If you’ve ever asked your kids “How was your day?” and received what sounds like a grunt or the ever-popular “OK,” you’re not alone. Instead of letting family chats fall to the wayside, consider using conversation starters for kids during your next family dinner. Sure, gathering everyone for a meal might seem impossible, but it’s more important than ever; studies have shown that families that eat together often have healthier diets, increased communication, and overall emotional stability.

And, engaging your kids in conversation has other huge benefits. It helps them learn important social skills, boosts vocabulary, raises self-esteem (especially when you listen to their responses), and could lead to them opening up about things that might be bothering them. So, if you’ve come this far, congrats! The next step? Figuring out what to talk about at the table. That’s where our fun conversation starters for kids come in handy.

How to Use Conversation Starters

Time your questions.

If your kid is hungry, tired, or both, it might not be the best time to engage in elaborate table talk. Use conversation starters with kids when you aren’t rushing to get to practice, there isn’t homework to be finished, and everyone is in a good mood.

Listen to their answers.

So, their curiosity is piqued, and they’re thinking hard about what to say. You need to be present in the moment and listen. Kids’ self-esteem gets a boost when they know their parents are listening.

Don’t forget to ask open-ended questions.

Consider using conversation starters for kids that require more than yes or no answers. If kids (or anyone) have a chance to elaborate on their answers, that can open the door to more interesting conversations.

47 Conversation Starters for Kids

1. Can you guess the ingredients in the meal tonight?

2. What do you like better: waking up in the morning or going to bed at night?

3. Would you rather be a giant rodent or a tiny elephant?

4. What would you do if you had a million dollars?

5. If you had to eat a worm, how would you cook it?

6. What is a weird habit that you have?

7. If you had this week to do over again, what would you do differently?

8. Would you rather go without television or junk food for the rest of your life?

9. If a genie granted you three wishes, what would they be?

10. If money were no object, where would you like to go on vacation?

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11. Where is the most interesting place you have ever been to?

12. Would you rather swim with stingrays or explore the jungle?

13. If you could make any vegetable against the law, which would it be?

14. Would you rather not hear or not see?

15. Would you rather wrestle a lion or fight a shark?

16. If you were sent to live on a space station for three months and were only allowed to bring three personal items, what would they be?

17. If you had your human body but the head of an animal, what animal would you pick?

18. What is one favorite thing you do by yourself?

19. If you could read one person’s mind, whose would it be?

20. What two things do you consider yourself to be very good at?

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21. Do you believe in extraterrestrials or life on other planets?

22. What is your favorite smell? What memory does it remind you of?

23. What is the weirdest thing you have ever eaten?

24. If you could be one character from a book for a day, who would it be and why?

25. What's the last thing that made you laugh?

26. Tell me about something that made you happy today.

27. What does a perfect day look like to you?

28. If you could have any animal for a pet, what would it be?

29. If you could be in the movie of your choice, what movie would you choose and what character would you play?

30. Would you rather wear your pants backward or shoes on the wrong feet?

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31. What did you do to help someone else today?

32. What makes our family special?

33. What three words would you use to describe yourself?

34. What is your favorite song?

35. Would you rather be able to talk to animals or know how to speak every language? 

36. If you could be a sound, what would it be? 

37. If you could eat one food for the rest of your life, what would you pick? 

38. Who is your favorite movie character? 

39. If you had to make dinner tomorrow night, what would you make? 

40. If you were a parent, what rules would you have? Are they different from ours? 

41. What is your earliest memory? 

42. If you could only have three toys, which three would they be? 

43. If you could pick your name, what would it be? 

44. List three things you would do for a Yes Day

45. If you had to pick, would you live in the snow, near the beach, a city, or the country? 

46. What's something you always forget to do? 

47. If you could be a professional athlete, which sport would you pick? 

If you’re looking for real giggles, check out our favorite jokes for kids, and for other fun table talk questions, check out these would you rather questions for kids and would you rather questions for teens.

 

We firmly believe pets are 100% part of the family. These pet gifts will make sure they feel part of it!

They bring us all the joy, are always happy to see us, and convince us to let them on the couch even after we promised we never would. They don’t judge us, even if they have seen us at our worst. And despite the fact that we can’t live at the dog park like they’d prefer us to, they still adore us no matter what.  They’re our pets, and our holidays wouldn’t be complete without them! We’re making sure Santa Paws comes to our houses with our guide to pet gifts (and for pet-lovers)!

Are they frisky? Bouncy? Calm? Each pet has their own special personality, which means they also have their own special sets of likes and dislikes, too. From cozy to cute to squeaky to funny (and no, those aren’t the names of four new reindeer), we’ve got the gifts and goodies to make our furry friends purr. Oh, and we made sure to include more than just pet gifts; we remembered their owners, too! Pet owners will always want something that reminds them of their fuzzy babies, so it’s not hard for us to almost guarantee that the pet people on your list will be thrilled with what we found. Most importantly, we’re on a mission to make the ones that love us unconditionally know that the feeling is completely mutual.

Pets Magnetic Scene

Holiday travel coming up? Snag this magnetic scene kit that includes 50 pieces for hours of K9 creativity for your non-fur baby!

Pets Magnetic Scene ($25.00)—Buy Now

Acrylic Photo Block

You have a thousand pet pics saved on your phone; how about displaying them in a unique and fun way? The Acrylic Photo Blocks from VistaPrint are totally customizable and let your furry friend take center stage wherever you choose to show it off.

Acrylic Photo Block (Starting at $39.99)—Buy Now

Snuggle Bed

A sleeping bag, a mat, a bolster bed—this snuggler does it all!

Snuggle Bed ($26.18)—Buy Now

Merry Woofmas Plush Toy Set

Get your furry fam into the holiday spirit with this absolutely adorable 5-piece set!

Merry Woofmas Plush Toy Set ($68.50)—Buy Now

Snowflake Pet Personalized Burgundy Christmas Photo Stocking

You have to have somewhere to put their new Merry Woofmas toy set, right? How adorable is this stocking?

Snowflake Pet Personalized Burgundy Christmas Photo Stocking ($16.49)—Buy Now

Repeating Name Collar

With 6 colors to choose from, you'll find one that matches your pet's personality!

Repeating Name Collar ($9.99)—Buy Now

Dog Face Sweatshirt

There are a bunch of breeds to choose from, and we love the idea of taking our pups everywhere with us.

Dog Face Sweatshirt ($24.50)—Buy Now

If My Dog Could Talk Book

Kiddos and grownups alike will adore seeing their puppy grace the pages of this super precious book!

If My Dog Could Talk Book ($29.99)—Buy Now

Custom Dog Blanket

Maybe one of our editors has a miniature dachshund. And maybe that dachshund has an affinity for fleece blankets. And maybe she's about to buy this super darling blanket. Several colors to choose from, too!

Custom Dog Blanket ($7.05)—Buy Now

Smart HD Pet Camera

Ever wish you could call and check in with your pets? Us, too. This two-way communication camera does it all!

Smart HD Pet Camera ($39.99)—Buy Now

Chewlulemon Bag Plush Toy

We laughed out loud when we saw this one. Filled with fun just like yours, your doggy will be oh-so-chic.

Chewlulemon Bag Plush Toy ($11.16)—Buy Now

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This Lego Home Alone house features Little Nero’s pizza, a swinging paint can, a blow torch, and other adorable Easter eggs that any Kevin McAllister stan will recognize

LEGO loves paying homage to the classics—and this set is perfect for the holidays! This year, LEGO has brought back the Home Alone house in brick form, complete with tons of tiny details—like Kevin’s booby traps and other Easter eggs from the movie—that make this set both realistic and an absolute blast to play with.

The box packs in 3,955 pieces and five minifigures: Kevin, his mom, robbers Harry and Marv, plus “Old Man” Marley. In an extra fun twist, the set is split into 24 bags, Advent calendar style, so you can build along to the film’s plotline. LEGO Fan Designer Alex Storozhuk created the concept and watches Home Alone every holiday season from his home in Ukraine.

Once the entire house is put together, the front opens up to reveal all the rooms (and booby traps) inside.

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There’s the very ’90s bathroom, where you can recreate Kevin’s screaming scene in the mirror after he tests out his dad’s aftershave.

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There’s also the festively decorated holiday table where Kevin enjoys his highly nutritious meals of microwavable macaroni and cheese and Little Nero’s pizza.

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Then, once the Wet Bandits arrive on the scene, the real fun begins. The back door includes the doggy door and blowtorch that Kevin uses to torch Marv’s head when he tries to break in.

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The set also comes with accessories, like the crowbar the Wet Bandits use to break into homes, and Buzz’s tarantula. Just make sure he doesn’t get lost in the house…

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The set includes Kevin’s treehouse and, of course, a zipline to help him get there from the attic window. The details in this set are next-level and sure to absolutely delight any fan of the Home Alone movies.

Retailing at $300, the Home Alone set is available online and in LEGO stores. We can’t think of a better seasonal present for the ’90s fan in your life!

Don’t leave your furry (or feathery) family members out of all the Halloween fun! We’ve got all the best pet costumes right here.

We made sure the kiddos’ Halloween costumes covered, and have parents taken care of, too. Now we’re onto furbabies! We can’t forget our precious pets, especially since all they want is to be included (even though they didn’t technically ask to be dressed up). These Halloween pet costumes are some of the best we’ve seen this year, and we’ve seen a bunch (maybe we look them up in our spare time just for a mood-booster…).

It’s Lick-or-Treat Season and we’re celebrating! (We definitely don’t recommend costumes for pets who get upset, anxious, or uncomfortable. We want them to be as happy as they make us! If you’ve made sure your furry friend is comfy dressing up, keep reading!)

Elephant Booty Suit

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As if their tails could get any cuter, this hilarious take on an elephant also means they don't have anything over their heads or faces. This one is a tusk have.

Elephant Booty Suit ($20) Here

BarkBoxed Franzia Wine Costume

Dog wearing a Franzia boxed wine costume

Ah, yes. A full and furry-bodied red is perfect for the season. Keep it classy with an easy velcro closure and included spout, er, snout.

BarkBoxed Franzia Wine Costume ($20) Here

Mythical Mutt

black and grey dog wearing a unicorn horn and wings

We weren't fully prepared for this level of majesty, but the wing and horn unicorn set can also double as dog toys (not that they weren't going to, anyway)!

Mythical Mutt Costume ($14.99) Here

Beauty & the Beast

Beauty and the Beast dog costumes

It's a tail as old as time. The story of the Beast and Princess Belle gets an upgrade in the most adorable way! 

Belle Costume (starting at $29.99) Here

Beast Costume (starting at $34.99) Here

Beetlejuice

He's a bit mischievous, maybe a bit of a prankster, and you can't help but love him. The wig really is the icing on the K-9 cake!

Beetlejuice Costume (starting at $24.99) Here

Winifred Sanderson

Dog wearing Winifred Sanderson costume

We've never minded a bunch of Hocus Pocus! If your dog is already a pro at casting smells, this is the costume for her!

Winifred Sanderson Costume ($31.95) Here

Monster Dog and Cat Costume

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Hairy? Yes. Scary? Not so much (and we like it that way!). This sweet and silly monster costume even has a matching kiddo costume (sold separately)!

Monster Dog and Cat Costume ($12.99) Here

Toddler Monster Candy Pouch Halloween Costume ($25.00) Here

Caterpillar

dog in caterpillar

Creepy and crawly may not describe your pet, but very hungry just might! This caterpillar costume is one they can relate to.

Caterpillar Costume ($48.35) Here

 

Taco Dog and Cat

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Give them something to taco 'bout in this easy and fun pet costume! It even includes toppings because of course.

Taco Dog and Cat Costume ($13.00) Here

Pumpkin Pet Johns

If you'd rather skip a full costume, these pumpkin pet johns from Hanna Anderson's matching family pajamas collection are such an adorable alternative!

Pumpkin Pet Johns (starting at $17) Here

Family Matching Pumpkin Pajamas (starting at $17) Here

Pumpkin Microfleece Costume Hoodie for Pets

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Another great option that isn't a full costume and matches the fam! We're loving this one since it also keeps our waggers warm in the fall. 

Pumpkin Microfleece Costume Hoodie for Pets ($16.00) Here

Family Matching Jack-o'-Lantern One-Piece Costume ($46.00) Here

 

Starbarks Barista Apron

Even if they're not puppuccino fiends, this barkrista (sorry, we couldn't resist) apron is one of our favorites. As a bonus, it goes really well with family costume themes

Starbarks Barista Apron Costume ($14.99) Here

Vampire Pet Costume

Adorn your Catula in this hilarious vampire costume. We have to say, it's the bowler hat for us.

Vampire Pet Costume ($12.95) Here

Dragon Guinea Pig

guinea pig wearing a dragon costume

What, you thought we were going to leave your Guinea Pig out? Give them wings in this darling dragon costume!

Dragon Guinea Pig Costume ($12.99) Here

Frog

bird wearing frog costume

Flying frogs are probably a thing, right? We didn't actually look it up, but this frog bird costume is epic!

Frog Bird Costume ($11.99) Here

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When kids are along for the ride, having your kitchen and bathroom with you is a huge plus

The promise of an upcoming vacation is often the thing that keeps us going through all the other months. With fall on the horizon and lots of leaf-peeping adventures to take, consider hitting the open road in an RV. Sketchy RV parks are a thing of the past with many of them offering kid-friendly perks like water slides, swimming holes, and jumbo rocks to climb on. You’ll love having your kitchen and bedroom along for the ride when you set out in your house on wheels.

1. It's one of the safest ways to travel. 

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With all the craziness that is air travel these days, traveling in an RV can be one of the safest ways to travel. Imagine, a kitchen to cook meals, your own bathroom, and a self-contained hang-out space just for your family. It's social-distanced travel at its best. 

Related: Our Editors’ Top Tips to Make Traveling by Air a Little Easier

2. There's an RV for every kind of family.

If you are a little intimidated by the RVs that look like tour buses, don't worry! You can still get an RV experience without going so big. Pop-up travel trailers and Airstreams that you pull behind your car offer some of the RV features like indoor sleeping and kitchen facilities without having to learn how to drive a huge vehicle.

If you decide to go big, motor homes offer more sleeping options and conveniences like bathrooms and full-sized refrigerators. Think about what you'd like to do and where you'd like to go with your RV before you rent.

3. Your home base travels with you.

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If you've ever tried to get a grumpy toddler to nap in a hot tent in a busy campground then you'll know, the struggle is real. With an RV, you have a dedicated sleeping spot where you can put the kids down while you enjoy the fresh air just outside. 

Related: 48 Spots in the US to Visit Before Your Kids Get Too Old 

4. You can bring your toys.

Tent camping means you are limited to what you can fit in the back of the car, so extras like bikes and kayaks usually have to be left at home. An RV gives you extra space to store this stuff so that you can get out and explore the trails and water when you arrive.

5. You can extend your travel to far-away destinations or enjoy the open road in your home state. 

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If you are looking to hit the road to one of the national parks or somewhere more than a day's drive away, then an RV is your answer. As long as you plan out your options for overnight RV parking, you have your own built-in hotel room for the journey. This also allows you to be more flexible and go with the flow on how far you drive each day. 

6. The actual travel portion of the trip is part of the adventure.

Trying to fit all the gear you need for your family and your family in one vehicle can lead to a cramped situation. RV camping allows the actual travel portion to be easier for everyone. And, if you go for one of the big bus-style RVs, you can really live it up as you watch the world go by while you play cards at the kitchen table!

Related: The Best Under the Radar Parks in Every State

7. Bugs and rain? No biggie!

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These two things can make your camping adventure go down the tubes fast. While you'll want to spend most of your camping time exploring the great outdoors, the RV gives you peace of mind in case nature strikes back. 

8. Cooking is easier in an RV.

Cooking while camping requires a hot fire or a propane camp stove, both of which can be iffy if you have wind or any bad weather. RVs offer indoor cooking options that make your job easier. Most have at least a small refrigerator to keep your milk, eggs, and microbrews cold so that you don't have to worry about the problem of constantly melting ice. Some even have microwaves!

9. Power up those devices.

If you can't go completely off-grid for a multi-week camping adventure, an RV provides the option to power up your phone or laptop from your campsite. Either plug the RV into the campground hookups or use the solar-powered options offered by some newer models. That way you can keep all the family and friends back home updated on your adventures.

10. You can bring your dog.

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Most campgrounds are very pet-friendly, so bringing your pup along in the RV is an option. When looking for RVs to rent, be sure to check the pet-friendly box when searching, or confirm with the rental company that pets are okay. And, just like a car, never leave your pet alone in an RV. 

11. No more communal campground bathrooms.

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Most RVs and travel trailers offer a bathroom option which is key when you are camping with kids, whether there's a COVID-19 concern or not. If you've ever had to help someone with a middle-of-the-night potty break while sleeping in a tent, you know how awesome having your own bathroom is. It can also make those roadside stops more enjoyable, without having to wait in line to use the bathroom before you take in the view. 

 

Get ready to feel all the feel-good feels—volunteer opportunities are all over LA—the hardest part will be picking which organization you’d like to help out first

There are a ton of good reasons to volunteer with your kids—it helps provide a sense of purpose, a sense of community, helps you meet new friends and improves self-esteem to name a few. And thankfully, there are tons of organizations around LA that welcome little kids into their organization that appreciate all those extra (little) hands. So whether your little one is more into saving our oceans and cleaning up the beach or you have a talented artist who can make get-well cards for Children’s Hospital, there are plenty of ways to put those good intentions to work.

Volunteer Activities for Nature Lovers

Heal the Bay: Kids of all ages are welcome to Heal the Bay’s monthly Nothin’ But Sand Beach Cleanups. BYOB (bring your own buckets), snag some gardening gloves and get ready to have some serious family fulfillment oceanside. Be sure to register ahead of time as events tend to fill up fast!

Surfrider Foundation: The Los Angeles chapter of this national nonprofit hosts regular beach cleanups as well. Keep an eye out on their event calendar for upcoming opportunities.

TreePeople: Have a kid that doesn’t mind getting dirty? Nearly every weekend, this LA organization hosts local, mountain and forest restoration events open to all ages—check the volunteer event calendar for upcoming dates. Registration is required.

Volunteer Activities for Active Kids

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St. Jude Walk/Run: Channel your kid’s energetic drive with a walk / run that helps raise money to cure childhood cancer. This nationwide 5K hybrid event, takes place in person and virtually so if you can’t make it to Griffith Park on Sept. 24, you can still participate.

Volunteer Activities for Kids Ready to Collect & Donate

Westside Food Bank: For food drives and donations check out Westside Food Bank. If you want to help seniors and the immunocompromised during COVID-19, visit alltogether.la for volunteer opportunities.

Baby2Baby: Teaching your children a lesson in philanthropy could be as simple as an overdue closet clean out! Get the kiddos to thin out those toy-stuffed cabinets or have little ones fill bags with brand new clothing that was barely worn. Baby2Baby also hosts outdoor volunteer opportunities during which participants can sort and organize donations or help assemble gift bundle bags for low-income kids and families in Los Angeles.

Related: Volunteer Vacations to Take with Kids

Volunteer Activities for the Pet-Obsessed

PAWS/LA: Have a kid desperate for a dog? Get them involved with this nonprofit organization, which helps low-income and ailing pet owners take care of their beloved animals. Insurance liability limits volunteer ages at shelters and kennels to those 18 and up, but kids (with grownups in tow) can assist by organizing and delivering needed supplies and food to homebound clients, fostering an animal for a short time, or even walking the dogs of people who are too sick to do so themselves. Find out more about the ways your little pet enthusiasts can help by contacting volunteer coordinator to set up an orientation.

Annenberg PetSpace: Help your young reader build communication skills and self-confidence by reading with adoptable pets or listening to a story. This in-space experience (weekly on Sat. and Sun.) includes a book reading, opportunity to meet an adoptable pet or critter ambassador, and craft demonstration with materials to take home and complete.

Volunteer Activities for Creative Kiddos

Best Buddies: Have a kid with a knack for writing? This group pairs children age 10 and up with intellectually and developmentally disabled counterparts (sharing like-minded interests). The goal? To create online pen pals in the attempts to decrease feelings of isolation. The long-distance friendships grow through weekly, private (anonymized) email communications, bridging differences and building understanding.

Related: 5 Easy Ways to Volunteer as a Family

Volunteer Activities for Future Entrepreneurs

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Big Sunday Lemonade Stand: Kids can set up a lemonade stand for a good cause with help from Big Sunday. The organization offers  downloadable signs and suggestions for how to make your stand a success. The money kids make will go to the Big Sunday Emergency Fund, which has helped displaced vets, families and more.

Volunteer Activities for Little Bookworms

Access Books: This group focuses on the redistribution of books, benefiting inner-city classrooms and school libraries. Little ones can go through their own shelves and select the gently used books they’ve outgrown to donate to others. Kids can also volunteer to help spruce up library spaces, as well as to organize book donations, librarian-style.

Related: 12 Ways Kids Can Give Back without Leaving the House

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Volunteer Activities for Social Butterflies

One-On-One Outreach: Have a kid who likes meeting new people? Once a month, volunteers (age 7 & up) gather to pack and deliver groceries to low-income families in South Central LA. Organized by a local businessman and an area resident, One-on-One Outreach also provides laptops to families so students can compete and succeed. Prepare for your kids to be inspired.

shopDisney has dropped Halloween apparel, home goods, costumes and more for 2022.

It’s August so there’s no time like the present to start gearing up for Halloween! When it comes to costumes, the sooner you lock your kids into their decision the better (fingers crossed they end up circling back to where they started because they WILL change their minds).

You can get a jump on all things dress up thanks to shopDisney’s Halloween shop that is locked and loaded for the spooky season. In addition to festive Mickey ears and apparel, there are tons of new costumes hitting the site already. From Lightyear-inspired getups to Mirabel from Encanto, stop shopping costumes for baby, toddler, big kid and adaptive styles now.

Baby & Toddler

Oogie Boogie

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Well, well, well! You'll have your own little boogeyman with this adorable costumes. It comes with a full jumpsuit and a separate headpiece that has a large opening so your little can easily see their way from house to house. Stay tuned––this costume is coming soon to shopDisney.


Sox

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Lightyear's cutest robot cat is here for Halloween! Soft and comfy, this jumpsuit has a detachable tail, collar, Sox vinyl nametag and headpiece adorable ears and nose.


Grogu Hover Pram

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You've got your own little baby Yoda with this sweet costume. This set comes with a body suit, pram and separate headpiece to complete the look. Check back at shopDisney, this costume is coming soon.

Big Kids

Mirabel

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Join the family Madrigal with this Mirabel costume. This authentic dress features scalloped edges, butterfly appliqués and all the bright colors Mirabel is known for. Green glasses not included!


Lightyear Space Ranger

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Join Buzz as he blasts off to space! This Space ranger suit comes with a jumpsuit, built-out chest overlay, a Space Ranger hood, blank yellow name tag that kids can personalize, lower bodice muscle linking plus sleeve cuffs.


Mighty Thor (aka Jane Foster)

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Move over, regular Thor. This mighty costume comes with a top, leggings, attached cap and of course the wined mask for the complete look Jane Foster rocks in the film.

Adaptive

Buzz Lightyear Spaceship Wheelchair Cover Set

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Get ready for blastoff This Lightyear-inspired wheelchair cover set comes with spaceship art, plastic piping for stability and long hook and loop strips so that everything stays in place.

 


Black Panther Light-Up Adaptive Costume

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King T'Challa's is ruling Wakanda! This padded Black Panther costume comes with a mask, light-up features and openings both in the front and back.

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Like so many children, my son’s interest in dogs started when he was young. The excitement he felt when he saw a dog resulted in squeals of delight and eventually evolved into begging, pleading and being the number one present on his wish list. As animal lovers ourselves, my husband, Eric, and I started seriously weighing the pros and cons of getting a dog. Eric was all for it, but juggling a career, family and everyday responsibilities already had my head spinning. Adding a dog into the mix seemed like it would push our family into further chaos. 

On September 7, my husband died unexpectedly. Nothing could have prepared me for the heartbreak, fear and grief that followed. My loss wasn’t the worst of it. The most gut-wrenching pain comes from seeing my son experiencing the same feelings. In a day, our world was turned upside down, and there was nothing I could do about it. 

Suddenly, our once vibrant home was too quiet. The void left by my husband’s absence was immeasurable and undeniable. My son buried himself in his iPad and me in my phone. He played Roblox, while I mindlessly scrolled through Instagram. 

One day, four months later, my son said, “You know, dad promised me a dog when I turned 9.” Gulp. This was a pivotal moment. What do I do with that information? I was just learning how to navigate life as a newly single parent. That alone was overwhelming. And to adopt a dog in the mix? I was at a fork in the road, and I didn’t know what to do. My son had been so closed off since he lost his father. I closed my eyes, took a breath and told my son we were adopting a dog. 

He beamed with excitement as we drove to pick up our new pet while I tried to manage the self-doubt and panic running through my head. It all happened so fast. We pulled up to the house, I signed the paperwork, put the dog in the carrier and was back on the 405-freeway heading home. In less than 30 minutes, Stormy joined our family. 

I was so focused on the added responsibility of owning a dog that I never considered the precious moments Stormy would bring. I didn’t realize how much she would help us emotionally. My son and I traded screen time for playing on the floor. We attended training classes together. We were so proud when Stormy learned her name. We laughed to tears when she stole chicken off the kitchen table. We feel so much love for her when she shows us she misses us by pulling our clothes downstairs to a certain spot.  

I’ve watched my son become more confident because of Stormy. He’s more comfortable talking to people who want to pet her and has learned it’s important to think about someone other than yourself. For me, her snuggles calm me, and her daily walks get me outside, no matter how low I’m feeling. What can I say? I’m happy I threw caution to the wind and listened to my son. We needed Stormy. I’m a convert: and 100% certain that dogs are worth it.   

Stormy celebrated her 2nd birthday this month. 

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Teaching young children how to handle their finances pays huge dividends (pun 100% intended) both now and in the future. Not sure how to craft age-appropriate lessons for your squad? We interviewed four financial professionals and came up with a list of 10 money skills that deliver the biggest bang for your buck. Read on for all the details.

1. Use Everyday Moments to Talk about Money

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"It's important to have regular conversations about money management while your child is still young to push them towards positive financial outcomes in early adulthood," advises Jennifer Seitz, Educational Content Lead at Greenlight and Certified Financial Education Instructor (CFEI). 

Make it make 'cents': Seitz suggests parents "Look for practical daily examples of spending and budgeting and share them with your child; for example, when you take your child grocery shopping, you can pull out your card for the cashier and then ask your child, "Do you know what type of card this is? Is it a credit card or a debit card?" 

This creates a learning opportunity to explain how debit cards take money directly from your bank account, while credit cards have a balance that must be paid each month. It's not free money or magic money—help your child understand how it works!"

 

2. Talk about Wants vs. Needs

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We need air, food, water, shelter and clothing. While your crew might beg to differ, we don't need toy cars or princess crowns. Needs are the things we buy before we buy the things we want.

Make it make 'cents': Together with the kiddo, grab a bunch of old magazines and coupon mailers, cut out different pictures, and glue them on a sheet of paper so that you have a collage of wants and a collage of needs.

3. Pay Kids for Unusual Tasks

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How nice would it be to get paid for making your bed, folding clothes or cutting your grass? Alas, it's not the case, so why do we lead kids on with chore-driven allowance? Consider giving them cash for extra work that they don't usually do (i.e., helping cook dinner or washing the family pet).

Make it make 'cents': Charge your mini-money makers with organizing a bake sale to earn extra money. They'll have a blast setting up shop and get a taste of what it's like to have a job.

 

4. Demonstrate the Wonder of Compound Interest

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Tom Byrum, Sr. Director, Head of Global Sales Compensation at a Fortune 500 company, uses a hands-on approach to get his child excited about saving money. "I'm paying my 10-year-old daughter an exorbitant monthly interest rate on her savings to illustrate the time value of money. She had fun calculating how much her $37 would grow at 10 percent interest per day for 30 days (no, that's not what I'm paying). She kept guessing how much she thought it would be and passed her guess two cycles later." 

Make it make 'cents': Even the smallest fry can learn this lesson if you make it visual. Arm yourself with a roll of pennies and a Mason jar so your preschooler can see how quickly the change builds up.

 

5. Explain the Different Types of Money

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There are coins, paper bills, paper checks, debit and credit cards–and you use them all at different times for purchases. The idea of monetary variety is a hard one to grasp for the under 10 set, especially when you can buy things with "invisible money" (aka credit cards). And let's not even get started on the difference between a checking and a savings account. 

Rod Griffin, Senior Director of Public Education and Advocacy at Experian, advises parents to "...help their children develop good financial habits by teaching them the difference between a checking and savings account and how banks store funds. Take a trip to the bank as a teaching experience and deposit or cash a check." 

Make it make 'cents': Make "invisible" money visible. Set one person up as the bank and have your kid "pay" for items around the house with a debit card. The bank person should then take the money out of the bank and give it to you.

6. Talk about Credit Cards

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"Without the proper knowledge of best practices, credit cards can lead to a lot of trouble for adults, both young and old," says Griffin. "Parents should teach children what credit cards are and how to use them wisely. Going through a credit card statement can go a long way in helping children understand the cause and effect of using credit cards, the importance of making on-time payments and how it can impact their credit score."

Make it make 'cents': Role play the difference between making a purchase with good credit vs. bad credit. Kids with good credit can buy a popsicle for $2, while those with low scores get charged $6. If you have more than one child, we suggest giving everyone the same credit score, so you don't start a mutiny.

7. Teach Kids to Budget and Plan for Their Needs

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Ashraf Jaffer, Adjunct Accounting Professor at the University of North Carolina, has been doing this since her son was five years old. "He has a budget from birthday and holiday money. When he was younger, we would give him the prices of things he wanted. He would come up with a combination of things that would fit within his budget (which is a great way to incorporate math lessons). Now that he is older, we ask him to research prices and come up with a proposal and justification. The final decision is with us, but he feels he is more in control and participates in the decision process."

Make it make 'cents': Print out a calendar and pencil in planned family trips, holidays and special occasions. Ask your child to set aside spending money for each event before budgeting for immediate wants.

8. Don't Fudge the Budget

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"Stick to the budget and do not exceed it even if your kid's argument for spending more is great," advises Jaffer. "They will learn to prioritize spending needs and patience if you don't give in and increase the budget." 

We know, we know—easier said than done. But the sooner kids understand that they can't buy things if they don't have enough money, the better. 

Make it make 'cents': Create and label four money jars: "spend," "save," "share," and "invest." It's up to your kiddo to decide where the money goes. Another fun way to practice budgeting? Play Monopoly!

9. Model Charitable Giving

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Kids have great examples of $$$-stingy characters—think Scrooge, who no matter how much money he has, hoards it all to himself. Giving (even the smallest amount) to those who have less is a fundamental money lesson that naturally empathetic kids can enjoy.

Make it make 'cents': Together, research and choose one charity to donate money to each month.

10. Reinforce Positive Money Choices

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“Talk about their successes and reward them,” says Seitz. “Did they decide against buying something they didn’t really need? Smart move! Explain that now they can use the money for something else, which is that core money principal: opportunity cost. Did they choose to save their birthday money for an important big-ticket item? Tell them how proud you are! And why learning to save is so important as they grow up and become financially independent.”

Make it make 'cents': Be as specific as possible in your praise to really solidify the lesson. The more your little one feels warm and fuzzy about their financially responsible decisions, the better.

 

—Teresa Douglas & Ayren Jackson

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