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Mother’s Day Gifts for New Moms (That Aren’t Also for the Baby)

by Kate Cartia

New moms aren’t your average giftees. New schedules, new workday routines, and a whole new person make your usual go-to Mother’s Day gifts a little less reliable. Maybe a gift card for a night out is a little too soon, or a book might sit on the nightstand unread for months as their new family member gets acquainted. You’ll also want to skip any presents that are also kinda for the baby (a new breast pump is cool and appreciated, but not today). Simple, right? No worries. That’s why we’re here.

We’ve put together a guide that makes picking out the best gifts easy. Whether she’s your wife, friend, sister, daughter, coworker, or another loved one, these thoughtful and helpful presents are fantastic on their own, or combined with goodies for the new little one. Or, snag a few that she’ll love from this list and put together a sure-to-be-appreciated box or basket. Whatever you choose, these Mother’s Day gifts for new moms make sure they feel loved!

COS Oversized Crossbody

COS

For new moms, the days of tiny clutches and wristlets are on pause, but that doesn't mean style is out the window! This amazing oversized crossbody has room for everything mom needs and then some and it's perfectly lightweight. It's crafted from 100% recycled fabric in the signature pillowy texture and offered in a vibrant cobalt-blue shade along with several other great hues.

COS Oversized Crossbody ($135.00)—Buy Here!

Emerson Caftan in Organic Rainbow Stripe

Emerson Caftan

We're pretty sure we can thank Palm Royale for bringing back the caftan, and thank it we do. Caftans are the epitome of comfort and they're absolutely not just for around the house. Running errands, vacation, pool days, travel, after work, out of the shower...okay, maybe we'll buy two.

Emerson Caftan in Organic Rainbow Stripe ($198.00)—Buy Here!

'Great British Bake Off' Coloring Book

Amazon

Official Bake Off illustrator, Tom Hovey (he does all the illustrations for the show itself!) created this 90 page coloring book that's ideal for any GBBO enthusiast. New moms think about more than enough; this is a great way for her to unwind.

'Great British Bake Off' Coloring Book ($17.99)—Buy Here!

Mother Patch Trucker Hat by mother. hats

mother. hats

Who has time to wash their hair every day? Not us, and definitely not new moms. Help her keep it out of the way on no-wash days with one of these adorable trucker hats from mother.hats.

Mother Patch Trucker Hat by mother. hats ($38.00)—Buy Here!

Evereden Belly Serum Experience Set

two bottles of postpartum serums
Evereden

Ideal for pregnancy, postpartum, and beyond, this serum set smells incredible: Damask rose and pear or peony, raspberry, and peach, and it nourishes and soothes mom's sensitive belly after all the good work it did. It absorbs fast, feels amazing, and the bottles are so pretty, too!

Evereden Belly Serum Experience Set ($76.00)—Buy Here!

Classic Happy Face Bracelet by Lisa Gozlan

silver and gold stretch beaded smiley face bracelets stacked on arm
Lisa Gozlan

Although we're well-aware that the adjustment to new baby mode isn't always perfectly easy, this Y2K-vibey stretch bracelet is a great reminder to smile whenever the mood strikes your favorite new mom. Available in silver and gold finishes.

Classic Happy Face Bracelet by Lisa Gozlan ($88.00)—Buy Here!

BAGGU Puffy Cooler Bag

cooler bag with cherry and lemon prints
BAGGU

Whether she's returning to the office or managing her personal/professional life from home, this adorable cooler bag is a must. Encourage her to keep snacks, eye patches, breastfeeding supplies, and (of course) water all stocked up in this roomy bag that she can take with her to work or from room to room in her house as she goes about her day. She won't have to keep heading to the kitchen for provisions either way!

BAGGU Puffy Cooler Bag ($58.00)—Buy Here!

Soft Suede Clogs

KIDMI

This viral style clog is popular for a reason; they're wildly comfortable. Of course, they're also versatile for year-round wear, are really lightweight, easy, and come in multiple colors. But the most important part? They're. So. Comfortable. They'll give the new mom in your life a go-to pair of shoes she can wear around the house and run errands in, plus they can easily accommodate any leftover foot swelling (we've been there!).

Soft Suede Clogs ($39.99)—Buy Here!

Shiatsu Neck and Back Massager

beige neck massager
Nekteck

Almost 60k Amazon reviewers can't be wrong. This massager works her neck, back, lower back, and more with adjustable intensity, too!

Shiatsu Neck and Back Massager ($49.99)—Buy Here!

Jeni's Pint Club Ice Cream Subscription

Jeni's Ice Cream

Our shopping editor swears Jeni's is the best ice cream on the planet, and we're pretty sure every woman deserves an ice cream subscription. Every month, they'll receive a curated selection of four flavors (often before they’re on sale to the public!) delivered directly to their doorstep. Guaranteed frozen delivery? Yep, that's included, too.

Jeni's Pint Club Ice Cream Subscription (Starting at $199.00)—Buy Here!

Jin Soon Aura #2 Nail Color Trio

Jin Soon

Jin Soon is known for her line of celebrity-loved and deeply-pigmented 21-free nail colors. She proves that nail polish can be free of the gross stuff and long-lasting. This trio includes 3 lucious shades that inspire calm, joy, and comfort (though there are multiple colors available). It's the little things that help new moms feel a little more like themselves.

Jin Soon Aura #2 Nail Color Trio ($42.00)—Buy Here!

Beach & Picnic Blanket by Sunnylife

Mochi Kids

With Mother's Day arriving as we head into the summer, this beach and picnic blanket makes a perfect gift! It'll help encourage her to take some time to relax when she can, and it also works really well as a play space for the baby at home or out.

Beach & Picnic Blanket by Sunnylife ($70.00)—Buy Here!

Sofia Prism Cocktail Watch Ring from PASCAL

PASCAL

Oh-so unique and easy to wear, this watch ring has a beautiful pink face and is surrounded by lab-grown gemstones for some extra glitter. Available in 3 different color combinations.

Sofia Prism Cocktail Watch Ring from PASCAL ($105.00)—Buy Here!

BrüMate Era 40oz

mint green 40oz tumbler with straw
BrüMate

Keeping hydrated is important, but even more so when you're a new mom. We love a good tumbler, but the Era 40oz is totally leakproof, with a cup holder-friendly base, attached straw, and the ability to keep drinks cool up to 24 hours! Available in a ton of different oclors.

BrüMate Era 40oz ($44.99)—Buy Here!

Couch Cup Holder Tray

Elimiko

This couch cup holder tray is so genius, we're mad we didn't think of it first. With a versatile cup holder that keeps your beverages secure and the try prevents your remote and phone from slipping between the couch cushions. Available in 6 colors.

Couch Cup Holder Tray ($38.99)—Buy Here!

Leatherology Long Crossbody Phone Pocket

set of leather crossbody phone and passport holders
Leatherology

The Crossbody Phone Pocket from Leatherology is sleek and easy, making it ideal for travel, for throwing into a larger purse, and keeping her necessities together. Available in multiple color and customization options!

Leatherology Long Crossbody Phone Pocket ($45.00)—Buy Here!

andSons Signature Collection Chocolates

box of artisan chocolates
andSons

Giving mom chocolate isn't new, but these stunning ganaches and pralines from the andSons Signature Collection are more like edible art. Even the box features the work of LA artist, Matt Murphy. Available in boxes of 6-84 pieces (drool).

andSons Signature Collection Chocolates ($25.00+)—Buy Here!

Rattan Candle by Otherland

Otherland candle sitting on dresser
Otherland

Otherland's toxin-free candles let you feel comfortable burning in your home (especially important to new moms), and they're so pretty! We're partial to their Rattan candle—a blend of sandalwood, golden amber, and warm musk. 

Rattan Candle by Otherland ($40.00)—Buy Here!

Dusen Dusen Stripe Terry Bathrobe in Sea Stripe

NORDSTROM

Designer Ellen Van Dusen doubles down on her love of stripes with this cotton-terry robe that's the perfect example of dopamine dressing! Moms definitely need to start their day with some major comfort she can wear in all seasons. Available in two colorways, but this 'Sea Stripe' combo is really speaking to us right now.

Dusen Dusen Stripe Terry Bathrobe in Sea Stripe ($138.00)—Buy Here!

grace & stella Restoring Eye Masks

set of purple grace & stella undereye masks
grace & stella

If they're good enough for Jessica Alba and Leona Lewis, we're sold. And actually, grace & stella Eye Masks are a favorite of our group chat. They brighten, restore, and soothe fatigued under eyes and feel amazing. Keep them in the fridge for extra de-puffing!

grace & stella Restoring Eye Masks ($23.95)—Buy Here!

Porto's Favorites Bake at Home Bundle

assortment of sweet and savory pastries
Porto's Bakery

Porto's Bakery pastry chefs create bake at home goodies that are super easy and beyond delicious. The Porto's Favorites bundle includes their Cheese Roll, Potato Ball, Chicken Empanada, and Refugiado (guava and cheese strudel) so mom can have fresh comfort food treats that taste like homemade.

Porto's Favorites Bake at Home Bundle ($85.96)—Buy Here!

Ello Campy Vacuum Insulated Travel Mug

arm holding a peach camp travel mug in front of a field of yellow flowers
Ello

Moms around the world know all about cold coffee. This 16oz vacuum-insulated stainless steel travel mug is designed to keep drinks cold up to 10 hours and hot for 5 hours. Car-friendly and completely leakproof, the handle includes a cork inlay that makes it comfortable to hold, too. Available in multiple colors.

Ello Campy Vacuum Insulated Travel Mug ($17.99)—Buy Here!

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16 Ways to Stay Awake When You’re Exhausted

by Kate Loweth

Are you feeling like the days are dragging and you can barely get through the morning rush without multiple cups of coffee? We get it. Luckily, there are tons of additional ways to stay awake, from simple mindfulness techniques to foods that will get you ready for the day ahead. Scroll through and get that energy up!

1. Head Outside

If the sun is shining in your neck of the woods, Vitamin D is a natural energy boost. All you have to do is play with the kids outside, walk the dog, or roll back the sunroof. As always, if you plan on being outside for an extended period, be sure to put on a fresh coat of SPF. Foods like fish, egg yolks, fortified milk, and cereals are also delicious D sources.

2. Drink (Lots of) Water

Water helps make the world—and our bodies—go round. And fatigue is a sure sign that we aren’t getting enough of it. Keep reusable bottles in your bag, at your desk, and in the car. You’ll get in the habit of hydrating throughout the day for sustained energy levels and all sorts of other body benefits (radiant skin sound good to anyone?).

3. Meditate for a Pick-Me-Up

Parenthood can feel like an endless circuit of activities, homework, appointments, and the daily surprises that keep us on our toes. Sometimes all the caffeine we drink to keep up backfires, leaving us wired and unable to focus. Step off the hamster wheel and cue up a mom-friendly meditation app rather than another cup of joe. Just 5-, 10-, or 15-minute increments of measured breathing and meditation will leave you relaxed and refreshed.

4. Diffuse Essential Oils

Essential oils have taken the wellness world by storm—and with good reason. Naturally free of chemicals, they can help with stress, mood, and yes, energy. Oil aficionados recommend peppermint and grapefruit to boost energy and nutmeg for focus.

5. Reduce Sugar

High-sugar food can cause your blood sugar to spike, which can feel good for a short time. But it’s the after-effects that leave you in a slump. Instead of heading for that piece of chocolate, try one of these low-sugar snacks to keep a more even blood sugar level throughout the day.

6. Play That Funky Music

Think of your favorite song. If it’s got a beat, you may already be tapping your foot. Music is a mood elevator, so put on tunes while you cook dinner, pause the podcasts and pump up the jams in the car for the commute, or take a spin around the living room with the kids.

7. Step Away From Screens

Be it our phones, tablets, or work computers, turning on those blue lights at night can keep us up past our bedtimes, leading to even more sleep deprivation. Ana Homayoun, author of Social Media Wellness: Helping Tweens and Teens Thrive in an Unbalanced Digital World, offers great advice specifically for moms: “Be intentional about screen use. Many times we use our smartphones and screens from morning to night (and late into the night, especially for new moms on a feeding schedule). The incremental creep of usage can actually leave us far more exhausted than we realize. Shutting down social media access and phone access for certain hours in the day can create time and space for re-energizing.”

8. Fuel Up to Fight Fatigue

When you reach for that next cup of green tea, did you know a bowl of protein-rich edamame can also pack a pick-me-up punch? Nutrition expert Joy Bauer, the author of From Junk Food To Joy Food, includes it in her list of energy-boosting foods. So sprinkle them on a lunch salad, add them to one of your favorite (and easy) pasta recipes, or save them for an afternoon energy snack. For something sweet, watermelon is in season from May to September and is a great source of B6 and citrulline, an amino acid that aids in cell division and benefits heart and immune system function.

9. Exercise

Okay, you knew this was coming. As hard as it can be to muster up the will to work out, the endorphin boost from exercising makes the muster well worth it. If you need an inspiring reset, try something new like a Hip Hop dance class. There are loads of indoor exercise programs you can do with little to no equipment.

10. Delegate a To-Do or Two

We run ourselves ragged doing it all—parenting, working, shuttling, and keeping the meals coming. While we can’t outsource the big or fulfilling responsibilities, how about daring to say “no” to the over-the-top birthday party next time around? Give yourself permission to pass on that extra something that’s overwhelming the week. Better yet, farm out your chores to your family and teach the kids some life skills!

11. Be Social

Isolation can lead to fatigue and depression, so it’s important to engage with friends and family when your busy schedule allows. Plan a mom’s night out, have another couple over for a takeout dinner, or plan a park date with another family. You’ll be laughing in no time!

12. Turn in Early

We all love the idea of crawling into bed “early,” but who else ends up binge-watching one or two hours of the show that’s been stockpiling because the kids are finally asleep? We may want to take a tip from the kids instead. While 7 p.m. zzz’s aren’t realistic—parents need some evening solitude to decompress or finally get things done uninterrupted—try really turning in an hour (or two) early one night a week. Before bed, reach for a book instead and notice how many pages you get through before those eyelids get heavy. For a tired mom, we’ll put money on about … five!

13. Sneak a Snack

Whip up a tasty snack that packs a punch of energy in every bite.

14. Self-Care is for Everyone

Make standing appointments for your manicures and get those haircuts in the calendar! You deserve a little self-care, something that probably tends to fall to the bottom of your priority list. There are lots of ways to give yourself some much-needed self-care without even leaving the house. Try out one of these beauty hacks on your next night off the clock.

15. Don’t Skip Breakfast

Yes, we’ve all heard that breakfast is the most important meal of the day. But how many of us skip it on those busy mornings? Try out one of these make-ahead breakfasts to get you going for the day with a healthy start.

16. Just Keep Truckin’

We know how awesome you are—and that no matter how sluggish you may feel, you’re doing your best to show up and be great for your kids, your job, and your partner. You’ll catch a break soon, even if it’s just to read that book you’ve had on your nightstand for ages. Before too long the kids will be grown and you’ll have all the time to sleep in on a weekend again. And you may just find yourself missing these hectic, joyful days when you’re sleep-deprived and the kids are still young.

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3 Breastfeeding Snacks a Registered Dietitian Swears By

By Lauren Manaker, MS, RD

When a person chooses to breastfeed or chestfeed their baby, they usually know that some basic equipment is required—like a nursing bra and nipple cream. But one thing that often takes people by surprise is how incredibly hungry they feel once they start their breastfeeding journey. Lactation requires approximately 500 extra calories and at least 65 grams of protein per day. So, if you are eating like you were pre-pregnancy, it’s likely that you are getting pretty ravenous mid-day. Bring on the breastfeeding snacks!

Snacks can play a huge part in a lactating person’s journey. Because let’s be honest—some people can’t sit down for three square meals a day and snacks become the norm during the chaotic first few months of parenthood.

As a registered dietitian working with lactating parents, I tell my clients that when choosing breastfeeding-friendly snacks, they should stick to some general criteria:

  • It should be nutrient-dense to help support healthy nutrient levels in your breastmilk and to support mom’s healing and overall nutritional status
  • It should contain some protein, fiber, and/or healthy fat to help make your snack more satiating
  • It should ideally take little effort to make and easily be enjoyed with one hand
  • It should taste good

Among the sea of snack options, I have my go-to combos that I recommend to clients most frequently. And while the occasional ice cream or salt and vinegar chips can certainly fit into a healthy lifest‌yle, there are some satisfying and lactation-supporting options that should make up the bulk of your food choices.

Here are my top 3 “dietitian-approved” breastfeeding snacks that I recommend most parents keep on hand when they are on their lactation journey.

1. Chicken Salad & Whole Grain Crackers

Snacks that contain high-quality protein and whole grains check so many boxes when it comes to lactation nutrition. And enjoying some simple chicken salad on whole grain crackers certainly fits the bill.

Simply shred cooked chicken (using leftover chicken from a meal will do) and mix it with a little salt, pepper, and a combo of plain Greek yogurt and mayo for a nutrient-dense and simple snack. Throw in some herbs or your favorite seasoning if you want to kick up the flavor. Scoop the salad up with some whole grain crackers for a mid-day nosh.

Related: Breastfeeding Supplies We Swear By

Chicken is one of the best foods to enjoy when nursing for a slew of reasons. Yes, it is a fantastic source of high-quality protein, clocking in at 31 grams per each 3.5 ounce serving of dark meat. But chicken is also a source of key micronutrients that are important to focus on during lactation, including vitamin B12. One 3.5-ounce serving of roasted dark meat chicken contains 11% of the recommended daily need for lactating people. B12 is important for supporting baby’s neurologic development, and not getting enough is linked to developmental regression. Since breastmilk’s levels of vitamin B12 are dependent on the lactating person’s intake, including foods like chicken is important during this stage.

Chicken also contains choline, a nutrient that is important for a baby’s brain development. A lactating person’s intake influences breastmilk levels. A 3.5-ounce roasted skinless chicken breast is a good source of choline, providing about 15% of the daily needs of lactating people.

2. Hard Boiled Egg & Fruit

Do yourself a favor and hard-boil a batch of eggs once a week. Once they cool, store them in the shell in your fridge for up to a week. You will be jumping for joy to have a nutritious grab-and-go snack option when those hunger pangs hit and you need something ASAP. And since one large-sized egg contains 6 grams of high-quality protein, enjoying one mid-day is an easy-breezy way to get in this important macro, plus a host of micronutrients, too. And don’t skip the yolk. The colorful part of the egg is where you will find plenty of breastfeeding-friendly nutrients like choline and iodine, both of which support brain development. In fact, two large eggs provide more than half of a lactating person’s choline needs for the day.

Related: What If Breastfeeding Gear Was Actually Cool?

Pair your egg with a piece of fresh fruit for a simple snack that packs a punch in the nutrition department and requires zero mess in the kitchen—something all new parents can appreciate.

3. Cranberry Smoothie

Smoothies are the ultimate snack when you have no time to eat and only one hand to do it with—which is basically every day when you have a newborn in tow. Smoothies are hydrating, packed with antioxidants, and are simple to sip on when you’re juggling all of the things.

Using cranberry juice in your postpartum smoothie is one way to add some satisfying taste to your drink while supporting urinary tract health.

Cranberries also contain vitamin C, a nutrient that people need in continuous supply, as the body does not store it.

To make a cranberry smoothie: blend 1/2 cup 100% cranberry juice, 1/2 frozen banana, 1/2 cup vanilla Greek yogurt, and a handful of ice in a blender and blend until smooth. Cheers!

Lauren Manaker, MS, RD
Tinybeans Voices Contributor

Lauren Manaker is an award-winning registered dietitian, lactation counselor and author. Lauren's work has been featured in numerous publications and demostrates her committment to sharing evidence-based nutrition guidance that simplifies healthy eating. When she is not writing, Lauren can be found boating with her husband, daughter and rescue pup on the waters of Charleston, SC.

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I Gave Everything I Had to My Kids—and It Was Too Much

By Tabitha Yates

“You can be an amazing mom, a great partner, a supportive sibling, a kind daughter, a competent coworker, a good friend, and an amazing individual”

I have spent my whole life setting myself on fire to keep everyone around me warm—sacrificing my time, emotional energy, and, quite often, my well-being and sanity for other people. It certainly wasn’t ingrained in me to do this just in motherhood. Oh no, it started far before children, when I was a kid myself. I learned to wipe my own tears, stuff down my feelings and do what was right for everyone… everyone but me.

Due to this self-sacrificing nature that my childhood demanded, I developed a trigger about taking time for myself away from my children. I was so determined not to make them put their needs aside like I had to do, that I didn’t take care of myself at all. Like seriously at all. I hated the term “self-care.” I couldn’t relate to moms who went out without their kids, literally ever. I had two pedicures in seven years, and my daughter was with me both times. I was so afraid of not being there for everyone and not taking care of my kids in the way they deserved that I held myself to an impossible standard—never allowing myself a break.

I was quite willing to happily sacrifice my last ounce of sanity and self to parenthood. Sure, I was burned out, but they were worth it, and I felt that was what I needed to do to be the best mother possible. I am sure I did a fabulous job taking care of my family, my kids, and my friends. But my skill set in no way involved how to take care of myself and my mental health. Not only did I not know how to set healthy boundaries, but also how not to feel bad about setting them.

What does this slow burn look like for me through the rest of adulthood? I spend all my time fixing people’s problems, absorbing the pain and anxiety of others, giving out advice, and competing for the title of “Most Dependable Human Being, Friend, Daughter, Wife, and Mother.” It means I put my needs on the back burner, thinking I’ll get back around to some form of self-care at some point. And guess what? It never happens. I have given up my health, my peace, my joy, my comfort, and even my safety to keep everyone around me happy.

Then finally, this past year, after a lifetime of pouring out all I had and everything I was, and after almost 10 years of mothering in the same way, I broke down. Not just an “I need a break” kind of meltdown but a complete and total realization that I had to change how I looked at everything to sustain being a good parent and person.

I realized having healthy boundaries doesn’t make me a bad person. I am now learning to listen to my gut when it tells me that I’ve had enough of something and that I need to take a break or step back. Continuing to be a good wife, daughter, sister, and friend can only happen if I give myself permission to help when I can and to stop when I can’t. It means I recognize that I can assist in others’ journeys without feeling like I have to do the work for them. I can care without carrying everyone else’s burdens.

I have always viewed sacrifice as the mother of all virtues, and listen, as a mom, I think most of the time it is a virtue. My kids are my No. 1 priority and I will never put myself before them, but I learned a very important thing about self-care in the last year. Taking care of yourself isn’t just saying “me first,” it’s also saying, “Hey! My health and my well-being matter as much as yours, and being the best mom that I can be requires some breaks and resets sometimes.”

You can be an amazing mom, a great partner, a supportive sibling, a kind daughter, a competent coworker, a good friend, and an amazing individual. You can give to others without it always being to your detriment. You can meet others’ needs without completely abandoning your own.

Taking care of yourself also means you want nothing more than to help your children chase their dreams while running right alongside them, chasing yours as well.

 

The Redeemed Mama is a writer who had had articles published by The Today Show, Love What Matters, The Mighty, Faithit, For Every Mom, The Creative Child Magazine and more. She has 3 beautiful kids and resides in Southern Arizona and loves writing about parenting, life and growth!

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Introducing Tinybeans+

by Kate Cartia

You wanted it. We made it happen.

You already know and love Tinybeans. Now meet Tinybeans+. This is our best update yet, with a new and improved in-app experience that takes the joy (c’mon, it’s mostly joy!) of parenthood to the next level. And with Tinybeans+, we’ve added some of your most requested changes, including a new free version! As always, you can easily and privately capture and organize your kiddo’s best moments and milestones in a single platform. Its intuitive interface, along with features like photobook creation and easy customization, make organizing and searching for memories a breeze.

That’s right. A new free version. No free trials only. No paid subscription requirement. We want all families to be able to privately share their most cherished memories. The launch of the new Tinybeans free plan makes that happen.

As a special welcome gift, we’re offering you free 14-day access to features of our paid subscription, Tinybeans+ (that means no payment upfront and no commitment to upgrade). With Tinybeans+, you can enjoy unlimited photo/video uploads and an ad-free experience.

What do you get with Tinybeans+? We’re glad you asked.

An Ad-Free Experience

Tinybeans+ subscribers won't be seeing any ads. No ads in albums, in-app, and no emails from our partner brands.

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Unlimited Uploads

Tinybeans+ users can upload as many photos and videos as they want. You also have 2TB of storage. That's virtually an unlimited amount of photos and videos of your Tiny Beans (seriously, we'll wait here while you double-check).

And, as always…

Tinybeans is fully committed to your family’s privacy. Only the family and friends you invite to view your uploads have access to viewing them! There are no algorithms here; we’ll let your family know when new posts are added so they won’t miss a thing. They can react and comment on each of your posts and follow along for free.

Parenting is an experience like no other: it’s joyous, memorable, and full of surprises. You want to capture every moment, every milestone, every giggle, and every discovery. That’s where Tinybeans comes in. We make it easy to document and organize your beans’ journey through life. And now, with Tinybeans+, we’ve added even more features to enhance your experience. Go ahead and give it a try—we promise you won’t regret it.

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25 Money-Saving Tips During Your Baby’s First Year

by Eva Ingvarson Cerise

Remember when you had disposable income? Now you have a baby, and this innocent little creature has somehow ravaged your credit card statement. It’s no secret that infants are expensive, what with the mass amounts of baby gear they require: diapers and carriers and clothes they won’t stop outgrowing. But there are plenty of ways to cut down on your spending so you can save up for your first vacation with baby or a family photo shoot. These smart, money-saving tips will help you stay on budget during that first (very expensive!) year.

1. Join Your Local Buy/Sell/Trade Groups

Join a Facebook Buy/Sell/Trade group and a Buy Nothing group in your area to find big-ticket items like cribs. You’ll also be able to sell any items that your kid outgrows or didn’t like to begin with. And be sure to check out Rebelstork, a resale website exclusively for baby goods, where you can find name-brand items at great prices. Upcycle your own items, and buy the resold, overstock or open-box gear you need for low prices.

2. Choose Baby Gear That Grows with Your Child

Some high chairs convert into seats for toddlers and older kids. Some cribs can be turned into toddler beds. And some car seats convert from infant all the way to backless boosters. When you’re searching, look for products called 2-in-1 or 3-in-1 to get the most life out of your goods. Here are some products that grow with kids.

3. Borrow, Don’t Buy

Never buy anything until you’ve asked all your friends with older kids if they have the items you need. Lots of parents save gear like bassinets and gliders if they plan to have another child, but they may not be using them at the moment. Maintain what you borrow (and the friendship!) and your friends might just lend you other pricey items, like balance bikes, as your baby gets older.

4. Ask Parents What You Really Need

If you straight talk with other parents before buying the items on your baby list you’ll probably be able to cross off more than a few items. The wipes warmer is a notoriously regretted purchase, and lots of people wish they hadn’t bought fancy baby food makers or baby swings their kid ended up hating (try it before you buy it!). Others discover they prefer the flexibility of a lightweight changing pad over lugging baby over to a changing table for every new diaper. Buy the must-haves and skip the nice-to-haves until you figure out whether your child would actually benefit from them.

Related: Baby Gear You’ll Use Well Beyond the First Year

5. Be Realistic About Your Lifestyle

You’re not likely to drastically change your lifestyle once you have a baby, so if you weren’t an off-road jogger before you probably won’t need a high-tech, pricey jogging stroller. A less expensive traditional stroller should work just great for your walks and errands. If you do decide to take a walk on uneven or unpaved ground, just put your baby in a carrier instead of a stroller, and you’re on your way.

6. Set Up Swaps with Friends

Set up clothing and gear swaps with your mom friends and mom-to-be buddies. Meet up at a local park where you can lay out all the items you’re giving away, or upload photos to a private Facebook group if you can’t all get together. Your pregnant friend might love your baby bathtub, maternity tops and newborn clothes, and you can snap up toys and clothes in your baby’s current size. Meet up a few times a year as seasons and kids’ needs change.

7. Request Group Gifts

For holidays and birthdays, ask family and friends to pitch in for big-ticket items, like a stroller, rather than buying toys or clothes you don’t need.

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8. Swap Babysitting Duties with a Friend

A free babysitter for date night? Sign us up! Here’s how it works: Ask a couple you know and trust if they’d like to take turns babysitting with you. You babysit your friends’ kid(s) at their house while your partner stays home with your own kid(s) and the other couple gets a night out. Then they return the favor when you want a date night.

9. Sample Different Diapers Before You Buy

Ask moms for the best diaper and wipes and be prepared to get lots of different answers, depending on their babies’ body types, skin sensitivity, and other factors. To find out which ones work best for you, ask friends who use different brands to swap a few (five of each) so you can all test out multiple brands and see which work best for your child.

10. Buy Necessities in Bulk

Once you’ve determined your favorite brands, buying necessities like diapers, wipes and formula in bulk. Signing up for automatic deliveries can also save you lots of money in the long run.

Related: Baby Gear That’s Better to Borrow Than Buy

11. Test Items Before You Invest

They may not be able to talk, but babies have opinions, so don’t stock up on items like bottles and pacifiers until you’ve tested a few. These little ones are known for having strong preferences and changing their minds with no warning. Welcome to parenthood.

12. Stock Up on Clothing Basics in Larger Sizes

If the clothing you like is on major sale, buy items in sizes larger than what your child wears. Stick to items kids can wear year-round, like leggings and socks, rather than guessing what size your child might be in bathing suits and snowpants for next summer or winter.

13. Get Secondhand Special-Occasion Outfits

Hit up Poshmark, consignment shops or yard sales for special-occasion outfits, like holiday-themed baby clothes and fancy dresses. Many have only been worn once or twice and look brand new.

14. Keep Clothes Shopping Simple

We know baby clothes are adorable, but think about what you’ll really use before you splurge. The first few months, babies will mostly be sleeping and lounging at home with you, so onesies are the main thing you need. Babies can wear them on their own, under their clothes and to sleep in, so they’re worth buying in cost-saving multipacks. But you won’t need things like baby shoes until your child is walking outdoors. And if you plan to visit a climate that’s colder or warmer than yours, ask friends if you can borrow weather-appropriate gear instead of investing in something you’ll only wear a few times.

15. Less Is More with Nursery Decor

Once your baby gets mobile, you risk that tiny terror knocking down the glass snow globe before you can stop them. A wipeable playmat, soft pillows to sit and lay on, and baskets to hold toys and stuffies may be all the decor you need until baby gets older.

16. Keep Nursery Style Timeless

It’s so tempting to choose a theme for your nursery and do it up big. But sticking to fewer baby-specific colors and decor items means not having to buy all new stuff in a few years. And the more you can DIY, the cheaper it will be. Try these 16 ways to DIY your nursery on a budget.

17. Babyproof on a Budget

Babyproofing gadgets and services can be really pricey. But there’s a lot you can DIY for cheap, using items you may already own. Consider these 14 DIY ways to make your home safer for baby.

18. Find Free Local Fun

Explore your area for free spots you and your child can visit, from parks and walking trails to your local farmer’s market. A shady outdoor spot or a weekly free night at the museum gets you out of your home without an entrance fee.

19. Check Out Your Local Library

The library can be tons of fun for babies. Many libraries offer storytime and kids’ activities, so check the website or ask a librarian for a schedule of upcoming events. And you can save a lot of money borrowing baby books instead of buying them.

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20. Go Minimalist with Baby Toys

You know the old joke about babies liking the bag the gift comes in more than the gift. Well it tracks. Aside from a comforting lovie, sensory ball, mobile and stuffed animal, babies don’t need lots of store-bought toys. They’re interested in colors, fabrics, textures and noises, so household objects and even your purse or diaper bag hold their attention as well as toys do. And, in fact, interacting with you can provide most of their entertainment. From singing to imitating each other’s sounds and expressions to blowing bubbles and playing peekaboo, there are lots of free, fun ways to entertain your baby and have quality bonding time, which is your child’s all-time favorite thing. When you need a break from the action, give your baby some wooden spoons or plastic measuring cups from the kitchen and watch them have a ball all on their own. Here are 16 baby games you can play together.

21. Create Your Own Baby Classes

Instead of signing up for baby music classes and baby gyms, invite local moms to meet at a local park or other baby-friendly area. Bring small balls and noisemakers and have your own baby class. If you’re not sure what activities to try, YouTube is an amazing resource for free videos of baby gym class, baby music class, baby yoga and more. Watch a few and tailor a class to your kiddos.

22. Start a Mom Workout Group

Stroller workout groups are a great way to prioritize exercise while spending time with your baby and fellow new moms. But just as with the baby classes, ask friends or post on a local Facebook moms group to see who’s interested in meeting up weekly to take a stroller walk and then do a quick workout or stretching session. Again, YouTube is your best friend when it comes to finding high-quality free workouts at all skill levels, and geared to postpartum needs.

23. Don’t Fall for Baby Marketing

No, you don’t need infant Tylenol (cash grab!) or a special baby laundry detergent. Switch to a fragrance-free gentle detergent and you can wash the whole family’s clothes at the same time. The same goes for soap and body lotion. Choose a gentle, fragrance-free brand like Vanicream for baby’s sensitive skin and you can all use the same products.

24. Call Your Pediatrician Before Scheduling a Visit

Every baby concern may not require a doctor’s appointment and the co-pay that goes along with it. Call the nurses’ line first to see if they can help without you coming into the office. Take photos of any rashes or bumps and make detailed notes about your concerns and your child’s symptoms (like what time you noticed the fever and how high it was) to make it easier for them to help you.

25. Skip the Jarred Baby Food

Do you need to buy expensive jars of baby food? Not necessarily. Consider baby-led weaning, in which babies six months and up gnaw on finger foods instead of purees. If you’re not comfortable with that, make your own baby food in bulk from leftovers or fruits and veggies you bought on sale, and store it in your freezer. Freeze the purees you make in ice cube containers. Once frozen, transfer them to plastic bags. Each will be a one-ounce serving you can thaw out and heat up when it’s mealtime.

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13 Adorable Forts for Days When Inside Play Is a Must

by Susie Foresman

Some of these forts for kids can be built with things you already own

When your craft kit supplies are running low and your kids are looking at their devices with longing, there’s nothing quite like building an indoor fort with your kids. We’ve gathered up some seriously wow-worthy forts to inspire your next creation. Grab your pajamas and your pillows and get building

Check out this indoor fort from Air Fort. Your kids will love how fast it can be built and and how quickly they'll be having a blast!

Climbing Frame Tent

Do you have an indoor climbing gym? Give it a whole new look with just a sheet! 

Make-A-Fort Kit

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Make-A-Fort Kit

Construct and play inside incredible indoor forts, castles, mazes, and tunnels; there are endless possibilities of what you can build with this engaging kit! 

Get yours here, $77 & up. 

Dining Room Chair Fort

Another easy way to make a hideaway for kids is to grab some high dining chairs, a blanket or sheet and some clips. 

Firetruck Fort

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Utah Country Mom

Jessica, the mom behind Utah Country Mom, built this impressive indoor fort for her firefighting-loving toddler using a card table as the base. 

Cardboard Castle Fort

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Brandon Tran

We’re totally wowed by Brandon Tran’s cardboard castle. If you’ve got extra cardboard boxes (and a fair amount of patience), you can make one for your house too. 

Fort Boards

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Indoor afternoons just got a whole lot more fun! Fort Boards are the perfect open-ended building toys that combine imagination and STEM skills and will keep littles busy for hours. Construct domes, vehicles and various-shaped forts with these colorful and BPA-free pieces that can build up to 20 square feet of construction but fold down for easy storage. Snag a set here. 

Upcycled Newspaper Fort

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Modern Parents Messy Kids

Gather up your old newspapers to make this genius fort from Modern Parents Messy Kids. You can leave the structure as is, or throw a blanket on top to make it extra cozy. 

Build-Your-Own Fort Kit

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aidanand

If fort-building isn’t your forte, you can snag a kit like this one from aidenandtuck on Etsy. It’s got everything kids will need to make an awesome indoor fort (minus the sheets or blankets). You just might be surprised by the creations they come up with. 

House in the Hallway Fort

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This hallway house is a truly portable wonder. It's a shapeshifter that can be set up in the hallway, or even over a staircase for older kids who want a two-story play space. Our favorite bit from mom blog ikatbag is how interactive the creation is! 

Cozy Reading Nook

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Here’s another take on the reading nook from Small + Friendly, a modern homemaking blog. With a mini futon and a pretty canopy, littles will love relaxing in this cozy corner. 

Impressive Dome Fort

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Budding architects are sure to appreciate this geodesic dome indoor fort built by one talented parent. All the details can be found on Instructables. With cardboard, box cutters and some paint in hand, this could be the perfect way to spend a too-hot day—your kids will definitely thank you! 

Under-the-Table Fort

Mama Papa Bubba

There's no structure more stable than your table! Take a cue from Mama Papa Bubba and put together a quick hideaway using a bedsheet and a table.

— with additional reporting by Taylor Clifton

 

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Inspiring Women’s History Books Every Kid Should Read

by Amber Guetebier

They’ll learn about RBG, Mary Shelley, Dolly Parton, and other famous women in history

Children learn by example, and when it comes to connecting concepts to reality, books are often the key. Whether it’s Women’s History Month or routine bedtime stories, it’s always a great time to teach your kids about female leaders (like these incredible female scientists) and equality. Here are our favorite women’s history books for kids.

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Dinosaur Lady: The Daring Discoveries of Mary Anning, the First Paleontologist

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When Mary Anning was a child, she loved combing the beach for treasures. One day, she finds something that'll change the world forever. This gorgeous picture book tells the tale of one incredible woman who smashed the glass ceiling and helped to create the study of paleontology. A must-read women's history book for any curious kid. Ages: 5-7

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A Song for Gwendolyn Brooks

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Celebrate the life and voice of poet Gwendolyn Brooks with this thoughtful story that combines both Brooks' legacy with her life story. Known for being one of the foremost poets on the Black experience and the role of women in society, Gwendolyn Brooks went from a young child writing all the time to become the first Black author to win the Pulitzer Prize and authoring 20 books of poetry, two autobiographies, and one novel. Celebrated author and children's librarian Alice Faye Duncan makes Brooks come to life on the page for the young reader. Ages: 5 and up

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Rosalind Looked Closer: An Unsung Hero of Molecular Science

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Do you know who first captured the structure of DNA and its double helix form? Or who pioneered the research of RNA? Rosalind Franklin, a Jewish scientist! Highly detailed but written so even the youngest of readers can understand, Lisa Gerin's book is here to educate everyone on the world-changing work of this amazing scientist. Ages: 5-8

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Dolly!: The Story of Dolly Parton and Her Big Dream

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You've likely heard of Dolly Parton, but do you know her origin story? The songwriter and performer, who first sang at the Grand Ole Opry at 13 came from humble roots as one of 12 children in her family. Her story is one of resilience, courage, and determination as she paved the way for women in the industry and beyond. Ages: 4-8

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Girls Solve Everything

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You may have never heard of Elizabeth Stott, Tara Chklovski, or Radwa Rostom but after this book, you'll know exactly who they are. Filled with "solution stories," Catherine Thimmesh explores stories of female entrepreneurs that will inspire the next generation. Ages: 10+

Sanctuary: Kip Tiernan and Rosie's Place, the Nation's First Shelter for Women

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At one time, homeless shelters were only for men. Seeing the need for women, Kip Tiernan tirelessly fought to provide them with a place they could find a warm meal, a bed, and no judgment. After years of trying, she opened Rosie's Place in an old supermarket. Christine McDonnell's story shares the world-changing story of Kip and how she changed the face of services for unhoused women forever. Ages: 7-10

Like a Diamond in the Sky: Jane Taylor’s Beloved Poem of Wonder and the Stars

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Jane Taylor was a trailblazer for women in poetry, but do you know who she is? The beloved author of "Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star" has an amazing life story of triumph, perseverance, and creativity that only makes the famous lullaby all the more special. Ages: 4-8

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I am Marie Curie

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The 19th book in the "Ordinary People Change the World" series is all about Marie Curie, the first woman to win the Nobel Prize. A physicist and chemist, Curie is featured in adorable illustrations as she attends the Flying University and begins her science experiments at the young age of 18, to her meeting with the President of the United States. Ages 5-8

Be Bold, Baby: Sonia Sotomayor

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Little ones can hear about the Supreme Court justice's greatest moments, hear quotes and parents will enjoy the message at the end (and cool mirror): just be you. Ages: baby to 3

An ABC of Equality

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This board book by Chana Ginelle Ewing, the Founder, and CEO of Geenie, a women's empowerment platform, makes learning about concepts like gender, immigration,n and ability accessible to even the youngest of readers. Flip through the colorful pages to find letters like D is for difference or J is for justice explained in a way anyone can grasp. For any parent hoping to teach their child about multiculturalism and acceptance, this book is for you. Ages: 3+ (as recommended on Amazon but this book is suited for any reader)

The Only Woman in the Photo

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"When someone opens a door to you, go forward." Young Frances Perkins spent her life heeding the wise words her grandmother taught her as a little girl. Kathleen Krull's The Only Woman in the Photo tells the story of Frances Perkins, the first woman to ever sit on a presidential cabinet. Perkins became Franklin D. Roosevelt's trusted advisor, and it is Perkins you can thank for such things as child labor laws, unemployment insurance, and social security. Illustrations by Alexandra Bye bring the life and times of this persistent, fearless trailblazer to life. Ages: 4-8

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Gloria Takes a Stand

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This picture-book retelling of Gloria Steinem is as inspiring as it is enjoyable to read. The perfect, abbreviated biography written by Jessica M. Rinker is beautifully illustrated by Daria Peoples-Riley and offers kids a summary of the important events that shaped Steinem's childhood and lead her down the path of changing women's rights, and changing the world. Ages: 4-8

Women Artists A to Z

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This alphabet book stars women artists including iconic painters like Georgia O’Keefe and Frida Kahlo but also puts the spotlight on lesser-known artists like Mirka Mora, Judith Leyster, and more. Each page has a short explanation of the works that define each artist (for example, legendary photographer Dorthea Lange is X is for EXposure), and if older kids want to learn more, the back pages have extended biographies. Beautiful illustrations complete this lovely picture book that's bookshelf worthy. Ages: 3-7

She Made a Monster: How Mary Shelley Created Frankenstein

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Written by Lynn Fulton with fab illustrations by Felicita Sala, She Made a Monster pays tribute to Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley, the literary genius who brought the world Frankenstein. It was 200 years ago when Shelley gave birth to this infamous monster, and this book will let the young audience know not only the significance of writing it but how important it is to follow one’s own dream. Ages: 4-8

A Computer Called Katherine

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African-Americans didn't have the same rights as others, and Katherine Johnson knew that was wrong. As wrong as 5+5=12. This book tells the story of how Katherine fought for equality as she surpassed her classmates and went on to make history by helping NASA to put America's first manned flight into space and the world's first trip to the moon. Award-winning author Suzanne Slade and illustrator Veronica Miller Jamison tell the story of a NASA "computer" in this delightfully written, richly illustrated book. Ages: 6-9

Malala's Magic Pencil

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This story is based on Malala’s childhood wish to have a magic pencil that would “make everyone happy,” and could “erase the smell of garbage from her city.” As she grew older she learned that she would need more than a magic pencil to initiate change, and this book explores every person's power to change the world through the strength of character and determination. Illustrated by Kerascoët Kerascoët. Ages: 5-8

Parker Looks Up

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This is the sweet story of Parker Curry, a young girl who went to the National Portrait Gallery one afternoon with her mom. She saw a prancing horse, blooming flowers, a bushy mustache... but before she went twirling off toward home, Parker Curry looked up. There on the wall, she saw the magnificent portrait (by Amy Sherald) of Michelle Obama. Parker didn't just see the First Lady of the United States. She saw a queen, a woman with regality, beauty, truth, and self-assurance, a woman who looked like her. This moving story will delight any young dreamer. A great addition to any home library or classroom. Ages: 4-8

Women in Art: 50 Fearless Creatives Who Inspired the World

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This beautifully illustrated anthology of women artists from Rachel Ignotofsky, author of the New York Times bestseller Women in Science, features 50 pioneering female artists; some you'll recognize (Frida Kahlo, Georgia O'Keefe) and some you'll never want to forget (19th-century African American quilter Harriet Powers and Hopi-Tewa ceramic artist Nampeyo). For any kid out there with a love of art or history or both, this book is a gorgeous addition to any shelf. Ages: All ages; Probably best for 5 and up

Girl Running: Bobbi Gibb and the Boston Marathon

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In 1966 Bobbi Gibb changed history by running in the Boston Marathon, despite being told that she couldn’t, because women weren’t allowed. This powerful new book takes you on an illustrated journey alongside brave Bobbi Gibb, from a girl who loved to run to a woman who defied and altered history forever. Written by Annette Bay Pimentel and illustrated by Micha Archer. Ages: 5-8

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The Girl with a Mind for Math: The Story of Raye Montague

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This story introduces readers to Raye Montague, a hidden mastermind who made a huge impact in the U.S. Navy. When she was growing up in the 1940s, Raye decided to become an engineer. A culture of sexism and racial inequality challenged her plans but never deterred her from accomplishing her dream. Ages: 5-10

 

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The Story of Women's History: 6-Book Box Set

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Why pick one women's history book when you can have an entire set? This collection for early readers includes biographies about famous women in history like Amelia Earhart, Frida Khalo, Jane Goodall, and more. Ages: 6-9

Greta's Story: The Schoolgirl Who Went on Strike to Save the Planet

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This chapter book chronicles the incredibly timely and motivating true story of young Greta Thunberg and the global movement she has inspired. This young readers' (unofficial) biography can also educate adults on the eco-activist and what we can all do to help save the planet. Written by Italian writer Valentina Camerini and translated and illustrated by Morena Givannoni. Ages: 8-12

Folktales for Fearless Girls

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Before Hermione and Katniss, there were brilliant queens, clever villagers, and brave girls who were saving the world around them—even if you’ve never heard their stories. Now is their chance to shine in this lovely collection of folktales from China, Russia, Persia, India, France, Germany, and more. These strong protagonists are ideal role models for young girls. Ages: 9-13

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Becoming RBG: Ruth Bader Ginsburg's Journey to Justice

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This graphic novel will enlighten tweens, teens, and grown-ups alike with the story of how RBG grew from a shy little girl to the Supreme Court. Written by NY Times bestselling author Debbie Levy, and illustrated by Whitney Gardner (Fake Blood). Ages: 10 and up

What Every Girl Should Know

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This historical novel by J. Albert Mann is based on the life of Margaret Sanger, a young activist for women's health and the founder of Planned Parenthood. The novel explores the early years of Sanger's life as she dealt with the adversity of forging her own path: she grew up poor at a time when women had the choice of being wives and mothers, whose career choice was a teacher (and that was usually just until you got married). But Sanger did none of the above and this spirited imaging of what her life was like will encourage children of all genders to go their own way.  Ages: 14 and up 

— with additional reporting by Taylor Clifton and Karly Wood

 

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11 Women Who Changed NYC Forever

by Mimi O'Connor

A few things we’d be missing without them: Grand Central, Washington Square Park, and dozens of masterpieces in our major museums

International Women’s Day is March 8, and of course, we celebrate women’s history all month long. So, we’re taking some time to recognize some of the women who have had an incredible impact on our home, New York City. These incredible New Yorkers have blazed trails, saved buildings and neighborhoods, crashed through all kinds of ceilings and often made the country (even the world!) a better place. (Because when New Yorkers have an impact, it tends to be far-reaching.) Read on for our list of women who changed NYC forever.

Emily Warren Roebling

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That famous bridge in Brooklyn? It wouldn't have happened without this lady. Married to Washington Roebling, the chief engineer of the Brooklyn Bridge, Emily took over when he fell ill and could no longer supervise the project. (Apparently he watched its progress from the couple's home in Brooklyn Height via telescope.) Roebling was one of the first people to cross the bridge when it was done, which she did from the Brooklyn side, holding a rooster as a symbol of victory. You can find a plaque at the base of the bridge celebrating her leadership and contribution. 

 

Shirley Chisholm

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Brooklyn-born Shirley Chisholm was a trailblazer not just for New Yorkers, but for women and Black people around the country. An outspoken advocate for racial justice and women's rights, as a New York State Representative in 1968, she was the first African American woman in Congress, and later co-founded of the National Women's Political Caucus in 1971. In 1972, she sought the Democratic nomination for the office of President of the United States, becoming the first woman or Black person to do so for one of the two major political parties. In 1977, she became the first Black woman and second woman ever to serve on the powerful House Rules Committee. 

Margaret Sanger

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Founder of the birth control movement, Margaret Sanger was a nurse who spent her entire career working to give women access to reproductive health information and contraception. Publisher of a feminist magazine and worker's rights advocate, she opened the first birth control clinic in 1916 in Brownsville, Brooklyn. In 1923 she opened a clinic staffed by women doctors and social workers, which went on to become the Planned Parenthood Federation of America.  

 

Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis

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While of course Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis was known the world over as widow of John F. Kennedy, she became a New Yorker following his death and spent the rest of her life here. She is widely recognized as being a key force in saving Grand Central Terminal, which was slated to meet the same fate of the demolished Penn Station. As part of the Municipal Arts Society's "Committee to Save Grand Central Terminal" she was a vocal advocate for its preservation. The Committee's victory and its related Supreme Court decision, the New York City Landmark Law resulted in the protection of thousands of other historic buildings throughout the city.  

Billie Holiday

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Born in Philadelphia and landing in New York City by way of Baltimore, Billie Holiday had no formal vocal training, but went on to become one of the most celebrated jazz singers in the world. She worked with bandleaders Count Basie and Artie Shaw, and collaborated frequently with saxophonist Lester Young, a partnership that produced some of the duo's finest work. Holiday helped integrate the nightclub community in the city in the 40s and 50 and around the country, and her style and voice had a profound effect on night life.

Jane Jacobs

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Activist and urbanist Jane Jacobs' influence on New York was, and continues to be, profound. Author of the now-seminal urban planning text The Death and Life of Great American Cities, she famously went head-to-head with New York official Robert Moses to combat his program of "urban renewal." A resident of Greenwich Village, she is credited with helping to preserve its character and was a fierce advocate for quality of life and community-building in cities. She was instrumental in preventing the construction of the Lower Manhattan Expressway, which would have run through several downtown neighborhoods, radically changing them.  

Sonia Sotomayor

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Like her fellow Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, Sonia Sotomayor was born in New York City (she's from the Bronx, Ginsburg hails from Brooklyn). And while Ginsburg did do some work in NYC (she taught at Columbia), Sotomayor spent the bulk of her career prior to joining the Supreme court working in The Big Apple. Under the city's District Attorney Robert Morgenthau, she prosecuted cases for crimes such as robbery, assault, murder and police brutality. Later in her career, she served as a U.S. District Court judge for the Southern District of New York City, and helped educate the next generation of legal practitioners as a professor at New York University and Columbia Law School. After serving on the U.S. Second Circuit Court of Appeals, Barack Obama appointed her to the Supreme Court, where of course she wields incredible influence on not just the people of New York City, but the entire country. She has played a key role in upholding the Affordable Care Act and same-sex marriage in the United States. 

Edith Wharton

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Born into a life of privilege, Edith Wharton used her gift as a writer to chronicle and critique the world of high society in New York. In 1921, she became the first woman to win the Pulitzer Prize, for Age of Innocence. She was subsequently nominated for the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1927, 1928 and 1930. Other works of Wharton's include House of Mirth and Ethan Frome.

Gertrude Vanderbilt Whitney

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Born into the wealthy Vanderbilt family in 1875, Gertrude Vanderbilt Whitney was a sculptor and art collector. She became a champion of contemporary American artists, and when the Metropolitan Museum of Art refused her donation of her considerable collection of American work, she established the Whitney Museum of American Art in 1930. She was the leading patron of American art at the time of her death in 1942, and her personal collection of more than 600 works remains the core of the celebrated museum's holdings. Currently, the influential Whitney Museum of Art is home to more than 24,000 works by over 3,500 and is a major force in the art world internationally. 

Gloria Steinem

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Activist and journalist Gloria Steinem has been a leading voice in the women's movement for more than 50 years. She co-founded New York magazine, as well as, in 1972, the trailblazing Ms. magazine, where she was an editor and writer for 15 years. She has been a leading voice for women's issues and rights including reproductive health and gender equality. 

 

Dorothy Parker

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Dorothy Parker was one of the founding members of the Algonquin Roundtable, a group of writers, critics an intellectuals known for their keen observations and sharp wit—Parker, especially. A writer for the New Yorker, Vanity Fair and other publications, she penned fiction, poems, plays and more. Her wry, sometimes brutal takes on modern life exemplify an certain New York sensibility, and her influence is felt to this day. 

 

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The 12 Best Winter Activities in Los Angeles

by Chanin Victor

Los Angeles may be best known for its beaches and year-round summer-esque sunshine, but some of Los Angeles’ best winter activities for kids are the most fun for everyone

Los Angeles winters aren’t as snow-laden as say, Chicago, but the weather outside is debatably frightful (at least for us locals). The good news is, Angelenos don’t hunker down at home—we hit the town! From uncovering nearby winter wonderlands and festive holiday markets, to outdoor ice skating rinks and cozy fire pits for s’mores making are just some of the things to do in LA come winter. So grab your coat and scarf, and check out these nearby winter activities and see if you can check off all of these winter activities for Los Angeles in the winter.

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Things to Do in the Winter Idea #1: Play in Snow (Yes! It's Possible)

Despite the lack of snow during Los Angeles winters, we’re lucky to be close to lots of snow-worthy mountain ranges. Bundle up the kids and take advantage of (a natural) winter’s bounty at our local alpine wonderlands that are just a hop, skip and a quick car ride away. Snow tubing? Check. Sledding? Check. Is everybody happy? Check check.

Beginner-level hills are found at most resorts, and more experienced skiers will indeed find runs to challenge them. Many resorts also offer other winter activities like tubing. And while everyone hopes for a winter storm, the resorts can also take matters into their own hands if the snowfall isn't cooperating. Whether you’re looking for a place to teach your kids how to ski or to test your own snow-based skills, you’ll find it within an easy drive of DTLA.

Looking for snow that won't melt under the California sun? Take the family and frolic in a flurry of (homemade) snow at WinterFest OC, the Southland's largest winter festival, held at the OC Fair & Event Center from Nov. 25 through the 1st of January. Try some fun no-ice sock skating, go ice-fishing and decorate snowflakes at the Winter Frolic. No meltdowns are allowed at Kidspace in Pasadena where it's snow fun from November 18 through January 8th.

Outdoor Winter Idea #2: Ice Skate under the Stars

If you're looking for a unique and engaging way to enjoy the winter season in town, look no further than ice skating. Whether you're a beginner or a seasoned pro, there's sure to be an ice skating rink nearby. 

Skate and chill where the sand meets the snow. The 3rd annual Ice Rink at the Paséa Hotel & Spa returns this year November 25 - December 31 with oceanfront ice skating, reserved fire pit experiences and festive theme nights (think Mariah Carey Tributes and Santa Ho Ho Hoedown). Hang with the cool kids at the 8,000-square-foot ice rink on the corner of Fifth Street and Arizona in Santa Monica. Literally know as ICE, this skating rink brings a winter wonderland to the westside's coastal communities. LA Live hosts the annual L.A. Kings ice skating rink where you'll get to slide across the ice and prance around the sparkly Christmas tree as an LED light show flashes across the huge screens around the plaza. There's snow time like the present to go because all the ice will melt by the first or second week of January.

Outdoor Winter Activity Idea #3: Go Sand Sledding

Sand berm sledding is the perfect winter activity when you can’t make it into the mountains. Sand berms are man-made sand hills built up by the city to protect the beaches from eroding from winter storms and rough surf. They are a popular spot for sand sledding in Los Angeles and a beloved activity for those who live near the ocean. Sand berms provide a great way to enjoy the beach during the winter when the weather is typically too cold or windy to enjoy otherwise. There's nothing quite like racing down a sand berm on a sled, feeling the wind in your face and the sand flying up behind you.

Winter Activity Idea #4: See the LA Skyline (without the Smog)

LA is never so clear as after a good winter-y rain. These are the best observation decks and lookouts in LA offering sweeping views of the city. Get a snowflakes-eye-view of LA from iconic landmarks rich in history offering panorama's of the Hollywood sign, the Pacific Ocean and even all the way to Catalina Island. Sometimes you'll find it's less crowded and ultra peaceful to bundle up and check out your world from high above it all. 

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Winter Bucket List Idea #5: Try New Restaurants with the Kids

For those who are always DTE (down to eat), LA has some of the best ways to stay out of the kitchen.

Families can celebrate one of the Eight Nights at Birdie G's with a Hanukkah-themed dinner series. Chefs from across the country will prepare some innovative à la carte specials that embody the holiday, along with some classic Jewish dishes, like potato latkes.

For one of the best South Asian-inspired pizza pies you'll ever have, try Pijja Palace (Pijja is Hindi for "pizza") in Silver Lake. Covered in one of the delicious sauces of Northern Makhini, Peri Peri Vindaloo or White Korma and chock full of delectable toppings, it'll be hard to eat just one.

  • Pretend you’re a pilot or a medieval knight. Why not make dinner even more fun and hit up one of these theme-based restaurants you can only find in LA?
  • Embrace the doughnut and discover why this round-shaped sweet has become the unofficial dessert for LA (for kids and adults). Sidecar Doughnuts’ malasada-style raised doughnut filled with a homemade pumpkin-chai mousse and rolled in chai spiced sugar is the bomb! But hurry, it’s only available on Mon. and only through Dec. before they swap it out for a new, seasonal flavor.
  • If bagels are more your thing, plan a breakfast nosh at one of LA’s noteworthy Jewish Delis.
  • Stop by one of these family-friendly LA breweries for a little corn hole, ping-pong and kid-friendly dining options.

The whole family can enjoy these breweries; it's not just for mom and pop date nights. C'mon, who said having kids meant you had to stop having fun!

Winter Activities for Kids Idea #6: Hit those Southern California Theme Parks

Winter time offers the perfect temps to experience all the coolest theme parks that Southern California has to offer. Not only are there amazing holiday celebrations with winter wonderland-inspired décor, you'll have fun experiencing holiday-themed shows and maybe even meeting Santa Claus himself! After everyone heads back to school in the new year, these incredible amusement parks continue to be a great way to create lasting memories with family and friends.

  • Winter season brings "Knott's Merry Farm", happening now through Jan. 8th and enjoy Knott's Berry Farm's delicious jellies and jams all year long.
  • It's always a magical time of year at Disneyland! Check out the "Holidays at the Disneyland Resorts" and then go back again all winter long for more family-fun-filled wintery celebrations throughout Disneyland and California Adventure.
  • The Awesomest Celebration of the Season is at Universal Studios. Experience Christmas in The Wizarding World of Harry Potter or spend the holidays with the Grinch, Max, and Who-ville at the Who-tacular Grinchmas celebration. There's always movie magic happening at Universal Studios though, and you could be the star!
  • Six Flags Magic Mountain's "Holiday in the Park" is select evenings now-Jan. 1. Experience dazzling lights, sleigh rides, Santa's village and snowy nights. Come back January, February, March and more with your significant other for the best date nights and roller coasters around.

Fun Winter Activitities Idea #7: See Live Theater

Experience laughter, thrills and genuine emotions at some of Los Angeles' best community and family-friendly theaters. The La Mirada Theatre has so many great, fun-filled, family-friendly shows based on your kid's most beloved literature. In Feb., don't miss Grace For President and The Lightning Thief, and in Mar. be sure to see Twinkle Time, the bilingual "Lady Gaga for Kids."

Outdoor Winter Activity Idea #8: Take a Winter Hike

Sunny and mid-70s? Get outdoors and see if you can check-off our favorite hiking spots in LA to go with babies, toddler and big kids. A local favorite? After a hike at Ferndell, stroll with the fam to The Trails Cafe for various baked goods, pies, coffee, quiche, and sandwiches.

Winter Bucket List Idea #9: Ride the Rails

Trains run all year long and make for a great winter activity. Here are the best spots to ride the rails around LA.

Explore some of Southern California's hidden gems, such as the city of Claremont. This charming and quaint little village is just an hour away from LA, off the metrolink line, and full of family-friendly things to do including shopping, museums, botanical gardens and the some of the best eateries and dessert shops.

Winter Bucket List Idea #10: Make Winter Travel Plans 

There are many possibilities for fun and adventure, from the snow-capped mountains to the city's twinkling lights. Vacation ideas abound, whether skiing, snowboarding, ice skating or sledding. And, of course, no winter vacation would be complete without a few festive holiday experiences thrown in for good measure. Whether you're looking for gifts and fun or simply a way to escape the cold, winter travel has something for everyone.

  • Skypark Santa's Village is an adventure-based family-friendly activity park in the San Bernardino Mountains. The alpine forest setting provides the perfect backdrop for a day of fun and excitement. With plenty of activities to choose from, there is something for everyone at Skypark Santa's Village. From zip lining and rock climbing to hiking and biking, there is no shortage of ways to explore the great outdoors. 
  • Just two hours from LA, Solvang's Danish-style month-long holiday celebration, Julefest, is about to begin and runs from Nov. 27-Jan. 1. Discover Danish culture and Danish pastries like Aebleskivers—dough cooked in hot oil and shaped like a ball, traditionally sprinkled in powdered sugar with a drizzling of raspberry sauce. This quaint village oozes hygge—coziness—all winter long, so make sure you check out the Elverhoj Museum of History and Art and then head over to Ostrichland, USA, for some aviary appreciation.
  • If you're heading to LEGOLAND this winter, stay at one of the nearby resorts like the Sheraton Carlsbad or The Cassara offering movie nights. Of course, a day trip to the Carlsbad Flower Fields when they open Mar. 1st is a great way to get excited about the upcoming spring season.
  • Finally make plan for a girl's weekend getaway: Find out why we love Ojai, Los Alamos, Santa Barbara and Santa Monica for fun winter escapes.
  • Of course, Palm Springs with kids is always a good idea—especially in the winter.

Winter Bucket List Idea #11: Explore LA Like A Local

  • Situated in the heart of Los Angeles, SoFi Stadium is the city's premier sports and entertainment destination. Home to both the Chargers and the Rams, the stadium is a state-of-the-art facility that features both an indoor and outdoor experience for fans. With a capacity of over 70,000, SoFi Stadium is one of the largest stadiums in the NFL and provides a unique experience for all who attend. It also hosts various other events, including concerts and conventions. Take a tour of SoFi with the family, or better yet, cheer on your favorite LA team!
  • The LA Conservancy Historic Downtown Walks explore the history and heart of the amazing city through its architecture. The past is blended with the modern, giving visitors a unique perspective of the city. These walks are a great way to learn about the city and its people.
  • A visit to 123 FARM, a lavender farm, is a fun way to spend time with family. From now to Jan. 8, you can experience Christmas Nights, where one million lights are on display. Horse-drawn carriage tours, s'mores pits, Santa, hot cocoa, gingerbread and a holiday maze to get you in the yuletide spirit. Year-round you can enjoy festivals like the sheep-shearing festival, the sourdough bread festival or Lavender Nights with live music and lavender cocktails. A truly unique experience to see in Southern California.
  • There's no place like Hollywood, especially when it's Academy Awards season. Win the lottery for a bleacher seat to see all the arrivals in their glam. It's the perfect way to catch a glimpse of your favorite movie star.
  • One of the country's top running events takes place in LA on Mar. 19, starting at Dodger Stadium and ending at the Santa Monica Pier. The LA Marathon is a must-see event, that is, unless you're planning to run it; then it's a must-do!

Winter Bucket List Idea #12: Only-in-LA Events 

The holidays in Los Angeles are a truly magical time. The city comes alive with lights and decorations and plenty of festive activities and events for the whole family to enjoy. One of the most popular things to do during the holidays is to see lights! Families also love seeing the many decorated boats ping the city's waterways. It's a great way to see the sights and get into the holiday spirit!

  • Rose Bowl Stadium Holiday Tours are Dec. 28, at 10:30 a.m. & 12:30 p.m. Get a peek behind the scenes of America’s Stadium and the host of the Rose Bowl Game. Learn all about the flower-filled celebration that's more than a century old.
  • Jan.-Apr., is the best time to see whales in Southern California. The gray whale is a particularly impressive sight, weighing up to 40 tons, these giants travel from Alaska to Baja, in preparation to give birth to 2000-pound babies.

 

 

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