Cute leggings = a better day. It’s common core mathematics. Being pregnant is an exciting time, but it also comes with its fair share of challenges. One of those challenges is finding comfortable, stylish clothes that fit your ever-growing bump. Especially when you’re looking for activewear and loungewear. That’s where maternity leggings come in. Even if you’re a leggings connoisseur when you’re not pregnant, rocking that beautiful belly changes everything—even your favorite, feel-like-they-were-made-for-you pair might feel, dare we say it?, uncomfortable.

While some may argue that leggings aren’t pants, we beg to differ—especially when you’re sporting a baby bump. We’ve rounded up the best maternity leggings on the market, so you can stay comfortable and stylish throughout your pregnancy. From buttery soft fabrics to supportive waistbands, these leggings will make you forget you’re even wearing pants (in the best way possible). Leggings that fit your growing bump (and post-baby bod) while making you look and and feel awesome are always an excellent motivator. Read on for our top picks for supportive and super comfortable maternity leggings.

Storq Signature Leggings

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Storq

Yesss, this is what we want to be rocking during and after pregnancy. Soft and stretchy leggings with a curve-hugging fit and a waist panel that falls mid-bump, is high-waisted when we're not bumping, and can be worn folded down whenever we want. Wear these to work out, when you're lounging or running errands, even if you're recovering from a C-section. Sizes: XS-4X. Buy these on their own or save money with an awesome bundle that includes a nursing sports bra and bike shorts.

Storq Signature Leggings ($74.00)—Buy Here!

Beyond Yoga Spacedye Love the Bump Midi Maternity Legging

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Beyond Yoga

Designed to be worn below or over the bump, these midi leggings let you choose the level of support and coverage you need that day. The fabric is quick-drying, moisture-wicking and offers UV protection, so it keeps you dry and comfortable in all weather and all sorts of workouts.

Beyond Yoga Spacedye Love the Bump Midi Maternity Legging ($108.00)—Buy Here!

Ingrid + Isabel The Performance Leggings

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Ingrid and Isabel

Worth the splurge if you plan to work out on a regular basis. These moisture-wicking, sustainable leggings come in a four-way stretch fabric to allow a full range of motion. They feature a contoured panel you can wear over your bump or folded down beneath it for maximum versatility, and they provide gentle support to the lower back. Sizes: XS-XL. Color: black.

Ingrid + Isabel The Performance Leggings ($88.00)—Buy Here!

Girlfriend Collective Seamless Maternity Leggings

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Girlfriend Collective

A super stretchy, seamless maternity legging made from recycled fishing nets that’s ultra-lightweight, versatile and perfect for all-day lounging, running errands, or postpartum. Available in 5 colors, 2 lengths, and sizes XXS-6XL.

Girlfriend Collective Seamless Maternity Leggings ($88.00)—Buy Here!

Skims Fits Everybody Maternity Leggings

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Skims

Skims' soft, second skin fabric that stretches with your growing belly—without losing its shape. They feature a 2-ply construction to prevent sheerness and a high-rise, elastic waist. Available in sizes XXS-4XL.

Skims Fits Everybody Maternity Leggings ($66.00)—Buy Here!

Zella Mamasana Studio Luxe High Waist Maternity Leggings

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Zella at Nordstrom

Calling all Zella fans: The brand's maternity leggings have a stretchy, supportive panel to cover your bump and are made from a moisture-wicking fabric that keeps you cool and comfortable. Sizes: XXS-XXL.

Zella Mamasana Studio Luxe High Waist Maternity Leggings ($79.00)—Buy Here!

Lululemon Align High-Rise Leggings

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Lululemon

These aren’t technically maternity leggings, so why do moms-to-be love them so much? The fabric! The buttery soft Nulu fabric of these Lululemons is stretchy and doesn’t feel tight, even when your belly is busting out of all of your other clothes. Best of all, you’ll get lots of wear out of them after pregnancy too. Available in a ton of colors and sizes 0-20.

Lululemon Align High-Rise Leggings ($98.00-$118.00)—Buy Here!

 

Belly Bandit Maternity Bump Support Leggings

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Belly Bandit

The Belly Bandit Maternity Support Leggings feature a customizable waistband to give you the best fit. Not only are they super comfortable and super soft, but they also help give your baby bump some extra support with their underbelly ribbed paneling, smoothing you from the waist down, too. Available in 3 colors and sizes S-XL.

Belly Bandit Maternity Bump Support Leggings ($50.95)—Buy Here!

 

 

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I was lucky to be pregnant alongside one of my best friends. She was two weeks ahead of me and we shared a philosophy: we talk about everything. On any given day, the ping-pong match that became our text thread looked a little something like this:

Her: Where did you buy your compression socks? Your OB suggested them for flights, right?

Me: Do you think it’s bad I woke up on my back?

Her: New adds for our research list: delaying the first bath, and cord blood banking. Have you looked into either?

Me: How did you know it was baby hiccups when you felt them?

You better believe I hung on every word of her OB-GYN appointment recaps too, as I waited for my own. I wanted to know how did it go, what did you learn, and most importantly… what happens next?

(Photo: Me and my pregnancy partner-in-questioning)

 

As her 40-week mark moved closer and closer, I couldn’t shake the visual that she and I were standing at the top of a giant slide. Her, ready to push off and shout to me what the ride was like, as she soared towards the bottom.

I found having her as a guide for what was ahead to be calming, and made me feel like I was in “control” (cue the laughter, I know). I’m all about sharing what worked for me in the hopes it helps someone else, so here we go!

You may already be experiencing this, but the reality is, that as your pregnancy progresses, your OB-GYN appointments begin to feel more like drive-thrus than sit-downs. And that’s exactly around the time you’ll hear phrases like posterior placenta, newborn stem cell preservation, mucus plug, and foley bulb induction.

While these are new terms for the majority of us (and they sound intimidating), they’re not to be feared or rushed through. Your appointments are your appointments after all. So, from one new mom to the next, take your time. Command the room. If you need it, bring your partner, family member or friend as reinforcement. Most of all, ask every question.

To get you started, here’s a glimpse into the notes section of my phone organized by trimester. You’ll find topics to anticipate and questions to consider before your next OB-GYN appointment, no matter where you are in your pregnancy journey. Of course, pick and choose what feels appropriate for your situation.

We’re all on this ride together, friends—and I’ll be here waiting for you at the bottom of the slide.

First Trimester (0-13 Weeks)

The newness and fragility is palpable. This is a great time to gather questions as you wait for your first appointment and ultrasound.

  • When should my partner and I get tested for our blood types?
  • Are my prenatal vitamins giving me enough of what I need?
  • Can I keep up my exercise routine throughout pregnancy?
  • Are there foods I should avoid while pregnant?
  • How do I choose pregnancy safe skincare?
  • What should I be feeling during my first trimester?
  • When do you recommend I tell my boss I’m pregnant?

Second Trimester (14-27 Weeks)

As you work through all the necessary blood work and testing, tackle some of the bigger questions around your delivery, and explore your preferences. This is a nice time for a babymoon too!

  • What pregnancy classes should I take, and when should I take them?
  • Is cramping a normal feeling while pregnant?
  • Do I really have to sleep on my left side? Is it bad to sleep on your back while pregnant?
  • Start thinking about birth intentions (I avoided the word “plan”, adds too much stress!) :
  • Can you still fly in your second trimester?
  • What can I eat before the glucose test?

Third Trimester (28-40 Weeks)

Gearing up for the homestretch! Expect more frequent doctor appointments as the weeks progress. This is your time to decide on your birth “intentions” and postpartum care.

  • How long past my due date can I go before induction? Can you ask to be induced?
  • Cervical exams during pregnancy—pros/cons? Are they elective?
  • Reminder to decide on cord blood banking! When is our deadline, and what is the cord blood storage cost?
  • What is delayed cord clamping? And why would you do it?
  • What are signs your water broke? How long after do you wait at home if it does?
  • What does a mucus plug look like?
  • Do you have pediatrician recs? When do we make our first appointment?
  • Start to freeze food! Any recommendations for the best postpartum meals?
  • What is the transition phase of labor?
  • What breast pump does my insurance cover? Should I get fitted for a breast pump now?

While there is a lot to consider (clearly!), I hope having this little list in your back pocket lets you feel prepared for your next OB-GYN appointment.

To learn more about Cord Blood Banking, and how to order a collection kit before heading to the delivery room, visit our friends at Cord Blood Registry®(CBR®).

They’re sharing promo code ‘OWTA’ with Tinybeans families to save 45% on the CBR Collection Kit!

 


You’ve got an hour before dinner, and your kids are still amped, but it’s been a day, and you need a break. These toddler games are perfect for kicking back on the couch

Toddlers are naturally curious, love to explore their surroundings, and appear to have a boundless amount of energy, which can be exhausting for the parents who have to keep up with them. Luckily there are games you can play while lying down that involve very little energy on your part but are still super fun and interactive. From storytelling games to nursery rhyme trivia, these toddler games are the perfect solution for days when you need to kick your feet up.

I’m Thinking of … 
An easier version of 20 questions, this fun guessing game to play with toddlers is perfect when you’re craving some downtime. Use words to describe something you’re thinking of—an animal, place, book, stuffed animal, etc.— without giving away what it is; your kids will guess what you’re thinking of. You can get started with, “I’m thinking of an animal that likes to take naps in the sun and says ‘meow’ when it’s happy.”

Magnet & Paperclip Tower
You may already have what you need for this low-key activity; just be sure to grab everything before you lay down and get comfortable. You’ll need a large magnetic base and a stash of paper clips. Building on the magnetic base, toddlers can see how high they can build their tower of paperclips or what shapes and designs they can orchestrate through magnetic play.

Push the Right Buttons
All you need is a bucket of spare buttons to keep your kid occupied when your energy is zapped after a long day. Ask them to sort the buttons by color and then size or find ones that match. If this excites them and they want to get creative with buttons, you can see more of our favorite button activities here. Note: Your child should be old enough to know not to put buttons in their mouth for this activity. 

I-Spy
It’s a classic for a reason! You can play anywhere, including from a horizontal position on the couch. Level up with this easy-to-make DIY I-spy jar  (fabulous for road trips or bedtime routines, too!), or just a good old “I spy with my little eye something blue” is encouraged too.

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Don’t Wake the Bear
You’re the bear pretending to be asleep (perfect!) in this version of the game, and your toddler has to take turns quietly sneaking up to you to steal a small object, such as a pillow or toy, without waking you.

Build a Nest
Nesting doesn’t have to end with the third trimester. Keep it going with this toddler-aged version, and set up a circle of cushions or pillows and sit in it. It’s now your nest, and your kiddo is now a baby chick, a raptor, or anything that hatches. Your job is to cozy up and send them on missions like fetching food or learning to fly in this game you can play while lying down.

Hot & Cold
Before you lay down, have your toddler pick their favorite toy or stuffed animal for you to hide. Once you’re settled in on the couch, they can search for the hidden item while you call out “hotter” as they get closer or “colder” if they move farther away. The key to this one is to make it hard enough that you get a long enough rest but not so hard that your little seeker gets discouraged!

Laundry Basket(ball)
A laundry basket can signal your least favorite household chore or a way to entertain your kiddo while you rest. Set up a laundry basket and encourage your toddler to throw softballs or stuffed animals into the basket. Have your toddler move the basket farther away if it gets too easy. You can also hide a favorite toy or stuffie under a pile of clothes and let your tot “seek” it out or fill the basket with clothes and ask them to sort the laundry by color.

Reading an Adventure Book
Toddlers are always up for an adventure, but some days you’re just not in the mood. We get it! That’s why reading about one is an alternative that makes everybody happy. Check out our list of the best toddler books of 2023 for a few you may not have read before.

Storytelling Game
Encourage imagination and creativity while you catch downtime with a fun, lighthearted Storytelling Game. Start by giving your a prompt, such as “Once upon a time, there was a silly monkey who loved to dance.” Then encourage them to continue the story by asking questions like “What did the monkey look like?” or “Where did the monkey like to dance?” Take turns and add to the story; each person will build on what the previous person said.

Stargaze from Bed
Whether you want to make your toddler’s bedtime routine more enjoyable or you want to cozy up in their bed yourself for a mid-day rest—it helps if something is interesting to look at on the ceiling. Dim the lights and try stargazing from the bed with these ceiling decals. You can point out different constellations or ask your toddler to find different shapes or patterns in the stars.

Related: 10 Creative Toddler Games That Are Fun & Educational

Magnetic Rainbow Name Busy Box, Games for Toddlers to Play while Laying down
Mama.Papa.Bubba

 

Magnetic Rainbow Busy Box
Sitting still and giving you a moment of peace isn’t always easy for the tot lot. But give them this  Magnetic Rainbow Busy Box from Mama.Papa.Bubba, and they’ll be fully engaged and happy spelling their name and piecing together words with this. It can be an art project just to create the box, and they’ll have endless fun learning and spelling once it’s finished.

Doctor, Heal Thyself
Get the imagination juices flowing and let your kiddo play doctor while you play the tired, weary patient who needs to lay down. Break out the pretend medical kit, or if you don’t have one, choose real-life wellness props like thermometers and bandages, then let them be the ones in charge of making you well again. Taking your temperature, listening to your heartbeat, and bandaging your boo-boos should be part of the routine.

Search and Find
Lie down somewhere comfortable. Say, “I want you to find something that’s square,” “Something with a bell,” or “Something red.” Repeat. Variation: give them a list with little drawings or words of what to find while you close your eyes for a few minutes. Then, of course, they need to put everything back exactly where they found it.

Nursery Rhyme Trivia
Ask your toddler questions about their favorite nursery rhymes, such as “What animal did Mary have in ‘Mary Had a Little Lamb’?” or “What do the stars do in ‘Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star’?” You can also sing a line from a nursery rhyme and ask your toddler to finish the line.

Related: 15 Fun Games for Toddlers (Because You Need to Keep Them Busy)

When your crying baby just can’t be soothed, what do you put on the stereo? “Rock-a-Bye Baby,” “Twinkle Twinkle Little Star,” and “Hush Little Baby” have been staples for forever, but who said nursery songs are the only thing you can use to calm down your infant? A viral Instagram video shows parents have other options—like, say, 2000s hip-hop. More specifically, “Get Low” by Lil Jon.

The video was shared by mom Melissa Buckley, who showed her two-month-old, Jackson, crying—that is, until she instructed Alexa to play “Get Low.” As soon as the baby heard that first beat, he calmed right down.

“Anyone else’s babies get soothed to a random song?” Buckley wrote. “I used to play this all the time in my third trimester to try and get jackson head down and engaged… it did not work haha!!”

If this isn’t proof that early 2000s hip-hop is superior—and that some people are just born with good taste.

Buckley told Today that she listened to “Get Low” a lot while she was pregnant.

“I listened to it a lot in the latter half of my pregnancy because I was trying to get him low, and then I listened to it on repeat a good few times a day for probably three, four weeks on end,” she explained, adding that she and Jackson’s dad, Zach, would often dance to the song in the kitchen. After Jackson was born, when he was crying a lot and she didn’t know what to do, Buckley put on the song on a whim and noticed he immediately chilled out. Now, she said, she plays it at least once or twice a day to help him fall asleep.

The video even attracted the attention of Lil Jon himself, who left a laughing emoji and wrote, “Wowwwww.”

So next time your baby is crying, forget the nursery songs—maybe they just want some throwback hip-hop.

Runner Makenna Myler is going viral for running a 5:17 mile while 9 months pregnant, and if anyone needs me, I’ll be taking a nap

There are two types of people in this world: the achievers and the supporters. Runner Makenna Myler, who’s going viral for running a 5-minute, 17-second mile while nine months pregnant, is very clearly an achiever. And all of us (author raises her hand) who read that sentence and immediately wanted to go lie down in her honor—well, we’re the supporters.

This isn’t the first time Myler has made waves for being both a mom and a superhuman. Back in 2020, she went viral for running a sub-6-minute mile while pregnant with her first child. Now that she’s nine months pregnant with baby number two, she decided to try again—and she ran the mile even faster this time. Myler, who is due on March 15 (one whopping week from today, but who’s counting?) shaved eight seconds off her 2020 time of 5 minutes and 25 seconds.

In a move that will be relatable to almost no moms ever, Myler told Yahoo she “can’t imagine not running during pregnancy.”

And despite running a mile in a timeframe most adults can only dream of achieving, she also noted that because of her pregnancy, she wasn’t running at “100 percent.”

“The internal governor will not allow you to push to 100,” she said. “She’s smart enough to never allow the baby any danger. It feels weird trying to go all out, and still having about 10 to 15% in the tank at the end, knowing there was just no way for you to spend it. Our bodies are incredible.”

It’s probably worth noting that that makes sense, since Myler’s best non-pregnant mile time is four minutes and 37 seconds.

Doctors agree that it’s safe (and even encouraged) to exercise by running during pregnancy in most cases, with notable exceptions for women who experience pregnancy complications. But moms, if you’d rather spend your pregnancy (especially the third trimester) getting as much rest as humanly possible, there’s certainly no judgment for that, either.

It’s better late than never when it comes to getting vaccinated for the flu

If you’ve been wondering whether to get your flu shot, the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommends it with a resounding yes. Even though the weather is still warm and you’re probably not thinking about the flu yet, experts at both the CDC and the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommend that adults and children over six months old should get the new 2022-2023 vaccine to prevent the spread of influenza.

The CDC has released all the info you need to know about this year’s specific influenza virus strands and when you should make your appointment to get vaccinated.

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Why should people get vaccinated against flu?

With Covid-19 dominating our lives for the past few years, its easy to see how Influenza took a backseat––but it can still be deadly. The flu leads to hospitalizations and death for thousands of people every year from complications like bacterial pneumonia and chronic health issues like diabetes and congestive heart failure.

Because every flu season is different, getting the vaccine gives everyone the best possible chance to fight the flu. Even though you may still contract the virus, vaccines have been shown to lessen the severity of symptoms and side effects which means less time missing work and school.

How do flu vaccines work?

Your body needs antibodies to help provide protection against influenza, and vaccines help them to develop as soon as two weeks after getting the jab. Seasonal flu vaccines are specifically designed to fight certain flu strands projected to be the most common in the U.S and fight against four viruses: an influenza A(H1N1) virus, an influenza A(H3N2) virus, and two influenza B viruses.

When should I get vaccinated?

Don’t wait until your friends and family start dropping like flies from the flu. September and October are great times to get vaccinated for anyone six months and older. Most flu vaccines will become available starting in September, and while you shouldn’t wait until the season is in full force, even getting vaccinated in November and later is a good choice. With flu season peaking in February, the earlier you can protect yourself, the better.

Adults 65 years and older should not get vaccinated too early, to ensure proper protection during the entire flu season. On the flip side, children can get vaccinated as early as July or August. If you’re pregnant, be sure to check with your physical on getting immunized during your third trimester.

Why do I need a flu vaccine every year?

As mentioned above, each flu season is unique and annual vaccines are developed to combat the specific strands prevalent that year. Getting a flu shot every year also offers protection for waning immunization from the year prior.

Does flu vaccine work right away?

Immunization reaches optimal protection levels two weeks after vaccination. This is why it’s of utmost importance to get your flu shot before everyone in your community starts spreading the virus.

 

You can read more about this year’s influenza season and vaccines on the CDC website.

The Benefits of Pre & Postnatal Massage

Massage therapy involves the manipulation of muscles and other soft tissues of the body to relieve pain and heal injuries. Both pre-natal and postpartum massage help to relieve muscle soreness, manage stress and anxiety, and improve sleep quality. At Moon Rabbit, we encourage both moms-to-be and new moms to schedule pre- and postnatal massages; not only do they feel great, but they are also good for you and your baby’s health. Here are a few benefits to both pre and postnatal massage therapy.

The Benefits of Pre-Natal Massage

1. Relieves nerve and muscle pain. Many women experience joint pain during pregnancy. Prenatal massage therapy focuses on inflamed nerves by helping release tension in nearby muscles. This also improves blood circulation, reducing the swelling of the joints during pregnancy by stimulating soft tissue and decreasing fluid build-up around the joints. Additionally, improved blood flow helps the body’s lymphatic system (part of the circulatory and immune systems) work more efficiently by assisting in the removal of toxins and tissue waste. Along with joint pain, prenatal massage therapy can help reduce neck and back pain including sciatica, edema (swelling of the feet), and leg cramping.

2. Provides stress and anxiety relief. Studies have shown that prenatal massage helps to increase serotonin and dopamine—two of our happy, feel-good hormones—while decreasing stress hormones like cortisol and norepinephrine. Prenatal massage improves overall relaxation and health, including decreased depression and anxiety. A study including women who received bi-weekly massages for only five weeks, results showed reduced levels of cortisol and norepinephrine, as well as increased levels of dopamine and serotonin. Especially during a woman’s second and third trimester of pregnancy when women are typically most uncomfortable and in need of relief, prenatal massage can act as an effective tool to ensuring mental and physical comfort.

3. Improves labor outcomes and newborn health. The positive changes in hormone levels also lead to fewer complications during birth and less instances of birth complications, such as low birth weight. This strongly suggests that there are maternal and newborn health benefits when prenatal massage is included into regular prenatal care. In a study focusing on labor pain, women who were treated with prenatal massage therapy experienced significantly lower pain levels and their labors were on average three hours shorter with less need for medication. Additional evidence shows that massage can decrease carpal tunnel syndrome during pregnancy.

The Benefits of Postnatal / Postpartum Massage:

1. Improves lactation. One of the causes of the disruption of breastfeeding is the decrease in milk production. Postpartum massage has been shown to increase levels of prolactin, the main hormone involved in lactation. Relaxation in the chest muscles opens the shoulders, improving lactation; postpartum massage not only relieves breast pain, but also decreases sodium levels and improves newborn suckling. Studies determining the effectiveness of postnatal massage have shown that postpartum mothers experienced a significant positive effect on the production of prolactin, easing the sometimes emotionally and physically taxing process of breastfeeding.

2. Improves recovery time of uterus. “After pains” consist of the uterine contractions experienced after the delivery of the placenta. These contractions serve to restore the uterus to its pre-pregnant state and can be uncomfortable—hence, the name. Fundal massage is a uterine massage technique used by medical professionals to help the uterus go back to its usual size. Additionally, abdominal massage has been found to benefit mothers by encouraging uterine involution, the process of the uterus returning to its pre-pregnant state, and the expelling of lochia (postpartum bleeding).

3. Decreases stress and improves sleep. It’s common to feel exhausted after giving birth and especially as mothers take care of their newborns. Postnatal massage can ease fatigue, encourage relaxation, and improve quality of sleep. Research indicates that postnatal massage helped sleep quality among women who suffered from postpartum insomnia. Sixty postpartum women reporting poor sleep quality were randomly assigned to an intervention group (undergoing massage therapy) or a control group (no massage therapy). Those assigned to the intervention group reported significantly better sleep quality.

Both prenatal and postpartum massage benefit the mental and physical well-being of new mothers and their newborns. Keep these benefits in mind when scheduling pre and postnatal massage appointments can help ensure a more comfortable, manageable pregnancy and postpartum journey.

Gudrun Snyder, D.Ac., MSAc, LAc,
Tinybeans Voices Contributor
Gudrun Snyder is the founder of Moon Rabbit Acupuncture, a holistic health practice in Chicago. Snyder instills a “whole body” approach to health and wellness that focuses on the body as an interconnected whole, developing custom treatments rather than limiting treatment to one small ache or pain.

Nothing about IVF is easy, and the only thing you’re guaranteed is a lot of uncertainty. So when Amy Schumer—the comedian known for her fearless approach to all subjects, and who has been candid about her fertility journey in the past—told Chelsea Handler “I did it one time and I was like, ‘I’m gonna die. This is awful'” — women everywhere understood.

Schumer started undergoing IVF treatments after having her son Gene in May 2019. On Handler’s podcast Dear Chelsea, Schumer told listeners “I was sad” after her treatment wasn’t successful. “I did IVF, we made embryos and I went through the IVF process, which is so hard,” she said. “I got like 31 eggs and I was like, I’m Fertile Myrtle. I felt very hot.”

But as those familiar with the procedure understand all too well, Schumer’s optimism faded. “And then the drop off after fertilization, we only got one normal embryo and we tried and it didn’t work … and now I don’t have a uterus.” When Schumer started IVF she was just shy of 40, which put her success probability for conceiving around 27%. But, “We are freezing my eggs and figuring out what to do to give Gene a sibling.”

Already mom to 2-year old son Gene David, Schumer also opened up about how people’s sympathy for infertility can shift when the couple trying to conceive already have a child. “It’s not really something you get sympathy for because it’s like, you already have one b*tch, shut up. But you know, that’s a real struggle people go through.”

Schumer’s first pregnancy wasn’t a walk in the park (duh—it was nine months of carrying a child), either. But in addition to the typical challenges of pregnancy, she was hospitalized with hyperemesis gravidarum, a form of acute morning sickness, that lasted all the way into Schumer’s third trimester. She’s been vocal about the illness—in particular, why there is a lack of research on the condition, along with other women’s health issues—and true to form has addressed it with humor.

Before giving birth in May, Schumer posted on her Instagram “still pregnant and puking because money rarely goes to medical studies for women such as hyperemesis or endometriosis…”

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A babymoon is the perfect way to relax and reconnect with your partner before having to tackle sleepless nights, diaper changes and bottles. While there is no one right way to babymoon, there are some things every mom-to-be should consider when planning a pre-baby getaway. Read on for tips on how to choose when and where to go and what to pack. Can’t travel? We have you covered with great ideas for babymoon staycations.

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1. Choose the Right Time
Timing is key when it comes to planning a fun and relaxing babymoon. Most obstetricians think the best time to travel is between 14 and 28 weeks of pregnancy. This is the ideal time to plan a babymoon because the fatigue and nausea of the first trimester will have passed but the discomfort many moms-to-be experience in the third trimester will not have set in yet. Added bonus: Planning a trip for the second trimester will also give you something to look forward to when you're struggling through the worst of those early pregnancy symptoms. 

2. Find the Perfect Destination
With months of sleepless nights ahead, you'll want a destination that offers plenty of opportunities to relax. The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists has plenty of advice about how to stay safe on cruise ships, airplanes and during international travel, so nearly everything is on the table for expectant moms. If you have any concerns about your health and your baby's, select a destination that is not more than a few hours from your doctor or a large hospital capable of handling pregnancy complications. Consider your pregnancy symptoms as well. Even if you loved cruising before becoming pregnant, if you tend to get nauseated on the water, you may want to avoid any activity that could cause sea sickness.

3. Set Your Budget
Babies are expensive! Before getting carried away with your vacation, think about how much you can realistically spend. If the answer you come up with is "not a lot," don't worry. You can have an amazing babymoon on a budget. Consider a babymoon staycation! Look for mid-week hotel specials in your town or find a spa that gives prenatal massages and book a couple's day there. Or, look to nearby towns that are an easy drive from where you live to keep costs down. If you already have a lot of baby necessities from an older sibling or can snag hand-me-downs, consider asking family and friends for donations toward a babymoon rather than creating a baby registry. Instead of receiving baby gear you don't need, you can request gift certificates for dinner at a restaurant on the beach, a night at a hotel or a prenatal massage in the on-site spa.

4. Get Your Doctor's Okay
Before any babymoon plans are booked, check with your OB or midwife to make sure your trip is medically approved. Then schedule a pre-trip checkup to make sure you and the baby are in good health before jetting off. Since this appointment will be close to your departure date, most of your vacation plans will be set. That means it's a good opportunity to ask any questions you have about your destination, such as whether certain local foods are safe to eat or how to avoid Zika virus. Get the okay for any location-specific activities, like rock climbing or long hikes. This appointment is also a good time to ask travel-related questions, such as how often you should get up to walk during a flight or where to place your seatbelt for a long car ride. Pro tip: Some airlines and cruise ships have restrictions on when pregnant women can travel, so you can ask your doctor for a letter confirming your week of pregnancy at this appointment. 

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5. Pack Wisely
Stick to the essentials when packing so you won't have a mountain of laundry to do when you get home. You also want to be comfortable and cute! A babymoon is the perfect opportunity to refresh your wardrobe and get some basics to take you through the rest of your pregnancy and postpartum. A cute pair of Allbirds slip-ons will help ensure you are able to walk around in comfort on your babymoon. As a bonus, you will have a great pair of shoes you can put on hands-free once your bebe arrives. You can also justify picking up some new clothes to fit your growing belly, like a lounge dress or stretchy leggings from KyteBaby.

6. Plan Some Quality Couples Time
A babymoon is a great chance to strengthen your relationship with your partner. Remember what brought you together and enjoy each other's company as a couple before life changes. Take some time to talk about what you are looking forward to and what you are worrying about. If you need some ideas, The Adventure Challenge: Couples Edition is a fun scratch-off book full of ideas to make sure you don't always have the same old date night while on your babymoon.  

7. Babymoon at Home
Whether you have to stay close to home because you are on bed rest or because every extra penny is going to the baby, you can still have a great at-home babymoon. Treat your babymoon at home the same as you would if you were going out of town. Set an out-of-office auto-response for email and turn your ringer off. Plan to spend a long weekend (or more) doing nothing but pampering yourself, hanging with your main squeeze, eating all your favorite foods and binge-watching whatever you like. A long bath with candles and a weekend of lounging around can do wonders to help you reset and get ready for the next phase of pregnancy—and your baby!

—Jamie Davis Smith

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