Study Says Most Parents Have Not Been on a Romantic Date in Years

by Jennifer SwartvagherFebruary 14, 2020

When was your last romantic date with your significant other? Was it a night out on the town or a candlelight dinner? According to a survey of 2,000 parents of school-aged children conducted by OnePoll in conjunction with Groupon, it’s probably been a while.

The study examined the romantic lives of 2,000 parents of children aged 5-18 and uncovered seven in 10 reported that the romance in their relationship significantly decreased after having kids.

According to new research, the average parent hasn’t been on a romantic date in more than three years. 30% of the parents polled said it’s been so long, they don’t even remember when was the last time they went out, just the two of them.

The majority of the respondents say it’s something they want to change, as 81% say that they need to step things up and have more frequent date nights. More than half long for the freedom they had before they became parents.

The most important thing parents miss about life pre-children is spending quality time with their partner. They are nostalgic about their lives before kids, wanting to have more sex, sleep in, travel, more, and simply having more alone time.

Though they may miss the lack of responsibility of their lives back before they had kids, 77% of those surveyed revealed they are happier and more fulfilled now that they have children.

Working parents look forward to spending time with their kids and family at the end of a long day. With making dinner as the number one thing parents reported looking forward to after a busy day at work, followed by tucking the kids into bed, reading bedtime stories, and snuggles.

In fact, even when it comes to how they spend their Valentine’s Day, 79% would rather spend the day as a family rather than one-on-one with their partner.

“As parents, it’s great if we can pull off a romantic date night experience with our partner on Valentine’s Day. However, it’s also about celebrating our other loves, too,” said Groupon’s Head of Experiences Brian Fields. “And when it comes to finding the perfect gift for all of your loves, our research shows that experiences are remembered nearly 40% more than physical things and leave people feeling nearly 20% happier.”

Maybe this survey will serve as the catalyst to get more parents to spend more time going out and doing something special with the one they love.

Looking to revive the romance? Check out out these easy date night ideas for busy parents.

—Jennifer Swartvagher

Photos courtesy of Jonathan Borba on Unsplash

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Life Is a Dream on the Coronado Ferry

by Cherie GoughJuly 13, 2015

You don’t have to row a boat in order to drop anchor in beautiful Coronado. Just kick back, relax and enjoy the spectacular views of the San Diego skyline aboard the Coronado Ferry. No need for fussy, upscale reservations once you arrive. We’ve found plenty of family-friendly options to keep all family members merry (and well fed) as you enjoy the island.

Photo Credit: Jennifer H. via Yelp

All Aboard
Catch the ferry at Broadway Pier downtown, north of the USS Midway. The ferry departs from Broadway Pier every hour on the hour, starting at 9 a.m., and leaves the island every hour on the half hour starting at 9:30 a.m. The final ferry leaves Coronado for Broadway Pier at 9:30 p.m.,10:30 p.m. on the weekend. The entire ferry ride is only a 15-minute journey.

You’ll arrive at the Coronado Ferry Landing, a shopping and dining destination on the waterfront, where we’ve found plenty for you to do with your crew. The cost is only $4.75 each way, and kids under 3 are free. And bikes are free, too.

Parking is metered at the Broadway Pier waterfront and limited to three hours, including weekends. The County parking garage across the street costs $10-$20, or there are several pay and display lots within walking distance. For more parking details, click here.

Photo Credit: Suzanne B. via Yelp

Where to Eat a Relaxing Lunch
When it comes to dining in Coronado, your first images may be of brunch with your mom at the Hotel Del or a romantic date at Peohe’s. But these days, you just need to fill some little tummies with food that they will actually eat. There are some great options at the Ferry Landing that won’t throw off your budget, and will satisfy young diners.

Little Piggy’s BBQ smokes its meat “low and slow,” Memphis style. The result is delicious barbecue classics and sides such as baby back ribs, pulled pork sandwiches and smoked beans. Add to that a fridge stocked with more than 100 varieties of bottled beers, Julian apple pie for dessert, and you know this is a place both kids and parents can smile about. Standard kids menu items are available, and sliders make a good choice for the kiddos too.

The decor at Village Pizzeria is checkered Italian tablecloths with a view. Grab a seat on the patio and enjoy awesome views of the harbor and skyline. Their specialty is New York style thin crust pizza and they also offer a full menu of Italian favorites including salads, calzones, and pasta. You’ll find a nice range of local brews on tap and a kids menu for little ones.

Photo Credit: Shari J. via Yelp

Play! Shop! Repeat!
On summer weekends, you can listen and dance to local bands playing at the Ferry Landing from 2 – 5 p.m. The range of music is terrific, everything from blues to flamenco guitar, to local teens rockers.

Near the waterfront, look for the Bubble Guy of Coronado who creates incredible, huge bubbles with a bucket of bubble solution and two sticks. Watch your kids’ eyes light up as they chase the biggest bubbles they’ve ever seen. It’s a magical way to spend a Sunday afternoon. Tuesday is Farmer’s Market Day from 2:30 – 6 p.m. Visit this small market for organic produce and a vibrant bunch of flowers.

If you bring your bike to the island, you’ll find a nice riding path along the waterfront. Or rent a bike or surrey at the Ferry Landing at Bikes & Beyond. Arrive early on the weekend to avoid crowds, and don’t forget helmets for the little ones (although if you do, Bikes & Beyond can rent them to you). The shop also provides a map to guide you around the island as you ride.

Photo Credit: Cherie Gough

Coronado to Broadway Pier Option
While we love the adventure and beauty of Coronado itself, Plan B is a great one and saves you money on parking. You can choose to drive over the bridge to Coronado, park for free in the Ferry Landing parking lot (busy on weekends), and take the ferry to Broadway Pier. From there, it’s an easy walk to Seaport Village. Check out our recommendations for how to have fun in Seaport Village here. Either way, an outing on a boat is a sure way to fire up your crew and get them excited to put down the remote and get outside this summer!

Coronado Ferry
990 North Harbor Dr.
San Diego, Ca 92101
800-442-7847
Online: flagshipsd.com/cruises/coronado-ferry

Have you taken the Coronado Ferry before? What’s your favorite Coronado place to play?

— Cherie Gough

Family Restaurants That Serve Up Stunning Views

by laure lathamMarch 3, 2013

Little known fact: Eating while gazing out the window at picturesque cityscapes and landscapes does wonders for your digestion. Ok, not really, but few things can make you feel like a million bucks more than watching an ocean sunset over a glass of wine. While such pleasant dining experiences may have been commonplace pre-kids, your chances to enjoy a meal out with kids in tow are often far and few between. But we here at Red Tricycle haven’t given up hope; we’ve done our homework and rounded up some Bay Area restaurants that boast amazing views AND are great for families. Many of these restaurants offer outside areas where kids can shake their sillies out and that’s got to be worth something in meltdown prevention. So go ahead and order dessert or a second glass of wine; chances are you’re going to want to stay awhile and savor the scenery.

San Francisco

Greens Restaurant
Looking out at the Golden Gate Bridge and a boat harbor, Greens Restaurant is only steps away from the Marina Green and offers vegetarian food even non-vegetarians rave about. Between the child-friendly menu options and the produce grown at Green Gulch Farm in Marin, the restaurant is as good as the décor is fun. If you can’t score a window table, try to get one of the tables carved out of giant redwood trees by Bay Area artist J.B. Blunk. They’re out of this world and kids love them! Last word of advice: Sunday brunch. Seriously.

Fort Mason, Bldg A
415-771-6222
Online: greensrestaurant.com

McCormick & Kuleto’s Seafood & Steaks
Ok, so you’re probably very familiar with this nationwide chain of restaurants, but we wonder how many of them offer amazing views of the San Francisco Bay, Alcatraz Island, Aquatic Park, Angel Island and the marina. Plus, it’s located in the heart of Ghirardelli Square, so a post-dinner trip to grab a few chocolate squares and hot chocolate from Ghirardelli. We highly recommend stopping in for their happy hour, where everything on the menu is less that $7.

900 N Point St
415-929-1730
Online: mccormickandschmicks.comNorthPointSt

The Cliff House
It’s not what it was in 1906 at the height of its architectural extravagance, but the redesigned Cliff House and killer ocean views wow even the most hardened Mission parents into making the trek to the Outer Richmond. Sitting on top of coastal bluffs battered by raging waves, with a sweeping view of Ocean Beach, the Cliff House is surrounded by a terrace where kids can watch flocks of brown pelicans fly by. With a casual bistro at street level and a formal nautical-themed restaurant downstairs, you can pick your table based on your mood. And before you leave, don’t forget to walk down the bluff to the ruins of the Sutro Baths. Kids love the cave and the loud waters rushing in.

1090 Point Lobos Ave (between Great Hwy & Merrie Way)
415-386-3330
Online: cliffhouse.com/sutro/index.html

Fog Harbor Fish House
Fog Harbor prides itself on serving every meal with a side of Golden Gate Bridge. That’s because this restaurant looks right out onto the water. Perched atop the 2nd level of Pier 39, it offers up the traditional seafood fare that’s on the more generous side for portions. And with Pier 39 below, there are more than a few ways to keep the kiddos entertained. For this same reason, expect to be surrounded by the droves of tourists frequenting the area.

Pier 39 #202
415-421-2442
Online: fogharbor.com

Cheesecake Factory at Macy’s
Oh, you won’t simply come here for the food. The views on Union Square and the San Francisco skyline are unbeatable if you snatch a table on the outside balcony. Known for its massive portions and infamous wait time, this restaurant eases out the wait by handing out funky devices that vibrate and light up when your table is ready. For that alone, kids love it! Of course, the extensive menu features lots of child-friendly options and the location is great for shopping and movies. Just – expect to be a tourist amongst many.

251 Geary Street, 8th Floor
415-391-4444
Online: thecheesecakefactory.com

Hog Island Oyster Co, Ferry Plaza
Smack in the back of the Ferry Building with a straight view on the Bay and the Bay Bridge, Hog Island Oyster Co is a dream come true for amateurs of shellfish. Whether you’re here for the oysters, the clam chowder or the famous grilled sandwich, Hog Island Oyster Co’s laid-back vibe is all you need to sit back and relax while the kids watch the ferries and jumbo cargo boats float by. For a budget-friendly outing, come early on Mondays and Thursdays between 5:00 pm and 7:00 pm and enjoy the chef’s choice half priced oyster as well as wine and beer specials.

1 Ferry Building, Shop 11
415-391-7117
Online: hogislandoysters.com

Peninsula

La Costanera
In Montara just south of Pacifica over Devil’s Slide, La Costanera is a striking building perched above the Pacific Ocean. Combine authentic Peruvian cuisine and outdoors fire pits and you have something quite special. Best for a romantic date, the restaurant is still a good choice with kids if you show up on the early side and if your kids like trying new foods. Indeed, Peruvian cuisine is delicious and unique but it’s not Mexican food – it’s actually quite different. From the yucca balls to the fried plantain, the fish ceviche or the seafood paella, it’s an overseas travel experience right there on your plate. Great for a meal after checking out the tide pools at Fitzgerald Marine Reserve.

8150 Cabrillo Highway
Montara Beach
650-728-1600
Online: lacostanerarestaurant.com

Sam’s Chowder House
Before the sun sets over Pillar Point Harbor, make sure to let the kids loose on the sandy beach under the restaurant. This cove protected from the wind is a fantastic place to splash safely. Once the kids are done and hungry, walk up the beach stairs and enjoy one of the most vibrant coastal restaurants south of San Francisco. A Half Moon Bay staple signaled by its giant crab neon sign, Sam’s Chowder House has live bands almost every single night, a great selection of beers on tap and healthy child-menu options. Of course, the signature lobster roll and views of the harbor aren’t half bad either.

4210 North Cabrillo Highway
Half Moon Bay
650-712-0245
Online: samschowderhouse.com

Marin

Fish
When fish sustainability collides with excellent food and outdoor seating on the Bay, you get a one-of-a-kind restaurant like Fish. A leader in ocean preservation, the restaurant’s owner knows all the fishermen by name and his choices are reflected on the seasonal menu. The picnic tables (inside and outside), the generous portions and the beer served in mason jars make casual dining fun. Some of the restaurant’s hits include the white anchovy bruschetta, the crab roll and the fish and chips. But make sure to leave some room for dessert – they’re as good as the rest. As for the kids, well, after running around outside to check the docks, they’ll browse the short but efficient menu and then run some more under the sun.

350 Harbor Drive
Sausalito
415-331-3474
Online: 331fish.com

Mountain Home Inn
This is the only restaurant around Muir Woods, which makes the Mountain Home Inn’s stunning mountain views even more exclusive. Primarily a romantic inn on the flanks of Mount Tamalpais, this restaurant features a dining room with an outside deck and incredible views of Mount Tam. Tip: Best for a date night or for an after-hike meal.

810 Panoramic Highway
Mill Valley
415-381-9000
Online: mtnhomeinn.com

Farley’s Bar at Cavallo Point Lodge
Do you know you can walk to the Golden Gate Bridge from the Cavallo Point Lodge? Or to the Bay Area Discovery Museum for that matter, since the lodge is right up the road. Housed in beautiful historic officers’ houses, the Cavallo Point Lodge is a resort and spa with fine dining – all with great views of the bay. For a family outing, Farley’s Bar offers a relaxed atmosphere by a roaring fire with small plates, hot chocolate and leather club chairs. So what will it be – Lookout Cove at the Bay Area Discovery Museum before or after?

601 Murray Cir
Sausalito
415-339-4700
Online: cavallopoint.com

Where do take your family when you want to eat out (and enjoy a nice view)?

–Laure Latham

Photo Credit: Cavallo Point – the Lodge at the Golden Gate. Photograph by Kodiak Greenwood.

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