Your baby’s first year will be a whirlwind of dirty diapers, meeting milestones, and flashing charming, toothless smiles that’ll melt your heart. Amid all that, it’s hard to know when they’re ready for new experiences, like swim classes or their first airplane trip. That’s where we come in. If you’re trying to figure out how to balance what baby can do with places to have fun (we know you’re ready to get out there), simply pull up this list. It matches fun baby activities with the right age to introduce each.
Places to Have Fun: 0-3 months
Go on a Walk
Strolls around the block, through a nearby park, or in your favorite neighborhood are great at any age for you and your baby. It’s a chance to get out of the house, breathe some fresh air, and maybe even run into a friend or two. Speaking of, this is one of those baby activities that’s best with another parent. That way you can gab and share and get that support that all new parents need.
Take a Baby and Me Yoga Class
If your two-month-old naps easily in a car seat or stroller, you might be ready for a baby and me yoga class, where you can get some exercise and meet some other new parents, too. Some classes are also designed to include babies in the movements. Just make sure your little one is ready to participate before making the switch.
Meet Up with Family
Whether you head out to a coffee shop to meet up with grandparents, or you bring a picnic to a nearby park to meet up with baby’s uncle, those first few months are a great time for family (near and far) to meet your newest addition. The best part? These folks are going to want to hold your baby, and unlike most who ask, we’re pretty sure you’ll let them.
Join a Parent Workout Class
Finding the time to work out in those first few months can be challenging. But if you can bring baby along with you, you’ve at least got a fighting chance. National programs like FIT4MOM include babies in the workout, so you can get out, get exercise, and meet other new parents.
Good to Know: The American College of Obstetrics & Gynecologists (ACOG) gives the green light to working out a few days after giving birth if you had an easy vaginal delivery. But it’s best to consult with your OB-GYN before starting back into a workout routine.
Places to Have Fun: 3-6 Months
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Visit Your Local Zoo or Aquarium
A trip to the zoo offers loads of new sights and sounds for a stroller-bound five- or six-month-old. A petting zoo can be a great sensory experience and a chance to practice farm animal sounds. If there’s not a zoo nearby, you can get some animal time by heading to a local dog park to watch the puppies play.
Most libraries and lots of independent bookstores across the country offer free storytime sessions for babies and toddlers. Many even have special times for the youngest babes. Starting around four months old, your child will love snuggling with you to enjoy rhymes, songs, and super-short stories.
Go for a Hike or a Run
Simple walks are good for those first few months. But when your wee one is a bit more stable around three to four months, you can head out for longer, bumpier treks into the great outdoors. At that age, babies can ride in a solid, structured back carrier, which makes your adorable load easier to carry on extended treks.
Places to Have Fun: 6-9 Months
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Explore the Beach
Around this time, babies are learning to crawl. If you’re lucky to time this developmental stage with summertime, we couldn’t think of a better place to explore than a nearby beach. Sand works surprisingly well as a surface to learn to crawl. And babies this age love the sensation of sand running through their fingers and squishing under their toes.
You’ve been waiting to take your baby to the playground forever, and now is the time. The baby swings at your local playground are perfect for little ones who can sit up on their own and control their head. Try out a swing at six months to see if your baby enjoys it, and expect them to love it by eight or nine months. To make the seat more comfortable for them, tuck a blanket in front of, or behind, your baby to fill out the bucket swing.
Sign Up for a Music Class
Although baby may be too little for an at-home dance party, that doesn’t mean you can’t make music a part of baby’s life. Around seven months, when kids can sit up and bang a rattle, parent and me music class starts to be extra fun for little ones and their grown-ups. Hint: they’re even more fun when you bring a friend.
Visit a Local Children’s Museum
Most children’s museums have set up awesome, interactive centers specifically for babies and toddlers under three. They’re equipped with soft pillows to scramble across and big blocks to stack. Try this when your crawler needs a safe, fun place to explore, starting right around eight months of age.
Places to Have Fun: 9-12 Months
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Try a Swim Class
The American Academy of Pediatrics says kids as young as age one may be ready to start swim lessons—and research suggests that swim lessons for kids under age four reduces the risk of drowning. If you have a water baby on your hands, your child might enjoy splashing around in a parent and me swim class starting around this age.
Take a Baby Gym Class
Active crawlers, usually between eight to ten months, will get a kick out of a gym class. They can scramble over pyramids of pillows and giggle underneath a parachute, all in a super-cushioned play area. All that activity tires kids out, which usually translates into good, long naps.
Get a New Set of Wheels
At age one, your not-so-tiny-anymore baby should be ready to try a ride-on toy. From trikes to toddler-sized fire trucks, anything with wheels and foot-to-floor action is a hit with toddlers. Hint: it makes a great first-birthday present.
Make sure to capture all of your first-year fun—and share it with your family and friends near and far—with the Tinybeans app. The secure platform puts parents in total control of who sees and interacts with photos and videos of their kids.
Find a gentle baby shampoo, body wash, baby lotion, and more with this A-to-Z guide to natural skin care products for babies and toddlers. From skin-soothing, eczema-healing products and cradle cap shampoos to luxuriously scented body lotions and bubble baths, read on for the bathing and after-bath products each brand offers, yucky ingredients they’re formulated without, and more reasons why they’re worth checking out.
Aveeno Baby What they offer: The Daily Care line features baby wash & shampoo, body lotion, conditioning shampoo. The Eczema Therapy line features nighttime balm, moisturizing wash, moisturizing cream and bath treatment. The Baby Soothing Relief line features creamy wash and moisturizing cream. The Baby Calming Comfort line features calming comfort bath and body lotion. Formulated without: parabens, phthalates; some products are fragrance-free Why check them out: With different lines of hypoallergenic baby skincare products, you’re likely to find a regimen that soothes your baby’s dry or irritated skin.
Babo Botanicals What they offer: baby shampoo & wash, hydrating stick, healing ointment, baby wash foam, body lotion, conditioner, face & body wipes, face cream, calming shampoo, bubble bath & wash Formulated without: parabens, phthalates, synthetic fragrances, dairy, soy, gluten or high-allergy nut oils. Why check them out: The products are tested to ensure they’re non-irritating and hypoallergenic. They contain ingredients rich in vitamins and antioxidants to soothe and comfort sensitive skin.
Baby Bum What they offer: shampoo & wash, bubble bath, lotion, coconut balm, calendula cream Formulated without: parabens, phthalates, formaldehyde donors, dyes, sulfates, silicones, glycol, retinyl palmitate, triclosan, talc, gluten, synthetic fragrances Why check them out: The line contains therapeutic and moisturizing ingredients including sea minerals, monoi coconut oil, aloe and cocoa butter to hydrate sensitive baby skin. Some products also come in fragrance-free versions.
Baby Dove What they offer: baby shampoo, baby conditioner, detangling cream, body wash, soap bars, body lotion, body cream, baby oil, Formulated without: All Dove products are formulated without phthalates, lyral, triclosan, triclocarban, retinyl palmitate, coal tar, octanoate, hydroquinone, cyclic silicone D4. The company is phasing out parabens, lilial, formaldehyde and formaldehyde donors from their products. Why check them out: The products are affordable and easy to find, and the line features collections for melanin-rich skin, curl nourishment hair products, eczema-prone skin and more.
Babyganics What they offer: protective ointment, shampoo + body wash, moisturizing cream wash, bubble bath, vapor bubble bath, baby lotion, eczema care skin protectant cream. In the tots line, they have shampoo + conditioner (for both straight and curly hair) and a detangling spray Formulated without: parabens, sulfates, phthalates, synthetic fragrances, dyes, cortisone, steroids, mineral oil, petrolatum Why check them out: The Babyganics website is transparent about the company's rigorous testing process before products are released, and the company continues to test and improve formulas based on new scientific research.
BEB Organic What they offer: shampoo & body wash, probiotic serum, protective balm, face & body oil, face & body cream Formulated without: synthetic dyes & fragrances, mineral oil, petroleum, BPA, phthalates, phenoxyethanol, soy, dairy, palm oil, gluten, wheat Why check them out: Safe for even preemies' sensitive skin, this premium, all-natural baby skincare line is cruelty-free and packed with natural and certified-organic ingredients. It was previously only available in hospitals and birthing centers.
Bella B
Bella B Naturals What they offer: bubble bath, hair & body wash, cradle cap shampoo, hair detangler, conditioner, moisturizing lotion Formulated without: parabens, animal by-products, petrolatum, lanolin, harsh chemicals Why check them out: This broad line of baby products is formulated with flower extracts and moisturizing ingredients such as aloe vera, avocado and shea.
Bubbsi What they offer: shampoo & wash, body cream, body balm, conditioner (to be released March 2021) Formulated without: Parabens, phthalates, sulfates, mineral oils, dyes, synthetic fragrance, common natural irritants and allergens, nearly 1,400 ingredients currently banned in EU cosmetics Why check them out: Organic coconut oil is the lead ingredient in Bubbsi’s moisturizing skincare products, which come in super cute silicone bottles shaped like animals. Save money by refilling with the value-size refills sold on the site.
Burts Bees What they offer: baby shampoo & wash, bubble bath, body lotion, buttermilk soap, baby oil, multipurpose ointment Formulated without: phthalates, parabens, petrolatum, SLS Why check them out: A trusted name in natural skincare, the Burt’s Bees line of baby products is packed full of good-for-you ingredients such as cocoa butter, royal jelly and aloe.
California Baby What they offer: shampoo & body wash, conditioner, hair detangler, bubble bath Formulated without: petroleum contaminants, synthetic fragrances, parabens, SLS, sulfates, dyes, formaldehyde carriers, phthalates, gluten, oat, soy, dairy, nuts (some products contain coconut) Why check them out: Shop by scent, skin issue or allergy concern to find your favorite bath products from this extensive line. Founded in 1995, this woman-owned brand is committed to safe baby products, even growing its own calendula on a certified organic farm in Santa Barbara.
CeraVe What they offer: body wash & shampoo, moisturizing cream, moisturizing lotion, healing ointment Formulated without: parabens, sulfates, phthalates, fragrance Why check them out: CeraVe contains three types of ceramides, which are lipids that help restore the skin’s barrier and retain moisture, and hydrating hyaluronic acid.
Dapple Baby What they offer: shampoo & body wash, bubble bath, body lotion Formulated without: parabens, sulfates, phthalates, mineral oil, synthetic dyes & fragrances, SLS, MEA, DEA or TEA Why check them out: You may know Dapple Baby for its amazing bottle & dish soap, and its bath products are just as good. The bath products use plant-based formulas, with plant-derived ingredients and essential oils, and a prebiotic botanical blend for gentle cleansing and moisturizing.
Dr. Bronner’s
Dr. Bronner’s What they offer: castile liquid soap, castile bar soap, body balm Formulated without: synthetic preservatives, petrochemical detergents, parabens, sulfates, phthalates, fragrance, foaming agents Why check them out: The fragrance-free baby line from family favorite Dr. Bronner’s contains organic and fair-trade ingredients such as coconut, olive, hemp and jojoba oils for safe and effective cleaning and moisturizing.
Earth Mama Organics What they offer: body lotion, face balm, baby wash, baby oil Formulated without: artificial fragrance, artificial preservatives, antibacterial chemicals, phthalates, parabens, sulfates Why check them out: The calendula plant, known for being anti-inflammatory and mild for sensitive baby skin and hair, is the key ingredient in this line, which features scented and unscented products.
EllaOla What they offer: shampoo & body wash, baby lotion, massage oil Formulated without: parabens, pthalates, sulfates, oxybenzone, steroids, synthetic fragrances, PEGs, dyes, formaldehyde releasers, propylene glycol Why check them out: This science-based, plant-based skincare brand was created with the help of an advisory board including experts in dermatology, pediatrics and parenting.
EO Products: Everyone for Every Body What they offer: kids soap (3 in 1 shampoo, body wash and bubble bath), body lotion Formulated without: parabens, phthalates, synthetic fragrances, artificial colors and dyes, sodium lauryl sulfate, aluminum, propylene glycol, polysorbates Why check them out: The kids line (and all EO Products) is made from non-GMO ingredients and infused with pure essential oils, making the scents fresh and kid-friendly. EWG Verified, the products are manufactured in-house in a zero-waste Northern California facility. The extra large 32 ounce easy-pump size and 3 in 1 soaps make this an affordable pick both parents and kids will love.
Era Organics What they offer: baby wash, baby balm, body lotion Formulated without: parabens, sulfates, mineral oil, SLS, dyes, fragrance, gluten, harsh chemicals Why check them out: Era Organics’ products are cruelty-free and filled with food-grade nutrients.
Evereden What they offer: shampoo & body wash, moisturizing lotion Formulated without: parabens, phthalates, sulfates, synthetic fragrance, cocamidopropyl betaine, coca midopropyl hydroxysultaine, phenoxyethanol, the 1,400 ingredients prohibited in the EU Why check them out: Created by Ivy League-educated dermatologists, the line is filled with plant-based ingredients from around the world that have a top rating on Environmental Working Group’s Skin Deep Database.
Exederm Skincare What they offer: eczema wash, eczema lotion, eczema cream Formulated without: parabens, phthalates, SLS, lanolin, propylene glycol, colors or dyes, cocamidopropyl betaine, fragrance Why check them out: The line is devoted to dry, sensitive skin and soothing skin irritated by eczema or dermatitis. Each product has earned the Seal of Acceptance from the National Eczema Association.
Fairy Tales Hair Care What they offer: shampoo, conditioner and styling products Formulated without: parabens, sulfates, toxic chemicals, dairy, gluten, nuts Why check them out: They have an array of products from non-toxic lice treatment, to hydration for curls to summer sun protection, so there’s something perfect for every hair type and circumstance.
Hello Bello What they offer: shampoo & body wash, baby lotion, bubble bath Formulated without: sulfates, SLS and SLES, synthetic fragrances, phthalates, parabens, formaldehyde donors, phenoxyethanol, petrolatum, mineral oil, PEGs, MEA, DEA, TEA and common allergens such as gluten, peanut and dairy Why check them out: Cofounded by actors and married parents Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard, Hello Bello offers premium-quality, eco-friendly products at budget-friendly prices, thanks to an exclusive partnership with Walmart.
Healthybaby What they offer: organic cotton diapers, shampoo & bodywash, eco-friendly laundry and cleaning products Formulated without: parabens, phthalates, fragrances, optical brighteners and chlorine Why check them out: Healthybaby was developed for healthy brains and boasts plant-based ingredients for baby’s skin along with food-grade quality standards. Healthybaby’s mantra is “fewer, better things” meaning they focus on reducing waste and clutter and ensure that their products are safe and of high quality.
The Honest Company What they offer: shampoo & body wash, face & body lotion, conditioner, bubble bath, conditioning detangler, all-purpose balm, body oil, bar soap, balm and body wash for eczema-prone skin Formulated without: sulfates, parabens, SLS, silicones, harsh chemicals, synthetic fragrances, formaldehyde carriers, MEA, DEA or TEA, PEGs, ethoxylates Why check them out: Honest’s baby bath products come in four scents (orange vanilla, lavender, apricot and fragrance free), and you can save by buying bundles of products in a customizable subscription.
Li’l Goat’s What they offer: goat’s milk soap, shampoo & body wash, body lotion, baby wipes, diaper rash ointment Formulated without: parabens, sulfates, phthalates Why check them out: Goat’s milk is ultra-moisturizing and gentle on sensitive skin. It naturally contains essential nutrients and vitamins A, B2, B3, B6, B12, and E. Li’l Goat’s collects fresh milk from farmers in Quebec and doesn’t test its finished product on animals.
Live Clean What they offer: shampoo & body wash, body cream, body lotion, non-petroleum jelly, tearless shampoo & wash Formulated without: SLS, phthalates, silicones, petrolatum, parabens, DEA, phosphates, dyes Why check them out: The makers of this line of plant- and water-based ingredients source local organic ingredients and use recyclable packaging for their natural skin care products.
L’Occitane What they offer: foaming cream, moisturizing milk cream, massage balm, fragrance water Formulated without: phenoxyethanol, parabens, phthalates or silicones Why check them out: The Shea Baby Care collection launched May 2019 and is just as luxe as their adult Shea line. 87% of the ingredients in this collection are naturally derived and tested under pediatric supervision and while the products include a fragrance they are hypoallergenic and formulated free of allergens.
MADE OF What they offer: baby shampoo & body wash, body lotion Formulated without: GMOs, soy or other derivatives, nuts and related allergens, phthalates, parabens, sulfates, synthetic fragrances, dyes, pesticides, BPA, chlorine, artificial ingredients, gluten Why check them out: The brand promises transparency into their products, formulas and factories, including independent test results of the line. Everything they make is certified to NSF Organic standard, an international certification. They’re also EWG Verified, Gluten Free and Vegan Certified.
Mill Creek Botanicals What they offer: baby wash, conditioning shampoo, body lotion, calendula cream Formulated without: parabens, sulfates, gluten, artificial preservatives, sodium chloride, MEA, DEA, dyes, fragrance Why check them out: The products in this line include soothing witch hazel, aloe vera and calendula.
MiniOrganics What they offer: baby wash, cleansing bar, moisturizer, jojoba oil Formulated without: genetically modified ingredients, petrochemicals, sulfates, parabens, pesticide residues, artificial fragrances, triclosan/chlorophenol, lanolin, nuts or nut oils Why check them out: Many skincare products call themselves organic or natural, but Mini Organics’ line is Certified Organic, meaning each ingredient must be grown, processed, produced and stored without pesticides, fertilizers and synthetic chemicals. The production process is audited by an independent third party to ensure products conform to strict international standards.
Mustela
Mustela What they offer: Four product lines of body lotion, emollient cream, emollient balm, cradle cap cream, shampoo, bubble bath, cleansing milk, cleansing gel, cleaning cream, bath oil, face cream Formulated without: parabens, phthalates, phenoxyethanol, ammonium lauryl sulfate, sodium lauryl sulfate, cyclotetrasiloxane, p-Phenylenediamine or related compounds, BHA, benzophenone, ethylhexyl methoxycinnamate, triclosan, alcohol Why check them out: Mustela has conducted continued research in dermatology for more than 60 years; the company partners with dermatology, maternity and childcare professionals to further its skin expertise. The line features products for normal, dry, eczema-prone and very sensitive baby skin.
Noodle and Boo What they offer: bar soap, body wash, shampoo, hair polish, body lotion, bubble bath hair & body wash, baby balm, ointment, cream rinse Formulated without: parabens, phthalates, sulfates, PPGs, dye, GMOs, triclosan, formaldehyde donors, BPA, essential oils Why check them out: This line specializes in bath products for children with eczema and sensitive skin. The company donates a portion of profits to children’s charities.
Peach Not Plastic What they offer: shampoo and conditioner bars, facial cleansing bars, deodorant, 2-in-1 shampoo + body bars, hand + body bars Formulated without: parabens, phthalates, SLS, SLES, silicones and artificial colorants Why check them out: Vegan and cruelty-free natural skin care products, made with 100% natural fragrances, packaging features interactive games printed on the inside of cartons for a fun way to reuse
Pipette What they offer: shampoo + body wash, baby oil, baby balm, baby lotion, eczema lotion Formulated without: mineral oil, oxybenzone, sulfates, polyethylene glycol, parabens, formaldehyde releasers, phthalates, talc, retinyl palmitate, synthetic fragrance Why check them out: Pipette’s products feature squalane, a version of squalene that restores skin’s natural balance. This deeply hydrating ingredient is derived from sustainably harvested Brazilian sugarcane.
Pleni Naturals What they offer: hair & body wash, baby balm, baby oil Formulated without: parabens, sulfates, phthalates, synthetic fragrances or other harmful chemicals Why check them out: Cute, cartoony packaging shows off the organic fruit and vegetable ingredients in this line of natural skin care products, from apple & broccoli body wash to a berry and olive baby balm.
Puracy What they offer: shampoo & body wash, bubble bath, body lotion Formulated without: harsh chemicals, petroleum, animal-based ingredients Why check them out: The line was created by a team of Ph.D. chemists, using plant- and natural mineral-based ingredients. To save money on your purchases, buy sets of Puracy’s products or sign up for a recurring subscription.
Shea Moisture What they offer: bar soap, ointment, body lotion, shampoo, body wash Formulated without: parabens, mineral oil, formaldehyde, phthalates, DEA, propylene, petroleum Why check them out: The products from this family-owned company are ethically traded, sustainably produced and contain certified organic, natural and fair-trade ingredients.
TriDerma What they offer: cleansing gel, moisturizer, eczema itch and dryness healing cream Formulated without: fragrance, parabens, cortisone, steroids, sulfates, mineral oil, petrolatum, phthalates Why check them out: Founded more than 25 years ago, Triderma’s products are based in a healing aloe vera complex.
VIVAIODAYS What they offer: face & body lotion, balm gel, cleansing water, body wash & shampoo, leave-in conditioner and detangler Formulated without: gluten, animal ingredients, animal-derived ingredients, BPA, dibutyl phthalates, BHA, heavy metals (lead, cadmium), chemical fertilizers and pesticides Why check them out: The ingredients for the products in this line are inspired by centuries-old remedies from around the world, from conditioning tsubaki oil in the leave-in conditioner & detangler (inspired by Japan) to nourishing apricot oil in the face & body lotion (inspired by India). The line is rated COSMOS ORGANIC, the European equivalent of USDA certification. For each product sold, the company funds educational initiatives around the world.
Wash with Water What they offer: shampoo & body wash, body lotion, hair detangling spray, balm, bubble bath, eczema cream, foam cleanser Formulated without: petrochemicals, phthalates, sulfates, GMOs, PPGs, synthetic colors, formaldehyde donors, TEA, DEA, silicones, PEGS, dairy, egg, oat, lactoperoxidase, citrus seed extract, triclosan, synthetic dyes Why check them out: The products in this line are made in small batches, tested by a third-party independent laboratory and packaged in eco-conscious containers.
Weleda What they offer: shampoo & body wash, bar soap, body lotion, face cream, baby oil Formulated without: parabens, chemical preservatives, preservatives, SLS, synthetic fragrances, phthalates, GMOs Why check them out: Founded in 1921, Weleda creates natural skin care products produced using sustainable production processes and environmentally friendly practices. Its baby products feature calendula and mallow, both known for their soothing properties.
Zoe Organics What they offer: baby bath tea, baby oil, body wash, balm, body cream Formulated without: synthetic chemicals, fragrances, dyes, parabens, surfactants, phthalates, GMOs, fillers, gluten Why check them out: The organic line prides itself on combining luxury and wellness with social responsibility.
Zoey Naturals What they offer: body wash, body lotion, body butter, body oil Formulated without: parabens, sulfates, phthalates Why check them out: Created by a skincare pioneer for his baby daughter, this line is free of harsh chemicals, made only with gentle fragrances and made in the USA.
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Your child says, “I’m hungry,” and you grab them a snack. They say “I’m bored,” and you find a way to entertain them. But when should the butler treatment end? When is it time to teach your child how to be self-sufficient and let them do things for themselves?
Believe it or not—now is as good a time as any! Your two-year-old can help you do the laundry; your 6-year-old can brush her teeth; and your 10-year-old can hang out alone at home while you walk the dog. And, no matter how desperately they cry, “Watch me!” young kids don’t always need you right there next to them (being just nearby is just fine).
“What you’re really trying to do is get the child to learn how to make decisions and take control over the things they can have control over,” said Dr. Michael Ungar, director of the Resilience Research Center and the author of We Generation: Raising Socially Responsible Kids. “What you really want is a child who can make a contribution to their family, who can navigate their community, who can problem solve.”
We created an age-by-age guide that ranges from letting your toddler help with household chores to giving your tween tech time to help you figure out the right time to give your kids that much-needed independence. Here’s what the experts say.
Things Kids Can Do: Ages 0 to 2
Don’t worry: You won’t need to start nudging your one-year-old out of the nest. According to Los Angeles child psychiatrist Patrick Kelly, it’s the opposite: the stronger the attachment between parents and their babies, the more comfortable those kids will be doing things independently as they grow. That said, there are a few “big kid” things your tiny tot can start learning at this age:
Feeding and Dressing Themselves – According to Los Angeles pediatrician Amin Davari, simple things like allowing older infants to feed themselves age-appropriate foods and letting young children dress themselves give kids “minor struggles and successes” that help them learn how to be self-sufficient and build skills and confidence.
Swim Lessons – The AAP recently changed its guidelines to say that kids should start swimming lessons at age one. Although swim lessons will never make a child “drown proof,” lessons between the ages of one to four years have been shown to reduce drowning risk, according to the AAP.
Sign Language – Just because your baby can’t talk doesn’t mean she’s not trying to tell you something. Advocates say teaching babies and toddlers basic signs (things like “eat,” “more” and “milk”) can increase confidence in both the kids and their caregivers, helping little ones who can’t yet speak get their needs met. Taking a class can mean a fun social outing for Mom or Dad—though you can also learn from home.
Things Kids Can Do: Ages 2 to 4
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At this age, kids are ready—and willing!—to take on some responsibility around the house. You’ll know the time is right when you see them start pretending to do grown-up things, like playing “family” or play-driving the car when they’re in the push car. Take advantage of this need now by giving them:
Simple Household Chores – Give them a broom or a dustpan, and let them help you sweep the kitchen floor. You’d be surprised how willingly kids this age will want to help you clean. If you’re lucky, the habit will continue into their later years. Other simple household chores suitable for two-to three-year-olds, according to The Montessori Notebook are:
Help pack their backpack
Brushing/feeding the dog (just let it go when they make a mess!)
Helping make the bed (at four, kids should be able to at least pull up a duvet by themselves)
Placing clothing in the laundry and pushing the buttons you point to
Solo Playtime – As long as you’ve created a safe space to play, at this age most kids are generally past the swallowing-small-objects phase and can happily play by themselves for 30 to 45 minutes at a time. If your child is reluctant to play alone, just agree to be nearby, but set up toys with which they can play solo.
“Reading” Time – Your child doesn’t need to know how to read to get lost in a world of books. Give kids a stack of picture books and let them have at it. If they want to hear stories read out loud—but you still want them to be on their own—we love the Yoto player, a simple speaker designed for kids ages three and up that allows kids to insert small cards to read popular stories aloud.
Pick What they Wear – Something as simple as choosing their clothes can make a child feel incredibly independent, says Dr. Ungar. “Three-year-olds can’t negotiate their bedtimes, but they can decide to wear green pajamas or blue pajamas. The trick seems to be to find these ways that the child can make a genuine contribution.”
Use a Balance Bike – Kids may not be ready for a two-wheeler at age two… but a balance bike is an easy go-to! “Once a child can confidently walk around the house, they can start walking with a balance bike between their legs,” says Schwinn spokesperson Ryan Berkicht. “This could be as soon as 18 months old for some kids.”
Things Kids Can Do: Ages 4 to 6
Gross motor skills are advancing quickly at this age, too, so your kids should be ready for fun things like climbing on a play structure (without you constantly spotting), and using the “big kid swing” all by themselves. And while these may seem like ordinary childhood milestones, all of these accomplishments help them learn how to be self-sufficient and instill huge amounts of confidence. So cheer your kids on as they:
Brush Their Teeth: While most dentists advise that you keep assisting with their pearly whites until age 7, your kids should know how to brush their teeth all on their teeth by age 5 or 6—with you nearby to make sure there’s actual brushing going on (as opposed to just holding the electric toothbrush in their mouths while the motor revs). A good compromise is to let your kids do the morning brush and you can brush their teeth in the evening.
Use a Microwave with Supervision – Not only does using the microwave buttons help reinforce number recognition, but it also makes kids feel like real big kids. Teach your kids what can and can’t go in the microwave, and let them push the buttons and press “start” all on their own.
Ride a Two-Wheeler – Sure, some kids are ready for a two-wheeler at three years old—and some five-year-olds want nothing to do with a bike—but experts say age 5 or 6 is a good target age for getting a kid on her first two-wheeler. If they’ve been riding a balance bike or a bike with training wheels, they should be able to transition easily.
Have Drop-Off Play Dates – According to the AAP, kids around ages 5 and 6 are developmentally ready to be dropped off for play dates. Got a child who’s nervous about it? It might help to have the playdates at your house, where you can step away—but not out.
Day Camp – Since this is the age when kids start preschool or kindergarten, they’re also usually ready for day camp at this age, too. If your kids don’t seem uber-enthusiastic about camp, try to keep the camp schedule similar to their school schedule (if your child attends a half-day school, for instance, start with a half-day camp).
Things Kids Can Do: Ages 6 to 8
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By this age, kids have started kindergarten and are usually happy to do anything that makes them feel grown-up and competent. So watch them closely for opportunities to teach them how to be self-sufficient—while also keeping them safe (for instance, let them ride a bike up and down your street, but make them wear a helmet). Here are some things kids are ready to do by this age:
Use a peeler to peel raw potatoes, ginger, mangoes, and other washed fruits and vegetables
Break eggs into a bowl (and remember to wash hands afterward)
Scoop out avocados after being sliced in half by an adult
Snap green beans
Shuck corn and rinse before cooking
Rinse and cut parsley or green onions with clean, blunt kitchen scissors
Take a Bath By Themselves – According to this article in the National Library of Medicine, most children can take a bath by themselves (i.e., without you sitting by the tub) by age 6. We recommend parents still stay within earshot and keep baths short enough that kids don’t get tired or rowdy in the bathtub by themselves.
Tie Their Shoes (with you supervising) – By age 6 or 7, most kids have the fine motor skills to attempt this surprisingly complex set of movements, according to Carolina Therapy Connection. You’ll know your child is ready to tie their shoes when they’re able to easily cut paper with scissors, string beads, or button and unbutton buttons.
Use a Computer to Browse the Internet – Experts recommend supervising children’s internet use at this age: If you’re not able to be there watching, you can use a filtering device like the Circle, which lets you dictate what apps and websites kids can and can’t visit online (as well as setting up bedtimes and screen time limits); or try a web filtering program like Microsoft Edge Kids Mode, which keeps your kids from seeing anything inappropriate online and lets you customize their web experience (it also prevents them from exiting the kid-safe browser to explore other apps on the computer).
Things Kids Can Do: Ages 8 to 10
Older kids are ready for adventure! Now’s the time to loosen the reins and let them chart their course a little bit. By this age, your child might be ready to:
Have a Sleepover – Around this age, they may be ready—as long as they can sleep through the night, no problem. That said, before you send your kids to another person’s home for the night, they must understand body boundaries and inappropriate touching. “I do think it’s a great time to start teaching kids about appropriate touches and that we’re the boss of our bodies and we’re the boss of our private parts,” writes child abuse prevention expert Pattie Fitzgerald. She also urged parents to talk to the host parents so they’ll know exactly who will be supervising and whether there will be older kids (such as teenage-aged siblings) or extended family in the home. The answer to these questions may well alter your decision to say “yes,” as parents should have a strong baseline of trust with the hosts.
Note: Some experts believe children (and their parents!) aren’t ready for sleepovers until the age of 10 and up.
Go to Overnight Camp – As long as your child can shower, doesn’t wet the bed, and has shown no problems spending the night at friends’ or relatives’ homes, they’re probably ready for sleepaway camp. While many overnight camps offer programs for kids as young as six or seven, the American Camp Association gives age nine as the target age for kids to start the summer camp journey. Some camps offer one-week “starter” programs for reluctant or nervous campers.
Walk to School by Themselves(Under Certain Conditions) – The AAP says elementary school-aged kids can walk to school by themselves, provided the walk is short, the neighborhood is safe, and there are school crossing guards stationed at any intersections. If there are non-guarded streets or you live in a city, waiting until age 12 is better.
Things Kids Can Do: Ages 10 and Up
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Tweens are all about breaking free and taking risks. Your job is to let them experiment with autonomy while still making sure they’ve got set limits to keep them safe. By age 10, kids can:
Be Left At Home for a Short Time – The laws vary on this, with some states like Oregon and Tennessee giving home-alone privileges to 10-year-olds and states like Colorado and Delaware saying 12 is a better age to start this. This Washington Post article gives state-by-state guidelines on the regulations, but it’s a good idea to check with your state’s Family or Child Services Department to be sure.
In any case, before you leave your kids home alone—even for a short time—it’s important that they know what to do in case of emergency and what your expectations are should unexpected things happen (like someone knocking on the door or a friend stopping by unannounced). The Department of Health and Human Services recommends that parents ask themselves these questions before leaving kids alone:
Is your child physically and mentally able to care for him or herself?
Does your child obey rules and make good decisions?
How does your child respond to unfamiliar or stressful situations?
Does your child feel comfortable or fearful about being home alone?
If you’re leaving for more than an hour, it’s best to wait to take your children. And experts say it’s not a good idea to let kids this age babysit younger children while no parents are home.
For more advice and tips, see this handout from the DHH.
Ride a Bike to School – It’s hard to find any specific laws about kids riding bikes to school, but the American Academy of Pediatrics says that by late elementary school, most kids can safely do this, provided the route is short and the roads safe. Before your child starts riding to school, make sure you practice the route with them (several times!) and go over what to do if unexpected things arise, such as a fall or a flat tire. If it makes you feel better, have your child wear a GPS watch or other tracking device to alert you when she gets to school safely.
Of course, you should always make sure your kids wear a good-fitting helmet and try to enlist a friend to ride along, to ensure both kids get there safely.
This is it. The bridge to the young adult years. Kids in this final stretch to the teens are longing to break free, so the trick is to let them feel independent and learn how to be self-sufficient while encouraging them to make responsible choices. Here are some things they’re ready to do now:
Have Their Own Cell Phone – While many argue that cell phones should wait until high school, middle schoolers can have a phone, provided it is monitored and filtered by the parents. Before you give your child a phone, have them sign a technology agreement that lays out the rules—for instance, no cell phones should be allowed in your child’s room overnight, and your child should know that you will read and monitor her messages. To keep your kids off inappropriate or dangerous apps and sites, use apps and programs like Screentime (for iPhones), Circle, or Securly.
Babysit Younger Children – There are no real legal restrictions for babysitting (except in states that have laws on when kids can be left alone), but the Red Cross doesn’t allow kids to take its babysitting course until age 11. By 12, kids should be able to babysit with a grown-up present in the house (or for short times when a grown-up leaves the house); by 14, they can usually babysit younger children on their own. When it comes to an older sibling watching the younger kids in the house, parents need to ask themselves whether their oldest is mature enough and responsible enough to handle the task. If there are any doubts, skip it.
Be Dropped Off in a Public Place with Friends – As long as your child agrees to stay with the group and you’ve talked about uncomfortable situations (if a stranger talks to them or if other kids are experimenting with drugs or alcohol), most experts agree that by middle school—or around age 13—kids can be dropped off at public place (like a movie theater or mall) for a few hours as long as they are in a group and you are leaving them in a safe location. This depends, of course, on your child’s level of maturity, your city’s crime rate, and whether you trust them to make good decisions.
Note: Check with your state laws before letting your teen go to certain places solo: Some states, such as Minnesota and Delaware, do not permit children under 16 to be in certain malls without adult supervision, according to this article.
These are the beauty gift ideas that’ll make you feel like a holiday gift guru
The holidays are around the corner, and this is going to be the gift guide you save to send to your partner and family for sure. Although you can definitely use these ideas for your own mom, sister, BFF, etc., we put this one together with you in mind. So we ask: What’s better than indulging in some beauty products that you wouldn’t normally buy for yourself?
We’re all about the home spa experience, and these goodies range from intensive treatments to apply-and-go makeup to help you get out the door in a snap. We’ve rounded up the top beauty gifts of 2023 that will leave you feeling relaxed, recharged, and ready to tackle the day.
Avon Haiku Serenity Gift Set
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There's no better time for a little zen than the holidays. Avon's cult-fave Haiku scent features a fresh, clean, green + floral blend that's best-selling for a reason. This set has the Eau de Parfum, Hair & Body Mist, and Haiku Intense Travel Spray.
Yes. It is that good. It's a little bit of a splurge, but it's super rich, so it lasts a long time, and the scent is unbelievable. There's a reason Bum Bum Cream is such a viral hit.
This limited-edition set from the collab between Smashbox x Christian Cowan gives you everything you need to create a stunning full-glam look that's perfect for the holidays (and beyond).
Woody, warm, earthy...Vetiver meets lavender, cedarwood, and green tea notes. Wear it alone or as a layer. You can't go wrong (well, you can't go wrong with pretty much anything from KORRES.).
Designed to work with the Shorts & Suite Mineral Mist Pods, the Mist Wand rapidly delivers the finest dispersion of active mineral ingredients. It's perfect for the winter when skin is parched, and ideal for travel, too.
Get a non-invasive facelift, depuff, and contour your face with the ELEANOR. It uses radio frequency and LED light therapy along with the Glow Rose Conductive Gel (sold separately) to maximize effectiveness right from your home.
These reusable eye masks help you get the most out of your eye cream or serum. Just apply, top it off with the eye masks, and leave on for 10 minutes. They also help protect during makeup application. Did we mention they're reusable? Just rinse, dry, and store them in the included compact when you're done.
The DIORIVIERA Set includes limited-edition 5 Couleurs Couture eyeshadow palette with shades that match the 5 miniature Dior nail polishes, all inspired by the French Riviera.
Give them the gift of transforming their lashes and brows with this collection. Condition, strengthen, and soften lashes while defending against brittleness and breakage. Brows are shaped and revitalized. And the Volumizing Primer + Mineral Tint makes those peepers pop. This is a great routine to start for the new year, too.
A $279 value, this pretty chest comes packed with all of Charlotte's favorites—a mini Pillow Talk Beauty Light Wand, Rock 'n' Kohl Eyeliner, Push Up Lashes! Mascara, and more. Everything Charlotte is most famous for is included in her Lucky Chest.
The number of hours we spend shaving over the course of a year adds up (and it's kinda depressing, to be honest). The Air3 IPL handset offers a quick 12 minute treatment, skin-cooling technology for a nearly-painless experience, and results in only 3 weeks.
A 12-in-1 collection of all the things you could possibly need in one convenient box. It's literally a full face routine of name-brand luxe beauty brands, including brushes and an additional compartment for extras, in a take-anywhere-box. You can also purchase additional pods to swap out and refill. It's the only thing you'll ever need and we're obsessed.
Step into your new skin with this one-two punch of a shea butter-infused body wash that's PH-balanced for all skin types plus an effective exfoliator that unclogs pores and leaves your skin totally ready for the next step in your routine (and helps it absorb the additional products you use daily).
VIOLETTE FR's iconic Petal Bouche lip color duo in (clockwise from top) Amour Fou (Violette's signature red—the one that looks good on everyone), her newest deep wine hue, Cerie Désir, or Cœur Infidèle (an intense magnetic pink), . *Tip: make sure to hydrate your lips before applying this matte, long-wearing color.
This is no ordinary face mask. When you combine the ampoule and solution, use the included brush to paint onto your skin, wait 15-20 minutes, and you'll see major transformation after the first use.
This plant-powered + clean makeup set features three lifhtweight cream multi-use makeup sticks to create a youthful, natural glow with skin-hydrating benefits.
A bauble trio that can work as stocking-stuffers, tree ornaments, or just wrapped under the tree. Includes 3 best-selling body washes: Pink Pepper, Black Pepper, and Rhubarb and Rose.
For the makeup-lover who likes to add some drama, these stunning multi-tonal gel shadows are the perfect option. Pictured in 'Snooze', there are multiple colors to pick from.
6 travel-friendly a.m. and p.m. essentials to cleanse, exfoliate, hydrate, brighten, and replenish your complexion, resetting your skin to it's happiest state. We're talking in as little as 30 days.
You don't have to know everything about skincare to build the perfect set. Just enter the zip code of your gift recepiant and Pour Moi Beauty pulls up everything needed based on the climate of that area. Genius.
Who knows a smoky eye better than Victoria Beckham? Each minimalist compact sports 4 expertly-curated, high impact shades that take the guesswork out of application. Available in 5 color pallets (Signature is pictured here).
Slugging is a powerful way to hydrate the heck out of your skin (even though the name is a little cringy). Layers of intense hydration make this system extremely effective for bouncy, healthy skin.
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These deals are so good, we don’t even mind that the long weekend is over and all the leftovers are gone. Looking for an insider’s guide to Cyber Week deals and early access sales? You’ve come to the right place.
Everything from stocking stuffers, housewares, and apparel to tech, cooking, subscription services, and more is deeply discounted this week, and we’re giving you insider access to the best steals so you can plan your shopping accordingly. And if you’re looking for gift ideas for everyone on your list? Well, we’ve got those too.
So get your game faces on, your gift list open, and your microwave ready for leftovers. It’s the most wonderful time of the year and all the Cyber Week deals are right here. Keep an eye on this post! We’re updating frequently!
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The best apple orchards around LA where you can pick the freshest apples, drink the freshest cider, and even meet a farm animal (or two)
More often than not, people tend to romanticize the East Coast when it comes to the splendor of fall instead of the West Coast. But we’re here to tell you that LA in particular puts on a more stunning autumnal season than you might expect, and one of the absolute highlights is apple picking. An easy 90 min. drive from DTLA, families will find the apple-picking hub of SoCal–the adorable town of Oak Glen. Picture lush orchards and farms covered in fall foilage, festive u-pick adventures collecting apples from trees, and quaint eateries that feature incredible food and live music.
If you’re in the mood for more than just picking apples, some of the spots on our list offer everything from corn mazes, tractor rides, and cider pressing to festivals, petting zoos, and more. Apple picking season traditionally lasts from Labor Day to November, so gather up the kids and get ready to make some sweet memories!
Willowbrook Apple Farm Over the summer, the O’Donnell family who currently runs Goodie Farm, became the proud new owners of Oak Glen’s beloved Willowbrook Apple Farm. This small, family-run operation will continue to offer u-pick apples, u-pick berries, interactive farm experiences, and educational farm tours. The couple also has exciting plans for private and semi-private events complete with B&B farm experiences, on-farm dinners and lunches, foraging workshops, and cooking classes. Goodie Farm will also supply the highest quality produce in the farm shop during events and will be an important part of all culinary affairs. At press time, the O’Donnells are still prepping for the 2023 fall season, so be sure to stay tuned to their website for further dates and details. This year’s U-pick season will only be available by RSVP.
Riley’s at Los Rios Rancho For a grander-style farm outing, Riley’s at Los Rios Rancho has more than 150 acres of land that grow berries, apples, pumpkins, and chestnuts throughout the year. But apple picking season tends to be the real star of the show every fall with good reason. There’s so much for littles to do, including exploring the corn maze, petting farm animals, dipping candles, doing frontier chores, and hopping on wagon and tractor rides to get a better view of the ranch.
In between all the adventure seeking, you can take a break and listen to live music while sipping on the cider you pressed earlier. There are also delish food offerings available on-site including tri-tip sandwiches, BBQ, roasted corn, and a wide variety of mouthwatering desserts.
Insider Tip: There are several farms in the area with the name “Riley” so check beforehand to make sure you are going to your correct destination. Hours: Mon. – Tues., 10 a.m.- 5 p.m.; Wed. closed; Thurs. – Fri., 10 a.m. – 5 p.m.; and Sat. – Sun.,
10 a.m. – 6 p.m. No reservations are needed and there is no fee for admission or parking.
Riley’s at Los Rios Rancho
39611 S. Oak Glen Rd.
Yucaipa Online:losriosrancho.com
Stone Soup Farm & Heritage Orchard This stunning micro-farm is nestled within an intimate 3-acre property containing 130-year-old heirloom apple orchards. What makes this apple farm so unique is its commitment to sustainable organic harvesting practices that foster a ripe environment for growing fruit trees, flowers, and plants. For apple picking, you’re required to participate in a 10-minute tour on the history of the farm and the proper way to pick the apples to protect the integrity of the trees. The grounds of this orchard are breathtaking and worthy of a visit to roam the Stayman-Winesap trees and treasure the flavors of these heirloom apples.
Insider Tip: Among myriad reasons to visit this orchard is that it’s still not as popular as other larger farms – meaning less crowds and a more laid-back ambience. Hours: Regular hours are Sat. – Sun., 10 a.m. – 4 p.m. However, starting in Oct., all picking is by reservation only on these dates – Oct. 1, 4, 7, 8, 11, 14, and 15.
Stone Soup Farm & Heritage Orchard
12131 S. Oak Glen Rd.
Oak Glen Online: stonesoupfarmca.com
Stone Pantry Orchard For a more low-key yet still entertaining time, Stone Pantry Orchard provides everything you and your family need to gather fruit in a peaceful, autumnal setting. Established in 1887, the beauty of this orchard is that you can pick fruit to your heart’s desire without the crush of large crowds. Beyond apple picking, you can also press your own cider and take a leisurely stroll through the charming farmland. They also offer tours that can educate your family about rustic farm life.
Insider Tip: In addition to picking apples, you can also gather pears, blackberries, and pumpkins during your visit. Hours: Open on weekends from Labor Day – Thanksgiving. No reservations are necessary.
Apple Orchards Where You Can Find Apple Butter, Cider Donuts & Candy Apples
If you are searching for adventures outside of apple picking, below are other Oak Glen locations providing entertaining and delicious happenings for everyone to enjoy.
Oak Tree Mountain Skip apple picking all together and make the drive to Oak Glen to taste the mile high apple pie at Apple Annie’s Bakery. Beyond pie, Oak Tree Mountain is a fall foodie paradise with hot dogs, BBQ, shaved ice, and a whole bakery full of sweets. There’s ample seating outdoors so you can dine al fresco while enjoying live music, and there are plenty of activities for the whole family to burn off all they’ve consumed. Take a ride on America’s largest all-weather tubing slide, brush up your hatchet skills at Axe Therapy, pan for gold at the Oak Tree Mining Company, make new friends at the petting zoo, play a rousing game of corn hole, and so much more.
Insider Tip:Later in the season, plan a visit when there’s snow so littles can build a snowman and go sledding. Even though you can’t pick apples at this location, a pit stop at Pops & Drops Candy Co. is worth it for some hand-dipped caramel apples.
Parrish Pioneer Ranch Since its inception in 1866, this orchard has developed its 160-acre farmland into an Oak Glen destination filled with a large variety of apples and historic landmarks honoring the history of the region. Although there is no apple picking on site, they offer apples pre-bagged with more than 19 varieties which will make your taste buds party. Their restaurant, store, and bakery are worth the trip alone to taste your way through all that the ranch has to offer. From gourmet chocolates and apple butter to apple cider and wine tasting for adults, you’ll be super happy you stopped by. There’s also a great antique shop and toy store on site as well.
Insider Tip: Some of the apples grown are unique to this area including the Parkdale Beauty and the Vazquez – named after the Parrish foreman, Juan Vazquez, who developed this varietal on the ranch. And if you arrive earlier in the season, you can taste the Arkansas Black apples which frequently sell out because of their crisp and fruity flavors.
Hours: Fri. – Sun., 9 a.m. – 5 p.m.
Snow-Line Orchard and Winery Even though visitors can only pick raspberries here, this family-owned orchard and winery is one of the most charming spots on our list. Stop by to visit the farm’s original packing shed and cider mill. Or check out their store filled with a swell supply of fresh-picked apples, delicious mini cider donuts, fresh-pressed cider, Augie’s coffee, and apple pie that you can easily enjoy outside in the beautiful picnic area. Parents can pop into the orchard’s tasting room to try a sample (or a decent sized pour) of Snow-Line’s wines and hard ciders using the best California-locally sourced ingredients.
Insider’s Tip: Weekends tend to get crowded with a lines out the door for donuts, so get there early for a shorter wait time. Hours: Thurs. – Sun., 10 a.m. – 5 p.m.
Snow-Line Orchard
39400 Oak Glen Road Oak Glen Online: oakglenorchard.com
Everything You Need to Know about Apple Picking in Oak Glen & Beyond
What to Know: Since there are acres and acres of open space, take your picnic blanket, sunscreen, sun hats, lots of water, and snacks to keep everyone from feeling dehydrated and hungry. Although you can purchase snacks at the orchards, lines can get long so it helps to have other options on hand. Bring cash – it’s especially useful when visiting the smaller farms. The weather and fruit availability can vary so check beforehand when planning your trip to visit to avoid disappointment.
What to Wear: It can be hot while picking apples but gets dramatically cooler in the afternoon so dress comfortably and bring a jacket for later. Most orchards also recommend close-toed shoes for guests.
Apple Picking Getaways near LA: Palm Springs is just 45 minutes away from Oak Glen. Pick apples in the morning then spend the latter half of your day splashing in an Airbnb pool or swing by Oak Glen on your way back from Palm Springs. Here are our favorite things to do in Palm Springs with kids.
San Luis Obispo is a little over three hours away from DTLA, so head up the coast to these farms listed below where you can sample fresh honey, pick pails of apples, and down gallons of cider.
SLO Creek Farms
6455 Monte Rd.
San Luis Obispo Online:slocreekfarms.com
You’ve never been jealous of your kid’s room… until now
Whether you have a small space or just really the kids to share a bedroom, bunk beds will take their sleeping arrangements to a whole new level. From designer bunk beds to bunk beds with stairs, the only limit for these lofty projects is your imagination (and your ceiling height). And who knows? With these clever designs, sleeping in your kid’s room may not be such a bad option after all.
If you've got an older kid sharing with a younger sibling, this full/twin combo bunk bed will make a room feel like it belongs to everyone. Plus, the steps have built-in storage and one side is a storage chest, so it's perfect for a shared bedroom. Get the details at Rooms to Go.
Convertible Bunk Bed
They want twin beds—no—they want a bunk bed! Lucky for you, Delta Children has a brand-new convertible bunk bed with guard rails and a ladder that can be converted into twin beds.
Mid-Century Bunk Bed
If you love all things Mid Century, then this bunk bed from West Elm will be a perfect fit in your kids' room. We also love that the ladder is fixed, so there's no worry that someone will dislodge it. Get details at West Elm.
We love the built-in shelves that line this twin over full bunk bed idea from designer Bailey McCarthy. It's perfect for older kids and allows for sibling sharing rooms to have their own decorative space. See the bunk beds over at Bailey McCarthy.
Jewel Marlowe, interior designer and prolific DIY-er, upgraded a standard wooden bunk bed into this luxurious room-stopper in just seven easy steps. Head over to her blog Jeweled Interiors for the step-by-step instructions and see for yourself the amazing photo transformation before photo—you'll never look at a bunk bed in the same way again.
If your kid's (or your) taste tends to eschew on the less juvenile side, get inspired by Amber Interior's bunk bed situation that was made with timeless design in mind. This modern marvel, complete with stairs and built-in bookcases may be the best twin bed over a full bunk bed that we've ever seen. Don't be surprised if your kids never want to leave their room.
The problem with a lot of bunk beds is that they look, well, out of place. This triple-bunk by Foxhole Farmhouse looks as if it has always been in this space thanks to custom woodwork like moldings and shiplap. For the full instructions on how these clever DIY-ers maximized this corner in their house, check out the "Bunk Tutorial" on their Instastories.
Sleek and simple, this bunk design by Vardehaugen Architects, a firm located in Norway, nails the privacy and space issue while maximizing the hygge feel of course.
Bunk with Stairs
Instead of a ladder, which might be scary for little kids, this one has a set of stairs (keeping bunk bed ideas for toddlers in mind) that'll take your little one to dreamland. Plus, with an extra pull-out trundle and built-in cupboards, this one is perfect for sharing among family and friends. More details at Wayfair.
We love how the ladder is built into the side of this bunk bed from Crate&kids, saving additional floor space, not to mention the rolling twin bed feature that allows you to change the positioning of the lower mattress from parallel to perpendicular to the bunk. More details at Crate&kids.
Kids that don't have to share a room can enjoy the perks of bunk living too. This loft-style IKEA bed allows for the top to be used as the sleeping space, and the area below as a reading nook or even a study space, which is ideal for a small room. More details at IKEA
We love how Sarah Barnard Design tackled this kid's bedroom. While bunk beds don't traditionally don't scream privacy, the addition of individual curtains on the bunks coupled with the private desk alcoves all but guarantees that each kid will have plenty of space to themselves.
Wake up and play in this fully customizable farm fresh-inspired bunk that comes complete with flower boxes and a handy trundle space that can be used for storage or extra sleeping space. More details at Etsy.
For those kids that love tractors more than trains, this DIY bunk bed pays tribute to the iconic brand John Deere including an exact color match and those can't miss decals. If you want to make one for your own little hauler, all the details (including measurements!) can be found at the blog Rucker Rendevouz.
The Suzanne Nichols Design Group took their inspiration from one of childhood's most clever toys and designed a room that any master builder (or master builder in training) will want to cozy up in thanks to the eye-popping colors and brick-inspired steps.
The metallic frame on this bunk bed looks like it is made from plumbing parts. It lends an industrial modern edge to the room and successfully mixes and matches with the classic Hudson Bay bedding. The whole look is pulled together by interior design company Massucco Warner Miller.
If you’ve got triplets (we salute you!) or three kids sharing a room, this modern, made-to-order bunk bed set from Wayfair could be the answer to your prayers. The bottom flor bunk uses the space well, and the simple design makes for a streamlined look.
The best part about this bunk bed setup is that you can fully customize it to meet your needs. But don't worry about feeling stuck with it—not only are the parts are reversible, but they can also be dismantled and used separately, meaning you can change the configuration as the needs of your family changes. Oh, and let's not ignore the awesomeness of the slide. More details at Max Trix Kids.
Here's some fun math: Five people, two bedrooms, and 1000 square feet. Tight right? Well, maybe not. Thanks to this unique setup by Meg Freeman who ran the blog, Elsie Marley: Handmade and Imperfect, she found a fantastic solution for providing the best dreamscape for her growing brood. Here she created a makeshift bunk bed by building a loft above the existing bed adding "clouds" to double as a guardrail and as a decorative distraction from an unmade bed.
Beep! Beep! It’s nothing but sweet dreams ahead. As his daughter’s third birthday approached, and her days in the crib were numbered, this handy dad raced to finish her adorable big kid bed. Made with real VW parts, painted in a spectacular palette of psychedelic colors, and finished just in time for the big celebration, you can see this incredible bed come together at the blog Treehouser.
Just hanging around takes on a whole new meaning with this lofty bunk bed designed by Barbara Chapartegui. Like a modern hammock suspended from strong ropes, this modern twist on traditional bunk beds is an ingenious solution to creating a shared sleeping space.
Expecting a new addition to the family? Your toddler might be ready to abdicate their spot in the crib and move on up…to the top bunk! Customize your shared space with a lofted toddler bed/crib combo. This configuration features easy staircase access to the top bunk, a built-in bookcase, sturdy safety railing and shelving. The crib is even outfitted with wheels for easy mobility. More details at Casa Kids.
Inspired by treehouses, this bunk bed design is available in an assortment of vibrant colors and unique configurations. We love the slim and compact nature of the beds—providing maximum comfort in a minimal amount of space. More details at Aalto + Aalto.
The ultimate sleeping quarters for your little campers, this adorable cabin is handcrafted by a Belgian design company. The house-inspired bunk bed is great for a shared space that also doubles as a playroom. More details at Mathy by Bols.
Opting for a rock wall in lieu of a traditional ladder helped to transform these top bunks into a private space that's definitely worth the climb. More details at Decoist.
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Stop saying these homophobic slurs and help break the chain of hurtful speech.
In a vulnerable time like this, communication is incredibly important. Our kids are relying on us more than ever for education, and social development. So, how do we avoid unintentionally hurtful words and teachings that we ourselves may have learned by accident? Linguistically speaking these terms and phrases can be considered a “pathogen”—they’re “Word Germs.”
Perhaps you can recall a time when a parent or grandparent taught you a word or spoke aloud an idea that was offensive to you, or to people you cared about. You, when you decided not to repeat it, were the first link that broke that instructional chain of thinking and speaking.
After surveying an NYC-based LGBT & Ally Performer network, we have come up with 10 commonly used words and homophobic slurs that you may not have known were offensive to the LGBTQ+ community and some alternative options that will promote our children to grow up to be compassionate and intelligent advocates for justice in their classrooms, social circles and future homes.
Kids are naturally curious and like to try out all different kinds of playtime activities as well as clothing options. Playing house, playing with trucks, or building LEGO sets are formative activities for young kids of any gender. Additionally, playtime, for households with multiple children, is a social activity. It’s not rare or wrong for a brother and sister to play cars, dolls, or dress-up pretend games together, so why do we enforce separation when it comes to other activities?
For example, when your son wants to try makeup or wants his nails painted, it can simply be because activities such as those are calming and involve spending quality time with you, or perhaps an older sibling. When a young girl plays with tools or has an interest in mechanics/building, not only are those creative activities the foundation for important skills she will need as an adult but are also a bonding activity for her and a parent and/or sibling. Though these activities aren't indicators that your child will grow into an LGBTQ+ adult, your reaction will be remembered if they begin having questions about their gender and sexuality, so responding positively and openly will set a trusting foundation for your relationship when they need your help finding those answers later in life. Celebrating your child’s curiosity will ultimately bring you closer together.
“He’s a little ladies’ man/She’s going to give her Daddy trouble when she’s older.”
It's a known fact: babies are cute. And it's exciting to see their personalities take form. When babies/toddlers are social and bubbly, sometimes adults will remark in a way that indicates when they grow up, they’ll have plenty of romantic attention. Comments like this could potentially make your child fear making gestures of affection, particularly in front of you or other adults, in case they would be ridiculed or embarrassed. It also establishes an expectation that in adulthood, your child will be heterosexual.
Maybe you can recall having a “kindergarten boyfriend/girlfriend” who waved at you at pick-up or held your hand on the playground. These sorts of gestures of friendship and closeness among young kids should be encouraged. It teaches kids to be honest about their feelings and establishes a place in their life for kind gestures and affection, rather than concealment of emotions and violent outbursts.
These types of comments can also set a tone that same-sex relationships or the need for physical comforts such as hugs or hand-holding outside of a romantic relationship are "strange" or “abnormal.” Instead, it's important to encourage your children to be openly kind to their friends and classmates, without jokingly hinting that something else lies beneath those actions.
Whether she was climbing a tree or sitting bowlegged in a chair, every single girl has heard this phrase at least once growing up. This saying is damaging to every girl, establishing limitations on what girls can and cannot do. In the same way that "no, that's for boys" discourages girls from exploring interests in male-dominated fields, "act like a lady" teaches girls to consider themselves an "other" to boys, even something less than boys. While, of course, we want to teach children manners, how to be polite, to say "please" and "thank you," and to treat everyone with kindness and respect, comments like this make girls resent being born as girls.
It also assumes that a child's sex and gender match one another. Jo March from Little Women, the "blueprint" for how we view tomboyism,often remarked that she was "the man" of the family, cutting her hair short, wearing trousers, and refusing to do "girly" things like needlepoint or flirt with boys. She, like many young girls, rebels against conventional expectations of girlhood/womanhood. So, it's unsurprising that theorists have wondered whether Jo was gay or transgender. Allowing girls to breathe a bit as they develop, leaving room for any activities regardless of her sex will help her in expressing her gender identity later in life.
While it comes from a place of kindness, and of understanding that there are plenty of people who are still intolerant of the LGBTQ+ community, telling a gay person "you're so brave" reinforces that being gay is an abnormality. Not every gay person is completely out, some are only out to friends or friends and a portion of their family. You may have heard "but I haven't told my uncle" or "but I'm never telling my Nona." This homophobic slur subtly assumes that a gay person wants to talk about their struggle to openly accept their sexuality. Saying instead, "I'm here for you if you need to talk (coming out, your intolerant relatives, being bullied at school, feeling confused, etc.)" establishes that you're an ally, and they're in control of when they bring up potentially traumatic events. You could also say, "I'm happy that you're so happy," or "I'm glad you've found your significant other."
“I’m not gay but.../I'm no homo...”
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We'd love to say the reminder is unnecessary, but we'll say it anyway: stop saying this homophobic slur or any variation of it. Whether you think Lupita Nyong'o is beautiful or you love spending time with your best friend, you don't have to reaffirm the admiration of a celebrity or the strength of your love as platonic. This is another phrase that alienates LGBTQ+ people, making it seem as though gay people are abnormal, and there's a necessity to keep reaffirming you do not belong to that group. It makes it seem as though there is some fear attached to being mistaken for gay as if there is some punishment that may be involved. It's much easier to simply say "I'm really happy we're friends" or "I love the time we spend together" to someone you care about without adding the addendum at the end.
We've all heard some version of it: "I always knew ____ was gay!" or, "With style like that, it was obvious!" or to the opposite effect, "But you don't look like a lesbian?" Employing your "gaydar" assumes that there is one single way of being gay. When in fact, gay people and their experiences are just as diverse as anyone else. It also gives gay people a reputation for being "sneaky" as if being in the closet is an act to fool or trick people, but those with "gaydar" are more adept at seeking out the lie. Instead of telling your friend/child/family member that you always knew they were gay, try saying "That's great!" Or if they tell you they're transgender or nonbinary, ask questions like "What does that mean for us going forward?" and "Do you have a new name or pronouns?" and "How can I best support you in this?" Showing you're listening and you care is the most crucial step in making the person you care about feel loved and accepted.
“But, are you sure? Have you ever dated a (person of the opposite sex)?”
Even members of the LGBT+ community are guilty of this one. It's natural to be curious about how someone came into their sexuality, but ultimately it's not your business. Often times gay and transgender folks experience "internalized homophobia" where, it's difficult not to listen to the voices of bullies, politicians, clergy members, and even characters on television, who tell them they're "looking for attention" or "just haven't found the right person" or "can't possibly know unless they tried." You wouldn't ask a straight person how they knew they were straight if they'd never been in a same-sex relationship, so why the curiosity when it comes to gay people?
“I don’t mind what you are but, you’ll always be my little boy/girl to me.”
It's understandable that a change such as your child's gender can be shocking. Especially when discussions of reassignment surgery, hormone therapy and legal measures (regarding name, insurance, official documents, etc.) follow. Fond memories of watching your child grow up will potentially feel like a "Before" and "After" and perhaps, your child will not remember those precious moments with the same fondness, as they will remember them as a time of closeted-ness. It is so crucial in helping your child to feel accepted for who they are, to let go of the "Before" and "After" mentality. Talking openly about your concerns, and listening to theirs will help you better understand each other's needs. Sometimes decisions about how best your child can live their life happily as their preferred gender will require several conversations and lots of research. Tackle those moments of doubt by listening to what your child needs. Help them find an LGBTQ+ network, and as their parent, talk to adults who went through the same thing at their age, and what they needed/wish they had, as far as parental support.
This phrase has somewhat fallen out of fashion in the last ten years but it still comes up, particularly around the adolescent schoolyard. The sentiment is simple: all things stupid, inconvenient, weird, loud, gross, tedious, annoying, and so forth, are branded "gay" instead. With a vocabulary so rich and diverse with words that describe the things that irritate us, why continue to choose the word gay at all? It reinforces the notion that there's something inherently wrong with being gay. If you hear it said by someone you know or even someone you don't, it's easy to correct, "Did you mean (new word)?" or "Gay isn't a synonym for (new word)." Setting an example for your kids in this way, when they hear these pathogen-like phrases (especially when they're uttered by others in your presence), will help them not only learn not to say these things but also why it's important not to.
The “Reclaimed Slur”: “Fairy,” “Queen,” “Queer,” “Dyke,” “Faggot,” “Tranny,” “Cross-Dresser”
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This last one is a little trickier than the others. Sometimes, you will hear members of the LGBT+ community use terms that seem offensive, or you've heard them used offensively before. There isn't one single opinion from the community about these terms. Some people find it liberating to use words that were once meant to damage them as a signifier of pride or self-love. Others prefer to leave homophobic slurs in the past. However, at one point in history, the words "Gay" and "Lesbian" were also slurs, so it's difficult to come down decidedly on one side of the argument or the other.
Ultimately, “slurs” can only be reclaimed by the parties they were originally used to bully. Even if you hear someone call themselves an offensive word, it does not mean they’ve permitted you to use that word to describe them as well. Communicate with your child, friend, or family member, and ask them how you should refer to them—there’s almost always a straightforward answer. Whether it be “Sometimes I call myself a dyke, but please call me a lesbian in conversation” or “I’m gay, but I also use the word queer, so you may too when talking about me.”
As with any marginalized group, the best thing you can do to support the LGBT+ community is to listen to and amplify their voices whenever/wherever you can. Educating yourself is the first step to becoming an LGBTQ ally to those you care about.
It’s a fact that moms usually focus their purchasing efforts on the rest of the family. This year, treat her to something she’ll love and would probably never buy for herself. After all, Mother’s Day is the perfect day to indulge! From mom-bling to luxe bath products and foodie gifts she’ll love, check out our editor’s picks for the best gifts for mom.
Homesick's Thank You, Mom Candle
Homesick has a candle for just about every occasion or place you miss. This one has hints of a fresh bouquet (think jasmine, lily, and lavender) and is a sweet way to say you care. With 60-80 hours of burning time, this is one gift that'll stick around.
Get her day started right with breakfast in bed. This sampling of freshly made pastries comes straight from the iconic Le Marais in San Francisco. You'll get chocolate croissants, almond croissants, Kouign-Amann batons, and Pain aux Raisin—yum!
So maybe a trip to Japan isn't in the cards this Mother's Day. Treat her to a bath experience inspired by the country's legendary hot springs with this set instead.
For the mom who loves her bold baubles, this bracelet is just the thing. There are several color combos, and she'll make a statement without saying a word.
Mom will shine like Rose and Cora with this all-organic set of sparkly lip gloss. Use one alone or blend the two for a customized color. You get two pots, and one applicator brush, and it comes wrapped in a pretty bow.
You've probably seen these around town. Yup, it's no secret that moms are ditching the heavy shoulder tote in favor of this trendy bag usually worn cross-body. It's perfect for commuting or hitting the park for a play date, so this sporty way to store your valuables works for every type of mom. If pink isn't her color, there are three other colors (grey is backorder until Jun. 11) to try.
It's okay to admit you're obsessed with The Real Housewives. Indulge in that obsession with this hilarious RHONY adult coloring book. All that's left to include is a glass of wine and serious ME time.
Boarderie's Mother's Day Ciccetti Cheese & Charcuterie Board
The way to mom's heart? Really good cheese and other goodies. We love this collection from Boarderie because it's made to order fresh and arrives ready to go. That's right, all the hand-curated cheeses, fruits, nuts, and meats are beautifully arranged on an Acacia wood-cutting board and are ready to be enjoyed as soon as she opens the box.
If the mom in your life loves to entertain, she can never have too many serving boards. This one is handmade, dyed in lively colors, and will brighten up any table. Here's a bonus: It'll go great with the delectable charcuterie board above!
Which mom doesn't long for a way to cool off when sitting by the playing field or the pool? This genius rechargeable pocket fan easily clips to your bag and doesn't have a colorful foam blade in sight.
If you're going to get mom chocolate for Mother's Day, get her the good stuff. Almost too pretty to eat, these petite treats will surprise her with every bite.
Before you say "A robe? Seriously?!," hear us out. This baby is hand-block printed by 5th generation master printers in Jaipur, made from 100% certified organic Indian cotton, and promises to make her feel like the glamour girl she is.
Designed with moms in mind, this luxe weekend bag is stain-resistant and has a wipeable interior, and will hold everything she needs for a much-needed getaway. It has 10 storage compartments and comes in six different hues.
Every mother needs a mantra. These Note to Self necklaces allow her to keep an inspiring message close to her heart. 18K gold-dipped with an adjustable chain, choose from statements like "I Am Enough," "Choose Joy," and "I Am the Storm." Pre-shipping in early May, these are a sweet gift for Mother's Day.
If she can't imagine traveling anywhere without her laptop in tow, this might be one of the best gifts for mom. This storage 'book' had space for all her chargers, adaptors, and more.
If she hasn't already jumped on the bandwagon, now is as good a time as ever to give mom the cult tumbler that will let her get all the water she needs on the daily. Offered in over a dozen hues (check out the new colors for spring 2023), one sip and she'll be hooked.
Dazzle her with a set of stunning earrings. These are offered in different gemstone combinations that include white topaz, garnet, citrine, and quartz. They are also adjustable so she can customize the look.
Chocolates? Check. Bath goodies? Check. A brand-new book set in Santorini filled with romance and family drama? Check! This fun read is exactly what mom needs while taking time for herself on Mother's Day, or any day!
Spotted on Oprah's legendary "favorite things" list, this travel jewelry box ensures all the new goodies mom gets for Mother's Day will stay in order and untangled. It has a spot for earrings, necklaces, and rings, and even has a tiny mirror.
This cult-favorite styling tool does the work of a hair dryer and a round brush and creates a salon-quality blowout. Some fans even say they've cut out the flat iron step of their prep work, which means it's a huge time saver. And as moms, we know how precious our time is.
Take her morning coffee to a whole new level with this stainless steel French press coffee maker. She can make a little or a lot, and when pressed down, the silicone seal immediately stops the extraction of the coffee's natural flavors, so it won't get bitter with time. Offered in six different colors.
She's going to need a place to pour all that delicious coffee, so why not one of these chic mugs? Made by hand, each one is the perfect size for mom's morning brew.
It's no secret that moms need better sleep. This aromatherapy mix of lavender, chamomile, and palmarosa comes blended into a shea butter/bee's wax blended stick that's not greasy and can go on wrists, necks, and even inside sleeping masks. Apply 30 minutes before bedtime and get ready to snooze.
If you're looking to give her some pampering goodies, one of the best gifts for mom has got to be this classic set from L'Occitane. The lotion is a best-seller for a reason, plus, there's soap, shower oil, lotion just for feet, and an extra-luxe version for hands.
Ever wondered what it means when you're falling or running in place? This collection of cards will teach you the significance of 60 common dreams and will help you make the connection between your dreams and your waking life.
It’s rainy season here in our favorite Puddle Town, but fear not—we’ve got more than 25 spots to have fun and stay dry
Rain goes with Portland the way peanut butter goes with jelly. From December through April, you can count on lots of wet weather (140 days, on average, to be exact). The simplest way to enjoy the rain with little ones is to put on boots and Muddy Buddies and head out for puddle-jumping through neighborhoods and forests. But if you’re looking for indoor fun, take your pick from our ultimate list of rainy-day activities below. Splash on, Portland!
1. Grab Coffee & Treats around Portland
We’re a caffeinated, food-obsessed city, with artisan coffee shops and bakeries on every corner. Kick things off with an early start at one of these kid-approved breakfast and coffee spots. You’ll want to fuel up for the full day ahead!
Slappy Cakes: Start the day at a Portland standby where breakfast is the main attraction and the entertainment. Let your kids make the meal, with griddles set into the table and customizable pancake batters to pour, flip, and top just the way they like.
Pip’s Original Doughnuts & Chai Tucked into a bustling section of shops on NE Fremont, this gem turns out perfectly crisp mini donuts in tantalizing, constantly-evolving flavors. Pick up a dozen and order a chai for yourself (in a variety of homemade blends), then choose a table near the window to watch the rain fall. There are high chairs for the littlest foodies and kids’ books near the counter to keep ‘em busy while you wait. Be prepared for a line on weekends!
Posie’s Bakery& Cafe: Looking for a mix of bagels, baked goods, and heartier fare? This homey coffee shop, bakery, and cafe has got the goods, plus a play area in back. If your kid’s been up since 5 a.m. and is ready for lunch by 9, not to worry: the kids’ menu offers grilled cheese, PB&J, and cinnamon toast, with a side of chips or cucumbers.
Reading is a classic rainy-day activity. Maybe that’s why the rainy City of Roses has one of the most well-used libraries in the country, and a plethora of excellent independent bookstores. Cuddle up with your kids with a pile of books and get lost in a completely different world, through the power of story.
Storytime at the Library: The Multnomah County Library is a national leader among libraries. Besides its large collection of circulating items, it’s well-known for storytimes, with daily offerings geared toward different age groups and in a range of languages. It’s free, fun, and a great way to make new friends– for kids and grown-ups alike. Afterward, stick around to load up your book bag with more books to take home.
Days, times, and age ranges vary by branch Online:multcolib.org
Powell’s Books: Head downtown to the City of Books—a whole city block with room after room of both used and new volumes. You can snuggle up in the pink room downstairs, where children’s books are organized around a reading area with cozy rugs and low tables with small chairs. A cafe near the yellow room serves up hot drinks and treats. Or, visit one of the smaller (but still impressive) Powell’s branches to get your book fix.
Green Bean Books: This children’s bookstore offers weekly storytimes and musical events in multiple languages, in addition to a well-curated selection of kids’ books, all in a bright and cozy red house. Check out their bank of vintage vending machines and bring a stack of books to the green couch to read together.
Fort Vancouver Community Library: Our neighbors to the north have a great library, too! Hop on the freeway and spend an afternoon exploring the top floor of the Ft. Vancouver Community Library. It’s entirely dedicated to kiddos, with a hands-on learning area, dress-up bins, interactive literacy-focused tech stations, and daily storytimes. You could easily spend hours here. Pop down to the first floor to refuel at the coffee cart. And psst! Multnomah and Washington County residents can get a free Reciprocal Library card to check out materials from the FVRL system.
Rainy day blues got you down? Studies show that even 10 minutes of petting an animal can significantly improve mood and reduce stress. Head to one of these fun spots to get cozy with bunnies and kitties.
The Pixie Project: A no-kill animal rescue and adoption center, The Pixie Project fosters both dogs and cats for adoption. You must make an appointment to visit with the dogs and cats. Consider making a donation with your visit to support this non-profit’s good work.
510 NE Martin Luther King Jr Blvd.
Portland Online:pixieproject.org
4. Make & Create Art around Portland
Get creative at one of Portland’s many kid-centric art studios. Check our favorites below.
Vibe Studio: At their locations on both SE Division and in St John’s, Vibe Studio offers a wide range of drop-in creative arts classes for toddlers all the way through the teen years. Check their website for a full list of offerings. (Choosing preschool or youth classes will send you to an online schedule, then click the “drop-in” tab to sort by location.) Most drop-in classes for toddlers are on Friday and Saturday mornings, while older kids can select a class during after-school hours almost every day of the week.
Live Laugh Love Art: Guided art classes for makers of all ages, Live Laugh Love Art offers canvas painting, wood signs, pottery, or glass arts. Check out the family pass to make art time a regular thing for you and your kids.
Soro Soro Coffee & Dessert: Kitten cheesecakes, rainbow cakes, animal-themed latte art, and matcha tiramisu? Sign us up! This recently-opened Korean coffee shop serves up seriously cute desserts alongside Stumptown Coffee and Steven Smith Tea. Perfect for a quick sugar rush before you hit the indoor playground.
Laughing Planet: Dinosaurs at every table, an extensive menu with kid favorites like quesadillas, smoothies, and the “trifecta” of three side dishes served in separate (not touching!) bowls, it’s no surprise that there are 10 Laughing Planet locations in the Portland area. Find one near you and stop in for quick, friendly service and happy kid bellies.
Two Sisters Play Cafe: This Milwaukie bakery and cafe serves up healthy fare (including gluten-free and vegan options) alongside a play room with a play structure, toys, games, and puzzles. Choose from paninis, sandwiches, salads, and a simple kids’ menu, then let the kids loose.
The Nest: Drop in for open play or take a class at this multi-purpose indoor playground and cafe. A large play structure, soft play area, and a rock-climbing wall are all available during open play hours, recommended for kids 12 and under. Try out yoga or an art class and get free admission to open play. Bring socks to play in, and enjoy treats from the cafe (outside food and drink not allowed.)
The Wiggle Room: Tucked into a corner of the Hollywood neighborhood, and within walking distance of the library and Laughing Planet, the Wiggle Room is a thoughtfully-designed playspace for kids from 0-7. Everyone can find their groove, with a larger structure for big kids, a padded play area for kids under 2, and a coffee bar for grown-ups. Natural light and a low-key color scheme keep things simple for people with sensory sensitivities.
Hammer + Jack’s: We love this toy shop and play space in the rapidly-changing Foster-Powell neighborhood. Stop by to check out the toys, then drop-in for open play. Spend $10 for free play time, or get a punch card and become a regular. Check the website for open play hours and special events like kindie musicians, art classes, and storytimes.
Playdate PDX: This is the ultimate indoor playground, with a three-level playstructure for kids up to age 12, a selection of beverages for grown-ups, and a separate play area for toddlers. Make sure you have socks for playing inside the playstructure! Work up an appetite? Hit the cafe for lunch and snack items.
On days when the weather promises to pour nonstop, a visit to the museum is the perfect way to stay active, happy, and dry. Portland’s got ten museums within city limits! Here are our top three for families.
Oregon Museum of Science and Industry (OMSI): At this waterfront museum, hands-on science displays, motion simulators, and a planetarium supply a whole day’s worth of exploration. You can even tour a submarine! For kids 6 and under, check out the Science Playland. Plan your visit on the first Sunday of the month to get in for just $2.
Portland Art Museum: If you think an art museum is too refined for little kids, think again! With family tours and Baby Mornings, the Portland Art Museum welcomes and encourages even the littlest citizens to become patrons of the arts. Bags and large backpacks must be checked upon entry, so pare down to the essentials. Strollers are allowed, but littler ones might do better in a carrier.
8. Where to Swim, Splash, and Skate Indoors in Portland
For especially energetic kids, there’s nothing like a pool or skating session, and a rainy day is the perfect excuse to head indoors for some active fun. Portland’s got several indoor pools and skating rinks to choose from.
Oaks Bottom Roller Rink: In addition to afternoon and evening open skate sessions, Oaks Park has a preschool skate on Tuesday and Wednesday mornings from 10-11:30 a.m. just for kids 6 and younger. The session includes skates, cookies and milk, a group lesson and games. Adults are free with one child admission, and shoes and strollers are welcome on the rink. There’s also a Saturday morning Kids Skate for ages 10 and under that includes skates, fun games and a visit with Chipper. (
7805 SE Oaks Park Way
Portland Online:oakspark.com
Lloyd Center Ice Rink: Take to the ice at the Lloyd Center Ice Rink, open daily in the mall. Rent skates and join public open skates during the day, or enjoy live DJ music during Rock n’ Skates on Friday and Saturday evenings.
McMenamin’s Kennedy School Soaking Pool: This ceramic, heated outdoor soaking pool is filled with chlorinated saltwater, in a private outdoor courtyard surrounded by gardens, on the spectacular Kennedy School grounds. Yes, we said outdoor, but hear us out: on a day when light rain or showers are predicted, it can feel pleasant and cozy to be outdoors in a warm pool. After soaking, grab a bite at the restaurant or catch a flick in the theater in this elementary-school-turned-hotel. Supervised minors welcome; bring your own towel! Note that during the rainy season, the pool is closed every 1st and 3rd Tuesday for cleaning.
Portland Parks & Recreation Indoor Pools: You know what they say when kids get cranky: put them in water! Portland’s public indoor pools are open year-round for open swim, family swim, and preschool swim. Check the website for the closest pool to your neighborhood. Swim times vary by location.
After a long rainy day full of adventure, let someone else do the cooking while you unwind with the family. Here are our top picks for easy, delicious meals in a family-friendly setting.
McMenamin’s Kennedy School: Wander the halls of this former elementary school, now turned into a playland—McMenamin’s style—with a hotel, bars, movie theater, soaking pool (see above!), and restaurant. Your little ones can choose from a range of kid-approved favorites like pizza, tater-tots, and french fries, while the grown-ups enjoy a well-deserved pint.
Mississippi Pizza Pub: With fantastic pizza and a family-friendly atmosphere, this neighborhood fave could have had us at “Hello.” But add in performances from favorite local kids’ bands on Friday nights? Next-level. Let your kids get out any last wiggles with a dance party while you kick back.
Hopworks Urban Brewery (HUB): There’s a reason why this brew-pub is packed around 5 pm: it has several fully stocked play areas where kids can entertain themselves with toys while you enjoy your brew. Kids can chow down on mac n’ cheese or a Little Brewer’s Burger, and grown-ups can take their pick from a range of burgers, salads, pizza, and more. (Psst: There’s even organic baby food available for $2 a jar.)