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Your Baby’s Personality, Based on Their Astrological Sign

by Maressa Brown

Whether they insist on sleeping with one arm flung out of their swaddle or giggle uncontrollably every time they hear the song “Shake It Off,” it’s probably become clear that your baby has a mind of their own—and they don’t need any words to tell you what they like (and strongly dislike!). Beyond their day-to-day preferences, to get a sense of what your infant’s interests, strengths, and challenges might be as toddlers and beyond, look no further than their unique natal astrology. Although it’s just one piece of the complex puzzle that is your baby’s birth chart, their sun sign—the zodiac sign that the sun was moving through when they came into the world—can give you a sense of what their personality will be like. That’s because your baby’s astrology can influence their self-identity, self-image, and confidence.

As an astrologer and the author of Raising Baby by the Stars: A New Parent’s Guide to Astrology, I’m passionate about teaching parents how to use astrology to gain more insight into their little’s distinct perspective—and to hold space for that tiny human to grow into their authentic selves. So let’s dive in and look at each sun sign to explain how it colors your baby’s budding personality.

Aries (March 21-April 20)

Aries illustration of a ram for a story on baby astrology

With Mars, the planet of action and energy, as their ruling force, your little Aries will need to engage in a lot of physical activity to burn off all that steam. In other words, the minute they’re on the move, you’re going to be getting some boot camp-level cardio just trying to keep up. As the cardinal fire sign, your Aries baby will be a restless go-getter who initiates games and has just about zero tolerance for losing at anything. And because they’re the first of all 12 signs, Aries is considered the baby of the zodiac, so even as they get older your babe will remain super playful and a bit wide-eyed.
Key personality traits: Active, competitive, direct, fiery
Favorite things: Fast-paced physical activity (jumping, running, or even chilling in the jogging stroller while you zip the two of you through the park); winning and being declared #1 (so make sure you have a space in their room for the trophies they’re going to start racking up); being silly and laughing at slapstick humor.
Tantrum fuel: If anything takes too long, moves too slow, or just feels straight-up boring for eager, fast-paced Aries, they’ll quickly lose their cool. The good news is that they do everything at lightning speed, including tantrums, so just as quickly as they explode they’ll be back to their bouncy, happy selves and on to the next thing. To help them move through a bad mood quickly, lean on physical activity or a competitive game.

Taurus (April 21-May 20)

Taurus illustration of a bull for a story on baby astrology

Born under the fixed earth sign ruled by Venus, the planet of luxury, art, and beauty, your Taurus baby adores being comfy and sticking to what they know to be tried and true. This is a kid who is more attached to their lovey than any other and who will really dig their heels in when it comes to trying new foods or routines. The positive flipside of this obstinacy is that they’ll be incredibly dedicated to the activities—and people!—they love and are especially engaged with following through on tasks or goals. As an earth sign, they’re also in touch with nature and love hanging out outside.
Key personality traits: Down-to-earth, stubborn, slow-paced, practical
Favorite things: Snuggling and getting cozy; enjoying activities that engage as many senses as possible (like smelling flowers in the park while listening to birds and eating a yummy ice cream cone); expressing themselves artistically, perhaps by painting or singing.
Tantrum fuel: The good news: Taureans are known for their long fuse. The bad news: They absolutely hate to be rushed or pushed to change anything faster than the pace that comes naturally to them. And as the sign associated with the Second House of Material Possessions, losing a favorite toy or any tactile object they’re attached to will likely result in a major meltdown, so buy backups of that lovey ASAP. When they’re raging, speak to them in a calm, soothing voice and point to the practicalities of any given situation (e.g. “You need to wear this jacket because it is very cold outside”).

Gemini (May 21-June 21)

Gemini illustration of a sun for a story on baby astrology

It’s no wonder Gemini toddlers are super social and raring to go; the mutable air sign is ruled by Mercury, the messenger planet that oversees communication, transportation, and technology. They want to take in as much information as possible and then share it, so don’t be surprised if your tot’s a total chatterbox. Mercury also makes them really active listeners, and they’ll be the first kids to mimic or do impressions (so you’ll want to watch your language around this one!). There’s a good reason the sign is symbolized by twins, as you may notice that your Gemini baby vacillates between two distinct personality traits—they could be incredibly shy one moment and extroverted the next.
Key personality traits: Curious, communicative, dualistic, social
Favorite things: Lively “chats,” whether that’s simply listening to you talk or fully engaged in a tête-à-tête; being read to and, later, reading on their own (they’re lovers of language from a young age); going on road trips or long-distance journeys where there are lots of opportunities to soak up new information.
Tantrum fuel: Having to engage in quiet time or missing out on social time (maybe it’s their bedtime, but Grandma’s visiting) will send your Twins kid into a tailspin. They also loathe any circumstance that limits their mental stimulation and ability to express themselves and connect with others. That said, you can tackle a tantrum by holding space for them to talk through their feelings or work through them by scribbling with crayons on a piece of paper.

Cancer (June 22-July 21)

Cancer illustration of a crab for a story on baby astrology

Born under the cardinal water sign ruled by the moon, which oversees emotions and intuition in astrology, your Crab baby is a total softie. Family-oriented and heartfelt, it might sometimes feel like they’re literally glued to your side. They’re also big on being near the water, whether that’s your go-to beach for annual vacays or just a tub full of their fave bath toys. Since the moon moves through the zodiac quickly, changing signs and setting a different emotional tone every two-ish days, you’ll notice your Cancer’s disposition tends to ebb and flow, too. That’s why they have a reputation for being a bit moody, but even when they’re retreating into their shell, they’re total lovebugs.
Key personality traits: Sentimental, goofy, sensitive, nurturing
Favorite things: Time spent with you and other family members, ideally feeling closely bonded by saying “I love you” (and showing it); creative outlets that allow them to lean into their innate caring side, like playing doctor with you as the patient; helping you make—and noshing on—yummy comfort foods in the kitchen.
Tantrum fuel: Crabs need to feel emotionally secure and connected to their parent or caregiver even more than the average kiddo, so sensing that you’re not in sync and attuned to them could set them off. Reassuring them that you’re always there for them and love them can go a long way.

Related: The Parent-Child Astrology Compatibility Chart

Leo (July 22-August 22)

Leo illustration of a lion for a story on baby astrology

Your little Lion will be a bit of an attention fiend from the start, but they come by it naturally—it’s the fixed fire sign ruled by the gleaming, brilliant sun. They adore being the star of the show and earning all of the applause, and they just can’t help it since they’re usually pretty magnetic, upbeat, and charming. Plus, their sign’s association with the Fifth House of Self-Expression makes them naturally creative performers. They’re also direct, confident go-getters who believe being sunny and self-assured will get them across any finish line. Like all the fixed signs, they’re apt to become kind of infatuated with their favorite pastimes—whether that’s watching Ms. Rachel or staging their own plays.
Key personality traits: Charismatic, optimistic, fun-loving, confident
Favorite things: Soaking up the sunshine (they’re happiest during their warm, playful, summery season) and the spotlight; expressing themselves through an art form, like dancing or theater—ideally one with an adoring audience; setting the stage for friends to emulate them and leading the charge on play dates.
Tantrum fuel: Leos are innate leaders and have a bossy streak, so learning that they’re actually not the one calling the shots can drive them up a wall. Feeling like you’re not seeing and/or hearing them will also likely fuel a lot of roaring. Offer them a sense of control and to feel heard by giving them a choice between limited options (like two different rainy day activities to do).

Virgo (August 23-September 22)

Virgo illustration of the Maiden for a story on baby astrology

Born under the mutable earth sign ruled by Mercury, the information-gathering planet, your little one is eager to be helpful, a bookworm in the making, and a super communicator with an aptitude for critical thinking. They love hearing and telling stories as well as learning and sharing what they’ve learned. And, lucky you, because they might actually be eager to help out with detail-oriented chores as a result of Virgo being associated with the Sixth House of Daily Routine. As a true mutable sign, they might just be a bit more adaptable than other kids, but on the flip side, they also struggle to make up their minds as a result of overthinking.
Key personality traits: Cerebral, diligent, kind, pragmatic
Favorite things: School supplies—even before they’re in school, they’ll gravitate to pencils, journals, or just blank pages of construction paper perfect for working on their communication skills; reading books, perhaps especially on Mercury-ruled topics like technology or transportation; a tidy, organized space that contributes to them feeling calm.
Tantrum fuel: As a result of their ruler, Mercury, Virgos need to feel like they’ve had a chance to gather information before they make a decision, so feeling pressured into a conclusion before they’ve had a chance to do that can cause your Maiden kiddo to get frighteningly cranky. They also tend to overthink and worry quite a bit, which can contribute to moodiness—and is also a case for fostering grounding mindfulness skills, which can also be the perfect antidote to a grouchy mood.

Libra (September 23-October 22)

Libra illustration of scales for a story on baby astrology

With Venus, the planet of relationships and art, as your Libra kid’s ruler, they can’t help but be partnership-oriented and beauty-loving. The benefits of having an aesthetically appealing space are probably lost on a lot of littles, but not a Libra who will be more inclined toward peacefulness if the color of their nursery walls and the amount of sunlight in their room is just so. The sign is also associated with the Seventh House of Partnership, so your wee Libra prefers one-on-one bonding with you, other loved ones, and friends—and may be quick to declare a playmate their BFF. They’re also people-people and complete social butterflies.
Key personality traits: Social, peace-seeking, artistic, free-spirited
Favorite things: Art supplies that will allow them to create something beautiful of their very own; soothing surroundings (music, colors, lighting) that set a harmonious tone in their living space; parties and other opportunities to hang out with a bunch of fun, friendly faces.
Tantrum fuel: As a result of their ruler, Venus, which is the planet of harmony and peace, little (and, tbh, big) Libras will go out of their way to avoid conflict or any kind of bumps in the road. As they grow up, in an effort not to lose their cool, they sometimes steer toward passive-aggressiveness. It’s a case for showing them that all feelings are equally important and worthy of acknowledging and working through.

Scorpio (October 23-November 21)

Scorpio illustration of a scorpion for a story on baby astrology

If your kid was born under the sign of the Scorpion—the fixed water sign—they’re magnetic, dynamic, powerful go-getters. That’s in part because their modern ruler is Pluto, the planet of transformation, and their traditional ruler is Mars, the planet of action and energy. Though they experience emotions in a super-intense way, they’re prone to keeping them to themselves and sharing only once they are absolutely ready (and generally only with VIPs).
Key personality traits: Family-oriented, fearless, intuitive, self-possessed
Favorite things: A security item like a blanket or lovey that has been and will be theirs forever; games, activities, puzzles, or stories that involve a mystery they can solve; time spent at the beach or swimming, because, just like other water signs, they find being near or in the water centering.
Tantrum fuel: Driven and resolute, little Scorps absolutely hate being told “no”—yes, even more than the average toddler. It’s enough to make them dig their heels in even further. Making sure they feel heard can make a difference. And remind them that they can let you know how they feel whenever, given that your Scorpion prefers to open up about big feelings on their own time.

Sagittarius (November 22-December 21)

Sagittarius illustration of an archer for a story on baby astrology

A little one born under the mutable fire sign Sagittarius is gregarious, free-spirited, independent-minded, and probably fairly outspoken—even if only in the form of top-volume shrieks or giggles. Thanks to Sag’s ruler, Jupiter, the planet of abundance and fortune, they’re glass-half-full kids and also believe bigger and more is always better. In other words, skip the mini cupcakes and opt for a totally over-the-top cake with a giant Bluey figurine. Being associated with the Ninth House of Adventure, they’re full of wanderlust right off the bat. You can typically guarantee a Sag kid is one you can plunk in a carrier and take with you wherever—on a hike, a train ride, or overseas—without all that much fuss.
Key personality traits: Adventurous, unfiltered, buoyant, independent
Favorite things: Any opportunity to learn about different languages or cultures given their innate penchant for soaking up knowledge and globetrotting; lots of silly jokes because they’re natural comedians; lots of wide, open spaces to play, run, and feel free.
Tantrum fuel: As free-spirited as they are, Sagittarians absolutely hate boundaries, restrictions, and limits more than most kids, so talking to them from a young age about how following rules can actually create space for more freedom would be wise.

Capricorn (December 22-January 21)

Capricorn illustration of a goat for a story on baby astrology

Born under the cardinal earth sign ruled by taskmaster Saturn, the planet of commitment and boundaries, Cap kiddos are serious, driven, and wise beyond their years. They’re also eager to put in the work to achieve their goals, and they’ll set ambitious ones. Your Sea Goat is a natural-born leader who enjoys taking the initiative, likely catching you off guard when they actually want to help you file away bills or put away dishes. As a toddler or older, they’ll be the kid who kicks off a round of a new game with friends and then makes sure everyone understands the rules.
Key personality traits: Precocious, grounded, traditional, industrious
Favorite things: Spending time working toward a goal, especially in nature, like helping you garden; big-picture goals they’re able to hit via a step-by-step plan and possibly a sticker chart; learning about history as they’re old souls with a reverence for the past.
Tantrum fuel: Being thought of as foolish is your Cap’s worst nightmare, so if they make a mistake or have an accident, they’ll be deeply upset. Don’t expect a fire sign-style freakout; their tantrum style is a bit more restrained as they may struggle to let their guard down. So relay that it’s OK to mess up, because we’re all human, and it’s also OK to have big feelings.

Aquarius (January 22-February 18)

Aquarius illustration of a water-bearer for a story on baby astrology

Your science-minded, super-social kiddo was born under the fixed air sign, symbolized by the Water Bearer. Quick to make friends with just about anyone, your little one will also want to be fiercely themselves and strike out against convention, thanks to Aquarius’ modern ruler, Uranus, the game-changer planet. So if you want to encourage them to do something, telling them that all the other kids are doing it will get you, well, just about nowhere. Celebrating what makes them unique and different and allowing for a lot of experimentation is the fast track to a happy Aquarius.
Key personality traits: Future-minded, inventive, friendly, rebellious
Favorite things: Working as part of a team or group, maybe even joining you when you volunteer, because Aquarians take a lot of pride in connecting with and contributing to their community; technology of all kinds, given that Uranus is the planet of electricity and innovation; lots of opportunities to go against the grain, whether that’s by listening to quirky music or wearing wildly clashing colors completely on purpose.
Tantrum fuel: Because they’re so defensive of their independent spirit, your little Water Bearer could very well go berserk as a result of being told they have to do, well, just about anything, especially if it’s because everyone else is doing it. And while all toddlers love to ask “why” repeatedly, Aquarius is especially prone to this, and if you don’t play ball, they’re sure to get wildly aggravated. Nurture their curiosity and lean on creative learning when they’re feeling down (think: STEM activities or putting together funky outfits).

Pisces (February 19-March 20)

Pisces illustration of two fish for a story on baby astrology

If your baby was born under the mutable water sign Pisces, they’re empathic, sensitive, and intriguingly in tune with the mystical, spiritual aspects of life. Heck, they may even be psychic They can’t help but pick up on the energy around them, which means from a very young age, it’s smart to work with them on identifying and owning their own emotions. Incredibly imaginative, as a result of their modern ruling planet, Neptune, the planet of spirituality, your Pisces might have vivid dreams and would do well to have lots of artistic outlets for expressing themselves and their deep feelings.
Key personality traits: Emotional, imaginative, tenderhearted, perceptive
Favorite things: Whimsical, fantastical stories and entertainment that allow them to escape the humdrum of everyday life; an artistic way to share their emotions, whether that’s a beginner’s musical instrument or canvas and paint set; time spent with you learning about everyday magic (like how flowers bloom or the tides are linked to the moon).
Tantrum fuel: Sensitive Piscean kids are easily overwhelmed by not only their own feelings but other people’s emotions they often pick up on, and feeling totally exhausted by being the littlest empath can really set the stage for a tearful tirade. In turn, you’ll do well to work with your Fish on self-soothing techniques like meditation or toddler yoga.

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The 10 Best Toy Stores in the San Francisco Bay Area

by Jennifer Snyder

The best local toy stores in the Bay Area to shop for one-of-a-kind toys, books, decor, clothing, and more

Who doesn’t love to shop local, especially during the holidays? What sets these small local businesses apart from big box chains is that everything that goes into the shop is thoughtfully selected, and more times than not, includes hard-to-find or toys and gifts you may have never seen before. This holiday season, check out some of the best toy stores in San Francisco and give a gift that is not only more meaningful, but also helps support your local community in the process.

 

The Best San Francisco Toy Stores

1. Mapamundi Kids

Mapamundi Kids is a boutique bursting with coolness and creativity. The colorful, light-filled shop is stocked with books, toys, clothes, and accessories from around the world for lucky kids and their design-minded parents. And as the owners state on their website, "We are designers, makers, shopkeepers, neighbors, citizens of the world and most importantly parents." And in true SF fashion, the toys are organic, sustainable, and fair-trade when they can be. 

1306 Castro St.
San Francisco
Online: mapamundikids.com

2. Tantrum

Tantrum offers a unique carnival-themed shopping experience from books and clothes to toys with a vintage slant. You'll spend hours browsing their brilliantly curated selection of local artists as well as hard-to-find European brands. You might find yourself walking out with a little something for yourself and your little one. 

248 Clement St.
San Francisco

Mill Valley Lumber Yard
129 Miller Ave Suite 101-B 
Mill Valley
Online: shoptantrum.com

3. Jeffrey's Toys

What began as a Five & Dime store in 1938, has blossomed into the oldest toy store in San Francisco. Jeffrey’s Toys has been a family-run business for over 60 years. Conveniently located off of Maiden Lane pop in here to find that that LEGO set you’ve been looking for all over town. Pro Tip: For any Stan Lee fans out there, bring your comic-book-obsessed child to relish the "comic corner."

45 Kearny St.
San Francisco
Online: jeffreys.toys

The Best Toy Stores in the East Bay

4. Mr. Mopps

Opened in 1962, this longtime institution is known and beloved all over the Bay Area. The owners boast that they are a unique toy store that does not carry TV or movie-licensed products, but instead tries to remain more old school. Mr. Mopps is a truly magical place—filled to the brim with toys, stickers, books, every stuffed animal of the under the sun, and even party supplies. Pro Tip: Voracious readers can pick up more books just four doors down at Mr. Mopps' annex bookstore.

1405 Martin Luther King Dr.
Berkeley
Online: moppstoys.com

5. Montclair Toyhouse

Nestled in the cute little neighborhood of Montclair is the oldest family-owned toy store in the East Bay. Since 1969, they’ve been showcasing their exotic plush toys plus free gift wrapping to win over the young and younger at heart patrons. MonclairToyhouse prides itself on its extensive selection of classic and current toys, and the staff is always warm and welcoming. Bonus: they offer free gift wrapping and free assembly.

6115 La Salle Ave.
Oakland
Online: montclairtoyhouse.com

6. Toy Safari

Located in Alameda, Toy Safari is a paradise for the whole family. Besides offering the very latest and greatest, Toy Safari also buys and sells toys and collectibles. The back of the store is a stroll down memory lane with displays of Transformers, LEGO bricks, and other 90s favorites. You might be tempted to finally complete your collection of action figures. Family-run for over 25 years, this is a must-shop kind of place. 

Good to Know: They also buy and trade new, used, and vintage toys—a great way to recycle toys in great shape.

1410 Park St.
Alameda
Online: toysafaritoys.com

The Best Toy Stores in the Peninsula & South Bay

7. Cheeky Monkeys

This toy store has been bringing joy to the little ones, winning awards and supporting the community of Menlo Park since 1999. From bath toys to school supplies, travel toys, collectibles and little critters, there isn’t much more a kiddo could wish for here. If Menlo Park feels too far, check out their website, which also has an impressive selection.

640 Santa Cruz Ave.
Menlo Park

173 Main St
Los Altos

8. Wooden Horse

When owner Sloan was a little kid, she used to run through the aisles of the original Wooden Horse in Old Town Los Gatos, wishing she could buy the whole store. Her wish came true when she and her husband decided to do just that and now they run their shop with love and care for every kid that crosses their threshold. They even host free workshops for parents, teachers, and students to learn about the value of play. Check out their extensive collection online for the holiday season.

796 Blossom Hill Rd.
Los Gatos
Online: woodenhorsetoys.com

The Best Toy Stores in Marin & North Bay

9. Five Little Monkeys

Bring all of your monkeys to this sweet little toy store in the Corte Madera outdoor shopping mall. They have everything from LEGOs to Bruder to Fat Brain to the ever-popular Melissa and Doug. Pro tip: Still need to let the wiggles out? There is a play area in the shopping courtyard.

131 Corte Madera Town Center
Corte Madera
Online: 5littlemonkeys.com

10. A Child's Delight

Since 1994, this toy store has been bringing smiles to children’s faces with its wonderful collection of toys, games, books, puzzles, or anything else their hearts desire. Known for their personable customer service and for having lots of toys out for the kiddies to try before you buy, if you run out of time, or your kids lose interest too soon, fret not, they have an extensive website to shop from. Free gift wrapping is available on all orders. 

105 Corte Madera Town Center
Corte Madera
Online: achildsdelight.com

 

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Scholastic Bows to Book Ban Pressure, Allows Schools to Exclude Diverse Titles from Fairs

by Christina Marfice

Teachers are sounding the alarm that Scholastic has removed books with diverse characters from its book fairs to comply with book bans, but Scholastic says that isn’t the case

For millennials of a certain age, Scholastic Book Fairs were a magical time, when you got to leave class to browse cardboard displays of books and school supplies before inevitably spending all your allowance on a bunch of erasers. Today, though, Scholastic is under fire for apparently giving in to book bans that have gone into effect in some school districts and removing books featuring diverse characters from shelves unless schools “opt-in” to receiving them.

Teachers have been expressing their dismay over Scholastic’s new policy, which is apparently to remove books featuring any diversity at all by default. This TikTok video explains what’s going on.

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Book bans are influencing the Scholastic Book Fair. #booktok #manga #authortok #naruto #anime @Tegan B @mychal

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Scholastic’s new policy is in response to book bans and new legislation around books in schools in many states, and it separates out books with LGBTQ characters and people of color into an optional “Share Every Story, Celebrate Every Voice” box that librarians must opt into. Scholastic issued a statement responding to claims like the ones in that TikTok video, admitting that they are keeping many LGBTQ and books about BIPOC history aside to comply with book bans in some states, but denying that all diverse books have been removed from their book fairs.

“We don’t pretend this solution is perfect – but the other option would be to not offer these books at all – which is not something we’d consider,” Scholastic said.

But some of the titles that have been removed from book fairs and put into the “Share Every Story, Celebrate Every Voice” include a biography of Supreme Court Justice Ketanji Brown Jackson and a picture book about Congressman John Lewis. These aren’t controversial titles—they literally just tell the true stories of Black Americans.

And then there’s the fact that Scholastic, a billion-dollar company that corners the entire school book fair market, could have put some muscle into fighting book bans instead of… this. Or they could have just kept all these books in their book fairs and left it up to individual librarians to decide which books to display. The bottom line: There were so many other options Scholastic could have taken.

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24 IKEA Products Every Family Needs in Their Life

by Erica Loop

Make your life easier with these genius products from your favorite Swedish megastore

IKEA is known for its innovative and affordable styles, including adorable new items just for kids. But it’s the classics that parents go to again and again that we really love. From the beloved TROFAST storage to keep all those toys in check and an IKEA changing table for your nursery to versatile items for the inevitable living-room-play-room combo, here are some of the best IKEA products that make lives easier and more stylish at the same time.

DUNDRA Activity Table

The DUNDRA activity table is one of the best IKEA products for families

Whether they like trains miniatures or Hot Wheels, the classic DUNDRA activity table will work for everyone. There's a large drawer for storing toys or art supplies and the wide top gives kids plenty of room to play. 

Buy it here, $150.

URBAN Junior Chair

They're too old for a high chair, but can't quite reach the table in an adult-sized one. That's where the URBAN junior chair comes in handy. It reaches the table so they can be a big kid, and there's a footrest for added support. 

Buy it here, $75.

 

RÅSHULT Utility Cart

Whether it's for arts and crafts, school supplies, or extra kitchen storage, this versatile three-tiered storage cart is any parent’s saving grace. Made of powder-coated steel, it comes in three colors (turquoise, black, and white).

Buy it here, $28.

KALLAX Shelf Unit

KALLAX shelf unit from IKEA

Do you need stylish storage for the playroom? Try the KALLAX. What about a chic upgrade for your entryway? The KALLAX. How about an affordable dining room hutch? Yup, the KALLAX! This storage system does it all and definitely deserves its spot on our list of best IKEA products for families. 

Buy it here, $90 for a 4-space unit

POÄNG Rocking Chair

the POÄNG rocking chair is one of the best IKEA products for families

No nursery is complete without this IKEA staple: a Scandinavian-modern rocking chair made for those midnight feedings or restless nights. It comes in several color combos, is easy to clean, and has a 10-year warranty.

Buy it here, $339

PÄRKLA Storage Case

"I don't need extra storage." Said no parent, ever. One of the best IKEA products of all time, you can use these storage cases for almost anything: clothing, linens, toys, kids' gear, the list goes on! And at this price, we're definitely stocking up. 

Buy them here, $2.50 each.

BYGGLEK LEGO® Box

This box is a collaboration between IKEA and LEGO®, and it's both a kid's and parent's dream storage container. Made with plenty of space to store bricks, the top has the classic LEGO® studs on top, which makes it a perfect place to build, too! 

Buy it here, $25.

MINNEN Extended Bed Frame

One of the best IKEA products for families, this extendable bed is perfect for transitioning from a toddler bed to a twin. At its minimum, it is just over 49 inches long and a little over 76 inches at its longest. The in-between size keeps it cozy for kids who aren’t quite ready for that giant bed or for bedrooms that are tight on space. (You must buy the slatted bed base and the mattress separately). 

Buy it here, $169

TOFTLUND Rug

One of IKEA’s bestselling products, this little fuzzy rug looks just as good next to a grown-up bed as it does in a kid’s room. It’s the small dash of hygge your home needs. They also have a snugglier version, the ULLERSLEV.   

Buy it here, $39

TROFAST Storage

Does your child's room look like a tornado of toys? The TROFAST storage combination with boxes has plenty of room to stash their stuff. The lightweight bins are easy to use, move or store. Use this pick with the Trofast lid to seal playthings in place.

Buy a set here, $106.

PERJOHAN Storage Bench

IKEA storage benches come in a variety of styles, from upholstered to hall-tree style, but we love this simple wooden bench with built-in storage. It does double-duty as extra seating and a place to keep homework essentials, something in the age of work-and-school from home becomes invaluable. 

Buy it here, $75

SLÄKT Folding Mattress

This fold-up mattress is one of the best IKEA products for families

Setting up for your child's next sleepover was never this easy! This folding mattress is super simple to use, fits under the coordinating SLÄKT bed, and keeps guests comfy all night long. 

Buy it here, $130.

ÖNSKLIG Racks for Changing Table

Make changing time easier with this set of four racks. Keep everything within arm's reach, and away from baby, with these mini baskets. use the convenient containers to store washcloths, skincare items, diapers, wipes, or anything else you need right now.

Buy the set, $13.

VÄXTHUS Handmade Basket

this handmade basket is one of the best IKEA products for families

It’s big, it’s beautiful and it can hold plenty of blankets, toys, laundry, or whatever else you want to stash in it. What's not to love? 

Buy it here, $34.99

MATVRÅ Place Mat

Do you have a picky eater? Make mealtime fun with this fruit and veggie-patterned place mat. Not only is this a completely cute home accent, but it can save your table from an oatmeal assault or banana bash. Bonus—the uneven underside keeps this pretty pick in place.

Buy it here, $2.

FLISAT Toy Storage

This simple storage solution, comes with casters, making it easy to cart around! Use the FLISAT to keep your tot's toys in check or roll it to the next play-day destination.

Buy it here, $50.

BERGIG Book Display

This bookshelf is one of the best IKEA products for families

This sweet little bookshelf/desk duo is perfect for a toddler's room. They'll be able to see their favorite stories and have space to color or play, and parents will love the added storage at the bottom. 

Buy it here, $130.

KURA Reversible Bed

As parents, having furniture that'll last longer than a year or two is key. With the option of switching the twin bed from below to above, this reversible bed is perfect for a toddler as well as a tween. 

Buy it here, $300. 

FLISAT Doll House/Wall Shelf

This wall shelf dollhouse is one of the best IKEA products for kids

What's better than IKEA storage solutions? IKEA furniture that pulls double duty! This play-time pick is a doll house that doubles as a shelf.

Buy it here, $40.

UNDVIKA Corner Bumper

Now that your kiddo is off and toddling, it's time for some serious baby-proofing. This corner bumper comes eight to a pack and is easy to use.

Buy them here, $5 a pack.

TOSSIG Toilet Seat

Now your kiddo can go, on the go. The TOSSIG is perfectly shaped for the pint-sized set, fits easily over the regular-sized seat, and has anti-slip material on the underside. 

Buy it here, $10.

SNIGLAR Changing Table

This inexpensive, basic table provides plenty of storage and can double as a sweet shelf when your now-baby turns into a potty-trained preschooler. 

Buy it here, $40.

FÖRSIKTIG Children's Stool

This stool is one of the best IKEA products for families

While it might look very fancy, this stool is the workhorse of the group. It can be used in the kitchen, the bathroom, or in the kids' room. There is anti-slip material on the top and the bottom, so it won't move anywhere and neither will your kids. 

Buy it here, $8. 

LILLABO Wooden Train Set

This wooden train set is one of the best IKEA products for families

Our list of best IKEA products for families wouldn't be complete without the iconic LILLABO wooden train set. Everything your budding engineer needs to set up a track through a town and over rivers is included, and it fits perfectly on the DUNDRA activity table. 

Buy it here, $35.

All images courtesy IKEA

Editor’s note: At the time of publication, all items were available for purchase. 

 

 

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I’m Unapologetically Saying Yes to the School Cafeteria Lunch

by Anna Rollins

It was the night before the first full day of kindergarten. Bags of school supplies were piled in front of my son’s new, oversized backpack. I’d laid out his clothes on top of his dresser, clipped his nails as if for inspection. At bath time, I scrubbed the magic marker off his palms with unusual vigor. And after I tucked him in for a premature bedtime, I headed to the kitchen. There, my least favorite task awaited me. It was time to pack his lunchbox.

I’d purchased a bento box, somehow imagining those cute little containers may turn my son into a person he was not yet: an adventurous eater.

There was once a time when my son was not picky at mealtime. It was around the time he began eating solid food. I loaded his highchair tray with carrots and berries, boiled eggs and chicken. One evening, he devoured our takeout tikka masala, and I, a smug new mom, bragged about his palate to his daycare teacher.

“He may get pickier when he’s older,” she warned. And sure enough, perhaps a year later, she was absolutely right.

He began demanding less color, reveling in a new obsession with tan. Chicken nuggets. Mac and cheese. I’d sneak single green beans and tiny broccoli florets onto his plate, only to be greeted with tantrums. He didn’t want to eat them! He didn’t even want to see them! Still, I continued to try—exposure, I read, was the most important thing. And as his taste grew narrower and narrower, I found myself thankful that at least he still ate chicken nuggets. Because, you know, protein.

By the time we reached kindergarten, we had made a bit of progress (specifically in the fruit department). Still, I dreaded packing his lunch. I dreaded it because I had two choices: I could pack foods he would actually eat, or I could pack foods that I believed would make me look like a good mom.

That night before kindergarten with the bento box, I tried to strike a balance between aspirational and realistic. I wasn’t crazy enough to sneak in anything too exciting, like edamame (this, when I looked at lunchbox inspiration on the internet, seemed like a crowning achievement: a kid who ate edamame).

I packed a mix of healthy and indulgent. A hard-boiled egg. Strawberries. A peanut butter sandwich on white bread. Apple sauce. Some chips.

When I picked him up from school that next day, he looked tired. Almost dizzy. When we returned home, I signed his planner and opened his lunch box. The chips were gone, and so was the applesauce—but otherwise, it was nearly still full.

“Why didn’t you eat your strawberries?” I asked him later that evening. “You love those!”

“They didn’t taste right,” he replied.

For a week, then two, I did this: packed a lunch, and then the next day after school, nearly threw it all away. He returned home from school ravenous.

“What do your friends eat?” I asked him, exasperated. “Is there anything they eat that sounds good to you?”

“They eat the school lunch,” he replied.

I looked online at the meal schedule. The following day, they would be serving a hamburger and fries.

“Go ahead and order that,” I told him.

And sure enough, the next day, he returned home bright and smiling. He reported eating his lunch, happily, with all his friends. And then, the next day, he ordered and ate the spaghetti. Then the chicken and noodles. I quietly rejoiced.

Energy! Protein! And my son was, in fact, trying new things.

I’d let myself believe that my son’s diet was a reflection of my motherhood. I’d internalized the stigma that a school cafeteria lunch was somehow inferior to a meal packed from home.

But you know what is truly unhealthy? A hungry child. By saying yes to the school lunch, my son was still discovering new foods. He was enjoying a meal with his peers, learning that eating is about nutrition, yes, but it is also about community.

I’d believed so many messages about food having moral value, and I was inadvertently placing that burden on my son. It wasn’t fair that I expected him to make me look better by consuming what others deemed good. I’m continuing to say yes to the school cafeteria lunch—something my son is very happy about—and I hope making mealtime less stressful for us both will contribute to a positive relationship with food for the rest of his life.

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I Never Buy My Kids’ School Pictures & I Don’t Feel Bad About It

by Rachel Garlinghouse

Mom groups these days are buzzing with school picture chatter: What should our kids wear? Which package should we purchase? But I’ll let you in on a secret that has allowed me to gleefully bypass the forced seasonal ritual. I never, and I mean never, buy school pictures—and I absolutely don’t feel bad about it.

Let’s journey back to my 1980s childhood. Picture day was a huge deal, but even more important was the day our packages arrived. We’d take the white-with-clear-window folders home to our parents, who would get out their best scissors and carefully cut out the photos.

Then there was that magical moment when we were handed several of the tiniest photos called mini wallets. (Why were they so tiny?) The next day, we furiously and excitedly traded those photos with our friends, sometimes signing the backs with our multicolored pens. Ah, nostalgia. But it’s not the 1980s or ’90s anymore.

Today, there’s little reason to purchase our own kids’ picture packages. Well, there is one good reason to cough up a bunch of your hard-earned dollars—and that’s parental guilt. Somehow, we’ve convinced ourselves that we’re obligated to buy our kiddo’s photos—no matter how terrible they are.

Related: Mom Guilt—from One Full-Time Working Mom to Another

Then we have to display that classic 5×7 or 8×10 in a frame, in our home, for almost no one to ever see—ever. That is, if the photos even make it into a frame. Let’s be real. Most of us throw the pics into a to-be-dealt-with-later pile that is never actually dealt with.

The solution to this wasteful purchase is quite simple: Just don’t do it. Don’t purchase the gold package. Who needs 57 photos of their kid, plus the kid’s face on a pillow and two (bonus) keychains? Don’t talk yourself into the smallest package—which is never less than $30 for a mere four prints that we agreed you wouldn’t be hanging up anyway. Don’t be tempted by a “moderate” package, which will set you back about $75.

That money is better spent on clothes for your kids, lunch food, school supplies, or even splurge items for yourself. Pay to put gas in your car or put it toward a medical bill instead. There’s no rule that says you have to take out a second mortgage on your house or delay paying your rent just to buy your children’s school photos.

The reality is that many of us have multiple children. Even the cheapest school photo package, multiplied by two, three, or four (or more) adds up—fast. Not only are you forking over a lot of cash, but you’re buying items that will likely go unused and unappreciated.

Stop and think for a moment. What are you going to do with those photos, besides keep them in the envelope and shove them in a drawer? You’ll pull them out, years from now, and hand them over to your adult kid, who will, in turn, store them somewhere. Can we all agree on how silly this is?

My own parents recently handed over all of my leftovers—and you know what I did with them? Buried them somewhere I don’t even remember. Because what am I going to do with a 4×6 of my sixth-grade photo—the one where I cut my own bangs the night before and have a look of middle school torture on my face? That stack of photos will never see the light of day.

I get that many moms feel photo-guilt due to affordability. They think that other moms are buying photos, so they have to as well. But if you’re in this camp and your budget is already strained, I want you to know that not everyone buys the photos. I swear.

You aren’t a bad mom for rejecting the ridiculously overpriced packages. In fact, by deciding to spend your money on necessities instead of frivolous extras, you’re teaching your children financial responsibility. You should be applauding—not berating—yourself.

Now, if you’re a mom who adores your child’s awkward smile and cowlick-filled hair and you simply cannot pass up the photo with the customized background, I’m not throwing shade. It’s your money, it’s your home, and it’s your kid. Plus, there’s that rare situation when your child’s pose, outfit, or facial expression is so hysterical, you just have to purchase the pics. That’s absolutely fine. If you want to buy the custom photo blanket with your kid’s mug plastered all over it—you do you.

As for everyone else, if you’re on the fence about what to do, ask yourself a few questions. One, why do you want to order these photos at this time? Two, how many pics do you actually need? Three, what are you going to do with them—for real—once they arrive? If you don’t have a designated person or place for them and you’re only ordering out of guilt, do you really need to click the purchase button?

I have yet to order school photos, and my four kids simply don’t care. They know that it’s not the norm in our family, and they are perfectly content with the yearbook they receive every May. No mini wallets, school-photo-on-a-coffee-cup, or packet of prints necessary.

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Former FBI Agent Shares Back-to-School Safety Dos & Don’ts

by Christina Marfice

A former FBI agent shares the steps she takes to keep her own daughter as safe as possible

Back-to-school season is in full swing. And while kids are concerned about homework, whether their teacher will be strict, and which friends will be in their class, parents have a whole different set of worries to think about—especially in the U.S., where sending your child to school is, heartbreakingly, not nearly as safe as it should be. That’s why one mom, who used to work as an FBI agent, is sharing some safety tips that parents will want to keep in mind as the new school year starts.

Tracy Walder’s TikTok video is going viral because it’s full of practical safety tips for the day and age we live in.

@theunexpectedspy

With the school year quickly approaching, i wanted to share some things i do to keep my kiddo safe! #fbiagent #specialagents #schoolsafety #schoolsafetymatters #schoolsafetyfirst #kidsafetytips #kidsafety

♬ original sound – Tracy Walder

The first tip is that Walder never puts her daughter’s name on any of her school supplies where it’s visible to a stranger.

“I think initials are fine, and if you want, you can put it on the inside of their backpack because I know these things get confused and tossed everywhere. But if you put it on the outside of their backpack, that is something that strangers can see and can refer to your child by that name and perhaps make them feel comfortable,” she says.

The next tip is to never put personal information on her daughter’s backpack, instead helping her memorize important information like phone numbers.

“Since the age of three, we’ve been really drilling into our daughter’s head to memorize our phone number, my cell phone number, and so she does have that memorized,” Walder says. “But if your kid doesn’t, I get it, it’s really hard.”

While many parents turn to smartwatches or phones as an alternative, giving them a way to contact and track their child’s location, Walder says she chooses not to let her daughter have a phone or smartwatch just yet. Instead, she keeps an air tag in her daughter’s backpack, and when they go to a crowded place, like a theme park, she has her wear one on a watch band on her wrist.

“It’s just something to think about if you want an extra layer of security,” she says.

The last issue Walder talks about is one that parents already spend a lot of time grappling with: social media. She says she has two profiles: one public and one private.

“Again, it’s people’s personal choice whether or not they want to share pictures of their children but even on your private account something to think about is not posting the location of your child’s school because you never know who is going to be able to see that information,” she explains.

Walder’s advice is good, but you don’t necessarily need two different social media accounts. For parents who want to share special moments with friends and family without making it a public display, there are private photo-sharing apps like Tinybeans (you can learn more and download here!). The secure platform puts parents in total control of who sees and interacts with photos and videos of their kids.

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How I’ve Managed My Newfound Freedom as My Kids Become More Independent

By Alison Gutterman

I’m a professional ride-share driver. OK, not really—I just have the joy of whisking teenage daughters from one obligation or function to another like an unpaid cabbie. It’s the reality everyone warned me would happen.

Spoiler alert: They were right. Here’s the thing, though: It’s not all bad. It’s just very strange.

Again, I expected this experience of playing a taxi driver. But what I couldn’t prepare for was the unexpected upshot—time. With both of my girls involved in more activities at school and with friends, I’ve had more time to fill than ever before. And before you assume that I must be kicking my heels up for happiness, I must admit that undergoing this micro version of “empty nesting” has been unusually challenging.

I Found Myself with Too Much Time on My Hands

What’s so challenging about having broad chunks of time? They’re hard to fill, at least at first. For one thing, your parent friends with younger kids can’t get together on the weekends. They’re still knee-deep in full-time obligations. See, when you have little kids, you adjust to having no spare time. You barely have privacy, including in the bathroom. Then one day, your children graduate into adolescence, and you find yourself taking a backseat to Snapchat videos, a favorite song (that you can’t stand), and best friends.

As your kids retreat into their own lives, you’re confronted with returning to your own.

Suddenly, you don’t know yourself anymore, and you don’t know how you got to this new place. It occurs to you that your kids will likely leave in a few years for college. However, they need more than a modicum of independence right away. And when you allow them to have independence, you inevitably get time in exchange. It’s a peculiar trade-off.

Little by little, I’ve come to a realization faced by all parents: To my kids, I’m not that important anymore. Obviously, they haven’t read the Harvard University research indicating that adolescents do better academically, socially, and emotionally when their moms and dads stay involved as parents. This is why I continue to pay attention—even though they want me to be seen and not heard.

Making Use of the Time You’re Given

Ultimately, I’ve come to see my extra time as an opportunity for me to make changes that will be good for me and my children. It’s also a chance for reflection. As part of that reflection, I have advice if you’re in the same boat (or boarding it soon) and want to feel productive and fulfilled in your newfound free time:

1. Refuse some of the free time you’re being offered.
Your children think they don’t need you—but they do! Rather than allowing them to do what they want and scroll through TikTok all day, hold on to the reins a little longer. For instance, insist that you have at least one meal together each day. In our busy household, that can mean anything from eating breakfast as a family or setting aside time for a late dinner so we can reconnect. Even though your kids might act like this is a pain, they’ll benefit from the extra time to commune as a family.

2. Expect your newfound time to come in chunks.
Sometimes, your free time won’t feel so free. Case in point: When one of my children has to be at an event for a few hours, I don’t always have time to run back home after dropping them off. I have to make sure to plan ahead so I can make effective use of that interim time. I might run errands. I might exercise. I might listen to podcasts (Brené Brown is a favorite). The key is having options. If you’re a voracious reader, keep a couple of books in your car. You can grab one and catch up on self-education or even entertainment. Otherwise, you’ll remain bored and feel like you’re losing your “me” time.

3. Try something you never made time for before.
Pickleball: The mere thought of it used to send my nonsporty mind spinning. Yet I’ve taken it up and actually like it. Now, I’m in a league and pick up games with people outside the league. I’ll never become a pickleball champion, but taking up the sport has opened me up to a social realm I never knew before.

My older teenage daughter is mortified, but I bought an extra racket in case she decides to join me. (She plays a little tennis, so you never know what the future might hold.) The point is that you have no excuses for not stretching outside your comfort zone. Do something new, no matter what it is.

4. Add more individual ‘us’ time with your kids.
Let’s say you have one older and one younger child. Take some of the time you no longer spend with your older child and focus on the younger one. Maybe you take a walk together or just go shopping for school supplies. You never know what subjects of conversation might arise. After all, some deep talks spring from mundane, everyday discussions. Be open to listening and learning. Oh, and make excuses to be around your older child, too. My high schooler is driving and frequently surprises me by bringing up weighty topics when we’re on the open road. Keep some of your free time unoccupied so that you can be present when it matters.

Your kids need to fly. They need to fail. And they need to hand back all the time they used to take up in your week. It’s up to you to figure out the best way to get back to “play” after years spent hitting the pause button. Don’t fret, though. In no time, you’ll be complaining again that you have, well, no time.

Alison Gutterman is the president and CEO of Jelmar, the family-owned cleaning products manufacturer of CLR and Tarn-X products. She began her career at Jelmar in 1993 without a title or a desk, and she was named president in 2007. She balances work with parenthood as a single mother of two children.

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Parents Mad Over Schools Sending ‘Communal’ Supply Lists Need to Get a Grip

by Christina Marfice

Some parents are fuming about communal school supplies, and is this really what we should be focusing on?

The latest TikTok trend isn’t a fun dance or a delicious snack. It’s parents being completely unhinged over something ridiculous, and can we all please just agree right now to not only stop doing this but also to roast the parents who do? There are a lot of parents making videos and leaving comments because they’re big mad about communal school supplies, and wow, when we say there are more important things to worry about!

Look, this is a pretty common way of doing things. Many schools send out their supply lists asking parents to buy the list of pencils, markers, and glue sticks. Then, on the first day of school, they collect all the supplies and hang on to them all, distributing them to the kids as needed or putting them out only for specific activities. This works for a few different reasons: for one, it’s great for kids to learn to share. And two, kids are great at losing their belongings, and this makes sure their supplies last all year.

@thebossyhouse

What communal supplies mean! #schoolsupplies #backtoschool #primeday

♬ original sound – Julie 🌟Systems Gal

But of course, some parents simply can’t see the logic. In the video above, the comments section turned into a dumpster fire of angry parents who wanted their kids to have their own special, private property. One mom even wrote this gem: “I’m happy to provide extra for the community but my child’s things are her f***ing things! Sorry you’re poor but I’m not. Die mad and get f***ed!”

Oof. That prompted a follow-up from the mom in the original video, who explained the repercussions for kids who have “crazy, difficult” parents like that.

@thebossyhouse

Replying to @Meep you might think you’re getting your way, but your child is currently being protected by her teacher from your disruptive behavior #backtoschool #schoolsupplies

♬ original sound – Julie 🌟Systems Gal

“Kids who have difficult parents who tell everybody to F off, who are disruptive, who come in and scream yell and have to have everything be different for their special kid—those parents are difficult and those kids know they have difficult parents,” she explained. “They have special deals with their teachers not to bother their crazy mom. Your kid wants to be a part of the school community. She wants to use the crayons that her table group shares. She wants to use the glue sticks that the teacher hands out instead of going to her backpack in the other room to get her personalized glue stick. The reason her sparkly pencil lasts all year is cause she’s embarrassed by her sparkly pencil because most kids don’t have sparkly pencils.”

In other words, parents like this need to get a grip. Is helping provide supplies for your kid’s classmates really worth getting upset over? You know what else you help provide for other people’s kids? Literal schools. Ever heard of taxes?

@enikkig

♬ original sound – Erica Nicole

So parents, if your kid’s school sends out a communal supply list, take a breath and buy the glue sticks. It’s all going to be OK.

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