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Dear Husband: I Need More Help from You

By Celeste Erlach

Dear Husband,
I. need. more. help.

Last night was hard for you. I asked you to watch the baby so I could go to bed early. The baby was crying. Wailing, really. I could hear him from upstairs, and my stomach knotted from the sound, wondering if I should come down there and relieve you or just shut the door so I could get some desperately needed sleep. I chose the latter.

You came into the room 20 minutes later, with the baby still frantically crying. You placed the baby in the bassinet and gently pushed it just a few inches closer to my side of the bed, a clear gesture that you were done watching him.

I wanted to scream at you. I wanted to launch an epic fight that very moment. I had been watching the baby and the toddler all damn day. I was going to be waking up with the baby to feed him all damn night. The least you can do is hold him for a couple of hours in the evening so I can attempt to sleep.

Just a few hours of precious sleep. Is that too much to ask?

I know we both watched our parents fulfill the typical mother-father roles growing up. Both our mothers were the primary caretakers and our fathers were relatively hands-off. They were excellent dads, but they weren’t expected to spend a significant amount of time changing diapers, feeding, caring, and tending to the kids. Our mothers were the superwomen who maintained the family dynamics. Cooking, cleaning, and raising the children. Any help from dad was welcome but unexpected.

I see us falling into these family dynamics more and more each day. My responsibility to feed the family, keep the house clean, and take care of the kids is assumed, even as I return to work. I blame myself for most of it, too. I have set the precedent that I can do it. And in truth, I want to. No offense, but I’m not sure I want to know what a week’s worth of dinner would look like with you in charge.

I also see my friends and other moms doing it all, and doing it well. I know you see it, too. If they can manage it, and if our mothers did it so well for us, why can’t I?

I don’t know.

Maybe our friends are playing the part in public and secretly struggling. Maybe our moms suffered in silence for years and now, 30 years later, they simply don’t remember how hard it really was. Or maybe, and this is something I berate myself over every single day, I’m just not as qualified for the job as everyone else. And as much as I cringe just thinking it, I’m going to say it: I need more help.

Part of me feels like a failure for even asking. I mean, you do help. You are an amazing father, and you do a great job with the kids. And besides, this should come easy to me, right? Motherly instincts, no?

But I’m human and running on five hours of sleep and tired as hell. I need you.

In the morning, I need you to get our toddler ready so I can care for the baby and make everyone’s lunches and drink a cup of coffee. And no, getting the toddler ready does not mean plopping him in front of the TV. It means making sure he goes potty, giving him some breakfast, seeing if he wants water, and packing his bag for school.

At night, I need an hour to decompress in bed, knowing our toddler is asleep in his room and the baby is in your care. I know it’s hard to listen to the baby cry. Believe me, I know. But if I can watch and pacify the baby for the majority of the day, you can do it for an hour or two at night. Please. I need you.

On weekends, I need more breaks. Times when I can get out of the house by myself and feel like an individual. Even if it’s just a walk around the block or a trip to the grocery store. And some days when I’ve scheduled swim class and play dates, and it seems like I’ve got it all under control, I need you to offer to lend me a hand. Or suggest I go lie down during the kids’ naptime. Or start putting away the dishes without me suggesting it. I need you.

Lastly, I need to hear you’re grateful for all I do. I want to know that you notice the laundry is done and a nice dinner has been prepared. I want to know you appreciate that I breastfeed at all hours and pump when I’m at work when it would be easier for me to formula feed. I hope you notice that I never ask you to stay home from your networking events and sports activities. As the mom, it’s assumed I’ll be home all the time and always available to care for the kids while you’re out and I feed that assumption by, well, being home all the time.

I know it’s not how our parents did it, and I hate even asking. I wish I could do it all and make it look effortless. And I wish I didn’t need kudos for doing things most people expect from a mom. But I’m waving a white flag and admitting I’m only human. I’m telling you how much I need you, and if I keep going at the pace I’ve been on, I will break. And that would hurt you, the kids, and our family.

Because, let’s face it: You need me, too.

This post originally appeared on And What a Mom!

Hi! I’m Celeste. I consider myself a relatively new mom with two boys ages 4 and 2. Other titles I go by include: wife, health & wellness coach, marketing guru, avid reader (self-help books are my favorite), writer, travel/adventure seeker and fitness nut.

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35 Would You Rather Questions That’ll Get the Conversation Rolling

by Gabby Cullen

Want to really get to know someone? Play a round of Would You Rather. After all, when faced with choices ranging from thought-provoking to downright silly, people will always surprise you. The questions you use when playing with adults don’t have to be life-or-death choices; they can be funny, outrageous, or thought-provoking, but all should be interesting! We’ve rounded up 35 of our favorite would-you-rather questions for adults below, but if you’re playing with kids and need more age-appropriate questions, we’ve got the best would-you-rather questions for kids and teens. 

How Do You Play Would You Rather?

When playing this fun party game, people answer questions that have two choices. For example, “Would you rather have the ability to be invisible or the ability to time travel?” The idea is to encourage a discussion, so the questions should make players think differently about a scenario or a choice between two things, and there should always be an explanation as to why they chose their answer.

You can use Would You Rather questions with adults anywhere: at work, family gatherings, parties, or hanging with a few friends. It’s a fun way to learn more about someone, whether you know them well or not.

Silly Would You Rather Questions for Adults

Would you rather throw up in front of your hero or have your hero throw up on you?

Would you rather have the powers of telekinesis (moving things) or telepathy (reading minds)?

Would you rather eat pizza or ice cream every day for the rest of your life?

Would you rather have Jason Kelce or Travis Kelce as your teammate?

Would you rather be stuck in an elevator with your boss or mother-in-law?

Would you rather have an embarrassing photo of you surface on social media or fall down the stairs at a party?

Would you rather accidentally pass gas on a first date or on your wedding day (and it’s SBD)?

Would you rather be stuck in a zombie apocalypse or have the world taken over by A.I. ala The Matrix?

Would you rather have Adele’s singing voice or Taylor Swift’s songwriting skills?

Would you rather go shopping in your fanciest ballgown or go to a holiday work party in your bathrobe?

Would you rather be a Jedi Knight or a Marvel Superhero?

Would you rather steal Kate Middleton or Megan Markel’s stylist?

Would you rather have a mullet or a perm?

Would you rather go on tour with your favorite band or be a regular extra on your favorite sitcom?

Would you rather walk around all night with your zipper down or something in your teeth?

Would you rather be stuck in a haunted house or a broken-down car in the desert?

Would you rather be terrible at anything athletic or a really bad singer?

Would you rather be stuck on a deserted island or the top of a mountain?

Serious Would You Rather Questions for Adults

Would you rather find true love or win the lottery?

Would you rather lose your sight or your memory?

Would you rather freeze to death or die of heat exhaustion?

Would you rather have a pause button or a rewind button for your life?

Would you rather have dinner with a deceased loved one or your favorite movie star?

Would you rather be fabulously wealthy and alone or poor and surrounded by loved ones?

Would you rather find and lose true love or never love at all?

Would you rather travel the world for one year or have $50,000 tax-free dollars?

Would you rather be a world-famous movie star or a best-selling novelist?

Would you rather live a quiet life in a rural town or a busy life in a big city?

Would you rather quit social media or streaming platforms?

Would you rather work at a high-paying job you loathe or a low-paying job you love?

Would you choose to end world hunger or save the planet from devasting climate change?

Would you rather go to jail for a crime you didn’t commit or have someone steal your idea and publish it as their own?

Would you rather never celebrate Christmas or never celebrate Halloween?

Would you rather have a conversation with your past self or your future self?

Would you rather be told a comforting life or the uncomfortable truth?

 

 

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13 Tips for Throwing a Successful First Birthday Party

by Aimee Della Bitta

These ideas will help your one-year-old’s birthday run smoothly

Even though your baby won’t remember their first birthday, it’s a major (and incredibly cute) milestone for parents—one that your kid will love to look back on when they’re older (be sure to save all the best pics in the Tinybeans app). You’ll probably choose the most adorable party outfit, soon to be covered in freshly baked (or bought!) smash cake. But with schedules to take into account and a lot of little personalities to cater to, how do you plan a party to remember that doesn’t end in disaster? Whether hosting a small gathering with family or a big blowout, these are the first birthday party ideas and tips that’ll ensure everyone has a great time—especially the birthday babe.

1. Respect the nap.

Happy, stress-free parties require a well-rested baby, so time the birthday bash around your baby’s naptime. While this may mean a different start time than Grandma expected, everybody (especially your child!) will have a better time if you work around the sleep schedule.

2. Create a quiet area.

Since parties with babies can mean tears and gleeful shrieks, setting up a secondary party area in another room or outside for guests to go to if they need a break from the festivities is a brilliant first birthday party idea. Set out non-electronic toys for babies who may feel overstimulated, and place chairs and snacks there for adults who want a spot for quiet conversation.

3. Designate photographers.

To ensure you capture the big moments and sweet snuggles with important folks, ask a few attendees to take charge of specific photo moments. That way you can focus on your child and guests—and end up in some of the photos, too! Take all the snapshots from the day and make them into a Tinybeans photo book to save your memories of the special day.

4. Choose a simple theme.

If planning a Pinterest-worthy party sounds too stressful, stick to a simple theme. Lifestyle guru and mother of two Camille Styles opted for a summer-themed party for her daughter’s first birthday and used hearts and the colors pink and orange to make the party look cohesive.

5. Or… skip the theme.

No, you don’t need a themed first birthday party. Promise. Instead, spend your money on fun first birthday activities your baby and guests will enjoy. Our favorite is the ball pit. Just buy an inexpensive kiddie pool and a lot of colorful plastic balls. Kids will love to play around in it, and you can set it up at home or in your backyard for your child to enjoy for years to come.

Related: Best Places to Hold a First Birthday Party

A picture of a baby with her big sister celebrating with a circus party, one of the cutest first birthday party ideas
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6. Take photos before guests arrive.

One of our favorite ideas when planning parties for one-year-olds olds is to snap pictures before baby gets sleepy or cake-covered and when you and your family are more relaxed and focused. To ensure you get great photos, make or order a small smash cake before the big day and do a low-key photo shoot without any guests around. Baby will be all smiles, and no one flipping through the scrapbook will ever know that the picture was taken on a different day.

7. Weather permitting, opt for an outdoor venue.

A park or playground can be the perfect party spot; all you bring is the cake, balloons, favors, snacks, and a table. The mess will be minimal in the great outdoors, and younger guests will have lots of space to run around.

First birthday party tip: Arrive early to stake out a spot in the shade, and tell guests what color balloons or decorations you have so they know where to find you. If the weather isn’t cooperating and you need to move the party to your home, make extra room indoors by moving furniture out of the party room so little legs can crawl or walk around.

8. Put older kids in charge of games.

Delegate, delegate, delegate. Older kids, like cousins or friends’ children, usually love to be given responsibility at parties, and they’re really good at getting the younger ones’ attention. Put them in charge of party games, music-making, singing songs, and more. Chat with the older kids (and their parents) in advance to ask what they’re comfortable doing and create a plan.

a picture of a baby with a smash cupcake, a good first birthday party idea
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9. Use a cupcake for smashing.

Smash cakes are all the rage with the one-year-old crowd and their photo-taking families, and while we say smash away, a tiny confection or cupcake works just as well with much less mess. You may even be able to salvage your child’s outfit for future events if you go for a less messy, smaller cake.

10. Personalize the party.

Highlight a few of your baby’s favorite things over the past year (first word! favorite food! favorite stuffed animal!) and make a poster you display at the party. This first birthday party idea from Kara’s Party Ideas lets guests learn about your baby and is worth snapping a photo of for your child to revisit in a few years. Better yet, make it a yearly tradition.

11. Create a time capsule.

Asking your guests to write the guest of honor a short letter to be read years from now tops our list of sweet first birthday party ideas. To ward off writer’s block, offer suggestions for what to write, such as helpful advice, a memory of the party or first year, or wishes for the future. Store the letters in a marked container that reads “Do not open until you turn 21” (or whatever age you like). For guests who can’t make it, ask them to email your submissions—print them out, and file them away for a future date.

12. Make your party treats self-serve.

Set up everything from drinks to dessert in advance so you can tell guests to help themselves, leaving you to focus on your child and having fun. For younger guests, prep cut-up fruit, applesauce pouches, and cups of Cheerios or snack crackers. For adults, a charcuterie board, crudites, and antipasto are always popular nibbles.

13. Keep it short and sweet.

Little people get overstimulated quickly and can’t handle too much of a good thing. Limit your party to two hours or less so everyone can leave on a positive note.

Related: Celebrate Your Baby’s First Birthday Without a Party

Capture all the cutest (and messiest) moments from baby’s big day—and share them with your family and friends near and far—with the Tinybeans app. The secure platform puts parents in total control of who sees and interacts with photos and videos of their kids.

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Fun Things to Do with Toddlers on Your Next Neighborhood Stroll

by Allison Sutcliffe

From scavenger hunts to Follow the Leader, these fun activities take your toddler walks to the next level

One of the best things about parenting a toddler is that they can find wonder in the simplest of things. Take a neighborhood walk, for example. Kids are thrilled by the possibilities—what will they find? Who will they see? Where will they go? The next time you need an easy toddler activity that takes little-to-no planning, spice up your walk with one of these ideas.

1. Treasure walk

No matter where you walk with your little one, you can count on them to pick up the oddest treasures. In fact, we’re willing to bet your tot comes home from each family outing with at least three of the following stuffed into a pocket: feather, coin, dropped hair tie, wrapper, rock, flower.

Our suggestion? Lean in. Rather than quickly reaching for the hand sanitizer in your back pocket as you remind them to “leave it, please,” give them a small bag or box to keep their special finds safe on your walk. Call it a treasure walk and you’ve got a wonderful new way to explore.

2. License plate game

Car trips call for the license plate game. Isn’t it only fair that neighborhood walks should have something similar? Keep your wee one motivated to move when you play the alphabet game (numbers work, too!). See if your kiddo can find all the letters—from A to Z—on street signs, on cars, and even on houses.

3. Jump in puddles

While it’s usually easy to get kids outside on a sunny day, it’s harder when the rain is falling. Count on a simple walk around the block to lift everyone’s spirits on a gray day. And you can encourage your kids to get a little wet with a promise of puddle-jumping good times. All it takes is rain boots and a sense of adventure to find just the right ones for splashing. Fair warning: You may have to add extra blocks to your typical route for this one. Puddles never get old! (We’ve also got you covered with plenty of other rainy day activities for toddlers.)

4. Scavenger hunt

Neighborhood scavenger hunts were all the rage in the early months of the pandemic for a reason. Not only are they easy to plan, but with so many ideas out there, you can do a different one every day and never seem to run out of options. Find all the colors of the rainbow, different textures, nature sounds, vehicles, trees… let your imagination run wild. They’ll love the hunt; you’ll love the simplicity.

5. Nature art

Turn your walk into an art project precursor when you go out in search of leaves, flowers, pine cones, and other natural elements. You can’t go wrong, because no matter what your kiddo finds, it can be used to make magical sun paper prints that develop in the sunlight. You’ll need special paper for this one, and a bit of patience as your kiddo both seeks out nature’s treasures and then puts them together. Too much work? Stick with the nature theme and stuff paper and a few crayons into your diaper bag to make bark rubbings. You’ll come home with fridge-ready art.

6. Clean up the streets

Turn your walk into a beautiful day in the neighborhood when you and the kids pick up trash. All you need is a bag, gloves, and some hand sanitizer, and you’re ready to leave the world a little better than you found it.

7. Follow the Leader

Challenge your tot to a game of Follow the Leader. Can your mini-me walk like a duck? Walk backward? Do a silly dance? Remember to take turns leading—is there anything toddlers love more than being in charge? And have fun coming up with actions to follow. It’s a great one to pull out when your kiddo needs a little extra motivation to make it home because it’s simply irresistible.

8. Plant seed bombs

Ideas that take a little prep ahead of time and give you an at-home activity first are always a hit. If you’ve got some extra flower seeds from your spring planting, turn them into seed bombs that you can “plant” at a local public park or walkway. This one’s a twofer because you can take your tot out to find the flowers on a walk later in the year.

9. I Spy

This one’s a toddler favorite for a reason. It blends just the right amount of mystery with all the colors of the rainbow. If your kiddo needs a distraction during the walk, trot out this favorite and make it happen. I Spy something blue… green …brown; you know how to play. Set your sights on the fun.

10. Bird watching (and listening!)

While binoculars might be a bit much for toddlers, listening for different birds is right up their alley. See if you can spot any of the winged pals you hear as you make your way down the street. Follow it up with a book that identifies local species, and your kiddo will want to take a walk every day to figure out which feathered friends are around.

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9 Things to Say About Yourself in Front of Your Kid

by Leah R. Singer

A positive attitude about yourself goes a long way when it comes to building self-esteem in kids

How many times have you looked in the mirror and frowned at the outfit you’re wearing, or thought twice about eating dessert because it’s a “bad food” (even though it’s not)? Definitely a few, because you’re human, after all. But it’s important to take stock of the things you say when the kids are around and do your best to present yourself as a strong, confident parent.

Kids learn about body positivity and self-confidence from their parents long before they internalize perceived ideals of how they should look on YouTube or social media. And if they have a strong foundation of self-esteem, those messages will have far less of an impact when they do, inevitably, encounter them. We rounded up 9 things to say—and believe!—about yourself in front of your kids so you can help them learn to take pride in who they are.

1. I look nice today. Say it when you’re tired, say it when you feel a cold coming on, say it even if you haven’t showered in a few days. Little ones learn by example; if they hear you speaking positively about yourself, it becomes second nature to do the same. Projecting self-confidence shows worthiness—despite the negative messaging that bombards us daily. 

2. That was challenging, and I’m going to try again. Showing you are okay with failure helps kids develop the tools necessary for dealing with disappointment. It might be handy to have a list of people who failed before finding success on hand: think Albert Einstein, Michael Jordan, and Oprah. 

3. I made a mistake. It might be one of the hardest things to do, but admitting when we are wrong is one of the best ways to show (and teach) personal responsibility. And that’s a life skill everyone needs. 

4. Food keeps me healthy and happy. How you talk about food with kids has a major impact on how they look at their bodies and health. If you practice food neutrality (broccoli is broccoli, a cookie is a cookie—nothing is “good” or “bad”), it’ll help to set the stage for kids to learn the balance of fueling the body and enjoy the pleasures of the food itself. 

5. I am proud of my job. Whether you’re a stay-at-home parent, work remotely, or head out to a job, show pride in what you do! Talking about what you do all day shows the kids that while you might be busy, it’s for a good reason—not because you don’t want to read Dragons Love Tacos for the 10th time. 

6. I’m glad my body protects me and keeps me alive every day. We can kick a soccer ball, push a swing, and play a board game, and we can do it all without being the “right size.” Referring to your body as something you use as a tool for life is key to helping kids develop a positive self-image.

7. This outfit makes me feel beautiful. Raise your hand if you’ve found yourself cursing while trying on clothes because something doesn’t look quite right. Try focusing on things you like about what you’re wearing: this color complements my skin tone, these leggings are perfect for our park play date, and this hat makes me stand out in a crowd. Pointing out the good instead of the bad is a way to encourage self-love and confidence. 

8. I enjoy exercising because it makes me feel strong. Moving our bodies is about so much more than losing weight. It’s about how exercise is good for our brain, helps us ward off illness, and prolongs our lifespan. In today’s tech-driven culture, driving home these ideas is more important than ever. 

9. I believe every day is a new chance to start over. It’s easy to let negative thoughts rule our mindset. Yes, life is tough, but it’s also beautiful, and we only get one go of it. A wonderful gift (or tool) you can give your kids is the ability to look at the present and the future and understand that everything moves forward. We alone can make change for ourselves, even if it’s something as tiny as writing down notes of gratitude or as big as demanding the help you need.

Related: Want to Raise Confident Kids? Start by Doing This

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Best Beaches in LA for Babies, Toddlers & Big Kids

by Christina Montoya Fiedler

Spend the day at one of these kid-friendly beaches around Los Angeles

Hitting the beach is one of our favorite, free things to do in LA but when you google “kid friendly beaches near me” or “best beach for kids near me” you’ll get a lot of suggestions that are well, not the best. We’ve gone out and did a little digging (pun intended) to find and report back on the best beaches for families near LA—not just any old beach will do for our SoCal babes. For toddlers to teens and everyone in between, here’s our favorite kid-friendly beaches from Malibu to Long Beach.

Malibu: Leo Carrillo State Park

One of the best beaches in LA for families, Leo Carrillo State Park has plenty of space spread out without the crowds. Added bonus? When the tide goes out, you'll also find some of LA's best tide pools and sea caves for kids to play and explore. Another bonus for families that have a dog? Swing up to North Beach (north of lifeguard tower 3) to one of the few beaches in the county where you won’t have to leave your four-legged friend behind—just don’t forget the leash. Want to spend more than just the day here? Make a reservation at one of the campgrounds available along the beach—just check the website as things tend to change quickly. 

Sticking with a day trip but don't think you'll spend all day on the sand? Here are some of our favorite fun things Malibu has to offer. 

35000 West Pacific Coast Hwy.
Malibu
Online: parks.ca.gov/


Related: LA’s Best Family-Friendly Bike Paths

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Long Beach: Bay Shore Beach

Not necessarily a secret but for some guaranteed calm, soft, sandy beaches without waves, head farther south to Bay Shore Beach. One of the best beaches for toddlers in all of LA, parents can relax here thanks to a lack of big waves but still have access to lots of amenities like a swim dock, a playground, a concession stand, paddle board rentals, plus public restrooms and showers. There is also free street parking on Bay Shore Drive.

Insider Tip: Check out these fun things to do with kids in Long Beach if you have a few more hours to spend post-beach hang.

5415 E. Ocean Blvd.
Long Beach
Online: longbeach.gov

Related: Fun, Family-Friendly & Free Things to Do around LA

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Palos Verdes: Abalone Cove Shoreline Park

Tucked at the end of the Palos Verdes Peninsula, Abalone Cove Shoreline Park offers two beaches (Abalone Cove & Sacred Cove), a State Ecological Preserve, tide pools, hiking trails and gorgeous views of Catalina Island on clear days. The hike down is easy but the hike back up can be a work out so plan to leave the beach just before the kids are all tuckered out—otherwise you will end up carrying them. One of our favorite spots with older kids and teens, the Rancho Palos Verdes beaches, are a tad rocky so don't forget to bring water shoes. 

Insider Tip: Go during low tide to maximize tide pool exploration. Pay attention to the signs as some parts of the peninsula has been closed due to falling rocks.

5970 Palos Verdes Dr. South
Rancho Palos Verdes
Online: rpvca.gov

Malibu: Westward Beach

Located on the southern portion of Point Dume Beach in Malibu, this lovely stretch of sand is both private and picturesque and is one of the best kid beaches in California. While you might recognize it as a backdrop in Iron Man, the large cliffs provide a stunning backdrop for your family’s beach day. Hike up the Point Dume path and you may catch a glimpse of body surfing dolphins or climbers repelling the rocky cliff.

If you are looking for your own little adventure, there's a hidden sandy spot behind the southern rock wall called Pirates Cove Beach. The easiest way to access it is to time it with low tide and walk around the rock wall, otherwise you'll have to scramble over the rocks to access this secret spot. 

Insider Tip: This north-facing beach’s surf breaks shallow and close to shore so make sure to keep an extra eye on beginning swimmers at the water’s edge.

Westward Beach Rd.
Malibu
Online: parks.ca.gov

Malibu: El Matador Beach

Located within Robert H. Meyer Memorial State Park, kids can explore sea caves, tunnels and more rock formations. While not exactly a super secret (the Instagram crowd has definitely caught on to this photogenic spot), this beach is certainly less crowded than tourist hotspots like Santa Monica. Be prepared to trek down some steep stairs to make it to the sand—save this location for kids who can manage the steps. There is limited free parking on PCH or you can pay a fee to park in the lot.

Insider Tip: Check the tide levels before you go—during high tide, the water covers most of the beach, so you'll want to go when the tide's low.

32215 Pacific Coast Hwy.
Malibu
Online: parks.ca.gov

Related: Yes, You Can Now Visit These Botanical Gardens!

Kid-Friendly Beaches near LA That Are Worth the Drive

Oxnard, CA: Hollywood Beach

About an hour north of Los Angeles, you'll find the sprawling, often nearly empty Hollywood Beach. Escape for the day to enjoy free parking, volleyball courts, plus plenty of space for kite flying and a long stretch of shore, perfect for little ones who love splashing in the waves. Not to mention, gorgeous views of the Channel Islands—you might even see whales migrating!

Insider Tip: Ventura County is great, family-friendly destination. To extend your day trip, check out what to do with kids in Ventura. 

Harbor Blvd. in Channel Islands Harbor
Oxnard
Online: visitoxnard.com

Additional reporting by Andie Huber

 

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Best Ways to Use Up Every Last Drop of Summer

by Debra Flanagan

Have you been to an outdoor movie night? Seen the fireworks over Navy Pier?

You may not be ready to officially admit that lazy summer days are dwindling; it seems as though it has only just begun, but that time is creeping in. This may seem like a moment for panic, but we’re going to help you rally to squeeze in every bit of sunshine and adventuring. Before you have to settle into school-year routines, take advantage of the last couple of months of favorable weather by hiking, boating, golfing, and more. If they aren’t on your summer bucket list yet, check out our recommendations around the Chicagoland area.

Listen to Music Under the Stars

From classical, to rock, country, and even Opera for the Young, there is literally something for everyone during the 2023 Ravinia Festival.

Dine Out in the Open Air

A residual from the pandemic, many neighborhoods are still closing their streets on a limited basis, to allow restaurant capacity to spill onto pop-up patios. It’s a great opportunity to visit some finer establishments with the kids or even pets. The next Dine Out on Broadway will occur on September 15-17.

Shop til You Drop

While there will never be a shortage of places to shop in Chicago, the indoor/outdoor Randolph Street Market is America’s largest urban antiques market. Remaining dates include July 29-30 and September 23-24.

Picnic at the Movies

Lay down a blanket at one of the many free outdoor movie screenings, including the Millenium Park Summer Film Series.

Take a Hike

The call of hanging in the urban jungle all summer long is strong. But, how about throwing in some fresh air, unforgettable scenery, and wild animal spotting into the agenda? Lace up your boots, strap an infant to your back, maybe even bring along the fishing poles, and explore some lesser-known hiking spots found in our story: Discover the Not-So-Obvious Spots to Hike, Camp & Fish Near Chicago.

Visit the Zoos!

How lucky are we that we have not one, but two amazing zoos in Chicago? Pick your favorite—or visit both—and monkey around as a family for a day.

RELATED: Everything You Need to Know about the Lincoln Park Zoo

Go for a Donut-Themed Jog (or Walk)

Grab your donut-lovin friends and register for Stan’s Donut Race. Join in for a 5K and Kids Dash at Montrose Harbor on Aug. 19.

Thrill-Seek as a Family at The Forge: Lemont Quarries

The Forge: Lemont Quarries (aka The Forge) is an amazing 300-acre adventure park, 22 miles from downtown Chicago. Not only does the park feature the largest aerial adventure course in North America, but a day of adventuring also gives you access to four over-water ziplines, 5 miles of hiking trails, mountain biking, paddle sports, and a dedicated kids’ zone.

Play a Round of Mini Golf

Mini-golf. Putt-putt. Goofy golf. Adventure golf. Shorties. No matter what you call it, you have a blast playing it. Most of Chicago’s mini-golf courses are pure, kitschy fun and are only open for a limited time each year. So grab a short pencil and head to one of our city and suburban favorites.

Meander Through the North Shore Sculpture Park

Walk. Bike. Run. Skip. Gallop. However you make your way down this two-mile trail, you’re sure to enjoy the sights at the North Shore Sculpture Park. The paved path is lined with sculptures from artists across the world.

Make a Splash at Raging Waves

Splish, Splash! Illinois’ largest waterpark dedicated to family fun for all ages, Raging Waves, is excited to you its newest addition: Aussie Mat Dash. Riders race side-by-side on mats down the six-lane slide.

Cruise the Waterways on a Fireboat

Once the largest diesel-powered fireboat in the world, the Fred A. Busse is now set to share a bit of history with passengers who take a Chicago Fireboat Tour.

RELATED: Exciting Ways to Explore the Chicago River

Tour the Baha’i Temple Gardens

Take in the beauty of Baha’i Temple with a walk around their gardens.

Introduce the Kid to Chicago-Style Hot Dogs

Love ’em or leave ’em, hot dogs are big in Chicago, and if your kids haven’t begged for one yet, they will soon—and they get a pass on the sacrilege of using ketchup. Grab one at a legendary local spot and turn eating into an adventure.

Pay a Visit to Shedd Aquarium

Are they soft, fluffy, or rough? You’ll find out what a stingray feels like during a 15-minute touch session. Learn about sustainable seafood options that help protect these creatures in the wild. Along with learning about different species (including cownose and yellow stingrays) and their wild habits, you’ll see just how docile and friendly these ocean swimmers can be.

RELATED: Animal Farms Near Chicago You HAVE to Visit

Explore the Green Space at Chicago Botanic Gardens

Visit Chicago Botanic Garden and be treated to colorful views of the North Lake, vistas of the Malott Japanese Garden, and close-ups of blooms in Dixon Prairie and the McDonald Woods. Until Sep. 5, you will also see hundreds of winged beauties and pretty petals in the Butterflies & Blooms exhibit.

Experience Blue Man Group

A visit to see the iconic Blue Man Group is always a fun way to celebrate the new school year. A dynamic combo of art, music, comedy, and tech, Blue Man Group encourages audiences to reconnect with their inner (and outer) child in order to see the world through a new perspective.

Admire Navy Pier Fireworks

Keep the kids up a tad later on Wednesdays and Saturdays this summer to experience the fireworks display synchronized to music at Navy Pier. Make it extra unforgettable by booking a nighttime segway tour.

Additional reporting by Maria Chambers

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5 Button Crafts & Games for Kids

by Christal Y.

Have you ever played “Who’s Got the Button?”

If you have a box of random buttons, take it out because they’re your key to fun today. We’ve come up with a few engaging button crafts and ways to play with buttons perfect for toddlers and preschool kids. Each one will fine-tune their observation skills and help them think outside of the box. Bonus points for making gifts that the kids can give away, too.

Note: Make sure your child is old enough to know not to put buttons in their mouth. 

Button Sorting

This isn’t a trick to getting your kids to play Cinderella. Button sorting is actually a great way to teach your colors how to match by colors, shapes, or numbers (how many holes does the button have). Don’t forget to get a box with separate compartments so that you can keep everything organized.

Button Stacking Game

Take a page out of A Minute to Win It game and see how high you can stack those buttons! Let the kids practice and get a feel for stacking first before introducing them to concepts like thinking strategically (e.g. biggest buttons at the bottom). This game is also a great way to practice fine motor skills, especially if you have a box of tiny buttons.

Button Bookmarks

A little hot glue, a little button, a paper clip, and Voila! A little bookmark. It’s a craft that’s easy as one-two-three, all you need is a little patience. They make great trinkets, so as your kids hold their bookmarks together, waiting for the hot glue to dry, ask them to whom they want to gift a bookmark. Note: your crafter will need assistance with the glue gun.

Button Art

The supplies you’ll need for this button craft include a canvas, paint, glue, buttons, and endless imagination. A brown button can be the round body of a horse while a tiny yellow button becomes a bright flower of an outdoors scene. Group a bunch of green buttons together and style a Seuss-esque tree. Think outside of the button!

Who’s Got the Button?

Reign in those observation skills in this classic game. All you need is one button and it’s great if you’re having a party of kids over that day. It’s a bit like Duck, Duck, Goose but without the chasing. Have the kids (except one) get in a circle with their hands behind their backs. Then give the outlying kid the one button and have him or her walk around the circle. He or she should discreetly leave the button in someone’s palm and loop it around a few times before getting in the middle and chanting, “Button, button, who’s got the button?” Everyone will then take turns to guess and whoever guesses correctly gets to be the next person to hide the button!

Related: 27 Adorable Toddler Crafts You Can Pull Out Anytime

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10 Reasons Waikiki Is Perfect for Teens & Tweens

by Amber Guetebier

Pearl Harbor tips, beach recommendations, where to shop, and where to stay

Visiting the Hawaiian Islands with kids brings to mind sand castles and surf, but when traveling with—ahem—discerning teens and tweens, of all the destinations, Waikiki might be the top. The hustle and bustle of activity all within a short walk and easily accessible beaches are a formula for teenage dreams. If you’ve skipped Waikiki in the past in favor of less urban areas, we hear you, but just remember: with teenagers, tranquility comes in many forms. Read on for the top reasons to concentrate your efforts on this Honolulu hub. 

Hawaii Tourism Authority (HTA) / Vincent Lim

1. Give Back

The Mālama Hawaiʻi program is an initiative that encourages visitors to give back to the community while vacationing in Hawaiʻi. It offers a wide range of interesting opportunities, all of which help visitors understand the history and culture of Hawaiʻi. Learn about native plants, clean up beaches, and help restore historical monuments. As an added bonus, many of the local businesses participate in this program, including many local hotels. Teens and tweens are the perfect age to take part and it will give them a deeper understanding of the unique landscape—geographic, social, and historic—of Hawai’i. 

Amber Guetebier

2. The Location 

There are hundreds of hotels in Waikiki, and all have pros, cons, and price differences. Our #1 advice for visiting Waikīkī with teens? Stay as close to the beach as possible. This gives teenagers more freedom without the stress of wondering how to track them down or meet up. 

We stayed at the Hyatt Regency Waikiki Beach Resort & Spa immediately across from the main beach at Waikiki and, while it wasn’t the quietest location, it was so worth it. Once we were oriented to our surroundings it became less of a big deal to let the girls—ages 15 and 17—take beach chairs down on their own or walk to get coffee or snacks, because they were quite literally going across the street. Our hotel also had a fantastic cultural center where knowledgeable locals give dance, ukulele, and art lessons. We wove traditional necklaces while learning about the history of strong women rulers in Hawai’ian culture, something the girls still talk about! Out front nearly every night were vendors selling fresh fruit and local delicacies. 

Hot tip: Many of the hotels offer either beach chairs on the sand or allow guests to borrow them from the hotel. This can save money over renting beach chairs and umbrellas. Additionally, we found that it can be less expensive to buy a snorkel mask at a local store vs. renting one. Ditto for boogie boards and sand toys. Before you buy anything, keep an eye out. Our hotel had a nice habit of departing guests leaving things with a “free” sign near the elevators on our floor. We managed to score an entire boogie board, which we offered to another family for free before we left as well. 

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3. Walkability Score: 100 

There’s no shortage of things to do right in Waikiki, and the following spots are all within a 10 to 15-minute walk from Waikiki Beach. If Waikiki Beach is too crowded, head down toward Kūhiō Beach, which can be less crowded with calmer water. Just past the break wall, the Queen’s Beach is an idyllic cove for kids to snorkel and bob around. Queen’s Beach is right next to Kapiolani Park Beach and Kapiolani Park, where you’ll find the Honolulu Zoo. The zoo is on the smaller side as zoos go, so a two-hour visit is plenty of time to enjoy the animals and gorgeous botanical gardens throughout. There’s plenty of shade in the zoo, too. Along the water in Kapiolani Park, you’ll also find the Waikiki Aquarium, another great spot to get out of the sun and discover more than 3000+ Hawaiian and tropical animals. 

Kapiolani Park is also home to the Tom Moffatt Waikīkī Shell, an outdoor amphitheater with frequent live performances, ranging from musicals to comedians to traditional dance. The Shell is operated by the Blaisdell Center. Click here for the calendar. 

Hot Tip: The Duke Kahanamoku Statue, makes a great meeting spot if your party separates. It’s easy to find and super cool to pay homage to the father of modern surfing! 

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4. Take a Breathtaking Hike Nearby 

When you want a nature hit but aren’t ready to head out of town too far, plan a visit to Diamond Head. Hiking Diamond Head is a ritual for many visitors to this area, but as of May 2022, non-residents who wish to hike the trail and visit the monument must register in advance. It’s well worth the trek there, and to the top, to see some of the most stunning views on the islands. You can take the green line of the trolley out there if you don’t have a car. 

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5. Hear the Queen’s Story

Yes, Waikiki has it all, and one of those “alls” is that it is a short trolley ride from downtown Honolulu where you will find Iolani Palace. There may be no better place to learn about the Hawaiian Kingdom and to help understand the complex history of colonialism in Hawai’i, than Iolani Palace. This former home of Hawai’i’s reigning monarchs, as their website says, “The Palace complex contains beautiful memories of grand balls and hula performances, as well as painful ones of Liliuokalani’s overthrow and imprisonment.” Walk these very halls and see displays of decorative arts, furniture, military accessories, and more as you discover the significant history of the Hawaiian monarchy. This includes what is known as the Imprisonment Room. In 1895, after an attempt to restore Queen Liliuokalani’s power, she was arrested, forced to abdicate the throne, held for trial, convicted, and imprisoned in this room for eight months. 

Hot Tip: Kapu means “forbidden,” or “off-limits,” but also means “sacred” or “consecrated.” If you see a sign marking a place as Kapu, respect this and do not enter. 

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6. Celebrate Hawaiian Culture 

The Bishop Museum is an unrivaled celebration of the history, culture, and environment of Hawai’i and the Pacific and is the state of Hawai’i’s largest museum. Founded in 1889, the Polynesian and Hawaiian Halls built by Charles Reed Bishop in honor of his wife, Princess Bernice Pauahi Bishop (a descendent of the royal Kamehameha family) is done in the typical architectural style of the time. At first glance, the building looks like a classic brownstone, but a closer peek will show that the entire building is constructed of lava stone, an extraordinarily unique piece of world architecture. The interior is an exquisite Victorian-era style collection, with corridors and cabinets containing royal family heirlooms, scientific specimens, taxidermy, and millions of objects, documents, and photographs about  Hawai‘i and other Pacific island cultures. There is also a planetarium on site as well as a gift shop featuring local artists. Though the Bishop Museum is a little too far from Waikiki to walk, there are several easy-access buses a day that take you right from the heart of Waikiki to its doors or use the purple line of the trolley. 

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7. Get a Profound History Lesson

Yes, you could spend all day every day at the beach but if you want to venture out of Waikiki for the day, do not miss taking your kids to Pearl Harbor. It is a powerful place, both a somber graveyard of lost soldiers and an important lesson in World War II history. A visit to the included museum displays is critical for understanding the dangerous racism toward Hawaiians of Japanese descent during this time. Before you make the drive out to Pearl Harbor, you should know that visiting the USS Arizona requires advance reservations. The memorial sees thousands of visitors a day, so here is how to get tickets:

  • Reservations are released daily at 3 p.m. HST in two windows: 24 hours and 8 weeks in advance. For example, on January 1 tickets were released for Jan. 2 and Feb. 26. 
  • Tickets are non-transferable and non-refundable. 
  • Visit this page on Recreation.gov. You will need to create an account or log in if you already have one. 
  • Everyone needs a ticket, even babies, but tickets are free. The reservation system keeps a $1 service fee. 
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We had luck finding our tickets with the 24-hour window but we did not know about the advance reservation system until we were standing at the visitor’s center. We kept ourselves busy with some of the other on-site museums and memorials but ended up having to go back out to Pearl Harbor the next day to see the USS Arizona. Easily avoided if you follow the steps above either once you know your date or once you arrive in Honolulu. 

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8. Attend a Luau

If you want to attend a Hawaiian luau there are a number of options in the Waikiki area but be sure to book in advance. Remember, there really is no “slow season” in Waikiki. Our favorite in the heart of Waikiki, though it’s a splurge, is the Aha’Aina Luau at the Royal Hawaiian. It runs every Monday and Thursday night at 5 p.m. and food is included. The Hilton offers a Starlight Luau every Sunday to Thursday at 5 p.m.

9. Shop Til You Drop

With two teenagers, the proximity of more than one open-air mall was a big bonus. We spent more than one evening wandering around the nearby International Marketplace. You’ll find similar box stores to other malls as well as specialty shops, treats, and more, often along with live music or dancing. We also cruised around the Royal Hawaiian Center, an upscale mall worth a visit because there are frequently live performances of traditional Hawaiian music and dance. 

10. Eat Your Fill 

The Waikiki area has every kind of food imaginable. From traditional local fish dishes to chain restaurants, so no matter what your teen likes to eat there will be something to suit their palette and yours. Standouts for us included: Lulu’s Waikiki near the Honolulu Zoo, Tiki’s Grill where parents can drink their week’s worth of cocktails in one, souvenir volcano, and Duke’s. Don’t miss a chance to enjoy The Beach Bar at the Moana Surfrider. Stop by the Royal Hawaiian Bakery in the lobby of the famous pink palace and be sure to walk around and check out the impressive array of memorabilia in the lobby. 

 

 

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15 Fun Things to Do at Night with Kids in San Diego

by Bonnie Taylor

When your kids are big enough to stay up late and you aren’t beholden to strict bedtime routines, check out these fun night activities in San Diego

One of the summer’s biggest benefits is getting to stay up (and out) past your kid’s regular bedtime. Take advantage of this family time together and experience the beautiful city of San Diego at night. From baseball games under the lights and dinner in Little Italy to mysterious ghost tours and making s’mores on the beach, there’s plenty of fun to be had once the sun goes down.

Old Town San Diego

Treat your kids to an evening history lesson with a visit to Old Town San Diego. Considered “the birthplace of California” as the first permanent settlement in the state, this vibrant part of town showcases preserved historical buildings and museums that provide a peek into 19th-century colonial life. But the real draw is dinnertime when you can kick back, relax, and enjoy some of the most authentic and delicious Mexican food on the west coast. Café Coyote is a favorite with its festive décor, strolling mariachis, and open-air atmosphere. There is also a wide variety of shops in the area like those at Bazaar Del Mundo which sell everything from traditional Mexican clothing and jewelry to pottery and other trinkets.

Old Town San Diego
Online: oldtownsandiego.org

Old Town Trolley Tours

Old Town Trolley Tours offers fantastic daytime tours, but their San Diego City Lights Tour in the evening is truly something special. This 2-hour tour aboard an open-air trolley offers breathtaking views of the city and a chance to check out some of the town’s most beloved landmarks illuminated night, including the historic Gaslamp Quarter, Balboa Park, Coronado’s Ferry Landing, the USS Midway, Seaport Village, and San Diego’s Little Italy.

If you fancy yourself more the ghostbusting type, the company offers a fun “Ghosts and Gravestones” tour at night as well. This tour really leans into the city’s history and mysterious side. Hop aboard the Trolley of the Doomed to hear legendary tales about gunslingers, gamblers, and all sorts of curious characters who lived and died in San Diego.

Old Town Trolley Tours
Online: trolleytours.com/san-diego

Gaslamp Quarter

The “heart and soul” of downtown San Diego, the Gaslamp Quarter is a lively and walkable place to spend an evening with family. From some of the city’s best dining and live music to great shops for souvenirs and candy, it’s a swell spot to take kiddos after the sunset. If you’re in the mood for tacos, stop by Tacos El Gordo for some of the best this side of Mexico. When pizza’s on the menu, it’s hard to beat Prince St. Pizza—originally from NYC, this pizza institution delivers Sicilian square and Neapolitan round pies that are out of this world. And your kids would never forgive us if we forgot dessert—grab a world-famous sundae at Ghirardelli Ice Cream & Chocolate Shop or stop by Cali Cream Homemade Ice Cream for the most bomb scoops in town.

Gaslamp Quarter
Online: gaslamp.org

San Diego Sailing Experiences

The view of the San Diego skyline at sunset is even more stunning when seen from the deck of a sailing yacht. Hop aboard and relax as you enjoy a special 2-hour cruise beneath an orange and golden-streaked sky. A USCG-licensed captain does all the heavy lifting while you and your brood cozy up under blankets and sip your favorite beverages. Passengers are welcome to bring aboard their own snacks and drinks, but the sailing company does provide soda, water, and champagne. Soft-soled non-marking shoes should be worn during your trip. Prices start at $109 per person.

San Diego Sailing Experiences
Sunroad Resort Marina
955 Harbor Island Dr.
San Diego
Online: sandiegosailingexperiences.com

S'mores on the Beach at Hotel del Coronado

No trip to San Diego would be complete without a visit to the iconic Hotel Del Coronado. Savor a leisurely dinner at one of the hotel’s many outstanding restaurants and afterward, book a “S’mores on the Beach” experience. Beach fire pits can be reserved for one hour at 6 p.m. or 8 p.m. and all s’mores-making items are included in the $150 price tag. One pit accommodates up to 10 guests.

Hotel Del Coronado
1500 Orange Ave.
Coronado
Online: hoteldel.com/events/beach-smores

Seaport Village

This 14-acre stretch of waterfront shopping and dining on the harbor is a lovely place to spend the evening. Go for a whirl on the historic carousel, stop by the caricature kiosk and have a funny cartoon done of the whole fam, or check out one of the unique shops along the water. Once you’ve worked up an appetite, there are plenty of places to grab a bite. We especially love Crack Taco, Louisiana Charlie’s, Seaport Coffee and Fudge, and The Something Sweet Shop.

Seaport Village
849 W. Harbor Dr.
San Diego
Online: seaportvillage.com

Belmont Park

San Diego’s iconic beachfront boardwalk is an absolute must-see at night. Since its opening in 1925, Belmont Park has featured 7 acres of year-round fun and lifelong memories. From a screaming good time on the famous Giant Dipper Roller Coaster to bumper cars, the tilt-a-whirl, and carousel, there are fab rides for every age. There’s also a rock wall, laser tag, sky ropes course, zipline, and mini golf. Oh no, we’re not done yet. There’s also a midway, an arcade, a bowling alley, and more restaurants than you can shake a stick at. They literally have everything. Admission and parking are free, and you simply pay as you play.

Belmont Park
3146 Mission Blvd.
San Diego
Online: belmontpark.com

San Diego Zoo

San Diego Zoo

Get a different perspective of your favorite animals when the San Diego Zoo hosts “Nighttime Zoo” from May 26-Sept. 4. With extended hours until 9 p.m., as well as special nighttime activities and entertainment starting at 4 p.m. daily, it’s a great time to visit. Experience global rhythms from Africa Beat, rockin’ tunes from Rock & Roar (the zoo’s in-house band), interactive dances and contests with Zoolamoves, whimsical wildlife performers, high-flying performances from Bounce Back to the Outback and the Amazing African Acrobats, Dr. Zoolittle’s Exploration Station, breathtaking shows from Jambo Dunia, and many more.

Tickets: One-day passes start at $69 for adults and $59 for kids when purchased online.

San Diego Zoo
2920 Zoo Dr.
San Diego
Online: zoo.sandiegozoo.org/nighttimezoo

The Old Globe

The Old Globe

Has't family members who art Shakespeare fans? If' thee do, make sure to visit the Tony-Award-winning Old Globe Theatre—one of the country’s leading professional not-for-profit regional theatres. Now in its 88th year, this performing arts institution produces a year-round season of 16 productions of classic, contemporary, and new works on its three Balboa Park stages, including the internationally renowned Shakespeare Festival. This year’s scheduled productions include Twelfth Night and The Merry Wives of Windsor, among other more contemporary shows.

Cost: Ticket prices vary depending on seating selection and are available online or by calling the box office.

The Old Globe
1316 Old Globe Way
San Diego
Online: theoldglobe.org

 

San Diego Safari Park

San Diego Safari Park

The next best thing to a real African safari is San Diego Safari Park’s Roar & Snore sleepover. All ages are invited to join an overnight tent-camping experience overlooking the East African savanna habitat inside the park. Activities include dinner, breakfast, and s’mores, as well as walking tours to observe the nighttime activities of wildlife and morning wildlife presentations. If you level up to a Supreme Roar & Snore Safari package, you get to experience the Flightline Safari zip line, a Night Vision Safari, and VIP viewing of wildlife ambassador encounters.

San Diego Safari Park
15500 San Pasqual Valley Rd.
San Diego
Online: sdzsafaripark.org/safari/roar-snore-safari

San Diego Astronomy Association

Who doesn’t love stargazing? On the first Wed. of every month following the monthly “Sky Tonight” planetarium show in the Reuben H. Fleet Space Theater, members of the San Diego Astronomy Association set up telescopes west of the Fleet on The Prado for free public sky viewing.

San Diego Astronomy Association
Online: sdaa.org

Dinner in Little Italy

San Diego’s Little Italy represents the city’s oldest continuous-neighborhood business district. These charming cobblestone streets feature a vibrant food scene with some of the best chefs around, bustling Italian markets, boutiques, and a farmer’s market on Saturdays. But man, oh man, the incredible food is  the real star of the show. Little Italy Food Hall offers six locally-driven food stations to choose from – making it the perfect spot for picky eaters. We also love Isola Pizza Bar, Crack Shack, The Waterfront Bar, Ironside Fish & Oyster, and Pappaleco for homemade gelato and coffee.

Little Italy
San Diego
Online: littleitalysd.com

Grunion Runs

Tinybeans

If you’re dying to take your kids to the beach in the dead of night to stare at mysterious fish, we’ve got you covered. Grunions are a species of silver-colored fish that leave the water at night to spawn on beaches during spring and summer in SoCal. Spawning occurs on nights with full moons and new moons after high tides and continues for many hours. The best runs usually occur on the second and third nights of the four-evening period. Be sure to bring a flashlight for easier spotting and a jacket in case it's chilly. It’s also important to let the fish spawn without disturbing them, so remind littles to keep their eyes peeled and hands to themselves. A schedule of expected runs can be found here.

San Diego Padres

Nothing feels more like summertime than sitting shoulder to shoulder under the bright lights of a baseball stadium while cheering on your favorite team (the San Diego Padres – obvi). With the best sight lines in baseball, state-of-the-art amenities, and stunning views of San Diego, Petco Park is a glorious place to catch a night game with your kiddos.  And bonus – many evening games do special fan promotions and giveaways making it a home run for everyone! Click here for this season’s schedule.

San Diego Padres
Petco Park
100 Park Blvd.
San Diego
Online: mlb.com/padres

South Bay Drive-In

Open since 1958, the South Bay Drive-in has always been a favorite destination for San Diego families. And now, with upgraded projectors and a fully digital system, it has the best and brightest picture quality available at any drive-in theater. Check out all the current releases for half the price you’d pay at a regular theater (sorry, Nicole Kidman). With a fab selection of snack bar delights, you can enjoy dinner and dessert from the comfort of your car during the movie. And to save even more cash, download the food coupons regularly posted on their website.

South Bay Drive-In Theatre
2170 Coronado Ave.
San Diego
Online: southbaydrivein.com

 

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