Here in California, we are back in a semi-lock down. It’s not quite as intense as it was back in the spring, but our parks are closing and the overall message is STAY HOME! Now, don’t get me wrong…I’m 100% on board with this plan. Our ICU’s beds are filling fast and I want as many people to stay safe and healthy and I will do everything I can to ensure not just my family, but our entire country stays safe. This is truly a “We’re All in This Together” moment—thank you “High School Musical.”
But, that doesn’t change the fact that I am sad—sad about plans that won’t come to fruition, sad for plans I hadn’t yet had time to make, sad that I really can’t change anything about our current Groundhog Day situation.
I had a really great idea to do a bunch of outdoor socially distanced experiences for Chanukah this year. No gifts, just quality family time at the Oakland Zoo Glowfari and other really awesome outdoor exhibits! Well, that’s canceled. We also were hoping to go camping over the holiday break. (Yes, we live in California where you can camp in December). We love camping and we love going on outdoor adventures and under the current restrictions, that is not allowed (except in our back yard).
Back in the spring, I felt like every day I would wake up with a new thought about something that I won’t be able to do or that I can’t make happen for my family and it caused this constant low-level melancholy. So, this time around, I am trying something new. I am going to actively say goodbye to future planning and expectations. Yes, folks, I am going to journal!!!! Let me be clear, I am not a journal-er. It is not in my DNA to open a beautifully bound notebook and write out all of my thoughts. All the power in the world to those of you who do that daily. My hat goes off to you…but, it hasn’t been, until now, for me.
So, I think I am going to take a page from my kids. I will be drawing, doodling, painting my plans, and drawing my expectations in stick figures and cartoons with the sophisticated medium of crayons and magic markers. But, every day, instead of waking up to low-level melancholy, I am going to make a little piece of art that represents something I would like to be able to do, but can’t. I will use the time while I am creating to say goodbye and let go of looking ahead. By letting go of expectations, I’m hoping to remind myself of the beauty of right now and living in the moment. Anyone want to join me on the “goodbye and let go” journal project? Find me on insta @creativparenting for more information. This is a grand experiment. I would love to know if it works…for you and for me!
Nina Meehan is CEO and Founder Bay Area Children's Theatre and the host of the Creative Parenting Podcast. An internationally recognized expert in youth development through the arts, Nina nurtures innovation by fostering creative thinking. She is mom to Toby (13), Robby (10) and Meadow (5).
Looking for a super family-friendly activity for Halloween? Head to LEGOLAND!
Brick or Treat is returning to San Diego, Florida and New York and boasts a safe alternative with plenty of candy, trick-or-treating, season shows, dance parties and meet and greets. The event is included with general admission and takes place on select dates through out October (be sure to check your local park for specific dates).
Starting at 11:30 on the day of your visit, the fam can experience six themed trick-or-treating locations, meet with spooky LEGO characters like Lord Vampyre and check out shows that include The Groovin’ Graveyard.
Depending on which park you visit, you may also be treated to nightly fireworks and the chance to win a costume contest! Also consistent with the last year, LEGOLAND resorts are offering heightened health and safety practices, with over 200 hand sanitizing stations so everyone stays safe this Halloween.
If Airbnb’s record night of 4 million guests is any indication, the travel industry is bouncing back. Now the vacation rental company has dropped the top travel trends of Labor Day weekend and the fall. From long weekend stays to fall getaways, read on for all the details!
When the company compared seasonal data from 2019 with this year, weekend trips with families were up 70%. For the upcoming holiday weekend, which officially signals the end of summer in the U.S., many of the trips booked are seven nights or longer. Some of the top destinations for Labor Day:
Anchorage, AK
Kansas City, MO
Philadelphia, PA
Mexico City, Mexico
Kenai Peninsula, AK
East Bay, CA
Seattle, WA
San Juan, Puerto Rico
Santa Fe, NM
Greensboro, NC
Of course, Labor Day doesn’t mean that travel is over for the year. Travelers continue to be quite interested in fall trips, with a particular interest in mid-sized cities and larger cities that show off the season’s beauty. The list of top spots for the fall getaways:
New York, NY
Chicago, IL
Boston, MA
Washington, DC
Cincinnati, OH
Charlotte, NC
Minneapolis, MN
Southern Maine
Berkshires, MA
Denver, CO
Newport, RI
Safe travel continues to be the top priority , which is why Airbnb made more than 100 upgrades across its entire service, including an emphasis on flexible searches. Wherever you’re headed this fall, stay healthy and enjoy making memories with your family!
Fans of Tim Burton’s Nightmare Before Christmas will clamor over this festive decor that perfectly incorporates into the spooky season.
photo: Home Depot
Mean green Oogie Boogie stands tall in any fun Halloween scene. Bright white LED lights illuminate the creepy creature and his minions in this inflatable that is versatile for both indoor and outdoor use.
He inflates in seconds and comes with tethers and stakes so he stays put. The Oogie Boogie Halloween Inflatable retails for $179 at Home Depot.
It’s finally time to get out and travel this summer! In all your excitement to get away, it could be easy to forget one important thing: budget. Here are ten easy, breezy tips to help you save money on your family vacation and make it the best summer ever!
Venturing out in an RV makes it easier to check off multiple attractions on a budget! We’ve teamed up with Go RVing for everything you need to plan a budget-friendly summer vacay. Get our guide here!
Shop Before Your Trip
It can be tempting to leave shopping for essentials for your travel destination, but not always the best ideal if you want to save money. Headed to a beach town? You don't want to be stuck having to buy swimsuits for your family at a pricey surf shop as your only option! Same with drinks, snacks, sunscreen—it's best to plan ahead and get those items at a discount store near you before you hit the road.
Look For Campgrounds with Entertainment
Sure, you could go to a waterpark on your trip, or you could book a campground that has one on-site! Many campgrounds have family-friendly amenities like pools with waterslides, lakes with kayaks and outdoor movie nights—which save you cash and are conveniently located right where you're staying.
Go RVing!
One of the best ways to save money on a vacay? Stay at a place with your own kitchen! Restaurant meals can be upwards of $200/day per family, which can really cut into the fun budget—one of the many reasons why an RV is the way to go! Traveling in an RV saves money, gives you more freedom than other modes of travel and is just plain fun! You have options by traveling in an RV, with the space to refrigerate and cook your own meals (campfire, anyone?!). Not only that, renting a car and hotel stays are expensive—think of your RV as a super-fun two-in-one!
RVs are for everyone, not just campers, and they open up a world of possibilities while traveling that traditional hotel stays and car rentals don't offer. With an RV, you set your own schedule. No airport lines or packing restrictions. You have the safety and comfort of bringing your own sheets, towels and pillows (not to mention, all the stuffies the kids want!). Whether you rent one or go all in and buy your very own vacay house on wheels, you can't go wrong with an RV for travel.
Looking for a unique outdoor stay? Harvest Hosts is a website that connects RV travelers with wineries, breweries, farms and more unique locals—all with no camping fees! The annual membership is $99, and lets you book as many stays as you'd like.
Going to restaurants each day adds up quickly, especially with kids in tow. Rather than going to restaurants to entertain the family, plan a few nights of making your own campfire meals! Cooking over a fire will be an exciting new adventure for your kids, and you'll save big by only having to buy ingredients.
Get the GasBuddy App
Want to pay less for gas? Us, too! The GasBuddy app provides prices of gas stations in your area based on your GPS location. Now you can "shop around" to find the cheapest gas near you, on the road or close to home.
One of the biggest perks of traveling in an RV is the extra space! Pack a few board games, a frisbee, and, if you have space, your kids' bikes. When the inevitable "I'm bored" comes up, you'll already have entertainment on hand!
Travel During the Week
Being flexible with your travel dates means big savings. Try to avoid traveling on the weekend and opt for mid-week options instead. Special deals for families, and for destinations in general, are more readily available during the week, and at off-peak hours.
Get Tickets for Events Ahead of Time
Don't wait until you get to the door—tickets are usually more expensive last minute. Buying online and early not only ensures that your whole gang gets in, but that you get the best price. Pro tip: Don't forget to search the web for deals and coupon codes before you hit "send"!
The U.S. Park Pass
Parks and Rec your thing? This is your pass to see it all! The America the Beautiful National Parks and Federal Recreational Lands Pass is your ticket to more than 2,000 federal recreation sites across the country. For an $80 annual fee, this pass covers entrance, standard amenity fees and day-use fees per vehicle.
Travel season officially kicks off this weekend and Airbnb just announced the top travel trends for the summer. Unsurprisingly, the outdoors are big and family travel is up, but cities are also starting to make moves again.
So where exactly are families flocking to this summer? Keep reading to find out!
The data showed a huge increase in rural travel, up from less than 10% in 2015 to 28% in the U.S. in 2021 (even higher in Canada at 43%). Bookings in the U.S. favor spots near national parks, state parks and sandy beaches. The top destinations for summer 2021:
Whitefish Mountain, MT (near Glacier National Park)
Northern Wisconsin (near Lake Superior and Chequamegon Nicolet National Forest)
Hilton Head Island, SC
Black Hills, SD (near Black Hills National Forest and Mount Rushmore)
Miramar Beach, FL
Park County, MT
Michigan Upper Peninsula (Great Lakes, Hiawatha National Forest)
Acadia National Park
After a year of isolation, families are traveling together again. Airbnb found that family travel is up from 27% of nights booked in summer 2019 to 31% in 2021. Again, rural destinations are big this year with families, making up 42% of the nights booked. And about 95% of bookings are entire homes, compared to 80% in summer 2019. The company defines family travel as any reservation that includes an infant or a child, so the numbers could be even higher than that.
Long-term stays are popular in cities this summer and the top three Airbnb long-term stay destinations in the U.S. are all cities: New York, Los Angeles and Seattle. The company is working to make travel easier than ever, with flexible destinations, matching and dates all new to the platform, as well as a slew of other upgrades.
Wherever you’re traveling this summer, it’s a safe bet that you’ll have to work a little harder to beat the crowds. But the payoff is worth it with beautiful destinations anywhere you could imagine!
Ever wanted to have a sleepover in Monica and Rachel’s rent-controlled NYC apartment? Thanks to Booking.com, you may just have the chance.
Booking.com and The FRIENDS™ Experience are hosting two officially sponsored stays in the re-created sets of your fave television show! While fans have been able to take part in the two-story immersive experience for over a year now, this will be the first time that an overnight stay is part of the deal.
Lucky guests who make a booking will enjoy private 1-bedroom accommodations, a custom tour, dinner and drinks, a late-night game of Phoebe’s Cab Escape Room, a FRIENDS™-themed scavenger hunt and coffee and breakfast at Central Perk. On top of all that, fans will also get a private tour with a photographer so they can take home professional photos of their experience.
In honor of 1994, the year the show premiered, The FRIENDS™ Experience is available to book for a one-night overnight stay for $19.94. Bookings will open on Fri., May 21st, 2021 at 10:00AM ET and are available on a first come, first serve basis for two overnight stays on either Sun., May 23 or Mon., May 24.
Obviously that means tons of fans won’t snag the booking. If that’s the case for you, you can still visit the Friends Experience year round! Head to the website here.
It’s been a year and then some, and you have very likely spent most of that time at home, probably hunched over a computer—yours or your kids. This is why for Mother’s Day, something that goes a little beyond the typical bouquet of flowers is in order. You know who agrees? Mindy Kaling! She put together this “Mindful Retreats by Mindy Kaling” wishlist. Scroll down to learn more of her favorite stays and experiences on Airbnb (including one our editor tried out.)
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Kaling's picks are all about peace, tranquility, and the great outdoors. Whether traveling with kids in tow or solo, Mindy’s wishlist of mindful stays and experiences are immersed in nature, from a peaceful treehouse with an ocean view in Aptos, California to a mountain bliss yoga hike in Phoenix, Arizona.
“The best feeling, as a mom, is when I get to travel with my kids and show them something they have never seen before. I’m like this friendly wizard who shows them new places and experiences! I’ve been dreaming of a relaxing vacation with my kids for a while, getting them outdoors somewhere away from the noise and routine of the city,” said Mindy. “Over the last year, I’ve spent some time wanderlusting on Airbnb and planning our next escape, and I’m excited to share my very own wishlist with you all!”
Click here for other wishlist-worthy stays and experiences in the greatest outdoors. If you’re not able to celebrate Mother’s Day in person, here are Online Experiences to gift or take together, allowing you to connect and explore the world with others virtually.
Summer is almost here! The air is getting warmer, the sun stays out longer, and it’s likely your teens are getting anxious to start their summer vacation.
Your number one priority is to keep your kids safe, no matter how old they are. Summer is a time for relaxation and fun, but it can be stressful at times when you have a teenager in the house who wants to explore and soak up every bit of time they have to be themselves.
Thousands of books out there explain how to keep your home safe for an infant, but what about books or recommendations to keep teenagers safe? You can’t just put them in a playpen anymore—they have friends, cellphones, cars and a mind of their own now. To ensure your teen stays safe, check out these safety tips for your summertime teens so you can have a relaxing and bright summer!
Stress the Importance of Preventing the Spread of COVID-19
Hopefully, this tip will be off the list for next year, but it’s still valid for this year. Summertime is often associated with teens spending days on end with their friends and exploring various places. However, you must stress the prevention of spreading COVID-19.
Some states are beginning to reopen, so ensure your teen is following your state’s ordinances. Remind them to:
Frequently wash their hands
Wear a facemask
Practice social distancing
Avoid contact with those who may have the virus
Reminding them of these precautions should keep them healthy this summer to return safely to school in the fall.
Be Transparent About How Often You Want Communication
Teens seem to always be on their phones, but they tend to forget to reply to a text or call back their parents! Ensure you’re clear with how often you want them to check in with you when they’re out and about. It’s important that they know you’re one call away in case of any dangers.
Remind them to charge their phones often. Additionally, if you need an update on location changes, clearly explain that each time they leave a place and arrive at another location, you expect them to contact you.
Discuss Driving Safety & the Rules of the Road
For most teens, driving equals freedom. As your teen turns their designated driving age, they will want to be on the road as much as possible once summer hits. Whether it’s a day trip to the beach or a shopping trip with their best friend, they need to know that driving safely is crucial.
Discuss good driving habits such as wearing a seatbelt, putting the phone away and not eating in the vehicle. Any distractions, especially when teens first start driving, could be extremely dangerous.
Explain the Dangers of Substances
Although your teen has probably heard multiple times about the dangers of substance abuse, it never hurts to re-explain that to them. Teach them that peer pressure is a powerful thing and that it is 100% okay to say no. If they are in a situation where they’re pressured to use a vape, smoke, participate in drug use or drink, let them know that you are available to help.
Also, explain the long-term effects of those who delve into substances. Even though they may think it’s just one time, that one time can lead them down a road they don’t want to be on.
Get to Know the People Your Teen Spends Time With
One of the best ways to know if your teen will be safe when they are with friends is to get to know their friends. Have your teen invite their friends to your house for a few get-togethers. Additionally, you can ask your teen about their friends.
As your teen is spending time with their friends, observe them. This will allow you to better judge whether or not those people are good influences on your teenager.
Talk about Sex
It’s a tough conversation, but someone has to do it, and it’s probably best if it comes from a parent than any other source where information could be invalid. It’s a crucial conversation for all parents to have with their teenagers because many consequences can come from one sexual encounter.
Be open and honest with them. Allow them to ask you any questions they have. If they have been sexually active with someone, teach them about birth control and protection from sexually transmitted diseases.
Encourage a Healthy Diet & Hydration
In the summer, although kids are pretty active, there may be times you go on vacations and splurge on sugary treats and drinks for your teens. Although it’s okay to indulge every once in a while, ensure your teens still maintain proper eating habits to keep them energized and fueled for the day.
You should also ensure that your teen is drinking water. Water is the best drink for hydration purposes. People are more likely to become dehydrated during the summer months because of excessive heat and activity. Remind them to drink water throughout the day!
Create a Safe & Fun Summer Plan with Your Teen
Ultimately, you want your teenager to have fun during the summer. Soon, they’ll be off to college or heading into the workforce, so summer is their chance to live it up! Before summer break begins, have these conversations with them to create a safety plan for their summer.
Kara Reynolds is the Editor-in-Chief and founder of Momish Magazine. A mom of four and matriarch to her big blended family, Kara wants nothing more than to normalize differences in family structures. She enjoys peeing alone, pancakes, and pinot noir - but not at the same time.
Vrbo and Netflix want to give your kids a “yes day.” In celebration of the film Yes Day’s debut on the streaming service, the vaycay rental company is giving families the chance to live out their dreams through “Yes Day Stays.”
What exactly are “Yes Day Stays?” These perfect-for-the-family vacation properties have everything your kiddo come want—and so much more.
The 10 vacation homes included in this promotion typically rent for up to $1,000 per night. If that seems steep, don’t stress. “Yes Day Stays” are available for the awesomely affordable price of $20 per night.
Lish Kennedy, vice president of global brand marketing at Vrbo, said in a press release, “Nothing is more important and special than spending quality time with family, having fun and making memories together.” Kennedy continued, “We hand-picked some of the coolest vacation homes for Yes Day Stays to make sure kids can have the most unforgettable Yes Day with their families.”
These completely cool vacation properties include amenities such as water slides, decked out pools, a bowling alley, indoor slides, games rooms, entertainment centers and even a mini golf course.
Booking for “Yes Day Stays” starts on Vrbo on Mar. 19, 2021 at 12 p.m. CT for weekend stays starting in April. All homes are available on a first come first serve basis. Check the local travel restrictions before booking your “Yes Day Stay.” To preview the homes, visit Vrbo’s website here.