Last night was hard for you. I asked you to watch the baby so I could go to bed early. The baby was crying. Wailing, really. I could hear him from upstairs, and my stomach knotted from the sound, wondering if I should come down there and relieve you or just shut the door so I could get some desperately needed sleep. I chose the latter.
You came into the room 20 minutes later, with the baby still frantically crying. You placed the baby in the bassinet and gently pushed it just a few inches closer to my side of the bed, a clear gesture that you were done watching him.
I wanted to scream at you. I wanted to launch an epic fight that very moment. I had been watching the baby and the toddler all damn day. I was going to be waking up with the baby to feed him all damn night. The least you can do is hold him for a couple of hours in the evening so I can attempt to sleep.
Just a few hours of precious sleep. Is that too much to ask?
I know we both watched our parents fulfill the typical mother-father roles growing up. Both our mothers were the primary caretakers and our fathers were relatively hands-off. They were excellent dads, but they weren’t expected to spend a significant amount of time changing diapers, feeding, caring, and tending to the kids. Our mothers were the superwomen who maintained the family dynamics. Cooking, cleaning, and raising the children. Any help from dad was welcome but unexpected.
I see us falling into these family dynamics more and more each day. My responsibility to feed the family, keep the house clean, and take care of the kids is assumed, even as I return to work. I blame myself for most of it, too. I have set the precedent that I can do it. And in truth, I want to. No offense, but I’m not sure I want to know what a week’s worth of dinner would look like with you in charge.
I also see my friends and other moms doing it all, and doing it well. I know you see it, too. If they can manage it, and if our mothers did it so well for us, why can’t I?
I don’t know.
Maybe our friends are playing the part in public and secretly struggling. Maybe our moms suffered in silence for years and now, 30 years later, they simply don’t remember how hard it really was. Or maybe, and this is something I berate myself over every single day, I’m just not as qualified for the job as everyone else. And as much as I cringe just thinking it, I’m going to say it: I need more help.
Part of me feels like a failure for even asking. I mean, you do help. You are an amazing father, and you do a great job with the kids. And besides, this should come easy to me, right? Motherly instincts, no?
But I’m human and running on five hours of sleep and tired as hell. I need you.
In the morning, I need you to get our toddler ready so I can care for the baby and make everyone’s lunches and drink a cup of coffee. And no, getting the toddler ready does not mean plopping him in front of the TV. It means making sure he goes potty, giving him some breakfast, seeing if he wants water, and packing his bag for school.
At night, I need an hour to decompress in bed, knowing our toddler is asleep in his room and the baby is in your care. I know it’s hard to listen to the baby cry. Believe me, I know. But if I can watch and pacify the baby for the majority of the day, you can do it for an hour or two at night. Please. I need you.
On weekends, I need more breaks. Times when I can get out of the house by myself and feel like an individual. Even if it’s just a walk around the block or a trip to the grocery store. And some days when I’ve scheduled swim class and play dates, and it seems like I’ve got it all under control, I need you to offer to lend me a hand. Or suggest I go lie down during the kids’ naptime. Or start putting away the dishes without me suggesting it. I need you.
Lastly, I need to hear you’re grateful for all I do. I want to know that you notice the laundry is done and a nice dinner has been prepared. I want to know you appreciate that I breastfeed at all hours and pump when I’m at work when it would be easier for me to formula feed. I hope you notice that I never ask you to stay home from your networking events and sports activities. As the mom, it’s assumed I’ll be home all the time and always available to care for the kids while you’re out and I feed that assumption by, well, being home all the time.
I know it’s not how our parents did it, and I hate even asking. I wish I could do it all and make it look effortless. And I wish I didn’t need kudos for doing things most people expect from a mom. But I’m waving a white flag and admitting I’m only human. I’m telling you how much I need you, and if I keep going at the pace I’ve been on, I will break. And that would hurt you, the kids, and our family.
Hi! I’m Celeste. I consider myself a relatively new mom with two boys ages 4 and 2. Other titles I go by include: wife, health & wellness coach, marketing guru, avid reader (self-help books are my favorite), writer, travel/adventure seeker and fitness nut.
The other night was “wine night” for a few moms in my neighborhood. We do this every couple of months when we get together for our “PTO meeting” where we stay out too late, pour one too many, and hit the alarm clock more than we should the next morning. The most recent one was last week. I desperately needed a glass of wine and some girl talk, but having a five-week old baby meant that I also desperately need sleep.
Wine or sleep? Wine or sleep? (The struggle is real!)
Then the voice of a good friend came through with some words of wisdom, a piece of mom advice that I always refer back to when I’m stuck in a situation where I really want to do something, but question whether I can fit it all in.
Let me tell you this is one of the best pieces of parenting advice that I ever received. It’s simple. It’s easy. It’s a no-brainer. But for some reason, it’s something that I always had a hard time implementing until recently. Ready for it?!
Say no to things that you may really want to do if it will make your life easier.
Sounds easy, right? Who doesn’t want to make their life easier? I mean we’re told in the workforce to say no all the time. It’ll help advance your career path. It’ll lighten your load. Heck, we say no to our kids all the time! Recently I have even seen books on why it is healthy to say no. But for my type A personality I always feel like I can figure out a way to make it all happen all the while stressing myself in the process—its just my personality. For better or worse I am a people pleaser which makes exercising this “rule” pretty hard at times. It’s hard to turn down things that you or someone in your family really want to do (like go drink some wine down the street).
Truth be told, putting it into action has literally saved me time and sanity. Let me give you some examples…
That birthday party for your kid’s classmate that starts at 7:30 pm when your kid goes to bed at 8 pm. Say no. When you’re invited to somebody’s house for a weekend get-together and you already have two other things to do right before then, say no. When school asks for you to help with volunteering for the next event but you’re not sure you can pick up your other kids and make it there in time, say no. When you get invited to Adele’s concert but you’re not feeling well and coming off a work trip, say no. When you want to catch some zzz’s even though you want some gal time, go for the sleep!
I found that there is always another time for these events, invitations, volunteering, etc. There will always be more birthday parties, get togethers, school fundraisers, and even concerts to attend. Your sanity, health, and time are more important! So do as we teach our kids when it comes to drugs—JUST SAY NO! You’ll thank me for it.
Erin is a working mom of two exploring ways to embrace change and find new hobbies in her search for life outside of Corporate America. She lives in Bucks County Pennsylvania with her husband, two kids, and Boston Terrier. She also loves ice cream and chocolate. A lot.
If you thought sleep training was strictly for babies, think again. Bedtime and middle-of-the-night troubles can continue into the toddler years (and, basically, your kid’s entire childhood) and it usually begins with two words, spoken in a tiny voice you can’t ignore: “I’m scared.” Good luck, parents, because almost nothing is as hard to ignore as those two little words. Not I’m thirsty. Not, I’m hungry. Not, I want another story (because you’ll hear all those, too). Nope, nighttime fears are the ones that break out hearts.
“What’s tricky for parents of young children is that a child’s fears are usually coupled with natural, normal limit-pushing behaviors—stalling the bedtime routine, saying they’re not tired, wanting another sip of water,” says sleep consultant Kim Rogers, whose company, Sleeping Well Consulting, has been helping babies (and parents) sleep through the night since 2016. “Well-meaning parents are caught between wondering if their child is pushing limits like all young children do or if their child is expressing a legitimate fear that needs attention.”
So how do you know when your kiddo really is scared? And how do you show compassion without staying up all night yourself? There’s no shortage of advice online. A quick Reddit search will turn up a multitude of tricks to comfort scared sleepyheads, from using “Monster Spray” and hanging dream catchers to letting siblings sleep together or playing audiobooks as a distraction.
But what is the “right” way? Is there one? We asked experts to weigh in on what to do when your kid is scared at night. Read on to find out more.
First things first: Are they really scared?
Let’s be honest: Don’t we parents just know most of the time? Rogers says that despite a brew of conflicting emotions, parents can usually tell when children are truly scared and when they’re just doing the don’t-wanna-sleep dance.
“If a child has had a nightmare, you can usually put your hand on their chest and you can feel their hearts beating really fast,” Rogers says. But even if you can’t feel a thumping ticker, parents can usually tell if their kid is truly frightened just by the way they’re talking. If they can give you details about what’s scaring them, for instance, it’s usually legit. Experts say to trust your gut.
Stay calm
The best thing parents can do to help soothe a scared kid is to show them that you’re not scared. Be calm and in control. Offer empathy—without making anything a big deal.
“If we’re giving our child the message that being upset is upsetting to us, and therefore, we must make it stop, we end up accidentally creating more fear and anxiety for our child,” Rogers says.
Nix the “Monster Spray”
Despite the cute social media ads and Etsy pages devoted to “Monster Spray” that’ll exterminate scary creatures from your child’s room (while also making it smell delicious), experts say that these sorts of products aren’t a good idea. And that’s because THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS MONSTERS. In effect, you purchasing a professionally packaged product to rid your little’s room of evil only makes them think there might actually be something sinister hiding in the darkness.
“I would not recommend perpetuating the idea that there are monsters or villains or bad guys, because what if you’re not there to spray the monster spray?” says Dr. Whitney Casares, a pediatrician and spokesperson for the American Academy of Pediatrics.
Instead, she suggests saying something like, “You’re scared that there are monsters. You saw a monster on that TV show. Your mind thinks that they’re real, but I’ve been around a really long time and I know there are no monsters.”
Same goes for checking the closet, under the bed, etc.
This one’s a little trickier because if your kid is truly terrified, taking a quick peek in the closets and crevices may offer the peace of mind she needs to fall back asleep. But if it becomes a nightly routine to do a full security sweep of your child’s room, you might be perpetuating those fears. In addition, this sort of nightly ritual can set the stage for more obsessive thinking, Casares says.
Instead, just say something like, “I don’t need to check for monsters because monsters don’t exist.”
You can address shadows
Shadows may seem like nothing to you, but little kids don’t always understand them. So it might help to explain how shadows form (this book may help) and how the things in their room might look on the walls and floors at night.
Don’t get stuck negotiating
Parents need to be calm when talking to their kids about their nighttime fears, Rogers says. While you don’t want to dismiss their emotions, you don’t want to dwell on them either. “Parents get so caught up in talking and negotiating, even with their two-year-olds,” she explains. “It just ends up being this long drawn-out process, with the parent thinking it’s their job to make the fear go away.”
Instead, tell your kids that they’re safe, that you are there if you need them; and that sleep is a nonnegotiable—“like buckling into the car seat.”
Always offer comfort if your child has a nightmare
According to the AAP, nightmares can begin as early as 6 months and peak between the ages of 3 and 12. Experts say if your kid wakes up in the middle of the night from a nightmare, you should always offer comfort. Here’s how:
Ask them to tell you what happened in the dream (this can reveal useful information, especially if it’s something they’re watching on TV that you can curb or has to do with something happening during the day)
Tell them you’re not going to let anything happen to them
Assure them that dreams aren’t real
Sit with them for a few minutes and encourage them to go back to sleep
Once they’re calm (or asleep), try to leave the room
If they come into your room after the nightmare, try to walk them back to their room to comfort them. If you’re too tired to get out of bed (it happens) or want to get some snuggles in, Casares says it’s OK to let your kiddo fall asleep with you after a bad dream. Just make sure your child isn’t crying “nightmare” night after night as a way to sleep in your bed (more on that below).
If you’re going to lay with your child… be prepared for a battle when you decide not to
We get it: Sometimes it’s just easier to lay with your kid until they fall asleep. For some parents, this works (up until the child stops wanting it). But experts warn that if parents do this, they should be prepared for pushback when they decide to call it quits.
“The parents who I work with are parents whose lives are falling apart and nobody is sleeping,” Rogers says. “If everyone is in a family bed and everyone is happy and getting plenty of sleep, there’s nothing wrong with that.”
Ditto for bed-sharing (with you or a sibling)
Letting your kid climb into your bed after a nightmare—or have sleepovers with siblings to stave off bad dreams—is probably fine if it only happens a few times. But if your child is coming in every night looking to get under your covers, it’s probably becoming a habit (and not an actual nightmare).
“If your ultimate goal is to have your child sleep on their own, I wouldn’t start the habit of letting them come int0 your bed every time they have a nightmare,” Casares says. “I would have it be that you comfort them in their bed and you help them go back to sleep in their own bed.”
Letting your little sleep with a sibling can also be problematic, since there may come a day when that sibling doesn’t want to co-sleep (especially if it’s an older sibling, who will likely want to sleep solo).
Find a favorite stuffie
If your child doesn’t already have a favorite blanket, doll, or stuffie, it may help to get one. Even the AAP recommends that children have a “security object” to help them self-soothe as they “learn to transition from dependence to independence.”
Similarly, having a “brave stuffie” that sleeps with them can help them feel brave themselves. It can also work to help them self-soothe when they’re alone in their room.
Teach your kid some self-soothing techniques
Rogers recommends breathing exercises: Have your child put her stuffie on her belly and watch as it rises and falls with their breath. You can also play soothing music (no words, because this can keep a child awake) to promote relaxation.
Audiobooks can work as a distraction—but may not put your child to sleep
If you’ve got an older kid who can’t quell racing thoughts after a nightmare, it’s OK to let them put on an audiobook as a distraction. For some children, this might help them fall asleep; for others, it’ll just work to fight the fear (a win) but not bring on the Zs (sigh). Younger kids may enjoy storytime podcasts like Sesame Street’s “Goodnight World,” which includes soothing music to lull littles to snoozeland. There are also sleep meditations—like these—that can help anxious kids learn relaxation tools.
Casares says you want to be careful teaching restless kids to fall asleep with music, since “if they wake up in the middle of the night they’re looking for that music again.”
Know when it’s OK to walk away
If you thought sleep training a newborn was hard on your heart, walking out of the room to let your child handle their own fears is just as difficult—if not more so. But parents need to remember that their kids are OK, and that learning to self-soothe is an important part of building resilience.
“Parents need to remember that they really are there,” Rogers says. “If it was an emergency, they’d be there in a heartbeat.”
Are you feeling like the days are dragging and you can barely get through the morning rush without multiple cups of coffee? We get it. Luckily, there are tons of additional ways to stay awake, from simple mindfulness techniques to foods that will get you ready for the day ahead. Scroll through and get that energy up!
1. Head Outside
If the sun is shining in your neck of the woods, Vitamin D is a natural energy boost. All you have to do is play with the kids outside, walk the dog, or roll back the sunroof. As always, if you plan on being outside for an extended period, be sure to put on a fresh coat of SPF. Foods like fish, egg yolks, fortified milk, and cereals are also delicious D sources.
2. Drink (Lots of) Water
Water helps make the world—and our bodies—go round. And fatigue is a sure sign that we aren’t getting enough of it. Keep reusable bottles in your bag, at your desk, and in the car. You’ll get in the habit of hydrating throughout the day for sustained energy levels and all sorts of other body benefits (radiant skin sound good to anyone?).
3. Meditate for a Pick-Me-Up
Parenthood can feel like an endless circuit of activities, homework, appointments, and the daily surprises that keep us on our toes. Sometimes all the caffeine we drink to keep up backfires, leaving us wired and unable to focus. Step off the hamster wheel and cue up a mom-friendly meditation app rather than another cup of joe. Just 5-, 10-, or 15-minute increments of measured breathing and meditation will leave you relaxed and refreshed.
4. Diffuse Essential Oils
Essential oils have taken the wellness world by storm—and with good reason. Naturally free of chemicals, they can help with stress, mood, and yes, energy. Oil aficionados recommend peppermint and grapefruit to boost energy and nutmeg for focus.
5. Reduce Sugar
High-sugar food can cause your blood sugar to spike, which can feel good for a short time. But it’s the after-effects that leave you in a slump. Instead of heading for that piece of chocolate, try one of these low-sugar snacks to keep a more even blood sugar level throughout the day.
6. Play That Funky Music
Think of your favorite song. If it’s got a beat, you may already be tapping your foot. Music is a mood elevator, so put on tunes while you cook dinner, pause the podcasts and pump up the jams in the car for the commute, or take a spin around the living room with the kids.
7. Step Away From Screens
Be it our phones, tablets, or work computers, turning on those blue lights at night can keep us up past our bedtimes, leading to even more sleep deprivation. Ana Homayoun, author of Social Media Wellness: Helping Tweens and Teens Thrive in an Unbalanced Digital World, offers great advice specifically for moms: “Be intentional about screen use. Many times we use our smartphones and screens from morning to night (and late into the night, especially for new moms on a feeding schedule). The incremental creep of usage can actually leave us far more exhausted than we realize. Shutting down social media access and phone access for certain hours in the day can create time and space for re-energizing.”
8. Fuel Up to Fight Fatigue
When you reach for that next cup of green tea, did you know a bowl of protein-rich edamame can also pack a pick-me-up punch? Nutrition expert Joy Bauer, the author of From Junk Food To Joy Food, includes it in her list of energy-boosting foods. So sprinkle them on a lunch salad, add them to one of your favorite (and easy) pasta recipes, or save them for an afternoon energy snack. For something sweet, watermelon is in season from May to September and is a great source of B6 and citrulline, an amino acid that aids in cell division and benefits heart and immune system function.
9. Exercise
Okay, you knew this was coming. As hard as it can be to muster up the will to work out, the endorphin boost from exercising makes the muster well worth it. If you need an inspiring reset, try something new like a Hip Hop dance class. There are loads of indoor exercise programs you can do with little to no equipment.
10. Delegate a To-Do or Two
We run ourselves ragged doing it all—parenting, working, shuttling, and keeping the meals coming. While we can’t outsource the big or fulfilling responsibilities, how about daring to say “no” to the over-the-top birthday party next time around? Give yourself permission to pass on that extra something that’s overwhelming the week. Better yet, farm out your chores to your family and teach the kids some life skills!
11. Be Social
Isolation can lead to fatigue and depression, so it’s important to engage with friends and family when your busy schedule allows. Plan a mom’s night out, have another couple over for a takeout dinner, or plan a park date with another family. You’ll be laughing in no time!
12. Turn in Early
We all love the idea of crawling into bed “early,” but who else ends up binge-watching one or two hours of the show that’s been stockpiling because the kids are finally asleep? We may want to take a tip from the kids instead. While 7 p.m. zzz’s aren’t realistic—parents need some evening solitude to decompress or finally get things done uninterrupted—try really turning in an hour (or two) early one night a week. Before bed, reach for a book instead and notice how many pages you get through before those eyelids get heavy. For a tired mom, we’ll put money on about … five!
Make standing appointments for your manicures and get those haircuts in the calendar! You deserve a little self-care, something that probably tends to fall to the bottom of your priority list. There are lots of ways to give yourself some much-needed self-care without even leaving the house. Try out one of these beauty hacks on your next night off the clock.
15. Don’t Skip Breakfast
Yes, we’ve all heard that breakfast is the most important meal of the day. But how many of us skip it on those busy mornings? Try out one of these make-ahead breakfasts to get you going for the day with a healthy start.
16. Just Keep Truckin’
We know how awesome you are—and that no matter how sluggish you may feel, you’re doing your best to show up and be great for your kids, your job, and your partner. You’ll catch a break soon, even if it’s just to read that book you’ve had on your nightstand for ages. Before too long the kids will be grown and you’ll have all the time to sleep in on a weekend again. And you may just find yourself missing these hectic, joyful days when you’re sleep-deprived and the kids are still young.
After squeezing out a baby, your body feels like it’s been through the spin cycle of your washing machine. You’re exhausted and even the tips of your toes ache, but you still want to be there to look after your newborn. This means middle-of-the-night feedings, countless diaper changes, and basically doing all the things. But it’s important to remember to take care of yourself, too—and that includes knowing the things not to do after giving birth.
Elizabeth Quinkert, certified nurse-midwife and administrative director for the Tree of Life Birthing Center, says it’s a good idea to assemble your village before giving birth because as soon as the baby’s born, all focus moves to your newborn. “We’re so busy making sure the baby is taken care of, but birthing parents need time to recover as well,” Quinkert says, something that’s easy to forget when they jump into their caregiving role so quickly.
Whether you had a vaginal birth or a C-section, your body requires rest to rebuild. To help out your sleep-deprived brain, we’ve prepared an easy-to-follow list of the things you shouldn’t do after giving birth. If you have any questions about your postpartum recovery, don’t hesitate to contact your care provider.
1. Don’t drive.
Your brain might be telling you to get in the car and check some errands off your ever-growing list, but your body needs time to heal. Whether you’ve delivered vaginally or via cesarean section, one reason not to drive is blood loss. According to The March of Dimes, it’s normal to lose some blood after giving birth, but it can slow down your reaction time and impair your driving ability, Quinkert says.
So when is it safe for you to hop (or lightly step) behind the wheel again? Your healthcare provider can help you decide. Most experts suggest waiting two weeks before driving after you’ve had a baby. Since moving your foot from the gas to the break and turning your head to check your blind spots requires some ab work, Healthline suggests it can be longer if you had a C-section. If you’re taking opioid medication for pain management to assist in your recovery, discontinue use before you sit in the driver’s seat again.
2. Don’t ignore your pain or skip your checkups.
When you have a baby, stuff hurts. Your body is going to feel achy and exhausted from giving birth, and most of these feels are normal. Soreness, tiredness, and some emotional and hormonal changes are expected since your body has been through a major change, says the Cleveland Clinic. However, there are pain levels and symptoms you shouldn’t just “push through.” Quinkert says if the pain starts to become worse, you feel an unusual pressure, or notice an increase in swelling, these are symptoms to let your provider know about. If your overtired brain is wondering which aches and pains you shouldn’t ignore, the Cleveland Clinic lists the following as postpartum symptoms you don’t want to overlook:
Heavy bleeding
Significant pain or cramping
Severe headaches
Complications with tears or incisions
Incontinence
Frequent peeing or burning
Leg pain
Chest pain
Breast pain or burning
It’s also crucial to keep an eye on your mood and anxiety levels after bringing baby home—and this is where your postpartum checkups are particularly important. During these checkups, your doctor will do a physical exam to make sure your body is healing, but these appointments are also important mental health check-ins. Some sadness and worry are normal for a few weeks—you’ve probably heard of the “baby blues”—but if it remains or gets worse it could be a sign of postpartum depression (PPD), which Quinkert says doctors are always looking out for. Red flags include:
Feeling very weepy, guilty, or overwhelmed
Worrying that you are a bad mother
Losing interest in activities you used to enjoy
Not feeling a connection to your baby
Inability to take care of your baby
Lasting sadness or thoughts of hurting yourself or others (including your baby)
Changes in eating or sleeping patterns
If you are experiencing any of these symptoms, speak to your healthcare provider right away.
3. Don’t take a bath.
A nice warm bath to wash away your troubles might seem like just the thing after your labor and delivery and, well, this is partially true. Quinkert recommends a sitz bath to all her patients but not a wash with soap until you’ve healed up. This is especially true if you have episiotomy stitches (from an incision between the vagina and anus to help get your baby out).
“Put three to four inches of water in the tub with Epsom salts and then sit,” Quinkert explains. “That will help the healing process and the pain.” A typical postpartum sitz bath contains 1/2 cup of Epsom salt in 3 to 4 inches of water.
If you’re craving the healing (and cleaning) properties water offers, showering is totally fine, and Quinkert suggests showering first and then having a nice soak in a sitz bath afterward. According to the National Library of Medicine, wait three weeks to indulge in a long bath if you’ve had a C-section as immersing your incision could lead to an infection.
4. Don’t do all the things.
As if being on call for your newborn 24/7 isn’t enough, you may feel tempted to host tons of visitors who want to meet the baby or book a newborn photo shoot. “Women tend to overdo,” Quinkert explains. This is why she encourages her patients to take at least two weeks to heal and not push themselves. This means resting while your baby rests and allowing others to help out with household chores when possible. Quinkert reminds new mothers to eat and practice self-care. This slowing down will give your body time to regain its strength in the weeks following your delivery.
For those who delivered via C-section, you might need more time to take it easy in your baby bubble. While gentle walks and light housework can aid in your recovery, avoid heavy cleaning, jogging, and most exercises for 4-8 weeks to allow your body to heal after your surgery, per Mount Sinai Health System, and don’t lift anything heavier than your baby for 6-8 weeks. Give yourself permission to let the dirty dishes pile up or ask family and friends for help with your newborn while you recover. Also, don’t be shy to ask visitors to bring really useful items—like wipes, baby lotion, or nipple cream—instead of more baby blankets or tiny outfits.
5. Don’t do the wrong kinds of exercise or overdo it.
You’ve had a baby, and you’re feeling ready to slowly start getting into your workout groove. It’s never a bad idea to see your healthcare provider and discuss when to start and what exercises are appropriate for your unique situation. If you’ve had an uncomplicated pregnancy and vaginal delivery, you could begin lightly exercising a few days after giving birth, according to the Mayo Clinic, or as soon as you feel ready.
When you’re first starting out, don’t jump into a hardcore baby boot camp! Low-impact activities like walking or a gentle postpartum exercise class are more your speed. Remember, your body is technically recovering from an injury, so it won’t be ready for planks, squats, or weight training. When it comes to the heavy lifting, Quinkert says if you’ve delivered vaginally, it’s recommended not to lift anything heavier than your baby for two weeks. If you’ve had a C-section, most experts suggest waiting 4-6 weeks. If you have any questions about your exercise plans, your doctor can help guide you.
6. Don’t forget to eat and drink.
While you were pregnant, you remembered to take your prenatal vitamins and avoid eating all the soft cheeses. Now you’re too engrossed in your newborn’s eating schedule to work in a sandwich of your own. But eating healthy meals will help your body heal, per The University of Rochester Medical Center.
Not skipping meals gives you the energy and strength that’s needed for those unpredictable sleepless nights, diaper explosions, and burping marathons with your newborn. To make this easier during postpartum, Quinkert says to be sure to eat foods like healthy proteins and vegetables that will help rebuild tissues. Proteins are the building blocks of the body, which help heal tears (like the tearing that can occur inside or around the vagina during labor), build strength in fatigued muscles, and give energy to the body. For those breastfeeding, the Mayo Clinic suggests this same healthy menu plus eating an additional 330 to 400 calories a day. Quinkert also encourages parents to ask family and friends to assist in meal prep and/or drop off lunches and dinners—especially for the first week.
And don’t forget your grandmother’s words of wisdom: drink plenty of water to stay hydrated, especially if you’re breastfeeding. “Much of the water in the mom’s body goes to the production of milk, so it can cause constipation for some,” Quinkert says. Drinking plenty and eating foods high in fiber can help keep things moving.
7. Don’t compare yourself to other moms.
While it might feel super good to comparison shop when strolling down the Target aisle, it doesn’t feel super good to compare yourself to other moms. “The comparisons start right away,” Quinkert observes. It’s super common for new moms to look outside themselves for validation that they’re doing their best.
However, when you start down the slippery slope of comparing parenting styles or your baby’s milestones with social media influencers or your next-door neighbor, this can lead to feelings of jealousy, frustration, and a loss of confidence. “You’re not going to parent the way your sister did, or your mom, or the way anyone else did,” Quinkert says. You do you and what works best for your newborn—she encourages you to stand strong in your parenting style.
8. Don’t rush into sex.
During postpartum, sex may very well be the last thing on your mind. Your body is hurting and all your energy goes to making sure your baby is healthy and happy. Still, let’s talk about sex. The Mayo Clinic says that while there’s no exact timeline for having sex after giving birth, most healthcare providers recommend waiting 4 to 6 weeks, regardless of how you delivered, to give your body time to heal.
Though some people wait less time and some wait longer, Quinkert emphasizes the importance of discussing pregnancy prevention. “Some people aren’t aware there’s a possibility you can get pregnant during this time,” she says. And feeling emotionally ready is also a consideration—for some moms, it can take months to want to get back in the saddle again. If you just need more time to heal or mentally prepare before you get into your sexy time, that’s alright, too.
9. Don’t hold back on asking for help.
The six weeks following your labor and delivery are full of every feel imaginable. One minute you giggle at the cuteness of your newborn, and the next you’re ugly crying because you can’t figure out how to soothe them. It’s easy to forget that there are people ready to support you through all these moments.
If friends or family offer to help, Quinkert says to accept it. She’s seen moms decline these offers because they believe that needing it makes them a “bad mother” or that it’s impolite to impose. Quinkert asks moms to reframe their viewpoint and “look at this as receiving instead of taking.” Changing your outlook here can help you accept the help you’re being offered. Postpartum can be difficult and lonely, and for those who have access to a strong support system, it can make all the difference.
10. Don’t forget to celebrate the little wins.
You made time to take a shower! You walked a block farther on your walk! You had a good feed! They may seem tiny, but when you’re in the thick of postpartum, even the smallest victories are actually huge. After all, having a baby is the only medical procedure where you’re expected to take care of another human while you’re also trying to take care of yourself, Quinkert reminds us. So be gentle with yourself throughout the process—and go ahead and pat yourself on the back for even the littlest of wins, because you’re ushering a new human into the world and that’s a feat if ever there was one.
Maybe baby’s arrival has left you with more kids than bedrooms. Or, maybe you’re hoping to promote an early bond between baby and an older sibling. No matter the reason, transitioning siblings into the same room is a major milestone. But it’s not one you have to lose sleep over—at least not for long with these tips to make sibling room-sharing as peaceful as possible for baby, sibling and you.
Time It Right
While there’s no magic age for moving kids in together, many veteran moms suggest waiting until your baby is sleeping through the night to make the move. Not needing to enter the room in the middle of the night to feed the baby minimizes the potential of disrupting your older child’s sleep. If your baby is still waking in the middle of the night when you make the shift to room-sharing, be prepared to get to them as quickly as possible to (hopefully) keep the big sibling sleeping soundly.
Do the Prep Work
Before you clear floorspace for a crib, ease reluctant older siblings into the idea of sharing a room with the baby ahead of time. Let the other sibling know what to expect and how they can help. Making them feel like the big (important!) part of the process will encourage a warm welcome for the baby. Additionally, help baby transition as seamlessly as possible by keeping their sleeping space familiar. If they are in a bassinet or co-sleeper in your room, set up the crib in your room and allow them to get used to that arrangement for a few weeks before making the move to a new room.
Safety First
While it can be tempting to hurry the transition process along, it’s imperative to know that your baby can maintain a safe sleeping environment in his new room. (This is especially important if the “older” sibling is still a toddler or preschooler.) Little ones can be tempted to climb into the baby’s crib or even offer the baby a small toy that could pose a choking hazard. Before you decide to take the sibling room-sharing plunge, talk with the older sibling about what they can and can’t do with their little brother or sister. For extra peace of mind, consider installing a video monitor to keep a watchful eye on what’s happening behind closed doors.
Keep It Real
Throwing two (or more) of your children into the same room and expecting them to fall asleep and stay asleep easily from the get-go is the stuff that parents’ dreams are made of, but not likely reality. Changing your child’s sleep routine is never easy. The best thing you can do to guarantee an ultimately successful shared room is to stick with it. It can take a few weeks for the baby and the older sibling to adjust to the new bedtime routine. If you find yourself desperately wondering, “Will anyone ever sleep again?!” take heart and stay consistent. Everyone will sleep soundly again—eventually.
Set the Stage
Making the room as restful as possible will go a long way in keeping baby and sibling asleep through the night. Darken the room with blackout blinds or curtains, maintain a comfortable temperature, and add a white noise machine to muffle coughs or snores.
Stagger Sleep Schedules
When two children share the same room, it can be tempting to try to make them share a sleep schedule, but it’s important to honor each child’s sleeping needs and bedtime routine. If the baby is tired an hour before an older sibling, take care of the baby’s bedtime routine first then use the extra time to connect with your older child. Or, if baby naps frequently during the day and stays up later than brother or sister, put your older child down first. To make this work, plan on doing each child’s bedtime routine—putting on pajamas, reading stories, cuddling—in a room other than the one they will be sleeping in to minimize disruptions. Other options to consider: putting the heaviest sleeper to bed first to avoid rousing the sleeping sibling.
Separate Them—Sometimes
If you think getting two kids to sleep in the same room at night sounds tough, getting them to nap while they’re within arm’s reach of each other can feel impossible. Instead of struggling through the nap time process every day, get creative with nap time arrangements. Set up a pack ’n play in your room or in a closet for the baby, or have the older sibling nap on your bed or on a sofa in a quiet room.
Be Flexible
A teething episode, a bout with the flu, or even a bad dream can throw a wrench into a peaceful night of room-sharing. Expect the unexpected and have a Plan B. Keep a playpen tucked away in your room or be willing to set up an older sibling’s bed on the living room couch on occasion.
Make sure to capture all the sweetest room-sharing moments—and share them with your family and friends near and far—with the Tinybeans app. The secure platform puts parents in total control of who sees and interacts with photos and videos of their kids.
These funny jokes will have them belly-laughing for days
Need a good joke when you’re in a pinch? We’ve got you covered with a joke of the day for almost a whole year, and most of them are original! These hilarious jokes for kids require little to no explanation from parents, but you’ll want to get in on the fun, anyway. From cheesy jokes to knock-knock jokes and beyond, many of these have been sent to us by kids themselves. We’ve also got squeaky-clean jokes, spring jokes, and printable lunchbox jokes. And for those looking to take the fun to the next level, we’ve got the best minute to win it games, too.
Why should you share jokes with your kids?
Because it allows kids to learn to laugh at themselves and not take themselves too seriously. It’s an easy way to have quality time that doesn’t include a screen. So go ahead, scroll through our favorite jokes for kids, and spend 15 minutes having a good chuckle with your kiddos.
1. What do you call an ant who fights crime? A vigilante!
80. What did the big flower say to the little flower? Hi, bud!
81. There are two robots sitting on a wall. They are named Pete and Re-Pete. Pete falls off. Who is left? (Re-Pete...so you repeat the whole thing again and again and again.)
—Henrik P., 10
82. What is a pony’s favorite juice? She really likes lemon-neigh’d.
—5-year-old Kerrigan
83. Where do fish keep their money? In the River-Bank!
—Jaxon G., 7 y.o.
84. What do you call an alligator with a vest? An investigator!
—Milo H-R, age 8
85. Why was the computer cold? It left its window open!
312. What do you call a Buffalo that likes beef? A Beef-alo
313. What does a camel say to a hunter? Do you need some camel-flage
314. Why does the dinosaur like the bathroom? Because it’s ex-stink-t
315. Why does the dentist use a computer? Because it has Bluetooth.
—Jokes 312-315 by Gunner, age 8
316. What's grey? A melted penguin.
317. What goes black, white, black, white, black white?
A penguin rolling down a hill.
318. Can a match box?
No, but a tin can!
319. Why was the baby in Egypt?
It was looking for its mummy.
320. Why did the chewing gum cross the road?
It was stuck on the chicken's foot.
321. What does a cow eat for breakfast?
Mooo-esli.
322. Doctor, doctor, I feel like a dog.
Then go and see a vet!
323. What do girl snakes write at the bottom of their letters? With love and hisses.
324. Why did the bacteria cross the microscope?
To get to the other slide.
—Jokes 316-324 by Elijah, age 11
325. Knock, knock Who's there? Lettuce. Lettuce who? Let us in, it's cold out here!
326. What do you get when you cross a bridge with a car? To the other side of the river.
327. What do you get when you cross an elephant with a cake? Crumbs.
328. Doctor, doctor, I keep thinking I'm a dog. Then sit on the couch and we'll talk about it, But I'm not allowed on the furniture!
329. Doctor, doctor I feel like a sheep. That's baa-aaa-aad.
330. What do you call a bee that buzzes quietly? A mumble bee.
—Jokes 325-330 by Malachi, age 7 and a half
331. Where do you find a polar bear? The same place you left her.
—Thomas, age 7
332. What is fast, loud and crunchy? A rocket chip!
333. How does a vampire start a letter? Tomb it may concern...
334. What has ears but cannot hear? A field of corn...
335. Did you hear the one about the claustrophobic astronaut?
He just needed a little space.
Make sure to capture all the giggles—and share them with your family and friends near and far—with the Tinybeans app. The secure platform puts parents in total control of who sees and interacts with photos and videos of their kids.
A relaxing stay at a hotel sounds like the perfect vacation, but having a baby in a hotel means doing some pre-planning. The focus: potential hazards and figuring out how your child will eat, sleep, and have their diaper changed in your new space. Also, you’ll want to ask questions like: Do hotel rooms have cribs? Read on for 7 tips and hotel hacks so you can rock your room like a parenting pro.
1. Borrow the hotel's baby supplies. Many parents have lots of questions when traveling with a baby like, "Do hotel rooms provide cribs?" Most offer cribs free of charge (bring your own sheets), and many lend out high chairs so you can leave the travel chair at home. Some chain hotels even supply bottle warmers, diaper pails, and sound machines. If you're staying at a hotel with minimal options, look online for local rental firms like BabyQuip that can outfit you with everything you need for your room, as well as a stroller for outings.
2. Have necessities delivered. Why waste suitcase space with extra diapers, wipes, and snacks when you can have them delivered to your hotel? First confirm that your hotel will accept deliveries prior to your arrival, and then put that Amazon Prime membership to good use, or use a local grocery-store delivery service. If you're staying at a higher-end hotel, they will often pre-stock the room with all of your parenting needs.
AdobeStock
3. Do an initial cleaning. When you get into your room, plonk baby on the bed with a toy and give the room a quick cleaning. Bring disinfecting wipes to clean telephones, TV remotes, alarm clocks, door handles, and other objects your child might touch or put in their mouth. Move garbage cans up to countertops so your little one can't get into the trash. Then get on your hands and knees to assess the room from baby level. Are there any coins or small, sharp objects on the floor? Any sharp edges on furniture to watch out for? Did a previous tenant leave anything under the bed or couch that you don't want your child to play with?
4. Create a kitchen. If your room doesn’t include a kitchen, one of the best hotel hacks is to set up a makeshift command center to handle everything from warming bottles to making oatmeal. The in-room coffee machine can sometimes even steam veggies or boil eggs for your little one. And if your room doesn't have a refrigerator, bring a collapsible cooler to keep your child's food fresh. You can also tote it along on your daily adventures (ice from the ice machine keeps things cool), so it's worth making room for it in your luggage.
AdobeStock
5. Don't forget the tape. While your home may be decked out in safety locks, corner guards, and outlet covers, all you need to pack to baby-proof the hotel is duct tape. It can be used to secure drapery cords, seal electrical outlets, keep toilet lids and mini-fridges closed, and more. If your furniture has sharp edges, place a washcloth over the edge and tape it in place! Running low on tape? In a pinch, Band-Aids can cover outlets to keep curious fingers safe.
6. Create baby stations for daily tasks. Since hotel rooms aren't set up for children, finding space to change diapers or heat bottles can be tricky. Designate the desk or dresser as your baby changing station and move other items to a different spot. Pack a small bag or portable changing station to keep diaper cream, wipes, and diapers organized. A hanging cosmetic case attached to a door can double as a bottle-making station.
7. Ensure a good night’s sleep. Re-creating the soothing comforts of home can help your child, and you, sleep better. If your child falls asleep to music or a noise machine at home, bring them. (If you play them through your smartphone, placing it in a coffee cup can help amplify the volume.) If you’re using the hotel’s crib, bring your own sheets for a sanitized snooze that smells, feels, and looks like home. If your baby is used to sleeping in their own room, create a separate space by placing the crib in the bathroom or closet, or tucking the crib behind the couch or TV. And if your baby can’t get comfortable in an unfamiliar bed, make a baby nest by rolling extra-large hotel towels lengthwise on the mattress to form a pod and placing a spare fitted sheet (check the closets for extras) over the mattress to make a cozy sleeping space.
Make sure to capture all your best travel moments—and share them with your family and friends near and far—with the Tinybeans app. The secure platform puts parents in total control of who sees and interacts with photos and videos of their kids.
Looking for some fun riddles for kids to keep those little minds sharp? Or maybe even a few hard riddles for kids? We’ve found kid-friendly puzzlers just right for your family. Share these riddles for kids with answers on the way to school or over dinner. And for even more, check out this adorable kid’s book.
A riddle is a brain-teasing question with a hidden meaning or answer requiring creative, out-of-the-box thinking. The answers are often things you wouldn’t think about, so be sure to take your time solving these easy riddles for kids!
Why should you share riddles with kids?
Riddles, and other brain teasers like hidden word puzzles, sudoku, and crossword puzzles help keep the brain sharp and help to develop problem-solving skills and creativity. Plus, it’s just fun to ask kids funny riddles and see their reactions!
One-Word Answers for Easy Riddles
1. What has hands but cannot write or clap?
A clock.
2. What has stripes and goes through the air?
Hint: It sometimes goes on the ground, too!
A basketball.
3. I am yellow, and I write, and my mate is white. What am I?
A pencil.
4. What gets wetter the more it dries?
A towel.
5. What has a neck but no head and arms but no hands?
A shirt.
6. Remove my skin and I won't cry, but you might! What am I?
An onion.
7. What kind of ship has two mates but no captain?
A relationship.
8. I'm taller when I'm young and shorter when I'm old. What am I?
A candle.
9. What is always right in front of you, yet you cannot see it?
The future.
10. What has a tongue but cannot talk?
A shoe.
11. What is easier to get into than out of?
Trouble.
12. What always ends up broken before you use it?
An egg.
13. What begins with T ends with T and has a T in it?
A teapot.
14. What breaks as soon as you say its name?
Silence.
15. If you threw a yellow stone into a blue sea, what would it become?
Wet.
16. What number is odd until you take away one letter; then it becomes even?
Seven.
17. What runs but cannot walk, has a mouth but no teeth, and has a bed but cannot sleep?
A river.
18. There is one word spelled wrong in every English dictionary. What is it?
Wrong.
19. What goes in your pocket but keeps it empty?
A hole.
20. What has legs but cannot walk?
A chair.
21. I sometimes run but cannot walk. You follow me around. What am I?
Your nose.
22. What word begins and ends with the E but only has one letter?
32. A man holds $5.50 in his hand but only has one coin. How is this possible?
He has a $5 bill and one 50-cent piece.
33. How many months of the year have 28 days?
All of them (they all have at least 28 days).
34. When is "L" greater than "XL"?
When you use Roman numerals.
35. What is always on the dinner table but you cannot eat it?
A plate. (Or a fork, etc.)
36. What can you hold in your right hand but never your left hand?
Your left hand.
37. A cowboy comes into town on Friday. He stays two nights at a local hotel. He leaves on Friday. How is this possible?
His horse's name is Friday.
38. A woman is sitting in his cabin in Minnesota. In less than three hours, she's in her cabin in Texas. How can this be?
The woman is a pilot and she's sitting in the cabin of her airplane.
39. What is as big as a hippo but weighs nothing at all?
A hippo's shadow.
40. What bank never has any money?
A river bank.
41. How do you make the number “one” disappear?
Add a “g” and it is “gone.”
42. If an electric train is traveling 60 MPH and going against the wind, which way will the train's smoke drift?
There is no smoke from an electric train.
43. Why did the kid bury his walkie-talkie?
Because the batteries died.
44. Two fathers and two sons went fishing. They only caught 3 fish, but they caught one fish each. How is this possible?
It was a grandfather, a father, and a grandson/son. (Both the grandfather and father are fathers and both the father and grandson are sons).
Easy Riddles Submitted by Readers
iStock
45. I am loved, for I am sweet
I come in many forms
but I’m always a treat
before apple and after cotton
dentists contend that I’ll
make your teeth rotten
What am I?
Candy
—from young reader Gloria, age 8
46. There was a circle house. There was a chef, a nanny, a butler, two children, and a maid. The boy child was found dead. The nanny said she was playing with the girl, the chef said he was cooking dinner and the maid said she was dusting the corners. So who killed the boy?
The maid because she was lying about dusting corners. A circle house has no corners.
—submitted by Joshua Y., age 9
47. What has a head and a tail but no body?
A coin.
—Young reader Katelyn
48. Mr. Red and Ms. Red live in the red house, Mr. Purple and Ms. Purple live in the purple house. Who lives in the white house?
The President!
—from young reader Gwen I
49. If you feed me, I grow, but if you give me water, I die.
Fire
—Young reader Sai Sri Vallabh
50. What has a mouth, a bed, and always runs?
A river.
—Chase, age 9
Riddles for Brain-Teasing Fun
51. What five-letter word gets short when you add two letters to the end?
Short.
52. What type of cheese is made backward?
Edam
53. A cat wants to get in better shape. She’s going to start by climbing the stairs. Starting on the fourth floor, she climbs up five stories, down seven stories, up six stories, down three stories, and up four stories again. What floor is she on?
The ninth floor.
54. There was a blue one-story house in a nice neighborhood. Everything in it was blue—the walls, the carpets, the furniture, and even the dog! What color were the stairs?
There are no stairs because it's a one-story house.
Glamping offers families the best of both worlds—a night in the great outdoors without having to pitch a tent or sleep on the ground. These spots take your family camping adventure to another level with fire pits, stargazing, on-site restaurants, hot springs, and even personal valets. Whether you choose to sleep in a safari tent, railroad car, or yurt with a view of the ocean, your next family glamping vacation will be one to remember!
Best Glamping Spots in the West
Fireside Resort | Wilson, WY
Fireside Resort
Just minutes from Jackson Hole, Wyoming, Fireside Resortoffers 25 pint-sized, luxuriously outfitted tiny house rental units designed by Wheelhaus. Each place has its own outdoor fire pit and deck. Cabins sleep up to six people and have full kitchens so you can stock up before your visit and spend some time cooking as a family. The resort is located a stone’s throw from Grand Teton National Park and the Jackson Hole ski slopes. From whitewater rafting to hiking, to going horseback riding, there is plenty to do in Wilson, Jackson Hole, and the surrounding areas.
The Resort at Paws Up | Greenough, MT
Stuart Thurlkill
From mid-May to mid-October, The Resort at Paws Up offers six camps with safari-style luxury tents that cater to families, couples, and groups. Each camp also has its own restaurant and amazing views of the Blackfoot River. You'll find tents with up to three bedrooms, each with its en suite bathrooms, heated floors, private decks, electricity, air conditioning and heat, Wi-Fi, and daily housekeeping service. Families love this resort for its extensive outdoor adventure offerings including fly-fishing, horseback riding, hiking, and so much more. Kids ages 3-12 can join the Kids Corps of Discovery for adventures just for them.
AutoCamp Zion | Virgin, UT
AutoCamp
The beauty of the red rock landscape is your backyard when you book your stay at AutoCamp’s location near Zion National Park this spring or summer. You can bed down for the night in a dreamy Airstream or canvas tent and have direct access to all of Zion’s hikes and adventure opportunities without having to go through the park’s busy front entrance. Read all about it.
Conestoga Ranch has a variety of unique and luxurious lodging options. The Royal and Grand Tents sleep up to six guests and include en-suite bathrooms. Kids especially love staying in one of the custom-made Conestoga wagons that sleep up to six people with a king-size bed and either one or two sets of bunk beds. The wagons are fully mobile and may be moved to offer a customized group experience.
Royal Gorge Cabins Glamping Tents | Cañon City, CO
Royal Gorge Cabins Glamping Tents
Located an hour southwest of Colorado Springs, the Royal Gorge Cabins Glamping Tents feature two queen beds and can accommodate a family of four. Built on a concrete slab with in-floor radiant heat, the tents include luxury linens, plenty of lighting, wicker seating, a desk, WiFi, and electricity. Tents also feature private outdoor patios with an outdoor table, seating around a wood-burning fire pit, and a complimentary fire kit. A bathhouse with showers and restrooms is nearby.
El Capitan Canyon | Santa Barbara, CA
El Capitan Canyon
Camping is made easy in a cedar cabin that has all the amenities you need for a relaxing adventure with nature at El Capitan Canyon. Each cabin has its own picnic table and firepit so that you can roast up some s'mores under the stars. Deer, birds, trees, and nature surround your clan at this camp area with plenty to do. You'll find a camp store and restaurant full of amenities. Further, truly glamp it up by ordering a BBQ kit delivered right to your campsite. Then, fire up the grill and eat up.
Greenhorn Ranch | Quincy, CA
Kate Loweth
Just north of Tahoe, you'll find the gorgeous, off-the-beaten-path area of the Lost Sierras. Here you can really get away from it all and spend some time with your family among massive trees and native animals. Greenhorn Ranch in Quincy, CA is the perfect vacation for families who want to get away from it all and experience dude ranch life. The Pines and Creekside cabins are great options for families. The one-bedroom option has a king-sized bed in its own room. The main room has a queen and twin-over-twin bunk bed. Private bathrooms and daily housekeeping are included. Each cabin has a porch swing right out front.
Mendocino Grove has 60 fully outfitted tents with lavish beds and your family will not want to leave once you have arrived. Campfires and gas barbecues make cooking easy. You can even rent cooking equipment, so you don't have to lug your pans with you. Luxurious bathrooms and hot water stations make this a no-brainer for families. Relax on a hammock and enjoy the fresh air.
Perfect for multi-generational family gatherings, the 900-acre Idaho Rocky Mountain Ranch offers an opportunity to slow down, sit by the fire, and play a game of cards with the Sawtooth Mountains in the distance. You won’t find TVs, radios or phones in the rooms and honestly, you won’t even miss them with all the outdoor activities available. Instead, find adjoining pairs of cabin rooms that sleep up to six people with the comfiest beds on the planet, cozy fireplaces, and generous bathrooms. Stays are all-inclusive, and you’ll get delicious local cuisines like elk and salmon, along with gourmet sandwiches to take with you on your daily adventures.
Set upon 160 acres of secluded piñon and juniper forest, Under Canvas Grand Canyon is located just 25 minutes from the South Rim entrance to Grand Canyon National Park. Offering upscale accommodations near one of the Seven Wonders of the world, Under Canvas Grand Canyon invites visitors to explore Arizona’s vast landscape and the grandeur of the Grand Canyon with safari-inspired glamping accommodations in Valle, Arizona. Families will love the suite option that includes a Deluxe camping tent with a king-size bed and en-suite bathroom, along with a lounge area that sleeps another two people.
Other Under Canvas locations: Bryce Canyon, Lake Powell, Moab, Yellowstone, Glacier, Zion, Acadia, Great Smoky Mountains, Mount Rushmore, and more
Best Glamping Spots in the Midwest
Kimberly Creek Retreat | Ashland, NE
Kimberly Creek Retreat
Nature meets luxury at Kimberly Creek Retreat, a glamping destination situated on over 20 acres of wooded land in Ashland, Nebraska. This tranquil, family-owned getaway includes stylish cabins, pods, and geodomes outfitted with cozy beds, bathrooms, and electricity. The newest addition to their offerings includes a decked-out grain bin. The Grain Bin cabin even features a "binzebo" and hot tub. Kimberly Creek’s extensive trail network offers guests an abundance of wildlife viewing opportunities, and the retreat is just five minutes from Mahoney State Park for even more outdoor adventures.
Big Cedar Lodge | Ridgedale, MO
Big Cedar Lodge
The wilderness resort of BigCedar Lodge is a 4,600-acre destination in Missouri’s Ozark Mountains where you can slow down and get back to your roots—among wide open spaces encompassing gorgeous green hills, the 43,000-acre Table Rock Lake, cozy log cabins, ancient caves, spring-fed creeks, and waterfalls, cotton candy sunsets and connecting to the world beneath crystal clear stars. As a sweet “welcome back” for summer, the resort’s incredible glamping experience at Camp Long Creek comes with complimentary s’ mores kits.
Fuller’s Resort and Campground on Clear Lake—Buchanan, MI
Fuller's Resort is an awesome glampsite that is less than an hour and a half outside of Chicago. With various glamping options from an authentic log cabin to major luxe-living in the cottages that include beds, bathrooms with showers, full kitchens, cable TV, and air conditioning, you can pick your family’s level of outdoorsy-ness when you book your trip. Although the log cabin doesn’t have a kitchen or bathroom like in 1835 when it was built, it’s the most popular rental onsite, so grab it while you can.
Best Glamping Sites on the East Coast
Purposely Lost | Springvale, ME
Purposely Lost
You're going to want to run off to the woods when you see these properties. Purposely Lost offers two hobbit houses and three treehouses on 15 wooded acres in Maine. Each unit has a full kitchen, a hot tub, a fire pit, and a private dock for trout fishing, swimming, and canoeing. They are all solar-powered and eco-friendly with design features meant to make the most of the small spaces. There's even one designed after the hobbit home in The Lord of the Rings!
Huttopia | Sanford, ME and Albany, NH
Huttopia
Huttopia Southern Maine lies in a stunning forest area in Sanford, next to the private Sand Pond and 15 miles from the famed seaside towns of Kennebunkport and Wells. Accommodations range from The Trappeur Tent to the Vista Tiny Houses to the lakefront Trappeurs with private access to the pond—all featuring a beautiful wooden bathroom and kitchen, full electricity, and accommodating up to five guests.
For an additional New England option, Huttopia White Mountains is a haven of greenery in the heart of the Appalachian Mountains, complete with a dribbling creek running through the property and a background of the beautiful Iona Lake. Nearby, guests can also hike Mount Washington, explore the White Mountains National Forest that expands across a quarter of New Hampshire, and discover Meredith and the region of Lake Winnipesaukee.
Firelight Camps—Ithaca, NY
Firelight Camps
The Finger Lakes region’s Firelight Camps at La Tourelle Resort & Spa offers families the chance to explore the resort’s 70-acre property, ending at Ithaca’s famous gorge waterfalls. Immersed in nature, you’ll sleep like a log among the trees and wake to birdsong as silhouettes of leaves dance on the tent walls. Nature meets luxury in these furnished tents, which are outfitted with hardwood floors, plush king or double queen beds, a private tented porch with rocking chairs, battery-powered lanterns, and a writer’s desk and chair.
Best Glamping Spots in the South
Cameron Ranch Glamping | Coldsprings, TX
Cameron Ranch Glamping
Cameron Ranch Glamping welcomes families to their haven away from it all, just an hour's drive from Houston and 10 minutes from Sam Houston National Forest and the pristine waters of Lake Livingston. Here you can choose from two extraordinary glamping structures—a captivating Geo Dome and an enchanting Mirror House. Stargazing, fishing, grilling, and hiking are all on the agenda as you reconnect with family.
The Cabins at Copperhill | Copperhill, TN
The Cabins at Copperhill
The Cabins at Copperhill are located on a secluded 8 acres at the base of the Cherokee National Forest. With plenty of nearby outdoor activities, families can enjoy the upper Ocoee River that flows peacefully by, fish in the pond on the property, take a short ride to the National Forest for some hiking, or visit America's only Olympic Whitewater Rafting course. There’s also a scenic train ride, apple picking, wine + beer tasting, horseback riding, and ziplining nearby. They offer three glamping tents and four cabins. The glamping tents each boast large queen beds, covered porches, and private bathhouse accessibility. The Main Lodge is also available to guests with a pool table, games, gas grill, large screen TV, and surround-sound system.
Cool off at this gorgeous spot that’s right on a creek, perfect for tubing. With many different accommodations to choose from including fully-air conditioned getaway cabins, there’s something for every family at Geronimo Creek Retreat. Kitchenettes in the cabins make life easy when you are vacationing with kids. There are four elevated treehouses located next to and overlooking the spring-fed Geronimo Creek, affording guests a serene view of the water from each unit. These are also air-conditioned and come with a full kitchen and private bathroom.
El Cosmico takes its inspiration from a long American history of hippies, nomads, bohemians, and those living a life of self-determination. Here you can choose from a number of sleeping spots: the Cosmic Kasita, decked-out trailers, yurts, safari tents, and more.
Westgate River Ranch | River Ranch, FL
Westgate River Ranch Resort
The secluded Westgate River Ranch Resort and Rodeo is a great vacation for those looking to escape into the great outdoors and glamp in style. Located next to the Kissimmee River in Central Florida, this one-of-a-kind dude ranch offers glamping tents equipped with heating and air-conditioning, full furnishings, upgraded linens, and a personal concierge to cater to your every whim! When it’s time to refuel after a fun day on the ranch, you will be able to enjoy a mouth-watering BBQ at the Westgate Smokehouse Grill.
Accommodations like no other, Twin Lakes Camp Resort offers Glamping Tents which combine “back to nature” tent camping with glamour and added luxurious amenities. No need to bring your sleeping bags since every tent has a king-size bed. Some tents have bunk beds and can accommodate up to six people. No worries about the weather forecast; the Glamping Tents are fully air-conditioned and heated, creating a glamorous getaway any time of the year.
Even MORE Glamping Spots
Inn Town Campground
If you'd like ideas on glamping spots in Northern California including wine country, Tahoe, and Big Sur, check out this story.
Our favorite San Diego glamping spots including the totally-awesome dome in Joshua Tree can be found here and our favorite SoCal yurt spots can be found here.