5 Types of Friend Drama & When Parents Should Step In

by Melissa HeckscherApril 4, 2024

You might think “mean girls,” shifting friendships, and popularity contests are a rite of passage reserved for teenagers—but the truth is, this brand of schoolyard drama starts in elementary school.

And it’s not just girls. In fact, according to a study by the University of Illinois, kids of both genders are aware of popularity issues as early as third grade. And while this survey of 12,000 elementary and middle school kids found that 41 to 48 percent of girls reported experiencing relational aggression (teasing, social exclusion, and rumor-spreading), another study actually found that it is boys who use this sort of aggression more.

So get ready, because there will likely be a day when your otherwise confident child will come home from school and tell you something that’ll make your heart sink. And while you may want to swoop in and come to the rescue (or stomp right up to the mean kid himself), experts say parents should navigate this territory carefully.

“The child is looking to us not just to solve the problem, but to know how to feel about the problem,” said Abigail Wald, a parent coach whose nontraditional coaching program, Mother Flipping Awesome, has helped more than 10,000 families, “And if we are thinking, ‘This is the worst thing to ever happen,’ that sets off alarm bells for the child and makes a mountain out of a molehill very quickly.”

And remember: the drama your kids face now can help build the resilience they’ll need later.

“One thing we can do is change our perception of these things and realize that yes they are annoying for us—and sometimes they can feel downright heartbreaking—but essentially these things are really good,” Wald said. “These are good training wheels dramas for everything that our children are going to have to deal with throughout their lives.”

Here are some scenarios to consider:

When a classmate (or friend) is mean

what to do when kids fight, like these two girls fighting at school — *iStock*

Before you jump to conclusions, try to help your child see the other side: maybe the “mean kid” felt hurt by something your child said to her. Maybe the child is dealing with something difficult in her own life. Or maybe you just need to teach your child to rise above the conflict. So listen—and ask questions.

“This is a beautiful opportunity for us to help our child learn values and coping skills,” Wald said. “Discuss with the child what choices the other person is making and what that child might be needing, or consider that their friend might be hurt and taking it out in these ways.”

You can also try to role-play future interactions to outfit your child for future encounters. Ask your child to play their part, while you play the part of the friend and play out different scenarios to see what options your child may have to handle the problem.

The advantage to this sort of approach, Wald said, is that even tight-lipped kids may end up showing you a lot more about what’s going on than if you had just asked them, “What happened?”

“We can also discuss whether that is somebody they really want in their life or not,” she added.

When you suspect bullying

If you suspect your child may be the victim of bullying, that’s one of those times when you should definitely get involved—by more than just empathizing. (Here’s how to recognize the emotional and physical signs that your kid is being bullied, according to the National Center Against Bullying.)

Immediately reach out to the school—first your child’s teacher, then the principal—to make them aware of the situation. Most schools have strict anti-bullying policies and should attend to any suspicions immediately and respond to complaints quickly.

“If you sense that your child is having feelings of self-harm or that there is actual bullying going on—physical or emotional—that is truly unsafe, that is a time to step in to engage other adults and figure out what the options are,” Wald said.

When a good friend moves to a different “group”

While your heart might break along with your child’s, you want to resist the urge to “fix it,” just be there with your child’s feelings.

According to Sacramento psychologist Dawn Huebner, parents often rush to make things all better, but this doesn’t help kids—and can even make things worse.

“You do not want to continue to try to set up playdates if it’s clear to you that the friendship isn’t working anymore,” said Huebner, who has written several books, including Outsmarting Worry: An Older Kid’s Guide to Managing Anxiety. “Parents are quick to try to make things OK for them by solving problems or by making it seem like this thing that’s happening isn’t that bad, but when your friend doesn’t want to be your friend anymore, that’s sad. It’s normal to feel sad.”

Consequently, a parent’s first job in this situation is to empathize. Huebner urged parents to think about the sort of support they’d want. For instance, grown-ups don’t like other people solving their problems; most of the time, neither do children.

“The most helpful thing is when another person says, ‘Oh that’s hard. I’m sorry that happened,'” she said. “It’s the same for children.”

When your child isn’t picked for a team/invited to a party

It’s hard for anyone to feel left out—and there’s nothing a parent can really do to make this feeling go away (at least not right away). But instead of trying to distract your child, experts say parents should simply sit with their children and let them feel all their feelings. Empathize, but don’t solve. This helps build coping skills for the future.

“You don’t want to distract the child to compensate; that’s a mistake,” Huebner said. “You want to start with, ‘That’s hard.’ Because sometimes we don’t have the answers. You can say, ‘I don’t know why your friend didn’t invite you. It’s hard to be left out. You’re just kind of commiserating.”

When your child doesn’t want your advice

The hardest part about watching our kids unravel over a seemingly small drama is resisting the urge to tell them what to do. After all, we may know a quick fix. Why can’t we just give them the directions?

Because, most likely, your kids don’t want your input unless they’ve actually asked you for it. So tread lightly.

“You want to hear them and be compassionate about it, but that’s different than agreeing with them,” Huebner said. “Then you can say something like, ‘Do you want to hear my ideas?’ Or, ‘Do you want some help sorting this out?'”

What Kids Should Be Able to Do Themselves at Every Age

by Melissa HeckscherFebruary 28, 2024

Your child says, “I’m hungry,” and you grab them a snack. They say “I’m bored,” and you find a way to entertain them. But when should the butler treatment end? When is it time to teach your child how to be self-sufficient and let them do things for themselves?

Believe it or not—now is as good a time as any! Your two-year-old can help you do the laundry; your 6-year-old can brush her teeth; and your 10-year-old can hang out alone at home while you walk the dog. And, no matter how desperately they cry, “Watch me!” young kids don’t always need you right there next to them (being just nearby is just fine).

“What you’re really trying to do is get the child to learn how to make decisions and take control over the things they can have control over,” said Dr. Michael Ungar, director of the Resilience Research Center and the author of We Generation: Raising Socially Responsible Kids. “What you really want is a child who can make a contribution to their family, who can navigate their community, who can problem solve.”

We created an age-by-age guide that ranges from letting your toddler help with household chores to giving your tween tech time to help you figure out the right time to give your kids that much-needed independence. Here’s what the experts say.

Things Kids Can Do: Ages 0 to 2

Don’t worry: You won’t need to start nudging your one-year-old out of the nest. According to Los Angeles child psychiatrist Patrick Kelly, it’s the opposite: the stronger the attachment between parents and their babies, the more comfortable those kids will be doing things independently as they grow. That said, there are a few “big kid” things your tiny tot can start learning at this age:

Feeding and Dressing Themselves – According to Los Angeles pediatrician Amin Davari, simple things like allowing older infants to feed themselves age-appropriate foods and letting young children dress themselves give kids “minor struggles and successes” that help them learn how to be self-sufficient and build skills and confidence.

Swim Lessons – The AAP recently changed its guidelines to say that kids should start swimming lessons at age one. Although swim lessons will never make a child “drown proof,” lessons between the ages of one to four years have been shown to reduce drowning risk, according to the AAP.

Sign Language – Just because your baby can’t talk doesn’t mean she’s not trying to tell you something. Advocates say teaching babies and toddlers basic signs (things like “eat,” “more” and “milk”) can increase confidence in both the kids and their caregivers, helping little ones who can’t yet speak get their needs met. Taking a class can mean a fun social outing for Mom or Dad—though you can also learn from home.

Things Kids Can Do: Ages 2 to 4

chores are a good way to teach toddlers how to be self-sufficient — iStock

At this age, kids are ready—and willing!—to take on some responsibility around the house. You’ll know the time is right when you see them start pretending to do grown-up things, like playing “family” or play-driving the car when they’re in the push car. Take advantage of this need now by giving them:

Simple Household Chores – Give them a broom or a dustpan, and let them help you sweep the kitchen floor. You’d be surprised how willingly kids this age will want to help you clean. If you’re lucky, the habit will continue into their later years. Other simple household chores suitable for two-to three-year-olds, according to The Montessori Notebook are:

- Help pack their backpack
- Brushing/feeding the dog (just let it go when they make a mess!)
- Helping make the bed (at four, kids should be able to at least pull up a duvet by themselves)
- Placing clothing in the laundry and pushing the buttons you point to

Solo Playtime – As long as you’ve created a safe space to play, at this age most kids are generally past the swallowing-small-objects phase and can happily play by themselves for 30 to 45 minutes at a time. If your child is reluctant to play alone, just agree to be nearby, but set up toys with which they can play solo.

“Reading” Time – Your child doesn’t need to know how to read to get lost in a world of books. Give kids a stack of picture books and let them have at it. If they want to hear stories read out loud—but you still want them to be on their own—we love the Yoto player, a simple speaker designed for kids ages three and up that allows kids to insert small cards to read popular stories aloud.

Pick What they Wear – Something as simple as choosing their clothes can make a child feel incredibly independent, says Dr. Ungar. “Three-year-olds can’t negotiate their bedtimes, but they can decide to wear green pajamas or blue pajamas. The trick seems to be to find these ways that the child can make a genuine contribution.”

Use a Balance Bike – Kids may not be ready for a two-wheeler at age two… but a balance bike is an easy go-to! “Once a child can confidently walk around the house, they can start walking with a balance bike between their legs,” says Schwinn spokesperson Ryan Berkicht. “This could be as soon as 18 months old for some kids.”

Things Kids Can Do: Ages 4 to 6

Gross motor skills are advancing quickly at this age, too, so your kids should be ready for fun things like climbing on a play structure (without you constantly spotting), and using the “big kid swing” all by themselves. And while these may seem like ordinary childhood milestones, all of these accomplishments help them learn how to be self-sufficient and instill huge amounts of confidence. So cheer your kids on as they:

Brush Their Teeth: While most dentists advise that you keep assisting with their pearly whites until age 7, your kids should know how to brush their teeth all on their teeth by age 5 or 6—with you nearby to make sure there’s actual brushing going on (as opposed to just holding the electric toothbrush in their mouths while the motor revs). A good compromise is to let your kids do the morning brush and you can brush their teeth in the evening.

Use a Microwave with Supervision – Not only does using the microwave buttons help reinforce number recognition, but it also makes kids feel like real big kids. Teach your kids what can and can’t go in the microwave, and let them push the buttons and press “start” all on their own.

Ride a Two-Wheeler – Sure, some kids are ready for a two-wheeler at three years old—and some five-year-olds want nothing to do with a bike—but experts say age 5 or 6 is a good target age for getting a kid on her first two-wheeler. If they’ve been riding a balance bike or a bike with training wheels, they should be able to transition easily.

Have Drop-Off Play Dates – According to the AAP, kids around ages 5 and 6 are developmentally ready to be dropped off for play dates. Got a child who’s nervous about it? It might help to have the playdates at your house, where you can step away—but not out.

Day Camp – Since this is the age when kids start preschool or kindergarten, they’re also usually ready for day camp at this age, too. If your kids don’t seem uber-enthusiastic about camp, try to keep the camp schedule similar to their school schedule (if your child attends a half-day school, for instance, start with a half-day camp).

Things Kids Can Do: Ages 6 to 8

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By this age, kids have started kindergarten and are usually happy to do anything that makes them feel grown-up and competent. So watch them closely for opportunities to teach them how to be self-sufficient—while also keeping them safe (for instance, let them ride a bike up and down your street, but make them wear a helmet). Here are some things kids are ready to do by this age:

Help You Prepare Dinner – According to the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, children ages 6 to 8 are ready to:

Use a peeler to peel raw potatoes, ginger, mangoes, and other washed fruits and vegetables
Break eggs into a bowl (and remember to wash hands afterward)
Scoop out avocados after being sliced in half by an adult
Snap green beans
Shuck corn and rinse before cooking
Rinse and cut parsley or green onions with clean, blunt kitchen scissors

Take a Bath By Themselves – According to this article in the National Library of Medicine, most children can take a bath by themselves (i.e., without you sitting by the tub) by age 6. We recommend parents still stay within earshot and keep baths short enough that kids don’t get tired or rowdy in the bathtub by themselves.

Tie Their Shoes (with you supervising) – By age 6 or 7, most kids have the fine motor skills to attempt this surprisingly complex set of movements, according to Carolina Therapy Connection. You’ll know your child is ready to tie their shoes when they’re able to easily cut paper with scissors, string beads, or button and unbutton buttons.

Use a Computer to Browse the Internet – Experts recommend supervising children’s internet use at this age: If you’re not able to be there watching, you can use a filtering device like the Circle, which lets you dictate what apps and websites kids can and can’t visit online (as well as setting up bedtimes and screen time limits); or try a web filtering program like Microsoft Edge Kids Mode, which keeps your kids from seeing anything inappropriate online and lets you customize their web experience (it also prevents them from exiting the kid-safe browser to explore other apps on the computer).

Things Kids Can Do: Ages 8 to 10

Older kids are ready for adventure! Now’s the time to loosen the reins and let them chart their course a little bit. By this age, your child might be ready to:

Have a Sleepover – Around this age, they may be ready—as long as they can sleep through the night, no problem. That said, before you send your kids to another person’s home for the night, they must understand body boundaries and inappropriate touching. “I do think it’s a great time to start teaching kids about appropriate touches and that we’re the boss of our bodies and we’re the boss of our private parts,” writes child abuse prevention expert Pattie Fitzgerald. She also urged parents to talk to the host parents so they’ll know exactly who will be supervising and whether there will be older kids (such as teenage-aged siblings) or extended family in the home. The answer to these questions may well alter your decision to say “yes,” as parents should have a strong baseline of trust with the hosts.

Note: Some experts believe children (and their parents!) aren’t ready for sleepovers until the age of 10 and up.

Go to Overnight Camp – As long as your child can shower, doesn’t wet the bed, and has shown no problems spending the night at friends’ or relatives’ homes, they’re probably ready for sleepaway camp. While many overnight camps offer programs for kids as young as six or seven, the American Camp Association gives age nine as the target age for kids to start the summer camp journey. Some camps offer one-week “starter” programs for reluctant or nervous campers.

Walk to School by Themselves (Under Certain Conditions) – The AAP says elementary school-aged kids can walk to school by themselves, provided the walk is short, the neighborhood is safe, and there are school crossing guards stationed at any intersections. If there are non-guarded streets or you live in a city, waiting until age 12 is better.

Things Kids Can Do: Ages 10 and Up

tween girl at home with smartphone — iStock

Tweens are all about breaking free and taking risks. Your job is to let them experiment with autonomy while still making sure they’ve got set limits to keep them safe. By age 10, kids can:

Be Left At Home for a Short Time – The laws vary on this, with some states like Oregon and Tennessee giving home-alone privileges to 10-year-olds and states like Colorado and Delaware saying 12 is a better age to start this. This Washington Post article gives state-by-state guidelines on the regulations, but it’s a good idea to check with your state’s Family or Child Services Department to be sure.

In any case, before you leave your kids home alone—even for a short time—it’s important that they know what to do in case of emergency and what your expectations are should unexpected things happen (like someone knocking on the door or a friend stopping by unannounced). The Department of Health and Human Services recommends that parents ask themselves these questions before leaving kids alone:

Is your child physically and mentally able to care for him or herself?
Does your child obey rules and make good decisions?
How does your child respond to unfamiliar or stressful situations?
Does your child feel comfortable or fearful about being home alone?

If you’re leaving for more than an hour, it’s best to wait to take your children. And experts say it’s not a good idea to let kids this age babysit younger children while no parents are home.

For more advice and tips, see this handout from the DHH.

Ride a Bike to School – It’s hard to find any specific laws about kids riding bikes to school, but the American Academy of Pediatrics says that by late elementary school, most kids can safely do this, provided the route is short and the roads safe. Before your child starts riding to school, make sure you practice the route with them (several times!) and go over what to do if unexpected things arise, such as a fall or a flat tire. If it makes you feel better, have your child wear a GPS watch or other tracking device to alert you when she gets to school safely.

Of course, you should always make sure your kids wear a good-fitting helmet and try to enlist a friend to ride along, to ensure both kids get there safely.

Things Kids Can Do: Ages 12 and Up

This is it. The bridge to the young adult years. Kids in this final stretch to the teens are longing to break free, so the trick is to let them feel independent and learn how to be self-sufficient while encouraging them to make responsible choices. Here are some things they’re ready to do now:

Have Their Own Cell Phone – While many argue that cell phones should wait until high school, middle schoolers can have a phone, provided it is monitored and filtered by the parents. Before you give your child a phone, have them sign a technology agreement that lays out the rules—for instance, no cell phones should be allowed in your child’s room overnight, and your child should know that you will read and monitor her messages. To keep your kids off inappropriate or dangerous apps and sites, use apps and programs like Screentime (for iPhones), Circle, or Securly.

Babysit Younger Children – There are no real legal restrictions for babysitting (except in states that have laws on when kids can be left alone), but the Red Cross doesn’t allow kids to take its babysitting course until age 11. By 12, kids should be able to babysit with a grown-up present in the house (or for short times when a grown-up leaves the house); by 14, they can usually babysit younger children on their own. When it comes to an older sibling watching the younger kids in the house, parents need to ask themselves whether their oldest is mature enough and responsible enough to handle the task. If there are any doubts, skip it.

Be Dropped Off in a Public Place with Friends – As long as your child agrees to stay with the group and you’ve talked about uncomfortable situations (if a stranger talks to them or if other kids are experimenting with drugs or alcohol), most experts agree that by middle school—or around age 13—kids can be dropped off at public place (like a movie theater or mall) for a few hours as long as they are in a group and you are leaving them in a safe location. This depends, of course, on your child’s level of maturity, your city’s crime rate, and whether you trust them to make good decisions.

Note: Check with your state laws before letting your teen go to certain places solo: Some states, such as Minnesota and Delaware, do not permit children under 16 to be in certain malls without adult supervision, according to this article.

22 Best Holiday Gifts for 1-Year-Olds

by Jessica PayneOctober 20, 2023

These goodies are sure to become instant favorites they’ll use well beyond their first birthday

A pull-along snail, their very own turntable, an activity table with hidden storage, the bounciest unicorn, a beautiful balance bike, and bath toys that keep the water in the bath? These are the holiday gifts for one-year-olds that are sure to delight. And if you’ve got other littles on your list, check out our gifts for 18 to 24 months and 6 to 12 months.

Fisher-Price Mix & Learn DJ Table

The Fisher Price Mix and Learn DJ Table is one of the best holiday gifts for one-year-olds in 2023

If your babe’s been bopping their head to the beat since they first gained neck control, they’re going to love this music-themed, light-up activity table. As sitters, they can explore the piano, buttons, and toys, and brush up on their shapes and colors; once they can stand at the decks they’ll be dropping a beat while learning Spanish phrases and opposites.

Fisher-Price Mix & Learn DJ Table ($31)—Buy Here!

Plan Toys Pull-Along Snail

Proud new walkers love having a little buddy to follow them around, and this snail is just too cute as it inches along. Kiddos learn about cause and effect while working on their balance and fine motor skills.

Plan Toys Pull-Along Snail ($30)—Buy Here!

Joovy Tricycoo 4.1

Tikes can cruise in style for a long time with this solid 4-in-1 tricycle. It starts as a fully harnessed push trike with a parent handle and canopy and eventually evolves into a tricycle that three-year-olds can ride independently.

Joovy Tricycoo 4.1 ($130)—Buy Here!

Manhattan Toy Musical Lili Llama

Manhattan Toy Lili Llama is one of the best holiday gifts for one-year-olds in 2023

You’ll be amazed by how long toddlers entertain themselves with this musical llama friend. Lili’s got a xylophone, four spinners, a maraca, two gears, a washboard, 2 clacking saddles, and two mallets (conveniently stored in her head), so there’s never a dull moment.

Manhattan Toy Musical Lili Llama ($61)—Buy Here!

Joymor Foam Climbing Blocks

Toddlers can get their beans out on these fun foam climbing blocks, exploring tunnels, ramps, and stairs, and parents can rest assured that any spills or messes are easily wiped clean with mild soap and water.

Joymor Foam Climbing Blocks ($236)—Buy Here!

Bouncy Inflatable Animal Jump-Along

Giddy up! Let your little loose on one of these fun and bouncy inflatable animals, available in unicorn, grey bunny, fox, and green triceritops. Each animal comes with a hand pump and a unique birth certificate.

Bouncy Inflatable Animal Jump-Along ($57)—Buy Here!

Haba Fun with Sounds Wooden Discovery Blocks

Haba musical fun with sounds wooden discovery blocks is one of the best holiday gifts for one-year-olds in 2023

Not only can little hands stack these colorful beech wood blocks, but each one is also ripe for acoustic exploration—from rattling and clacking to squeaking and tinkering. Plus, you can toss a few in your bag for on-the-go entertainment.

Haba Fun with Sounds Wooden Discovery Blocks ($49)—Buy Here!

Gund Muttsy Dog Plush

For parents of dog-obsessed toddlers, a puppy stuffie is a no-brainer. They’ll instantly fall in love with this super-soft and extremely huggable Gund version.

Gund Muttsy Dog Plush ($27)—Buy Here!

Learning Resources Learn-A-Lot Avocados

There’s so much to learn from these adorable little avocados. Kids can color match the tops and bottoms, building fine motor skills while they do it, and get to know the different emotions on each fruit’s face.

Learning Resources Learn-A-Lot Avocados ($12.50)—Buy Here!

Anthropologie Frenchie Push Cart Toy

The anthropologie frenchie push cart is one of the best holiday gifts for one-year-olds in 2023

Leave it to Anthro to design the most beautiful push cart of our dreams. As baby toddles, three Frenchie dogs bob up and down and their tails wag around on springs.

Anthropologie Frenchie Push Cart Toy ($70)—Buy Here!

Dragon's First Taco Board Book

Not only does this bring the hilarious Dragons Love Tacos series to the littlest of readers, but the book itself is also shaped like a taco, which makes it extra fun for little hands to explore. Inside, baby dragons learn how to make a taco. Yum!

Dragon's First Taco Board Book ($7)—Buy Here!

Wonder & Wise Baby Busy Box

Wonder and Wise by Asweets Baby Busy Box is one of the best holiday gifts for one-year-olds in 2023

Aesthetically minded parents will appreciate how this neutral play box fits in with their modern decor; kids will love the gears, puzzle, shape sorter, abacus, and more. From seated tots to two-legged toddlers, there's plenty of room to grow with this one.

Wonder & Wise Baby Busy Box ($149)—Buy Here!

Boon Pipes Building Bath Toy Set

This fun and stylish bathtime set includes five tubes that are shaped differently to be used separately or combined to make a big chain. The best part? The water finally stays inside the tub.

Boon Pipes Building Bath Toy Set ($18)—Buy Here!

SEREED Baby Balance Bike

Perfect for indoor or outdoor play, babies can begin learning how to balance and get the feeling of riding a bike before graduating to a two-wheeled balance bike or training wheels. And since it’s under 4 lbs, mom or dad won’t have to break their backs carrying it home when a ride takes a turn for the worse.

SEREED Baby Balance Bike ($50)—Buy Here!

ALASOU Suction Cup Spinner Toys

These genius suction spinners are the gift that keeps on giving, from the car to the bath to the high chair. They’re also live-savers on airplane rides—just stick them to the windows and let baby have at them! One Amazon reviewer said she puts them on the fridge, oven door, and dishwasher when she’s working in the kitchen and needs to keep her tot occupied.

ALASOU Suction Cup Spinner Toys ($10)—Buy Here!

Coco Village Wooden Activity Table

There’s so much to love about this chic activity table, from its beautiful birch frame and soft muted hues to the two worlds for baby to explore: land and sea. The storage bag that’s hidden under the winding abacus is particularly brilliant.

Coco Village Wooden Activity Table ($150)—Buy Here!

Tender Leaf Peacock Colors

This take-along wooden toy introduces tikes to the art of color mixing and gives them a chance to look through each brightly hued acrylic screen to see the world in different shades.

Tender Leaf Peacock Colors ($28)—Buy Here!

Pottery Barn Kids My First Anywhere Chair

This is a timeless staple as far as first-year gifts go—with good reason! The tot-sized chair is a cozy place to read a book or explore a new toy. Pro tip: if you have the space you can size up to the kid version—my six-year-old still sits in his to watch TV.

Pottery Barn Kids My First Anywhere Chair ($129-$169)—Buy Here!

Farm Animals Toy Set

Toddlers love taking things out and putting them back in and they’re sure to get their fill with this toy, a set of ten brightly colored barns with farm animals inside. Kids learn to color-match the barns and rooves, identify the numbers on each barn, and practice vocabulary like “put in” and “take out.”

Farm Animals Toy Set ($30)—Buy Here!

Fisher-Price Mega Bloks

With 80 blocks that transform into endless creations, this toddler staple lets their imaginations run wild. The chunky blocks are easy for wee hands to put together and pull apart, so maybe they’ll even play on their own for a few minutes.

Fisher-Price Mega Bloks ($16)—Buy Here!

Vilac Iceland Waterfall Ball Toy

Oh la la! This French toy is gorgeous to look at but, most importantly, kids will love watching the adorable little animal balls slide down the snow-capped mountain to ring a dangling bell at the end.

Vilac Iceland Waterfall Ball Toy ($65)—Buy Here!

Djeco Finger Paint Tubes

Yes, finger painting can get messy, but these brightly colored paints are totally washable and free from harmful chemicals. So throw down some newspaper, drop some colors on the plastic palette, and unleash your little artiste.

Djeco Finger Paint Tubes ($22)—Buy Here!

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37 Fun Father & Daughter Activities to Build Special Memories

by Kipp Jarecke-ChengJune 12, 2023

For dads, raising our girls to become smart, confident women means always encouraging their curiosity, nurturing their joy of play and exploration, and helping them realize that the sky’s the limit. We asked some of our favorite parents of daughters to share their most cherished father-daughter activities, and we received a treasure trove of ideas. From singing in the car to preparing a family meal, there are so many good ideas here. Which one will you choose?

1. Belt out songs in the car. Nothing beats the amazing acoustics in a sweet ride with your sweetest girl.

2. Build an epic couch fort. A great rainy day (or, really, any day) activity to do with your daughter.

3. Have a tea party. There’s no rule book that says only moms can whip up a spectacular setting for two (or more). We love this tea set, too!

4. Make Cuban food together.

5. Go on a bike ride. Dads never forget the day when our daughters graduate from using training wheels to being able to ride solo on two wheels, which is why bike rides are one of our favorite father-daughter activities; it’s a great way to explore the outdoors together.

6. Go to work together. And not just on Take Your Child to Work Day. Pick a random day for your daughter to play hooky from school, and bring her to work. Whether you spend your day filing TPS reports or you’re the master of your own business, sharing with your daughter what you do for a living (and showing off how awesome she is to your co-workers) will give each of you great and lasting insights into each other.

7. Play a round of cards. Start simple with Go Fish or Old Maid and make your way up to rummy. It’s a tradition you can continue to play for years to come.

8. Learn about these inspiring female scientists.

9. Build a robot. It’s a proven fact that dads and daughters love robots and there’s nothing better than working on robot projects together. In addition to instilling a love of science and engineering in young girls, robots are just super-cool.

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10. Have a lunch date. Whether it’s a standing lunch date every month or for a special occasion, splurge on a fancy lunch date with your daughter, preferably at someplace that doesn’t have a kids’ menu and requires dressing up.

11. Take a selfie with her. Pictures are a great way to capture a sweet moment in time.

12. Go bowling.

13. Prepare a family meal together. Your spouse will appreciate whatever you and your daughter whip up in the kitchen, and your kiddo—no matter how young she is—will start to learn the joys of creating yummy eats for others.

14. Tell each other secrets. Start while your daughter is young so that she’ll always know that you trust her to keep your secrets and she will, in turn, know that she can trust you with hers.

15. Learn something new together. Whether you sign up for a crafting class or take your daughter somewhere to learn a new activity, it’ll be fun for her to see you learning as an adult too.

16. Work out together. Fathers and daughters who exercise together stay happy, healthy, and strong together.

17. Start a collection. Whether it’s small bottles of sand from every beach you’ve ever been to with your daughter or stubs from your favorite movies (this is the perfect place to store that type of thing) you’ve seen together, starting a shared father-daughter collection can make memories more tangible.

18. Take a walk on the beach. And while you’re at it, remember to build sandcastles, collect seashells, and play in the surf with your daughter. There are plenty of great beaches to explore.

19. Share an impromptu picnic in the backyard. Dining al fresco is best served with juice boxes and plushies.

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20. Attend a sporting event. Whether it’s watching your daughter’s soccer match or taking her to see college or professional league sports, sharing a love of athletics can nurture healthy competition and good sportsmanship, and it’s a perfect father-daughter activity for a day of fun.

21. Attend a Minecraft convention. Or, really, any fan event that will let a father and daughter share something that they both enjoy.

22. Learn to code. These days, our precocious daughters could probably already teach us a thing or two about Python or Ruby on Rails, but for developing junior coders, there are plenty of programs that aim to instill a love of technology in young girls that all dads should encourage.

22. Ride a seesaw. Do it while she’s still young enough to enjoy bouncing around with her dad, but old enough to appreciate just how silly it looks.

23. Do yoga together. Centering mind, body, and spirit are helpful consequences of doing a few vinyasas and downward-facing dogs, but the true benefit of fathers and daughters doing yoga together is the quality time spent. Don’t forget to buy your mat!

24. Explore the world. Family vacations are perfect for getting away from the usual day-to-day grind of school and work schedules. Traveling to a new city or town allows fathers and daughters to experience and see things with fresh perspectives.

25. Cosplay as your favorite animated characters. What can I say except, “You’re welcome.”

27. Have “the other talk.” Because any self-possessed young girl needs to grow up understanding that Beyoncé is the Queen, no matter what anyone says.

28. Read books together. The only thing better than a dad who reads to and with his daughter is a well-read girl who grows up to be the next CEO, rocket scientist, or President of the United States.

29. Dance like nobody’s watching. It’ll be good practice for your first father-daughter dance at her wedding.

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30. Ride a carousel. There’s nothing quite like a leisurely ride on a merry-go-round with your little girl, whether it’s at one of the country’s most awesome carousels like the one at Disneyland or the local park.

31. Volunteer in your hometown. Showing your daughter you have compassion will make you an awesome role model.

32. Have “the talk.” Because it’s never too early to teach your daughter the incontrovertible fact that the Marvel Comic Universe is vastly superior to the DC Comic Universe, Wonder Woman notwithstanding.

33. Build something. Start a project, and be sure to use tools because it’s never too soon to teach your kid how to be handy.

34. Go fishing. There’s nothing like the quiet togetherness that is required when you cast a line with kids. Do you have your pole?

35. Get ice cream at your favorite shop. Did yours make our list of the best ice cream shops in the country?

36. Another great father-daughter activity? Pick a class from Outschool and do it together.

37. Check out your astrology compatibility with our chart.

Roll Out! Kid-Friendly Bay Area Bike Trails

by TaLeiza Calloway-AppletonMay 27, 2023

It might seem impossible to take family bike rides with little ones in tow, but San Francisco has plenty of kid-friendly bike trails to explore

It’s always a good day for a family bike ride in San Francisco. The warmer weather makes it even easier to enjoy the outdoors, yet a nice ride on a cool day hits the spot for all ages. Whether you’re looking for sloped bike paths or milder bike trails for your little tykes (or those tagging along in cargo), we’ve got you covered with our round-up of kid-friendly bike trails throughout the Bay Area—from the Peninsula to Marin County. Happy riding!

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Mission Creek Park

Scenic views are in abundance at Mission Creek Park. From views of Oracle Park in the background, this approximately half-mile long, tiled and wide pathway has plenty of room for your little rider to cruise. The kid-friendly path runs along Mission Creek in San Francisco’s Mission Bay/SOMA neighborhood. Bonus: This park boasts some of the city’s cleanest public restrooms.

Insider Tip: You can access Mission Creek from Channel or Berry Street between 4th and 5th streets. Check out a map and get more info at missionbayparks.com.

Golden Gate Park

A true community gem, it is not surprising that this park boasts some of the best bicycle paths for little ones, with just a few mild gradients. Note: On Sundays and holidays, John F. Kennedy Drive is closed to car traffic from Stanyan Street—where the Panhandle begins—to 20th Avenue. This leaves it free and clear for bicycles, skaters and pedestrians. Score!

Insider Tip: Several bicycle rental companies are located just outside the park. More info.

Crissy Field

There’s so much for bike-riding families to do at Crissy Field. Not only can you bike from Marina Green to Fort Point, but you can enjoy a picnic along the way and fly a kite when the kids want a break. Need we say more?

McLaren Bike Park

This half-acre family-friendly bike park in San Francisco serves the Bay Area and beyond. A first of its kind for the city, the park opened in 2017 and has features for the beginner and challenge-seeking rider. Additional park development plans include advanced-level bike features such as flowing trails, berms, progressive table top jumps, dirt jumps, wooden ladders, wall rides, a pump track and more. Read the full scoop here.

Angel Island

Coastal views and a sea breeze await you and your little adventurers on Angel Island. Hit the Perimeter Road, a six-mile, partially paved path that casually loops around the island. With plenty of opportunities for Instagram-worthy pitstops, the circuitous road boasts a 360-degree panorama of the entire San Francisco Bay. The best part? No cars are allowed on the Island so little riders can let off steam, while parents can hang out and enjoy the view.

Insider Tip: You can also rent bikes on the Island on a first-come, first-served basis.

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Coyote Hills Regional Park—Fremont

With rolling hills perfect for biking and hiking, the diverse areas of this park also lends to a day of picnicking and bird watching at the marshlands so that the family can easily make an entire afternoon out of a visit. Keep your eyes peeled for turkeys, deer, egrets and eagles!

Insider Tip: Parking fee applies at the official parking lot but if your crew is willing to ride a bit longer, a free lot is available 1/2 miles down the road

Iron Horse Regional Trail—Danville

Here you’ll find over 40 miles of paved path for walking, running and biking. It’s the perfect layout for toddlers to scooter or ride on the bike path while you push a stroller nearby. It is mostly flat and you’ll find plenty of parking.

Insider Tip: If you park at Hillgrade Ave. in Alamo and head south you’ll pass by some horses on the left. Keep walking and you’ll see some backyard chickens too!

Redwood Regional Park—Oakland

Tucked inside Oakland’s Redwood Regional Park, you and your tots will enjoy this one-mile paved, flat trail through a magical redwood forest. With plenty of room for little legs to pedal or run, both open meadow and trails provide a nature-rich adventure for all ages. Added bonus: The Stream Trail is paved far enough along the route for a decent bicycle or tricycle ride.

Insider Tip: The main entrance, Redwood Gate, is on Redwood Road in Oakland about two miles east of Skyline Blvd., but be sure to check the website before you go to see if there are any road closures.

Dirt World Bike Park—Richmond

Dirt World is a 2.1-acre public bicycle skills park. Geared for mountain bikes and BMX bikes, the park features tracks, trails and challenging obstacles for riders of all ages and ability levels. The park is one of 17 volunteer-run adopt-a-spots located on the Richmond Greenway, a 3-mile long bikeway that stretches across central Richmond.

Contra Costa Canal Trail—Martinez, Pleasant Hill, Walnut Creek & Concord

This picturesque paved path is perfect for little cyclists who might still have the wobbles and don’t want to deal with hills. Running along the Contra Costa Canal, the trail is popular with joggers and horseback riders, too. Since it runs nearly 14 miles in a rough horseshoe, riders can pick it up in several different staging areas and ride a portion or two—or the whole thing. Fun Fact: During your trek, parents can talk with kids along the way about how the Canal provides drinking water to Martinez and other cities, pumped in from the Sacramento/San Joaquin Delta. The landscape is diverse, including forested areas as well as more open spaces.

Insider Tip: It’s easy to pick up the trail near the Pleasant Hill BART station. If you drive, finding street parking is fairly easy.

Bay Farm Island Loop Trail—Alameda

Get ready for beautiful bay views! The neighborhood of Bay Farm is a charming little enclave of Alameda. A nice flat grade, this six-mile paved loop is ideal for getting those newbie pedal-pushers some serious practice in a scenic setting. The bike path goes through Shoreline Park at the northern end and around the Chuck Corica Municipal Golf Complex. Need to make a pit stop? Shoreline Park has several restrooms.

Rider Tip: Download this handy map, and you’re on your way!

Lake Chabot—Castro Valley

Lake views anyone? There’s a little over 12 miles of bike trails here and it’s perfect for your next family biking adventure. Why you ask? For young kids, you can shorten your ride by staying on the Shore Trail, which is a flat, paved service road that extends about 8 miles along Lake Chabot. From the marina, you can simply ride out along the lake, and when you’ve pedaled enough, you can head back.

Pleasanton BMX Park

This kid-friendly bike park has a smaller footprint and is sort of the BMX/Mountain Bike equivalent of a skate park. You’ll find it less crowded during morning hours. There’s no fee to park or enter and parents can watch or ride as they wish. Location: 3320 Stanley Blvd, Pleasanton.

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Half Moon Bay Coastal Trail

This 10-mile round trip coastal bike trail is breathtaking. In addition to skirting beachfront shores and coastal bluffs, you’ll zip under giant cypress trees and across bridges that extend over rippling creeks and lush riparian habitats. Added bonus: In spring, the path is enveloped by colorful wildflowers.

Coyote Point Recreation Area Trails—San Mateo

This bike trail area is a great place to introduce new cyclists to two-wheeled action, or to help get those training wheels off—finally! Several paved pathways connect to different areas of the park. Be sure to observe all posted speed limits and be aware of those out for a stroll. Cyclists should also stay on the designated paths—added bonus: they’re all paved!

Insider Tip: For directions, hours and more visit the County of San Mateo Parks site.

Saddle Loop Trail—San Bruno

Got older kids? Check out Saddle Loop Trail, a two-mile gravel loop that passes through a eucalyptus grove and mature cypress trees up on top of San Bruno Mountain. Zip along the satisfyingly crunchy limestone and breathe in that sweet eucalyptus scent all while taking in stellar views of the Bay, San Francisco Skyline and Sutro Tower.

Insider Tip: Access the Trail from the Main Parking Lot and stay south of Guadalupe Canyon Road. You might see some horseback riders and hikers along the trail, but no dogs are allowed in the park. For more information, visit the County of San Mateo Parks site.

Shoreline at Mountain View

This 750-acre wildlife and recreation area provides a beautiful setting by the Bay and has gorgeous views of the mountains to the west and east across the bay. Shoreline at Mountain View is home to an eight-mile network of trails, bridges and roadways for walking, jogging, biking and inline skating.

Insider Tip: To get there from 101, exit at Rengstorff Ave., and follow directions to Michael’s at Shoreline where there is a large parking lot.

Bay Trail Sunnyvale

Connected to Baylands Park, families can go hiking, bird watching or bring your bikes to check out the nature trails that abound here. Park for free in the Twin Creeks parking lot.

Crystal Springs Trail—San Mateo

This bike trail for kids runs along Highway 280. If you start at the trailhead of the San Andres Trail and end at the Cañada Road, you would have covered 13 miles–a nice ride indeed!

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Los Alamitos Creek Trail—San Jose

Great for beginners, one long paved straightaway that’s shaded by trees makes the Los Alamitos Creek Trail a great choice for a warm day. Feeling more ambitious? Why not tackle the full 4.7-mile length that connects to the Almaden Creek Trail. The bike path runs along the creek from Los Alamitos Park and Lake Almaden south to McKean Road. With no undulations, it should be a breeze for everyone in the family.

Insider Tip: The trail is located off Winfield Boulevard. For more information, visit the sanjoseca.gov website. Parking can be limited, so plan ahead.

Los Gatos Creek Trail—Campbell, San Jose & Los Gatos

This trail follows the creek through many different neighborhoods and is great for bike riders of every level. It’s almost completely flat and you can stop along the way to check out the birds in the creek and the playgrounds (when they are open).

Insider Tip: There are numerous entry points in Campbell and Los Gatos with parking lots in Vasona and along the street. Check here for more information.

Calabazas BMX Park—San Jose

This is a rare, free, public BMX park with three sections of the park to ride in. Kids and adults of all ages and abilities are able to enjoy the challenges of the park. An excellent BMX park with a safe atmosphere and lots of fun. Check the website for more info.

Lake Cunningham Bike Park—San Jose

This is California’s largest skate park (68,000 square feet!!). Spread over 8.5 acres with seven diverse riding zones to challenge riders of all skill levels, the park is worth the visit. There is a parking fee but the extensive thrills offered at the park make up for it. More details here.

Insider Tip: Single day admissions are $10 with options to rent out bikes, scooters, helmets, etc.

Christmas Hill Park, Gilroy

Christmas Hill Park has many amenities to choose from and trail-lovers will not be disappointed. Short and sweet, cyclists can cruise the 1.3 mile (3,000 steps) wooded trail bordered by green trees. Need a fun break? Stop for a break at the playground for slides and swings before finishing their ride.

Dennis Debell Uvas Creek Park Preserve, Gilroy

Craving naturalistic views? Dennis Debell Uvas Creek Park is another great option for a calming bike ride. The park preserve sits on 125 acres and has over 2 miles of bicycle trails for your little pedalers to breeze through. The Uvas Creek runs through the park providing a tranquil vibe for your ride.

Related: Epic Waterfall Hikes to Explore Now

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Stafford Lake Bike Park—Novato

This 17-acre family-friendly bike park has all the features you need to get your little mountain bikers working on their skills. The outer loops of Stafford Lake Bike Park are perfect for those who are learning and want to take it slow, while the inner loops are for BMX and mountain bikers who have more experience. There’s also a dual slalom course for intermediate and up riders.

Tennessee Valley—Mill Valley

Another fantastic family ride, this almost-flat (most of the way)trail is great for a full day trip or a more adventurous trek for older riders. It’s a 3.4-mile roundtrip from the parking area. Cruise your way through a valley that’s replete with wildflowers like lupine, California poppies and buttercups in the spring, and sticky monkey flowers and sagebrush in the summer. When you arrive at the ocean, lock up and head over to the pretty, secluded Tennessee Cove for a well-deserved picnic on the beach.

Insider Tip: Tennessee Valley Road is not far from the junction to Stinson Beach and Mill Valley. For directions, visit the Golden Gate National Recreation Area site. Just note: Leave Fido at home as no four-legged friends are allowed on the main Tennessee Valley Trail.

Samuel P. Taylor State Park—Marin

Nestled in the wooded hills of Marin, Samuel P. Taylor State Park boasts a partly paved, three-mile bike trail, the Cross Marin Trail. Conveniently located near the campgrounds, well-behaved dogs are welcomed. Following the former Northwest Pacific Railroad right-of-way, the trail is almost level, making it excellent for new riders. Kids will enjoy listening to the sound of the bubbling Lagunitas Creek and pointing out wildlife along the way.

Insider Tip: The park is on Sir Francis Drake Boulevard, 30 minutes west of San Rafael. For driving directions. visit parks.ca.gov. Bring $8 for day-use parking.

Additional reporting by Kate Loweth

The Best Kid-Friendly Bike Trails in San Diego

by Nikki WalshJanuary 2, 2023

From easy trails to tough terrain, here’s where to explore San Diego on two wheels with the family in tow

Whether your little rider is a rookie on training wheels or an ace cyclist, here are some ‘wheely’ fun spots to get pedaling thanks to these best kid-friendly bike trails in San Diego. From easy biking trails to family bike paths and bike paths for kids, to straight and simple cool local park paths to pump tracks and dirt trails, our favorite bike trails for kids span from beginner to advanced. Find your family’s new favorite path below.

The Best Bike Trails in San Diego for Families

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1. Sweetwater Bike Park

Behold the region’s first bike skills park for all levels of experience: Sweetwater Bike Park in Bonita! Freewheeling kids will revel in the freedom of riding their bikes in this adventurous setting which includes two flow trails, four jump lines ranging from beginner to expert, and a kid’s pump track. Other onsite attractions include a skill zone, kid zone, perimeter trail, and several shaded picnic areas––making the venue an ideal spot for meet-ups and special events.

Online: sdparks.org

2. Carlsbad Rail Trail

A wheel short ride. If you have a little one who is just learning how to ride a bike, then this .7-mile bike path in Carlsbad is your spot. Bonus: the path is fenced the entire way and away from cars. The trail is close to Carlsbad Village, so when you're done riding you can head to Cafe Topes for a cinnamon roll and breakfast burrito. Then, walk the village.

How to Get There: The trail begins at the end of Oak Ave. near State St. You can find parking nearby.

3. Carmel Valley Rec Center

Head to the Carmel Valley Recreation Center and you'll find a perfect spot for new bikers. The park has wide paths that are smooth for little learners. When the weather warms up, look up the pool schedule and take a cool dip in the pool after your ride.

3777 Townsgate Dr.
San Diego
Online: sandiego.gov

4. Hidden Canyon Community Park

Beginning riders can practice going round and round in a safe environment at this gem of a park. Even more, there are two playgrounds, one for little kids and one for bigger kids to climb and swing after bike practice. Further, half-pints can bring their scooters or skates too.

2685 Vancouver St.
Carlsbad

5. Pacific Highland’s Pump Tracks

Up and down! Get on a roll at the Pacific Highland Pump Tracks made for bikes. It's free and open to the public. What's more, it's located in Pacific Highlands Park, so there's a playground and skate park nearby. Probably best for more experienced riders, as they need to navigate the rolling hills. There are skateboarders who use the tracks too, so be aware.

5977 Village Center Loop Rd.
San Diego

6. Scripps Ranch Rec Center

As easy as 1-2-3! With a flat, concrete, rectangle loop around two giant, grassy fields, this park is a good spot to take off the training wheels. The best part is, there's plenty of room to ride once your little one gets the basics down. When done you can head to the cool playground to cap off the day. The park gets busy on the weekends, so arriving earlier in the day is better.

11454 Blue Cypress Dr.
San Diego

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7. 4S Ranch Park

If your little one is still on a wheel-less bike or just getting off the training wheels, then this park's for you. There's a giant circle that surrounds the playground. Just stand in the middle and watch. When done with the wheels, hit up the playground, it's shaded. Bring a picnic, you'll find tables.

16118 4S Ranch Pkwy.
San Diego

8. Fay Avenue Bike Trail

We kicked the tires of this 1.2-mile (one-way) bike trail where you'll encounter palm trees and pretty water views. You and your crew wind through a quiet La Jolla neighborhood, then plan to make a playground pit stop for more fun. Most of the trail is paved, however towards the end it becomes a dirt road. Even though the ride is short, the views and landscaping are worth it.

How to Get There: Head to La Jolla High School and the path starts at Fay Ave. and Nautilus St. and ends at La Jolla Hermosa Ave.

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9. Lake Murray Park

Park and ride. This 3-acre community park has a flat surrounding concrete walkway that is perfect for bikers on training wheels. First off, you can keep an eagle eye on their progress. After the ride, kids can play in the cool covered playground. Even more, for advanced family rides, Lake Murray has a 3.2-mile flat bike path for everyone to enjoy. Truly, you'll find many levels of bike riding here.

7001 Murray Park Dr.
San Diego
Online: sandiego.gov

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10. Solana Beach

If you have a little transportation expert in your brood, then this is the perfect path for you. Clocking in round-trip at about 2.8 miles, you start this bike trail where Via De La Valle meets the Coast Highway. The trail finishes at Ocean St. where you can turn around to get home. Safely separated from the main road, you'll find everything from trains and automobiles to healthy juice stops and pizza places in this locale. What's more, there's plenty of pretty artwork to inspire your ride.

How to Get There: Take the Via De La Valle exit off the I-5 freeway and head west to where it intersects with PCH. You can park on the streets nearby.

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11. Mission Bay Park

Drive to Mission Bay Park for a family bike ride. This wide, flat trail meanders through Mission Bay. Begin from the parking lot off Clairmont Dr. and head South along the bike path. Also, there's plenty of room for everyone. If you can make the approximately 1.3 miles to the end, you'll find a great park that little riders will love. Even more, if the distance is too far, then just drive South along Mission Bay Dr. and park closer. There are restrooms along the bike path and near the parking lot.

How to Get There: From the I-5 freeway exit Clairmont Dr. Turn towards Mission Bay and a parking lot is straight ahead.

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12. Coronado Island

Follow the mostly flat path around Coronado to take in the island's best sights. You zip under the Coronado Bridge, pedal around the golf course, and hit the strand to take in iconic views like the Hotel Del Coronado and Coronado Beach. It’s worth noting that Coronado’s 6 miles of bike paths alternate between paths and residential streets. But the good news is that the streets are wide and the locals are used to sharing the road with cyclists cruising the streets. You can BYOB (bring your own bike) for your riding adventure or hire one from the bike rental shops around the island. A good starting point is Coronado Tidelands Park at 2000 Mullinex Dr., Coronado.

13. Bayside Walk

A beautiful shoreline, wide open paths, and families enjoying the sunshine are just some of the things to entice you to the Bayside Walk. Start your journey at Crown Point Park then head along the specifically designed bike and pedestrian path for a flat, road-free ride. You’ll be able to cruise past Fanuel Street Park (a local favorite), and the beaches of Sail Bay and Santa Clara Point. It’s good to note this is a one-way track, so once you hit West Mission Bay Dr., you'll need to turn around and venture back the three miles.

Street access is available all along the Bayside Walk, but parking along the busy residential streets can be tricky at peak times. We suggest putting down pedals at Crown Point Park, Moorland Dr., San Diego, with its ample free parking in one of three lots.

14. Santee Lakes

Santee Lakes is perfectly set for a biking visit. Stroll through five miles of tranquil paved paths around the seven lakes and surrounding parkland. The kids will love that most of the ride is flat, but be aware there are a few hilly spots to tackle. If you don’t want to bring your own bikes, Wheel Fun Rentals will have you covered with a selection of cruisers, surreys, tandem bikes, and of course kids’ bikes.

9310 Fanita Pkwy.
Santee, CA
Online: wheelfunrentals.com

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15. Balboa Park

Start at the western edge of Balboa Park and meander through a tree-lined field far away from the high pedestrian areas of Balboa. This bike path from 1.5 to 4.1 miles is perfect for your beginning riders as they’ll love the flat paved pathways and the short distance. You’ll be able to see the occasional lawn bowl match happening or doggy families on their way to the dog park just south of this bike trail. Also, there aren’t any restrooms directly on this bike route, so if nature is calling, you’ll need to head east on El Prado and venture into the main buildings within the park.

How to Get There: There is free parking available on Balboa Dr. Once you start your ride, be sure to follow the #1 round green trail markers to stick to the right path. If you want to extend your ride and pick up an extra three or so miles around the park’s museum and gardens, follow the #2 square light orange trail markers.

Imaginative Toys Your Tot Will Want to Immediately Play With

by Marianella OrlandoOctober 27, 2022

The day your once-teeny-tiny baby turned one is the day you officially had a toddler on your hands. While the energy and emotions certainly run high during this time, you also get a front-row seat to their little mind enhancing and engaging in the realm of pretend play.

As your tot’s creative abilities continue to grow, introducing them to interactive toys can keep their imagination running wild this holiday season. To help you find the perfect gift, we’ve rounded up The Toy Insider’s top picks that’ll transport your little dreamer to a magical, imaginary world.

Expressive and Tactile Toys

Lamaze Soothing Heart Panda

$27.95 BUY NOW

Soothe your infant with this calming plush panda. Press its tummy to play a soothing lullaby that vibrates to the rhythm of a resting heartbeat.

CoComelon Boo Boo JJ

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JJ expresses where he’s hurt and when he’s healed. Kids can heal JJ with bandages and sing along to "The Boo Boo Song."

Reindeer in Here Blizzard Plush

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Start a new holiday tradition with your kids! Reindeer comes to visit at holiday time to learn about each child and celebrate our differences.

Cry Babies First Emotions

$59.99 BUY NOW

Your tot can begin to identify emotions with Dreamy and Jassy, who make 65+ expressions. Their eyes even blink and they cry real tears, too!

Chicken Nuggets Furry and Fleece Plus

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A favorite meal becomes a favorite plush! This fun & adorable plush features seven removable pieces including ketchup, a dipping container, nuggets & pepper.

It's All Me Dolls

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Whether your youngster loves sports, arts & crafts or baking, the It’s All Me! 8" dolls include apparel & accessories to inspire imaginative play.

Recognizable Favorites

Titan Universe Mega Mecha Titan

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It's time to wow your Ryan's World fans! What starts out as a chest, transforms into a huge, buildable robot, complete with surprises & more.

Spidey and His Amazing Friends Web Spinning Hauler

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Your tot's imagination can run wild with Spidey, Ghost-Spider and Miles Morales as they chase down villains inside this transforming Hauler.

PAW Patrol Truck Stop HQ

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This Truck Stop HQ allows your toddler to create their own Big Rig Pups adventure at home, complete with lights & sounds from the show.

Barbie Dreamhouse

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Barbie's three-story Dreamhouse features 10 indoor and outdoor living areas, and working lights and sounds. It also comes with 70 accessories!

Gabby's Dollhouse Rainbow Dress-Up Closet

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Little fashionistas can mix & match fashion accessories and get Gabby ready for the catwalk as her closet opens up into 4 photoshoot play areas.

Jurassic World Captivz Dominion Edition - Glow in the Dark

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Get ready for the Ultimate Jurassic World experience! Unwrap & collect 15 Pop n Lock dinos, oozing through stretchy biosyn slime to reveal your species!

Active & Adventurous Toys

Flybar Bumper Car

$119.00 BUY NOW

Bring the amusement park home with the Flybar Bumper Car. Your little ones can safely race, chase, bump & spin by steering with easy-to-use joysticks.

Fisher-Price® Bouncetopia Bouncer

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Kids will burn off energy and bounce the day away in the Bouncetopia Bouncer. One push of a button inflates this indoor bouncer in minutes!

12” PAW Patrol Kids’ Bike

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Your explorer can feel like they’re a part of the Paw Patrol crew with this themed bike, featuring removable training wheels and Paw Patrol sounds.

Dance and Play Bluey

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Bluey comes to life as she invites kids to play with more than 55 phrases, four songs, dance mode and games.

Santiago of the Seas Lights and Sounds El Bravo Ship

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Your Pirate Protector can bring the exciting high-seas to life with this playset by spinning the compass or pushing a button to hear Santiago speak.

Blippi Go-Kart Racer

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Blippi lovers can unleash their adventurous side with Blippi and his pull back go-kart. Recreate favorite show moments or take him for an epic spin.

Mind-Buster Toys

Carnival 46pc Set

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Ideas spring to life when your little one becomes the ringmaster of this magnetic Carnival Set. They'll learn to build circus rides & spinning creations.

Peppa Pig Toniebox Starter Set

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Perfect for growing minds, the Peppa Pig-themed Toniebox is an imagination-building, screen-free, educational, digital listening experience speaker that plays stories, songs and more.

Barrel of Monkeys

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This classic Barrel of Monkeys game tests kids' fine motor skills as they try to build the longest chain of monkeys to win the game.

Super Cityscape Transport Bucket Set

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45+ Free Things to Do in the DMV All November Long

by Meghan Yudes MeyersOctober 23, 2022

We scoured the entire DMV to find the best free activities to keep your family busy all November long

As if any month in the fall isn’t busy enough, November packs it all in with holidays and observances, autumn activities, and Christmas kick-off events. But if you figured you’d have to spend a pretty penny to participate, your wallet is in luck: in this list, you’ll find dozens of free events for families and kids in Washington, DC and beyond.

But where to begin with so many options? Consider Jump-starting November with the National Gallery’s annual Day of the Dead celebration, honoring veterans with a free concert at the MLK Memorial Library, or paying tribute to Native American Indian Heritage Month by exploring an exhibit at the National Museum of the American Indian. Or you can soak in the last of fall with self-guided hikes and free passes to our National Parks. Of course, you can always get Christmas-ready with a local tree lighting ceremony, Christmas markets, and light displays. Plus, discover the best kid-friendly museums and permanent exhibits in Washington, DC that always offer free admission.

Related: 100 Things to Do in DC

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Free, Kid-Friendly Events around DC in November

In the City

Create a Work of Art
Open daily. Explore the legacy of President Kennedy at this digitally-enhanced, immersive experience on the top floor of the Kennedy Center. The highlight for kids is sure to be an A1 program that will sketch your portrait while you wait. Event details.

Join the LEGO Construction Club
Every Fri.: Every Friday from 3-5 p.m. Olney Library supplies the LEGO pieces and you supply the imagination. This program is for children ages 5 years old and up. Parents/caregivers MUST accompany children under the age of 12 during the program. Event details.

Shop a Farmer’s Market on the Plaza
Every Fri.: Marketgoers can shop seasonal offerings from local farms and food producers, dine al fresco on the plaza, enjoy chef demos and samplings and stock up on recipes and tips for maintaining a healthy and socially responsible lifestyle at Capital Harvest on the Plaza (CHoP). Event details.

Enjoy Free Classical Concerts
Every Fri.: Free concerts begin at McNeir Hall every Friday starting at 12:30 p.m. Some of this month’s highlights include a piano solo on Nov. 4, a string performance Nov. 11 and a violin/piano duo on Nov. 18. Event details.

Get Crafty at Crafternoons
Every Sat.: Experiment with the supplies provided by Shop Made in DC or bring your own project to finish every Sat. from 12-3 p.m. Event details.

Mix Beats at Moonshot Studio
Every Sat. & Sun.: After you explore the Art & Ideals exhibit (listed below), head to the Moonshot Studio at REACH to create projects and mix beats inspired by the words and life of President Kennedy. Event details.

Go International at this Art & Craft Fair
Nov. 1-3: Take a quick trip around the world at this annual arts & crafts fairs. International vendors showcase their handmade goods and unique items at the World Bank. Event details.

Celebrate Korean and U.S. Relations with Dance
Nov. 1: Korea National Contemporary Dance Company and The Washington Ballet collaborate in this inspiring, celebratory dance that honors the 140 year Korea-US tie. Event details.

Honor the Day of the Dead with Ballet
Nov. 2: DC-based Corazón Folklórico Dance Company takes to the Millennium Stage at the Kennedy Center in honor of the Day of the Dead. Event details.

Dance to an Afrobeat at REACH
Nov. 3: Leon Ligan-Majek, a.k.a. Kalet, leads this Afrobeat band that is punctuated with what has been describes as “James Brown grunts.” Event details.

Say Oui to a French Concert
Nov. 4: French tenor Benjamin Alunni and pianist Fernando Palomeque celebrate French-American relations in a new concert hosted by the Embassy of France. Tickets are free, but space should be reserved here. Event details.

Spend an Evening at the Circus
Nov. 5: Come one, come all to this side show-themed day of contortionists, magicians, escape artists, sword swallowers, aerialists and more. In addition to family-friendly entertainment, there will be tarot cards, glitter tattoos, balloon artistry and more. Event details.

Shop the Czech Christmas Market
Nov. 5: Live performances, a live nativity, Czech pastries and a Christmas market round out this event held at the Embassy of the Czech Republic. Admission is free, but you must reserve your space prior to the event. Event details.

Honor Veterans at a Free Concert
Nov. 11: Honor those that have served at this free concert featuring the Navy Bands ensemble, Country Currents, a country bluegrass ensemble that is renowned for their modern flair. Event details.

Learn a Song in Another Language
Nov. 12: Saturday Morning Life, a celebrated DC tradition, is back at The National! This month, enjoy both traditional and original songs in Kiswahili and Espanol as Baba Ras D leads children in a morning of language immersion through song. Event details.

Explore a Play Based Pop Up Event
Nov. 17: Inspired by the adorable picture book by Antoinette Portis, kids 5-8 will collaborate, experiment and create with a variety of materials provided by the Southeast Neighborhood library during this play-based event. Pop in every Thurs. for more play-based fun. Event details.

Shop the Downtown Holiday Market
Nov. 18-Dec. 23: Free entertainment, yummy treats and over 150 vendors round out this quintessential holiday market in the center of DC. Event details.

Get Festive at ZooLights
Nov. 25-Dec. 30 (select days): For eco-friendly festivities, head to the National Zoo where more than 500,000 LED lights are on display. Each evening, guests can also visit the Small Mammal House and the Reptile Discovery Center. Event details.

Get Glowing in Georgetown
Nov. 26-Jan. 22: Bright lights and neon colors brighten up the streets of historic Georgetown with a curated outdoor installation that is sure to dazzle and delight. If you’re looking for some Santa-free time that still has some seasonal sparkle, be sure to take a stroll down M St. Event details.

Watch a Christmas Tree Lighting
Nov. 19: Listen to holiday classic’s in the hotel’s courtyard as dazzling white lights are illuminated at 5:30 p.m. Santa makes a special guest appearance with the hotel’s canine mascot. Event details.

Watch a Free Dance Performance
Nov. 30: Enjoy an evening of jazz tunes, tap dancing and flatfooting with percussive dancer Becky Hill on the Millennium Stage at the Kennedy Center. Event details.

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The Beltway & Beyond

Brookside Nature Center’s Self-Guided Hikes
Every Sat. : Spy with your eyes! Prick up your ears! Use your senses to explore and learn about the plants and animals that call Wheaton Regional Park home. This self-guided hiking activity features a rainbow of nature’s colors. Event details.

Enjoy a Free Family Movie Night
Nov. 4: Encanto is being screened at the Arlington Mill Community Center. Wear an Encanto costume for a chance to win a $20 gift card. Free popcorn and free hot chocolate will be served. Event details.

Learn About Black History
Nov. 6: Learn about Black History at this family-friendly museum that opens its doors twice a month in Old Town Alexandria. Event details.

Belt Out Frozen Tunes at this Free Event
Nov. 10: Spend the evening with Anna and Elsa as you enjoy a free screening of Disney’s Frozen 2. Food trucks will be on site serving both sweet and savory snacks. Event details.

Explore a National Park for Free
Nov. 11: If you are an adventure loving family that appreciates a good freebie, head to one of our National Parks on Nov. 11 and entry fees will be waived. Event details.

Enjoy a Free Concert with International Flair
Nov. 17: The Prince of Denmark Airforce Band performs with the U.S. Air Force Band in this musical partnership. Event details.

Join the Kids Club at Dulles Town Center
Nov. 17: Enjoy family-friendly entertainment geared towards children ages 2 to 7 years old every third Thursday at Dulles Town Center. This hour-long program highlights local kid-friendly acts that bring everything from music to magic to the mall’s stage. Event details.

Get Festive with the Festival of Lights
Nov. 29-Dec. 31: Over 650,000 lights illuminate the grounds of the temple, making this one of the largest light displays in the DC area. Guests can also view internationally-inspired Christmas trees and nativity scenes. Nightly performances require a free event ticket, which are handed out on a first-come basis starting 60 minutes prior to performances. Event details.

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Free Museums and Park Events around DC in November

In the City

Enjoy Story Time with the National Postal Museum
Every Mon.: Hop online for an interactive story time every Monday at 11 a.m. with the National Postal Museum. Explore our postal system through books during this 45 minute Zoom that ends in a book-related activity. Event details.

Get Crafty at Hirshhorn
Every Thurs.: Drop in from 10-noon every Thursday for a hands-on art-rich experience at the Hirshhorn. Little makers will explore one of the museum’s current art exhibits followed by a creative activity inspired by the work of art. Event details.

Check Out Play Dates at MLK Memorial Library
Every Sat.: Kids can build, create and play games from 1:30-2:30 p.m. every Sat. in the Children’s Room. Spend the afternoon exploring the rest of the library. Inside you’ll find a recording studio, a dance studio, a massive indoor slide and a rooftop terrace. Event details.

Celebrate Día de los Muertos
Nov. 2: The National Portrait Galleries’ annual event kicks off at 5 p.m. indoors this year with music, dancing, hands-on activities and crafts. There will also be a community altar. The party moves outside at 6:30 p.m. when artwork will be live streamed on the museum’s facade. Event details.

Make an Installation Creation
Nov. 5: Larger-than-life exhibits that cover walls, floors (and sometimes ceilings!) are called installations. Check out the oversized works of art at Hirshhorn and get ready to contribute to a new museum installation by talented artists like you and your crew. Event details.

Take a HistoryTime Story Walk
Nov. 6 & 15: Geared towards kids 2-6, the Natioal Museum of American History’s story time features an age-appropriate snapshot of a historical event followed by a hands-on craft. Kids and their caregivers will gather at Wegmans Wonderplace at 2 p.m. for an hour filled with hands-on historic activities. Event details.

Screen a Kid-Friendly Indigenous Film
Nov. 18-25: In celebration of American Indian Heritage Month, this annual event showcases the best of Indigenous films. You can view over 35 films online (including kid-friendly shorts) representing over 30 Native nations. Event details.

Check Out the Unicorn Kid’s Club
Nov. 19: If your child is introverted, Dyslexic, transgendered, deaf, or just struggling being the new kid on the block, check out these monthly gatherings that celebrate what makes each one of us unique. Event details.

The Beltway & Beyond

Nature Packs at Woodend Sanctuary
Every Mon, Tues., Thurs.-Sat.: Visit the Naturalist Shop to check out a backpack (ID required) that will have tools and activities you and your family can use to explore nature at Woodend Sanctuary. Backpacks are free for check-out in the shop but must be returned by 3 p.m. Event details.

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Free Art Exhibits around DC in November

In the City

Feature Your Child’s Art at this Exhibit
Open 24/7: This pint sized gallery is the smallest art display in the district (and the cutest!). Budding artists will enjoy not only viewing the works . . . but adding their own! Visitors are welcome to take a piece of art (really!) and contribute their own art on a first come, first served basis. Event details.

Let Art Spark a Conversation
Now-Apr. 2: This exhibit showcases the importance of artists in sparking important dialogues and utilizing art as activism. Featuring American artists, themes in this exhibit center around marginalized communities. Event details.

Explore Japanese Painting Techniques
Now-Jan. 29: Explore the different brush strokes Japanese artists have used over the century to capture the feathery nature of birds. This exhibit features work dating as far back as the Heian period (794–1185). This is a great opportunity to play I Spy with different artistic techniques. Event details.

Discover the Story of Raven and the Box of Daylight
Now-Jan. 29: Enjoy a multi sensory, full-immersion experience at the National Museum of the American Indian. Discover the Northwest Coast’s tale of Raven who brought light to the Earth by starting in a dark room and following Raven on a journey to lightness. This exhibit features the glass work of Preseton Singletary and includes video projections. Event details.

Learn About African American Artists
Ends Nov. 30: Highlighting “who’s who of African American art,” this exhibit showcases the best 19th and 21st century paintings in the Howard University collection. Call to schedule a tour prior to arriving. Event details.

Take a (Photo) Walk with Wildlife
Ends Nov. 20: Explore our relationship with wildlife through this photo gallery of 32 award-winning images that celebrate the beauty (and fragility) of our planet. Event details.

The Beltway & Beyond

Appreciate the Simplicity of Still Life
Now-Dec. 20: The Park View Gallery in Glen Echo Park is currently showcasing watercolor paintings of still life by artist Julia Rosenbaum. Explore the beauty in every day objects found throughout a home. Event details.

Feel the Music at Zion! A Forest of Dreams
Ends Nov. 13: Artist Dianne Bugash describes herself as the “folk singer” of her paintings. Inspired by songwriters like John Denver and Peter, Paul and Mary, Bugash’s pieces capture the pithiness of folk tunes (kids will enjoy the abstract, tree-like structures). Event details.

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Museums around DC That Are Always Free

National Museum of Natural History
The most visited museum in DC is home to more than just dinosaurs. You’ll find a dazzling gem collection, a popular earthquake simulator, mammal displays, human cultural artifacts and a butterfly pavilion you can explore for free on Tuesdays.

Q?rius
Exhibit space Q?rius is temporarily closed, but it’s such a perfect stop for the 10-and-under set that it’s worth keeping on your radar. Housed inside the Natural History Museum, it offers drawers brimming with curiosities. Your pint-sized explorer will enjoy digging through drawers filled with rocks, minerals, insects and more. When your kids are done exploring the natural world, they can explore the cultures of the world in the same space! There are also drawers filled with clothing and dolls from other countries.

10th Street and Constitution Aves., NW
National Mall
Online: naturalhistory.si.edu

National Museum of the American Indian
In addition to housing Indigenous artifacts, visitor’s can explore the history of Native foods at the museum’s cafe, Mitsitam. The interactive gallery imagiNATIONS helps children 10 and under connect with the stories and histories of Native nations.

imagNATIONS – On the third level of the National Museum of the American Indian, you’ll find the imagiNATIONS Activity Center, where kids learn how to interact with the environment around them. They’ll weave baskets from different material, see different types of houses made from wood or mud, and even learn to walk in snowshoes! Snuggle up in a cornerwith a book about Native cultures or make some noise with the percussion instruments scattered around.

4th St. and Independence Ave., SW (L’Enfant Plaza)
National Mall
Online: nmai.si.edu

National Museum of African-American History and Culture
The stunning building, inspired by Yoruba art and filigree ironwork, is filled with presentations and artifacts that give visitors a glimpse at all aspects—the good and the gut-wrenching—of the African Americanexperience. It’s a must-visit for the entire family. See our in-depth guide here.

1400 Constitution Ave. NW
National Mall
Online: nmaahc.si.edu

National Museum of American History
The collection of Smithsonian museums are a treasure trove of exploration, but for hands-on, interactive fun make a bee-line for Wegman’s Wonderplace where the youngest visitors (0 to 6) can explore pint-sized versions of the Smithsonian’s most popular exhibits, from a kid-sized version of Julia’s kitchen to a smaller version of The Castle. Spark!Lab — for ages of 6 and 12 — lets visitors explore the invention process from start to finish.

Wegman’s Wonderplace – Take your tiny ones (6 & under) to the magical play area just inside the entrance. The 1700-square-foot interactive wonderland gets curiosity flowing. With a gated entrance and attentive staff, you can freely allow your kiddos to explore the dream kitchen, blocks of all shapes and sizes, walls full of gadgets and gizmos and an indoor farm complete with an adorable chicken coop.

Spark!Lab – Bring out that little inventor in this innovative space built for tinkering. The cool factor is high when everything you see invites your kids to create, collaborate, explore, test, experiment and invent. Perfect for ages 6 – 12.

14th St and Constitution Aves., NW
National Mall
Online: americanhistory.si.edu

National Postal Museum
If you’ve never checked out the National Postal Museum (or didn’t even know it existed), you’re not alone–many locals overlook this NoMa gem for its flashier counterparts on the National Mall. But, for kids, this free Smithsonian Institution is a slam dunk since the museum encourages visitors to feel, climb into, sit in, and throw–yes, throw!–many of its exhibits.

2 Massachusetts Ave., NE
Union Station
Online: postalmuseum.si.edu

National Portrait Gallery
Explore the portraits behind American history. Politicians, artists, inventors and scientists, these are the faces that help shape our country. The American Presidents exhibit is the only complete collection of presidential portraits outside of the White House!

Eighth and F Sts., NW
National Mall
Online: npg.si.edu

Hirschorn Museum and Sculpture Garden
The preschool set can fight the chill and take part in the Hirshorn’s library and art pop up program on any given Saturday this fall. It’s easy peasey to do too. Grab a parent’s hand and find a gallery cart full of fun kits with real finds. Each kit combines a special theme with adventures in reading, suggested artwork to view and real hands-on art materials to help little ones create their own masterpieces.

Independence Ave., SW & 7th St.
National Mall
Online: hirshorn.si.edu

Steven F. Udvar-Hazy Center
If rockets and airplanes are your kids’ things, then the Air and Space Museum in Dulles, VA, is the next stop on your fall bucket list. First, visit the vast plane hangar where the Space Shuttle Discovery and a Concorde are on display. Then, ride in a flight simulator and sit inside the cockpit of a vintage aircraft. Head upstairs to the top level, and your crew can learn about air traffic control and watch planes fly in and out of the local airport.

Insider tip: The museum is free, but there is a $15 charge for parking. Head to this museum after 4 p.m. and parking is free.

14390 Air and Space Museum Parkway
Chantilly, Virginia
Online: airandspace.si.edu

Celebrate Labor Day Weekend with These 18 Fun-Filled Activities

by Allison SutcliffeAugust 20, 2022

The start of the school year may be just around the corner, but wouldn’t you rather spend your time celebrating the end of summer instead of getting ready for fall? That’s why we’ve pulled together 18 fantastic Labor Day events and family activities taking place over the long weekend. Here’s where to eke out a few more summer memories with your kids.

Exciting Labor Day Weekend Activities in Seattle for Families

Hamilton cast gathers around Hamilton at a performance — Joan Marcus

See Hamilton

You know you want to be in the room where this happens. There's still time to catch the phenomenal traveling production of everyone's favorite Broadway musical, Hamilton, before it leaves on September 11. It tells the story of America from a different perspective, using hip-hop, rap and traditional musical elements to create a truly engaging production with total kid-appeal. This production makes history accessible to kids, young and old, and seeing the show live is well worth it (no matter how many times your little fans have seen it on Disney+). The pacing of the show is exciting enough to keep even the antsiest kids glued to their seats and fighting the urge to sing along to their favorite numbers. Kids will love seeing King George saunter onto the stage and play to the audience as only an English King can. And who can resist Hercules Mulligan's charm or the Marquis de Lafayette's snark and wit? Hint: no one. While Hamilton is definitely the star of this show, kids will be drawn to the Schuyler sisters, bold women who are way ahead of their time.

Insider Tip: Don't forget to grab a cushion for your kids when you get there. That little boost helps to ensure they see the whole show, no matter who's sitting in front of them.

Paramount Theatre
911 Pine St.
Seattle
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kids ride the train at the washington state fair over labor day weekend activities in seattle — Washington State Fair

Party Big at the Fair

The Washington State Fair is back for another season of rides, games, and all the fair food your tummy can handle over Labor Day weekend. This year, we know the kids won't want to miss the exciting (and totally new) Expedition: Dinosaurs exhibit. Ten animatronic dinosaurs are the stars of this show, that also features interactive displays and a chance for kids to dig for fossils. Also new this year is the a look back at the Fair's 120-year history, and the Biggest Little Show—miniature animals we're sure your minis will fall for. Don't forget to take a spin on the expanded SillyVille train before taking in all the sights and sounds of SillyVille with your tots.

As for amazing Fair food, you'll want to sink your teeth into some quirky new finds at the Extreme Carnival Eats booth. It's the place to be if you've ever wondered what a donut burger or Korean mozzarella sticks taste like. You'll also be able to enjoy Glow Tea and Raspados Del Sur as part of this year's food lineup.

Insider Tip: Labor Day weekend is a great time to visit the Fair because kids are free (Sep. 3-5) thanks to BECU.

Washington State Fairgrounds
110 9th Ave. S.W.
Puyallup, WA
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Spy Salmon

The Ballard Locks is where this you'll find this educational program hosted by the Seattle Aquarium. It's a chance for your curious kids to learn about the spawning salmon making their way back upstream with the help of an aquarium volunteer naturalist.

Ballard Locks
3015 N.W. 54th St.
Seattle
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Have Fun at the Pier

This family activity is all about plankton and fish prints. Kids will work alongside Seattle Aquarium experts to gather water from the Sound and then see what they can find when they put the droplets under a microscope (hint: we'll bet there's some plankton in there). Learn lots and make art too. We couldn't think of a better way to kick off the long Labor Day weekend.

Pier 62
1951 Alaskan Way
Seattle
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Celebrate the End of Summer

Chill out at this Labor Day weekend event that's all about making sure the animals at the Point Defiance Zoo & Aquarium enjoy icy treats and summery enrichments. In addition to special meals, families can learn during Keeper Chats, take in a show at the Wild Wonders Outdoor Theater, explore the new nature play garden, and if the kids aren't tired yet, splash at the lily pad before calling it a day.

Point Defiance Zoo & Aquarium
5400 N. Pearl St.
Tacoma, WA
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Have a Wild Weekend

We've got two words for you: feeding frenzy. You won't want to miss this action-packed Labor Day weekend event at Northwest Trek Wildlife Park where badgers, cougars, porcupines, black bears, and wolves devour their favorite foods while you watch. Finish off the meal...err...the experience with playtime at Kids' Trek, one of the best nature playgrounds this side of the Cascades.

Northwest Trek
11610 Trek Dr. E.
Eatonville, WA
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Two kids ride swings at the Evergreen State Fair over Labor Day weekend in Seattle — Evergreen State Fair

Find Rides & Rodeos

This year The Show Must Go On at the Evergreen State Fair. And if you haven't been to check out this family favorite yet, Labor Day weekend is your last chance to ride all the rides and eat all the food. But you and the kids can also check out the All-Star Dog Stunt Show, play farmer for a day, have fun at the Goat's Playground, watch the Aztec Indian Dancers, and even see what it really takes to be a lumberjack.

Evergreen State Fairgrounds
14405 179th Ave. S.E.
Monroe, WA
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Run, Rock & Roll

St. Jude Rock ‘n’ Roll Running Series Washington is back over Labor Day Weekend, and it's a great race for families even if you're not quite up to the half-marathon distance. Starting and ending at the Bellevue Downtown Park, runners and walkers alike will take on an action-packed course filled with music, stunning skyline views, and the spirit of the Pacific Northwest. We're big fans of the Kids Rock Race for little athletes.

Downtown Bellevue Park
10201 N.E. 4th St.
Bellevue, WA
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Head to the Blackberry Festival

Take the fast ferry to Bremerton to enjoy the city's annual Bremerton Blackberry Festival. It's back for 2022 and will feature the same blackberry treats it always does, plus outdoor music, art demos, and fun activities that will really make it feel like summer's never gonna end. Don't forget to check out the super cool splash pad (on the other side of the ferry) where submarine sculptures erupt with water every few minutes. It's pretty much the coolest splash pad in town.

Bremerton Boardwalk Marina
Bremerton, WA
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a surfer in the wave pool at slidewaters in Lake Chelan with the lake and mountains in the background over Labor Day weekend — courtesy Slidewaters

Watch an International Surf Competition

Surf's up at Lakeside Surf in Lake Chelan. Hit the road over your Labor Day weekend and enjoy the last weekend of summer at this hot spot that overlooks the lake and the mountains. Lakeside, home to the world's largest stationary wave, is hosting the Continental Surf Cup. It's a chance for you and the kids to see Team USA take on Team Europe as they battle it out on the water. Thirty-two surfers will compete over two days (Sep. 3 & 4) in both individual and group surfs to see who will take home the big prize (and serious bragging rights) and claim victory for their country.

Find out more: lakesidesurf.com

More Ways to Play Over Labor Day Weekend in Seattle

Take one last trip to Jetty Island before the ferry closes for the season. It's the easy beach getaway everyone needs, and we'll take the quick, two-minute ferry ride over boarding a plane any day.

Dust off your bikes, blades, trailers, and training wheels and enjoy a car-free ride along Lake Washington Boulevard, between Seward Park and Mount Baker Beach. This popular program comes to a close September 19, so ride while you can.

Labor Day is the final day to see the masterworks of Ansel Adams on display at MOHAI. Once you've taken in the beauty of his photography, stop by the Kid-struction zone for a little playtime with the tots.

Nothing says three day weekend quite like a last-minute, late summer road trip. We've got ideas. You've got the time. What's not to love?

Labor Day weekend is all about finding adventures around the city. Why not seek out the Eastside's coolest water feature—the natural waterslides at Denny Creek?

Get out on the Sound and get to know Seattle from a whole new perspective when you hitch a ride on one of our favorite local boat excursions.

Hop aboard an antique train when you ride through the Upper Snoqualmie Valley. This special weekend train ride pays tribute to America's workers, the perfect Labor Day event.

Go to the movies on National Cinema Day (September 3) for just $3 per ticket. Major chains like AMC and Regal Cinemas, along with college campus theaters and some smaller independent theaters, are set to participate. Check the website to find a participating theater near you.

10 Ways to Celebrate Memorial Day Weekend

by Allison SutcliffeMay 17, 2022

We know many Seattle families will be hitting the highways and mountain passes this Memorial Day Weekend with cars packed full of camping gear. But for those families sticking close to home (you know who you are…been there, done that, never again with little ones in tow), we’ve rounded up ten activities to keep everyone in your crew happy and entertained over the three-day weekend. Scroll down to make your plans over the long weekend.

1. Northwest Folklife Festival

kids enjoy the Not Its concert at Northwest Folklife Festival over Memorial Day weekend in Seattle — Piper Hanson

There’s no shortage of fun things to see, do and eat at the 51st Annual Northwest Folklife Festival. One of the largest free folk festivals in the country, this year's festival will bring the old and new together, both virtually and in-person. Music, dance, spoken word, visual art and workshops will span 16 stages over three days, and about 2,000 attendees are expected to join in. A new Makers' Space, featuring tactile elements of folk traditions, and the return of some local favorites, like the Circle of Indigenous Peoples celebration and dancing at Warren's Roadhouse, are just a few of the festivities to look forward to. While the Northwest Folkife Festival in general is a family-friendly event, there are other kid-friendly offerings throughout the grounds including tons of your favorite Kindiependent rockers like The Not-Its!, Eli Rosenblatt and Brian Vogan and His Good Buddies, who'll be rocking the stage on Monday.

Good to know: If you can't make the festival in person, you can still enjoy the event safely at home.

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2. The Infinite

Over Memorial Day weekend in Seattle folks can see The Infinite a new VR experience — Melissa Taylor

The Infinite is an out-of-this-world immersive experience that transports you into space aboard the International Space Station, and it just opened in Tacoma on May 25. Memorial Day weekend is a great time to check it out. During the experience, you’ll explore a life-sized, 3D-modelized recreation of the International Space Station and encounter mind-blowing views of the Earth in the first-ever cinematic spacewalk captured in 3D, 360 virtual reality. This experience is an exclusive installation from world-renowned Japanese artist Ryoji Ikeda that's best for kids ages 8 and up and their grown-ups. You'll need tickets for this one.

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3. Memorial Day Weekend Train Rides

If you and the kiddos are itching to get out of the city for the day, head east to Snoqualmie and celebrate Memorial Day Weekend with a scenic train ride. This special 90-minute steam train run is in addition to the railroad’s usual weekend train schedule and will take you through the Cascade foothills of the Upper Snoqualmie Valley, including a ride to the top of Snoqualmie Falls.

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4. Remlinger Farms Fun Park

A girl rides a pony at Remlinger Farms Fun Park on Memorial Day weekend — Allison Sutcliffe

Remlinger Farms is now open on Saturdays and Sundays and would be a great addition to your Snoqualmie excursion. Ride the half-sized steam train along the Tolt River, pet the farm animals (think: goats, horses, piggies, cows, alpaca, sheep, bunnies, donkeys) or take a pony ride and jump in the hay maze, spin on the mini roller coaster or "fly" on the pumpkins. Plus, go 'round and 'round in the pedal cars and enjoy a day full day of farm fun. Plus, parents will enjoy the farm's newest addition—Remlinger Brewery. It opened on May 7 when the fun park opened for the season. Eastside, here we come!

5. Ansel Adams: Masterworks Opens

Ansel Adams exhibit at Seattle Art Museum over Memorial Day weekend — © The Ansel Adams Publishing Rights Trust

Whether you dig art or just dig being outside, MOHAI has a fantastic new exhibit that opens over the long weekend. Ansel Adams: Masterworks, a traveling exhibit presenting the iconic works of the famed photographer, will be on view for a limited engagement. It features 48 photographs by Adams—a selection of images he considered the best work of his career. Each reveals the importance Adams placed on the awe-inspiring power and beauty of the natural world, and his deeply held conviction that place matters. Who knows? You might even recognize our own Washington National Parks in Adams' photos when you visit.

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6. Molback's Butterfly Garden Reopens

Kids at the butterfly garden at Woodland Park Zoo over Memorial Day weekend when it reopns — Jeremy Dwyer-Lindgren/Woodland Park Zoo

Molbak’s Butterfly Garden is a magical experience, and it’s reopening Memorial Day weekend, so why not stop by? You and the kids can stroll among hundreds of free-flying butterflies inside the enclosed space, while surrounded by a display of beautiful flowers. Learn about the life cycle of these colorful insects, while watching larvae undergo a miraculous metamorphosis as they emerge as butterflies before flying. Our other favorite reopening at the Zoo? It's gotta be the Zoomazium, that reopened May 17 after more than two years of being closed. Who else can't wait to go? Two more great reasons to visit Woodland Park Zoo over this long weekend!

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7. Bicycle Weekends

Dust off your bikes, blades, trailers, and training wheels and enjoy four car-free miles of Lake Washington Boulevard, between Seward Park and Mount Baker Beach. If the kiddos need to make a pit stop or take a break along the way, there’s plenty of places to stop and even an awesome playground near the entrance of Seward Park.

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8. Memorial Day Ceremony

Teach your kids the importance of Memorial Day by taking them to this annual ceremony held at The Museum of Flight. The Museum will honor military service with patriotic music from The Boeing Employees Concert Band, followed by a ceremony with local officials and US Military personnel. Psst! All veterans and active US military personnel will receive free admission with ID.

9. Wild Waves Theme & Water Park Opens

Those looking for a nearby thrill should head to Wild Waves Theme & Water Park in Federal Way, opening for the season on Memorial Day weekend. Thrill rides, family rides and kids rides will keep everyone entertained throughout the day. Be sure to grab your tickets online to save some dough before heading down.

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10. Kitsap Forest Theater: Beauty & the Beast

A day-long excursion that includes a ferry ride to Bremerton will make this Memorial Day weekend one to remember. Add in a trip to see Beauty & the Beast at the Kitsap Forest Theater's opening weekend and the distance is totally worth it. A treasured family tradition in the greater Puget Sound area, The Mountaineers Players bring quality outdoor theater under the forest's conifer canopy. This spring step into the enchanted world of Broadway’s modern classic, Disney’s Beauty and the Beast. This beloved story tells of Belle, a young woman in a provincial town, and the Beast, who is really a young prince trapped under the spell of an enchantress. If the Beast can learn to love and be loved, the curse will end and he will be transformed into his former self.

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When a classmate (or friend) is mean

When you suspect bullying

When a good friend moves to a different “group”

When your child isn’t picked for a team/invited to a party

When your child doesn’t want your advice

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Plan Toys Pull-Along Snail

Joovy Tricycoo 4.1

Manhattan Toy Musical Lili Llama

Joymor Foam Climbing Blocks

Bouncy Inflatable Animal Jump-Along

Haba Fun with Sounds Wooden Discovery Blocks

Gund Muttsy Dog Plush

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Anthropologie Frenchie Push Cart Toy

Dragon's First Taco Board Book

Wonder & Wise Baby Busy Box

Boon Pipes Building Bath Toy Set

SEREED Baby Balance Bike

ALASOU Suction Cup Spinner Toys

Coco Village Wooden Activity Table

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San Francisco

Mission Creek Park

Golden Gate Park

Crissy Field

McLaren Bike Park

Angel Island

East Bay

Coyote Hills Regional Park—Fremont

Iron Horse Regional Trail—Danville

Redwood Regional Park—Oakland

Dirt World Bike Park—Richmond

Contra Costa Canal Trail—Martinez, Pleasant Hill, Walnut Creek & Concord

Bay Farm Island Loop Trail—Alameda

Lake Chabot—Castro Valley

Pleasanton BMX Park

Peninsula

Half Moon Bay Coastal Trail

Coyote Point Recreation Area Trails—San Mateo

Saddle Loop Trail—San Bruno

Shoreline at Mountain View

Bay Trail Sunnyvale

Crystal Springs Trail—San Mateo

South Bay

Los Alamitos Creek Trail—San Jose

Los Gatos Creek Trail—Campbell, San Jose & Los Gatos

Calabazas BMX Park—San Jose

Lake Cunningham Bike Park—San Jose

Christmas Hill Park, Gilroy

Dennis Debell Uvas Creek Park Preserve, Gilroy

Marin County

Stafford Lake Bike Park—Novato

Tennessee Valley—Mill Valley

Samuel P. Taylor State Park—Marin

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