If you’ve been putting off the day when you clear the clutter from your kids’ room, it’s time to take action. Tackle your kids’ bedroom or playroom—the spaces that require daily work to keep clean—with a real plan of attack. We asked the experts to weigh in and offer tips on how to clear the clutter and keep things organized (for real). From prepping for the big day to what you need to toss out, here’s our guide on how to clean out your kids’ room.

How to Prep for the Day You Clear the Clutter

1. Make a plan.

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A good way to start is to identify what you want to accomplish while cleaning. Are there a lot of old toys that can be given away to a friend or sold at a garage sale? Does your kid need more space for books? Write down the tasks you want to tackle, and you’ll feel better about the job.

2. Start where you are.
It’s the secret motivational boost for what can feel like a daunting task. As contributor Jennifer Landis recommends, any spring-cleaning project should start with one room, and look—you’ve got your kid’s room already picked out. Whether you tackle an all-purpose bedroom or have a designated playroom, grab your “to keep,” “to donate,” and “to toss” bags, and get going!

3. Move out.
If it’s been a while since you’ve vacuumed under that epic fort in the corner, it’s time to move things around—or at least to the middle of the room. It’s not only the best way to clean out nooks and crannies, but you’ll be more mindful of what you bring back in.

Related: The Secrets Professional Organizers Use to Stay Sane & Clutter-Free

What to Toss While You’re Cleaning

1. Random tiny toys.

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All those little plastic toys your kids get while cruising the petite party circuit? If it hasn’t found a place of honor in your kid’s play rotation yet, toss it.

2. The last of the baby gear.
Do you still have a nursing pillow in the closet? How about an activity gym or a Bumbo seat? If you’re done adding to your family, it may finally be time to pass these on to newer mamas or donate to those in need. And upcycle! Add flair to formula or diaper wipe containers for extra storage or paint those baby food containers for a color wheel crayon organizing system. Check out more clever ways to upcycle old baby gear.

3. Anything broken.
No matter what project you’ve undertaken, little feels better than being on a roll, so start with easy toss-ables, such as anything broken. That play purse that lost its handle. Those three missing parts that don’t add up to anything. Crayon stubs you know you’ll never melt into little DIY gifts. Clear all that clutter and enjoy the immediate breathing room.

4. Stuffies that aren’t lovies.
We’ll admit it, this one is going to be a battle, but if your little hoarder is old enough to rise to the task without suddenly growing inseparable from each stuffie you attempt to discard, then this presents a wonderful opportunity to donate those in good condition.

5. Too-tiny clothes and shoes.
Kids grow fast in the early years. Before we know it, the pants are too short and the shoes are tight. Take honest stock of what your kid wears (oftentimes it’s a few favorite outfits), and purge what’s outgrown, stained, or simply not your kid’s style. You can even go the capsule wardrobe route, check out our tips on how to make it happen here.

6. Odd socks. 
It’s a mystery as to where they all go, but we do know that socks love to disappear. Accept the fact that, for some reason, they’re gone, and toss the solo sock. You’ll have more space in your drawers and it’ll make laundry day much more pleasant.

7. The endless piles of paper.
Royal crowns from birthdays gone by? Notebooks long ago scribbled in? Coloring books of yesteryear? How about all those school Valentines or party favors? Take a quick flip through for anything indicative of early artistic genius, then recycle, recycle, recycle.

8. Outdated wall decor
Have you changed your preschooler’s wall art since you set up the nursery? Every few years, it’s nice to switch things up. If you’re still planning to add to your family, put the sweet baby giraffe print in storage with the Rock ‘n’ Play, and update the walls. Etsy has thousands of affordable printables, or you can clear wall space for an educational mural from Wallsauce. Here are other great ways to design a kids’ room that grows with them.

9. Ripped, broken books and board books (if your kids are beyond the baby stage).
Like little bodies outgrow clothes, big minds and imaginations outgrow books. If your bookworm’s shelves are bursting, it’s time to save a few sentimental titles and donate the rest.

How to Keep It Clean After You Clear the Clutter

1. Pick up regularly.

Now that most of the hard work is over, save time in the future by going through this clean-up process regularly, especially after birthdays and holidays, as NEAT Method recommends. Read on for other great pro tips and secrets to organizing success from moms.

2. Don’t micromanage the small stuff.
Toys and parts often migrate under the couch, appear underfoot, and end up right on your last nerve. While these Shopkins and snap-ins may be tiny, they need a big home. Rather than spend time every day re-assigning them to individual containers, consider one big bin or this fun Swoop Bag, which also works wonders for LEGO, train sets, and play food. The best part? Clean-up is a cinch, even for mini-mess makers.

3. Don’t go overboard on storage.
It’s a little counterintuitive, but hear us out. We are all for stylish, sensible ways to organize—and storage solutions are certainly keys to a clean room—but any additional containers are bound to fill up. Work with what you have to minimize excess—the answer isn’t always to store it.

4. Save the sentimental stuff.
Parents, we are one of the biggest reasons it’s so hard to clear out what our kids have outgrown—physically and developmentally. It’s emotional! We remember when he walked off to his first day of kindergarten in that sweatshirt or that toy dinosaur she carried everywhere for a year. Select choice pieces for cool and surprising ways to repurpose the sentimental stuff.

5. Upcycle “new” toys.
With everything streamlined, the last thing you or your budget want to do is rush to fill it up with new stuff. The next time the kids beg for the latest, get creative! Sand-filled juice boxes make for awesome stacking blocks and corks morph into stamps. There are loads of great reasons why you should be upcycling anyway.

6. Use the “out of sight, out of mind” method. Have a place to stash the toys they haven’t played with in a while and give yourself a time limit. If the time has passed and no one has asked for it, you can donate or toss it. Get more on how to make this work here.

7. Let (some) clutter go.
At the end of the day, it’s a kid’s room. It should look like a kid lives, plays, and imagines there, which means extra stuff is sometimes just part of the fun, messy wonder of it all. So relax, and remember that the next time clutter accumulates.

You can even find classic musicals on this list of Netflix movie codes

Between original content and new seasons of kids’ shows and movies that seem to debut daily, it can be hard to wade through it all to find what you really want to watch—especially when the platform doesn’t make it especially easy to search by specific categories. If you need a little help finding the good stuff, these secret Netflix movie codes are about to make your life a whole lot easier. Read on for more!

So, how do you use these Netflix movie codes? To get started, simply copy and paste this URL into your browser bar: www.netflix.com/browse/genre/CODE Just replace “CODE” with one of the numerical codes from the list below to view all the titles in the category you want.

Here are some of the helpful Netflix sub-genre codes just for kids and family content:

Kid & Family Movies

  • Children & Family Movies (783)
  • Children & Family Movies based on real-life (4927)
  • Children & Family Movies from the 1980s (1951)
  • Exciting Children & Family Movies (2381)
  • Family Features (51056)
  • Feel-good Children & Family Movies (4505)
  • Feel-good Children & Family Movies from the 1980s (4355)
  • Goofy Children & Family Movies (355)
  • Biographical Children & Family Movies (2478)
  • Sentimental Children & Family Movies (4942)
  • Sports Children & Family Movies (453)
  • Visually-Striking Imaginative Children & Family Movies (2480)
  • British Children & Family Movies (2473)

Movies Based on Literature

  • Comic Book and Superhero Movies (10118)
  • Imaginative movies based on children’s books (2253)
  • Movies based on children’s books (10056)
  • Dramas based on children’s books (1129)
  • Sentimental Movies based on children’s books (3869)

Anime

  • Comedy Anime (9302)
  • Drama Anime (452)
  • Anime Series (6721)

Movies by Genre

  • Dinosaurs (67687)
  • Dramas for ages 8 to 10 (1267)
  • Princesses (67624)
  • Goofy Animal Tales (904)
  • Animal Tales (5507)
  • Classic Musicals (32392)
  • Classic Comedies (31694)
  • Nature & Science Documentaries (2595)

Teen Viewing

  • Feel-good Teen Movies (2548)
  • Teen Action & Adventure (3754)
  • Teen Comedies (3519)
  • Teen Coming-of-age Dramas (4295)
  • Teen Coming-of-age Movies (2916)
  • Teen Dramas (9299)
  • Teen Independent Comedies (4441)
  • Teen Movies (2340)
  • Teen Sports Comedies (945)
  • Teen Sports Movies (3410)
  • Inspiring Teen Movies (1349)

TV & Kids’ Fitness

  • Kids’ Music (52843)
  • Education for Kids (10659)
  • Kids’ TV (27346)
  • TV Cartoons (11177)
  • TV Comedies for ages 5 to 7 (4887)
  • TV Shows for ages 11 to 12 (4293)

Check out the complete, utterly massive list of sub-genres and Netflix secret codes here.

Related: The Best New Family Shows & Movies on Netflix in April

 

 

Christina Milian and partner Matt Pokora are parents again! The singer recently announced the birth of her third child—a baby boy.

This is the second son for Milian and Pokora, who are already parents to 14-month-old Isaiah. Milian also has an 11-year-old daughter, Violet Madison, with ex-husband The Dream.

The new mama-times-three posted a snuggly post-partum pic on Instagram, captioning the mommy-son photo, “Kenna, Welcome to the world baby boy! Wow, What an adventure we’ve been on since the day he was conceived! I thank God everyday for blessing me with his super active energy (wonder where he gets it from? And now to meet our healthy baby boy?! Thankful. Blessed. Now it’s party of 5 baby!”

Milian continued with a sweetly sentimental shout-out to Pokora, “Thank you my @mattpokora for being the best partner/dad/ best friend a woman could ask for. You’re a king in my eyes.” Pokora also shared a beautiful baby pic on IG in black and white, adding his newborn news in French.

Congrats to Milian, Pokora and their new party of five!

—Erica Loop

Featured photo: Shutterstock

 

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When my son was born I was constantly told to enjoy this phase, it all passes so fast. I would smile and nod, but really wanted to ask: do you even remember what having an infant is like? Time—especially the hours between 3-5 a.m. when it was just him and I nestled on the couch—felt like molasses. I was nursing around the clock and running on the adrenaline of new motherhood.

 

Those early days turned into weeks and those weeks turned into months. And, somehow we’re at a year. After 12 months of long days, even longer nights and plenty of laughter and tears from both of us, I am starting to grasp what those women were trying to tell me.

 

So to preserve all the glory, sentiment and nuances of one year, here is exactly how I felt at 365 days of motherhood.

 

One year is:

 

…encouraging their risk-taking while keeping them safe (um, please do not try to climb over the back of the couch!)

 

…leading by example. Broccoli is delicious!

 

…obsessing over sleep and nap schedule (guilty as charged).

 

…still a little in awe when he says, mom. Wait, that’s me!

 

…feeling a bit relieved when they’re off to daycare, but then feeling guilty about your feeling of relief.

 

…accepting that this mom guilt thing is real.

 

…so many firsts every.single.day.

 

…wondering what sort of mother you will become, and what “st‌yle” of parenting will work best for your kid.

 

…excitement about parenting and making decisions with your partner because it’s so awesome to do new things together.

 

…staying up past their bedtime mindlessly scrolling on my phone because finally…alone time!

 

…reading all day, every day, usually the same books again and again and again.

 

….hiding their favorite book for an hour because you just can’t deal with reading Dear Zoo one more time.

 

…sleep regressions because teething, sickness, travel, (fill in your own blank).

 

…middle of the night snuggles—sometimes for longer than you know you should—because you know they won’t want to cuddle you forever.

 

…summoning every ounce of patience stored inside you.

 

…accepting that whatever good or challenging thing is currently happening that it’s just a phase.

 

…gawking at acne-covered teenagers at the grocery store because you know they’ll be that age someday, and it’s totally bizarre to imagine.

 

…getting sentimental every month when you pack away clothes they outgrew.

 

…actually realizing you have a sentimental side.

 

…accepting the ridiculous amount of stuff you’ve accumulated.

 

…the thrill of watching them learn something new.

 

…scrolling through old photos from just a few months ago when it’s 11 p.m. and you should be in bed sleeping.

 

…narrating everything in sight because your pediatrician said this is the year of cognitive and emotional development. And, you are still green enough to listen to everything your pediatrician—and google—says.

 

…front-pack carrier snuggles.

 

…wondering if those under eye bags will ever go away.

 

…embracing the annoying singing toys because it brings them so much joy.

 

…the deep belly laugh only an unabashed baby can have.

 

…buying new, cute clothes even though you know they’ll wear them for (maybe) two months.

 

…giving them new foods and watching half of it end up on the floor…or with the dog.

 

…being excited about their future.

 

…saying yes to things even though you know it’s going to be hard with a squirmy kid.

 

…rare nights out without them where you love your freedom (Wine! Conversation! A real sit down meal!) but still obsessively check the nest cam.

 

…resisting screen time but then relenting when you need them to sit still for 5 minutes.

 

…realizing they got their dance moves from you. Sorry, kid.

 

…picking your battles.

 

…a year’s worth of sleep deprivation and wondering at 4 a.m. if you could—or even should—ever do this again.

 

…trying to remember all the mundane daily stuff because one day it won’t seem so mundane.

 

Erin is the Head of Editorial at Red Tricycle and Tinybeans. She's an expert in digital content strategy, specializing in local, lifest‌yle and family-friendly content. She lives in the Bay Area with her two kids, husband and fur baby.

Mother’s day is right around the corner and it’ll be celebrated a few days from now. This is the best day to take a day off from your busy schedule and treat your mother the best things she deserves in life for all the hard work she does for your family. It’s also the best opportunity to bond together and shares moments with her in whatever ways you wanted it.

For most people, celebrating Mother’s Day isn’t about having glamorous and gigantic celebrations. It’s being able to show your presence to your mother expressing how you truly value her as your mom. In fact, spending time eating together in a dinner and talk about things that would both make you and your mom giggle over a dish and a toast of wine is a wonderful way of commemorating her special day.

That said, having a perfect blend of wine is the best way to sit down with your mother, talk about your life’s sweetest moments, and plan about how’s your future going to look like. As Mother’s Day about to come in three days from now, surprise your mom with her favorite dish in a dinner and a bottle of wine.  This is the best way to show your love to her in such a way that you both can share the best moments of your lives.

So, if you would like to know which bottle of wine best surprises her that exudes the sweetest taste, here are the most loved holiday wines you can grab without a hitch so you and your mom can have the best of both worlds celebrating the annual Mother’s Day.

2016 Sette Ponti Crognolo

A dinner date in your backyard, a candle lighted centerpiece, and a toast of Sette Ponti Crognolo wine deems the most exhilarating and sweetest celebration of your Mom’s day. This wine complements with any kind of dish you serve on the table as it exudes a long lasting flavorful finish.

Besides, the aroma of cherries, blueberries, and rosewood comes is a full-bodied flavor with very focused tannin content. This is the best wine you can toast with your mother while having a great conversation with her. The taste of this wine makes you even want to drink more as you go along and talk with each other.

2018 Miraval Rose

If you want a little emotional and sentimental moments with your mom, a toast of Miraval Rose is perfect. This wine offers a fresh and clean Rose flavor that does not overwhelm your palate. It is a combination of white flowers, citrus, strawberry, and raspberry which comes in crisp acidity.

This bottle of wine creates a great bonding moment with you and your mom as you might emotionally talk about the best and worst moments of your life.

Veuve Clicquot NV

It’s a bottle of sparkling champagne wine and every mom needs it every Mother’s Day. This also one of the famous champagne wines that come in a subtle flavor. It’s a beautifully bottled champagne that comes in a gold label. They are finely crafted using first-class grapefruits which are also finely crafted by every vineyard.

Moreover, it has a very consistent taste and once it reaches your palate, you will feel the sweetness of the wine as it explodes inside your mouth, Truly an amazing wine choice to celebrate this coming Mother’s Day.

2014 Mt. Eden Cabernet Sauvignon Estate

If you want a different Mother’s Day celebration with your mom, go and choose a vintage wine. The Mt. Eden Cabernet Sauvignon Estate is one of the finest and grandest vintage wine that comes in a fabulous ensemble of embers, spices, subtle vanilla oak, cream, and selected aromatic flavors.

This wine offers a seamless texture of red tannins. Take note that Cabernet Sauvignon is one of the best wine flavors ever produced in Bordeaux and that having this kind of wine on Mother’s Day is an optimum satisfying experience you and your mom can get.

2015 Ramey Chardonnay Rochioli Vineyard

This is one of the finest line-ups of wines you can find for a Mother’s Day celebration. The Ramey Chardonnay Rochioli Vineyard wine produces a salty, crystalline, and toasty taste. This deems a unique flavor compared to other wines you find in the market. It is composed of exquisite elements such as orchard fruits and Montrachet extract that comes in full-bodied texture.

Aside from that, your Mom will definitely love this if you give this as a present because it is not too acidic and comes in a great finish. Lastly, this wine has a beautiful concentration that even if you and your mom consumes about two or three glasses, you still feel light as if you were not both drinking.

I am a dad to a super cool five years old boy. we lived in India, where we enjoy the beach and summer activities like taking photos, food, and football and I love cooking.

What happens when you are considering divorce (whether in your head or out loud) and February rolls around? If it is still all internal thoughts, you may still go to the card store and spend an extra half hour finding a card that does not overpromise love forever or make claims of soulmates. You may not want to be obvious in your questioning of the marriage, but also not insincere about making promises in a signed Hallmark document that you are not looking to keep.

If you are feeling bad and do not want your change of heart to be obvious, do be careful what you write in that card. I have had clients who save Valentine’s Day cards and use them as evidence against their ex during divorce! It can be that much more hurtful if you write about undying love on February 14th and then a week later you are serving divorce papers. And if you the word “divorce” has been bandied around the dinner table, then it feels even worse to send a “I will die by your side” card and you may just opt for a Shoebox funny card that makes fun of his lack of ability to fix the dishwasher.  What about if your spouse takes it upon themself to use the day for a grand romantic gesture as a way to bring you back into the marriage? Who knows—it could work! If the reasoning you may be planning your exit is due to a lack of communication and effort on your spouse’s part, Valentine’s Day could give them the excuse to address what is lacking in the marriage.

If your spouse does not take the opportunity that Feb 14th gives (Hallmark or not—it is a great day to show love), then it may be your final straw. And of course, if you learn that their Valentine’s Day love is misdirected…well…that could be your answer as well. When in the first stage of divorce—the deciding stage—Valentine’s Day can be the day that makes you or breaks you.

Valentine’s Day during Divorce

Now let’s assume that you already know what the inside of your divorce attorney’s office looks like when Valentine’s Day rolls around. Under most circumstances, you nor your soon-to-be-ex acknowledge the holiday to each other.

If you are in the sad stage of the divorce process, you may have a sentimental exchange with your ex, reminding them of happier Valentine’s Days of the past, which depending on where your spouse is in the emotional rollercoaster of divorce will be responded to with a sad emoji face or ignored altogether.

If you are in the angry stage of the divorce process, there may be bitter and sarcastic text exchanges with your friends about sending black roses or chocolates filled with toothpaste (cures his gross halitosis). There are thoughts of sending edible thongs and leopard skin handcuffs (with or without the keys) to his conservative new girlfriend or her new boyfriend claiming that is what she is into. Obviously, these should be just fun fantasies and not acted upon (I am not looking to give anyone any good ideas).

It is perfectly normal to acknowledge that while Valentine’s Day was meaningless to you in the past, during a divorce, it can be an emotional day. Just be sure to keep yourself in check as your divorce is not over and you do not want your impetuous antics on Valentine’s day to affect the resolution of your case.

Valentine’s Day after Divorce

So, divorce papers are signed off by the judge and you now can file taxes separately.  Whether this is a good thing or a bad thing, Valentine’s Day may still not be just like any other day. You may have accepted the divorce, but you still may feel the old feelings of anger and sadness creep up on February 14th. The hope is that as you have more and more years of distance between you and the divorce, those feelings will lessen and the day goes back to just being a Tuesday.

However, the real hope is that you have possibly found someone else who will once again be making the dinner reservations a month in advance looking to impress. Or that you will be at Hallmark reading cards and having a hard time deciding which one because they are all so perfect for your new love. I have seen it happen.

Jacqueline Newman is a divorce lawyer and matrimonial law expert. As managing partner of a top-tier 5th Avenue Manhattan law firm focused exclusively on divorce, her practice runs the gamut from prenups for high net worth people contemplating marriage to high conflict matrimonial litigation in dissolutions. 

A New Christmas Tree Tradition

My husband and I started dating after the new year and we spent the spring, summer, and fall, falling in love and doing all the things that newly dating people do, unaware that our differences in holiday traditions were about to collide.

As the holidays approached, we started to talk about logistics. We knew we wanted to spend them together but how? Would we spend them at my parent’s house? Would we celebrate some way in our apartments in New York City? And what did he mean when he said he was raised Jewish, never had a Christmas tree before and wasn’t sure he could, as part of his identity and traditions, be comfortable with having a tree in his home? That last question (okay three questions really) was a biggie. And while I wasn’t naive enough to know that not everyone grew up with a Christmas tree, what I couldn’t answer was whether I’d be willing to give up the Christmas tree as a part of my holiday tradition.

My favorite memories of Christmas were of our real Christmas tree—decorating it with all the handmade ornaments I made over the years in elementary school and fighting with my brother and sisters over who got to put the angel on the top. There was something magical about a fresh Christmas tree. Not only is it the centerpiece of the season, but I have always loved how a tree contained all the memories of a family—from a meaningful ornament to an upcycled baby glove—it was a visual storybook sitting in the living room! And each night during the holidays, before going to bed, I would sit in the dark, with only the lights of the Christmas tree on to illuminate the room, mesmerized by the glittering stories our tree would tell.

So when the question came up about having a Christmas tree and what it meant to me, came up, I wasn’t prepared to answer. I needed to think about how I felt about having—or not having—a tree. I needed to figure out if I could live without a Christmas tree, as part of my inherited family tradition, and if not, would it be a deal-breaker between me and the person I felt was destined to be my husband?

Later that week, Blake told me he had a surprise for me. We walked all over the East Village that night. It felt like we were going in circles, but I didn’t care—the city was in high holiday mode, and it was nice to walk around and enjoy the decorations and the festive atmosphere pouring out of restaurants and cafes. Blake suddenly stopped at a corner full of Christmas trees, all lined up and wrapped in red netting, ready to be taken home. The pine-fresh smell was as raw and strong as if we were in the middle of a pine-filled forest. I wanted to bury my nose in those trees, inhaling the memories of holidays past. He turned to me and said, “I may have never had a Christmas tree before, and I may not be ready for one of these six-footers, but I would love to buy our first of many trees together.”

I threw my arms around him and was so happy he could foresee a new tradition in his life—that we could forge our own unique path to create a new tradition for ourselves and our future family. And while the tree may not look like the one I grew up with—and certainly not like anything he grew up with—it would certainly be our own.

We now have our own sentimental ornaments, both purchased and made, and Blake has gotten pretty handy at keeping that tree looking fresh by watering it daily. And I wouldn’t wish it to be any other way.

Now through Christmas, share a photo of your family’s REAL Christmas tree memory-making experience for a chance to win $1,000!

Editor’s note: Andie and her husband, Blake kept the Christmas tree tradition going, now with two kids! Here are a few snapshots from their Christmas celebrations as a family:

 

A lifest‌yle writer whose work can be seen in Red Tricycle, Money.com, Livestrong.com and Redbook. When she’s not checking out new events, museums, and restaurants to keep her and her kids entertained, she can be found wandering around flea markets and thrift stores looking for cool vintage finds.

Marie Kondo, the famous tidying expert known for bringing joy while reducing clutter and chaos to homes around the world has stepped into a new role recently—children’s book author. The mom of two has written a charming book with illustrator Salina Yoon, called “Kiki & Jax: The Life-Changing Magic of Friendship,”  and it cleverly tells the story of two friends who overcome personal obstacles to learn the art and joy of friendship. See our exclusive interview below.

1. What do you see that is missing or getting in the way when it came to children, the art of friendship?

“In “Kiki & Jax,” Kiki’s clutter gets in the way; through tidying, the two learn to really value their friendship. This lesson can apply to anyone—distractions make it difficult to focus on what really matters.”

2. For children who are still resistant to the notion of donating and getting rid of things (even after thanking it and acknowledge they don’t need it any longer), how should parents approach getting rid of clutter with their kids? 

“Children learn by example, so first make sure you have completed your own tidying festival! If you discover something that no longer sparks joy for you, include your children in the process of thanking the item and letting it go. Also, make sure your children understand where their toys belong. By returning items to their homes, children develop an awareness—and ultimately, an appreciation—of what they already possess.”

3. Where did you find inspiration for this book?

“As a parent of two young girls, I’ve observed firsthand the impact that books can have on children. I wrote ‘Kiki & Jax’ as a way to communicate the joy of tidying and friendship to young readers.”

4. What are the biggest obstacles in terms of stuff that you see when it comes to kids?

“Children’s toys seem to multiply and quickly become scattered throughout the house. Designate a set location where each of these toys will be kept and make sure your children are aware of where their toys belong. Then they can assist you with putting them away!”

5. How do you recommend approaching gift-giving holidays and birthdays and the influx of so much stuff? 

“Before I search for a gift, I recall things about my loved one’s lifestyle, work, and interests; I try to imagine what would spark joy based on their personality. I know I’ve found a meaningful gift when I can articulate what aspects I think the recipient will like about it.

My three rules for receiving gifts are:

1. Open immediately.
2. Remove packaging.
3. Start using it right away.

Try out every gift at least once—even those that don’t immediately spark joy. The ability to feel what truly excites you is only gained through experience. If you try it out and intend to keep it, designate a home for the new item, as you’ve done with everything else you own. However, if you try using the item and decide that it doesn’t suit you, thank it and bid it farewell. The true purpose of a present is to be received. When viewed from this perspective, there is no need to feel guilty about parting with a gift that ultimately doesn’t spark joy.”

6. Is there another children’s book in the future?

“Right now, I’m finishing ‘Joy at Work,’ which will be published in spring 2020. This book offers stories, studies and strategies to help you eliminate clutter and make space for work that really matters. I’m also excited to announce the launch of KonMari’s new shop this holiday season. We’ll be offering a collection of items that I use in my everyday life and that spark joy for me!”

7. Any tips for sorting stacks of photos and children’s artwork?

“The order in which you tidy is very important. In the KonMari Method™, you work your way through the categories from easiest to the most difficult because this process allows you to gradually hone your sensitivity to what sparks joy in you. Sentimental items—like photos and artwork—are the last category, so by the time you tackle them, you will have a much clearer sense of joy. While tidying sentimental items, always ask yourself if these items will continue to spark joy as you move forward in your life.”

8. Where do you find inspiration?

“When I am tidying and examining my possessions, I enter a state of deep reflection. Those moments are inspirational for me. My family also provides me with a great deal of inspiration. And nature, of course!”

9. What do you think of the clutter of social media apps like Facebook and Instagram? 

“Technology, like physical clutter, can distract us from what’s truly important. Before applying the KonMari Method™ to your digital life, make sure you’ve already finished tidying your home, which will clear your mind and soul—and hone your decision-making skills. People who have finished tidying their home tend to begin digital tidying on their own initiative.

10. What item gives you the biggest spark of joy and will never throw away?

“The first Mother’s Day card I received from my daughters. My husband helped them make it, with their handprints stamped inside.”

A lifest‌yle writer whose work can be seen in Red Tricycle, Money.com, Livestrong.com and Redbook. When she’s not checking out new events, museums, and restaurants to keep her and her kids entertained, she can be found wandering around flea markets and thrift stores looking for cool vintage finds.

Carina Cansino is one creative mama. The mom from Texas recently tweeted pics of her five-year-old son Gus wearing a back-to-school shirt she designed, and it’s completely genius!

The first day of kindergarten is a moment that, as moms, we all want to remember forever. But sometimes the traditional first day of school photo just isn’t enough. So what can you do to mark this milestone?

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Take a tip from Cansino and create your own first day shirt. The mom dressed her son in a shirt that’s fit for a high school grad—and someday it will. She added 2032 (Gus’s graduation year) to the front and his name to the back. The back also includes a spot for Gus to add his painted handprint each year as he moves from preschool through twelfth grade.

Cansino revealed, to Insider, “I wanted something that my son and I could enjoy not just now, but when he becomes an adult. I’m a sucker for keepsakes and sentimental valuables, so I know this would be perfect.” She went on to say, “I know one day we’ll both look back at all the photos and cherish all the great memories. It’s the best part of being a mom.”

—Erica Loop

Featured photo: CarinaWithA_C_ via Instagram

 

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No parent has ever said that they wished their child brought home more art projects from school. And the struggle on how to contain and control it is real because outside of saving a few sentimental pieces—what do you do with all of it? The name of the game is to try and set-up systems for your little budding Picasso now so you can manage the flow and they can be part of the process. If this sounds all too familiar, read on for a few tips on how to handle it all.  

Create a Space: Set aside a landing zone/display area for art to live. This can be a string with some clips that hold up the pieces, a shelf in a closet or in the den or even a bulletin board but give them a dedicated space to put it all once it comes into the house. This will help you set boundaries on how much comes in and what can stay because once that space is full or the clips are all used decisions about what stays and what goes need to be made. 

Make the Hard Decisions: Decisions can be hard—for you and your kids—so we recommend taking a photo of the sculpture, drawing or painting with your child to help them let go of the physical piece. The process of taking the photo can help with the separation and it gives you something visual to review should you want to look at it later.  

Capturing the Memories: If you want to preserve the art in the long term, consider making a book with your own photos or using the original art itself through a service like PlumPrints or ArtKive. These commemorative books are a fun way to remember that ages and stages of childhood. 

Keep the Keepers: Label the pieces that you decide to keep with the year it was created and place it in a large portfolio like this one for paper art or plastic bin for larger, sculptural pieces. Depending on the volume of art that you decide to archive, you can dedicate a portfolio to just one year or a group of years as follows: Pre-K, K – 4, 5-8, 9-12. But make sure that you do label the individual pieces because it will be a lot more fun to look back if you know what year it was created.  Here are a couple of portfolio storage options: 

Annie Draddy Michelle Manske
Tinybeans Voices Contributor

Michelle Manske and Annie Draddy are organizers and co-founder of Henry & Higby, a professional organizing company in New York City. They spend their time helping individuals and families feel better about their homes and hopefully experience a little peace in their place through the process of getting organized.