These (mostly) easy elf ideas will keep you going until Christmas Eve
It’s that time again. Yup, your Elf on the Shelf is about to parachute in to make your life (slightly) more challenging for the next few weeks. Get ahead of the game and prep your bag of tricks with these brilliant ideas. From Elf on the Shelf clothes to setting last-minute Elf on the Shelf ideas that’ll make the whole family giggle, we’ve got enough easy elf ideas to last you the whole holiday season.
1. Elf held captive. If you have two Scout elves, this Elf on the Shelf idea is a lot of fun. Pull out the toy train, and string, and decide which elf is going to be extra naughty.
2. Dramatic rescue. Rescuing the family elf is always interesting. If you’ve got train tracks, going Wild Wild West is a super-easy way to keep him tied down!
3. Plan a hot cocoa party. This is fun on the first night or maybe on a weekend day, where the kids can help you set up and then maybe enjoy some themselves! Snag printables for the party here.
4.Spell it out. Do you have Scrabble tiles or Bananagrams? Then it’s a cinch to let your elf leave a sweet message for your littles to discover the next day.
5.Deeds worth doing. Since reporting good deeds to Santa is your elf’s duty, it’s the perfect opportunity to remind kids about the spirit of Christmas. We dig the free downloadable from Over the Big Moon.
6. Rock climbing wall. All you need are several pre-made bows to make a route for your elf.
7. Coloring elf. Take 30 seconds to scribble in a coloring book or on a printable, scatter crayons, and set up your elf. Giggles are guaranteed!
8. Window view. If you’ve got a window and a curtain rod, you’ve got a sweet spot to place your elf. Easy-peasy.
9. Cookies, please. Elves love anything made with sugar. Set yours up with the stuff to make cookies; not only will you be able to cross one day off your calendar, but you’ll get to spend quality time with your kiddos. Bonus: If you don’t get around to making them, a repeat appearance by your elf with a more urgent request for cookies is appropriate.
10. Zipline. This Elf on the Shelf idea is popular, but it does take a little time to set up. All you need is string or yarn, a candy cane, and a way to secure your elf to the candy cane!
11. Not-so-fresh Frosty. Looks like Frosty the Snowman found himself in a warmer climate! Head over to Picklehead Soup for more genius ideas.
12. LEGO throne. Whether you use DUPLO or LEGO, making a seat for Santa’s little helper can be done in less than five minutes.
13. Caught in the act. With this easy elf idea, you'll use a bag of M&Ms, chocolate chips, or even a box of sugar cereal, and position your elf with its backside out of the bag.
14. Put Elsa to Work. Let your elf take a dip in water and take a trip to the freezer before posing alongside Elsa.
15. Exhausted elf. All those trips up to the North Pole make for one tired elf. Let your little one in red take a day off. Psst! You don’t need an elf-sized sleeping bag. A doll blankie works just as well.
16. Elf spaghetti. Whip up Buddy the Elf’s favorite dish for your little helper. Hint: this is a great idea for the night you make pasta. You'll also need syrup (of course), marshmallows, candy, and chocolate syrup. Find out how to make a batch over at Instructables.
17. Riding the banister. Those naughty elves are always looking for an adrenaline rush! Use a frisbee and sticky tape to get your little buddy set up at the top and ready to ride.
18. Sitting pretty. Have your elf take a seat inside your wreath for a picture-perfect spot.
19. A Stuck Elf. This is a super easy elf idea, and you don’t even need the message board to pull it off. Just grab a mason jar and a prominent place to display your elf’s tight situation.
21. Elf in the kitchen. Got a play kitchen? Then let your elf whip up something yummy.
22. Super Elf! Your kids will love to find their family elf has gone superhero overnight. Construction paper or felt works great for a cape and mask.
23. On the road. With a toy car, your elf can go just about anywhere they want to go. Headed to buy a Christmas tree? Done. Want to take Wonder Woman out on a date? Totally!
24. Put the elf in the freezer. Your elf sure does miss the North Pole! Give him a little time to chill.
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25.Play Picasso. A dry-erase marker, a family photo, and a sense of humor are all you need. Give your kids beards and cat ears: See how much they laugh!
26.Toilet paper tricks. Add an elf to a roll of toilet paper and send them down the stairs. Don’t have a second level? Leave a trail down the hall with a written message instead.
27. Bath time. You don’t need a Barbie bath to let your Elf soak aching bones— a plastic bowl or storage container will do the trick. Add marshmallows for bubbles and you’re set.
28. Gone fishing. Your kids will love waking up to find the elf "fishing" for goldfish crackers in the bathroom sink.
29. Story time. Position the elf with a favorite holiday book and a captivated audience.
30. Hanging by a limb. Any elf will feel right at home when dangling from a branch of the Christmas tree.
31. Spa day. Wrap your elf in a washcloth, give them a loofah, and just like that, it's a spa day.
32. Puzzle play. Settling your elf in for the night with a puzzle is easy and fun.
33. Sweet snow angels. It’s not quite as cold down here as it is at the North Pole. When your elf gets antsy for chilly weather, make them a personal snow angel. We suggest using rice for easy cleanup!
34. All wrapped up. Give your elf the scissors, tape, and wrapping paper. Scatter shredded paper and tape around, and it'll be like they were caught in the act of wrapping up Santa's gifts!
35. Let it snow. Sprinkle some sugar as “snow,” and let your little rascal make snow angels on your counter.
36. S'more to love. Some toothpicks, roasted marshmallows, chocolate squares, graham crackers, and tea lights are all you need to set up this cozy and easy elf idea.
37. Read all about it. Prop them up on a favorite Christmas story or beloved book.
38. Take a seat. From Barbie's car to Santa's sleigh, having your elf take a ride is a riot.
40. Paper bag race. Take those lunch bags that have been cluttering your drawer and collect a few stuffies. Then, stage a sack race-style scene across your dining room table or kitchen island.
41. Don't move the elf. Well, it looks like your kids were so well-behaved that no North Pole reporting was needed.
42. Cards, anyone? You didn’t know elves love to play games? They do, and they love to be caught in the act.
43. Caught pink-handed. Have your elf stage a scene of questionable actions and tape up the area with crepe paper.
44. Making their mark. They can't help but make mischief, and marking up a festive photo is a silly way to say, "Elf wuz here."
45. Daring dino ride. If you’ve got a plastic dinosaur (T-Rex preferred), then you’ve got what you need to give your elf a prehistoric ride.
46. Elfie Selfie. Position your elf in front of the family laptop and snap a picture. Just be forewarned, if it's a laptop you use, you'll need to get it set back up before the kids get home from school.
47. Send the Elf back to the North Pole. Possibly our favorite easy elf idea, on Christmas Morning, make sure they're out of sight, and of course, leave a note.
You’ve yet again survived the delicate trifecta of work, household duties, and figuring out the summer camp schedules, and (Congrats!) made it to Friday. In theory, this is an evening that should revolve around QT with the family, but more often than not, parents are left wondering how to plan a Friday night for their kids. If you want to get creative with your family weekend tradition, here’s how to shake things up. From game nights to awesome family activities, here are our favorite ideas for what to do on a Friday night.
1. Hold a family meeting.
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Let Friday night be the night the whole family sits down to discuss the ups and downs of the week. You can focus on what went well, what goals were reached, and which rewards or consequences need to be doled out. In just 20 minutes, you can get everyone on the same page as far as family expectations are concerned, and then be sure to add a little fun at the end. Ice cream sundae, anyone?
Grab your favorite toppings and whip out your homemade dough recipe—it's pizza night! Let the entire fam concoct personal pies in this activity-turned-meal that makes Friday night an entertaining family tradition.
3. Watch the sun go down.
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Make it a late night (it's Friday, after all), and set up outside with the kids to watch the sun go down. The kids can play games at dusk, and you can catch up with your partner while you wait.
There's so much more to building a fort than pillows and blankets in the family room. Creating a rad reading nook, cardboard castle or cozy spot is a great Friday night activity. If you need some fort-building inspiration, here are 13 epic indoor forts you'll want to live in.
5. Have a reading night.
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Reading is always a great activity and one of our favorite family traditions. Instead of movie night, cozy up on the couch with blankets and books. Whether every family member has their own book or you're reading a novel together, there are tons of great choices. Check out the best books of 2023 (so far) for a great reading list for all ages and stages.
6. Set up an ice cream sundae bar.
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Here's a great idea when planning a Friday night for kids. Incorporate dessert into one of your sweet new family traditions with an ice cream sundae bar. You can add just about any toppings you can imagine, and it's perfect right before you start the weekly movie. Check out some of our favorite sundae bar ideas.
7. Camp out at home.
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Change up Friday night by camping in the living room, or pitching a tent in the backyard. These camping activities will give your family a ton of wilderness inspiration without leaving home. Don't forget the s'mores!
8. Create a comic strip.
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Encourage your little ones to share their creative storytelling in the form of a comic book. Parents can get in on the creativity by creating a comic strip, too. This fun and simple DIY comic strip tutorial will help you get started. Make this one of your monthly family traditions, so you create a new story strip each month.
Rock out as a family during your own Friday night concert. Organize a karaoke session or use a music-making app that will record your tunes and help make making music together a melodic family tradition.
An after-dinner walk brings the family together. Even if you are only walking around the block, it can be a great bonding experience for children (and fun for you). For more adventures, try a simple I-Spy or spotting walk. You can also have each family member silently observe something on the walk. When you get home, take turns sharing your observations. Plus, you get a chance to get a few steps in to start your weekend off on the right foot!
11. Have a family game night.
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Teach the kids a new card game or play an old classic. It doesn’t matter if it’s Gin Rummy or Candy Land, as long as everyone in the family participates. Draw straws to see who picks the first traditional Friday night game and take turns picking a game that everyone will love. And don't forget Charades! It's the easiest form of low-fi entertainment around.
Stage an elaborate scavenger hunt before bedtime. Just write out the clues (each one a hint of the location of the next clue) and make sure the kiddos are distracted while you hide them around. Number the clues in case one is found “accidentally” too early. Hide something simple at the end, like a treat or even just an IOU for a Saturday afternoon of playground games and fun.
Make dinner a fun tradition by having each family member create a dish, or team up to make different dishes. There are tons of easy recipes that even the youngest chef can make (with a little help from a sibling or parent). Three-ingredient recipes such as grilled cheese roll-ups and PB&B quesadillas are simple and delicious choices for mealtime.
Set aside a little time to create something together. It could be clay sculpting or homemade playdough or you could try and recreate Vincent van Gogh’s masterpiece Starry Night. Try drawing an outline of a scene or an object in black (or have older siblings do this) and then let the kids color in the original creation.
Make it an evening fit for the coolest literati by setting up a writing session. You try your hand at writing a haiku. Have the family stage a traditional poetry reading after to share what everyone has written.
16. Have a family movie night.
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If you want to plan a Friday night for the kids, but just don't have the energy to do much, a family movie night is always the answer. Pick a movie that'll please your whole crowd and don't forget the popcorn!
While they won’t help with the inevitable eye roll, these tips can help you connect and build mutual trust
If you’ve got kids approaching the tween years, you’re probably a little nervous (ok, let’s be honest—totally freaked out) about what’s going to happen when that inevitable sprout of independence blooms. Will you still know what’s going on at school, after school, or with friends? And, most importantly: How will you stay connected and close? The answer? Mutual trust. We asked experts to tell us some of the best ways to build trust with kids before they become teenagers.
Here’s what they said about building trust with tweens
1. Talk to them!
According to Mindy McKnight, author of VIRAL PARENTING: A Guide to Setting Boundaries, Building Trust, and Raising Responsible Kids in an Online World, the most important thing parents can do to build trust with their kids is to talk to them. Like, REALLY talk. The mom of six says, “Do your best to have open and honest conversations as often as you can. Yes, talk about the easy stuff like friends, school, interests, and memories, but don’t be afraid to delve into the more difficult stuff as well. Like bullying, sexuality, puberty, and hormones. Parents should be the first (and most reliable) source of information when it comes to establishing the foundation for their newly-forming ideals and opinions.”
Of course, finding time to talk can be tough. Try getting a few words in at bedtime or on car drives, when your kids are less likely to be distracted by screens, homework, or siblings.
2. Listen carefully to their perspectives—and validate what they are saying to you.
“When I was 12, we visited my uncle, who worked as a fertility endocrinologist in California. He was discussing abortion with another adult in the room, and I vividly remember him turning to me and asking what my opinion was on the subject. At age 12, I’m not sure I even really knew enough to have an opinion, but I remember exactly how I felt when he believed I might have something important to say. I felt so important. Ask your tweens their thoughts on important subjects, and you might just be surprised by what they have to say. Conversations like these also help them to become more informed and to share their opinions in a mature and respectful way,” says McKnight.
3. Be specific when setting boundaries—and stick to them.
Consistency and reliability are important building blocks of trust. If you’re going to set rules, make sure you’re specific, and stick to the rules and the consequences you’ve laid out if they aren’t followed. “We love contracts in our family. They help us ensure we have discussed all the different rules, potential outcomes, and subsequent consequences in teen-sensitive areas like the usage of smartphones, laptops, social media, cars, etc. Be careful not to establish consequences that you won’t actually enforce. Your war will be lost before you even begin,” McKnight says.
4. Take interest in your tween’s interests.
“If you notice that they have a specific interest in something, like video games or fashion, be sure to make that an interest for you too,” Mcknight says. “Learn about it, and talk about it. Even if the activity isn’t something you particularly love. Taking part in it will help open up many opportunities to spend quality time with your child, and communication with them will become much easier. Try it, and you’ll be surprised at how well this works.”
When a child or tween asks you questions about something—whether it’s something they saw on TV or something they heard in school—answer them without judgment. According to New York psychologist Sanam Hafeez, “Most parents just go into panic mode asking where they heard what they heard and then judging and getting negative. When kids feel as if they can communicate openly with parents without it turning into drama—or worse, accusations and arguing—they’ll be more trusting of their parents and will value their guidance and advice.”
6. Honor their personal space.
By age 8 or 9, privacy starts to become important to kids. Consequently, that’s when parents need to start respecting their personal space—for instance, always knocking on their door (or the bathroom door) instead of just barging in. “Respect and trust are intertwined. When a tween is concerned that their parents might move their things in their room, or think nothing about coming into the bathroom while they are showering, or randomly redecorate something in their room without first checking with them, it can fracture the trust,” Hafeez says.
Note: If you have a house policy where all doors must be open a few inches, Hafeez said you can stick to that rule but still knock and peek in before swinging the door open.
7. Lead by example.
If your eyes are constantly on your phone, and then you scold your kids for being glued to their iPads, they won’t be as willing to take you at your word. Be ready to “walk the walk” when you set rules for the family. Hafeez says, “Declaring you are going to revamp the way the family eats and then actually involve the tween in meal-planning… that could be a fun way to show that you stick to what you say you are going to do. This inspires trust and respect.”
8. Show your tween that you respect them.
Trust hinges on respect—and this respect should be mutual. So show your tweens that you respect them—even when they misbehave or disappoint you. When your child sneaks his iPad (again) on a school night, for instance, sit him down and admit that you’re disappointed. Ask him why he finds it hard to follow a particular rule and listen to his feelings about it. Whatever you do, don’t make rash statements like, “Why can’t you ever follow the rules?” or “We just can’t trust you.” Those statements just make kids feel like their parents don’t respect (or believe in) them. Parenting expert and former high school teacher Kara Carerro noted on her blog, “When a child grows up respected, they are more apt to confide in and trust their parents.”
9. Show your kids unconditional love.
Sure, you know that you love your kids unconditionally—but do they know? In this article, outreach specialist Tyler Jacobson says it’s important to show your kids that your love never diminishes or disappears. “The fact that you love them and want to rebuild your trust could go a long way to setting the tone for healing. Even when kids are little, it can be hard to forgive quickly, offer support for every little thing, and accept them for who they are NOW. But these are all ways to show unconditional love,” he says.
We found cities to explore and beaches to relax on
With nearly 70% of families hitting the road over summer break, America’s favorite summer pastime just might be the family road trip. If gas prices make you hesitant to invest in this summer tradition, consider these kid-friendly destinations you can travel to with one tank of gas. From the coastal city of Norfolk, VA where you can combine beach time with city exploring to the Amish town of Lancaster, PA teeming with rural adventures, here are our picks for summer getaways under 4 hours from Washington, DC.
What to See Start at the Children's Museum of Richmond, filled with interactive exhibits where kids can climb, tinker, and play through the educational fun. Sunny days call for farm fun, of course, and your crew will love their visit to Braehead Farm. Get close to friendly farm animals, and take home some delicious farm-grown treats. Explore the historic town on an old-fashioned trolley ride downtown and learn more about where George Washington grew up.
Where to Eat Snack time means you must find a family-friendly spot with treats for all. Italian Station is the answer. Sweet and savory Italian treats and delicious coffee are the best way to start or end your day.
Where to Stay Plan your getaway where you can connect with nature and each other. Wilderness Presidential Resort invites you to bring an RV, rent one, or a log cabin, lakeside cabin, or tent site.
What to See If you can't decide between a city adventure or some R&R at the beach, head to Norfolk, VA, where you can have both. Explore Virginia's oldest zoo, be awe-struck at the Wonder Studio, an interactive space at the Chrysler Museum of Art (free to visit!), tour the battleship USS Wisconsin and take a boat ride at the Norfolk Botanical Garden. When you're ready to relax, head to Ocean View to enjoy Chesapeake Bay-front beaches.
Where to Eat There's a lot to see and do in Norfolk, so you'll want to power up at downtown Grilled Cheese Bistro. You'll find gourmet versions of everybody's favorite sandwich elevated with foodie toppings like olive tapenade, grilled pineapple, fried apples, and more (they also have gluten-free and vegan options). If you find yourself in the NEON district, pick up a sweet treat at La Brioche. After a long day of sightseeing, watch the sunset over the Chesapeake Bay at the Ocean View Fishing Pier.
Where to Stay Stay in the center of the action at the Norfolk Waterside Marriott. With so many things to see and do steps away from the hotel, you can keep your car in the garage.
What to Do You don't need to travel far to find a quaint town with a ton of family fun. Visit Temple Hall Farm burn off energy on the giant jumping pillow, or run around with a few chickens. Escape to a picturesque, family-friendly winery with outdoor space and delicious local food and treats. Drive a short distance to Dulles, VA, to visit the Steven F. Udvar-Hazy Center, an incredible museum full of full-sized aircraft.
Where to Eat Stop by Melt Gourmet Cheeseburgers for a juicy create-your-own burger. Then, if you're ready for some sweets, grab a homemade pie from Mom's Apple Pie with delicious flavors from rhubarb to sour cherry.
Where to Stay Whether hiking along the Potomac, enjoying sunrise yoga, tackling the hardest mile in golf, or trying a new massage, there are endless choices for your family at Lansdowne Resort.
What to Do If you have a Disney-lover in your home, now is the time for the Franklin Institute for the 100-year celebration of The Walt Disney Company, Disney100: The Exhibition. Go on a journey through the beloved stories that dazzled fans since 1923. But Disney fun isn't the only reason to head to this historic city. Be sure to add these highlights to your Philly bucket list when visiting the city of brotherly love: The Liberty Bell, the Philadelphia Zoo, the Please Touch Museum and Reading Terminal Market.
Where to Eat Carnivore kids (and their grown-ups) would be remiss for not grabbing a cheese steak from Campos, known for their shredded steak and super-soft bun. Not into submarine sandwiches? Try the fried cheese curds from Bud and Marilyn's or over-the-top ice cream sandwiches from Weckerly's. Bon appetite!
Where to Stay Located in the heart of the City Center, Logan Hotel is within walking distance of The Franklin Institute, and a quick Lyft ride away from the Philadelphia Zoo, Please Touch Museum, and the Reading Terminal.
What to See Just a quick 3-hour trip from Washington, Rehoboth Beach ranks as the #1 beach destination for DC residents. So many people drive from DC to Delaware that this small town is often called the nation's "Summer Capital." From boardwalk staples like Funland amusement park and Zelky's Arcade to natural attractions like the free public beach and Gordon's Pond, it's no wonder families flock to this beach destination.
Where to Eat Salt Air, a local upscale restaurant, offers fresh, inventive dishes using local ingredients and sustainable fish. Despite catering to foodie adults, this restaurant has a children's menu for kids with grown-up tastes. Just a short walk away, DC restaurateur Chef Todd Gray owns Federal Fritter, where you can carry out corn fritters as a beach-side snack (or eat them as you stroll the boardwalk) when a hot day has you yearning for a scoop (or two), head to The Ice Cream Store.
Where to Stay A couple of hotels line Rehoboth Beach's boardwalk, like the Atlantic Sands and the Boardwalk Plaza Hotel. Still, one of the best-kept secrets is the family-friendly Avenue Inn & Spa, tucked along one of the side streets downtown just one block from the beach and boardwalk.
Where to Eat Joe Squared is a family-owned pizza restaurant that serves coal-fired, thin-crust sourdough pizza; it's casual, family-friendly fare is not far from the waterfront attractions (and just a dough ball toss from Port Discovery).
Where to Stay The Four Seasons Baltimore offers harbor views in almost all its 256 rooms. Its location makes it ideal for anyone exploring the Inner Harbor area. The hotel can arrange babysitting services if you want to explore the city sans kiddos. The hotel also offers cribs, high chairs and playpens free of charge. They even have pint-sized bathrobes and toiletries for their littlest guests.
What to See This quaint town in West Virginia has beautiful paths that wind through the National Park. Your family can stand where Thomas Jefferson stood when he said it was a view worth crossing the Atlantic Ocean for. Stop by the Visitors Center so your kiddos can pick up the Jr. Ranger packet. They’ll get the most adorable badge from a park ranger. Don’t forget to hop on the shuttle into Lower Town. It is stroller-friendly and the only stop with easy parking.
Where to Eat This town is all about ice cream. There are many cute places to grab a bite, but ending your day with a frozen treat is a must. Check out Creamy Creations, Scoops Ice Cream or Cannonball Deli and don’t forget to ask for sprinkles on top.
Where to Stay Connect with nature around the area and get more of the great outdoors by staying in one of Harpers Ferry/Civil War Battlefields KOA’s cabins. There is room for the whole family and your sweet fur baby too.
What to See Brandywine Valley offers many scenic outdoor spaces, like Longwood Gardens, a sprawling, 1000-acre botanical garden. For fairy-themed gardens, head to the Enchanted Woods at Winterthur, where 3-acres are dedicated to fairy tales and magical forest creatures. Check out the Stratosphere, a large-scale (30-foot in diameter) climbing structure that makes the Delaware Children’s Museum a standout.
Where to Eat Woodside Farm Creamery is a destination unto itself. Approximately a 30-minute drive from downtown Wilmington, this dairy-fresh ice cream shop is considered to serve the best scoops in the state. In addition to dairy deliciousness, the farm hosts family-friendly activities, like children’s story time and telescope nights.
Where to Stay Downtown’s Courtyard Wilmington is within walking distance of the historic district and waterfront. Rooms feature mini-fridges and microwaves. If you want to unwind from the day’s activities, relax by the hotel’s fire pit or dip in the outdoor pool.
What to See Arriving in Amish country invites your family to step back to a more peaceful time. Take a leisurely ride on the Strasburg Rail Road, or visit the Hands-On House for fun interactive learning. Children aged 2-10 will love this stop on your trip. A bicycle is the best way to see the PA Amish countryside; Let's Roll Columbia provides a unique way to explore the area.
What to Eat Miller's Smorgasbord Restaurant has been serving delicious food since 1929. They offer multiple dining options and tons of delicious dishes. Many of their ingredients come from local farms. Check their website for family specials and coupons.
Where to Stay Have you ever wondered what living in a tiny house would be like? Tiny Estates offers a one-of-a-kind experience in one of their many tiny houses. You can go tiny with room for two or spread out in one of the gorgeous houses that accommodate six.
What to See History never gets old in this almost 400-year-old town. Help your child “get into character” by renting an adorable period costume. The stories will come alive and make the whole experience more authentic. Hop on a horse-drawn carriage for an original way to see the city. Drive 30 minutes up the road to the Powhatan Indian Village to learn about Pocahontas and her way of life.
Where to Eat Stop by Dubois Grocer to satisfy that afternoon sweet tooth. The friendly store attendant will be more than happy to send you home with some rock candy. At Food for Thought, you’ll dine surrounded by thought-provoking quotes. Cute discussion cards are left on the table to help with dinner conversation. Pick an eclectic dish from the gluten-free or senior’s menu. The kid’s menu is little foodie heaven with salmon, ribs and pot roast, to name a few.
Where to Stay Holiday Inn Club Vacations Williamsburg Resort features two and three-bedroom villas with fully-equipped kitchens and in-unit laundry. A home away from home with everything your family needs to kick back and relax.
What to See Peanuts, peanuts and more peanuts! Southampton County is known for its peanut farms, shops, and museums. Stop by Hope & Harmony Farms to grab a few gourmet bags. Visit Ballyshannon Equestrian Center for a pony or horse ride around their beautiful property. Take a guided kayak tour with Blackwater Outfitters Nottoway River Guides. Meet the locals at the Saturday morning farmers market and take home a few homemade treats for your crew.
What to Eat Fred’s Restaurant is located in the heart of downtown Franklin. It has been a local tradition since 1945. Saturday mornings draw a crowd for the all-you-can-eat buffet and fish fry. Grab a seat on their “secret garden” patio, complete with a wrought iron fence and brick fireplace. The slightly overgrown foliage offers a fairy tale moment.
Where to Stay Check in to PandA Homestead for an authentic farm stay experience. Your kiddos can help with farm chores by hand-feeding their friendly goats, cuddling baby chicks and trying out their best turkey calls.
What to See This city should be renamed Kidsburgh because it has lots of kid-friendly activities and family-centric restaurants. If you’re in town for just the weekend, these attractions make the shortlist: The Phipps Conservatory Botanical Gardens, Carnegie Museum of Natural History and the Carnegie Science Center. The Duquesne Incline offers magnificent views of the city. Fans of Daniel Tiger will love its striking resemblance to the television trolley.
What to Eat Schenley Plaza — a five-acre community space in Pittsburgh’s Oakland neighborhood — offers a dining plaza with four food kiosks, including Waffallonia, which offers authentic Liège sugar waffles with delicious toppings. The Porch is a full-service restaurant with a children’s garden and stage area. Before your meal (because who wants to spin around post-nosh), check out the PNC Carousel.
Where to Stay The Hotel Monaco Pittsburgh features the Kimpton Kid program, which includes a welcome gift, a pet goldfish during your stay, complimentary cribs and more. Mom and Dad will appreciate the rooftop Biergarten!
What to See If long road trips are challenging, you can still get away to a historic town full of family fun, and you’ll only have to drive 45 minutes. The best place to start your getaway is downtown. A stroll down Main Street ends at the gorgeous harbor overlooking the Naval Academy. You can take a water taxi across the Chesapeake Bay to the Charthouse for a piece of their famous mudpie. Or, hop on a Watermark Cruise for a 40-minute ride around the area.
Where to Eat Breakfast all day is always a good idea, especially at Iron Rooster. Your kiddos can dive into an order of French toast sticks while you enjoy a local specialty, crab cakes over pancakes. Ask for a table with a view. The harbor is gorgeous by sunset.
Where to Stay The Westin Annapolis is in the perfect location to explore downtown Annapolis and the surrounding areas. You don’t need your car if you’d rather not drive around. A local trolley circles around town and makes getting where you want to go pretty easy.
Fun dessert alert! Did you know you can whip up your batch of ice cream right at home without any extra appliances? All you need are the right ingredients and plastic bags. Read on for the “scoop” on how to make homemade ice cream in a bag.
Ingredients for Homemade Ice Cream in a Bag:
1 tbsp. sugar
1/2 cup milk (will make about one scoop of ice cream, can sub soy, coconut, or rice milk or use cream)
1/4 tsp. vanilla
6 tbsp. rock salt
1 pint-size plastic food storage bag (e.g., Ziploc)
1 gallon-size plastic food storage bag
Ice cubes
How to Make Ice Cream at Home:
1. Fill the large bag half full of ice, and add the rock salt.
2. Seal the bag.
3. Put milk, vanilla, and sugar into the small bag, and seal it.
4. Place the small bag inside the large one, and seal it again carefully.
5. Shake until the mixture is ice cream, which takes about 5 minutes.
6. Wipe off the top of the small bag, then open it carefully.
Insider Tips:
A 1/2 cup of milk will make about 1 scoop of ice cream, so double the recipe if you want more. But don’t increase the proportions more than that—a large amount might be too big for kids to pick up because the ice itself is heavy. This ice cream won’t have quite the same consistency as a pint of store-bought, but you can control the ingredients so that’s a big win.
If there is a milk allergy, try this with fruit juice. Use straight pineapple juice—it’s a terrific fruit sorbet. OR rice/soy milk as the milk substitute.
This recipe for how to make homemade ice cream in a bag is courtesy of Yuumii, an online community founded by a San Francisco family who wanted to come up with creative ways to spend more quality time with their kids.
You’ve heard reading aloud is critical to your child’s success and you strive to get it in most nights when you can. Sometimes, though, it’s just hard to put in the time. You work long hours, you’re tired, homework went on forever or after-school activities ended late and you just want to skip story time tonight. For all the many reasons why that seems like a good idea, here are five solid reasons in favor of reading aloud consistently (just 10 minutes!) when you need a little motivation.
5 great reasons to read aloud to your child
Modeling fluency skills: Children need to hear adult, skilled readers model what good fluency sounds like when they read aloud so they can copy that sound. A reader is fluent when the words flow together well and are not choppy or slow. The more you can model how the words should flow well together when you read (as well as stopping at periods, pausing at commas, and obeying the other punctuation marks too) the better your child will pick up this skill.
Modeling language and vocabulary:books are amazing for increasing children’s understanding of language and learning new vocabulary words. Even simple children’s books often have a rich vocabulary that is not in our everyday conversation and therefore children do not hear it. In order to know a word, it needs to be used, in context (in the story) and so reading aloud is the perfect way to share new words with children.
Sharing quality time together: In the craziness that is life these days, we often don’t have more than 10 minutes a day of quality time to spend with family members. Reading books aloud together creates this time and allows us to be in the moment with our children, enjoying their company as well as a good story and it also builds memories that will last a long time.
Make a statement: “We value reading.” When we do it together every day, we are telling our children that reading is important in our home, and it’s a habit that is a part of our lives. When we skip days or find too often that we allow other excuses to take the place of reading time, we are sending our children the message that reading takes a back seat to those distractions and that message is powerful.
Relaxation: Reading is a relaxing activity. By choosing to read aloud at night before bed, we are winding down each day in a relaxing way in a way that screens such as cell phones and iPads don’t allow for.
Monica, mom to 11-year-old Zane, says this about reading aloud, “It’s often very easy to slip into a million reasons why we can’t make time at night to read a book together. Once we started allowing ourselves to be distracted, it just got even easier. However, we knew that was not going to help Zane with reading so we promised each other that reading aloud would come first. Since we made it a top priority, we don’t let each other miss our nightly story and Zane’s teacher has told us that his reading has improved in school.”
If you’re finding it hard to get in the time, strive for just 10 minutes a night. This is enough time for a short picture book, or chapter in a simple chapter book, and will ensure you don’t let distractions get in the way of this time together. Then on nights that are less busy, work towards reading for 30 minutes together. I promise it will be one of the best ways you can spend time as a family.
I am passionate about helping families raise children who LOVE to read. I createdInnovative Reading to provide easy activities to moms and dads who have children that dislike reading and that struggle to read. Together we can help your child become a confident and happy reader with only 10 minutes of time a night. (www.InnovativeReading.com)
Whether you are looking for a longtail, long john, or frontload trike cargo bike, we have the inside scoop on what works best for families
If you’re itching to get back in the saddle post-kids (sorry, SoulCycle doesn’t count), but don’t know where to begin, we have a solution—a cargo bike. Manufacturers around the globe have come up with creative ways to transport your entire clan on two or three wheels, which makes your journey back onto the bike path as easy as well, riding a bicycle. We’re breaking down 17 of the best family cargo bikes out there with the pros and cons of each. It’s time to ride!
While there are many ways to bike with kids—from bike seats to trailers to tandem bikes—in this article, we focus on the three styles of the family cargo bike: the Long John or Bakfiets, which has a cargo area in front; the Longtail, which has a room for kids in the back of the driver; and a Front Load Trike or Tadpole trike, which has a front cargo and three wheels for stability. Many of the bikes listed below are electric-assist, which makes biking with heavy loads or uphill much more enjoyable, according to cargo bike enthusiasts.
Let’s Talk Cost
While the high prices for many models are not for the faint of heart, some families justify the expense by using cargo bikes as a car replacement for daily school and grocery runs. If cost is still an issue, consider exploring the robust second-hand market, where cargo bikes can be purchased for a fraction of the cost, so be sure to check out our list of second-hand resources at the end of the article. Also, if you’re wondering if a cargo bike is right for your family, ask yourself these 14 questions.
Best Long John Bikes (also called a Bakfiets)
1. The E-Cargo by Amsterdam Bicycle Company starting at $4,325 This e-cargo bike comes with several different options, including the classic long, the bolted box and the cruiser long with vintage looks. It has the latest model Shimano Steps electric assist system (E6100), a range of 35-75 miles, a two-gear auto gear hub and premium roller brakes that even work well in the rain.
Kids: Up to 2
Electric Assist: Yes
Pros:
It's designed and made by a well-known cargo bike company. It's easy to ride and looks great.
Cons:
Some assembly is required.
What owners say: "Our bikes are handmade to order in the Netherlands. They are engineered, built and checked to the highest standard in safety, durability and comfort, and require low maintenance. After all, our bicycles are made to be used daily, year-round and still last a lifetime, outside in the Dutch rain." Read more.
2. The Load 75 by Riese & Müller, starting at $7,629 This electric cargo bike from Riese & Müller comes 6% more outer length, but 50% more cargo space—with the same agility and maneuverability. You can customize the cargo space depending on your family's needs—options include High Side Walls, Low Side Walls, Tarpaulin, Single or Double Child seat, Luggage Shelf, Child Rain Cover, Carrier and more.
Kids: up to 3.
Electric assist: Yes
Pros:
This is a bike that both parents can use. There's an angle- and height-adjustable stem and adjustable saddle height, so the seat position can be altered to accommodate body sizes from 1.50 m to 1.95 m and adapted to preferences from sporty to comfortable.
Cons:
It's pricier than other cargo bikes on the market.
What owners say: "With this bike, nothing can stand in the way of your family’s goals of world domination and fun times together! Check out that rain cover with the zip-up sides! Yay!" Read more
3. Bullitt Cargo Bikes by Larry vs Harry, Starting at $3,300 The Bullitt is considered one of the “most flexible” cargo bikes on the market, designed to be used as a completely customizable system, from colors to components and accessories. Designed in Copenhagen, the Larry vs Harry team has decades of great bike building on their resume.
Kids: 1-3 in box + possible rear seat add-on
Electric Assist: Yes
Pros:
Narrow enough for city streets and bike lanes
Light enough to ride without electric assist
Modern interpretation of an older and tested bike design originating in Denmark
Cons:
Steering can feel wobbly at first (the faster you go, the steadier is gets)
What the Pros Say: “The Bullitt Clockwork is light and nimble, and it is hard to come up with a load that can’t be carried on this bicycle." Read more
4. Family Bike, by Urban Arrow, $5,950 This Dutch company makes high-quality cargo bikes that use the newest technology and state-of-the-art materials to move people and freight through town in the fastest possible way. Their goal? Reduce the use of scooters and cars.
Kids: 1-3 in box, + possible rear seat add-on
Electric Assist: Yes
Pros:
Narrow design perfect for navigating city streets
New technology like Nuvinci hub gear and Bosch pedal assist
Lots of customization options are available
Cons:
It is a really big bike, both width, and length and we’ve heard turning is difficult
What owners say: “The Urban Arrow’s child-hauling and commuting setup is unbelievably swank. Considering all the features packed into it, the Urban Arrow feels shockingly light.” Read more
What the pros say: “With Dutch smarts, this electric motor-assisted cargo bike delivers the goods for a household. This is a bike with enormous potential to take the place of a car.” Read more
You'll love the easy-to-load front box and the bamboo style that comes with it from this eBike from Yuba. The 20-inch wheels give it a lower center of gravity for easier maneuverability.
Kids: 1-3 in box, + possible rear seat add-on
Electric Assist: Yes
Pros:
Holds the whole crew + cargo too, including the family pet!
Has rider-friendly cable steering design for smooth and easy turning
Cons:
One of the priciest bikes on the market
What owners say: “I can’t say enough good things about this bike! It has changed our lives and enabled us to ditch our second car. The kids (ages 1 and 4) absolutely love cruising around. "
1. NEW: Flyer M860 by Radio Flyer starting at $1,699
This beloved red wagon company recently launched a foldable cargo bike that's perfect for families who are looking to save on storage space. It comes with smaller tires than their previous eBike model and 220 lb. max rider weight. With lots of customizable options, you can add on a 5-point harness Thule seat for littler ones or snag the kid carrier for when they get older. There's also a kid and cargo carrier for those who might want the flexibility of porting a kid sometimes and gear at other times. There's even a bike trailer that doubles as a stroller for the ultimate convenience. Don't miss out on adding your AirTag to the specially-designed compartment behind the seat.
Kids: 1
Electric Assist: Yes
Pros:
Easy to store
Affordable
Lots of compatible accessories to make it your own, including a Thule Yepp Maxi Seat and a kid carrier for older kids
Cons:
Single speed
What the pros say: "Whether you're heading to the beach, camping in the mountains, or exploring a new city, this electric bike is the perfect companion for all your adventures." Read more
This beloved red wagon company recently launched an eBike, cargo bike, and eScooter line and families are thrilled. With lots of customizable options, you can pop two little ones in the back or even add on a 5-point harness Thule seat for even littler ones. The kid and cargo carrier is a great option when you ditch the kids and head out on a solo trip to the farmer's market as it converts from a kid seat to a cargo basket. Or, snag the Flyer Duoflex that transforms from a bike trailer to a double stroller in a flash.
Kids: 1-2
Electric Assist: Yes
Pros:
Affordable
Lots of compatible accessories to make it your own, including a Thule child seat
Cons:
Heavy
What the pros say: "The bike feels light and nimble even on the lightest pedal-assist mode, which is where I felt most comfortable while pedaling." Read more
3. RadWagon, by Rad Power Bikes, starting at $1,899 The Seattle-based start-up is looking to disrupt the electric bike industry with a direct-to-consumer model that is more cost-efficient than competitors. They use Velofix (like a Geek Squad for bicycles) to build, tune and deliver bikes.
Kids: 1-2 on back
Electric assist: yes
Pros:
One of the most affordable e-bikes on the market
Lots of customization options
Cons:
Cheaper components, not having a dealer to rely on (though Velofix seems to have taken some of the pain out of assembly)
What owners say: "Overall, this bike is an amazing deal for the price.” Read more
What the pros say: "Affordable, feature-rich cargo-style electric bike with a stiffer and lighter frame because it's not quite as long as some others." Read more
Charge is a direct-to-consumer bike brand that has delivered a family-friendly cargo bike that's perfect for city dwellers with storage on their mind. The Comfort 2 is an updated version of the best-selling Comfort Bike and is the first new model since the brand’s launch in 2020.
Kids: 1 on back
Electric assist: yes, five levels
Pros:
Super easy assembly (you don't even have to remember to thread the pedals on in the opposite directions as they just fold down)
Space-saving storage with fold-down pedals and rotating handlebars
Wider tires for a more stable ride with battery weight in the rear
Available in candy red, white, and midnight blue
Cons:
This bike has a thumb throttle so if you are used to the twist throttle, you'll want to take note.
What owners say: "The Comfort 2 now also comes with enough rear-rack weight capacity for a child seat, making it perfect for families.” Read more
What the pros say: "The slim storage profile is what really sets the Charge Comfort 2 apart for me, and if you have an apartment or garage with limited room, you will greatly appreciate the folding handlebars and flip-down pedals." Read more
5. Spicy Curry by Yuba starting, $5,199 This Northern California-based company has upgraded its popular e-bike with a Bosch CX Performance motor for hills and traction. A lightweight and stylish cargo bike that lets kids sit on the back of the bike while Mom or Dad pedals. The rear cargo seat can fit two kids in Yepp seats or up to three kids sans seats.
Kids: 1-3 on back
Electric assist: yes
Pros:
Lightweight (about 60 lbs)
a low rear deck over a 20” wheel for greater stability
Cons:
The side-loaders (where kids place their feet) can scrape up against curbs and other objects.
What owners say: “The Spicy Curry was built from the ground up as an assisted cargo bike for hills. It is very different from their other models, from my perspective in a good way.” Read more
What the pros say: “The Spicy Curry is a mid-drive powered electric cargo bike from Yuba! The primary benefit is efficiency and power because the drive system leverages the same eight-speed drivetrain that you do as a rider!” Read more
The Bosch Performance motor lets you zip from work to school to soccer practice without breaking a sweat. It comes fully ready to carry kids and lots of cargo, right out of the box.
Kids: 1-3
Electrical assist: Yes
Pros:
The Hooptie child enclosure is included in the original purchase price.
Bosch electric-assist Performance motor has a top pedal-assist speed of 20 mph.
Other cool features like battery integrated lights, a dual battery system for longer rides and a centered weight approach.
Cons:
Not easy to transport somewhere else (plane or car).
Visibility can be a problem depending on what accessories you have installed.
What owners say: "The Edgerunner feels the most 'like a bike:' it is zippy, peppy, and smooth." Read more.
What pros say:Electric Bike Review chose the eSwoop as one of it’s coveted "Best Electric Cargo Bikes" for 2018/2019.
7. Big Fat Dummy, by Surly Bikes, starting at $3,175 This popular cargo bike allows passengers to be carried on the back with the use of the Dummy Rail Collars or the Thule Yepp Maxi Seat. It's got fat tires for a sturdier ride, which is key when you're hauling precious cargo!
Kids: 1-2
Electrical Assist: No
Pros:
The extra-wide tires mean you might be able to do some trail riding with the kids in tow.
Cons:
There are added costs (extra gear) if you want to tow passengers.
What owners say: "The BFD has exceeded my already high expectations for its stability, comfort, utility, versatility, and design. My daughter loves riding on the back and typically requests that we ride to school rather than take the bus. Even without a passenger, I love riding the BFD and leaving the car in the garage while I get both a workout and my jobs done." Read more
8. Stretch, by Pedego, starting at $3,595 Founded in 2008, Pedego is one of the largest electric bike brands in America. They have their own dealers, as well as distribution through many bike shops and on Amazon. This makes it easy to purchase and service the bike. The Stretch has many cool features, like the powered USB port for your phone and audio.
Kids: 1-3
Pros:
Pedego has a great reputation and many shops are familiar with the brand for service and repair
The Stretch has can be accessorized with products from the Pedego line
Cons:
We’ve been told the frame is stiff, so may not be as comfortable as other rides
What owners say: “It is a powerful, beautiful, cruiser style and is not only fun to ride but I get to choose how much I exert myself.” Read more
What the pros say: “ Pedego hit the price point well and make a bike that is as smooth as silk. The way E-bike control systems work is a big deal for me and I am happy to report this one is spot on.” Read more
The Samsung battery gives you a range of up to 45 miles.
4 x3 Harness belts and 2 roll cage bars are included in the price.
It's got comfy toddler seats.
There's a rear cargo rack.
Cons:
It costs more to have a fully assembled bike delivered.
What the owners say: "Ferla Bikes has been manufacturing innovative commercial tricycles since 2013. A pure expression of passion for Cargo Bikes, Ferla Family Bike was the perfect project for us. As a world leader in this niche, Ferla Bikes have always believed in the power of quality & design. Ferla Family is in safe hands."
What the pros are saying: "The bike is very spacious, there are no more problems with taking all our staff with us, it can be easily stored inside the cargo box, so we can go a long distance and have everything we need with us. The bike is also very reliable, the battery lasts us very long, it is very easy to steer, the brakes are really powerful and the bike itself is stable." See another review on YouTube here.
2. Family Cargo Bike by Bunch Bikes, starting at $3,999 Gather your tribe and get ready to explore your community in this three-wheeled cargo bike—electric motor optional! Easy-release levers make changing the seat and handlebar height a breeze, so adults of all sizes can hop on and pedal away (good luck with those hills).
Kids: 1-5. This cargo box comes equipped with two benches and four child seat belts, and a standard bike child seat can be installed on the rear rack to squeeze in one more passenger.
Electric Assist: Yes
Pros:
Arrives at your doorstep fully assembled and ready to ride!
There's a full line of accessories for the bike: Seat cushions, front door, sunshade, rain cover, infant/toddler seats, and brand-new vinyl graphics.
Cons:
It’s heavy and that may add to shipping costs.
What owners say:"I cannot say enough good things about our new Bunch Bikes! The kids love this thing y'all - it's so much fun to ride ♥️ It's a game-changer to have that e-assist for the hills 👍” Read more
3. The School Bus by Virtue Cycles, starting at $2,149 This made-in-San Diego cargo bike lets kids sit in a big cargo box and go for a ride. The Virtue Schoolbus put parents at ease with the front. It also allows them to have good quality time chatting without having to keep looking back.
Kids: 1-3 in box, + possible rear seat add-on
Electric Assist: Yes
Pros:
Stability of three wheels
Being able to see the kids
Only an extra $800 to have the battery, motor, and control system added to the standard Schoolbus
Cons:
Steering is different than many other cargo bikes
It’s heavy and that may add to the shipping cost
What owners say: “There's a lot to recommend about the Schoolbus. I wanted to see the kids while I was riding. I can pull over if my toddler drops something, I never have to worry if a car is getting too close to the trailer - I know right where everyone is.” Read more
What the pros say: “Designed to be stable for loading his kids, positioning them out front where you could keep an eye on them and have conversations during rides. “ Read more
4. Family, by Nihola, starting at $4,799 For 18-years, this Danish company has developed, produced, sold these proprietary tricycles for families, as well as for rehab/handicap-, institutional- and commercial use. There are over 10,000 Nihola bikes in Copenhagen alone, so this bike is tried and tested.
Kids: 1-3 in box, + possible rear seat add-on
Electric assist: yes
Pros:
The solid frame design built to withstand impact
The front door opens for easily onboarding kids and pets
The Nihola Flex version can transport a wheelchair
Cons:
Few US distributors may increase the delivery cost
What owners say: “Nihola Electric Family Cargo Bike is an excellent bike for leisurely strolls around town when you are not in a rush. It’s very handy for transporting heavy goods and also more than one child on the bike.” Read more
What the Pros Say: “The Nihola is a better value and lower cost, it’s really the best three-wheel solution available.” Read more
5. Butchers & Bicycles MK-1E, Starting at $5,999 If Apple designed an electric bicycle, it would be the MK-1E. From beautiful design to performance and state-of-the-art utility (a tricycle the leans), the MK-1E has taken the biking world by storm since it launched in 2015.
Kids: 1-3 in box, + possible rear seat add-on
Electric assist: yes
Pros:
Tilt steering makes it really fun to ride
Beautiful design attracts attention
Attention to details, like a lockable glove box
Cons:
One of the most expensive e cargo bikes on the market
It’s wide, so can be difficult to maneuver on narrow city streets
What owners say: “When I saw the Butcher, I was blown away. It was fast. It was sexy. It hauled a ton of cargo. It handled like a two-wheeler. It was the coolest cargo bike I had ever seen.” Read more
What the pros say: “Unlike any other trike I’ve ridden, this tilting machine is beautiful to ride. It’s as fun to ride as a two-wheeled bike, providing—and in fact encouraging—the full-body experience of steering through the hips and leaning into the turns.” Read more
From DC to Nashville, Chicago and Portland, there are Facebook Family Biking Groups that share local tips, trails as well as buy and sell used gear. Search for “Family Biking” on Facebook under “Groups.”
In bigger biking communities, like San Francisco and Seattle, there are also “Family Bike Swap” Facebook Groups focused exclusively on selling gear online and at swap events.
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For dads, raising our girls to become smart, confident women means always encouraging their curiosity, nurturing their joy of play and exploration, and helping them realize that the sky’s the limit. We asked some of our favorite parents of daughters to share their most cherished father-daughter activities, and we received a treasure trove of ideas. From singing in the car to preparing a family meal, there are so many good ideas here. Which one will you choose?
1. Belt out songs in the car. Nothing beats the amazing acoustics in a sweet ride with your sweetest girl.
6. Go to work together. And not just on Take Your Child to Work Day. Pick a random day for your daughter to play hooky from school, and bring her to work. Whether you spend your day filing TPS reports or you’re the master of your own business, sharing with your daughter what you do for a living (and showing off how awesome she is to your co-workers) will give each of you great and lasting insights into each other.
7. Play a round of cards. Start simple with Go Fish or Old Maid and make your way up to rummy. It’s a tradition you can continue to play for years to come.
9. Build a robot. It’s a proven fact that dads and daughters love robots and there’s nothing better than working on robot projects together. In addition to instilling a love of science and engineering in young girls, robots are just super-cool.
10. Have a lunch date. Whether it’s a standing lunch date every month or for a special occasion, splurge on a fancy lunch date with your daughter, preferably at someplace that doesn’t have a kids’ menu and requires dressing up.
11. Take a selfie with her. Pictures are a great way to capture a sweet moment in time.
12. Go bowling.
13. Prepare a family meal together. Your spouse will appreciate whatever you and your daughter whip up in the kitchen, and your kiddo—no matter how young she is—will start to learn the joys of creating yummy eats for others.
14. Tell each other secrets. Start while your daughter is young so that she’ll always know that you trust her to keep your secrets and she will, in turn, know that she can trust you with hers.
15. Learn something new together. Whether you sign up for a crafting class or take your daughter somewhere to learn a new activity, it’ll be fun for her to see you learning as an adult too.
16. Work out together. Fathers and daughters who exercise together stay happy, healthy, and strong together.
17. Start a collection. Whether it’s small bottles of sand from every beach you’ve ever been to with your daughter or stubs from your favorite movies (this is the perfect place to store that type of thing) you’ve seen together, starting a shared father-daughter collection can make memories more tangible.
18. Take a walk on the beach. And while you’re at it, remember to build sandcastles, collect seashells, and play in the surf with your daughter. There are plenty of great beaches to explore.
19. Share an impromptu picnic in the backyard.Dining al fresco is best served with juice boxes and plushies.
20. Attend a sporting event. Whether it’s watching your daughter’s soccer match or taking her to see college or professional league sports, sharing a love of athletics can nurture healthy competition and good sportsmanship, and it’s a perfect father-daughter activity for a day of fun.
21. Attend a Minecraft convention. Or, really, any fan event that will let a father and daughter share something that they both enjoy.
22. Learn to code. These days, our precocious daughters could probably already teach us a thing or two about Python or Ruby on Rails, but for developing junior coders, there are plenty of programs that aim to instill a love of technology in young girls that all dads should encourage.
22. Ride a seesaw. Do it while she’s still young enough to enjoy bouncing around with her dad, but old enough to appreciate just how silly it looks.
23. Do yoga together. Centering mind, body, and spirit are helpful consequences of doing a few vinyasas and downward-facing dogs, but the true benefit of fathers and daughters doing yoga together is the quality time spent. Don’t forget to buy your mat!
24. Explore the world.Family vacations are perfect for getting away from the usual day-to-day grind of school and work schedules. Traveling to a new city or town allows fathers and daughters to experience and see things with fresh perspectives.
25. Cosplay as your favorite animated characters. What can I say except, “You’re welcome.”
27. Have “the other talk.” Because any self-possessed young girl needs to grow up understanding that Beyoncé is the Queen, no matter what anyone says.
28. Read books together. The only thing better than a dad who reads to and with his daughter is a well-read girl who grows up to be the next CEO, rocket scientist, or President of the United States.
29. Dance like nobody’s watching. It’ll be good practice for your first father-daughter dance at her wedding.
30. Ride a carousel. There’s nothing quite like a leisurely ride on a merry-go-round with your little girl, whether it’s at one of the country’s most awesome carousels like the one at Disneyland or the local park.
31.Volunteer in your hometown. Showing your daughter you have compassion will make you an awesome role model.
32. Have “the talk.” Because it’s never too early to teach your daughter the incontrovertible fact that the Marvel Comic Universe is vastly superior to the DC Comic Universe, Wonder Woman notwithstanding.
33. Build something. Start a project, and be sure to use tools because it’s never too soon to teach your kid how to be handy.
34. Go fishing. There’s nothing like the quiet togetherness that is required when you cast a line with kids. Do you have your pole?
35. Get ice cream at your favorite shop. Did yours make our list of the best ice cream shops in the country?
36.Another great father-daughter activity? Pick a class from Outschool and do it together.
37. Check out your astrology compatibility with our chart.
Show Dad the L-O-V-E this year with a crafty card made at home
Father’s Day is nearly here! To celebrate the amazing job your special dad does every day, why not celebrate with one of these homemade Father’s Day card ideas? You don’t have to be a master crafter or daring DIYer to make one, so dust off your crafting stash and check out some genius Father’s Day cards!
This adorable handmade Father’s Day card idea is pretty easy, and it’s definitely one he’ll want to keep. Have your kids pick out the character they want to use, and have fun with it.
This Bomb Pop card is a super cute and easy way to make a card your kid’s “pop” will love! Also, take the perfect opportunity to follow it up with actual yummy Bomb Pops afterward.
This homemade Father’s Day card idea perfectly fits the bill for the handyman in your life.
Cricut-Made Father's Day Card Idea
Karly Wood
Is the dad in your life into everything? This DIY card is the perfect fit! Made with a Cricut Joy, we snagged this completely free design and let this mini machine do all the work. Peppered with images of outdoor activities, and typical dad icons, this card will perfectly communicate about your fave father.
For DIY-obsessed dads, we love this easy idea from Lil’ Luna. It’s a free printable, so all you have to do is print it out, cut it out and stick it on the gift card of your choice.
Get your little one involved in making this simple homemade Father's Day card idea from Solis Plus One. Tots can go to town filling the page with color.
Emojis are so yesterday. Use sign language to tell Dad how you really feel about him. Delia Creates has designed stylish (and free) downloadable templates that your sidekick can use to choose just the right message to tell Dad how much he means to everyone. It’s almost too easy!
Timepieces like this creative fill-it-out-yourself booklet designed by Hello, Wonderful are what memories are made of. Your guy will forever cherish the innocently hilarious answers his kiddos give to creative questions like, “the most fun thing I’ve done with my dad is…” and “my dad smells like…”.
Surprise Dad when he walks through the door on his special day with this colorful card that doubles as a banner. Let him slowly pull out the greeting, like a magician pulling an endless string of hankies from his sleeve. Then hang it across the mantle, so Dad really gets the message. Skip over to Modern Parents Messy Kids for the tutorial.
This coloring superhero card by Alpha Mom is an easy-breezy option that ranks high on the cuteness factor—the best combo if we say so ourselves. The kids can customize the fill-in-the-blank section to make it their very own.
Chalk, check. Driveway, check. Adorable kids that make your photo come to life, double check. That’s everything you need to make this sweet Father’s Day card we spotted over at Crafty Texas Girls. Looking for a gift too? Have the photo turned into a mug, mousepad, or keychain!
Between a great meal, a nap, a chance to cheer for his favorite team or dad-on-kid quality time, you can keep it simple when deciding on Dad's gift this year. This printable card from Julep is ready for him to spin the wheel of wish lists and decide just what he wants most for Father’s Day. Card AND gift completed.
Celebrate the spider-killing, boo-boo-kissing guy who waits patiently at the bottom of the slide so his cutie pie can slide confidently down, knowing he’ll be there, with this well-earned jar of goodies. Let your little one decide what to fill it with. And find the free printable at Tatertots and Jello.
This bow-tie card is a keeper, especially when you take a photo of your little one holding it and turn it into a gift or (even better!) dad’s new screen saver. The template and tutorial are available at Julep. This a perfect DIY card for the three and under set—easy-peasy—just the way we like it!
Stop saying these homophobic slurs and help break the chain of hurtful speech.
In a vulnerable time like this, communication is incredibly important. Our kids are relying on us more than ever for education, and social development. So, how do we avoid unintentionally hurtful words and teachings that we ourselves may have learned by accident? Linguistically speaking these terms and phrases can be considered a “pathogen”—they’re “Word Germs.”
Perhaps you can recall a time when a parent or grandparent taught you a word or spoke aloud an idea that was offensive to you, or to people you cared about. You, when you decided not to repeat it, were the first link that broke that instructional chain of thinking and speaking.
After surveying an NYC-based LGBT & Ally Performer network, we have come up with 10 commonly used words and homophobic slurs that you may not have known were offensive to the LGBTQ+ community and some alternative options that will promote our children to grow up to be compassionate and intelligent advocates for justice in their classrooms, social circles and future homes.
Kids are naturally curious and like to try out all different kinds of playtime activities as well as clothing options. Playing house, playing with trucks, or building LEGO sets are formative activities for young kids of any gender. Additionally, playtime, for households with multiple children, is a social activity. It’s not rare or wrong for a brother and sister to play cars, dolls, or dress-up pretend games together, so why do we enforce separation when it comes to other activities?
For example, when your son wants to try makeup or wants his nails painted, it can simply be because activities such as those are calming and involve spending quality time with you, or perhaps an older sibling. When a young girl plays with tools or has an interest in mechanics/building, not only are those creative activities the foundation for important skills she will need as an adult but are also a bonding activity for her and a parent and/or sibling. Though these activities aren't indicators that your child will grow into an LGBTQ+ adult, your reaction will be remembered if they begin having questions about their gender and sexuality, so responding positively and openly will set a trusting foundation for your relationship when they need your help finding those answers later in life. Celebrating your child’s curiosity will ultimately bring you closer together.
“He’s a little ladies’ man/She’s going to give her Daddy trouble when she’s older.”
It's a known fact: babies are cute. And it's exciting to see their personalities take form. When babies/toddlers are social and bubbly, sometimes adults will remark in a way that indicates when they grow up, they’ll have plenty of romantic attention. Comments like this could potentially make your child fear making gestures of affection, particularly in front of you or other adults, in case they would be ridiculed or embarrassed. It also establishes an expectation that in adulthood, your child will be heterosexual.
Maybe you can recall having a “kindergarten boyfriend/girlfriend” who waved at you at pick-up or held your hand on the playground. These sorts of gestures of friendship and closeness among young kids should be encouraged. It teaches kids to be honest about their feelings and establishes a place in their life for kind gestures and affection, rather than concealment of emotions and violent outbursts.
These types of comments can also set a tone that same-sex relationships or the need for physical comforts such as hugs or hand-holding outside of a romantic relationship are "strange" or “abnormal.” Instead, it's important to encourage your children to be openly kind to their friends and classmates, without jokingly hinting that something else lies beneath those actions.
Whether she was climbing a tree or sitting bowlegged in a chair, every single girl has heard this phrase at least once growing up. This saying is damaging to every girl, establishing limitations on what girls can and cannot do. In the same way that "no, that's for boys" discourages girls from exploring interests in male-dominated fields, "act like a lady" teaches girls to consider themselves an "other" to boys, even something less than boys. While, of course, we want to teach children manners, how to be polite, to say "please" and "thank you," and to treat everyone with kindness and respect, comments like this make girls resent being born as girls.
It also assumes that a child's sex and gender match one another. Jo March from Little Women, the "blueprint" for how we view tomboyism,often remarked that she was "the man" of the family, cutting her hair short, wearing trousers, and refusing to do "girly" things like needlepoint or flirt with boys. She, like many young girls, rebels against conventional expectations of girlhood/womanhood. So, it's unsurprising that theorists have wondered whether Jo was gay or transgender. Allowing girls to breathe a bit as they develop, leaving room for any activities regardless of her sex will help her in expressing her gender identity later in life.
While it comes from a place of kindness, and of understanding that there are plenty of people who are still intolerant of the LGBTQ+ community, telling a gay person "you're so brave" reinforces that being gay is an abnormality. Not every gay person is completely out, some are only out to friends or friends and a portion of their family. You may have heard "but I haven't told my uncle" or "but I'm never telling my Nona." This homophobic slur subtly assumes that a gay person wants to talk about their struggle to openly accept their sexuality. Saying instead, "I'm here for you if you need to talk (coming out, your intolerant relatives, being bullied at school, feeling confused, etc.)" establishes that you're an ally, and they're in control of when they bring up potentially traumatic events. You could also say, "I'm happy that you're so happy," or "I'm glad you've found your significant other."
“I’m not gay but.../I'm no homo...”
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We'd love to say the reminder is unnecessary, but we'll say it anyway: stop saying this homophobic slur or any variation of it. Whether you think Lupita Nyong'o is beautiful or you love spending time with your best friend, you don't have to reaffirm the admiration of a celebrity or the strength of your love as platonic. This is another phrase that alienates LGBTQ+ people, making it seem as though gay people are abnormal, and there's a necessity to keep reaffirming you do not belong to that group. It makes it seem as though there is some fear attached to being mistaken for gay as if there is some punishment that may be involved. It's much easier to simply say "I'm really happy we're friends" or "I love the time we spend together" to someone you care about without adding the addendum at the end.
We've all heard some version of it: "I always knew ____ was gay!" or, "With style like that, it was obvious!" or to the opposite effect, "But you don't look like a lesbian?" Employing your "gaydar" assumes that there is one single way of being gay. When in fact, gay people and their experiences are just as diverse as anyone else. It also gives gay people a reputation for being "sneaky" as if being in the closet is an act to fool or trick people, but those with "gaydar" are more adept at seeking out the lie. Instead of telling your friend/child/family member that you always knew they were gay, try saying "That's great!" Or if they tell you they're transgender or nonbinary, ask questions like "What does that mean for us going forward?" and "Do you have a new name or pronouns?" and "How can I best support you in this?" Showing you're listening and you care is the most crucial step in making the person you care about feel loved and accepted.
“But, are you sure? Have you ever dated a (person of the opposite sex)?”
Even members of the LGBT+ community are guilty of this one. It's natural to be curious about how someone came into their sexuality, but ultimately it's not your business. Often times gay and transgender folks experience "internalized homophobia" where, it's difficult not to listen to the voices of bullies, politicians, clergy members, and even characters on television, who tell them they're "looking for attention" or "just haven't found the right person" or "can't possibly know unless they tried." You wouldn't ask a straight person how they knew they were straight if they'd never been in a same-sex relationship, so why the curiosity when it comes to gay people?
“I don’t mind what you are but, you’ll always be my little boy/girl to me.”
It's understandable that a change such as your child's gender can be shocking. Especially when discussions of reassignment surgery, hormone therapy and legal measures (regarding name, insurance, official documents, etc.) follow. Fond memories of watching your child grow up will potentially feel like a "Before" and "After" and perhaps, your child will not remember those precious moments with the same fondness, as they will remember them as a time of closeted-ness. It is so crucial in helping your child to feel accepted for who they are, to let go of the "Before" and "After" mentality. Talking openly about your concerns, and listening to theirs will help you better understand each other's needs. Sometimes decisions about how best your child can live their life happily as their preferred gender will require several conversations and lots of research. Tackle those moments of doubt by listening to what your child needs. Help them find an LGBTQ+ network, and as their parent, talk to adults who went through the same thing at their age, and what they needed/wish they had, as far as parental support.
This phrase has somewhat fallen out of fashion in the last ten years but it still comes up, particularly around the adolescent schoolyard. The sentiment is simple: all things stupid, inconvenient, weird, loud, gross, tedious, annoying, and so forth, are branded "gay" instead. With a vocabulary so rich and diverse with words that describe the things that irritate us, why continue to choose the word gay at all? It reinforces the notion that there's something inherently wrong with being gay. If you hear it said by someone you know or even someone you don't, it's easy to correct, "Did you mean (new word)?" or "Gay isn't a synonym for (new word)." Setting an example for your kids in this way, when they hear these pathogen-like phrases (especially when they're uttered by others in your presence), will help them not only learn not to say these things but also why it's important not to.
The “Reclaimed Slur”: “Fairy,” “Queen,” “Queer,” “Dyke,” “Faggot,” “Tranny,” “Cross-Dresser”
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This last one is a little trickier than the others. Sometimes, you will hear members of the LGBT+ community use terms that seem offensive, or you've heard them used offensively before. There isn't one single opinion from the community about these terms. Some people find it liberating to use words that were once meant to damage them as a signifier of pride or self-love. Others prefer to leave homophobic slurs in the past. However, at one point in history, the words "Gay" and "Lesbian" were also slurs, so it's difficult to come down decidedly on one side of the argument or the other.
Ultimately, “slurs” can only be reclaimed by the parties they were originally used to bully. Even if you hear someone call themselves an offensive word, it does not mean they’ve permitted you to use that word to describe them as well. Communicate with your child, friend, or family member, and ask them how you should refer to them—there’s almost always a straightforward answer. Whether it be “Sometimes I call myself a dyke, but please call me a lesbian in conversation” or “I’m gay, but I also use the word queer, so you may too when talking about me.”
As with any marginalized group, the best thing you can do to support the LGBT+ community is to listen to and amplify their voices whenever/wherever you can. Educating yourself is the first step to becoming an LGBTQ ally to those you care about.