts almost 11,000 members. The mission of the group is “to establish community and communication amongst Bococa's families and to provide our children with opportunities in which to play, cultivate friendships and establish their roots”. This group is an active and evolving forum for sharing information and advice, making connections, finding and selling items, arranging playdates, and much more.
Bowery Babes Once upon a time, in 2005, a group of women took a prenatal yoga class on Bowery Street, and they just couldn’t quite get enough of each other so they formed a group. Bowery Babes has evolved ever since and has become a large collection of local moms in Lower Manhattan. The group is a NY non-profit that supports women from the time they are expecting through motherhood, and offers endless amounts of opportunities to thrive in a lively and loving community. From playgroups to classes, organized events and book clubs to night outs and daddy brunches, holiday parties and FREE beauty mornings, you can plug right into this group's energy and keep on ticking. If that hasn’t sold you, they also offer discounts and educational lectures on parenting.
The Bronx New Mommies Group Inc. This mommy group was formed by necessity in 2002 when a new mommy by the name of Roxanne Taylor felt a strong need to bond with other moms that shared similar interests and yet she didn’t know how to make such connections happen. Enter, The Bronx New Mommies Group, which grew from a group into a non-profit organization and then a registered charity. This social support group offers a range of support group meetings, activities and special events geared toward fostering a positive and nurturing community for parents and their families. Its website includes a resource directory that lists some key resources such as Walk Safer NYC, Parent Pledge Project, and more. But it doesn’t stop there. Their Sister Group, Dynamic Metro Moms, is geared towards moms with older children from 11 to 13 years old.
Dynamic Metro Moms Sister Group to The Bronx New Mommies Group, this Bronx-based mommy group offers an abundance of weekly social activities, classes and events for moms and their kids throughout the year, as well as special interest clubs including fitness bootcamp, yoga club and more. Upcoming events include an Annual Summer Outing and Mini Spa Party.
Families First Brooklyn Founded by two therapists and parents themselves, Families First is a not-for-profit member based early childhood center located in Cobble Hill. The organization offers parents and caregivers a safe and nurturing place to bring their young children. Among many things, it holds a Moms’ Meet Up every Friday at 11:30 a.m., where you can meet with other moms to talk about a variety topics, express ideas, and share and gather advice in a supportive environment. This meet up does not require membership or a fee to participate.
First Time Upper West Side Moms For just 10 dollars a year, this group will give you a huge Upper West Side slice out of the Big Apple, from midtown to Harlem. First Time Upper West Side Moms can be found on Meetup.com and offers moms and dads literally hundreds of free and/or heavily-discounted events each year. Parents can get discounts on a variety of classes such as music, baby sign, soccer, pilates and yoga, as well as trips to museums and zoos, diverse special events, and an assortment of get togethers at local libraries, Whole Foods, and local cafes and restaurants. Plus: stroller walks for those who want to burn off some extra calories.
HRP Mamas With over 2,000 members, the Hudson River Park Mothers Group serves as a vital and active community for mothers and expectant moms that reside in Lower Manhattan. There are many benefits to this group such as their online social network of verified Lower Manhattan neighborhood moms, weekly playgroups that meet in a comfortable and welcoming place and are facilitated by membership coordinators, educational events arranged through the group, and discounts at local retail stores. But what really stands out as a must for Lower Manhattan moms is this group's New Moms Group Series. Guided by childhood development educators, this weekly get-together for moms and their newborns or infants provides a child-friendly place to share experiences and get support on challenging topics ranging from sleep, development, and establishing routines to issues finding childcare.
Hoboken Family Alliance While there are many niche parent groups in Hoboken, one of the biggest and most active is the Hoboken Family Alliance. The HFA produces several big events throughout the year, including an all-schools open house and "Cabin Fever," a big summer camp open house event. It also sponsors several philanthropic initiatives, such as a school supply drive in the fall and holiday toy drive in December. Events include holiday party in December and a "spring fling" event that includes Hoboken's biggest egg hunt.
API Rainbow Parents API Rainbow Parents provides information and support to Asian-Pacific Islander (API) families with a family member who is lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT). The group is open to parents, other relatives and family members, and friends, as well as to LGBT people themselves. API Rainbow Parents helps families in the same way as PFLAG NYC’s other regular support groups, but has a special focus on meeting the cultural and language needs of API families. Find them on Facebook here.
Black Family Circle This is a free online meeting that provides a safe space for individuals who identify as Black and who have lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) loved ones. The group provides family-to-family support with a focus on the intersection of acceptance and one’s experience as a member of the Black diaspora. The group meets online on the fourth Sunday of every month from 3:00 to 4:30 p.m. starting Sunday, July 26. Register in advance to receive a link to the Zoom meeting; the link is not posted publicly, so you must register to attend each meeting. To register and to receive more information, click here.
Love Makes a Family PFLAG NYC has now launched a support group for Latino families in collaboration with Oasis Latino LGBTS Wellness Center. “El Amor Hace la Familia - Love Makes a Family” is a group of parents and LGBTQ people that has come together for mutual support. The group meets every second Saturday of the month at 10 a.m. at Oasis Wellness Center. The group uses primarily Spanish, but flexibly uses English and Spanglish too.
The TransFamilies Project (TFP) The TransFamilies Project (TFP) is a support group for parents, relatives and friends of transgender children. No matter when a child disclosed his/her gender identity issues, or what stage of transition he/she is in, the TransFamilies Project is a place to meet understanding friends, share important information, and get (and provide) support. Meetings are currently twice a month online, and will take place in Greenwich Village when in-person meetings resume. For questions about the group, please contact group leader Judy Sennesh through PFLAG NYC at transgender@pflagnyc.org. Please note: If you are going to bring someone with you to a TFP meeting who is younger than high-school age, notify Sennesh prior to the meeting.
Marlene Meyerson JCC Manhattan Located on the Upper West Side, Marlene Meyerson JCC Manhattan's mission is to create “opportunities for people to connect, grow, and learn within an ever-changing Jewish landscape." Among the many types of programs and classes offered by the JCC are those geared to family life including breastfeeding and tummy time for new parents, parenting resources that offer infant CPR classes, a dad's meetup brunch and a bump bash complete with mock-tails for expectant parents. You'll also find prenatal and postnatal fitness classes here, such as innovative and safe yoga and water classes, as well as caregiver programs.
JC Families A great resource for all things parenting in Jersey City, JC Families is a go-to for info on local events, family-friendly businesses and school options for all ages. You'll also find listings for childcare, kids' stuff for sale, and more.
Long Island City Parents Meetup Group Established in 2007, this active Meetup group is more than 1000 parents strong. Members use it to coordinate playdates, parties, readings, workshops, and events, as well as advocate for improved playgrounds, schools, and housing. To join, you must live in the 11101 or 11109 zip codes or neighboring areas of Astoria, Greenpoint, or Sunnyside.
Lower East Side / East Village Parents Lower East Side and East Village parents and parents-to-be are invited to register and visit this online forum that connects local parents and covers a broad range of topics such as sleep, feeding, pediatricians, caregivers and challenges in parenthood. Online: lesparents.com
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Manhattan Twins Club As one of the largest multiples communities in the United States, this 25-year-old nonprofit club was founded with the mission to provide support for parents of twins and those expecting multiples. The club offers events throughout the year (many of them free) which address perennial parenting topics, hosts friendly get-togethers such as family picnics and parent socials. A sampling of this years’ past events includes Twiniversity 101 to help parents.
MOMally Astoria Founded by lactation consultant, parent coach, and sleep consultant Andrea Scannell, MOMally Astoria has both an active Facebook group and Meetup calendar. (There's also a general parenting FB group.) Members can request access so they can plan meetups, playdates, etc., and Scannell aims to have mom-hosted, free area events posted daily. She's also hosted experts on New York State family leave policy and District 30 schools. Past events with local parents include holiday parties, crafting events and singalongs.
The Moms Groups Founded by parent and lifestyle coach Renee Sullivan in 2008, this NYC mommy group is one of the most expansive, hosting groups in the Upper East Side, Upper West Side, Union Square, Chelsea, Flatiron, and Midtown in Manhattan, and Carroll Gardens, Cobble Hill, Brooklyn Heights, Williamsburg and Park Slope in Brooklyn. The Moms Groups hold weekly sessions mostly led by either Renee Sullivan or therapists on her team and caters to Expectant Moms, New Moms, Moms of Older Babies, and Second Time Moms.
Motherhood Later than Sooner If you’re 35 or older and you’re a mommy, then you may want to join this group. Motherhood Later than Sooner is a group formed by Robin Gorman Newman, who at the age of 42 became a mom and found it hard to connect to the younger moms. This midlife moms group offers online and face-to-face support for mothers who are 35+ and want to be a part of a community of moms that are raising kids later in life. Benefits of this group include mom group meetings, moms night out dinners, family events, as well as discounts on products and services.
The New Mom Support Group This community-funded group found on Meetup.com offers Queens Moms (and Dads!) with kids 0-3 years of age a place to vent about parenthood safely and without judgement. For nine dollars a month, members can participate in Meetup activities such as play dates, stroller walks, Mommy and me classes and activities for dads. While the title of the group sounds exclusive, stay at home dads, expectant moms, second time moms, and moms with older children are also welcome.
Newport Mommy Another Jersey City group, Newport Mommy is more than 4,300 families strong. Head here for nanny leads and info, local news and events, classifieds, parenting resources, birthday party ideas and more!
NYC Dads Group Finally, a parent group that is just for Dads! There are so many mommy groups that may mention the word “dad” but don’t cater to them. NYC Dads Group is a community started by dads with the simple desire to share similar benefits of being part of a parenthood community as those found in staple mommy groups. The mission of this group has expanded beyond NYC and across the nation, and has become City Dads Group. Meetups include outings, Dads’ Night Out, workshops and special events. Partnering with Boot Camp for New Dads, a nationally-acclaimed 20 year old program for training dads-to-be, this group offers a Boot Camp facilitated by a nationally-certified trainer for expectant fathers and new dads that want to learn baby-raising basics.
New York Single Parents Meetup Group Founded in 2006, this Meetup.com group offers single parents a community to connect with other single parents. With over 2,500 members, this group not only hosts activities for single parents and their kids to meet and make new friends, but also serves as a springboard for special events happening in the city geared toward single parent families. A recent meetup like this was the Microsoft Youthspark Free Weekend Summer Camp for Kids, which offered single parents a free, in-store summer camp for their children.
Parents of NY Teens The Italian proverb “Little children, headache; big children, heartache” may resonate particularly with parents raising kids in the city that doesn’t sleep. But this Yahoo group makes it a heck of a lot easier by offering a place for parents of teens and young adults located in the five boroughs to unite and confront the challenges of raising city kids head on. They actively post on their Facebook page and their blog site to keep parents informed and plugged in.
Park Slope Parents This parenting group originally began in 2002 on Yahoo groups as a way for local parents to connect and exchange ideas on a number of parent-related topics. The membership base grew and grew, which led to the development of a PSP website. The website covers a lot of territory in content and offers expectant parents, new parents and working parents that live in Park Slope, Brooklyn, New York and the surrounding neighborhoods an extensive amount of local resources, parenting information, tips and advice, and organizes local family events throughout the year. The group is also host to a diverse range of subgroups for parents looking to connect with other members of similar professions, interests and life situations.
SoHo Parenting Located in its namesake neighborhood, SoHo Parenting is a center offering myriad services to new and expecting parents, as well as parents of older children. While many of its services, such as advice on sleep or developmental issues are fee-based, its popular ParenTalk blog offers help on a wide range of parenting topics.
Sunnyside Moms Queens moms in Sunnyside and nearby Woodside gather at this Facebook group and in real life to exchange info about all things parenting in their neck of the woods. It's more than 2,000 members strong, so that a lotta knowledge!
UES Mommas With nearly 28,000 members, this private Facebook group for moms on the Upper East Side is a go-to forum for advice on everything from breastfeeding, local resources and shops to sleep issues, childcare, and preschool. (You can also score second-hand gear like strollers, furniture and more.) Yes, you'll find strong opinions here, and the community is not without drama, but aren't diversity and people with a point of view why we all love NYC?
UES Mommas With nearly 28,000 members, this private Facebook group for moms on the Upper East Side is a go-to forum for advice on everything from breastfeeding, local resources and shops to sleep issues, childcare, and preschool. (You can also score second-hand gear like strollers, furniture and more.) Yes, you'll find strong opinions here, and the community is not without drama, but aren't diversity and people with a point of view why we all love NYC?
Meeting other like-minded moms and dads isn’t always the easiest task. We’ve searched San Diego for clubs and meetings that will help you connect with other parents while your little one might make a friend or two. Whether you like working out, hiking, exploring the city, or just grabbing a coffee, no matter your child’s age, we’ve got a treasure trove of groups for you. So scroll down and find that perfect match for you and your crew.
Work it out! Whether it's during pregnancy or with a wee one in tow, meet a group of moms who shape it up (with you). From Stroller Stride® and Fit4Baby to Stroller Barre and Body Back, this group offers classes for all stages of motherhood. So, find a group of friendly moms and get your workout on. Meet-ups all over San Diego. Also, if you're unsure, the first class is free.
The purpose of the local newcomer's clubs is to help its members to meet new people, learn about the community and discover how to get involved in the things that make their local area unique. These clubs are very active and open to receiving new members.
Nature and nurture go hand-in-hand and this local group helps families connect to nature. The group has two to three outdoor adventures per month both during the week and the weekend. Mini-groups meet for hikes, campfires, tide-pooling, and other cool stuff!
Getting a little one to latch on can be trickier than it looks. This moms group offers support from other moms on breastfeeding and weaning your little one. Their free meetings provide a nurturing environment, especially to new moms just learning the ropes. Also, there are groups for moms with toddlers too.
The MOMS Club is a national non-profit organization whose initials stand for "Moms Offering Moms Support." This club is a support group for the stay-at-home mother of today who's seeking activities for herself and her kids and is proud of her choice of at-home mothering. MOMS Club has two chapters in the San Diego area serving the Poway Unified School District, Escondido, and San Marcos.
Let the kiddos run free while you talk to other mamas about tips for bringing up your brood. If you have twins, triplets, quadruplets (or more), then this is the group for you. Receive "big-sister" mentoring from moms who have older multiples, join the age-based playgroups, buy/sell events, or new parent get-togethers. Further, find out what to do when your kiddos run in more than one direction all at the same time!
Calling all dads! Whether you're married, single, working, or a stay-at-home dad, this group is for you. You'll find several meet-ups per month at parks, museums, and sporting events. In addition, this group hosts a Dad's Night Out to socialize, relax and talk about everything. Meet-ups occur during the week and on weekends to make room for everyone.
Word of mouth! This local network grows quickly. Many moms in this group have wee ones age three and younger. Also, regular play dates are hosted by the same mamas for consistency; however, they are open to new members who want to host. Even more, if you like to swap clothes or nab a mom's night out, this is your group too. Lastly, there's no cost to attend.
San Diego has some of the best weather in the country and Hike It Baby encourages families to get outside and enjoy it! Groups meet several times a week, are geared for ages 0-6, and include toddler waddles and stroller walks.
Mothers of Preschoolers (MOPS) is an international organization with many local chapters in the San Diego area. The group's goal is to provide connection and support for all moms believing that amazing things happen when moms come together. The group organizes playdates, guest speakers, and "moms night out," among many other things.
If you feel like you’re on a never-ending treadmill of diaper changes and naptime battles, getting out of the house and commiserating with fellow parents can be a sanity-saver. Now, more than ever, is the time to find your tribe, glean essential parenting tips, and bemoan about how our bundles of joy aren’t always so joyous (but how we love them anyway!). Read on for a rundown of our favorite parent groups in LA that you can join—you may even find a new best friend for yourself and your kid in the process.
Who They Are: A parenting "village" founded by state-recognized infant-family and early childhood mental health specialist Bryana Kappa. South Bay Mommy & Me has a variety of classes—both virtual and in-person—to help nurture mothers as they raise their babies and toddlers. There are groups for infants, toddlers and second-time moms, as well as twin groups, pregnancy and postpartum support.
What They Do: Mothers and babies meet weekly for 75 minutes, where they can ask questions and ruminate on the struggles and triumphs of baby and toddlerhood. Topics are timed according to the child’s developmental stage, with age-appropriate activities that allow tiny tots plenty of time for rolling, crawling, cruising, walking and more. Once moms "graduate" from the program, they get an invitation to join Kappa's Conscious Mommy Circle, which teaches mothers mindfulness techniques to enhance their awareness of parenting and motherhood.
Where They Meet: Redondo Beach & online via Zoom. What It Costs: $325 per 8-week session.
Who They Are: A Westside staple for new and expecting moms, this Santa Monica boutique offers a slew of classes and workshops to tackle all the stages of pregnancy and early childhood (plus a super-stocked store where you can buy all the things you never knew you needed for your baby). Moms can get all their questions answered about postpartum care, nursing, sleep, finger foods, milestones and more. There are also certified lactation consultants and doulas to help with various needs.
What They Do: In addition to Mommy & Me support groups that guide new mothers through all of the ups and downs of raising a baby or toddler, the Pump Station also offers a multitude of specialty classes, including Intro to Breastfeeding, Returning to Work and Coping with Preschool Panic. There's even an online class for new grandparents to keep them up to date with all of the latest trends in baby-raising.
Where They Meet: Virtual as well as in-person meet-ups at the Pump Station & Nurtury (2727 Main St. Suite F, 2nd Floor)—as well as at Early Childhood Development Associates (6411 Melrose Ave., in Los Angeles) and Healing Through Action Studio (1201 S. Victory Blvd., Suite 104, in Burbank). What It Costs: Mommy & Me groups (1st & 2nd/3rd time moms), $320 for a virtual 8-week session and $420 for an in-person 8-week session; Parents & Me (both parents) classes cost $380 for an 8-week virtual session and $480 for an 8-week in-person session; individual workshop prices vary.
Best LA Parent Group: MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers)
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Who They Are: Anyone who's ever had a "threenager" can tell you: New baby moms aren't the only ones in need of support. MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) is a Christian-based organization that offers support groups and meetups for moms of kids who are past the diapers and formula stage. With more than 100,000 members in 67 countries, there's likely a MOPS group near you, wherever you are.
What They Do: Weekly meetups to talk about child development, share stories and offer support to moms of young children. Whether you're fighting bedtime battles, epic tantrums or school anxiety, you are not alone. Note: While MOPS welcomes moms of all denominations, there is a strong Christian leaning to the group, with its mission statement being to help moms "realize their potential as mothers, women and leaders, in relationship with Jesus, and in partnership with the local church."
Where They Meet: Churches throughout Los Angeles (see the "Find a Group" section of the website) as well as virtually via Zoom. What it Costs: Membership fees start at $32 per year.
Who They Are: Mommy & Me and Mommy, Daddy & Me classes are led by a team of licensed psychotherapists, founded by parenting pro Julie Wright, MFT, co-author of The Happy Sleeper and Now Say This: The Right Words to Solve Every Parenting Dilemma. Classes for new parents start when your baby is one-three months and continue through the first year.
What They Do: Weekly 90 minute classes help you adjust to parenthood (it is an adjustment!) and learn what to expect during your baby’s first year. Find your tribe as you laugh, sing, have fun and ask questions. Topics follow the babies’ development and include guidance for improving sleep, introducing solid foods and many more.
Where They Meet: Santa Monica & Sherman Oaks. What It Costs: $340/session for one parent and $420/session for a couple (each session includes eight 90-minute classes).
Who they are: Formally known as Babytalk LA, Wevolve "provides a supportive and fun environment where parents explore current parenting approaches and also build life-long friendships with other parents who have children close to the same age." From expectant parent groups and sensory play groups to parent support groups for elementary school aged kids, Wevolve is a safe place for parents to share, learn and grow. There is also a group for parents who are going through separation or divorce.
What they do: Fans of the parent-and-me class compare it to group therapy in a good way. The environment is open, non-judgmental and supportive. In addition to giving parents the chance to connect, experts are also occasionally brought in to offer insight on topics including sleep, first foods, sign language and child safety. Of course, your little one will also have the opportunity to "mingle" (i.e. crawl, roll and wiggle around) as you sing songs, learn about baby massage, sensory play and other activities for you and child.
Where they meet: Outdoor spaces, parks and private residences in Beverly Hills & Westwood—as well as virtual via Zoom. What it costs: $495 for 10 week session.
Who They Are: The “Moms Offering Moms Support” acronym says it all. It's a place to meet other mothers and build support systems. Of course, the added bonus is your little one gets to have similarly aged kids to play with.
What They Do: Each chapter has their own meeting schedules and planned activities, including things like playgroups, moms night out, parenting speakers, craft and cooking activities, book clubs, and plenty of ways to help those in need with charitable activities and fundraising events. Visit the national MOMS Club website to find the nearest local chapter in your area. There are dozens and dozens in the LA area so you’re sure to find a great fit for both you and your brood.
Where They Meet: With chapters all across LA (including throughout the Westside, Valley and South Bay), you shouldn't have trouble finding a group close to you. What It Costs: An annual membership fee anywhere between $35-$45 depending on the chapter. Events and activities are generally free.
Who They Are: Using a carefully-curated curriculum developed over the past 25+ years, Sleepy Planet Parenting was founded by psychotherapists and sleep experts Jill Spivak and Jennifer Waldburger, authors of the bestselling book,” The Sleepeasy Solution: The Exhausted Parent’s Guide to Getting Your Child to Sleep from Birth to Age 5.” In addition to offering events, one-on-one consultations, and energy healings, they also offer parenting groups throughout LA.
What They Do: Groups are designed for first, second and third-time moms, and cover all the essential developmental issues including baby sleep, feeding and cognitive milestones—as well important parent-centric topics such as marriage, identity and self care. Each 90-minute group begins with general questions and answers, followed by a different educational topic. The session ends with singing and playtime for the children. Groups meet in person outdoors,
Where They Meet: Westwood & Pacific Palisades. What It Costs: $695 for 8 week session.
Best LA Parent Group: West LA Parents Of Multiples
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Who They Are: It should come as no surprise that moms (and dads) of multiples need all the extra help they can get. This group offers an extensive support system for LA parents (and even those expecting) of twins, triplets, quadruplets or more. With events and resources both on and offline, there are tons of ways to get involved, meet other parents of multiples and get much-needed encouragement both before birth and after.
What They Do: West LA Parents of Multiples offers seminars and informational meetings on parenting topics, playgroups with similar aged kids, an online forum, and even a collection of preemie clothes members can borrow. Support systems are also in place to provide meals for families with newborns and a helping hand to moms on bedrest or families in the NICU. As if all of this unconditional support wasn’t enough, WLAPOM taps into its philanthropic side by donating essential supplies and baby gear to needy parents of multiples through the Multiple Helpings program.
Where They meet: Across Los Angeles as well as via Zoom. What It Costs: Families are charged an annual membership fee of $55.
Who They Are: Dads need support squads too, and that’s exactly why the LA Dads Group was formed. Whether you're the lone dad at the playground, the only guy in your kid’s playgroup, or simply a father who wants to take an active role in your little one’s life while meeting other dads, this group is for you.
What They Do: The group hosts playdates, parenting workshops, social events like beach outings or movie screenings, and even dads-night-out. They also organize volunteer activities from time to time to do their part in paying it forward for those less fortunate.
What It Costs: The group is free to join. Where They Meet: Various locations.
Who They Are: Can’t go anywhere without your beloved baby carrier? Feel naked when you’re not strapped to your little nugget? Then this is the group for you. Whether you’re new to babywearing (or you’ve just mastered wearing two kids at once), you’ll find a whole lot of support here. A certified nonprofit organization, Babywearing LA believes that babies are designed to be carried and that doing so (with the right information and tools) can be mutually beneficial for both you and your little joey. In addition to monthly meetings, Babywearing LA also offers an online community via Facebook where you can ask questions and meet other moms.
What They Do: Monthly events all across the LA area include play dates and meetings with other babywearing parents, workouts while babywearing, and classes on the basics of babywearing. Meeting hosts will bring along a variety of different carriers for new parents to try out, and parents are welcome to bring their own carriers if they need help putting them on or a "fit check" to make sure they're wearing it right.
Where They Meets on the Westside and Eastside, alternating every month. Times and locations are listed on the website or on Babywearing LA's Instagram page. What It Costs: There is no fee to join the group and general meetings and playdates are free (and you don't need to RSVP—just show up!).
Who They Are: Breastfeeding (especially for the first time) can be enough to make any new parent think those all too familiar “what did I get myself into?” thoughts. Luckily you are not alone. A local chapter of La Leche League, a national organization dedicated to supporting women who are breastfeeding, is the perfect place to meet other nursing moms, ask questions and get help. There are several local chapters in the LA area, but the largest and most active is La Leche League Los Angeles Westside.
What They Do: Local groups meet monthly and any mom is welcome to join. Meetings are generally casual and offer a moms safe space to talk about issues, share solutions and support fellow moms and babies through the triumphs and trials of breastfeeding. The meetings are led by volunteer League Leaders, breastfeeding moms who have been trained and accredited by La Leche League. Leaders are also available to contact by phone for support outside of the meetings.
What It Costs: There's no fee to join. Where They Meet: Various locations plus virtual meetings. Check the website to find your nearest chapter.
Who They Are: Build your village while getting rid of some unwanted baby weight in the process? Yes please! This program offers a variety of kick-butt exercise classes, such as Stroller Strides and Stroller Barre programs, that will get you and your small fry out of the house and get your heart pumping at the same time (win/win!).
What They Do: Unlike some of the traditional support groups, Fit4Mom is a bit more of an expense offering many different types of fee-based exercise packages to choose from once you sign up to be a member. But they also offer playgroups, crafts, and mothers-nights-out for free to anyone who wants to attend, member or not!
Where They Meet: Fit4Mom Franchises are located all over LA County: Westside, South Bay LA, Los Angeles, Santa Monica, Torrance, San Fernando Valley, Palos Verdes, and San Pedro and Long Beach. What It Cost: Cost varies by plan but your first class is always free to try.
Sometimes getting out of the house just isn't an option. Thanks to the invention of the good old internet, you can still make friends, seek help and support or just share some much-needed memes in the middle of the night. Here are some of our favorites: Peachhead: Before Facebook groups were even a thing, the OG parenting forum in Los Angeles was Peachhead. Founded in 1997 by Venice mom Linda Perry, the group now has over 10,000 members and continues to be a go-to place to gab, swap baby gear, and ask every parenting question under the sun.
LA Mommies: With the long-reaching influence of social media, there are literally hundreds of Facebook groups dedicated to moms, parents, and parents to be. One of these biggest networks in our part of the planet is LA Mommies. It’s a private group (so no one outside of it will see you post about having a mommy meltdown at 2 a.m.) but with over 50,000 members, be prepared to have your posts read (and potentially commented on) by thousands of people. Posts are anything and everything mom-related from pregnancy and parenting advice to the best spots for birthday parties or date nights.
Southbay LA Mommies: If you're in the South Bay with kids, you'll want to sign onto this Facebook group to get all the deets about local goings-on, free stuff for pickup, nanny recommendations and more. Looking for a kid-friendly restaurant by the beach? Need a good playgroup in Torrance for your 1-year-old? With more than 12,000 members, you can ask a question and it will usually be answered within minutes.
Westside Moms: Another local Facebook group, this is a group "with high hopes for creating real friendships among moms and our kiddos." Must live in Brentwood, Santa Monica or Pacific Palisades to join.
Moms Helping Moms: Need a new nursing chair? Want to unload you baby clothes? This group is for strictly for moms to donate to other moms (not an online forum for advice).
Solo Parent Society: Parenting is hard; parenting without a partner can be even harder. The Solo Parent Society connects you with other single moms and dads to share advice and offer support. Each week will cover a topic in the "52 topics related to Solo Parent Life."
We all know how important it is for parents to stay connected online (now more than ever!). Working from home, social distancing and homeschooling can be isolating and overwhelming, so we’ve found a bunch of Facebook groups you can join to reach out and connect with other parents in the Dallas community. Read on to find that support, shared knowledge and camaraderie are just a few clicks away in a local online group for parents in the DFW.
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Dallas Moms This massive group of almost 10,000 member moms was created in December 2014. It is a community made up of moms who work outside the home as well as some who have a side gig, work from home, are budding entrepreneurs, do volunteer work, etc. They share talents, do good deeds, share great ideas, help each other with mom questions, inspire each other, help each other find humor and be supportive overall.
Dallas Moms Community Group for Working Moms This is an online neighborhood group, sponsored by Dallas Moms (formally Dallas Moms Blog). Working moms chat about kids and the balance (or lack thereof) between work and parenting.
Black Metro Moms of Dallas Black Metro Moms of Dallas is a community of moms living and working in the Dallas metroplex. Whether you are a new mom or you are about to have an empty nest, this group wants you to have a place where you can socialize, have fun, meet other moms, have meet ups with moms and their kids, support each other, get advice, give advice, share information and inspire each other.
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Transplant Parents of Dallas This group started as a Meetup group in 2013 and have evolved into a Facebook only group of parents who have transplanted to Texas from other states or countries. This purpose of this group is to connect to other transplants and provide resources to each other as we all navigate Dallas together.
Black Moms of Suburbia - North Of Dallas Black Moms of Suburbia's mission is to partner with organizations to create opportunities where Black mothers can authentically be heard and enlighten communities by allowing them to share their experiences. They strive to dismantle racism, discrimination and inequality by hosting curated events that support diversity and inclusion.
Dallas Jewish Parents This group is a great resource for our community focused on providing valuable information on events, activities, opinions and various service providers. It's a place for us to support each other and give a voice to our community.
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Special Needs Parents of North Texas This group was created for special needs parents to seek advice, referrals and support. This is an open discussion page for those in North Texas. Because you're never alone in the struggles you face. And once you find your people, your allies, your village . . all the challenges and struggles will seem just a little bit easier.
Dallas Dads Group The Dallas Dads Group is a diverse community of fathers taking an active role in their children’s lives. They meet several times a month; with our kids at parks, playgrounds, museums, parent-and-me classes, and living rooms across the DFW area. They’ll also organize parenting workshops and “Dad’s Night Out” events to give our members an opportunity to socialize, learn and support each other as we navigate parenthood.
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Autism Mamas DFW This group is a place where parents of Autistic kiddos can share their experiences, get support and know they are not alone.
Dallas Moms of Multiples This group was created to share ideas, ask questions, and vent about the joys of having multiples.
Fort Worth Moms Group It really does take a village so this group meets regularly to support each other, cry together and laugh until we pee! The group enjoys play dates and Moms Night Out
Do you have a parenting group that you’d like added to this list? Send an email to kate@tinybeans.go-vip.net.
Summer time means warm lazy days spent with family, with maybe a beach or camping trip added in for good measure. While you’re chasing your kids and making memories the last thing you want to worry about is your hair. Luckily we’ve got you covered with some easy summer hairstyles that are cute and functional.
A fun, but easy hairstyle to keep your curly or natural hair up and out of the way is with a Pineapple Updo like the one shown in this easy to follow YouTube tutorial by SimplyBiancaAlexa. All you need is a little moisturizer and a scrunchie, and you’ll have a perfect updo in minutes.
If the summer sun has you overheating, sweep your hair up into a top knot that’s easy and playful. Keep it sleek and pinned for a cleaner look or just let the ends hang loose for a little more messy fun.
This is a great look for short hair when you want to sweep it back, but still keep some volume. Work your hair into a loose French braid and tie it off with a short ponytail.
Your kiddos aren’t the only ones who can rock a ponytail. Sweep yours up high for a more dramatic, grown-up look that still keeps the hair out of your face while you're racing around the splash pad.
Roll up that classic bandana you still have from summer camp and wrap it around your forehead Karate-Kid-style, then loosely weave some hair around the band for a messy half-up style.
Braid your hair into a crown for a stylish look that keeps your hair off your shoulders and lasts all day. You can keep it simple by using a twisted braid. Start at the top of your hairline and slowly twist two sections together, gathering more hair into the braid as you work your way to the opposite side and secure the ends with a bobby pin. Or check out this easy-to-follow video tutorial.
You can never go wrong with a basic messy bun to give you the clean, practical look of an updo without being too formal. Pull your hair into a loose ponytail, either high or low will work. Twist the hair, and wrap it around the base of the ponytail, continuing to wrap below the bun. Secure your hair with an elastic tie and bobby pins. You can pull out a few strands from the bun or around your face to make it a little messier.
Headbands don’t have to be relegated to bad hair days and gym visits. Elevate a basic top knot or ponytail by wrapping a floral print scarf into an accent piece.
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Get gorgeous beach waves for that date night or moms night out, without more than a few minutes of effort with the genius hair tie by SoCal Curls. It gives you the look in half an hour, and you can even chase the kids while your hair is setting. We tested it out on ourselves, and after setting the hair tie in and then enjoying a few minutes of playtime, we were left with happy kids and perfect curls. A mom win-win. You can buy the SoCal Curls in several adorable colors here.
Skip the boring single mom bun and get a little more creative with two. Panda buns are as easy as regular buns, with a much more stylish result. Split your hair into two parts and put each side up into a high, messy bun.
Whether you are new to the area or looking for a little support during these crazy times, a moms’ group can be a great way get out there and make some friends. Many offer online Facebook groups, meet ups, parenting classes and moms-only nights out so that you can change out of the yoga pants and get some adult conversation on the regular. Some are even dedicated to dads! Scroll through to find a moms group near you.
San Francisco
Golden Gate Mothers Group The Golden Gate Mothers Group is a San Francisco-based mothers group that focuses on moms and all things motherhood. With over 4,000 member, this group offers playgroups, helping hand resources and lots of other options to moms living in SF.
San Francisco Parents of Multiples The San Francisco Parents of Multiples Club is a non-profit organization formed to offer support to parents and expectant parents of multiples.
Black Moms of San Francisco This group provides a fun and relaxed space for black mothers of infants and toddlers to get to know each other. Working or stay at home moms and expecting moms welcome. Get togethers include picnics in the park, brunch at kid friendly restaurants, playdates, mommy and me yoga, baby music class and more are offered throughout the year.
Main Street Mamas San Francisco This group, which originated as the marketing and community arm of Sensible Sitters, now has a meet up space at Stonestown Mall and a robust community of over 13,000 San Francisco moms. The Facebook group is active—ask questions and receive support related to raising kids in SF. MSM has branched out to other areas of the Bay, including MSM Marin and MSM East Bay.
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Castro Valley Mothers Club The Castro Valley Mothers Club (CVMC) provides a supportive community to mothers with children of all ages, as well as expectant mothers. The Club offers playgroups, family activities, as well as monthly meetings and a newsletter.
First Time Moms—East Bay A group for meeting other first time moms. The group meets 2 to 3 times a week to chat, swap stories, get tips, and get out of the house. Activities include walks, park play-dates, lunches, happy hours, coffee, fitness for mommy and baby, as well as beauty and spa appointments.
F.U.N. Mothers Club The FUN Mothers Club is a volunteer-run non-profit open to parents and kids in Fremont, Union City & Newark. The club provides the opportunity to gain support, share knowledge, experience friendships and promote a sense of community for the members and their families.
Iron Horse Mothers Club The Iron Horse Mothers Club (IHMC) was formed to serve as a resource to mothers with young children in the San Ramon, Danville, Dublin and Alamo communities. The IHMC is a support network for its members with playgroups and great activities throughout the year for kids, moms and the whole family.
Mount Diablo Mother's Club The Mt. Diablo Mothers Club club is based out of Walnut Creek and serves Walnut Creek, Pleasant Hill, Martinez, Clayton and Concord. It is a social and support group for mothers and expectant mothers that seeks to form and strengthen friendships for you and your family.
Mocha Moms of West Contra Costa Chapter Mocha Moms, Inc. is a support group for mothers of color who have chosen not to work full-time outside of the home in order to devote more time to their families and communities. Mocha Moms serves as an advocate for those mothers and encourages the spirit of community activism within its membership.
Parents, Resources and More (PRAM) PRAM offers many playgroups, classes, activities, outings and opportunities for Richmond-area parents to connect to each other and create valuable social and support networks.
Sol Mamas Sol Mamas are women from all backgrounds, of all shapes, sizes and fitness levels who share a love for travel, nature, sustainable living, community, natural health/wellness, and life. This group hosts mom and baby activities, travel excursions and retreats for women and events for friends and family.
Tri-City Mothers of Multiples Established in 1979, the Tri-City Mothers of Multiples is a group for women who have, or are expecting, twins, triplets or higher order multiples. The club offers emotional, educational, and social support to women in the Fremont, Newark, and Union City area, and beyond. Includes playgroups, a "Big Sister" program, lending library and more.
Alameda Family Collective The Alameda Family Collective connects Alameda families by providing resources and opportunities to learn, serve and be together. With a quarterly education series, ongoing special events, a platform for hosting playdates and family-friendly volunteer opportunities, there is something for every family.
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San Bruno Parents Club This supportive community is for all local families who want to make authentic connections, share resources, and have fun. Here, you will find yourself among fellow parents who truly get it; we are here to validate and encourage you during challenging seasons of parenting, and to celebrate your joy during the good times.
South San Francisco Mothers Club The South San Francisco Mothers Club seeks to nurture an engaging and supportive community for parents and expectant parents living in or around South San Francisco. They offer a private Facebook group, a swap, moms only events, playgroups, book club, volunteering opportunities and fun events for families.
Silicon Valley Twins & Triplets Established in 1971 as a non-profit, Silicon Valley Twins & Triplets (formerly Gemini Crickets) club supports families in the unique experience of parenting multiples (twins, triplets and beyond).
Parents' Club of Palo Alto and Menlo Park PAMP is the largest parent organization on the Peninsula and it offers member parents an on-line website for networking and sharing information, monthly newsletters, speaker events, playgroups, preschool fairs and family activities.
Burlingame Mothers' Group The Burlingame Mothers’ Club (BMC) provides mothers of children from birth through age five with support, information, friendship and community.
Coastside Mothers' Group The Coastside Mothers' Club (CMC) provides support to and a social network for families along the San Mateo Coast (from Montara to Pescadero). Members are both working and non-working moms, but fathers and all caregivers are also encouraged to participate in events and outings.
The Mid-Peninsula Parents of Multiples Club (MPPOM) The Mid-Peninsula Parents of Multiples Club (MPPOM) provides community, education and peer support to parents on the Bay Area Peninsula (Millbrae to Silicon Valley) sharing the joys and challenges of raising multiples.
The Pacifica Mothers Club The Pacifica Mothers Club provides friendship and support for mothers and primary caregivers of children from pre-birth through age five. Offerings include playgroups, Moms Night Out events, book clubs, home-cooked meals after a baby's birth and more.
The San Carlos Belmont Parents Club The San Carlos Belmont Parents Club mission is "Parents Helping Parents". The SCBPC offers age-based playgroups, speakers series, mom and dads nights out, family events (like picnics and museum days), children's outings, a babysitting co-op, in-a-pinch program when you need help most and so much more.
San Mateo Parents Club The San Mateo Parents Club (SMPC) is a community of parents with kids from birth to kindergarten age (or currently expecting) in San Mateo and surrounding areas who encourage friendship, support, and advice.
New North MOPS/MOMSnext These groups are a safe place for mothers to be authentic with their successes and their struggles, to be better equipped in the vital roles they play and to find their identity by journeying alongside one another. They provide educational/ resourceful videos, live speakers, arts and craft time for mommies and Mom Night Outs. They also offer amazing breakfast and childcare is provided for ages 5 and under. Sister locations: Foster City, San Francisco/Dolores Park and Alameda
Marin Mommies A group for Marin moms looking for playdates, friends to meet for outdoor activities, rainy day creative activities, mom's night out, shared support and information.
Corte Madera Larkspur Mothers Club The CMLMC aims to build a supportive community of mothers with young children in Corte Madera, Larkspur and surrounding areas by fostering friendships, encouraging learning and offering community events, mom or dad-only events and special interest groups.
Marin Dads Marin Dads has an online forum and monthly events including monthly dinner (no kids) and monthly weekend playgroup. It's a great way to get advice, meet other dads and be an active participant in your child's life.
Marin Parents of Multiples MPOMC is part of a national organization offering guidance to parents of multiples. Its mission is to provide educational, social and emotional support to parents before their children are born, as well as during the critical months and years that follow.
Novato Mothers Club The Novato Mother’s Club provides mothers with a supportive, nurturing environment, friendship and activities. Enjoy an online forum, playgroups, children’s outings, family events, mom’s night outs, a monthly newsletter and activities geared toward families of children from pregnancy and beyond.
The Petaluma Mothers' Club The Petaluma Mothers' Club is made up of caregivers with children through age five. They offer playgroups, monthly meetings and special family events for support, education and socializing.
Santa Rosa Mothers' Club The mission of the Santa Rosa Mothers’ Club (SRMC) is to provide an environment where mothers and young children can develop friendships and community, exchange information and have valued opportunities for social interaction with other mothers, children, and families.
Sonoma County Mothers of Multiples The Sonoma County Mothers of Multiples Club is a group of parents of twins and triplets who have come together for support, education, ideas-and, yes-fun! You may also join the group while pregnant and begin to receive the many benefits of membership before you deliver.
Southern Marin Mothers' Club The Southern Marin Mothers Club strives to provide a supportive, nurturing community for families to share meaningful experiences, fun and fellowship that strengthen family bonds.
Call the sitter and get ready for Moms Night Out because a new Bad Moms sequel is officially coming to theaters! Here’s the scoop on the latest entry in this hilarious film franchise.
The newly announced film, Bad Moms’ Moms, will focus on the grandmother characters introduced in A Bad Moms Christmas played by by Christine Baranski, Susan Sarandon and Cheryl Hines.
No word yet on what the premise of the story will be, however at the end of the Christmas sequel, the trio of grandmothers left their families behind for a last-minute trip to Las Vegas, so it’s possible we could see where that road trip took them. No word yet on a release date, but we’re definitely pumped for this movie!
