Rich people and influencers are absolutely destroying the concept of a kid’s birthday party

If you’re a parent with an Instagram account, you probably follow some celebrity or influencer parents, just by nature of the beast. You may have noticed over the last few years that children’s birthday parties are taking on the extreme planning and expense usually reserved for landmark milestones like weddings or… weddings.

“It used to be that over-the-top was looked down upon, but now over-the-top is applauded,” Leesa Zelken, the founder of Send in the Clowns, a party-planning service in Los Angeles, told the New York Times. The recent NYT article uncovered the extent to which Los Angeleno parents are going to make their kids feel extra special on their special days. And it’s pretty ridiculous. Zelken tells the NYT that her packages for children’s parties start at $14,500. “For an event that I just booked, we’re doing furniture rentals, a performer, a glitter tattoo station, a craft station, a pancake artist, a party manager, and a lifeguard—because there’s a pool and we need to make sure no one falls in,” she said. “That’s a very midsize party.”

If you follow any of the Kardashians, you know this isn’t an exaggeration. One of the most recent parties they hosted was for Khloe’s daughter True’s fifth birthday. Apparently, this child likes The Octonauts. There were performers dressed as the Octonauts, actual stingrays, a dessert station that dreams are made of, and an elaborate balloon-arched entryway. Khloe shared the celebration in her Instagram stories.

Khloe Kardashian/ Instagram

Imagine being a part of this friend group (I realize that’s a stretch; just pretend you somehow scored an invite.) How do you follow up a party like this with a sleepover and Netflix?

Khloe Kardashian/ Instagram

The bash followed in the outrageous footsteps of Khloe’s other sisters. Kim’s eldest, North, turned nine last summer, and she and a group of friends took a trip any adult would covet. Guests (including Jessica Simpson’s daughters) took a cashmere-lined private jet to Wyoming for a getaway that included ropes courses and rafting. The kids got their own private indoor tents.

Yes, these are celebrities and rich Los Angeles parents, but the excessive planning and expense are leaking into the mainstream, too. A 2013 study found moms were facing increasing birthday “DIY” stress to make their child’s parties as extravagant as possible. But the thing about this “stress” is that we have the power to dial it back whenever we want.

In my childhood, every birthday party followed the same itinerary: a group of kids would come over, we’d play some games, we’d watch some present opening, we’d eat some cake, and we’d leave. If we were lucky, maybe someone’s mom would invite us all to a roller rink for a few hours. And it didn’t matter where we were, we were just thrilled to be together.

If we don’t start to course-correct ASAP, we risk children everywhere thinking this type of spectacle is the norm. And yes, we normies obviously aren’t inviting the Octonauts over for a birthday bash and buying balloon sculptures that cost more than our first car. But the act of going over the top (whatever that means for our budgets) is what may be convincing our kids they need a ticker tape parade for existing. Or that these outlandish events are something they can expect, in smaller form, from their own parents.

I am a parent who delights in being “okayish,” and even I fell victim to the extravagant party trend once. For my daughter’s sixth birthday, I decided to go for a princess theme. We rented out a place that had “princess makeovers”—little salon seats where the girls got their nails and makeup done. Then women dressed like Disney princesses galavanted around the room and took pictures with everyone. There was a perfect tier of cupcakes with little tiaras sitting atop each one. Did the girls have fun? Yes! Did they also have fun the following year, when we scaled everything back and had a low-key sleepover? Yes!

The expense, the stress, the planning—we’re doing too much. There are so many ways to chill out and let our kids have fun. Have you ever given a tween a roll of quarters at an arcade? They’re in heaven. Have you ever thrown a bag of cheap drugstore makeup at some nine-year-olds? There was a game that made the rounds at every birthday I went to during my ’80s childhood, which involved sitting on a balloon until it popped. The glee! The sheer horror! The loud noise! Children are simple, really.

If you ever find yourself planning a pizza party in your backyard only to suddenly wonder should I be doing more?—the answer is no. No, you shouldn’t. The best part of a birthday party is the togetherness and joy it brings, and regardless of how many ridiculous parties we witness on social media, nothing will change that.

Welcome to the Kendom!

While Barbie’s away, Ken’s gonna play—and you’re invited! In honor of the July 21 Barbie movie release, Airbnb is giving fans a chance to stay in an IRL reproduction of the beloved Malibu Barbie DreamHouse, with Ken as host.

Two pairs of lucky guests will get to live out their technicolor dreams for a night. Booking opens at 10 a.m. PT on Monday, July 17 for two, one-night stays for up to two guests taking place on July 21 and July 22, 2023. These stays will be free of charge—because Ken couldn’t figure out how to put a price on Barbie’s Malibu DreamHouse. After all, Ken’s thing is the beach, not math!

While Barbie has always been in the spotlight, it’s now her partner’s time to shine. “We all have dreams, and Barbie is lucky enough to have a house full of them,” said Ken via press release. “But now, it’s my turn, and I can’t wait to host guests inside these one-of-a-kind—dare I say, one-of-a-Ken?—digs.”

Joyce Lee

 

Situated on the sunny Malibu coast, the DreamHouse features views for days. Enjoy your time outdoors around the fire pit and soak up some California sun while you take a dip in the infinity pool.

Joyce Lee

 

Belly up to the bar and have Ken make you a mai tai while he’s grilling up the burgers!

Joyce Lee

 

Head indoors where you’ll find Ken’s cowboy chic taking over the bedroom and beyond.

Joyce Lee

 

Dig through his closet for that perfect look to wear to, you guessed it, the on-site disco roller rink!

Joyce Lee

 

Guests will even get to take home a piece of the Kendom with their very own set of yellow-and-pink Impala skates and surfboards.

Check out this bird’s eye view of the mansion, complete with giant pink slide and pool floaties spelling out K-E-N.

You may recognize Barbie’s digs from the last time Airbnb offered them to guests in 2019 (below). We love how they went all in with the pink paint in the 2023 update. Talk about a makeover!

Airbnb

How to Book Barbie’s DreamHouse on Airbnb

Set your alarm for 10 a.m. PT on Monday, July 17 to be ready to book this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity!
Online: airbnb.com

Got little night owls at home? Consider taking them to these kid-friendly after-dark activities throughout San Diego

San Diego offers so much family fun during the day (not to mention free family fun!) that parents often sleep on nighttime activities, literally! Instead of sticking to your regularly scheduled bedtime routine, why not treat your little monkeys jumping on the bed to an after-dark adventure! We’ve rounded up a bunch of kid-friendly things to do in San Diego at night with family, from drive-in movies to roller rinks. And if neon lights aren’t enticing enough, many of the best San Diego night activities for kids are outdoors—and under the stars! Read on to plan an evening out on the town with your little night owls.

1. Lace up and Hit the Roller Rink

Roll it out with the whole family in the evening at Skateworld, a family run business that prides itself on creating an enjoyable, safe space for skaters to move and groove, no matter what age—or what time! With skate sessions for all ages, skate school, and other roller sports, there is something for everyone! And you can’t beat the trip down memory lane: Parents, show your kids your favorite moves from when you were little. You’ll find disco lights, great music, and lots of laughs.

Insider Tip: Be sure not to show up for a late-night skate with the little ones on Tuesdays, Wednesdays, or Thursdays. From 8-11 p.m., those nights are adults only.

Skateworld
6907 Linda Vista Rd.
Online: skateworld.com

Related: 8 Super Family Date Spots in San Diego

2. Score a Strike at the Bowling Alley

Whether you hit the lanes and enjoy the neon lights or you try a roll at cosmic bowling, the bowling alley at nearby Bowlero in San Marcos is a family favorite for a little kid-friendly competition, all while grabbing a bite to eat. With 40 bowling lanes, you’ll always have a turn—and for kids less interested in knocking over pins, an action-packed arcade is on site.

Bowlero
945 San Marcos Blvd.
San Marcos, CA
Online: amf.com

3. Go All Out at Belmont Park

All sorts of nighttime adventure awaits at this beachside carnival. Twirl around in the ice cream cone-themed pods on the Tilt a Whirl or defy gravity and take a dive on Zero Gravity, the popular space-themed ride.

Insider Tip: Tag, you’re it! Don’t sleep on laser tag at Belmont Park: Little game players love tagging each other in the foggy darkness lit up with laser lights, and parents can appreciate how the laser vest must fit comfortably to play.

Belmont Park
3146 Mission Blvd.
Online: belmontpark.com

4. Make S’mores on the Beach

No need to pack up the towels and sand toys just because the sun is setting. Instead, break out the marshmallows and skewers for s’mores beachside! Many beaches have fire pits available on a first come, first serve basis, including Coronado Beach and San Elijo State Beach in Cardiff. Fires have to be out by midnight, but the little ones will be fast asleep by then.

Coronado Beach
838 Ocean Blvd.
Coronado, CA
Online: sandiego.org

San Elijo State Beach
2050 S Coast Hwy 101
Cardiff, CA
Online: parks.ca.gov

Related: 15 Places to Get Your S’mores Fix (No Campfire Required)

5. Buckle Up for a Drive-in Movie

Drive-in movies aren’t just a thing of the past! Places like the Santee Drive-In and South Bay Drive-In offer current releases—several are family-friendly!—from the comfort of your own car. Bring food with you or buy classic movie night snacks from the concession stand. Make sure everyone takes a nap because they often show double features! Prefer to keep it simple? San Diego has plenty of family-friendly movie theaters, car not required.

Santee Drive-In
10990 N. Woodside Ave.
Santee, CA
Online: santeedriveintheatre.com

South Bay Drive-In
2170 Coronado Ave.
Online: southbaydrivein.com

6. Go Stargazing

What could be more magical than spending the evening gazing at stars with your little astronomers? There are plenty of opportunities for “star parties” with the San Diego Astronomy Association, which has an observation site in East County—although you’ll need your own equipment. Or, go out on your own! Check out these top sites in San Diego that are ideal for stargazing.

Tierra del Sol Observing Site
961 Tierra De Luna Rd.
Boulevard, CA
Online: sdaa.org

Related: The Best Campsites for Family Adventures

7. Have a Sleepover at the Zoo

Camping next to a rhinoceros? Brushing your teeth with a giraffe? Well, not quite, but the San Diego Zoo’s Safari Park does offer overnight “Roar & Snore” excursions appropriate for all ages. Sleep in one of the park’s tents and enjoy after-hours tours of wildlife, camp activities, and guided walks, complete with dinner and breakfast the following morning. Who knows, you may even get to hear a lion roar, as the event title suggests!

San Diego Zoo Safari Park
15500 San Pasqual Valley Rd.
Escondido, CA
Online: sdzsafaripark.org

Additional reporting by Michelle Franklin & Beth Shea 

 

 

 

 

Ziplining, a night food market, and indoor rock climbing all made the list

Looking for fun activities to do with your teens that aren’t total cringe or TikTok dances? We’re spilling the tea on some of the coolest experiences around LA—from teen-friendly stand-up shows and rad art exhibits to ziplining through the mountains and thrill-seeking theme parks. No matter what you choose, you’ll have an opportunity to reconnect and let loose with the people you love most.

The IRL Show at The Crow

Chris Mortenson

Need a laugh break from all the teen angst at home? Every fourth Friday of the month, The Crow (a female-owned Santa Monica Comedy Collaborative) hosts a show just for teens. The IRL Show is a teen-friendly comedy show for ages 13 and up featuring comics from Comedy Central, HBO, and late-night. If you come early, The Crow orders pizza for everyone and kids even get a chance to hop on stage before the show to work out their own material and receive feedback from a rotating cast of pros.

Tickets: $10 with student ID, $15 general admission.

The Crow
2525 Michigan Ave., Unit F4
Santa Monica
Online: crowcomedy.com

Super Nintendo World at Universal Studios Hollywood

Universal Studios Hollywood

Pry your teen’s face away from their Nintendo Switch to experience the real deal. Super Nintendo World at Universal Studios Hollywood is now open, fulfilling the Mario and Luigi dreams of kids (and adults) everywhere. If you’re willing to pay $40 for a Power-Up Band, you can participate in four interactive key challenges around the World that mimic Mario games. Once you earn three keys, you’re granted access to Bowser Jr.’s lair where you’ll take part in the ultimate boss battle. If you want to ride Mario Kart Bowser’s Challenge or dine at Toadstool Café, we highly recommend arriving to the park as early as possible as both book up quickly. Also, if you can swing it, the Universal Express tickets or Early Access tickets are worth the extra dough during this crowded time to guarantee entry into the World without stressing about reservations.

Tickets: 1-day general admission from $109, Universal Express from $199, Early Access from $20 in addition to the cost of regular admission.

Universal Studios
100 Universal Plaza
Universal City
Online: universalstudioshollywood.com

Funko Hollywood

If you have a teen who’s into Funko pop culture collectibles and accessories, the Funko store in Hollywood slaps. Whether you’re into Harry Potter and Marvel collectibles or Stranger Things and Star Wars are more your jam, Funko brings different fandoms together to unite in the spirit of fun. The Hollywood location features larger-than-life photo ops for the gram, immersive sets inspired by your favorite worlds and characters, and one of the best selections of Funko merch around. Admission to the store is free.

Funko Hollywood
6201 Hollywood Blvd., #100
Hollywood
Online: funko.com

Jean Michel Basquiat: King Pleasure Exhibition

This special touring exhibition in DTLA invites guests to step inside a recreation of artist, Jean Michel Basquiat’s family home, art studio, and VIP room of New York’s Palladium nightclub which showcased two of his paintings. Over 200 rarely-shown pieces (paintings, drawings, and artifacts) are displayed throughout the space, providing a truly unique peek into the artist’s mind. The exhibition runs through July 31, 2023.

Tickets: Timed entry is $32 on weekdays, $35 on weekends, and children ages 3-13 are $25.

Jean Michel Basquiat: King Pleasure Exhibition
The Grand LA
100 S. Grand St.
DTLA
Online: kingpleasure.basquiat.com

Moonlight Rollaway

Lace your skates and hit up the legendary Moonlight Rollerway in Glendale for a groovy good time. Part of the LA scene for decades, this old-school roller rink has not only welcomed generation after generation of Angelenos but it’s also been a prized filming location for shows like Euphoria and The Goldbergs, as well as hosted a memorable performance by Lizzo, among others. Skate times vary depending on the day and lessons are available for young people on Saturdays.

Tickets: $19 per skater online and skate rental is available at the rink for $7.

Moonlight Rollerway
5110 San Fernando Rd.
Glendale
Online: moonlightrollerway.com

626 Nightmarket

If you haven’t been to 626 Nightmarket yet, uh hello, what are you waiting for? Inspired by the vibrant after-hours markets of Taiwan, 626 Nightmarket offers visitors a truly unique experience. Filled with indulgent food booths featuring items like deep-fried squid, potato swirls, and Hawaiian honeycombs, it’s a curious foodie paradise. There are also clothing, art, and gift vendors, as well as DJs, lasers, games, and gigantic baby bottles you can sip fruity drinks from (our personal fave). Most vendors accept Square, Venmo, or ApplePay, but be sure to have some cash on hand for those that don’t. Along with the market’s original location at the Santa Anita Racetrack, other markets are available around town too so be sure to check the site for dates.

Tickets: $5 online or $6 at the door. Parking is free

626 Nightmarket
Various LA Locations
Online: 626nightmarket.com

iFly Hollywood

Every parent wants their child to soar beyond their wildest dreams, so take ‘em to iFly! Located at Universal Citywalk, iFly offers visitors a chance to experience the heart-pounding thrill of indoor skydiving. When you arrive, you’ll meet with a world-class flight instructor who will show you the ropes then you’ll put on your flight suit, step into the wind tunnel, and up, up, and away you go! Happy flying!

Cost: Different flight packages are available starting at $69 and up.

iFly
1000 Universal Studios Blvd., #1
Universal City
Online: iflyworld.com/Hollywood

Two Bit Circus

As the world’s first micro-amusement park, Two Bit Circus features 38,000 sq. ft of never-ending fun. From a Midway filled with games and classic coin-op machines to immersive story rooms, an arcade, a VR arena, and interactive gameshows, there’s truly something for everyone. With all this excitement, your teens will definitely work up an appetite, so be sure to stop by the Box Car for creative and delicious carny treats before you head home.

Tickets: Packages start at $35 depending on the number in your party and what activities you’d like to do.

Two Bit Circus
634 Mateo St.
DTLA
Online: twobitcircus.com

Dreamscape

Experience a mind-blowing new storytelling medium that combines the emotional power of cinematic storytelling with the thrill of theme park rides at Dreamscape, the ultimate destination for virtual reality entertainment. Guests suit up in their gear (light backpack, hand trackers, foot trackers, and VR headset) and are transported to fantastic worlds beyond their wildest imaginations, including DreamWorks Dragons Flight Academy, MIB: First Assignment, Alien Zoo, The Blu: Deep Rescue, and Curse of the Lost Pearl: A Magic Projector Adventure. Each experience lasts 10-14 min. and comfortable clothes (no flip-flops) are recommended.

Tickets: $23 per person online.

Dreamscape
10250 Santa Monica Blvd.
Century City
Online: dreamscapeimmersive.com

 

Hatch Escapes: Lab Rat

Who doesn’t dig a good escape room? Hatch Escapes: Lab Rat takes place in a laboratory where giant rats are doing experiments on human beings – that means you! Unhinged Dr. Ratkenstein has tasked you with completing a series of tests and puzzles. If you succeed, he gets to write his dissertation. If you don’t, he puts you and your pals in the old chipper—and that doesn’t sound great. You have only one hour to escape from the lab – so better get crackin’!

Tickets: Start at $44 per person.

Hatch Escapes
1919 3rd Ave.
Los Angeles
Online: hatchescapes.com

Sender One LAX

Climb to new heights at Sender One LAX. As one of the city’s premier climbing destinations, Sender One offers a fantastic range of activities for tweens and teens at all experience levels. From the Sender City interactive climbing center where kids gear up with auto belay devices to scale tall buildings and crazy towers in the sky to learning bouldering and rope climbing (open to ages 14+) in the other areas of the gym, it’s a great workout, you gain self-confidence and most importantly, have tons of fun.  If you want to boulder or rope climb on your own, the gym requires visitors to take the 1-hour class, Intro to Rope Climbing, first.

Cost: A youth day pass with rental gear (ages 6-13) is $34 and the Intro to Climbing Class & day pass (ages, 14+, rental gear included) is $39.

Sender One LAX
11220 Hindry Ave.
Los Angeles    
Online: senderoneclimbing.com/lax

K1 Speed

Does your teen feel the need, the need for speed? Check out K1 Speed for some of the best go-karting in SoCal. With locations in Burbank, Torrance, Irvine, and Anaheim, there’s bound to be a spot close to you. No reservations are necessary, just arrive and drive. Adult and junior electric karts are available, and the challenging indoor track is crazy fun. There’s also a restaurant on-site, as well as an arcade with billiards and air hockey. Closed-toed shoes are required to race and a helmet and headsock will be provided for you.

Cost: Races start at $27.95 per person.

K1 Speed
Four SoCal Locations
Online: k1speed.com

 

 

Six Flags Magic Mountain

Sure, everyone loves Disneyland, but when you have a teen coaster fiend, Six Flags Magic Mountain may be more up their alley. With 20 world-class roller coasters – more than any other theme park on the planet, there’s much more thrill than chill here. From Wonder Woman Flight of Courage – the tallest and longest single rail coaster in the world to West Coast Racers – the world’s first single track quadruple launch racing coaster, Magic Mountain is really at the top of their game when it comes to the ultimate adrenaline rush.

Tickets: Single-day tickets start at $69.99 per person.

Six Flags Magic Mountain
26101 Magic Mountain Pkwy.
Valencia
661-255-4100
Online: sixflags.com/magicmountain

Raging Waters

As the biggest water park in California, it’s no surprise Raging Waters is a fan fave during the summer. Less than an hour's drive from LA, Raging Waters features 50 world-class attractions for all ages, including Aqua Rocket – California’s hydromagnetic water coaster, a variety of tube and body slides, a lazy river, a one-million-gallon wave pool, and a 30,000 sq. ft. water playground. And coming this season, guests can check out the new Bombs Away, a pair of heart-pounding drop tubes where the floor drops out from under you, and one sends you flying straight down at 26 ft. per second while the other tube loops you around and around until you hit the water. Yikes, better you than us!

Tickets: Tickets start at $69 per person, but be sure to check their website for any promotions.

Raging Waters
111 Raging Waters Dr.
San Dimas
909-802-2200
Online: ragingwaters.com

 

Marvin Braude Bike TRail

Craving some good quality time with your teen? There’s no better way to spend the day together than biking the Marvin Braude Bike Trail ­– the famous 22-mile paved bike path that runs from Will Rogers State Beach in Pacific Palisades through all the South Bay beach communities and harbors at Marina Del Rey and Redondo Beach Pier in Torrance. If you don’t have bikes of your own, there are plenty of affordable rental shops along the path in Santa Monica. There are also fantastic places to pull over and eat along the way, whether it’s Back on the Beach in Santa Monica, a cafe along the Venice Boardwalk, or one of the delicious dining spots on the Redondo Beach Pier.

Marvin Braude Bike Trail
Starts at Temescal Canyon & PCH, ends at Redondo Beach Pier
Online: beaches.lacounty.gov/la-county-beach-bike-path

Ziplines at Pacific Crest

Located just 75 miles from LA in the San Gabriel Mountains, Ziplines at Pacific Crest is ready to give your family a thrilling day to remember. With two zipline challenge courses, there’s something for every daredevil in your brood. The Canopy Tour offers heights of up to 300 ft. off the forest floor and lengths of over 1,500 ft. while the Mountain View Tour provides a totally unique zipline experience with the bonus of leaping off a tree platform in a controlled free-fall. There’s also the Quest Tour for people who have less time to spend, but still want a taste of ziplining, or the Ultimate All-Day Adventure which includes six hours of ziplining, rappelling, hiking, and lunch.

Tickets: Start at $94 per person depending on tour.

Ziplines at Pacific Crest
6014 Park Dr.
Wrightwood
Online: ziplinespc.com

It’s rainy season here in our favorite Puddle Town, but fear not—we’ve got more than 25 spots to have fun and stay dry

Rain goes with Portland the way peanut butter goes with jelly. From December through April, you can count on lots of wet weather (140 days, on average, to be exact). The simplest way to enjoy the rain with little ones is to put on boots and Muddy Buddies and head out for puddle-jumping through neighborhoods and forests. But if you’re looking for indoor fun, take your pick from our ultimate list of rainy-day activities below. Splash on, Portland!

1. Grab Coffee & Treats around Portland

We’re a caffeinated, food-obsessed city, with artisan coffee shops and bakeries on every corner. Kick things off with an early start at one of these kid-approved breakfast and coffee spots. You’ll want to fuel up for the full day ahead!

 

Slappy Cakes: Start the day at a Portland standby where breakfast is the main attraction and the entertainment. Let your kids make the meal, with griddles set into the table and customizable pancake batters to pour, flip, and top just the way they like.

4246 SE Belmont St.
Portland
Online: slappycakes.com

Pip’s Original Doughnuts & Chai
Tucked into a bustling section of shops on NE Fremont, this gem turns out perfectly crisp mini donuts in tantalizing, constantly-evolving flavors. Pick up a dozen and order a chai for yourself (in a variety of homemade blends), then choose a table near the window to watch the rain fall. There are high chairs for the littlest foodies and kids’ books near the counter to keep ‘em busy while you wait. Be prepared for a line on weekends!

4759 NE Fremont St.
Portland
Online: pipsoriginalonline.com

Posie’s Bakery & Cafe: Looking for a mix of bagels, baked goods, and heartier fare? This homey coffee shop, bakery, and cafe has got the goods, plus a play area in back. If your kid’s been up since 5 a.m. and is ready for lunch by 9, not to worry: the kids’ menu offers grilled cheese, PB&J, and cinnamon toast, with a side of chips or cucumbers.

8208 N Denver Ave.
Portland
Online: posiescafe.com

2. Get Cozy with Books & Bookstores in Portland

Reading is a classic rainy-day activity. Maybe that’s why the rainy City of Roses has one of the most well-used libraries in the country, and a plethora of excellent independent bookstores. Cuddle up with your kids with a pile of books and get lost in a completely different world, through the power of story.

Storytime at the Library: The Multnomah County Library is a national leader among libraries. Besides its large collection of circulating items, it’s well-known for storytimes, with daily offerings geared toward different age groups and in a range of languages. It’s free, fun, and a great way to make new friends– for kids and grown-ups alike. Afterward, stick around to load up your book bag with more books to take home.

Days, times, and age ranges vary by branch
Online: multcolib.org

Powell’s Books: Head downtown to the City of Books—a whole city block with room after room of both used and new volumes. You can snuggle up in the pink room downstairs, where children’s books are organized around a reading area with cozy rugs and low tables with small chairs. A cafe near the yellow room serves up hot drinks and treats. Or, visit one of the smaller (but still impressive) Powell’s branches to get your book fix.

Various Locations
Online: powells.com

Green Bean Books: This children’s bookstore offers weekly storytimes and musical events in multiple languages, in addition to a well-curated selection of kids’ books, all in a bright and cozy red house. Check out their bank of vintage vending machines and bring a stack of books to the green couch to read together.

1600 NE Alberta St.
Online: greenbeanbookspdx.com

Fort Vancouver Community Library: Our neighbors to the north have a great library, too! Hop on the freeway and spend an afternoon exploring the top floor of the Ft. Vancouver Community Library. It’s entirely dedicated to kiddos, with a hands-on learning area, dress-up bins, interactive literacy-focused tech stations, and daily storytimes. You could easily spend hours here. Pop down to the first floor to refuel at the coffee cart. And psst! Multnomah and Washington County residents can get a free Reciprocal Library card to check out materials from the FVRL system.

901 C St.
Vancouver, WA
Online: fvrl.org

3. Explore Fun Animal Encounters around Portland

Rainy day blues got you down? Studies show that even 10 minutes of petting an animal can significantly improve mood and reduce stress. Head to one of these fun spots to get cozy with bunnies and kitties.

The Pixie Project: A no-kill animal rescue and adoption center, The Pixie Project fosters both dogs and cats for adoption. You must make an appointment to visit with the dogs and cats. Consider making a donation with your visit to support this non-profit’s good work.

510 NE Martin Luther King Jr Blvd.
Portland
Online: pixieproject.org

4. Make & Create Art around Portland

Get creative at one of Portland’s many kid-centric art studios. Check our favorites below.

Vibe Studio: At their locations on both SE Division and in St John’s, Vibe Studio offers a wide range of drop-in creative arts classes for toddlers all the way through the teen years. Check their website for a full list of offerings. (Choosing preschool or youth classes will send you to an online schedule, then click the “drop-in” tab to sort by location.) Most drop-in classes for toddlers are on Friday and Saturday mornings, while older kids can select a class during after-school hours almost every day of the week.

Various Locations
Online: vibestudio.org

Live Laugh Love Art: Guided art classes for makers of all ages, Live Laugh Love Art offers canvas painting, wood signs, pottery, or glass arts. Check out the family pass to make art time a regular thing for you and your kids.

9160 SW Hall Blvd.
Portland
Online: livelaughloveart.com

5. Find Stop-Worthy Lunch & Snacks in Portland

Soro Soro Coffee & Dessert: Kitten cheesecakes, rainbow cakes, animal-themed latte art, and matcha tiramisu? Sign us up! This recently-opened Korean coffee shop serves up seriously cute desserts alongside Stumptown Coffee and Steven Smith Tea. Perfect for a quick sugar rush before you hit the indoor playground.

2250 E Burnside St.
Portland
Online: sorosoropdx.com

Laughing Planet: Dinosaurs at every table, an extensive menu with kid favorites like quesadillas, smoothies, and the “trifecta” of three side dishes served in separate (not touching!) bowls, it’s no surprise that there are 10 Laughing Planet locations in the Portland area. Find one near you and stop in for quick, friendly service and happy kid bellies.

Various Locations
Online: laughingplanet.com

Two Sisters Play Cafe: This Milwaukie bakery and cafe serves up healthy fare (including gluten-free and vegan options) alongside a play room with a play structure, toys, games, and puzzles. Choose from paninis, sandwiches, salads, and a simple kids’ menu, then let the kids loose.

11923 SE McLoughlin Blvd.
Milwaukie, OR
Online: twosistersplaycafe.net

6. All the Places to Run, Jump, and Climb Indoors in Portland

For especially wet days, Portland’s got you covered with a host of indoor parks. We’ve put together a comprehensive list of affordable indoor playspaces in every neighborhood. Here are some of our stand-out favorites.

The Nest: Drop in for open play or take a class at this multi-purpose indoor playground and cafe. A large play structure, soft play area, and a rock-climbing wall are all available during open play hours, recommended for kids 12 and under. Try out yoga or an art class and get free admission to open play. Bring socks to play in, and enjoy treats from the cafe (outside food and drink not allowed.)

6517 NE Sandy Blvd.
Portland
Online: nestplayground.com

The Wiggle Room: Tucked into a corner of the Hollywood neighborhood, and within walking distance of the library and Laughing Planet, the Wiggle Room is a thoughtfully-designed playspace for kids from 0-7. Everyone can find their groove, with a larger structure for big kids, a padded play area for kids under 2, and a coffee bar for grown-ups. Natural light and a low-key color scheme keep things simple for people with sensory sensitivities.

1925 NE 42nd Ave., Suite C
Portland
Online: thewiggleroom.com

Hammer + Jack’s: We love this toy shop and play space in the rapidly-changing Foster-Powell neighborhood. Stop by to check out the toys, then drop-in for open play. Spend $10 for free play time, or get a punch card and become a regular. Check the website for open play hours and special events like kindie musicians, art classes, and storytimes.

6416 SE Foster Rd.
Portland
Online: hammerandjacks.com

Playdate PDX: This is the ultimate indoor playground, with a three-level playstructure for kids up to age 12, a selection of beverages for grown-ups, and a separate play area for toddlers. Make sure you have socks for playing inside the playstructure! Work up an appetite? Hit the cafe for lunch and snack items.

1434 NW 17th Ave.
Portland
Online: playdatepdx.com

7. The Best Museums for Kids

On days when the weather promises to pour nonstop, a visit to the museum is the perfect way to stay active, happy, and dry. Portland’s got ten museums within city limits! Here are our top three for families.

Oregon Museum of Science and Industry (OMSI): At this waterfront museum, hands-on science displays, motion simulators, and a planetarium supply a whole day’s worth of exploration. You can even tour a submarine! For kids 6 and under, check out the Science Playland. Plan your visit on the first Sunday of the month to get in for just $2.

1945 SE Water Ave.
Portland
Online: omsi.edu

Portland Art Museum: If you think an art museum is too refined for little kids, think again! With family tours and Baby Mornings, the Portland Art Museum welcomes and encourages even the littlest citizens to become patrons of the arts. Bags and large backpacks must be checked upon entry, so pare down to the essentials. Strollers are allowed, but littler ones might do better in a carrier.

1219 Southwest Park Ave.
Portland
Online: portlandartmuseum.org

8. Where to Swim, Splash, and Skate Indoors in Portland

For especially energetic kids, there’s nothing like a pool or skating session, and a rainy day is the perfect excuse to head indoors for some active fun. Portland’s got several indoor pools and skating rinks to choose from.

Oaks Bottom Roller Rink: In addition to afternoon and evening open skate sessions, Oaks Park has a preschool skate on Tuesday and Wednesday mornings from 10-11:30 a.m. just for kids 6 and younger. The session includes skates, cookies and milk, a group lesson and games. Adults are free with one child admission, and shoes and strollers are welcome on the rink. There’s also a Saturday morning Kids Skate for ages 10 and under that includes skates, fun games and a visit with Chipper. (

7805 SE Oaks Park Way
Portland
Online: oakspark.com

Lloyd Center Ice Rink: Take to the ice at the Lloyd Center Ice Rink, open daily in the mall. Rent skates and join public open skates during the day, or enjoy live DJ music during Rock n’ Skates on Friday and Saturday evenings.

953 Lloyd Center
Portland
Online: lloydice.com

McMenamin’s Kennedy School Soaking Pool: This ceramic, heated outdoor soaking pool is filled with chlorinated saltwater, in a private outdoor courtyard surrounded by gardens, on the spectacular Kennedy School grounds. Yes, we said outdoor, but hear us out: on a day when light rain or showers are predicted, it can feel pleasant and cozy to be outdoors in a warm pool. After soaking, grab a bite at the restaurant or catch a flick in the theater in this elementary-school-turned-hotel. Supervised minors welcome; bring your own towel! Note that during the rainy season, the pool is closed every 1st and 3rd Tuesday for cleaning.

5736 N.E. 33rd Ave.
Portland
Online: mcmenamins.com/kennedy-school

Portland Parks & Recreation Indoor Pools: You know what they say when kids get cranky: put them in water! Portland’s public indoor pools are open year-round for open swim, family swim, and preschool swim. Check the website for the closest pool to your neighborhood. Swim times vary by location.

Multiple Locations
Online: portlandoregon.gov/parks

9. Where to Dine Out in Portland When It Rains

After a long rainy day full of adventure, let someone else do the cooking while you unwind with the family. Here are our top picks for easy, delicious meals in a family-friendly setting.

McMenamin’s Kennedy School: Wander the halls of this former elementary school, now turned into a playland—McMenamin’s style—with a hotel, bars, movie theater, soaking pool (see above!), and restaurant. Your little ones can choose from a range of kid-approved favorites like pizza, tater-tots, and french fries, while the grown-ups enjoy a well-deserved pint.

5736 NE 33rd Ave.
Portland
Online: mcmenamins.com/kennedyschool

Mississippi Pizza Pub: With fantastic pizza and a family-friendly atmosphere, this neighborhood fave could have had us at “Hello.” But add in performances from favorite local kids’ bands on Friday nights? Next-level. Let your kids get out any last wiggles with a dance party while you kick back.

3552 N. Mississippi Ave.
Portland
Online: mississippipizza.com

Hopworks Urban Brewery (HUB): There’s a reason why this brew-pub is packed around 5 pm: it has several fully stocked play areas where kids can entertain themselves with toys while you enjoy your brew. Kids can chow down on mac n’ cheese or a Little Brewer’s Burger, and grown-ups can take their pick from a range of burgers, salads, pizza, and more. (Psst: There’s even organic baby food available for $2 a jar.)

Various Locations
Online: hopworksbeer.com

Check out these amazing ways to celebrate a winter birthday in NYC

Planning a birthday party for a kid is hard enough, but one that takes place in the winter? That’s another story. Never fear: we have ideas. Whether you want to throw an outdoor party that embraces winter activities, ride horses, see a drive-in movie, or play Dungeons & Dragons, we’ve got something for everyone. If you need some decoration help, check out these popular birthday themes from the past year

1. New York Ninja Academy

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For a high-energy bash, head to New York Ninja Academy, where party guests train on ninja warrior obstacles (similar to those seen on NBC's American Ninja Warrior) with professional ninja staff. A 90-minute party includes a course run at the end, complete with lights, sound effects, and hitting the buzzer at the end of the course. Parties are $800 for 9 kids or fewer, with it being $100 more for 10-15 kids. There is a $30 charge per child after that, up to 20 children.

625 W. 55th St.
Midtown West
Online: nycninja.com

2. Watermark's Winter Wonderland

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Book your own private and heated "glass house" at Watermark's Winter Wonderland and feast on s'mores, fondue, and other goodies. This Winter Wonderland on the pier features a tunnel of lights; forty 15-foot evergreens, and even the occasional "Snow Show" thanks to a snow machine. Don't forget to get a group photo on the Watermark Sleigh with the Brooklyn, Manhattan, and Williamsburg Bridges behind you.

78 South St. 
Pier 15
Seaport District
Online: watermarkny.com

3. Skyline Drive-in

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The Skyline Drive-in is an option that often shows family movies—The LEGO Movie, How to Train Your Dragon, and Boss Baby are examples of past screenings here—and it offers a beautiful Manhattan view. Tickets are $55/car.

1 Oak St.
Greenpoint
Online: skylinedriveinnyc.com

4. Hit the Trail on a Pony Ride

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You can have a horse or pony ride at a kid's birthday party in a variety of ways in NYC. 

Rent a pony for an hour from Be Brooklyn Equine (previously known as Kensington Stables). If you can have your party in Prospect Park near the Bridle Path, it's very convienent. 
Online: prospectpark.org

The Bronx Equestrian Center offers pony rides and a party area for $300 for two hours on-site. The pony is available for one of the two hours.
Online: nychorse.com

The Jamaica Bay Riding Academy does parties for kids (minimum 12 guests). Parties are 90 minutes, with 45 minutes for rides.
Online: horsebackride.com

5. Beat the Bomb

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Beat the Bomb (the puzzle game experience that covers you with paint if you "lose") is an experience you don't want to miss in DUMBO. Check out the clean, or "no-paint" bomb, the Ballz Bomb (literally soft balls), if your party doesn't want to get messy. Kids must be 8 or older and there must be an adult present. 

255 Water St. 
DUMBO
Online: beatthebomb.com

6. Snow Tubing

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If you're willing to travel, snow tubing could be a real crowd-pleaser. The closest spot is Campgaw Mountain in Mahwah, New Jersey. Tubers must be 42 inches or taller. 

200 Campgaw Rd. 
Mahway, NJ
Online: skicampgaw.com

7. Ice Skating

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A perennial go-to for winter babies is the ice-skating party. Why fight it, especially when you have so many amazing rinks to choose from. Governors Island Skating Rink is open daily and always has events going on, food options around, and games and attractions too. This is the perfect area to rent for a winter birthday party.

10 South St. Slip 7
Online: govisland.com

Great Wolf Lodge

Yes, it's a Bucket List thing, but we just had to include it. There are varying packages beginning at $350 and going as high as $900 (depending on which add-ons you choose). You can choose to include Build-a-Bear kits, goodie bags, ice cream, candy, adult beverages, and so on. You can customize your party to be what you want it to be, but keep in mind, weekdays will be cheaper than weekends and holidays.

1 Great Wolf Dr.
Scotrun, PA
Online: greatwolf.com

8. Winter Soccer with Super Soccer Stars

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Just because it's winter doesn't mean you can't enjoy some active play and sports fun! Book a private session for a small group for an experience completely customized to you. Sessions can be booked for 45-60 minutes and will be held at a place of your choosing. If you have a favorite instructor, you can request them for the soccer party (depending on availability), and you choose the focus and level of instruction. 

At a location of your choosing
Online: newyork.supersoccerstars.com

9. The Greens at Pier 17

The Greens is yet another spot offering transparent cabins with views of the Brooklyn Bridge and East River. Expect cozy seating, a virtual fireplace, and classy decor inspired by ski lodges. Each cabin can accommodate 2-10 guests and features touchless mobile ordering from a menu of seasonal dishes.

The Rooftop at Pier 17
89 South St.
Financial District
Online: thegreens.pier17ny.com

10. Play Date at CMOM

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Take your party indoors with a private party at the Children's Museum of Manhattan. Groups of up to 25 people can rent out the museum for an exclusive hour and 45 minutes. Guests will have full run of two exhibit floors, activity kits for children to use for the duration of their visit, and CMOM educator-led activities that will get kids moving, listening to stories, and doing art. 

212 W. 83rd St.
Upper West Side
Online: cmom.org

11. Chelsea Piers 

Give your kids an active birthday party at Chelsea Piers. Groups of up to 10 children ages 5 and up will be led through sports and other movement-centric activities by trained instructors. Party sessions last two hours and there are lots of options for food. Choose a sport or activity for the party to center around from a list that includes basketball, baseball, gymnastics, and ninja parkour.  

23rd Street & Hudson River Park
Chelsea
Online: chelseapiers.com

12. Brooklyn Game Lab

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You can have a party outdoors, indoors, or online. Outdoor parties are held in Prospect Park, indoor parties are held at their location in South Slope, and online parties are held in the comfort of your own home. They have game levels from beginners to experts, so no one has to worry about their skill level. Parents provide any desired decorations, cake, food, and drinks (depending on your party package). 

At location of your choosing
Online: brooklyngamelab.com

13. American Museum of Natural History

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How's this for thinking outside the box? Take a small group to the museum, checking out the Hall of Ocean Life, the Fossil Halls (home to the dinos), and more for the cost of regular admission. Or, spend a few more bucks and see a special exhibit. You must book tickets in advance to visit the museum. 

Central Park West & 79th Street
Upper West Side 
Online: amnh.org

14. TWA Hotel

Pool party in the middle of winter!? Why not! The TWA's heated rooftop pool is open to hotel guests this winter, and it's been transformed into an Alpine-themed retreat. Visitors can eat at the restaurant or sit at the bar and sip some hot apple cider as they watch airplanes take off below. Visit the pop-up museum exhibits, created in collaboration with the New York Historical Society, and go back in time through replicas of a 1962 living room and offices of Howard Hughes and Eero Saarinen.

1 Idlewild Dr.
Jamaica
Online: twahotel.com

15. Treasure Trunk Theatre

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You don't need to travel far to embark on an adventure. Treasure Trunk Theater, which fosters drama and imagination, is available to book for a birthday party of 30 minutes (with additional time on request), where up to 30 kids will enjoy fun activities that'll get their voices, bodies, and imaginations working. The Treasure Trunk Theatre instructor will lead kids on an adventure to magical lands using only common household items. Parents and grandparents are encouraged to join in, as well. Prices start at $300.

At location of your choosing
Online: treasuretrunktheatre.com

16. Loop of the Loom

In just two hours, kids can weave their own tapestry to bring home, with instruction from Loop of the Loom! Private classes are very small—3-5, depending on the location you visit—and instruction will have kids working on their own looms within minutes.

227 E 87th St. #E
Upper East Side

197 Plymouth St.
Dumbo
Online: loopoftheloom.com