As a new parent, you’ve probably heard the phrase ‘back to sleep’ more times than you can count—an excellent reminder that infants should be placed on their backs whenever you lay them in their crib. This safe sleep guidance has been around for years and continues to be echoed by sleep experts and the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP), which notes that babies should also be in their own sleep space with no other people, no blankets, and no added materials like stuffies. But you’ve also probably seen lots of photos of babies sleeping on their tummies all scrunched up like little roast chickens. Plus, Grandma won’t stop talking about how in her day babies slept however they wanted. So what’s a new parent to do? We spoke to Dr. Sara Siddiqui, a pediatrician at Hassenfeld Children’s Hospital in New York, to find out when babies can safely sleep on their stomachs.

What are the risks of placing an infant to sleep on their stomach?

The main reason safe sleep guidelines recommend placing an infant on their back when you put them to sleep is because it reduces the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS). “Evidence suggests that when infants are placed on the stomach to sleep, decreased movements and decreased airflow cause an increase in carbon dioxide near the mouth and nose area, potentially causing respiratory suppression,” Dr. Siddiqui explains. By creating a safe sleep space and placing your baby on their back to sleep, you’re significantly reducing their risk of SIDS—knowledge that should help parents sleep better through the night, too.

Some parents think there are risks associated with back sleeping, like their little ones being more likely to choke if they spit up or to develop flat head syndrome (or plagiocephaly). But both are unfounded, according to the safe to sleep guidelines from the National Institute of Health. When babies sleep on their backs, their trachea is positioned above the esophagus, making it hard for fluids to travel against gravity and cause them to choke, whereas on their stomachs the trachea is beneath the esophagus and it’s easier for fluids to make their way to the lungs. Either way, babies very rarely choke in their sleep. Flat heads are also not a concern if your tot is doing tummy time and moving around during the day—plus, they typically resolve themselves.

What should you do if your infant rolls onto their stomach at night?

This is a tough one, because while ‘back to sleep’ is definitely best, babies will start repositioning themselves at some point—and the answer isn’t necessarily to roll them over every time it happens. If your baby has the strength and coordination to roll one way (from back to stomach), they’ll soon develop the ability to roll back over again, at which point you can confidently let them sleep in any position they like after placing them down on their back. You can reposition them if you want, but it’s okay to let them move around in their sleep. Don’t be tempted by products that claim to keep babies positioned on their backs, as they have not been proven safe and may actually increase risk.

“I do not recommend anything in the crib area including bumpers, blankets, sleep positioners, or [weighted] sleep sacks as these could lead to potential suffocation in infants,” Siddiqui says. Non-weighted sleep sacks are fine, she confirms, but any sort of weighted blanket or sleepwear poses a threat to your infant’s safety.

Should you stop swaddling your baby once they start rolling over?

Yes—once your baby is on the move, a sleep sack (or a cozy sleeper and no sleep sack) is safer than swaddling, experts agree. The Safe Sleep guidelines advise that you should stop swaddling your infant once they’re able to roll over, reminding parents that swaddling your baby doesn’t actually reduce their risk of SIDS.

Related: 8 Dos & Don’ts of Baby Sleep (So Everyone Gets More Rest)

Essentially, once an infant can roll onto their stomach, they need to be able to roll back—something they may not be able to do if restricted by a swaddle blanket. The NIH affirms Siddiqui’s view that parents should avoid weighted sleep sacks and swaddles, which have not been proven safe for use. Not only do these products restrict movement, they may restrict an infant’s ability to breathe by placing added weight on their bodies. This is particularly dangerous because infants’ rib cages are still developing in those early months, which makes it harder for them to expand their chests and breathe properly. The best sleep environment for an infant is one that’s basically empty—just your baby in a crib or bassinet, in their pajamas, with nothing else on or around them.

So, when exactly can babies sleep on their stomachs?

There’s no magic age, but most infants develop the ability to roll from their front to their back when they’re between four months and six months old (at which point the risk of SIDS drops significantly). You should still place your baby on their back at bedtime, but once they’ve reached this stage, it’s normal for them to reposition themselves throughout the night. If you’ve created a safe sleep environment that follows medical advice, you don’t need to worry about this movement. We all move in our sleep to find the comfiest position—babies included! The guidelines recommend putting your babe down on their back until their first birthday.

What other risks should be avoided?

While ‘back to sleep’ is the best-known safe sleep strategy, there are other ways parents can reduce risk. In addition to putting babies to sleep on their backs, it’s best to keep them away from secondhand smoke at all times and make sure they aren’t too warm at night, as overheating is thought to contribute to some cases of SIDS. Respiratory illnesses are another potential risk factor, so consider asking visitors if they’ve been unwell recently before letting them get close to your little one.

There are also ways to lower your child’s risk of SIDS by supporting their physical development. “Babies usually learn to roll from stomach to back, and then back to stomach as they become stronger,” Dr. Siddiqui says. “Tummy time is essential in this process.” By practicing tummy time with your baby, you’re helping them develop the core strength and coordination they need to roll safely from their stomach to their back. It’s not just about preventing a flat head—it’s also a safe sleep strategy!

And while bed-sharing isn’t recommended, room-sharing is. The Mayo Clinic suggests having your infant sleep in the same room as you, but not in the same bed, for a minimum of six months. Exclusively breastfeeding your baby (or giving them pumped breast milk) has also been linked to lower instances of SIDS—the longer you breastfeed, the lower the risk is, though the exact reason is unclear.

Sweet dreams for baby and parents

Getting your baby to sleep through the night may be a challenge, but at the end of the day, safe sleep habits are simple: place your infant on a firm, flat surface, avoid loose materials and weighted products, and always remember ‘back to sleep’ when positioning your child in their crib. If you have additional questions, Dr. Siddiqui suggests reaching out to your family doctor for answers and advice. “It’s essential to practice safe sleep practices with all infants,” she says. Talk to your child’s care provider, ask those questions, follow medical guidelines, and know that you’re doing a great job creating a safe sleep space for your baby.

These are the newborn baby gifts that parents will love, too

Baby’s first holiday season is pure magic, and we’ve got the best newborn baby gifts to make it extra special for all the 0 to 6-month-olds on your list. You’ll find tummy-time faves, educational toys, keepsakes, and cuddly stuffies to love on. Shopping for lots of littles? Check out our gift guides for one-year-olds and 18- to 24-month-olds.

Gund My Little Food Truck Play Set

Gund My Little Food Truck Set is one of the best newborn baby gifts of 2023

We love a gift that grows with your baby! Infants will love holding the little sensory toys (like a crinkly taco and a squeaky burger) and putting them in and out of their plush case; when they’re older they can transition to imaginative games where they’re serving food from a food truck.

Gund My Little Food Truck Play Set ($21)—Buy Here!

Manhattan Toy Snuggle Pods Sweet Pea

Manhattan Toy Snuggle Pods Sweet Pea is one of the best newborn baby gifts of 2023

A first doll perfect for six-month-olds, this snuggly little baby comes in their own peapod home. Little hands will love taking their super-soft pal in and out of her pod. Since we’re sure it’ll be love at first sight, you might want to give two of these cuties (in case one goes missing *shudder*).

Manhattan Toy Snuggle Pods Sweet Pea ($24)—Buy Here!

Mushie Links Teether

Mushie Links Teether is one of the best newborn baby gifts of 2023

How beautiful is this? Babies will put just about anything in their mouths, so why not give them a teether or two that are soothing and aesthetically pleasing for parents, too. This Mushie option also comes in calming blue, beige, and sand. *adds to cart*

Mushie Links Teether ($22)—Buy Here!

Melissa & Doug Ice Cream Take-Along Toy

The Melissa And Doug Ice Cream Take Along Toy is one of the best newborn baby gifts

From the stroller to their car seat, babies will love this clip-on vibrating pull toy. As they get to know each of the four ice cream scoops and sensory tags and teethers, you’ll be able to get some stuff done. Definitely one of the best newborn baby gifts this year. 

Melissa & Doug Ice Cream Take-Along Toy ($20)—Buy Here!

Soft Tummy Time Book and Mirror

Tummy time can be such a drag, but your newborn’s sure to be entertained by this multifaceted gift. Your tot can have a tummy party with themselves thanks to the mirror, make some new animal friends on the soft pages, squish the crinkly paper and play with other textures, and attack the gummy orange teether.

Soft Tummy Time Book and Mirror ($35)—Buy Here!

Fox Warmies

Warmies Fox is one of the best newborn baby gifts of 2023

Weighted with buckwheat that you can warm up in the microwave, this super soft woodland stuffie is the soothing companion your baby doesn’t know how to ask for. Just be sure to keep an eye on their snuggles so they don’t get too close. Hot tip: Foxy makes a great heating pad, too.

Fox Warmies ($30)—Buy Here!

Haba Quartett Soft Block Set

Haba Quartett Soft Block Set is one of the best newborn baby gifts of 2023

Give the babes on your list a little STEM action with this foursome of plush cubes each boasting a different sound, color combination, and texture. The best part? They’re machine washable, so spit-up and drool are no match for this toy.

Haba Quartett Soft Block Set ($35)—Buy Here!

Over the Rainbow Music Box

Lull your baby to sleep with a bedtime rendition of "Over the Rainbow," played on this hand-painted, wooden music box. Twist the sun to hear up to three minutes of this favorite melody.

Over the Rainbow Music Box ($72)—Buy Here!

Fisher Price 3-In-1 Crawl and Play Activity Gym

The Fisher Price 3-in-1 Crawl and Play Activity Gym is one of the best newborn baby gifts of 2023

This activity gym does triple duty as your newborn grows. Tinies can bat at the rattles and teethers on their back while older babies love the mirror and singing watering can for tummy time. Once you’ve got a crawler, convert the mat into a little fort that also makes a great tunnel. Baby’s first clubhouse!

Fisher Price 3-In-1 Crawl and Play Activity Gym ($75)—Buy Here!

Plan Toys Sensory Tumbling Set

Plan Toys Sensory Tumbling Set is one of the best newborn baby gifts of 2023

Each of these adorable tumbling balls stimulates a different sense—red is touch, with its fluffy stuffing; blue is sound, thanks to three clanking balls; and with a mirror hiding inside, yellow is sight. And baby? Well, baby is endlessly entertained.

Plan Toys Sensory Tumbling Set ($25)—Buy Here!

Lulujo Security Blanket - Rainbow

Buttery soft cotton muslin lined in satin makes this the softest security blanket around, and we love that you get a set of two off the bat (always, always, always have a backup). Your baby’s not going to want to put these down!

Manhattan Toy Learning Cube ($35)—Buy Here!

Sassy The Mover & Shaker Sensory Toy Gift Set

This a baby gift hat trick for the six-month-olds on your list! Expect plenty of fine motor skills and sensory development as your bebe holds and gums the links, spins their rainbow reel (hello, high chair entertainment!), and learns to stack the colorful magnetic pals.

Sassy The Mover & Shaker Sensory Toy Gift Set ($19)—Buy Here!

Hallmark Under the Same Moon Recordable Storybook

Hallmark's Under The Same Moon Recordable Storybook is one of the best newborn baby gifts of 2023

If you live far away from the newborn on your gift list, record a special rendition of this sweet story just for them so they can always hear your voice. The beautiful illustrations are a bonus.

Hallmark Under the Same Moon Recordable Storybook ($35)—Buy Here!

7AM Enfant Cub Set

7am Enfant's Cub Set is one of the best newborn baby gifts of 2023

This is the coziest newborn baby gift by far! Transform your babe into a little bear cub with an adorable sherpa set that’s sure to keep their tiny hands and heads warm all winter long.

7AM Enfant Cub Set ($50)—Buy Here!

Manhattan Toy Wimmer-Ferguson Learning Cube

Manhattan Toy Learning Cube is one of the best newborn baby gifts

The best baby gifts can be used in lots of different ways to keep baby endlessly entertained. Take that longer-than-you-expected checkout line! This plush cube has six sides to explore, from crinkle paper and a textured teething ring to the elephant’s fun bungee trunk.

Manhattan Toy Learning Cube ($35)—Buy Here!

Malarkey Kids' Chew Tube

Once they’re past the newborn phase and teething is in full swing, this easy-to-grasp toy and teether is a parent’s dream. The textured silicone outer cube soothes tender gums while the black-and-white inner rattle cube is a sensory delight.

Malarkey Kids' Chew Tube ($13)—Buy Here!

Rookie Humans In the Jungle Swaddle Blanket

Rookie Humans In the Jungle Swaddle Blanket is one of the best newborn baby gifts of 2023

We’re smitten by the safari print on this luxuriously soft swaddle, perfect for keeping baby cozy while they sleep, acting as a light blanket in their stroller, or—dare we say—mopping up the odd puddle of spit up.

Rookie Humans In the Jungle Swaddle Blanket ($25.00)—Buy Here!

Black & White Board Book: A High Contrast

An absolute classic newborn baby gift, this board book by award-winning photographer Tana Hoban folds out entirely and is sturdy enough to stand on its own during tummy time. Littles love the high-contrast black-and-white images, which help to develop their eyesight.

Black & White Board Book ($7)—Buy Here!

Baby Einstein Take Along Tunes Toy

Baby Einstein Take Along Tunes Toy is one of the best newborn baby gifts of 2023

This is one of the least annoying musical baby toys out there, which is why it’s been a staple on baby gift lists for a decade. Infants 3 months and older delight in pressing the colorful buttons to start the music and spinning the beads on the handle, and it’s easy to throw in your bag for on-the-go entertainment.

Baby Einstein Take Along Tunes Toy ($10)—Buy Here!

Curious Baby Activity Cards

This is truly a gift for first-time parents Googling “How to entertain a two-month-old” at 3 a.m. The convenient flip guide developed by pediatricians takes parents through games and activities that contribute to five different areas of a baby’s development, from birth to one year.

Curious Baby Activity Cards ($35)—Buy Here!

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It’s always a good time to show a new mom or mom-to-be how amazing and beloved she is. And a gift that celebrates her new role is always appreciated. Whether you’re shopping for a birthday, baby shower, Mother’s Day or the first time you meet her little one, you’ll find the right gift below.

Pre-Packed Birth Bags

Baby Boldly

A pre-packed birth bag to bring to the hospital is a true luxury. Choose from bags in three sizes (minimalist, happy medium and fully prepared) or special gifts for surrogates and parenting expecting through IVF. Designed by two moms who get it, these bags include must-haves like grippy socks, a massage ball, phone charger, dry shampoo and more items to make you say, "Wow, I wouldn't have thought of that!"

Available at babyboldly.com.

Alphabet Art from The Letter Nest

The Letter Nest

These beautiful pieces of art are printed to order from watercolor paintings by Sally King McBride, a New York City-based artist, illustrator and mom of two. Choose an alphabet print, a child's name or a monogram in a variety of themes, from woodland and animals to flowers and dessert. If you're unsure of what to get, purchase a gift card and let the recipient choose. This is elevated artwork that becomes the centerpiece of your nursery and will look just as stylish in your child's room as they grow up.

Available at theletternest.com.

The Birthdate Book from Birthdate Co

Birthdate Co

This gorgeous, made-to-order book reveals a baby's astrological birth chart, mapping the stars and planets at the exact moment of birth. It provides more than 70 pages of horoscope analysis, revealing insights about a child's personality and what their future may hold.

Available at birthdate.co, $115.

To the Moon and Back Bracelet Set from Starling

Starling

Bracelets for a new mom and her child, because moms love their babies to the moon and back. The bracelets in this delicate duo are available in three sizes (baby, child and adult), so you can choose who gets the star and the moon, and you can even buy additional bracelets for older kids, aunts and grandparents to make it a family affair. It comes in four metals: 14k yellow gold, 14k white gold, 14k rose gold, and silver.

Available at starlingjewelry.com, $90 for the silver set of two bracelets; $340 for each of the three gold varieties.

New Momma Box from Brightbox

Brightbox

If you're looking for a fun, inexpensive gift for a mom who's far away, this is what you want. Brightbox has an amazing collection of curated gift boxes with thoughtful presents at a very reasonable price: $15. In the New Momma box, moms receive a pretty compass necklace, fuzzy baby socks, a drool bib and two stroopwafel cookies. You choose a card from a ton of well-designed options and add a personal message. There's also an option to include more items, like gift cards, snacks and hair scrunchies, at an additional cost. 

Available at brightboxes.com, $15.

Mom-Themed T-Shirts from the Bee & the Fox

The Bee & the Fox

Whether she's a proud mama, mama bird, mama bear, super mom or mamacita, you'll find the perfect t-shirt for her at the Bee & the Fox. The brand's Motherlode Collection has cool, vintage-looking, high-quality t-shirts and sweatshirts with a variety of sayings. And if you want to get matchy, they have onesies emblazoned with Baby Bear and Baby Bird.

Available at thebeeandthefox.com, prices vary.

First Footprint Necklace from Tiary

Tiary

This elegant and meaningful memento comes in silver, rose gold, white gold or yellow gold. It's available in three different lengths and can also be engraved for an even more personal touch.

Available at tiary.com, from $102.

"My Mom: In Her Own Words" Keepsake Interview Book

Compendium

This interview journal lets moms tell their story so kids can discover everything about them, from childhood memories and beloved relatives to their best advice. New moms have years to jot down their information before kids are old enough to read the journal, so there's no pressure on busy new moms to do "homework." But it's a story new moms will enjoy telling and kids will love to read.

Available at amazon.com, $9.89.

Dew You Bundle from Belli Skincare

Belli Skincare

The Dew you skincare bundle from Belli Skincare combines a moisturizing body lotion with a belly oil for warding off stretch marks. The Belli line is safe for use during pregnancy and while nursing and is scented with essential oils.

Available at belliskincare.com, $42.

Countdown to Mama 14-Gift Box

Countdown to Mama

Literally a gift that keeps on giving, this unique gift combines 14 days of presents, like an advent calendar just for mom. Inside, you'll find beautiful gifts to make a new mom (or mom-to-be) smile: a gold-plated necklace inscribed "mama," a nursing cover, swaddle blanket, baby hat and matching headband for mom, milestone stickers, foot cream, bath bomb and more.

Available at countdowntomama.com, $185.

Birth Flower Stacker Necklace from Made by Mary

Made by Mary

A birth flower necklace is a beautiful twist on the trend of birthstone jewelry. These delicate discs are made with gold filled, rose gold filled or sterling silver, and the design is hand-drawn, hand-cut and stamped. It's elegant on its own or stacked with other special birthdays.

Available at madebymary.com, from $32.

Essentials Bundle from Audrey & Bear

Audrey & Bear

Any new mom would love these robe and swaddle sets from Audrey & Bear. They come with a robe for mom, plus a personalized hat or headband, swaddle blanket and no-scratch mittens. They're available in a number of beautiful colors and prints, with robes fitting women in size 2 to 32, in standard and tall sizes.

Available at audreyandbear.com, $148.

Mom's Sippy Cup Insulated Mug from Etsy

Etsy

Give a new mom a laugh and a nice mug that keeps her coffee hot and water cold, thanks to the stainless steel construction and double-wall vacuum insulation. It's unbreakable and holds 12 ounces of mom's favorite drink. It comes in other sizes and with different sayings.

Available at Etsy.com, $13.59.

Workout Program for Moms from Every Mother

Every Mother

This workout program is specifically designed for pregnant and new moms, from trimester-specific workout regiments that ward off low back pain and build stamina for childbirth to movements that heal diastatis recti and help women maintain a healthier lifestyle.

Learn more at every-mother.com.

14K Gold Letter Ring from Maya Brenner

Maya Brenner

Wear baby's first initial as a 14-carat ring. If you have more kids, it makes a dramatic and beautiful ring stack. Choose from rose gold, yellow gold or white gold.

Available at mayabrenner.com, $240.

Boys and Girls Noel Baby Handprint and Footprint Keepsake Frame

KEABABIES

This kit from Keababies makes it easy to preserve a child's tiny little toes and fingers forever. The kit comes with clay you insert into the frame and then gently press your child's hand and foot into. Pop two photos in the photo spots and your keepsake is done. 

Available at Macys.com, $19.95.

—Eva Ingvarson Cerise

 

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Milestone blankets make a great backdrop for chronicling your newborn’s growth over the first year. Now there’s a fun way to incorporate your favorite show into your baby’s monthly pictures. BATZkids sells two limited-edition customizable blankets inspired by the hit TV show, Friends

The soft fleece blanket features the iconic yellow frame from Rachel and Monica’s door along with the quote, “Can I be any cuter?” Make sure you say that with Chandler’s inflection. 


Milestone Blanket

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You can customize the blanket with your baby’s name displayed as part of a phrase inspired by the episode titles, “The One Where (Name) Turns….”


Twins Milestone Themed Blanket

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Choose from medium or large sizes in this super soft fleece blanket that is pill free.


Firsts Holiday Milestone blanket

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The blankets are available in two colors, white and purple. They're available in 3 different sizes - small 40" by 30," medium 60" x 50," and large 80" x 60" and vary in price from $44 to $80.


Swaddle Blanket

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Start them off from the get-go with this swaddle blanket made from soft microfiber fleece that comes in small, medium and large sizes.

 

 

If Friends isn’t your thing, they’ve also got other adorable options such as Star Wars and Harry Potter.

—Karly Wood

All photos: BATZkids

 

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The Best Nursing Pillows for Breastfeeding Your Babe

Have baby, will travel? Yep! Make it much easier to leave your home with these tricks for feeding your baby when you’re out and about. Whether you’re breastfeeding, formula feeding or if your kid more of a snacker, our list of helpful hacks promises to make your park trips, errands, road trips and flights go more smoothly. Keep reading to see it all.

Hacks for Nursing & Bottle Feeding

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1. Get an inflatable travel nursing pillow to keep in the car, and pop it in your carry-on when you travel by plane. When you’re not in transit, that pillow can give your baby a cozy, supported spot to sit or lay on.

2. No need to cry over spilled or spoiled milk. Just bring more formula or pumped breast milk than you think you’ll need. On active days, especially warm ones, your baby will likely be more thirsty than when you’re chilling at home, and a change in routine can also mean a change in feeding habits.

3. Pre-portion formula into small, snack-size plastic bags and fill clean bottles with the amount of water you need. Mix and shake, and it’s bottle time! Bring along additional water in case of spills or if you need more water for drinking.

4. While at home, get your child used to bottles made with room-temperature formula or breastmilk in case you aren’t able to warm bottles while you’re out. With powdered formula, water must be heated to at least 70 degrees Fahrenheit and then cooled until it’s safe for baby to drink.

5. If your babe isn’t going for the room-temperature beverage, there are ways to get hot water to heat your formula bottles or breastmilk bags. Fill large-mouthed travel mugs with hot water before you leave the house, and they’ll keep the water hot for hours. When it’s time for feeding, place the formula bottle or breastmilk bag in a bowl or empty travel mug and pour the hot water into it. Gas stations and coffee shops will also give you hot water (usually for free!) if you tell them you’re using it to warm up your baby’s bottle.

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6. Keep pumped breast milk cold with an ice cooler or freezable lunch bag until you can refrigerate it.

7. Wear a nursing tank under your top so your stomach isn’t exposed when you’re breastfeeding. It also keeps you warmer on chilly days.

8. A swaddle blanket isn’t just for tucking around your baby when it’s chilly or covering the car seat during naptime (leave some of the car seat uncovered so it doesn’t get too hot under there). A swaddle blanket is also handy for slipping over yourself if you’d like some privacy to breastfeed.

9. This is a game-changer for road trips and car outings: If you pump milk, buy the accessories so you can pump in the car. Get an extension cord that plugs into your cigarette lighter, and you can even pump in the backseat!

10. Bring soapy water that you can use to rinse out formula or breastmilk from bottles. Give the bottle a shake to clean them out, and you’ll remove most of the liquid and smell. Pack a clean plastic bag or another container to keep them in until you can wash them properly.

11. Changing your routine might change your focus while breastfeeding. To remember which side you last nursed on, place a hair tie or ring on that hand. Move it after each nursing session, and you’ll always know which side to start nursing on.

Hacks for Baby Snacks

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1. When you’re out and about, whether you’re in a stroller, car seat or sitting outdoors, snack cups with lids that allow little ones to reach their hands in are the key to less mess. The cups are fairly spill-proof, and your child will love the autonomy of grabbing their own snacks.

2. Have you seen those plastic pillboxes they sell near the pharmacy at drugstores? Pick up a large one and pack it with a variety of small snacks, like puffs, Goldfish crackers and dried cranberries. Kids will love having an array of options, and you’ll be glad not to have to pack big containers of snacks. Open all the compartments for a baby buffet or just one at a time to contain messes. When kids get older and hungrier, switch to a larger container with small compartments, like a crafting box or a tackle box.

3. Freeze applesauce pouches or yogurt pouches before you leave the house, especially on hot days. They’ll act as ice packs for veggies and sandwiches when you’re en route, and then you can give your child a cool, slushy treat.

4. Bring along sandwich bags filled with folded paper towels (wet towels in one bag, dry towels in the other). The towels can wipe up any spills, and you’ll have a baggie for food wrappers and other items you’re throwing away.

5. Coffee liners make handy snack plates you can throw away—one less thing to lug around.

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6. If your child is just starting solids, bring along foods that don’t need to be heated, just mashed, like bananas and avocados. Just bring a spoon to mash them up and a knife to cut the avocado.

7. If you’re going on a longer outing, like an all-day or multi-day trip, save some new snacks for the trip home. If your child is over the traveling, a different snack will perk them right up.

8. Looking for a healthy, filling meal you don’t need to heat up? At home, mix raw eggs with finely chopped veggies—roasted or raw. Pour the mixture into mini muffin cups and bake to make a toddler-size treat you can bring with you anywhere.

9. Bring plastic wrap and straws with you if you’ll be getting food from restaurants. If a restaurant only has plastic or paper cups, wrap plastic wrap over the top and pop a straw through. If the cup gets knocked over, the mess will be mostly contained.

10. If you frequently travel by car, a portable car vacuum can keep your car, including the car seat, from getting covered in crumbs. Get the kind that plugs into the cigarette lighter, and you won’t have to worry about it losing its charge.

11. In your kitchen, keep a dedicated snack drawer or shelf with baby-approved store-bought snacks so you can grab and go when you’re in a hurry. Keeping all the kid stuff together also makes it easier to see when you’re running low.

—Eva Ingvarson Cerise

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Wrapping up your newborn like a burrito looks adorable and can soothe babies and help them sleep, but getting the hang of swaddling takes a little practice. Read on to find out the tricks to keeping your little Houdinis from breaking free of the blanket while giving them a safe and cozy spot to snooze.

photo: Antonia Rusev via Pixabay 

Why should I swaddle my baby?
The swaddle mimics the womb environment, which keeps baby warm and feeling secure and may even help with colic, according to the Mayo Clinic. Young babies also experience the moro reflex, or startle reflex, which can wake them up, and the swaddle can soothe baby and lessen the intensity of the reflex. That said, talk to your health care provider about whether swaddling is right for your baby.

How do I safely swaddle my baby?
Take a prenatal class in swaddling or watch the numerous YouTube videos on the subject and you’ll find two main swaddling styles. Both follow a similar format, in which babies’ arms are tucked at their side or on their chest and then a thin blanket is wrapped around their bodies, tight around the chest but loose enough around the hips and legs for baby to move their legs freely. Leg movement is important, as you’ll learn about in the following videos.

Shriners Hospitals for Children Offers Advice on Swaddling Infants Safely
In this video, a pediatric orthopedic surgeon at the Shriners Hospital for Children demonstrates a popular swaddling technique and answers related questions about hip and leg movement and the importance of swaddling correctly.

How to Swaddle a Baby
In this video, UC San Diego Health shows a similar technique, which involves laying the blanket in a square shape, instead of a diamond with the top point folded down. The bottom of the swaddle is folded up like a blanket and then tucked into a side fold so it doesn’t unravel.

Are there risks to swaddling?
As you saw in the videos, there are risks. Babies should only be swaddled when they lay on their backs, and their legs must be free to move. Swaddles can also contribute to overheating or, if not wrapped securely, can cover your child’s face. Here are recommendations from the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) on safe sleep for babies, which you can also find on the AAP website:

AAP Safe Sleep Recommendations
The AAP recommends parents follow the safe sleep recommendations every time they place their baby to sleep for naps or at nighttime:

• Place your baby on her back to sleep, and monitor her to be sure she doesn’t roll over while swaddled.
• Do not have any loose blankets in your baby’s crib. A loose blanket, including a swaddling blanket that comes unwrapped, could cover your baby’s face and increase the risk of suffocation.
• Use caution when buying products that claim to reduce the risk of SIDS. Wedges, positioners, special mattresses and specialized sleep surfaces have not been shown to reduce the risk of SIDS, according to the AAP.
• Your baby is safest in her own crib or bassinet, not in your bed.
• Swaddling can increase the chance your baby will overheat, so avoid letting your baby get too hot. The baby could be too hot if you notice sweating, damp hair, flushed cheeks, heat rash, and rapid breathing.
• Consider using a pacifier for naps and bedtime.
• Place the crib in an area that is always smoke-free.

Learn more on the AAP website.

When should you stop swaddling?
Talk to your health care provider for advice. The main sign to look for is that your baby is trying to roll over onto their belly, as swaddles are only safe when a baby is laying on their back. This could occur as early as two months after birth.

Struggling with the swaddle blanket?
If the traditional swaddle blanket isn’t working for you or your baby, check out our guide to swaddles and sleep sacks. No wrapping required; zippers and other enclosures keep your baby all bundled up.

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Are you expecting a little prince or princess this year? With the impending arrival of Meghan Markle and Prince Harry’s new addition, the whole world is officially on Royal Baby Watch. You can get into the spirit with new trendy Royal Baby gear.

Check out some of our favorite picks for your own royal baby.

Magnetic Me’s Limited Edition “An Heir is Born” Collection

Magnetic Me

The Magnetic Me onesies are known for being a silent, time saver thanks to their magnetic fasteners that practically close themselves making it easy dress little princesses and princes in seconds. The new collection features a gown and hat, lovey, swaddle blanket, footie pjs and a bib, all emblazoned with a whimsical print of royal crowns and flags.

Available on Magnetic Me, $15-48.

Personalized Coat of Arms Royal Baby Announcement

Uncommon Goods

This colored-pencil drawing is the perfect keepsake to hang on the royal nursery wall. Each print which is inspired by a royal coat of arms, but with toys and animals, is customized with special details about your baby, including his or her weight, zodiac sign, parents' names, and the town and state of birth.

Available at Uncommon Goods, $120.

Oeuf “2019” Cotton Crown

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Crown your little prince or princess with this soft and sweet accessory fit for royalty. This little crown was practically made for newborn photo shoots!

Available at oeufnyc.com, $44.

Cath Kidston London Toile Everyday Changing Bag

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The design on this stylish diaper bag will have you singing "London Bridge Is Falling Down" while you tote around everything your royal baby needs. 

Available at CathKidston.com, $104.

“The Royal Baby’s Big Red Bus” Book

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Give your little bookwork a tour of London exploring all the sights from the London Eye to the Tower Bridge. This title is just the latest addition in the Royal Baby book series.

Available at Amazon, $12.40.

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Move over unicorns, llamas are in town and they’re the next, cutest animal on the block. If you’re looking for a new theme for your nursery or just the perfect baby gift for an upcoming shower, check out these adorable llama baby gifts that are al on Amazon.

Posh Peanut Newborn Gift

Give your llama-loving mamas the most beautiful gift with this gorgeous newborn set ($33), complete with large swaddle blanket and adorable headband. The beautiful print is made with 100% bamboo and is pre washed not treated with chlorine containing bleaches, zinc and sulphate. And most importantly––would you look at that llama?!

Llama Sleep Sack

Experts say that using a wearable blanket like this Halo Sleep Sack ($25) is much safer than leaving blankets in the crib with a baby, and you can't go wrong with this muslin version with adorable llamas! The unique construction provides for ample breathing room, is "hip healthy" for growing babies and comes with an inverted zipper for easy diaper changes.

Lil' Llama Natural Rubber Teething Toy

Move over Sophie, Lil' Llama ($20) is in town! This natural rubber teething toy is free of lead, phthalate, PVC, and BPA materials and will coordinate with all your other llama accessories beautifully!

Llama Crib Sheet

Keep nice and warm when your baby cozies up to these adorable flannel llama crib sheets ($13). It's made from 100% cotton, full elasticized and fits standard crib mattresses. 

Llama Night Light

Keep a soft glow in baby's room with this adorable llama night light ($17). It features a dusk to dawn light sensor and provides glare-free lighting so you can find your way to the crib in the middle of the night, that's not so bright it will keep the baby awake.

Llama Wubbanub Pacifer

This sweet llama pacifier ($20) soothes in more ways than one! The adorable plush makes those lost Paci's easy to find, and are a fun toy to play with, too!

Llama Bib

Bella Tunno's Mama Llama Wonder Bib ($15) doesn't just catch all those baby mishaps––it looks adorable while doing it! It's made with an adjustable neck and from PVC-free, BPA-free,  and food-grade silicone that is also dishwasher safe!

Llama Llama Nighty Night Book

Start bedtime off on the right foot, even with your new babies! The bedtime story, Llama Llama Nighty Night ($5.39) is the perfect way to say goodnight, and will match perfectly with any llama themed baby gift.

Whole Llama Fun Monthly Sticker Set

Make remembering milestones a breeze when you have monthly printed stickers to mark the occasion, like this adorable whole llama fun stickers ($11)! They're super easy to peel and stick onto baby's outfit each month and make the perfect baby shower gift.

Llama Outfit

Perfect for a baby boy or girl, this yellow llama outfit and hat ($12) ranges in size from 0-24 months. It's made from soft, breathable cotton that makes it easy for baby to move, especially into the crawling stage!

Stuffed Llama

Give the gift of snuggling! This adorable plush llama ($10) is the perfect size for baby and will soon become a favorite. It's bean filled and comes with lots of realistic flair. It would make the perfect gift topper, don't you think?

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When I was expecting our first, I spent so much time online researching the best of the best that I actually popped a blood vessel in my right eye. It was around midnight and I was still deep in the throes of Amazon reviews, checking to see which baby shampoos were made without harmful chemicals.

I looked up from my computer screen for the first time in hours to find a streak of red streaming across my pupil. That should have been my first sign that my quest for All The Answers was going a little too far.

Yet, I still didn’t stop, mainly because I didn’t know how to. I spent so much money on new baby literature and asked all my friends for advice every chance I could. On one hand, it was an incredible time of learning and I soaked it all up like a sponge.

I leaned on my own mama more than ever and she imparted tons of her wisdom to me during those sacred nine months. She taught me how to fold a swaddle blanket, put on a wrap sling as long as the Mississippi River and to stock up on vapor rub because even if my babies can’t use it yet, it could do wonders for my stretch marks.

By the time my daughter arrived that summer, I should have been well-versed in her care. After all, my husband and I had attended a week’s worth of “Baby 101” classes at our hospital. We’d taken an infant CPR course, had a stack of books on our bedside tables and had perfected our baby registry, expertly curated thanks to the 1.5 million mommy bloggers whose pages I stalked to find the top gear.

Yet, when that baby arrived and they placed her in my arms, everything I thought I knew flew out the window. You know back in the day when you were in school and you’d cram so hard for a test? Then, you’d arrive with your #2 pencils sharpened and your calculator out and suddenly as the papers are passed around you’d go absolutely blank? It was just like that, but on a much more significant scale.

Call it nerves or shock or maybe a little of both, but I just looked at that squishy pile of perfection on my chest and wondered, “How on Earth is this mine?” How in the world was I going to be responsible for this tiny, gorgeous munchkin? I felt inadequate and frankly very overwhelmed. It wasn’t until we got home from the hospital, when all those first-week meals were finished and my husband went back to work, that I truly got the chance to find out for myself what this was going to be like.

Suddenly, it was just us. I remember waking up that first morning alone and rolling over to the edge of the bed to check on her in her bassinet. I woke up at 5:00 a.m., a bundle of anxious energy. I checked on her every five minutes until around 8:00, when she finally woke up and her eyes met mine.

Since then, we’ve added another baby to the brood and it really is true that things are different the next time around. I was more relaxed with that pregnancy and didn’t go into the experience nearly as panic-ridden.

We changed the “five-second rule” to the “10-second rule” when he came along and I didn’t think twice when he picked up a big blob of sand and smashed it in his mouth as a 6-month old on the beach. I’m a more relaxed mama and I credit both of my babies for that transformation.

That isn’t to say I have all the answers. I don’t think I’ll ever get there and as time goes on I don’t think I want to. I love this journey of discovery that we go along together every day. There is something different to learn every time we’re together and I think leaning deeply into that is one of the keys of happy parenting.

For instance, we were all hit with the sinus bug pretty hard this winter. Last month, I took both of them to see their incredible pediatrician. They were feverish. I was disheveled, pretty scared and cried at the drop of a hat due to an immense lack of sleep.

“I don’t think I can do this,” I said to him as I passed the first baby off to be examined. “Sure you can,” he replied. “Just look at them. They’re under the weather right now but look at these beautiful kids. You’re doing just fine, mama.”

That’s the message I want to impart to you today. I know you’re stressed, overcommitted and likely pulled in a million different directions. I know you want the best for your family, but you second-guess every day if what you’re doing is going to get you there.

So you read the reviews for hours and you get five different medical opinions. You post questions in closed social media groups hoping that a bunch of strangers can shed light on an issue close to your mama heart. I’ve been there and I’m still there with you.

The good news? Looking for answers doesn’t make you weak. It means your heart is in the right place and when that’s in order, everything has a way of working out. You’re doing just fine mama. Just look at them.

Featured Photo Courtesy: Derek Thompson via Unsplash

Hi, y'all! I'm Courtney. I'm a mama of two, married to my high-school sweetheart and making a life in the little town I grew up in. I'm a writer by trade, but a mama by heart. I love chocolate and I love family. Let's navigate this crazy, messy, blessed journey together!