We know it’s so easy to get wrapped up in the day-to-day grind, and we’re right there with you. But we’ve also noticed that life moves a lot more smoothly when we feel especially connected with our partners. Problems get solved faster, stress is reduced, and that feeling of being supported just can’t be beat. And you know what? You’re both due for one of those little romantic getaways where PDA is highly encouraged (public and private displays of affection, that is), chicken nuggets aren’t on the menu, and remembering why you love each other is almost guaranteed. These romantic Airbnbs are just the place to do it.

Below are some of our favorite leave-the-kids-at-home-for-this-trip destinations around the U.S. Beaches, forests, cottages, and mansions are all included in these romantic getaways. You and your honey can start reconnecting just by picking one together (and isn’t that part of the fun?). Now, you two love birds, pick your pleasure (wink) and get ready for some well-deserved alone time.

Hygge Hus | Deming, WA

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: The Danish word ‘hygge’ means an overall vibe of coziness and comfort that leads to a feeling of contentment. So, yeah, Hygge Hus had us from the start. It’s the dreamiest mountain cabin that includes an outdoor 4′ cedar hot tub with views of the forest all around you. Talk about romance.

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.99/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “5+ stars for property and for hosts! Everything about this stay was flawless start to finish. We will definitely be returning for future visits. Sharing this home with friends and coworkers as a great weekend escape!”—Andrea, December 2023

Sleeps: 4

Cost Per Night: $464.00

Book Hygge Hus on Airbnb Here!

 

Charming Cottage | Biscayne Park, FL

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: A guest house with a tropical garden and stunning pool? Perfection. Add a tiki hut and beach access and you have all the makings of a super memorable destination.

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.94/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “A beautiful intimate oasis with privacy, peace and quiet. I will definitely stay here again on my next visit to Miami. Thank you for our stay in your lovely cottage.” Gena, October 2023

Sleeps: 2

Cost Per Night: $150.00

Book the Charming Cottage on Airbnb Here!

 

Naturalist Boudoir | Lumberton, TX

romantic getaways

What Makes It Special: Two words: suspended. bed. Suspended bed! This property is extremely private, with an outdoor hot tub and shower, so you can reconnect with nature. And, more importantly, with your sweetheart.

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.91/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “This place is UNBELIEVABLE! Peaceful hardly says enough. Alina also paid attention to my needs– I told her it was my husband’s birthday & she left a little surprise for him. I couldn’t be more happy & grateful.” Terri, December 2023

Sleeps: 2

Cost Per Night: $307.00

Book the Naturalist Boudoir on Airbnb Here!

 

Upper Casita | Sedona, AZ

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: Spa access? That’s a clear ‘yes’, but there’s more. This apartment is located in one of the highest areas in Sedona, the view is outstanding, and the romantic kiva fireplace just adds to the romance. That’s why you’re going, right?

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.97/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “Magical, Magnificent, Marvelous….need I say more? By far one of the most special Airbnb’s in Sedona. The views are amazing! Iona and Huib have transformed a very unique property into a tranquil, private and peaceful retreat for your Sedona stay. So many special touches to make you feel welcome and comfortable! A true gem! Can’t wait to return to Eagle Dancer!” Bridgette, November 2023

Sleeps: 2

Cost Per Night: $399.00

Book Upper Casita on Airbnb Here!

 

Suite Seven | Malibu, CA

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: First of all, you absolutely can’t beat the view of beautiful Carbon Beach, especially with that daybed overlooking the ocean. And, of course, there’s beach access for those long walks together.

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.97/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “We spent the weekend at Malibu Suites for my husband’s birthday. The photos do not give it the full feel of this beach front slice of heaven. If you love peace, golden sunsets, soft sand at your door step, walks/hikes and nightlife at your fingertips (Nobu bar and restaurant conveniently next door) this is the place. I have driven past Carbon Beach countless times and was so happy to finally have the chance to spend a weekend here. Thank you Malibu Suites staff for making this a trip of a lifetime!!” Toni, October 2023

Sleeps: 4

Cost Per Night: $450.00

Book Suite Seven on Airbnb Here!

 

L’Hermione Cottage | Orland, ME

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: Remodeled from an old barn, this darling little guest house cottage in Orland, ME, is surrounded by 3.5 acres of wooded area and is set completely independently and away from the main house (a beautiful 18th century home!). It’s just a short walking distance from the Orland River, too. If you have Anne of Green Gables dreams, this is the place to live them out (and yes, we know that took place in the late 19th century, but we’re sticking with our Anne idea).

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.99/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “We were blown away by this gorgeous place and the extra mile hospitality. It was very pretty with all the quintessential New England vibes and absolutely [spotlessly] clean. Everything you could need and wish for for a relaxing, cosy and peaceful stay in Maine.” Lucy, October 2023

Sleeps: 4

Cost Per Night: $100.00

Book L’Hermione Cottage on Airbnb Here!

 

The Nest | Hot Spring, AR

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: Yes, that is indeed a luxury tent you’re looking at that essentially offers 5-star amenities. Hot tub. Heated outdoor shower. Deep soaking tub in a gorgeous bathroom. It’s surrounded by woods and definitely gives us lovey-dovey vibes.

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.87/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “We booked the nest for our honeymoon and it was absolutely perfect! It was private and cozy, but close enough to town to get dinner or so fun nearby activities. All the amenities were amazing and we just could not have enjoyed our stay anymore!” Sidney, December 2023

Sleeps: 4

Cost Per Night: $279.00

Book the Nest on Airbnb Here!

 

ABODE³ at East Zion | Orderville, UT

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: This fully customized tiny home feels anything but tiny when you’re surrounded by some of the most expansive views in the country! It sits on more than an acre of land and surrounded by alfalfa farms and the magnificent East Zion White Cliffs. The extra touches (including a hot tub!) make this one incredible space.

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.93/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “The adobe provided a luxurious place to crash and relax after a long day of hiking in Zion! They thought of everything from provided coffee and creamer to a super comfy bed, an amazing hot tub, a fantastic and trendy shower/bathroom, and we even used the washer/drier! And the view was unreal! It was exactly the relaxing getaway that I needed. 10/10 will recommend to anyone traveling to Zion!” Melissa, June 2023

Sleeps: 2

Cost Per Night: $139.00

Book ABODE³ at East Zion on Airbnb Here!

 

Architectural Wonder in the Woods | Rhinebeck, NY

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: It goes without saying, but look at it. With an open floor plan and a property surrounded by the Hudson Valley woods, this stunner is heated geothermally and power comes from solar power. It’s secluded, but honestly, this house is a vacation in itself.

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.91/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “10/10. Pictures do not do it enough justice. I was truly blown away by how amazing this place was. Such good energy inside we ended up cancelling some plans just to hangout in the house. [You] will not be disappointed if [you] stay here!” Joe, November 2023

Sleeps: 4

Cost Per Night: $468.00

Book the Architectural Wonder in the Woods on Airbnb Here!

 

The Rhino Room | Napa, CA

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: The Rhino Room at Brookside Vineyard is bringing the romance (as vineyards tend to do). The property itself is secluded and situated on 3 acres and includes a semi-private patio with views of the vineyard and walking garden. It’s one of 2 guest suites, but the only shared space is the driveway, so you’ll still have plenty of privacy!

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.98/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “Our stay at the Rhino Room was wonderful! The location was absolutely stunning. Quiet, peaceful, beautiful, and almost made you want to just stay on property. It was a quick drive to everything you might need, and the room was spotless & cozy. We definitely plan on taking another trip and staying here again!!” Josephine, January 2024

Sleeps: 2

Cost Per Night: $195.00

Book the Rhino Room on Airbnb Here!

 

Dreamy Tropical Treehouse | Mountain View, HI

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: Talk about luxury + seclusion. This jaw-dropping treehouse nestled on stilts 15′ up in the trees. The view is unmatched from the beautiful wraparound lanai, and even the bathroom makes you feel like you’re showering outdoors thanks to the floor-to-ceiling windows (don’t worry—it’s still private!). It’s a true level of paradise.

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.85/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “This was the most uniquely beautiful Airbnb property I’ve ever stayed at. The treehouse was decorated incredibly and was squeaky clean. I recommend this Airbnb to couples looking for a romantic getaway. 5/5 stars for me. I would love to stay again! We really enjoyed our stay here.” Jamie, December 2023

Sleeps: 2

Cost Per Night: $250.00

Book the Dreamy Tropical Treehouse on Airbnb Here!

 

Sugarpoppy Cottage | Key West, FL

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: Quintessential Florida is all bundled into Sugarpoppy Cottage in Key West. A private pool, quiet street, and tropical hues make this one fabulous retreat.

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Guest Rating: No rating yet

What Guests Are Saying: “Loved our stay at Sugarpoppy! it was very clean and easy to find, and the check in and check out process was super simple. we had an issue with an AC unit and the Last Key team was there within an hour to take a look and they fixed it almost immediately, but also took our schedule into account and even sent us out to dinner while the work was done. loved the location super close to the action but really quiet. the backyard and pool felt like our very own private oasis and we spent a lot of time there! looking forward to staying with Last Key again when we come back to Key West!” Anna, June 2021

Sleeps: 6

Cost Per Night: $175.00

Book Sugarpoppy Cottage on Airbnb Here!

 

Dreamy Colorful Desert Oasis | Palm Springs, CA

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: The mountains. The huge pool. The mid-century modern atmosphere that Palm Spring is known for. We’re so in love with this space and how close it is to downtown Palm Springs, too.

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.98/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “The Dream Home was an amazing place for me and my husband to sit back, relax, and enjoy Palm Springs. Everything was nice and clean, and was presented exactly as described and photographed. Steven and his team were friendly and quick, but thorough, on the walk through as we checked in. A few of my colleagues that have never been to Palm Springs want to book the Dream Home, too! Lovely little place.” Claire, November 2023

Sleeps: 2

Cost Per Night: $177.00

Book the Dreamy Colorful Desert Oasis on Airbnb Here!

 

French Quarter Mansion | New Orleans, LA

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: Located in the heart of the French Quarter, this historic mansion was built in 1820 and includes high ceilings, original wood floors, and a location that’s hard to beat in the Big Easy. The space has a balcony overlooking Dumaine street and Bourbon street and even includes a gorgeous common area courtyard.

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.58/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “Exceeded expectations. Host went above and beyond for us and the location was perfect. I would definitely stay again.” Makai, October 2023

Sleeps: 5

Cost Per Night: $223.00

Book the French Quarter Mansion on Airbnb Here!

 

Casita Benitez | Taos, NM

Airbnb

What Makes It Special: This boho New Mexican retreat is set in a 1950’s dance studio and includes original floors and beams. Including an interior hammock, an open space, and a clawfoot tub. It’s so whimsical (and Instagram-able!).

Airbnb

Guest Rating: 4.98/5 stars

What Guests Are Saying: “This casita and the whole Taos experience felt like pure magic. The casita is gorgeous and has the most beautiful energy and feel. It’s well-equipped, incredibly cozy and decorated in a boho style that flows impeccably with its history and the surroundings. We felt right at home here and can’t wait to return again.” Sanam, January 2024

Sleeps: 4

Cost Per Night: $132.oo

Book Casita Benitez on Airbnb Here!

 

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The trailer for Bridgerton season two starts out with a tantalizing “Dearest gentle reader, did you miss me?” To which we must reply, “It isn’t you, Lady Whistledown, for whom we’ve longed. But we’ll take you.”

That’s right, the second season drops on March 25 on Netflix, so you’ll want to go ahead and cancel every plan you have on your calendar for the following week after your kids’ bedtime. You’ve got plans.

The Shondaland series that debuted on Christmas Day, 2020 (like a parachute for passengers on a plane going down) immediately mesmerized the world, trending on Twitter and catapulting into Netflix’s coveted most-watched spot within just two days of its debut.

Based on the bestselling historical romance novel by Julia Quinn, the Netflix series follows leading lady Dapne Bridgerton—the sheltered (for a few episodes, at least) oldest daughter of an important family in London—through “the season” to her unlikely “match.”

Her match—the Duke of Hastings—has plenty of baggage, as we learned in season one, but it’s baggage we don’t mind carrying. Alas, rumor has it that he won’t return to Bridgerton for this season. There are some big—ahem—shoes to fill for the next leading man.

While we’re not certain what Lady Whistledown has in store for us in her next issue of her “society papers,” we’re confident it will be scandalous. Get the glasses, y’all. It’s nearly time to break out that bottle of ratafia we’ve been saving. 

—Shelley Massey

 

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Netflix just released a teaser trailer for all of their 2022 movies and you’re going to want to watch it

Netflix just unveiled a very lengthy lineup of their 2022 movies, and a teaser trailer to go along with it. The streaming giant has so many superstars lined up, you’re going to have weekend plans for the rest of the year! Practice getting the kids to bed early, because in addition to a nice chunk of family content, there’s a long list action, drama, and suspense movies that will make you crave your couch.

Here’s a teaser trailer with so much star power — it’s impossible not to get excited:

JLo, Ryan Reynolds, Jason Momoa, Jamie Foxx, Eddie Murphy, Charlize Theron, Chris Hemsworth, Halle Berry… the list goes on and on. Here’s the entire list of movies Netflix is releasing in 2022.

For the Whole Family:
13: The Musical
Boo!
Ivy & Bean
Matilda
Rescued by Ruby
The School for Good and Evil
Slumberland
Tall Girl 2
We Have A Ghost

Netflix

Animated & Anime:
Apollo 10 ½: A Space Age Childhood
Bubble (Anime)
Drifting Home (Anime)
Guillermo Del Toro’s Pinocchio
My Father’s Dragon
The Sea Beast
The Seven Deadly Sins: Grudge of Edinburgh Part 1 (Anime)
Wendell & Wild

Netflix

Action/Adventure/Sci-Fi:
The Adam Project
Athena
Carter
Day Shift
Enola Holmes 2
The Gray Man
Interceptor
The Mother
The Mothership
Spiderhead
They Cloned Tyrone

Comedy:
BigBug
The Bubble
Knives Out 2
Me Time
Metal Lords
Senior Year
The Takedown
Tyler Perry’s A Madea Homecoming
You People

Drama:
A Jazzman’s Blues
Against the Ice
All Quiet on the Western Front
Blonde
The Good Nurse
Hustle
Luckiest Girl Alive
Operation Mincemeat
The Pale Blue Eye
Rustin
Spaceman
The Swimmers
White Noise
The Wonder

Thriller + Horror:
Black Crab
Brazen
Choose or Die
End of the Road
The Inheritance
Monkey Man
Mr. Harrigan’s Phone
Texas Chainsaw Massacre
The Weekend Away
Windfall

Romance:
Along for the Ride
Don’t Blame Karma!
Falling for Christmas
Lady Chatterley’s Lover
Love in the Villa
The Noel Diary
A Perfect Pairing
Persuasion
Purple Hearts
The Royal Treatment
Through My Window
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Valentine’s Day is around the corner, and if you don’t have time to research date night hot spots (and who does?), we’ve got the goods on some seriously swoon-worthy rendevous locales. Whether you only have a few hours or you can turn it into a weekend getaway, we’ve included some tried and true faves. Read on to find some of the most romantic spots in San Diego, then call the sitter!

Animae

Animae via Yelp

Make dinner a truly grand affair at San Diego's "it" restaurant, Animae. The 5.5 million dollar pan-Asian restaurant sprawls across 9,300 square feet and the ambiance is opulent and seductive. If you go on Valentine's Day, they offer a four-course menu for $128/person. Dining here any day of the year will feel like a romantic retreat. Order up a Yin or Yang martini and let the evening unfold at this luxurious escape.

969 Pacific Hwy.
San Diego CA, 92101
619-432-1225
Online: animaesd.com

Hot Air Balloon Ride

With a mix of man-made and natural beauty, plus the right temps and low winds, San Diego is the perfect spot to float up, up, and away while watching the sunset over the coastline! Hot air balloon rides are a spectacular way to celebrate a special occasion or to see the city from a unique vantage point. Choose to check out the coast or the Temecula wine region and make some memories to last a lifetime! 

Compass Balloons
1969 Villa Cardiff Dr.
Cardiff, CA 92007
760-704-7407
Online: compassballoons.com

Cesarina

Cesarina via Yelp

That's amore! If Italian cuisine is your fave, lunch or dinner at Cesarina is a must. Owner Niccolo Angius recently moved to San Diego from Rome, opened this glorious pasta haven, and named it after his wife. Here you'll find a pasta-making station where you can observe fresh pasta being crafted to perfection all day long. Select your favorite pasta shape and your favorite sauce, dig in, and you'll feel like you've just taken that jaunt to Italy you keep dreaming about.

4161 Voltaire St.
San Diego, CA 92107
619-226-6222
Online: cesarinarestaurant.com

Staycation

Fairmont Grand via Website

We live in a world-class city, so why not enjoy world-class accommodations! If you have a night to yourselves, the Fairmont Grand Del Mar is an old Hollywood-type resort that will take your breath away. Enjoy golf or tennis or just relax your day away at one of the four heated pools (the relaxation pool is adults only). Book a luxury suite that includes a private fireplace and incredible views of the resort. This hotel is all about the R&R, so rest, relax and recharge!

Fairmont Grand Del Mar
5300 Grand Del Mar Court
San Diego, CA 92130
858-314-2000
Online: fairmont.com

 

Cusp

Cusp via Yelp

Pair breathtaking ocean views with coastal cuisine and you'll be riding the wave of romance while dining at Cusp in La Jolla. Tables at this romantic eatery are designed for two and perfectly poised to take in the scenic vista while dining on ceviche, the fresh catch of the day, and their decadent Chocolate Crunch Bar dessert. Cusp gives new meaning to the phrase "table for two" with their attention to detail to create an unforgettable dinner out.

7955 La Jolla Shores Dr.
La Jolla, CA 92037
858-551-3620
Online: cusprestaurant.com

Sneaky Speakeasy

Feel like dressing up and listening to some great live music? Prohibition Bar can whet your whistle and bend your ear in a very 1920's fashion. You can find the bar behind an unassuming law office door and then enter the dark and cozy speakeasy for an unforgettable night out. The dress code is enforced, so leave the flip-flops at home! 

Prohibition Bar
548 5th Ave.
San Diego, CA 92101
619-501-1919
Online: prohibitionsd.com

Veranda Fireside Lounge & Restaurant

Veranda Fireside Lounge & Restaurant via Yelp

Dine under the stars at the gorgeous Veranda Fireside Lounge & Restaurant. The ambiance, complete with olive trees and expansive gardens is reminiscent of the Mediterranean coastline––but it's right here in Rancho Bernardo. Enjoy tuna tartare and Seared Diver Scallops and share the bread pudding for dessert. Arrive early to warm up your evening with a cocktail by the fire. 

17550 Bernardo Oaks Dr.
San Diego, CA 92128
877-753-8559
Online: ranchobernardoinn.com/veranda

Horseback Riding on the Beach

Victor T via Yelp

A horseback ride on the beach isn't just for the cover of romance novels, at Surfside Ranch, they offer beachside rides on gentle horses. Trot through the waves while watching the sunset and breathing in the fresh ocean air. 

Surfside Ranch
2225 Hollister St.
San Diego, CA 92154
619-443-3517
Online: surfsideranch.com

Coasterra

Found Creative Studio

This Mexican-inspired restaurant sits at the tip of Harbor Island and offers one of the best views of the San Diego skyline anywhere in the city. Modern decor inside and out, with a full menu of cocktails and special margaritas, ensure your evening gets off to the right start. For dinner, start with Ceviche Clasico, featuring local seafood, or oysters on the half shell. Top entrees include the roasted squash tamales and chili agave pork ribs. If you've saved room for dessert, indulge in the churros or brownie tres leches.

8800 Harbor Island Dr.
San Diego, CA 92101
619-814-1300
Online: cohnrestaurants.com/coasterra

Sail Away

What's more romantic than sailing into the sunset? Even if the idea of rockin' & rollin' on the high seas doesn't appeal to you, the San Diego Bay offers a smooth and carefree time on the water. Private sunset sails are available on the Sail San Diego fleet of yachts, so grab your boat shoes and hop on board!

Sail San Diego
2646 Shelter Island Drive
San Diego, CA 92106
619-297-7426
Online: sailsandiego.com

Cordiano Winery

Hendel T. via Yelp

If white linens and valet parking aren't your thing, but you still want a romantic setting for dinner, Cordiano Winery in North County is a great option. The menu is low-key: wood-fired pizzas, salads, and breadsticks. But it's a winery, so the romance comes as soon as you pour your first glass of cabernet. Most wines are from California and can be purchased by the glass or bottle. Come at sunset for stunning views of the vineyard and surrounding San Pasqual Valley.

15732 Highland Valley Rd.
Escondido, CA 92025
760-469-9463
Online: cordianowinery.com

––Kimberly Stahl, Michelle Franklin & Beth Shea

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Are you dreaming of snowy scenes, improbable romance, quaint small towns and cheesy but enjoyable dialogue? Then we’ve got the scoop for you! Hallmark has announced its annual Christmas in July event, featuring new movies and binge-worthy classics.

Starting the weekend of July 10, tune in to catch Crashing Through the Snow, starring Amy Acker and Warren Christie. Maggie (Acker) joins her ex-husband and his girlfriend Kate for a getaway to Aspen, Colorado. Before you wonder about the logistics of vacationing with an ex, don’t worry, love is still in the air. Maggie meets Kate’s brother (Christie) and we have to imagine sparks flying on the ski slopes.

Also on July 10, you can binge some of your favorite Hallmark Christmas selections from 2020, including Love, Lights, Hanukkah and A Tree Grows in Colorado. The following weekend, tune in for “Soap Sunday” because obviously Hallmark movies are exponentially better with soap opera stars. Keep an eye out for Cameron Mathison in The Christmas Club and Jesse Metcalfe in Christmas Next Door.

Finally, on July 24 and 25 you can start your countdown to the holiday in earnest with some of the greatest hits from Hallmark. Crown for Christmas, The Nine Lives of Christmas, and Christmas Under Wraps! Similar, but just different enough to keep you glued to the screen. Grab the wine, popcorn and enjoy some self care!

—Sarah Shebek

Featured photo: Hallmark Channel

 

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Michelle Major

photo via Michelle Major

Once upon a time, there was a girl who dreamed of living near the mountains. Spoiler alert: That girl was me, and although I spent the first twenty-one years of my life in Ohio, mountains always called to me. After graduating college, I pointed my car west, found a job on a dude ranch in southern Colorado and set about making my dreams come true.

I didn’t expect those dreams to include becoming a romance author—at that point in my life I couldn’t even see far enough ahead in my future to believe I might be lucky enough to have kids and a family of my own. Then I met my future husband on a blind date, another Ohio transplant. I wasn’t exactly a spring chicken (at least that’s what my mother-in-law told me) so shortly after the wedding, I got pregnant. At the same time I discovered the romance genre and was immediately hooked on the stories of hope and heart (along with all those hot heroes). I figured that becoming an author would be the perfect career for a mom. My sweet babies would sleep through the night and nap on a schedule and give me plenty of time to perfect my craft.

For several years, I was lucky to have time to brush my teeth. Writing was done in fits and spurts during early morning sessions before the kids woke up. This doesn’t include the summer my son woke every day before five a.m. and we resorted to nailing black garbage bags to the outside of his windows every night just to grab an extra few morning minutes.

But here’s the thing—the more I struggled with rejections from editors and agents plus skin-shredding critiques from a pile of contest entries—the more committed I became to making my dream of being a published author a reality. Finally, when my younger daughter started kindergarten, I gave myself an ultimatum: get a book contract or go out and find another job. I’ve always worked. I like working. Being a mom was the hardest job I’ve ever had, but I wanted something for myself. Writing is it for me. And during winter break her kindergarten year, I received the amazing call from an agent who wanted to represent me. Shortly after, she sold my first book to Harlequin.

From there, life became a balancing act. The great thing about being an author is the flexibility to work when you want and where you want. The other thing about being an author is that it’s often a more than full time job. Books to write, to edit, social media, promotions, research, reader events—all the things. All the things I love but what I love even more is being available when my kids need me. That has been the great gift of writing and the reason I’m so committed to getting up at five every morning and carrying my laptop with me everywhere I go. I can’t count the number of words I’ve written at swim meets, in carpool lines, lacrosse games, volleyball tournaments (I’m currently sitting in the high school parking lot waiting for practice to end). I make it work, but there have been sacrifices. Hello, cute wardrobe for the social life I used to have, I’m looking at you.

My son leaves for college this fall, and one of the gifts of this wild year has been being home with him. Yes, I’m home tapping furiously while he and my daughter are in class. And sometimes it’s not easy to write a hot love session when the sounds of a group of kids wreaking havoc in the kitchen is my background music, but writing has given me the best of both worlds. Plus my kids have seen me do something for myself—they’ve watched the high points and the low points but they know their mom works hard for happiness. So to any other moms or dads out there who have a dream but worry about how it will affect your kids, I’m here to tell you that you can make it work. You can have your dream and you can be a parent and both you and your kids will be better for it. Even if it takes years to get there. And if you need someone to believe in you, I’m that person. Just know that I’m here to believe in you until you can believe in yourself.

Michelle Major is the USA Today bestselling author of over forty sexy and sweet contemporary romances. She loves second-chances love stories, smart heroines and strong heroes. A Midwesterner at heart, she’s made the Rocky Mountains her home for nearly half her life and is thrilled to share her books with readers.

If you’re in desperate need of some new puzzles to add to your stash as we continue to navigate the pandemic, new offerings from LEGO fit the bill. Chronicle Books is about to launch three new 1000-piece puzzles later this month!

The LEGO Ice Cream Dream, LEGO Minifigure and LEGO Minifigure Faces puzzles are not for the faint of heart, but they are perfect for major fans. Each one retails for $17.95 and releases on Oct. 27 on Amazon, Barnes & Noble and Chronicle Books.

LEGO is also launching a new adorable Minifigure Journal ($10.95) and Minifigure Notes ($15.95) greeting cards later in October. Express yourself on the 192-lined journal and share the love with 20 hilarious, full color cards that come in the notes set.

Finally, preorder a copy of the new book, LEGO We Just Click ($15.99), before it releases in December. The unique book is perfect for a gift and features LEGO icons while sharing sweet stories of romance and friendship.

Head to Chronicle Books for all the info on release date, preorders and pricing,

––Karly Wood

 

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Anyone with curly hair knows that it requires lots of love, attention and a special hair cut! If you’re looking to whip your waves into place for the summer season, then a quick scroll through this list is a must. We’ve rounded up the best haircuts and hairstyles for curly hair that will take your locks from drab to fab, just in time to battle the next heat wave.

Haircuts

Curly Crop

Just because you have wavy locks doesn't mean you have to keep them long. Get to a skilled stylist to crop your curls so that they lay right, without excess bulk. Invest in some great product and rock you cute curly 'do with this amazingly adorable short curly hairstyle.

Medium Length with Texture

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Medium length styles are beyond versatile. Long enough for braids and pony's, but short enough to not feel overwhelming, have your stylist give a textured cut that adds volume without the frizz.

Long Layers

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Want to keep your luxurious locks long? Get some face-framing layers to help take out bulk and show the world the curls you've got! This long curly hairstyle is timeless and easy to wear down or twist into a top knot (aka, the mom bun).

Big Body

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Why battle the bulge when you can rock your curly hair with some big body? Whether you have loose waves or tight curls, embrace the fullness and accessories with scarves and headbands to complete your look.

Full Bangs

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Curly-haired folk have missed out on many a bang style over the decades, but not anymore! If you have tight spiral curls, there's absolutely no reason not to flash your fringe. Go for a manageable length and go out with a bang.

Hairstyles

Half-Up Mini Twist

Enjoy your waves but keep them out of your face with this half-up mini twist style. Grab your top layer of hair, do a simple twist then just pin with bobby pins! This style works great for an everyday look or even a night out.

Side Braid + Headband

Dress up this uncomplicated braid with a headband for the perfect look for any day. We love the simple, side swept look with framing layers and the added bonus of a cute hair accessory! Curly or straight, this look is for everyone.

Low Pony + Head Scarf

Pony tails are classic for a reason: they look great on everyone and can be dressed up or down! When it comes to controlling your waves, a low pony plus a cute head scarf makes this look appear a little more pulled together and great for day or night.

Half Braid

Want to dress up? This half braid is great for keeping hair off your face, while still putting your curls on display. If you're talented in braiding, give this sophisticated look a try!

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High Bun or Pony

Holy curls, batman! Let your curls do their thang with this simple style that packs a punch. Rather than wrapping all your hair into a smooth bun, let some hang out in all their glory.

––Karly Wood

 

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As a couples’ therapist and practice owner, I’ve noticed a dramatic upswing in calls from couples requesting therapy. The stresses due to the pandemic and the economy are causing so much angst and uncertainty. Add in children and you compound the difficulties of social isolation and insecurity during COVID-19 and in 2020.

At my private practice in Toledo, Ohio the phone has been ringing off the hook from couples everywhere are on the edge and struggling due to the side effects of COVID-19. Couples are being weighed down by the amount of time they are now spending together with their significant other in close quarters, uncertainty about the future, parenting challenges, financial worries, and fear of getting sick.  

As a parent, being alone at home with, very likely, only the company of children and a significant other right now may feel overwhelming, exhausting, depressing, or lonely. Reaching out to our significant other for comfort and support is a logical choice, but with the emotional strain of the global pandemic, our partners are likely struggling too. This recent increase in stress can lead to more frequent disagreements, disappointments, conflict, and arguments. To assist partners to deepen their connection with their spouse or significant other, and even thrive, during this time, I am recommending five no-fail ideas to help create a strong relationship foundation.

1. Move Your Bodies Together: Time spent together working in the yard, or simply taking a walk together will help you connect. Not only are you carving out intentional time for each other, but you are also raising endorphins together while building emotional intimacy through conversation. It doesn’t have to be intense discussion—simply exchanging thoughts and stories is enough. So, get those sneakers on and get moving, and holding hands never hurt anyone either.

2. Step Away from the Remote and Shut off the Electronics: The glowing screens of televisions, phones, tablets, and video games can be real relationship killers. The number of couples I see in therapy who mention their partner’s obsession with social media, online gambling, adult videos, or gaming apps is higher than ever. Take responsibility if you are one of the guilty ones. These activities are fun and highly addictive. They are created that way so advertisers can make money from the people who are addicted. Try being counter-cultural and carve out screen-free time in your home. Pick times of the day, or days of the week where you commit to being electronics-free. Make plans to go to a farmer’s market, cook dinner from a new recipe, visit a local park, work together on a home improvement project: anything but stare mindlessly at a screen while ignoring each other.

3) Spend Time Talking and Learn More about Each Other:As a couples’ counselor who, myself, has been with the same man for 27 years, I am continually amazed that I learn new things about his life before me. There are so many stories to share: from our childhoods, our years in high school, our families of origin, our hometowns, and more. Ask questions beyond “What should we have for dinner tonight?” to try and draw more from your conversation time together. “What’s your happiest holiday story?” , “What’s your most vivid memory from third grade?” , “Which was your favorite grandparent?”, “What got you in the most trouble as a kid?” Continuing to get to know your partner, even after decades together, will continue to strengthen the bond you share. 

4. Allow Space for Emotions and Process Feelings Together: Whether you or your partner is the one feeling frustrated, sad, hopeless, angry, or irritated with all the changes thrown our way because of the pandemic, go with it. It’s important to feel and process our emotions, otherwise, we get caught in an unhealthy pattern of stuffing our feelings down and numbing them with food, alcohol, shopping, and other maladaptive coping skills. There is great significance in discussing with your partner how you feel, and what you think is at the root of those emotions. Allow space for your partner to do the same with you. Take an attitude of curiosity: don’t seek to fix the problem or rescue your partner from their emotion. Simply ask questions and give them space to share their thoughts. This builds trust, connection, and ultimately greater closeness. 

5. Be There for Each Other by Offering Practical Support: So many people in therapy report feeling lonely right now. Even in a partnership, while quarantined in the same house, we can feel isolated and alone. Take the time to check in with your spouse or significant other by specifically asking “How can I support you today? How can I be a good friend for you right now? Is there something you could use my help with?” Showing you care by offering yourself as a helper to your partner can create greater trust and commitment for couples. Letting your person know that you have their best interest at heart is a sure-fire way to increase positive, loving feelings between the two of you. A great friendship is at the core of every epic love story. Strengthening the friendship we have with our partner by helping them with a chore, holding them when they are sad, listening when they want to talk, or watching a funny movie when they need to laugh are small ways we can deepen our friendship with the people we love.

A romance that survives the stress brought on by a global pandemic is good, but a romance that thrives despite the stressors of this time is even better. Choosing to make time to connect with our partner is an intentional decision. With the stressors of modern life, putting time and effort into our most important relationship is something that we need to constantly prioritize. Make a commitment to follow these simple tips so that you can not only make this time of social isolation bearable but maybe even a time that the two of you look back on warmly as you remember the ways in which you intentionally grew closer together.

Erin Wiley, MA, LPC, LPCC, is a clinical psychotherapist and the Executive Director of The Willow Center, a counseling practice in Toledo, Ohio. The clinical focus of her therapy work is marriage, family, parenting, and relationships. She has extensive training in marriage counseling from the Gottman Institute. 

When was your last romantic date with your significant other? Was it a night out on the town or a candlelight dinner? According to a survey of 2,000 parents of school-aged children conducted by OnePoll in conjunction with Groupon, it’s probably been a while. 

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The study examined the romantic lives of 2,000 parents of children aged 5-18 and uncovered seven in 10 reported that the romance in their relationship significantly decreased after having kids.

According to new research, the average parent hasn’t been on a romantic date in more than three years. 30% of the parents polled said it’s been so long, they don’t even remember when was the last time they went out, just the two of them.

The majority of the respondents say it’s something they want to change, as 81% say that they need to step things up and have more frequent date nights. More than half long for the freedom they had before they became parents. 

The most important thing parents miss about life pre-children is spending quality time with their partner. They are nostalgic about their lives before kids, wanting to have more sex, sleep in, travel, more, and simply having more alone time. 

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Though they may miss the lack of responsibility of their lives back before they had kids, 77% of those surveyed revealed they are happier and more fulfilled now that they have children. 

Working parents look forward to spending time with their kids and family at the end of a long day. With making dinner as the number one thing parents reported looking forward to after a busy day at work, followed by tucking the kids into bed, reading bedtime stories, and snuggles. 

In fact, even when it comes to how they spend their Valentine’s Day, 79% would rather spend the day as a family rather than one-on-one with their partner. 

“As parents, it’s great if we can pull off a romantic date night experience with our partner on Valentine’s Day. However, it’s also about celebrating our other loves, too,” said Groupon’s Head of Experiences Brian Fields. “And when it comes to finding the perfect gift for all of your loves, our research shows that experiences are remembered nearly 40% more than physical things and leave people feeling nearly 20% happier.”

Maybe this survey will serve as the catalyst to get more parents to spend more time going out and doing something special with the one they love. 

Looking to revive the romance? Check out out these easy date night ideas for busy parents. 

—Jennifer Swartvagher  

Photos courtesy of Jonathan Borba on Unsplash

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