Don’t let the creaky floors and spooky stories get to you, these haunted houses are fun for the whole family
Whether or not you believe in ghosts or goblins, there is a lot of entertainment value in spooky stories. Unfortunately, a lot of those spooky stories come with legitimate scares that might be too much for kids. If you’d still like to get in on some of the Halloween action this year, this list is for you. These “haunted” houses for kids have their legends and even offer a bit of history to boot. The best part? You can book most of these tours all year, not just during the Halloween season.
House of the Seven Gables | Salem, MA
The Turner-Ingersoll Mansion, aka The House of the Seven Gables, was built in 1667 and immortalized by author Nathaniel Hawthorne. Just because it now serves as a museum doesn’t mean that the staff hasn’t had their share of scares. At times, it seems as if the electrical and plumbing systems have minds of their own, a ghost of the former owner shows up from time to time, and there is a little boy who supposedly likes to play in the attic. Guided tours are available and include trips to the Kid’s Cove at the Counting House overlooking Salem Harbor, and if a Living History Lab is operating during your visit, take advantage of it. They even have an audio tour of the gardens, ground, and waterfront.
The story of cyanide-punch-drinking Ladell Allen was an urban legend in Arkansas long before the Spencer family purchased the property in 2007. Restored to its original architectural beauty and now a popular wedding venue, this house offers paranormal tours and ghost hunters claim to have recorded ghostly voices. Check out the Facebook page for mysterious images sure to send chills down your spine. Halloween tours are available every year and other tours are available by appointment only.
SyFy Channel has stopped by this mansion in Illinois, so it’s not too far off to think this window to the past could be a perfect place for ghosts to call home. Rocking chairs have been known to move on their own and the original owner, Robert Tinker is rumored to stop by every now and then. Tours are offered Tues-Sun from 1-3 p.m. Braver souls might want to check out their Paranormal Tours, which are offered at various times of the year.
Good to know: Free tours are available several times a year and the dates are posted on their website.
Munster Mansion has been a dream project of Charles and Sandra McKee since 2002; the couple has gone to great lengths to build a replica of the home from the 1960s sitcom, The Munsters. Not only does the outside look like the fictional one, but so does every room of this house, and they’re not finished yet either. More and more props from the show (or exact matches) are added each year. Since the McKees actually live here, the home is only open for public viewing during the Halloween season, but you can book a private tour through their website at other times of the year.
Want to get up close and personal with the President? How about a President who died over a century and a half ago? If so, then head for Washington D.C. and sign up for a White House tour, pronto. Your little history buffs will be in awe of the incredible collection of American history, and you’ll be able to keep your eye out for paranormal beings. Although there have been several strange apparitions sighted, Honest Abe Lincoln is the one who has made regular rounds since his assassination. We think it’s probably a good thing we aren’t allowed to spend the night in the Lincoln Room.
Known as “The House Built by Spirits” the Winchester Mystery House is one of the most famously spooky residences of all time. With staircases into the ceiling, windows in the floor, and doors that lead to nowhere, this 160-room Victorian mansion is said to be filled with ghosts, including the mistress of the house, Sarah Winchester. It’s also a spectacular tour for the whole family and shouldn't cause too many nightmares. There are a variety of tours available, including the classic Mansion Tour (you’ll view 110 rooms), the Explore More Tour (see areas of the mansion that have not been open to the public), the occasional Friday the 13th Flashlight Tours (where the only illumination comes from your flashlight) and the new "Unhinged" horror experience for brave souls only. Now go get lost.
This family-friendly restaurant in old Snohomish proudly boasts of its haunted history. Originally, the building was the Blackman’s Dry Goods store which opened in 1900. Years later it became a saloon where it is said that at least three ghosts (one man with a bowler hat, an older woman with a purple dress and bows, and a younger woman) still haunt the place. Since 2005, the Washington State Ghost Society has investigated the saloon. While your family may not encounter these ghosts during your visit, you’ll definitely enjoy the good food and live music. Ask the server about the haunted history, and we’re sure they’ll fill you in.
Looking like something you’d see in a European country instead of the United States, the historic Loveland Castle and Museum Chateau Laroche was built with a nod toward the men who served as knights. It took some 50 years for Harry Andrews to build this medieval replica. It is said that a married couple lived near the castle until the wife was killed when their moonshine contraption exploded. Today, some people swear that she walks the grounds along with Harry hanging out in his old bedroom. There is even talk of a Viking stumbling around as well. Whatever the case, this castle is pretty cool with lots of artifacts to look at during your self-guided tour.
Now a museum in Old Town San Diego, The Whaley House is rumored to be haunted by several ghosts. Yankee Jim Robinson is famous for (literally) hanging around, as the location of the mid-19th Century Greek Revival home was built over the gallows where he met his demise. Owners Thomas and Anna Whaley have also been spotted on the grounds and several of their children, which puts a new meaning to the term, Home Sweet Home. Stop by for a tour, enjoy the museum shop, and listen to pianos playing, silverware tinkling, and children giggling. Check out all the spooky happenings here.
Once hosting novelist Stephen King and his wife, the Stanley Hotel not only served as the inspiration for the Overlook Hotel featured in his novel The Shining but was also featured in the movie and miniseries version of the story. Every night the hotel offers the Historic Stanley Night Tour which is recommended for children aged 10 & up. Guides take guests to darkened spaces and supposedly active phenomena weaving in tales of folklore as they go. The hotel says, “Due to the fact that spirits are not on the payroll, we do not guarantee any interactions,” so you’ve been warned.
This Victorian-era house has crashing mirrors, mysterious whistling, and even flickering lights. Yup, the Falcon Rest Mansion has all the makings of a haunted house for kids. Tours are offered and you can hear stories about the ghost of Clay Faulkner and his cigars. Performed by the Falcon Rest Players, these spooky tales are designed to tickle your funny bone rather than send chills down your spine. Check their website for upcoming shows.
Boasting an “all ghosts, no gimmicks” tour, the St. Augustine Lighthouse and Maritime Museum offers the Dark of the Moon Tour paranormal experience every weekend throughout the year. The tour features stories of the history and hauntings of its lighthouse and is the only tour that allows visitors in at night. Electromagnetic field meters are available to rent if you so choose.
The Merchant’s House Museum is not only a National Historic Landmark but is also said to be the most haunted house in New York City. Seabury and Gretchen Treadwell invite you to take a peek at their home and don’t forget to admire the museum’s contents, which include some of the best early 19th-century furnishings in New York. Various tours are offered around Halloween and throughout the year.
The Farnsworth House is named after Brigadier General Elon John Farnsworth. Built in 1810, the house was used as a shelter for Confederate sharpshooters and also the location of the only civilian to be shot during a three-day conflict. Later used as a hospital, the walls are marked with over 100 bullet pockmarks at the bed and breakfast which is known as one of the most haunted locations in America. The House features a variety of "Sleepy Hollow” Ghost Tours that are geared more toward families with older kids.
This mom’s brilliant idea for a “whatever makes you happy hour” should be the trend of the summer—for both kids and adults
If you have kids, you’re probably already familiar with what this mom calls “the witching hour”—that hour in the late afternoon when kids just turn feral for some reason. They’re tired, you’re tired, no one has any h*cks left to give, and it’s tantrum time, baby. But one mom has come up with the most brilliant way of dealing with the witching hour, and we’re ready for every household in America (if not the world) to adopt this: She’s reframed it as a “whatever makes you happy hour,” and yes, that applies to grownups as well as kids.
In a viral TikTok video, mom Jessie Meeks explains, “Whatever makes you happy hour is the time of the day where my husband and I sit back, relax, and let our kids be wild, free, and chaotic.”
Over a video of her kids painting in bins of ice cubes (and, inevitably, all over themselves), she further explained, “Today, we started off with an ice cube painting activity that progressively got messier and messier. However, this is typically the witching hour, so letting our kids be free, wild, and messy also helps alleviate our frustration if we just let it go, and we let them do whatever makes them happy.”
In a follow-up video, Meeks said that during “whatever makes you happy hour,” she and her husband “stop all attempts at parenting” and let their kids do “whatever they want” (as long as it isn’t screens). The result is lots of wrestling, family walks, collecting rocks, playing in yogurt, kids carrying kids, and yes, messes. But the kids have a blast, they burn a lot of energy before bed, and it staves off all those witching hour tantrums.
In another follow-up video, Meeks answered some viewer questions further clarifying that yes, there are messes, but she and her husband clean up before bedtime. “Whatever makes you happy hour” ends at dinner, when the family comes together and acts civilized once more over a meal together. And while the kids are acting feral, Meeks and her husband also kick back and relax—him with a beer, and her with a White Claw.
If you ask us, there is literally nothing wrong with this strategy. We have no notes, and we want our own “whatever makes you happy hour.” This should be the summer trend of 2023, and it should stick around for a long time.
Even a picky eater can’t pass up these kid-friendly charcuterie boards
If ever there was a food trend that was totally on point for toddlers, it’s a kid charcuterie board. Bite-sized morsels you can nosh throughout the day? If that doesn’t describe a toddler’s favorite way to eat, then we don’t know what does. Next time your tot gets hungry, set one of these bad boys on the table and watch how quickly the food disappears. Note that all boards should be taken purely as pairing inspiration; you’ll want to go ahead and cut foods, like grapes, to the appropriate size(s) to avoid choking hazards. (We love this guide, in particular.)
No one is more on the go than a toddler, so grabable foods are a must! This cute array tosses in all the goodies, from sliced cheese and puffs to dips like hummus and yogurt for fruit and veggies. There’s bound to be something for everyone!
Pretty much any toddler who loves a good Disney sesh will go gaga for this whimsical spread. Grab some Disney cookie cutters then use them on bread, cheese, and bologna to make this pink-themed board. Pair with peanut butter, apples, strawberries, and chocolate-covered pretzels then pop on your fave Disney flick!
Won’t you feel like a superstar parent when you set out this kid-approved snack board designed by The Baker Mama. With PB&J as the centerpiece, you can’t go wrong, but you can always get creative with different jam and butter sandwich combos. (p.s. Leave out the popcorn if you have extra little ones.)
A simple kid favorite—cheese and crackers—are the building blocks of this adorable charcuterie board designed by Sarah at Taming Twins. Assemble it for snack time or as a dinner precursor to hold off the witching-hour hangries.
Christie at Raising Whasians is all about helping kids eat a rainbow of healthy fruits and veggies. We adore her colorful spread, which has a little something for every toddler in your life. (Just avoid the whole almonds with little kids.)
If breakfast isn’t already your toddler's favorite meal of the day, it will be after you assemble this board dreamed up by Valentina of Valentina’s Corner. She’s piled on tot faves alongside fluffy pancakes and syrup, so the whole family can start the day off on the right foot.
Parents can always count on toddlers to love dips. Whether it’s fresh veggies paired with Ranch or apples alongside peanut butter, if they can dunk it, they’ll eat it. But they won’t need much convincing to chomp on fruits and crackers that are part of this sweet board by Kate at A Hundred Affections.
Boo! This not-so-scary Halloween charcuterie board will have your little ghosts chomping for snacks. As soon as Trader Joe’s Halloween products hit the shelves, grab the grocer’s chocolate mousse pumpkins, fall leaves chips, ghosts and bats chips, and pumpkin cookies to whip up this boo-tiful board of snacks. (Again, no popcorn for really wee ones.)
Equal parts sweet and savory, this Valentine’s Day kids’ charcuterie board is filled with tons of flavor in the form of fruit, cheese, pretzels, salami, gummies, and chocolate-covered goodies. Up the ante and serve in a sweet baking dish with heart-shaped openings!
Celebrate St. Patrick’s Day in style! This verdant snack tray is jammed with green apples, waffles, cucumbers, spinach chips, and more. Normally kiddos might be turned off by such a healthy-looking array, but make it all about the Leprechauns and watch the magic happen!
A genius way to use your leftover egg cartons and plastic eggs, this toddler charcuterie “board” is beyond sweet for Easter! Just split your eggs in half and fill them with nibbles like small mandarin orange slices, cut-up melon, blueberries, animal crackers, and any other favorite for a festive snack time.
The day is drawing to a close. Your beautiful, snuggly newborn baby starts to fuss, then starts to moan, then starts to cry, possibly even scream—woah, what’s this?! I’m afraid the witching hour has hit, my friend.
What is the witching hour for babies?
What is the witching hour, you may ask? It’s an intense period of fussiness or crying in the evenings, usually around 5 PM and lasting up to three hours. You’ll usually start seeing this when your baby hits 2 weeks of age, but the worst may pass by 12 weeks.
When the witching hour starts and when it ends
Witching hour typically occurs in the late afternoon or early evening. Usually around the 5 PM mark. Unfortunately, it doesn’t just last an hour, as the name suggests.
You may notice your newborn begin to have “fussy periods” where they’re hard to calm and console and your usual techniques of rocking or baby-wearing to calm may not help.
These regular fussy periods typically start when they reach 2 – 3 weeks of age. It hits its worst period at 6 weeks and tends to resolve in most cases by 12 weeks [1].
Why does the witching hour happen?
It’s challenging to nail down one particular culprit for your baby. Some things may either be responsible or at least may make the newborn witching hour worse like overtiredness, cluster feeding, stomach issues, or overstimulation.
Are they gassy?
Young babies are particularly vulnerable to gas and tummy issues. Their digestive systems are immature and if gas builds up it can cause discomfort and sometimes pain.
Is your baby overtired?
It’s pretty much impossible to fit very young babies into a by-the-clock schedule as they’re so unpredictable! Instead, we recommend working with wake windows at this age throughout the day. Typically, at 1 – 2 months of age, they will stay awake for 45 – 90 minutes at a time. It’s very usual for babies to catnap at this age, so if they’ve had long periods awake in the day, or just catnapped all day, then they may be overtired by 5 PM and super cranky!
How’s their day been?
How many visitors have you had? How many baby classes have you attended? For newborns everything is new. Sights, sounds, people, touch, and even their own hands! It’s easy for them to become overwhelmed and overstimulated. This stimulation requires energy, and as we all know (particularly parents of newborns) our ability to just keep going is limited.
Are they hungry?
It’s not uncommon for newborns to cluster feed in the evenings, topping up their tanks for the night. Even if you’ve only just fed them, they may be signaling to you that they’d like some more milk.
What are the differences between colic and witching hour for babies?
Colic is more defined. Babies with colic cry for more than 3 hours a day, for more than 3 days a week, and more than 3 weeks in a row. The baby’s witching hour will see periods of fussiness, on and off throughout the evenings. It may be intense and seem like it will never end.
Yes, they’re similar and both are incredibly stressful for parents. If you’re unsure or feel there may be more going on than general evening fussiness, please, discuss this with your pediatrician.
10 Tips on How to Manage the Witching Hour for Babies
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Tip 1: Swaddle!
For many babies, swaddling can induce a womb-like environment which is reassuring and can bring a sense of calm. The swaddle can also bring a sense of security. Remember if they start to show signs of rolling then you need to transition out of the swaddle.
Tip 2: White noise.
Again, when the baby was in the womb they were used to a constant background hum. White noise also helps mask any background noises that may be too much.
Tip 3: Baby wear or hold.
Walk, sway – just cuddle them! No, you’re not setting up any bad habits, making a rod for your back, or anything else we regularly hear parents say. Your warmth and presence can be a huge comfort for your little one.
Tip 4: Try a change of environment.
Some babies will also calm down if taken outside for a walk in the fresh air. Which, if you’ve been subjected to intense, inconsolable crying for a while, will also be good for you too.
Tip 5: Quieten the environment.
Other babies may respond to quieting the environment, dimming the lights, and getting away from the background noises that can add pressure to an already overstimulated baby.
Tip 6: Prioritize those naps.
Some babies are more thrown than others when they go off schedule. If this is your baby and missing a nap leads to intense witching hour evenings then you may want to try hard to stick to a schedule. We’re all so different. Some babies are super portable and others need more structure and routine to their day.
Tip 7: Baby massage.
Try a gentle baby massage in a quiet, warm environment; they may respond to the touch, gentle movements, and calm. It also may help with growth spurt aches.
Tip 8: Try a pacifier.
For some babies, the rhythmic sucking can bring a sense of calm and peace.
Tip 9: Rule out gas pains.
Gas pains can cause intense discomfort and pain. Check out our blog advice for burping your baby.
Tip 10: Tick off the obvious stuff, too!
Double-check their diaper, temperature, and offer a feed. These are all reasons for excessive crying and easy to forget.
When to Talk to Your Pediatrician
If your kiddo’s crying seems to be linked to pain or sickness, check with your pediatrician. Keep track of other signs of sickness that may include:
Fever
Vomiting
Diarrhea (loose or bloody stools as well)
Not eating
Not alert as usual
Witching Hour for Babies FAQ
Q: How to get baby to sleep during the witching hour?
A: Unfortunately, there may not be an easy solution, but finding ways to reduce the fussiness can help. You may want to try a variety of things to see which works best for your baby. This can include swaddling, baby-wearing, massage, and other activities.
Q: Do all babies have a witching hour?
A: Some babies may have a witching hour, while others may not! It’s a period of fussiness or crying in the evenings. You’ll usually start seeing this when your baby hits 2 weeks of age, but the worst may pass by 12 weeks.
Q: Why do kids get cranky in the evening?
A: As the day draws to a close it’s common for babies and older children to feel the effects of too much fun! Overtired children can be incredibly cranky.
Q: What age does the witching hour start?
A: Typically, you’ll see the witching hour start around the age of 2 – 3 weeks.
Q: At what age does the witching hour end?
A: For most families, it peaks around 6 weeks and then lessens. By 12 weeks evenings should be calmer and that’s when babies outgrow the witching hour.
Q: Why do kids go crazy after dinner and before bed?
A: Overtired children can be cranky. However, overtired children can then also get a second wind, their hormones kick back in, and just keep them going. They may appear quite hyperactive.
It was 8 o’clock on Saturday evening. I sat on the couch with my children as they watched Pokemon. My phone dinged—a text from my husband. “Probably another hour,” he said, trying to predict his arrival time from work. I sighed and reflexively opened Instagram to refresh the Discover page—the algorithm’s interpretation of my interests, or, as I thought of it, the darkest parts of my soul. Photos of Kate Middleton. Taylor Swift. Pregnant bare-bellied women trying to dance themselves into labor. How to heal from disordered eating. How to lose 10 pounds.
I was already caught up on all my friends’ posts from the day—the photos of their cats and lasagnas, museum trips, and park play dates. One friend was on her last day at a resort in the Bahamas. I didn’t resent this; I assumed her children were melting down in the sand off-camera, just as mine had earlier in the sand pit of our own backyard.
These moments were when I consumed most of the curated content on Instagram—in occasions of miniature crisis. My youngest refused to eat the spaghetti dinner I’d made. He yelled. I took a deep breath and touched the phone in my pocket. He threw noodles to the floor. I spoke to him sternly, firm grip on my phone. Then I recovered by retreating to the kitchen alone for a quick scroll.
And when our lives were looking smooth and pretty, I snapped smiling or pensive shots to post onto my own feed. Not lying, I’d tell myself. Framing. Optimism. Art.
My husband worked most weekends, which meant that with a four-year-old and six-year-old, I worked most weekends—except I didn’t have coworkers with whom I could commiserate or shoot the breeze. And that’s when I turned to Instagram.
Recently, though, I realized that keeping company on Instagram made me feel lonely rather than connected. I didn’t want to give it up entirely—it was my primary means of corresponding with friends from high school and college. I had enough digital awareness to know that a lot of garbage could be cropped and filtered from others’ daily posts, including my own.
Still, I felt addicted. Like I was using the app compulsively. I wanted some mental real estate back. Even if it meant being totally alone with screaming children during the weekend witching hour.
I decided against a total detox. That felt too hard, like a crash diet that would result in a ravenous binge. Instead, I opted for a Sabbath. On Saturdays, my loneliest day of the week, I would stay off the app. I downloaded another app to help with this resolution. Technology to block my technology.
Here’s what I found: sitting in emotional discomfort with my children, rather than immediately fleeing, made me feel more regulated. I seemed to have more time. I embraced it by moving more slowly throughout the day.
While the boys played contentedly in our backyard, I was bored. I didn’t pull out my phone. I picked up a book of poetry. I read a single poem. It was about mothers wiping things. I thought about this poem throughout the day in a way I’m not sure I would have had I read it on an endless Instagram scroll punctuated by an advertisement for detox tea.
Later, something beautiful happened. My boys ran through a meadow of white flowers in a valley near our home. It was super Instagrammable. But I didn’t take a picture. I lingered in those additional moments just to watch, no device impeding my gaze. The light rippled across their limbs and the blades of grass. Beads of sweat dripped down their necks. I could feel the heat of the breeze on my shoulders. It was more than a single photo could have ever captured. Finally, I didn’t feel compelled to reduce it down.
Expecting… again? Take our word for it, these are the second baby must-haves that you’ll actually use
Congrats, baby number two is on the way! That means more love in your heart, but also more stuff in your home. And it begs the question: what do you really need? We asked parents with multiple children to weigh in on what items to keep, what to donate, and what to toss to create the ultimate list of second baby must-haves. As you’ll see, not everyone was in agreement, but that’s where your opinion comes in, because you’re an experienced parent now, too. For all the parents out there who have ever wondered “what do you need for a second baby?”—this one’s for you!
Before you start the sorting process, remember to give all items a thorough check and discard any that are past their expiration date, recalled, or have wear and tear that might pose a safety hazard.
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Feeding
“Make sure to keep fresh bottles and formula on hand for the second baby, even if you didn't use them with the first. You always want to be prepared in case you need them for a middle-of-the-night feeding.”—Julianne
“Don’t keep the baby food maker. I made all my first child’s baby purees. However, I found I couldn’t keep up with the peeling, dicing, steaming and mashing with my second and working full-time. Buying storebought ended up being so much easier and less stressful. If you’re concerned about the regulations in storebought brands, my pediatrician recommended checking the Clean Label Project website. Or, there are fresh baby food subscriptions you can join, such as Yumi.”—Ashley
“I liked having my same familiar nursing pillow for baby two. You can always get a new cover to freshen it up or make it match any new decorating you do.”—Kate
“We had extra breastfeeding pillows from keeping one at a parent’s house, so we donated one of those. We learned from baby one which bottles we didn’t like, so we gave away those extras.”—Kelly
Diapering
“One product I found that was not necessary was the changing table. The floor was so much easier as I was usually sitting on it anyway, and the older sibling was right there to help as well. Pulling out extra wipes was a helpful job and having the older sibling be a part of it made it special for her and easy to keep eyes on both kiddos, which was a mom win!”—Meghan
“Don’t keep a purse-style diaper bag. Get a diaper bag backpack instead! I had a crossbody style for my first, but being hands-free was so much easier with two.”—Ashley
“Between babies one and two, we switched to cloth diapers and so donated that horrible diaper genie!”—Andie
“After the first one, I realized the waste of the diaper genie and wipes warmer. A plastic shopping bag works just the same and is much cheaper than the refills, while the wipes warmer dries out the wipes too quickly.”—Shelly
“Keep the wipe warmer. I was a skeptic. I left it in the box. I mean, really—one more thing to plug in and maintain—so unnecessary, right? Well, three kids later, the youngest (now 4) still insists on a warm wipe when the pull-up comes off in the morning. And in retrospect, who can blame her—have you ever tried to use a cold wipe on a chilly morning? Case closed!”—Kelly
Sleeping
“I was so grateful to have kept our bassinet for the second baby.”—Kerry
“Keep the crib. I reused my crib and put my son straight into a big boy bed. But don’t keep the crib mattress. You want a firm, clean mattress for the new baby!”—Ashley
“Cribs are expensive, and getting a new one for every child would be incredibly wasteful. So long as it meets safety standards, it makes sense to tighten up all the pieces, give it a good cleaning, and buy new sheets for the next baby.”—Adam
“We have three boys, so we saved a lot of baby clothes, only getting rid of those that were stained or damaged. We kept it all organized by size in canvas storage containers and pulled them out as needed.”—Kate
“Don’t keep all the old clothes. I had a girl after having my son, and as much clothing as I saved to be practical, I found I couldn’t resist buying some new clothes. People also gifted or handed down plenty to me. Jammies, however, keep! You can never have too many and they’re all adorable. I loved seeing my daughter in her big brother’s shark and construction jammies for some reason.”—Ashley
Car Seat
“As a mom that had her second child five years later, so much had changed. My newest family member was over ten pounds, so the infant car seat was extra heavy. So we used a convertible one and wore him as much as we could.”—Meghan
“The JJ Cole Bundleme is an absolute lifesaver. The ease of zipping it right into the car seat and not having to worry about putting coats on and off is well worth it! With multiple winter babies, I couldn’t imagine not having it!”—Rebeka
Stroller
“Time to upgrade the stroller. I like the sit-stand type so my older kid can jump on and off.”—Christopher
“If you have kids close together, a sit-and-stand stroller is great. The older one wants to be independent but still gets tired easily so it's great when they want to hop off to walk with you.”—Shelly
“We never bothered with a double stroller since the boys are four years apart.”—Kerry
“I definitely kept the strollers. I held on to almost everything if I’m being honest!”—Lindsay
“I donated anything we never used with baby one, anything broken, chewing toys with plastic, gifts we didn’t use. Babies need very little. A soft place to play on the floor, a place to sleep, an eating chair, clothes, diapers, a car seat, stroller, and a few things to play with and teeth on.”—Kelly
“One baby item I made sure to keep was the swing. It was great for the baby to take an afternoon nap in. Or a safe spot to keep the baby entertained while I made dinner. There were even a handful of nights it helped during the witching hour when everyone was at wits' end! Definitely one of the most useful baby items in our house.”—Nicole
“The playmat is a must keep. It makes the dreaded tummy time a little more manageable. And older siblings love having a turn demonstrating all the toys to the new baby.”—Kate
“Keep any safe place to put the baby when things get hectic. This includes pack and plays, swings, seats and loungers. Also, just because your first didn’t like something doesn’t mean your second will be the same. I was gifted a baby swing that my son never enjoyed using, but my daughter loved.”—Ashley
“We kept my BabyBjörn bouncer, the jumper toys, my lightweight baby carrier, our swings, all of our ‘teach the ABCs’ toys, and our ride-on lion!”—Kerry
It’s Not All About the Stuff
“I’d say that after having one child, when you’re preparing to have a second, you realize how few of the things you registered for or got with your first that you actually used. All you really need are a crib (or similar), car seat, some clothes and diapers, and a stroller and/or carrier depending on your parenting style.”—Phoebe
“The best advice I can give to parents from going from one to two kids is to give yourselves time and some grace as you adjust. Say yes to help from grandparents or friends when they offer. Try to dedicate some special time every day to your first child when the baby sleeps or other parent is home and engage in a craft, walk, reading a book or just playing with toys.”—Lindsay
Indoor or out, there are plenty of activities to keep your family busy in the new year!
A new year and a new month are just around the corner. If you’ve resolved to find amazing new adventures with your kids, we’ve got ideas—one for each day of the month, in fact. In between your snowy sledding adventures and your busy back-to-school schedules, try one of these family activities that’s anything but boring.
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1. Celebrate the New Year at a National Park (psst…entrance fees are waived on January 16 because it is Martin Luther King Jr. Day). These popular parks have the outdoor bells and whistles families love or try a little-known park for a change of scenery.
2. Looking for other ways to celebrate 2023’s arrival with the kids? We’ve got family friendly ideas you can do at home.
3. Ditch your family’s New Year’s resolutions for new routines, instead. It’s a great way for kids (and parents!) to set and keep goals all year long.
4. Break out winter activity sheets for a quick family activity during the witching hour.
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5. Get your kiddos ready to head back to the classroom after a long winter break with memory games they’ll love.
18. Whether you’ve got enough snow on the ground to build a whole snow family (or you’re just dreaming of winter’s favorite frozen stuff), these snowman snacks will make kids smile.
Raising kids is hard work. That’s why making time for a Seattle date night is important for parents
Despite what the song says, boys just want to have at least as much fun as girls do. So why do so many Seattle date nights for parents slip into the routine rather than the unique? This year, shake that up a bit with Seattle date night ideas that go beyond dinner and a movie. We’re talking cooking classes, old-school sports (not that you’re old of course), gaming spots, and adventure parks that will get the old heart pumping. Who knows? You just might find a new normal to your routine.
Nordo's Room Service
Nordo's Room Service
What if your night out was actually a night in? And it was planned by someone else? That's the idea behind Cafe Nordo's at-home experience kits—Nordo's Room Service. Produced by Seattle-based artists and packed with freshly-made treats, these mystery adventures offer a truly unique experience. There are three experiences to choose from ("Do Not Disturb", "The Witching Hour" and "Curiouser & Curiouser: The Interrogation of Alice") which include video presentations to take you step by step in your adventure, specially curated desserts, non-alcoholic themed drinks (with suggestions on how to spike them) and keepsakes. Boxes can be picked up at Cafe Nordo or they can be shipped directly to your home. All locally picked up boxes can also add-on wine or select Nordo-produced food items-like a charcuterie board featuring Olympia Provisions Charcuteries.
Who says that trampoline parks need to be for kids only? Catapult Adventure Park offers 18 different experiences and some not for the faint of heart. Each one has its own intriguing name like the Launch Zone, Tube-Topia, Strobe Zone, The Paw Pit and Giant Cat Tree. Who know what kind of challenges you and your better half will face with names like that. After all of that running, climbing and jumping around, you’ll need a full snack bar to refuel. They’ve got what you need there, serving up pizzas, wings, cheesy bread sticks, Cinnabon rolls, cookies, brownies and more.
Just waking up after many months of closure due to Covid, Everett Improv encourages you to get off the couch and challenge yourself in front of a crowd. Although the 50% off alcohol sales might be enough some couples to try out Everett Improv's Happy Hour, it's really not about the drinks. Held each Thursday from 4:30 to 6:30 p.m., this happy hour is all about playing ridiculous games for the sake of playing them and learning a few things too. This venue also offers more traditional courses all year long as well.
Because nothing says "I love you" like a little head-to-head axe throwing competition, you've got every reason to plan your next date night at this Seattle hot spot. Come as a pair or bring your besties to experience a date night that's not easily classified. Book a private lane if you've got a big group or plan to share if it's just the two of you. Then come prepared to learn the ropes from a certified coach who will walk you through how to throw the axe and score the game. Closed-toed shoes are a must to play, but the buffalo plaid is optional. Outside food is a welcomed addition here, but you can also opt for low-key snacks they sell on-site. Blade & Timber became the first axe throwing venue in the state of Washington approved to serve beer, but don't go crazy. Guests are limited to two beers while throwing axes.
Random fact: a "flatstick" is slang for a golf putter. At Flatstick + Pub, couples can combine one of America’s favorite activities with a bar. Each Flatstick Pub location has a similar look and feel highlighting the art of local artist, Ryan ‘Henry’ Ward. But each offers a unique and completely different experience. Expect to find a highly creative nine-hole course with various “water hazards” and obstacles to avoid like beer kegs or whimsical creatures. Ready for a date night bonus? Flatstick Pub is also home to the original Duffleboard, a tabletop version of mini golf. This twist on the game was created by the owners of the pub and requires a special handheld putter. This game is just as simple and can be played by people of all skill levels. Score!
Insider Tip: All Flatstick locations offer beer, wine, cider and soft drinks and will most certainly offer a good time. However, if you'd like to enjoy a meal with your game, the South Lake Union location is the best choice as it features a restaurant overseen by Ethan Stowell Restaurants featuring brick oven pizzas and pub classics such as chicken wings, jalapeño poppers and fried mushrooms.
Remember when roller skating was cool? It still is at Pattison's West. Only now you can hang out with the cool kids during Adult Skate Nights. If it has been a while since you last laced up a pair skates, you'll be surprised to see how much things have changed. One of the highest regarded skating rinks in America, Pattison’s West features a state-of-the-art music sound system, LED lighting and a super smooth maplewood rotunda skate floor. The first Saturday of every night is set aside for Sip & Skate Nights featuring what Pattison's calls "an adult variety of music and adult beverages" (beer and wine) giving a new meaning to "snack bar." The rink also offers Adult Rhythm Skate Nights on Sundays and Wednesdays featuring R&B, Fund, House and Hip Hop music.
The only thing hotter than molten steel is smashing that metal into lifetime memories. Wait, isn’t that also called blacksmithing? For date night? Sure! This is all about playing with fire and gigantic tools (the kind of thing your six-year-old dreams about) and making stuff like horseshoe knives, bottle openers, garden art and even Damascus stainless steel rings. Or use your creativity and immortalize your beloved in iron. Impress guests with a medieval cheeseboard and knife, or bust out chop sticks and wasabi bowls that look like props from Game of Thrones. Anything’s possible. If you can think it, you can forge it. No phones, no computers. Just fire, hammers and gloved hands. And anvils. Don’t forget the anvils.
3600 E. Marginal Way S., Studio 8 Seattle Online:lawlessforge.com
Ocean 5
Ocean5
Have a fun date night and help protect sea life at the same time. That is the goal of Ocean5. Named after the five great oceans of the earth, this entertainment hub goes above and beyond bringing sustainable practices to the entertainment industry, including decorating with carpets made from recycled fishing nets and using locally sourced and reused building materials. However, they know that having fun is just as important. Laser Tag is a really big deal here. Ocean5 features a two-story laser tag arena that can accommodate up to 40 people per game. (Not that you would bring 38 people on your date night, but it's nice to know that you could.) They offer both regular 10 Pin Bowling as well as Duckpin where everything is the same but smaller. Psst! Fans of the sport think it's twice the fun. The game room here also features over 50 classic games and after 10 p.m., it’s adults only.
Insider Tip: Ocean5 offers special events like Paint & Sip nights, rock 'n' roll bingo, concerts, football Sundays, Wine Down Wednesdays, comedy nights and more. Also located on the Ocean5 premises is Table 47, a restaurant and bar featuring over 40 beers and wine on tap, as well as specialty cocktails. The food is special, too. Diners can expect to find pulled pork sliders, crispy Brussels sprouts, flatbreads, burgers, Chimichurri steak, baja shrimp tacos and more on the robust menu.
5268 Point Fosdick Dr. Gig Harbor, WA Online:o5social.com
The goal of Vertex Arena is to connect people through the power of play and provide experiences that are both engaging and healthy by encouraging people to move around. They say that people who come here get a chance to “express their true inner eccentric through jump and movement, connect with their fellow man through lighthearted competition and relax with a shareable food experience.” You can’t beat that. Vertex Arena is also a place to feel like a kid again with a variety of trampolines, Nerf guns, bows and arrows, dodge ball, a ninja course and virtual reality chamber. Who wouldn’t want to freefall into a pool of foam squares, play a game of basketball while bouncing off a trampoline, play a game of tag with Nerf products or balance on an obstacle course?
Good to Know: Recharge at the Sideline Restaurant & Bar featuring freshly made thin crust pizzas, sliders, sandwiches, fish & chips, chicken wings and more, plus a list of beverages that range from Jones Soda to craft cocktails.
Bowling has changed a lot since Fred and Barney’s bowling league days. And Bowerlo has helped to change the recreational sport’s image with the exception of those shoes. Today, these centers feature the latest technology in bowling but with a retro feel. It’s hip without being silly. The lounge areas and sports bars feature oversized shareables and signature cocktails. And the Lynnwood and Tukwila locations features 40 lanes and arcade games for the kid in you. The Garage Billiards & Bowl location is slightly smaller with just 20 lanes, but also features 25 pool tables, outdoor seating and a fire pit.
Bowlero South Seattle 100 Andover Pkwy. W. Tukwila, WA
We experience pangs of envy when the kids go off to the Seattle Aquarium and MoPOP and MOHAI. They get to spend the entire day learning and exploring and wondering. Why do kids get to have all the fun? Enter Field Trip Society, experiential event planners who produce academic excursions for adults. Their motto is “Semper Quaerens” (Always Searching), and that translates to a mind-boggling array of potential outings for curious couples who love to learn. Want to acquire the knowledge of how to make pies, or the history of caviar, or how to forage for mushrooms, or fly fish, or star gaze? Field Trip Society has you covered. No permission slip required. The Field Trip Society locates passionate experts who are excited to convey their know-how to eager acolytes. Small class sizes and informal classrooms make it fun for everyone. Frequent venues include pubs and restaurants, because if you’re going to learn to macrame, wood-fired pizza and a glass of Syrah couldn’t hurt.
If you're a game player–any type of game player–you’ve got to visit Mox Boarding House. It’s a perfect venue that can accommodate any type of date whether it’s just you and your significant other, a double date or even (sigh) a date night out with the kids. No really. This place features every kind of board or role-playing game you can imagine. Simply check them out from their library for free while dining in their full-service restaurant or enjoying drinks in the bar or a simple dessert for two. And if you fall in love with the game, you can purchase it in their retail store. Just remember, the one who wins the game has to put everything back in the box like you found it.
Always wanted to play drums, bass or drumandbass? Dusty Strings is where souls soar on the wings of music. Grab your partner and find your mutual melody. Dusty Strings gives group and private lessons for the musically inclined or curious. Private lessons provide the most individual attention, and they’re the best choice if you prefer learning two-on-one. Or hold hands, take a deep breath and brave a group class. They are fun, welcoming and stress-free. In this safe group environment, couples bring their instruments and dive in, gaining confidence playing music together. Teachers might encourage an electronic tuner, picks, staff or TAB paper, a capo, music stand, foot stool, recording device or other items. No idea? No problem. Just call or email the friendly staff and tell them you are a musical noob and they will guide you. The best part is choosing from a vast list of obscure instruments (think: bouzouki, button accordion, concertina, dobro) and giving them a try with someone you love. Isn’t being a couple all about making beautiful music together?
Let’s face it, no matter how athletic and active you were before kids, having a Little or two at home makes workouts just a tad more, well, work. Why not grab your spandex and your sweetie and head to Edgeworks for an exciting evening helping each other balance, stretch and climb your way to the top? Dubbed “The Climbers’ Gym,” Edgeworks offers many beginning climbing courses every week at all three locations. Learn the basics including climbing safety checks and belaying (climber-speak for managing the climber’s rope). The student-teacher ratio is always 4:1. Absolutely no experience is necessary and all gear can be rented on site. The best news is, all classes include a two-week membership that will allow you (and maybe your kids, next time) to come back and test out your mad climbing skillz. What better and fun way to get your sweat on with your significant other?
Has your dinner routine fallen into the same ho-hum category as laundry, unloading the dishwasher and vacuuming Cheerios out of the minivan? Luckily, the wide (as in enormous) variety of jaw droppingly delicious cooking classes at Hot Stove Society will turn ho-hum into hot tamale in seconds. Founded by beloved Seattle restaurateur Tom Douglas (who sometimes shows up to teach a class), Hot Stove offers the freshest, fun and most downright delicious cooking classes this side of Le Cordon Bleu, at a fraction of the price. Classes such as Potsticker Love with Hsiao-Ching and Knife Skills will bring your cooking game up a notch, but we’re partial to the classes that let you snuggle up with your favorite adult while you cook. Along with classes like Wine Press and Tom Douglas’ World Famous Triple Coconut Cream Pie, you really can’t go wrong planning the perfect date night with Hot Stove Society.
Insider Tip: Classes fill up quickly, so if you see a class that sounds interesting sign up now!
As if you needed yet another reason to get out and enjoy Seattle's spelndid scenery, the folks at Cycle Saloon have found one for you. This crazy contraption seats 16 guests who peddle around the streets of Ballard on various pub crawls or brewery tours. It will surely make your kids jealous, but tough nuggets kiddos, parents need their exercise. Despite its name, riders don’t actually drink and drive (drinking on the bike is the same as drinking in public and carries all the same consequences under the law). But during this excursion, you don’t have worry about driving at all. That's because each oversized bike comes with its own driver. There are five pedaling seats on each side of the vehicle, a bench in the back that seats three non-pedaling guests and one standing spot in the middle for what they've deemed for the “dancer.” And guess what? You can bring any food and non-alcoholic beverages aboard as well. You can book individually or as a group. Just remember...all riders must at least 21 years of age and all peddlers need to be at least 5’3”.
Insider Tip: The company also operates the Cycle Saloon Pontoon which operates with the same principle on water taking you around South Lake Union. Although dubbed the "booze cruise,” the pontoon doesn’t make any stops for liquor during its 1.5 hour tour. Even so, you still must be 21 to hop aboard.
Last year, ColourPop’s Hocus Pocus Collection was an instant sensation. Now, even more trouble is brewing with the brand new Coven Crew Collection!
The Disney collab comes with everything you need to embrace the spooky season. You can shop everything from shadow palettes and lip products to a spider face stamp.
The collection is made up of:
12-pan Witching Hour Pressed Powder Palette in mattes and metallics
Three new shades of crème to powder Super Shock Shadows in the Trouble Brewing Kit
When your beautiful baby arrived, chances are so did a deluge of supplies. There is a baby version for almost anything a full-size human could need or want. But sometimes those infant-friendly items are superior to our adult-size ones. Scroll on for 7 baby products you’re going to want to steal from your sweet newborn.
That sound machine with its womb-like noise helps soothe your little one into slumber. But when they're not using it, try plopping it outside your home office or craft space so you can zero in on your work and cancel out all of the distracting noises in your home. We like the Yogasleep Hushh Baby Sound Machine (shown above, $29.95 at crateandbarrel.com). Check out our other favorite baby sound machines and sleep aids.
That perfectly formulated, chemical-free high-SPF infant sunscreen is a safe bet for anyone looking for a sensitive, non-toxic approach to sun protection. If you have fair skin or easily break out from harsh skincare sproducts, dab on some of your baby's SPF when you're poolside for a gentle shield against the sun's harmful rays. Check out our favorite sunscreens for babies and toddlers.
Food pouches make it easy for little ones to eat nutritious snacks on the go. But did you know those baby food packets also double as the secret ingredient in extra-moist cakes, like this one from Crafty Cooking Mama? And don't limit baby food to just cooking and baking. Mix some pureed peaches into a brunch cocktail; Bon Appétit explains how in this article.
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That oversized, cumbersome diaper bag you can't wait to ditch? It actually doubles as the perfect travel accessory. Hitting the road for a work trip? Or just getting some much-needed R&R on a girlfriend getaway? Grab your diaper bag. All those pockets make finding things on a plane or a train a cinch. Bonus: They're big enough to hold your laptop too. Check out our smart mom's guide to diaper bags and the latest and greatest diaper bags.
Are you still using a rough terry towel on your face? All of that friction makes aging skin sag. Stock up on more of those teeny, tiny perfectly soft little baby wash cloths. They've made tub time easier for years--long after the infant tub has been outgrown. And we won't blame you if you want to snag some to keep your face feeling, well, baby soft!
Don't toss those bottles after your baby graduates to glasses. In a pinch, you can use them to measure liquids for baking (spray with a non-stick oil when measuring sticky substances like syrup). Looking to shake up some cocktails for the witching hour? Baby bottles work well for at-home bartenders too! Check out these innovative baby bottles.
Wipes weren't just made for warmers (are we still doing that?). Tuck them into your purse to fend off gooey fingers; keep them in your car to wipe down sticky seats; and make sure to stock a few in your bathroom. WaterWipes and baby wipes are made for an infant's delicate skin, so they're a perfect stand-in for make-up wipes!